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It's called tragedy of the commons. It's been thought about and an argument fo a lot of totalitarians that had a big brain idea to cut that silly free will short and make a society for the best of society. Is your personal choice on the matter more important than that? If so, why? Do you trust any other person to decide what is better for you own life than yourself? I can get you laid, I can get you employed and I can get you to be successful - but you will hate every second of it and are likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:56 PM
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Scientists, nothing. I actually love them that's why I would pay them a billion dollars and fund a institution who's only goal is to do science, proper science and falsify all of the shit that gets published indiscriminately nowadays under the current peer "review" process and the PR driven institutional funding policy. Science is made by proving everything but the truth is wrong. RIght now we publish everything than can't easily be proven to be wrong. THat's not science. THat's playing a broken…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:15 PM
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say that women are entitled and insufferable for so much as looking at a man who is OBVIOUSLY too good for her because.... men love it when women show interest and that asking men out should be an important part of a woman's dating life because her interest is all she has to offer When you play the queen - and think hard to get is a turn on - you're literally doing the exact opposite things a man that can get bitches is into. It's not that you can't date up - and if it is, I will excomunicate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:25 PM
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You made me go from nah, it's just 1 mil - to - holly shit I'm gonna die before I spend it in one paragraph To clarify, if you accepted the offer, you cannot do anything sexual with another person, Well I kinda like people and sex parties are like friend groups without the 5 years in college foreplay but can still masturbate, Not really the point of sex, though is it watch porn, How much porn can you watch - it's all the same after the third vid use your MEGASUCC3000 sex toy with all its attachm…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:56 AM
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Willing or do? Winning over the girl as in? I mean what's the goal - just getting applauze and nods, getting a blow job, or seducing a heiress so I don't have to work anymore and spend the rest of my life as a Cote d'azure playboy that never has to wear long pants for the rest of my life? I assume it's the later because I can get BJs even when the girl doesn't like me and applause don't do it for me unless it's a sex party sort of crowd. • Telling a white lie about your life, such as slightly em…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:36 PM
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I think westerns neglect how much cheating happens in simple societies. You're seeing them from the western "civilized" lens and reading whatever you want from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:54 AM
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How fast can you close a white woman? What is your game like? Let me make it clear - geomaxxing is just maximizing your current rizz. If you barely get a Kelly to go to prom and maybe let you feel her up after weeks of dating - a more conservative woman won't jump your bones and want to suck dick no questions asked just because you are you and she is just that easy. Women do not remove risk from men, even if their life and future babies depend on it. As for the look - Ironically - I think your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:44 AM
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No, it's not negging - negging is quite reactive actually and try hard because it forces a vibe. We also don't like having to be the ones that move out of the way of you in the street because we know you won't I was not talking about that "woman exists" existiential inconveniences you nit pick from the life of a every day human being. Get a life, there's way bigger issues than not having crowds make way for you like you're royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:35 AM
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Yes - that's what I said. they have to work just as much as they "have to" travel. It's for the gram, they are homebodies that just don't wanna be shamed. The women that HAVE TO work, literally just work - they don't make it a act of heroism or a lifechoice. Oh he feels lonely so he left? SAHMs are super lonely too yet cheating isn’t acceptable for them. Ditching kids isn’t acceptable for them. Yeah. Imagine that, a man has the emotional depth of a person. Now, my question is - why is it the fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:22 PM
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It's more of the value of the boxer is showcased after more fights. A tinny fast legged defender like maywheather would be the most boring one out of his generation. But as others get taken down, that tactic is the one that not only gets the belt, but keeps it on you. Same for a man's wit, or intelect. Sense of humor will always open legs easier. But in an office, in a field of war - you want to look at the smart guy that gets it right, not the one that makes you feel safe. Money, over knowing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:17 PM
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No it's a ongoing evaluation process that happens in the back of our head - just like with everything, you gain increasingly higher insight into a person - the longer you spend with them, the more challenges you see them face. Initially - yeah - all markers are equal. A showboating G, a smart crypto developing nerd and a smooth swindler - all are judged superficially. Then as the conversation rolls showboater seems to snort and scratch his arse. The actual rich guy doesn't even sweat when his la…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:38 AM
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There's comepetence hierachy between men - quite playful and competitive. It's basically a framework for men to play. Either in competence or wit. And then there's the girls are watching hierarchy which is about not losing face. Basically men trying to not be seen as a weak choice of a mate, if hardship hits. These "girls are watching" behavioral patterns have been expanded with the advent of the internet to a "small world village" feel, because there's always girls watching if you have a online…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:22 AM
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He means charisma and that big dick energy that gets people to move without having to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:10 AM
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I think our society totally gets wrong what makes you happy. Things that require effort - make you happy. Happiness doesn't just come to you. You don't wonder into a happy life. If you don't invest in things emotionally, if you don't face difficulty, if you don't fight through it - you don't develop attachments and nothing will feel like it's worth it. Action precedes feeling. Secondly somewhat of a tangent - chasing the grass is greener is a sure fire attitude to always be unhappy. People's unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:09 AM
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With the average man being “economically” and “physically” undesirable to the average woman, Just lift! The second she finds your hard chest of thick forearm - women stop threating you like a career path. Be fuckable! It's not that hard. Make it hard :D and the average woman being content with being single Who told you this horseshit? Listen, Bad bitch stacy and Lisathestallion85 are not representative for most women and even them cry themselves to sleep with a bottle of wine and a traumatized l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:00 AM
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From the fact that he left a relationships with children like it was nothing. Men don't work like that. And when that happens he feels super lonely in a "great" relationship because the woman made it all about herself. As a millenial man that worked with women across multiple social classes - they have to work just as much as they "have to" travel. It's for the gram, they are homebodies that just don't wanna be shamed. The women that HAVE TO work, literally just work - they don't make it a act o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:46 AM
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Those are blue pillers that still seek a mommy. If you want something that doesn't exist - you will have a bad time. If you take women at what they have to offer - it's nice. What you get with age is a inherent masculine look. Before let's say - 28 - unless you have some nice facial features or good beard - you need to act a bit more agressive to have the girl fall into her feminine and swoon. After let's say 30 - or even beyond. Just seeing you - makes women think - oh, wait, this is a man. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:19 PM
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Wow, you went to a shoe market and couldn't sell your slippers. I never would have guessed. What you say? You wrapped some canvas on them and superglued some laces and people wanted to buy them - nooo way!!! Mate - some asian food looks gross as fuck. Sometimes it's actually good, and othertimes it's a aquired taste but then really really good. That same food that might become your favorite if you try it and get acustomed to it, in a swedish buffet when you have to pick it based on past experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:11 PM
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So my question for you PPD user, do you even like the opposite gender? Remove needing sex or romance or whatnot - do you even want to be around them or spend time with them? Yes, a lot actually. What I dislike is the insecurity and the mental models they absorb from society. Let's take the boss bitch. Apart from a few (which I profoundly respect because they are just as much of a dude as the next bro)- most career women do it out of penis envy. I can't respect that. I can't work 12 hours a day, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:04 PM
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6 billion people work, Millenial Peter is too stressed by work and cries inequality. Also, Mary had 1-2 years exclusive access to him and he didn't bond with her at all? And she said - I should definetly have kids with this cold man I can't relate with? Now, either Mary is a cunt - and never actually cared about the person sleeping next to her, and just wanted to 2.3 kids and the housewife life - or he is a prick, was always a prick and Mary intentionally did not look at their relationship beyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:56 PM
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Using averages of any kind, especially self reported ones is silly. Most women/men are undatable - that doesn't mean that in your dating range you can't find someone nice to hang out with. Most women/men that are out dating are sluts - that doesn't mean that you can't find a nice man/woman in your gardening club.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:50 PM
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You overestimate the agresiveness of the vast majority of men and how important a woman's love is. Despite their need and loneliness - almost all men would never cross a consent barier - regardless of where that is put. In fact they are told that sexual needs aren't actually needs, it's just them being selfish for the most part. THat's why they try so hard to make women orgasm. They want to be able to have sex without the guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:02 PM
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With the rise of automation, a lot of jobs will become non-existent. No it wont, at the macro level employment is a demand side system based on capital not commercial need. Those greedy profit making capitalists are the ones hiring or demanding jobs, not the end consumer that needs a product or service that is just as happy to be served by a robot if he gets 10% of their subscription. Some weird millenials and younger would actually pay more to not deal with people. The change from horses to eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:47 PM
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God you're a idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:32 AM
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That's a fucked up question to put to a community of sexless men. Obviously these men are starving for physical affection and would all say the first dude. Now, on a more objective side of the question: It depends on the girl. The older I get the sillier the teenage defintions of situationship, relationship, ONS make absolutely no freaking sense to me. I had ONS with past relationships, and ONS that turned into great relationships because I just didn't want her to leave and she wanted to stay. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:23 AM
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I think that you need to stop caring if the girl you liked for 3 minutes didn't want to talk to you. In life you only really need one or 2 people to really really like you enough to want to eat your squishy bits. Once you realize that, once you get the experience of 2 people liking you enough to want to nibble on your bits, - you know you are ok. You know you are lovable, and even a cruel rejection doesn't really leave a mark, or affect you beyond the next conversation. You realize it's not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:01 AM
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You have enough money, you can buy respect. Definitely not part of the handbook. That's just gen z kids drooling over lambos that for some reason get taken seriously. If anything we would say that's blue pill because you are trying to gain respect the easy way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:46 AM
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This is a trick question by itself. The pros would not care, they know all of the bs women say doesn't actually matter, it's just them being nervous and insecure because they like you and they need some sort of confirmation that you're the man and you're not gonna turn insecure the second she does the hot girl shit. The semi-pro fuck boys make it clear - they aren't putting monogamy on the table, because they know the wildest essence of woman is a jealous woman and when she is spinning those sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:43 AM
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Legality is not endorsement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:52 AM
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It's not Peterson, actually. And guess who looks more like an idiot when throwing ad hominems like that? Well you said psychologist. Don't know any other current psychologists. What adhom? Yes, not emotionally connecting with work, people, relationships makes you a slut. It's a defensive dissociative behavior. There's nothing unhealthy about it, it's how humanity has functioned and thrived for as long as we can remember. No it's not, that's how children, hurt children think the world works becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:08 PM
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Fuck if I know idiot. What I do know is that nobody in the Muslim world outside of Afghanistan and Pakistan goat fuckers, endorse polygamy. Fucking idiot. Take the L and stop being proud and ignorant at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:40 PM
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I like how one psychologist phrased it: "divine love is unconditional, human relationships are not". Sounds like a idiot or you paraphrased him out of context if it's Peterson - which actually advocates for being socialized and being an altruist as a basis for engaging in the pursuit of win win relationships, you can always stop if the partner is playing a win-lose one, but the only reason you can find a win-win partner is by engaging proactively in Win behavior and not asking for an exchange. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:37 PM
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It doesn't endorse polygamy, it allows it. Get your head out of your arse and go the those countries instead of listening to your content creators and getting your worldview from their ignorant half arse ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:15 PM
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Bums, fuckboys, hillbillies, all the worst kinds of people. Why do people that can't do anything for me exist, they should just die. amirighte! Sandra is conflicted, she thinks he's a royal dbag, but is impressed by his financial success. Something no man ever has said. Equality FTW! curves he never even knew existed until his first fat chick experience roughly 1.5 years back. lol, what a loser, fucking a fat chick - so much shame #amiright #bodypositive #insidebeutay just battering rams his way…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:30 AM
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I think rad fems and conservatives want a restauration of old school traditionalism but in their exclusive benefit, with no concessions on their side(hence the weird Tate conservative that both endorces poligamy and chaste wifeys somehow). Both expect significant demands of the other gender, rather than just complaying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:13 AM
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Well because it's easier to put up with nagging if she's pretty. Any man can not roll his eyes for 20 minutes, to get to the part with pleasurable eye rolling. Try doing that for a full date or 2 - it's so hard. And not the fun hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:09 AM
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Ok. I will take your question at genuine even if you use coded language. Pick up was it's own thing. MRA was it's own thing. Conservativism and reactionary politics was it's own thing. Initially TRP evolved as a next stage of pick up, and more so as grounding in reaction to a lack of male identity in the post liberated boomers and fun loving gen Xrs that needed some identity beyond the soyboys of the 2000s or the caricaturish machismos of the 90s. And there's the connection - while looking for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:56 AM
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Picked up this girl at closing time. We talked dirty and this and that on the way. Sizes and diameters were discussed and she bragged about how she did a lot of anal and loves it. Turns out, she meant she did a lot of fingers and she hates actual anal. It was not a fun night. People lie. We are all up to a point dishonest otherwise we would be misanthropes and the only fingers ever to enter our arses would be our own. The issue is when you are naive/on the spectrum/romantic and need those things…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:31 AM
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her love language, Red flag - that's code for - i need some gifts G. and I ask her to hang out (platonically) occasionally because she struggles with clinical depression Never ask - you are there when they need you, but if you ask they get to think you wanted to support and they are doing you a favor by letting you. Or anything you do at that point, they will take it as you asking them for favors, asking them for more. This sort of entitled, misandrist behavior and rhetoric is becoming really co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:09 AM
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No, I am saying western women think of issues in 2 ways: Why is this happening to me? Why are you doing this to me? That is it. They take no agency and worse have the standard of happyness beyond that of some dictator daughters. Or with such a childish attitude to life - you either parent them and teach them a healthier view of life and relationships. Or you stay away before she subs her toe in your presence and then blames you for having a couch with corners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:47 AM
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What if I told you the barrier to rap charges is much higher than you think? Especially if you don't fuck a "proud, independent" Wokeman Seriously dude, there's more ca accidents than rapes - yet you still drive. It's not an issue unless you live in the Big Woke Cities. And if you do - if you live where drunk girls talk more about the wage gap than the leg gap - move. Anything that happens to you while living in those real estate scams is on you, financially, relationship wise and even health wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:45 AM
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If a guy is not getting it up after 2 years what does a western woman do? If a western woman isn't getting the tingles for her man anymore, how does she address this? I can do on and on, guy is unambitious, gal is bored, guy is fat, gal is fat... pick any topic and have a look at how horribly unilateral and outright hateful towards men our culture frames any issues women might be facing? From the perspective of less "liberal" women - not my perspective - western women are childish that have no i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:42 PM
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While I agree with the sentiment - I would rather remark that you are coming from a premise of: Ignore the stats. Nothing to see here. And secondly, believing a theory of ignorance is bliss. If you just don't think about how bad women are acting - you'll be much happie courting that chick that finally is ready to recieve your love. Both are just gonna send unfuckable men to a live of misery in a age where we are supposed to explore, experiment and find our best selves. Now - I at the very least …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:31 PM
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Maybe you're wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:12 PM
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I don't think men understand traditional woman game. I come from a traditional culture, and my red pill awakening came from seeing very traditional relationships and how men were minced by their desire to please a unpleasable woman. Want to talk disposable and bad deal - become a worker for the woman that gave you a child and see all those male values that TRP jerk off to become the reasons for your enslavement. For what? Just because she won't leave you? Really? Are you that desperate for a mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:12 PM
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I think dating nowadays is so easy you just have to stumble and you fall into a drunk girls vag. The thing is - most men are not ok. They are not good, by any stretch of the imagination. It started out with introversion, then depression and now being a mysantropist is "normal". That's not good. Even introversion is BS and just a product of under socialization. And we treat that as fine. And even expect it from our brightest that go into IT/Engieneering. That's not good. You are not good if you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:41 AM
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check married red pill reddit. How do you keep the attraction alive & women, what keeps you interested in a man long term even though nothing is a mystery or anything to unravel anymore. Thank you. Well there should always be a mistery. Women are inherently curious, want to find and explore creeks and folds of your personality. Just be aloof, give them reasons to investigate more and ask "What?" when you drop a sudden nugget like, you have a pilots licence or backpacked across the rockies. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:36 AM
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If other men didn't share their experiences and advice on money for free on Youtube and elsewhere, Sounds like inspiration and emulation not mentorship and guidance. Take it from someone that got paid by those online mentors to get suckers to sign up for rambling paid calls with those "mentors". The content, the lead generator is the best thing they have to offer people. The are marginally stupid and they are lazy AF compared to the 40 hour a week working stiff. Hard working people, humble and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:59 AM
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I mean look at how our society is structured and how in general power at all costs is rewarded. I think they are different things - but I can't really share my thoughts on women's obsession with male power. The problem is very few groups are incentivized to help this class. Pretty much the only people on earth that care about awkward and stunted men are the guys that were like that and made it out so they see themselves in a guy in his early 20s struggling to make it. Anybody else sees deadweigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:21 PM
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People make informed and thoughtful decisions to change careers all the time. I find that people that make informed and thoughtful decisions don't really change careers, but sure... keep looking for exceptions to justify arrested development. Do you believe some people are just born with a life plan they follow to a T, and then everyone else who doesn’t do exactly that is “unstable”? no, but I do believe most stable people realize how you feel about shit is a extravagance that only children make…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:47 PM
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Like I said, I don't care - but I know you do ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:42 PM
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I don't think you can see the imature part of my argument. It's not his lying or change of heart. It's society reducing the meaning of the word relationship and you guys believing it. What did you expect a relationship is? Having cats and growing old together while watching Netflix? Take me and my fucking around. I know I can't do relationships, kids, even dogs cramp my style. And while I know I can hang out with a girl for years, especially the ones that are chill and low maitenance - I never u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:41 PM
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oh, so much hurt - women don't like me... poor me. Sounds kind of like a toxic view of masculinity you're promoting there, but ok- I am not a man that slays, I do not make the flowers bloom and the panties drop - is that a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:31 PM
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I think more feral children, more competition in dating market because those 40 and 50 year old daddies are savage. How will men feel about working all day, paying less tax to provide freebies for women can afford to have children by themselves? Will this result in a political backlash like South Korea recently saw? I think China is a much better example of what will happen than koreea or japan. They got money. We as westerners - for the most part do not have the government spending / capital of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:27 PM
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So these expectations create a ton of pressure and anxiety in the person who is trying to meet them. Essentially they backfire and make people more isolated, nervous and anxious. No - isolation makes you neurotic and then you reinforce your state by looking for reasons why you are neurotic outside of your comfortable isolation. Women don't know what they want for dinner, they don't know what they like in men. They have a list, a exhaustive list that is meant to cover all their possible basis. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:24 PM
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I don't think we worry about them. I think it's just schadenfreude. We know it hurts and we poke it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 PM
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Harder on average because of less time energy and social occasions to actually meet women. But this makes the women that are on the market actually more responsive, because they don't get asked out every day and they are less socially self conscious by 24+. However - this does mean you need to be fuckable. Somewhat socially capable and empatethic and maybe funny or clever. If you are not fuckable - you are not in the dating market, you are in the "i guess, he seems like a nice enough guy" market…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:19 PM
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where people think women have sex with dogs Oh, you don't, do you? But, they won’t give a man the time of day unless he’s financially successful, “emotionally mature and supportive”, has cool hobbies, etc. What hobbies does your dog have again? Sniffing other dogs’ asses? I beg to differ - you just aren't cute enough to get a sugar momma to put down the bills and scoop your poop. It’s funny because men’s expectations for women are a lot like women’s expectations for dogs: we just want a cute, fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:02 PM
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Well you kinda suck as a predator if you give your prey the willies from 200 ft away? The fucked up thing is the misdirection. The dunking down on to the weird ones. That doesn't happen with men. Men don't make fun of the girls they wouldn't fuck. They might not think highly of them, but we don't villainize them. Women do with men they wouldn't fuck - which is kind of fucked up even at a surface non-red pill level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:56 PM
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As i became more of a older guy, I found there's more women that want to be "in peril" than women that are just looking for a nice young man to hold hands with. I think it's very difficult to find a real predator as the media like to portray them. Most of them are skilled groomers that at the very least get consent and make the victim feel safe, if not genuinely gaslighting and changing the victims values and temperament in such a way that they actively participate in their own abuse and believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:45 AM
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People end serious relationship because of different directions all the time… I agree - people are childish and don't know to pick partners. It's like fast food and getting fat. You make short term choices, based on immediate needs and limitations and then you get surprised there's medium and long term consequences. And I say that as a male slut that is completely incapable of staying interested in someone beyond the romping first 2 weeks. But at least I know I have a problem. I know what I am d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:52 AM
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That's doesn't change my thoughts on the topic at all. At best, I could argue that you enjoyed your time together knowing it was temporary - but then I'd drop the "relationship" part as within this context we are talking about relationships that are meant to be life commitments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:43 AM
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Thank you. Not concerned with cheating personally. More about being on the same level and how easy we vibe with one another. That's what "boredom" is. Girl 1 isn't a bad person, the combination of cultural expectations for what relationships are supposed to be for women, probably some ADHD and a few rounds with some fun guys totally warped her ability to engage and be entertained by everyman. While the other girl - understood the assignment. Relationships aren't what happen to you, you literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:39 AM
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Attack of the zombie celibates :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:30 AM
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They were together 12 years and mutually decided to part ways at 28 when everything about life just started to go in different directions for both of them. Sounds a bit silly to break up the perfect relationship over "directions in life" as if you're just leafs in the wind, but ok. She’s with you now, she’s waited and you respect her. Eventually you both have sex, and she enjoys herself. You know she’s being honest about her history and only having ever had sex with her last LTR. She says she lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:42 PM
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Because you can't live among women and consistently ignore their vulgar dimension and agency in the dating market without having a ideological bent that tells you to not look at that aspect of a womans live and never question it or the woman's decisions in regards to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:29 PM
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Idk man, I think you need to realize you're celibate before it becomes involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:28 PM
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Ok, then i apologize for my comment. It was unfounded and painted women with a broad hitting negative light that isn't true for most secure attached women in relationships. I do think my reaction, well overreaction is however relevant for what you call "lack of critical thinking". I am capable of critical thinking. Most red pillers are - and a lot of those that aren't are rational but don't feel obliged to bridge the gap because society did not give them a platform to air their discontent up unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:48 AM
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No not all women, but I do find it's a particularly easy rationalization - as women seem to have a very narrow band of acceptable behavior for a boyfriend. Ok, I will admit I jumped the gun if you can honestly say you did not imply men specifically need to check themselves and fix their "issues" and you genuinely think women have just as many issues they need to resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:20 AM
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Is it bashing women to say they blame small relationship issues on men's mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:36 AM
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i would argue neoteny is just observational. We need just have bigger brains and they need to fit someplace even in small humans. I would ague that the evidence grade for neoteny is on the same level as phrenology or Mayers-Briggs. And all the subsequent studies are projections based on a shaky observational concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:34 AM
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I think to be a feminist or ally you need to disconnect from the male lived in experience. In all honesty a lot of soy-boys never had a lived in experience. I was talking about a casual crazy ex story among mixed company and the soy boy at the table jumped up when I said a girl came over to blow me just because I asked. All the women at the table admitted to going on booty calls in the past and that's not that rare. Guy literally had his world view shattered then and there. You can imagine the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:17 AM
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Depends on your definition of mental health - from what I see anytime a woman doesn't get her man to bend over backwards for her he gets sent to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:10 AM
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All I have to say is be firm, leave conversational gaps, close the conversation first and be non reactive for a few days and see how the girls talk to you, and you don't have to grasp for energy and topics to keep the convo going. Similarly, any man that did the bare minimum like growing a beard and going for a few months to the gym can see the shift in attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:08 AM
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2 aspects: Selection bias - the women that have to settle are generally horrible people. From a non-female POV - the majority of women on the market afterr 28 - aren't the nice sweet out of town gals that just didn't have any luck. They are brash, loud, emotionally imature, ridden with debt and with a massive attitude problem combined with unwillingness to actually engage emotionally. And that does not change even when they marry, if anything it only gets worse. Combine this with aspect number 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:50 AM
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I have, have you ever been in a happy one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:39 AM
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I don’t think an LTR can be cute playful sexual tension 100% of the time Depends on your definition but it should be there in the background as a hum At some point he’s going to have to listen to her go on about shit he doesn’t care about, No, not really. Thing is - women don't actually want to relive their day and drama. The red pill man and the red pill woman are aware of this. Nobody does. That's just dinner talk because they aren't passionate about the same topics, they don't really have com…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:37 PM
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for even the most naturally redpilled man to be gaming his wife nonstop and even exhausting for the woman to be gamed nonstop. not more exhaustive than being their girlfriend, holding her hand while she relives the inane ups and downs of her day. If you have to choose between relationship and being alone, taking life at your pace, and not having to share your life with a emotional dependent - yeah, I agree. That's why I count myself as a MGTOW. But if you feel like your best life is with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:24 PM
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Do you believe sexual attraction and comfortable friendship are mutually exclusive? They act in antagonist ways. The more you know someone are are more comfortable with - the less of a mystery they are and the less they fuel your desire and fantasies. Nobody wants to have a mysterious adventure with Greg, the uber driver from next door, they want to have it with that tall, dark brooding man that for some reason always leaves at 2 AM in the morning and comes back right when you take your shower i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:27 AM
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I think there's 2 factors. Social norms vary across culture. Americans are extremely extroverted in Europe, but actually shallow and boring after 5 minutes. While in the US an european would be percieved as a wimp, but they get the girls with the fascinating 7 hour conversations - girls literally drag you home because they want to shut you up, but not have to make you leave. it's protagonist syndrome among new generations. Nobody is curious, but everyone has a novel, a idea, a business they can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:18 AM
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33, Europe, mostly Berlin/Paris. Definetly not - Berlin any deformed gal has a decent looking man by her side. Paris - almost all women, even those with mental health exhude sexuality and keep themselves in decent shape. While the men are classy, but god damn. If they weren't laying down french grade pipe I think all french women would emigrate to Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:13 AM
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She or he will always be open to a relationship if you're down for it. Why is that bad? A fuck buddy is always the superior friendship. The reason why people avoid this is because they have some fucked up shame or feel some sort of moral obligation about sex or because they aren't actually close to people to their friends or people that they fuck and it would feel strange and new to have sex and intimacy in that relationship. Men can actually learn a lot from women here. It's fine to fuck friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:09 AM
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I find people that want to structure a conversation are never actually interested in having a conversation, they want to win it. Are trans women women - well no, because they don't fulfil the function of women to me as a heterosexual man. Now we can take it sociologically and demonize my patriarchal need, and how people are etheric self defining entities and we exist out side of the function we serve for one another. Or I have legal discourse about rights and interactions not being implicitly co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:59 AM
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You get used to it, I think our society seriously overvalues friendship. You have your family and your lovers realistically. Friends are their own thing, not really invested in your life and nor would you want to be that invested in theirs. Being close to someone, genuinely close I mean - comes with responsibility and you need to manage that relationship. I don't think you can do that for more than 3 people and maintain the same degree of quality and trust. AS for male loneliness specifically - …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:52 AM
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I would argue that that's the reason they can - because force is only applied on men when they become too ambitious. Women have always kinda floated towards the top of a hierarchy. Funny how useful step ladders made of thirsty men works. Even as slaves, they were house slaves, even as consorts they were kept in a palace despite humble birth. Always our nasty patriarchal ways found a way to set women at every level a bit to the side of the full impact of force. That's why women at a fundamental l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:41 AM
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Picked up this smoke show at a lounge / casino - I think the only reason she entertained me was just because we were both of the same nationality. Game was weak AF as I just got brutally rejected by a middle eastern chick in front of her girlfriends. She let herself be convinced to get back to my hotel but just for a few minutes because her FWB was going to come get her. She was so not my type as specially in that moment (she is super sharp tongued, domineering and rude just for the fun of it) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:35 AM
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Do you think a 15 year old is mature or has anywhere close to the body she will have as a 30 year old mother? We just fetishize the nymph or androgous body. It's pretty fucked up, but that's what happens when we portray love stories in our media that almost exclusively talks about teenage love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:13 AM
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RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? Sounds kind of official to seriously date someone, I mostly do it for the jokes. So 33, no real age limits, just have to be fun and hot. Would that age range remain steady throughout your life assuming you might be single in your later years or would it change? No, as i've been creeping into my 30s I went lower - currenty dating a 19 y/0, previously a 22 y/0 - because I don't have the energy to play ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:08 AM
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I think society is too comfortable especially for those under 35 to have readily available challenges, in the real sense of the word. Go to the skatepark - start parkour, dancing, painting, learn a language and then go to that country, get a forklift course and then get a forklift. On the beaten path of life, in our society all risk and dificulty has been removed and replaced with paint beetween the lines drawings. You can express yourself by what color you choose, but the end goal is very predi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:56 AM
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I think women live in their own little bubble and think their current emotional state is their life forever. Essentially teenagers. Once they don't get what they expect, once real life doesn't fit the fantasy they built up in their head - they demonize their partner and feel trapped in a life they "don't want". It has always shocked me how easy a woman can find everything right in a dude that get's her reptile brain panting, but would not stop criticizing and misconstruing the intents of perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:48 AM
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Maybe the reason there's no matriarchy's in history is that they never get to be powerful enough to tell their story. If you go to any female led companies, you won't ever trust a woman to be president. SO yeah, some men wouldn't fuck, some would be cheated on, and everyone might starve because work feels bad and being forced to work is worse. Insulting a man is bad, but insulting a woman makes you a hateful bigot and society doesn't need your contribution. The behaviors that are acceptable from…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:38 AM
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Fact base? Around dating? Like the 2 studies I just saw above this one that wouldn't even get a passing grade in my college for the sampling bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:26 AM
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I and a lot of my generation can say the same thing - lucky - abortion was illegal and a back alley one way quite expensive in communist eastern europe. If i was conceived 6 months later, it would have been legal or at the very least less repressed. While I have no resentment towards my mom, or women that want to keep their economic freedom. I do think it's a profoundly selfish life choice. There are plenty of things worse in life than becoming a parent. Yet a big section of women are so in love…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:55 PM
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Its not society's place to police how others feel about themselves. It's literally why we have society. I'll just leave you with this, every poor service, bad driver, lazy doctor, inconsiderate barista - is a person that is more dedicated to how they feel about themselves than how society feels about them and their action. A society of people that live in their own world, is not a society, it's just a mass of solipsistic people that live for themselves among other selfish, indiferent people. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:58 AM
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I genuinely doubt you can find red pill sources anymore. It's the age of video, everything is in context. The only cannon I can think of is The book of Pook to be honest, I doubt if 30% of active self defined red pillers on Reddit even read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:26 AM
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Fucked up thing is that society thinks me saying if someone is a cunt, call her a cunt.... is worse than that bullshit believe in myself remix. Because people that think they are special are insecure and need to justify being horrible to others. While moderate people are meak and usually make space for the previously mentioned cunts. My phylosophy is simple. We all do bad, we all try to mostly do good. But if you let someone think they are doing good, while they are total arseholes, it's you fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:23 AM
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I think if we refer to social network rather than friends women have exponentially more acquitances they see a few times a year. While men can have family or best friends they don't see for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:17 AM
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"Your truth" but when the guy said "his truth" then you see a problem :) idk mate, i find stories of over the top misogamy strange - eal misogamy happens when your HR manager asks you if you think Sally is right for a promotion, and asks how you think she would handle high pressure situations and you doubt it, because you remember that time when she cried the day after she found out her father died.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:02 AM
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Yes, if there's any group that should be put down because they overestimate their place in the world, that's women. If you see a bitch that refers to herself as goddess, expects water to part so she doesn't stain he Loubutins - yeah, clown on her with extreme prejudice, she probably deserves all that and more so. And honestly - it's for her own good, because she can not ground herself in the real world and none of he parents did it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:44 AM
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Stay at home moms is a very niche lifestyle, limited to mostly anglosaxon middle class and above people. I think it's more like 1 in 10 behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:42 AM
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We don’t know if he’s offering them money, that sounds so creepy and controlling. We should know all what our men do with their money, our money! LIsten, booty is like a cute DIY project for men, it makes you go: Hmmm, nice, like. Boobs are like a cute cat pics, it makes the man go: Oooh, so squishy, nomnomnom. Like! Puss or bush is like a recipe vid - makes you think, I'd do that, yum! Like and save. It has absolutely nothing to do with the person making the content. It has nothing to do with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:37 AM
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Nah, there's plenty of sad lonely women out there. Unsocialized women, corporate drones that literally have no time for any emotional relationship, women that are just fat slobs and their brain is hypoxic because of their cardiovascular health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:29 AM
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My dude - honestly that's just hot girl copping. I can't hate on them, they always put out and are so up in their head that you can do anything to them while doing the deed, you can even grab them by the pussy, to quote our last living poet. Best of all - they frame it as if they wanted it, they "used you" and they are in control. Can't ask for anything better from a hookup tbh. The thing is - Gen Z is a generation of orphans. They have no cognitive map to navigate the world. So they take these …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:14 AM
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Depends on your age. You still need to be a man in the crucial points of the relationship. And that confidence comes from having ownership over your life in major areas: career, finance, looks and dating. In addition - explore more relationships and dynamics, don't be hyperfocused on what you think you want now, when out of relationships and explore what every person in part has to offer and have a taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:45 AM
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That's how they get ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:40 AM
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Oh, really :) Sorry, didn't catch that. I think depression is one of the few things that this generation is doing right. People are genuinely reacting to someone going offline or when they stop going to school. It becomes a thing. When I was in highschool I could literally disappear and everyone just shrugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:32 PM
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Well, they kinda are tbh. I don't remember any of my generation being genuinely depressed because of the news. Or not being curious of the outside, going to a party just to not stay home, or shooting their shot with a girl just because she is willing and able. Feels - alien to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:17 PM
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I would say hating more than clowning. I still have it easier than the weird boy friends in her peer group. So you're agreeing with OPs insinuation - we should shame them sluts for not shaking up with a boy and conducting themselves like the majority of society chooses to? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:59 PM
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I mean we changed the definition of relationships to that of best friends with cuddles that share rent. People are just living the "utopia" of progressive boomers and Gen Xrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:54 PM
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gen z is savage, unsocialized gen z guys and girls are like a dog raised in the basement with no human contact. That's not story that will end well. Add to that they live in the hypereality of social media where all social faux pas are extremely public and documented for eternity and I am surprised there isn't a epidemic of self deletion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:52 PM
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I think the battle is to deprogram yourself and allow yourself to be out of control, to not be the cool dude, to not have the right answers or the sharp quips.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:45 PM
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19 y/o, they keep me up to date on all the memes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:44 PM
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yeah, just don't commit and be awesome. It's really hard to hear the gossip if the pussy you're banging is sloppy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:43 PM
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Not stopping but I get way more shaming than the highchoolers I date. And let's not even start on the eyerolling when you bring up BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:38 PM
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idk, she makes you feel good and it's nice to be around her. Easy going. Humble. Ok, now I'm overreaching. She's hot and hard working... no, that's asking for too much. Hot and doesn't take herself too serious - I know those girls exist for a fact, I saw them. And maybe not in too much debt - since this is theoretical and I can have the perfect woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:36 PM
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Idk, I find the most serious, driven and grounded girls are OF hoes - probably you're gonna meet your wife during a collab that goes right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:27 PM
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2 things: We model what a nice nurturing relationship is based on our family or in absence of that the culture we live in. That can be as you can imagine super subjective and limited. You won't know you dislike a feminine woman until you have a certain confidence in yourself to navigate a relationship. Most men don't have that and only have "modern" examples of relationships/family which serve more as a example of what they don't want - fighting, struggle, cheating or even violence. Secondly - y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:02 PM
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Idk, but I have found that the less serious you take women, the more they relax around you and are more willing to be playful and less judgy. And the girls that don't relax, and shove the stick in their arse deeper, usually you don't want to spend time with them because it won't be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:40 PM
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I would say I only like women as people - the second they shift and play coy or leave an "opening" and expect me to make an effort my visceral reraction is: Lady, what type of simp do you take me for? Especially if we just had some naked fun - I am genuinely confused why a woman thinks men have even the slightest interest in playing the courting game, apart from sexless men that can't get it any other way. Now, don't get me wong, as a RP dude, I love myself some cutesy talk and batting eyelashes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:15 AM
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I think women that aren't super in tune with their feminine needs - are utterly bewildered by the fact that nice guys think being sexually aggressive as a man, with a woman that is into you - is considered a faux pas. Women think that for a man to touch her, escalate, kiss her - is the most simple thing in the world and can't conceive how you can get into that situation and not be sure the girl that is there, with you is interested. Worse still, they think that if you went through the process of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:30 PM
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ok, there's 2 things: behaviors and energy (for lack of a better term) Behaviors are signifiers - they communicate values. Energy is essentially your understanding of the world - which get disseminated into the world, through behaviors - they may or not be obvious signifiers or may or not may be rationalized as values. While women like the behaviors, they hate the values for the most part. Some women that hate the values so much, will actively fight you on the behaviors. But all women - even les…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:24 PM
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I think it crushes the entitlement of young people. Young people (gen X even included here) have this fucked up optimism, I think black bros would call it: white man/woman confidence. They think that all you have to do in life is ask. Do you have an upgrade? Do you know where this hooker's adress is office? Can I get a tax break governor? This is not how the world works, and as you get on with life, you learn this and your childhood entitled dreams die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:18 PM
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I think it's entirely possible to develop as a adult that can not live within society and it's social rules. Relationship protocols included. These are the foreveralone women (the attractive ones - i mean, the others are just not in the fuckability market)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:15 PM
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I don't know where you're getting the definitions of RPM and especially RPW - but go to married RP reddit - the only remaining red pill resource around here. They don't match either definition. RPW aern't the communication experts you idealize as, and the men aren't entering relationships to punish women WTF... or that not being a wimp is somehow hurting with intention your partner. That's just wow... some layers of sociopathy there. Let me tackle the worst and most indefensible one: flirting wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:59 PM
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I think it varies a lot by age, let's take a yearly average instead. And understand based on lifestyle and age their yearly batting rate will change. I think the average for men would be 3 per year, but that's very skewed, I think at any one point only 10% of men actually are banging something - this includes every incel from 13 to widowers above 60. If we remove work and age outliers and we go with just a blue pill definition of dating range - so 16 to 54 - I think it doubles at 6/year - but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:36 PM
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I thought of a different thought experiments of this nature. For men: What if you had to live with all your exes for the rest of your life... in an e3xtended family sort of thing. For women: what if all your exces instantly became bros with a guy you've fucked. I think men take on risks and have poor standards because in a global world there's always the option (or we hope there is) that if a B is crazy - you just disapear. While women bet everything on the fact that the next guy is totally obli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:25 PM
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nah, it's just the attention hoes from around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:25 AM
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Mister bait got you all puffing and moaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah, sounds like a invitation. Well that's the thing though - all women are like that. It's fucked up how gals say about the same shit. They have the same "icks" and then double down on the ridiculousness by insisting - they are not like all the other girls. Here's just my thought - (most) men don't have an issue with being generalized, because they don't really hate other men. Apart from frustrated chumps that is. But women, most women absolutely hate other women. They need to lift themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:56 PM
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chubby chicks are, fat girls - barely leave the house
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:29 PM
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I think the problems we have are proportional to what our world view is and as such it is always proportional for each individual.\ The secure model will have issues with things just within reach, but out of his immediate availability. The neurotic model will have his/her focus on issues way out of their reach. Same with the incel. A secure guy will be worried about his DND night, his next raid strategy or why his favorite cheese is not in stock on the delivery app. While the more neurotic incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:55 AM
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I don't think it's a concern for women either - it's just a cultural value judgement women internalize. Like don't be a slut, don't enjoy that male gaze from that old perv. Men - for the most part (although I did notice Gen Z boys being super protective of their body) don't have that defensiveness as apart of their self identity when it comes to olden women looking at them like a piece of meat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:47 AM
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No, that's really not a thing. Even the notion of healing wounds with young to cure insecurity sounds like a female experience - men really just like the people they date, because it's fun dating them. The notion of dating someone to soothe your ego sounds like more trouble than it's worth for a man - because remember - dating is not free for a man, it's not a life choice, something you just do in the afternoon. It's just a matter of them being more fun and jovial, honestly. Men want to have hun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:42 AM
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Thats their right. I think that's offensive for all political movements in history, but sure - it's a right. Should we put right to get dicked down in the constitution tho? To make sure. What about fat chicks? Should we hire some male professionals to ensure dick security for the more underprivileged of ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:33 AM
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I disagree - genuine possiveness when a man is genuinely making a move is sexy. Only overreactivity is seen as weak. And what's worse is starting an argument over it as if she already has his hotel room number. That's insecurity. When you make scenarios in your head and you communicate to her that you think so little of your value in the relationship that you need to convince her to not cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:43 PM
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If being nice means silencing your authentic opinions or outwardly behaving in a polite manner that doesn’t align with how you truly feel, does that imply niceness is a form of deception? No, it means being kind and generous. Nobody cares about your authentic opinions or hot takes. Or mine for that matter. Society isn't your stage. And forcing people to be your audience because "you have things to say" is inherently selfish and makes you a prick. Imagine being dragged by someone on their own pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:38 PM
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Women do like powerful men grabbing them by the pussy, it's literally a erotic novel trope. Joke aside - I think culture, media and the topics are carefully selected to keep the masses ocupied so you don't realize that you own less and less, your benefits are all given to you by a string and your obedience and labor is demanded for life with no recourse. But that's just me - how's your sports betting addiction going :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:35 PM
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I love pick mes - they are so much fun and a breath of fresh air to see women that are overt about the fact that they like men and male energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:31 PM
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Here's the secret - it's a fucking test. She isn't saying you are insecure and that't bad, she is saying you are weird for not understanding that i like/love you and I am just playing. When a woman cheats - you won't know. If a woman flirts or brings up her work husband - she is fucking with you and your overreaction is the issue, not the fact that you don't want her to talk to some dude while in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:30 PM
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Move away from the large cities with their walking trauma cases named modern women. There's plenty of women that have no problem and even enjoy showing their appreciation and attraction towards the man they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:25 PM
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My line is respect. The moment she thinks of "greener grass" there's no real relationship anymore because she isn't concerned about what I think. What is your opportunity cost of being in a relationship? If it's a new hookup that doesn't know your likes and dislikes and is still a bit akward around you - then a nice respectful girl is always preferable, but a rude one isn't. If your "missed opportunity" is the rejection game called "dating" and the loneliness that comes with it... I mean short o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:24 AM
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Is there a point in asking particular questions that are so skewed that even a idiot can see they are baits setting up a GOTHAAA!! WOMAN POWNED - men rule, girls drule. Your rhetorical abilities and essentially the whole red pill paradigm has been reduced to a Fresh and Fit sophistry. Do you have any actual red pill observations you are curious about not covered in the core rethoric or maybe that stray from the mainstream RP, any question or inconsistency or are you such a master of gender dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:56 AM
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Not in the west mate - in the media. It's a crucial difference that if you agnoledge all the reactive media and pown content loses it's relevancy and you even realize just how much of a scam this is. Here's the thing - do you think - fat women are prime meat on the dating market - even in the most liberal and progressive shitholes. Is fact acceptance an actual thing - or is complaing about fat shaming just a super popular topic because fat women aren't getting any prime dick or quality attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:59 AM
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Sex and affection are NOT a resource you can just give away. It’s access to somebody’s body. So it's not her body her choice now? It can be traumatising to a life changing degree if you’re forced to have sex with somebody you don’t want to. So is sitting assignments on the first day of school. You create your own trauma babe. Stop thinking about sex and do it. Yet some guys on here act like women are hoarding all the sex away in a box somewhere. Well being rejected from a very common social expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:34 AM
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That's not the dating scene, that's Tinder - the open bar of dating after the social people had their pick of the good stuff. Get out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:31 AM
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Yeah, and I recommend all men do it. There is a nastyness to women in the western world if you are not fashion magazine hot that is unjustified and marginally antisocial. It's just better to date and live in countries where women have been socialized to not be horrible people 100% of the time. It really isn't sex, as most of these countries girls expect you to date, as there's no hookup culture and as a foreigner you're more hubby potential than lover potential. That's actually the story ironica…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:29 AM
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What if I told you Feminism was never really popular among a small but influential set of persons? For every 1 million women, there's just one blogger that gets 50.000+ reads on her opinion piece(the most popular articles of this nature don't get more than that on the regular even in peak Jezebel years). But those 50.000 are editors, screenwriters, venture capital executive associates and their girlfriends, political interns of the democratic party, academics, news editors. So the ideas where ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:22 AM
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They aren't any more evil than Musk or Huberman. It's content marketing. Stop misreading the medium and jumping on the hate spiral. Tate is just a pimp with Trump like tactics of shock marketing. So is JP - to some lesser degree. They all say 2-3 bomshells in a 1 hour interview for the hook and thumnails.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:17 AM
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milking subscribers while fucking latina's on their dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 AM
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It also makes you never trust your significant other. It makes you paranoid. Soulless. It makes you stop being naive about trust in the abstract as a given. You wouldn't trust a untrustworthy person, you wouldn't tell your friend to trust someone that is irresponsible or an addict. Yet being trusted just because you the guy fucking her exclusively somehow makes sense? The only thing you lost is childish solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:12 AM
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Find a slut Be way out of her league. Provide her home, food and some entertainment Be hard when you draw the rules of the arrangement Enforce the rules and kick the girl out, in front of the rest when she makes a hissy fit or does the "i can fuck other men as well because I'm equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:59 AM
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I had a friend that was a girl when I was in highschool, that I just grabbed and kissed for some silly reason at a party - I was just super happy and it felt right. There was no chemistry, no relationship interest. She blussed and squeeled and was all confused for a week. THat same girl went on a date with a guy she liked the next summer, guy did all the romantic shit, but didn't pull the trigger, he just squeezed it, slowly, and that made her again confused - but the other way around. She start…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:05 AM
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I think a relationship means you stop making it about yourself and make it about you as part of the couple. If you continue to think as a single person - you will automatically find incompatibilities between what you are as a person in a relationship and your world views and self understanding as a single individual. You are just very easy for women - usually hot women - to feel single within a relationship because you are low maitenance. Trust me, I am the same way. But, and I am betting this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:55 AM
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I think most women that talk about celebrities - especially in the US don't have a fucking clue what that life is about. When a relationship is a life choice - like wearing a watch - for men and women - it's not about feelings, emotions, having romantic moments sneaking out between events like quirky teenage dramas make it out to be. Having a relationship in public at that level is about PR - it's like a business venture. Spending time with your husband/wife is like a vacation. Having a child is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:50 AM
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When you say "not put a huge emphasis" you mean: would give uggos attention. Language matters you see. And while I have absolutely no preference for attractive women and actively avoid the women that leverage looks for attention because I met so very few that have any actual human being behind the IG poses - I am adamant that a woman needs to be fuckable. Now, lucky you if you have a relatively healthy BMI and don't medicate your brain hypoxia indused depression with calories - because fuckable …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:43 AM
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I do, but not for the reason you think - on every first date, women just love to open up the topic. And whenever a woman has this conversation it's a clear indicator she is looking for a man to play the role of her boyfriend/husbando. She doesn't like you, she likes you for a role she has in her head. It's actually funny after you realize that - you can play the lad and intentionally fail all her questions with the confidence of a man that doesn't want a 60 hour/week job with poor pay - or if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:34 AM
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male always me, women stays even after shit isn't fun anymore. They do wierd tests, and try to dig into your soul to find something exciting or a emotional issue you 2 can bond over. Men usually are just too myopic to feel there's anything wrong in the first place and they never really consider that they should be happy in a relationship, they should be excited and miss their girls even if she just popped into the shower. Not me, if it ain't working for me - she will soon feel it as well, and we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:29 AM
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I think you need to have a bit of the tism to think there's a social productivity tally. Or to want to. And if you want to - don't be surprised that a entertainer gets more capital - and thus more reproductive access than a doctor, and you would most likely still be at the end of the line for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:26 AM
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I find it hilarious that socially awkward men - men that can't pull themselves by the bootstrap and just be "normal" and deal with it - dream of a "utopia" where they carry the responsability of family on their shoulders. Where they have duty to labor and fight. Motherfucker you can't go to the gas station without spiraling into negative thoughs, you think you can handle a raid of chadbarians just because you have a kid? No mate - in literally all social orders you would either be furniture or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:15 AM
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I will raise him by example. Whenever he has doubts in life - he should always think - hmmm, dad would just slap moms arse and make her giddy, he would just hunker down and get the job done, he would just make a call and follow-through just because he gave his word. I think as a generation we grew up with the romantic protag model. And that's not how the world works, how other people work. So at the very least - I show people that old school cool works. I hope to be in a position to show my son …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:57 PM
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So respect if mutual, yet you have no obligation to make any concesions. Yeah - totally a cohesive world view - no problems there. Sorry but no. Being unaccepting of intolerance is not intolerant. Thats not how that works. At all. If youre tolerant of the intolerant then you are condoning such behaviour. Funny how that makes you free to be as intolerant as you want towards who you want - since you are the judge and jury of what doesn't fit the bill of tolerance. You can see why that's such a con…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:48 PM
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If you are in a community that isnt respectful of you and dont allow yourself to express yourself differently. You mean like being a red pill dude in a blue pill generation or just a general freak in the sheets in a conservative country. Or just being a english speaker in paris? Obviously it's not the same - although the BDSM community is savage towards any man that shows even marginal preference for femininity. Why the hell should that person show respect to that community? Because you want a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:57 PM
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I agree - but we can use a similar sentiment with neurotypical informal signaling or any convenitonal signifiers. They are a hack, a social lubricant within the in-group. Don't you think it should be encouraged for people to learn the language when venturing in a new country? Doesn't it signify a base respect, even if you suck at it, if you are willing to take part in those rites? I think it's very easy to say: i will do me, and fuck society - if you are at a social level where you don't have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:17 AM
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There already is - it's the mid-town rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:07 AM
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So you don't think gender presentation is important for socialization? (I don't think a trans woman would agree)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:02 AM
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Fuck personal trainer shit. It's consistency you need. Consistency and progressive overload (each 3 weeks you should be stronger and lift more) A lot of personal trainers, especially for fit dudes with high earning jobs will just give you a easy routine to keep you comfortable. Fitted clothes are the next one. Learn what smart casual is, buy some non-brand elements that go together well in between them. Yes, you can make massive changes in a year if you aren't average fat work consistently in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:00 AM
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I see only one issue - women don't really care about what their husband thinks. That's why you need patriarchy my dudes. That or having hoes and keeping your woman on the edge of losing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:54 AM
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I partially agree - but it's not just hotness, it's about how that person speaks, how they make you feel, how you see them as a man/woman. A porn movie won't work because what makes us horny and what makes us feel and opens our eyes to sexyness are different things. I often found strange that married women go all out when doing girls nights or are out on the town with the bad bitches in the office. Those same women would often accuse their men, the men they make no effort for of not making them …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:52 AM
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Self improvement comunities, especially those geared around fashion always felt a bit off to me. It's like you're stepping into a consumerist cult. And this is a strong gripe I have with male fashion - they just dress men up to look silly because that's what the major brands have on offer and the pimary selection factor seems to be brand image and getting you to spend money on seasonal shit that looks terrible on any body that isn't that of a twink. On the red pill it's more "male". It's problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:43 AM
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Sure. That I get to bang bitches and then raise my kid properly - and she does not get to complain or have "well Sally said" opinions. If your wife made significantly more than you but somebody needed to stay home to take care of children, would you be ok with doing so? I'd smack a bitch if she argued the opposite. And then smack her again when she complained about work being tiresome and draining. Yeah honey-tits - that's what work is - be happy you are doing it for real good money and you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:15 PM
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The fact that nobody here understands how birth control effects women's brains and taste shows you just how amazing "sex-ed" is. Women on birthcontrol are drawn to conversations and sparing partnerships. Women naturally want a big dude that makes her squeak. You either knew a woman off birthcontrol or you only every knew women who's body thinks is pregnant 2-4 days every 27 days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:01 PM
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I have not met a happy single woman. Maybe most of them stay inside. Idk, it\s also true that a lot of married women are unhappy. But what I do know is that all the women that are happy that I have ever seen at the very least they were in a relationship, most actually are mother - which seems to be the single most important factor that gives women life satisfaction. All of them - say nothing up to that point mattered. And I doubt you can make an argument that is though in schools or by our paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:57 PM
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Well, Twitter you get banned and crushed by the mom of full figured expressive strong women that don't need a man - despite thinking of men all day. The rest would require you to "come out" as a loser. I think most men would agree, better to come out as gay or trans. Hell, if you come out as gay might even get some bisexual loving just for "bravery"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:52 PM
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People are struggling with dating in general. Nobody is actually communicating, putting themselves on the line or compromising - while at the same time - everyone is a relationship expert that expects the best deal possible and is determined to settle for nothing less while aspiring to be a full time narcisists. We just struggle in different ways - some are in a loveless roommate relationship but it's ok because they are such good friends, others get humiliated every weekend by their wife but co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:44 PM
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If you don't trust the person that is closest to you, you are a emotional masochist. I don't see the point in being with people I don't trust. It doesn't make me any happier to just have people around. Also, as I matured I learned - what can some bitch really do? One ex set fire to my couch, a few others lied out their teeth to save face in front of friends and my family weirdly enough - and while it did hurt, I am fine. So - what did I actually lose from trusting someone untrustworthy? Still ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:40 PM
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They aren't holding out for anyone - they are just lost. Most of them will either have a cunt of a mother or a woman that had to wear pants for the family because she married a twat of a man. They start out with absolutely no idea of what a comfortable gender role is. Add to that the culture that told them women are their bf's best friend, real men like strong independent she-dudes they can drink beer, play vidya with or measure paychecks with - and you developed a world view of the other gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:03 AM
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I think history is just present people projecting shit onto quite scarse and subjective first hand evidence. As for sociatal instability - I tend to agree with J theory - which is - people become unrulable when they get used to progressively better living conditions, and their offsprings have expectations that are beyond any reasonable reach by society. Kids like to quote: my dad/grandad had a house and 2 cars by age 25. I am here in debt and rent, working 2 jobs. Yeah fuckhead - your dad/granda…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:39 PM
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In the club it's 100% energy. For a analytical dude it's hard to understand this - most people don't think about 89% of what they do. It's not a major life choice, it's not risky, stop thinking about it, and just do whatever feels best. That's why swooping a girl of her feet or biting her hair works gets you a better reaction than going up to them in a polite fashion and introducing yourself with your full name and giving them a compliment. It's a party man, people are there to have fun and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:07 AM
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What's with your obsession of making the first move. Women will whore max(if that's not a thing we definitely need to make it a thing) thinking that's the pavlovian way to get seen, then just witdraw and focus on single men in their immediate surrounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:03 AM
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Because looks maxing doesn't change the fact that you are a man. You will still lose 100% of the shots you don't take. At best it makes the odds better when you do go for it. But most men never take a shot, or respectively multiple shots to get the win that motivates them to want to take more shots and respectively improve the odds of those shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:55 AM
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True premise - but you fail to see how much of a pussy you are if you "hide" your emotions. Women can tell you are holding back your reactivity and you at heart are a winy little bitch - that's why you see these "alpha men" being trash talked by the literal whores they pay for play. Women's respect is garnered by having your life in check. Be better than them. Undeniably work harder, be braver, be smarter, be better at fucking and have a relative higher looks range among other men than she has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:41 AM
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(how she makes me feel - not on the list) Personality (more temperament and how she knows how to make chemistry - more corelated with age) (Height! again not on the list - but did anyone ever ask the short kings if they prefer to be carried and fucked by an amazon or do the carrying and fucking themselves? - men were the real height racists this whole time!) Weight(which is highly corelated with personality/looks tbh - she can be thick - but not with a fat-girl temperament and ) Looks(basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:05 AM
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who stayed home for 20 years has basically killed their carreer Sounds like a hiring practice problem to me keeps up their side of the deal and keeps providing money in the form of alimony. Because middle class white women need to be protected from work god damn it! What should they get in return though? If someone was in a coma - does the state support them? Should society ? What if instead of a coma they went on a 20 year trip to india to find themselves? Should the state help them? Should soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:56 AM
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I think most women can't decide what they want for dinner, why are we pretending they can decide what they want for after dinner? When forced to - they usually default for a trope, or the most popular choice or the choice that makes them look cool. There's also a lot of projection. Young women feel VERY guilty about liking something especially when it comes to men. They often think about their preferences in terms of identity first - then they select a stereotype based on what that type of girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:46 AM
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I feel like those years are the best years of sex and I totally missed out no, lol. I feel like 23 is the start of not young anymore nope, you are definetly not young anymore. You're at the age where people will call the po-po if you're dating a highscooler or using tiktok - which is about the same thing. Mate - I can't be more gentle than this... You can't have sex until you're a sick perverted old man or woman. That PiV humping you do as kids is cute and sweet, but it's not monkey fucking unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:29 AM
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Those where all post fact rationalizations (apart from the gay part - I used that particular anecdote to show even sexuality is used as a rationalization nowadays - thank you sex ed - telling you you're not only right with all your teenage anxiety regarding your body, you now have to pick and choose what type of partner you like to munch on.) People first conceptualize limits, then rationalize reasons why they have those in place. Let's take a step back from sex. Let's say you have performance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:54 AM
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Well, that's the thing with your "but aktually..." You hear some scared confused woman's subjective story, and you make that a a priori premise for things that don't need to be that complicated for 80% of the population. So I counter your "a gay girls story" with another gay girl's story that felt wierd when she kissed a boy, and her next girlfriend convinced her she is a lesbian - until she got horny for daddy dick at a shibari workshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:15 PM
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It's not like most women can't have good conversations similar to men Ask the smartest woman you know to tell you the most fucked up thing she read last year. Then do it with your average dude. I bet the dude's story goes somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:58 PM
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She could have neve been fucked well and doesn't understand between masturbation with a sweet guy and monkey fuck - and instead rationalize her unique sensabilities with what you said. Source: I fucked gay, girls that though they were gay, asexual, depressed, insecure and PTSDed girls - sometimes it doesn't help, but a lot of time, A LOT of times it does. Most people aren't some form of special, we just live in a society where normal is taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:56 PM
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Do something you genuinely enjoy or dream of, but right now you don't allow yourself to do. Basically it's what society calls middle age crisis for men. Pursuin joy with abandon. Even robots have things they dream of doing, but don't dare. Look at germany. Some love caravaning, others swinggin, some get a workshop, others get a convertible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:48 PM
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Women - not girls - want to get a life, not a man. Thus, they need a man to have a life. Hard to do unless you are a college athlete as a young guy. the notion that women are primarily valued for youth & attractiveness Not valued, but that's their main power - those are hooks. The base value of a person is that of a dude. If you're a girl you're more. If you are attractive, you get even more social leverage. If you are a young attractive girl, you have huge social capital by default. And I call …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:44 PM
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This is your daily reminder that most XY persons don't fuck, they masturbate their women with their meat dildo until they dirty the bed or have to run to the bathroom because the dildo starts leaking. Women like men. If you are not a man, if you don't do anything that makes her see you like a man, what is there to excite her? How exciting would it be to fuck her while she's dressed in a burqa? That's what most XY persons feel like for the vast majority of women, no risk taking, no senseless boyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:57 PM
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My OP was asking how society, culture, dating market and beauty ideal would change if there were different norms. Where men would not have to comply with current heteronorms (homonorms as alternative), to fulfill the need of validation, social status and expectations associated with performance, masculinity and the like, or at least those heteronorms would not be in conflict with the idea that two perfectly healthy heterosexual men can have a healthy and mutually satisfying sex with each other. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:40 AM
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In this traditional household, ten years and eight children down the line, would your wife have to ask you to watch the kids on your day off so she could get some alone time? Would you be okay being woken up in the middle of the night? If she has issues with managing the home, why did we make a second child? Because you work 72 hours a week, do you think it’s fair that when you come home you can just rest and relax until it’s time for bed? Should the kids wake you up? Is it okay to come home to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:59 AM
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You mean we as men get to make wishlists of what we want in our partner? Damn, that's fun. I mean a black girl that is shorter than me, with soft but perky tits would be nice. If I could chose, small pussy, but not too sensitive because I like like it rough but don't want her to hurt. Small white girl booty as well if possible, although that's pushing it if combined with the soft tits. Kind eyes maybe. I knew a Armenian girl with super cool green eyes. She should smile a lot, be easy to please a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:44 AM
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They can now go on a yacht, at some exclusive party, or enjoy an extravagant lifestyle from the click of a button. I don't think it's the lifestyle they get to "enjoy" on that yacht, but ok. Now, almost any pretty woman can do this for almost ZERO effort. Oh, it takes a lot of effort to get on that yacht my dude. A LOT of effOrt. Why settle for some Jeremy in your biology class when 31 year old Michele Morrone is dming you after seeing how hot you looked because most girls are pussies, and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:28 AM
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It might seem like it, but no. As someone that usually had more girl friends growing up than male friends - it's different communication levels. Especially gamer / nerd crowds are super finicky and sensitive - more so than the average woman. As a relatively fit guy - very few women will start judging me, or calling me politically incorect - especially here in eastern europe. But men - holy fuck - they took these norms and apply them liberally like it's the 10 commandments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:13 AM
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Relationship sex, where you have to ask for it, and be turned down is degrading for men - even if society doesn't tell you that. It's like being told you're fat most times you ask or make yourself a bit pretty. Sex is a bonding behavior and it's the main source of physical affection men are receptive to naturally. We need that body, we need for you to moan our name and radiate that feminine energy that powers up our will and fire. Being told no, or made to feel like that fire is a chore as meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:57 AM
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if she was hit up in the DMs by a celebrity but then the celebrity moved on to another person without a date happening I know 2 girls that had this happen to them, they still think they are hot shit because one banged a famous DJ and the other was invited to a very exclusive party by a dude in Nice. As a man, there's only 2 levels, can you get it, or nah. I can't imagine self defining myself based on how hot a girl that let me in is. I mean you are happy, sometimes can't shake your grin off your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:46 AM
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While I think kids have always been kids, I think the issue is Gen X, they have not established any values to pass along,t here are no standards, there's no: this is the right path in the digital age. Everything we generated as a culture in the last 20 years is some form of: ok, do what you want, just don't bother mommy, she is having her wine time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:38 AM
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Are you friends with many cripples then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:32 AM
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I think most women feel men are complete mysteries and have a deep fascination on how men work. The twats on social that say they know men, are twats and only really know the superficial aspects of men as in how it relates to them and their booty's magnetism. Once the magnetism wears off, the men leave and she is left thinking they left for another booty, because why else would a man leave a twat like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:25 AM
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oh, got it. Then why aren't you doing the things that make them attracted instead of worrying about them being attracted despite you not being attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:22 AM
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I think there's 2 factors - the male brain's tendency to hyper focus on very particular stuff. The more you dwell into your field, the more you want to dwell into it more. And the increasingly limited time you have for those hype focusing exercises. With a girl lady hanging out all day around you needing to be entertained or filling you brain with all sorts of mundane stuff and conversation - I would guess time will be at a premium and as you do the sex more and the nerdy less, your dopamine pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:17 AM
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I think we're using different definitions for "interesting". Interesting is related to conversational skills, wit and wisdom. Think of it this way. If you are stuck in a elavator for 5 hours with that person and you feel the time passed you by easily - that's a interesting person. She can be the pretties girl in the world, shit ain't gonna be fun just because you like to stare at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:06 AM
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Obvious joke, not obvious enough. Sure, will pull it back, thank you for just the warning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:58 AM
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What? How is someone with a fun personality necessarily interesting? What does wanting to go partying with someone, or traveling, or exploring your deepest darkest - make them interesting. Quite the opposite, if you talk to fun people, you'll see they are significantly more boring as people, than a wallflower. That's why they do fun stuff constantly - they are super bored with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:25 PM
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Have you seen gay neibourhoods, they are fabulous - and they always get the large apartments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:22 PM
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Are you a statistic or a person? But is it really given biologically in men? And if not, how would society be different if men were as fluid or even more fluid than women? That's basically my line of thinking. Well - I don't think fluidity is real. I think fluidity as a concept exists only if we define sexual expression as interlinked with relationship gendered expression. Without the thesis - men are supposed to have relationships with women - the concept of but what if we want to just fuck - l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:25 PM
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But a hand is a hand, a mouth is a mouth, an ass is an ass. that's the premise of someone on the spectrum. In reality - if all things were equal, no man would go on a second date and just save all the jumping and go to the nearest prostitute. The person matters more than the holes. I would go even further, the energy that person gives you, matters more than the person and their hole. There were cultures where children were allowed to have sex, children participated in sexual activities, and it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:24 PM
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I think women hate to know that the charming confident guy is not real. They hate to think they have been swindled into giving the sex to a loser. That's the repulsive quality of Pick Up. While the mainstream just loves to shit on men that try. We respect the victor, but laugh at the loser that stays after practice or doesn't drink to keep his macros in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:11 PM
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Go for vs are attracted to, are different things. 2 phenomenon here - speaking as a very masculine presenting man, that has "dated" gen z girls. Gen z girls need high energy and constant high energy. Most boys can't deliver that unless they are players. Young girls, in general are much more fearful of high masculine strangers - especially if they grew up with a creepy stepdad or have had some early trauma. They are attracted to them, but that also makes them feel like they lack the control and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:06 PM
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So liking dick is a choice now? Damn, I though conversion therapy was wrong and being gay wasn't a choice, turns out evanghelicalz were the wokest of among us. Honestly - If I could get satisfaction from dudes, I would not even talk to women. Seriously, galls are kind sweet and squishy - but they are boring as fuck. I think 3 out of 100 ideas or sentences I hear out of women are not something I have already read somewhere before. Seriously, if I'd find guys as cute, they would hands down be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:45 AM
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Chad is the easy going nature of the satisfied male brain. You don't care, you know you can handle whatever life throws at you, you like the good vibes and that makes you awesome. You sculpt your body with weights, and offer it to the female worshipers as sacrifice for their efforts in being presentable and hot. You are chill with all kinds, kind to all that are chill, but don't respect and give your time to the negative nancies. Life comes in many forms, you need to decide to spend time only wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:41 AM
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Women's libido, like their opinions change to match that of a guy they want to keep, respect and value. Get yourself a virgin, try secondary school, raise her to be your arse licking slut and then keep her for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:34 AM
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She thinks a man wanting her is a harmful, selfish behavior and an evil attitude. The primary difference between feminine women and unsocialized women is in how they see male aggression, sexual male aggression specifically. Normal women understand that when most normal non-psychopatic men want you, they want to shower you with kisses, spoil you, make you cum 10 times a night and then bring you chocolate. Unsocialized women only see the initial stages of sexual aggression, and have read on the vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:31 AM
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We just use the same generalizations a ladies' show or ladies' mag uses. Is it rude, yeah. But if you think it's anything worse than a strong black woman calling out she has options - you are saying something about your own self. Well they are - if you are arguing women should not be attracted to status signifiers - go argue with the women that do that all day every day and don't date scrubs. Agreed. I mean, most women would crush them - so they are right. Women are not kind to low self esteem m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:22 AM
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The truth is, this is a huge misinterpretation of "objectification". The point of an object is that it cannot consent nor refuse anything. It exists as a thing. It does not have opinions about others or what others do to it. This occurs because women that talk about objectification have not been objectified and do not know how men actually work. When you are horny, when you are in that state of thinking of your partner as a warm hole - you aren't thinking of inanimate holes. Arguably you can't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:03 AM
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Well it's more of a "i'm not like the other guys zone" and men put themselves in it themselves. Sure social ques count, but essentially women are open to any and all social contacts. Unsocialized men, will see this as romantic interest. Unsocialized women will see kind men as "this guy thinks I am smart, I like him, I want more friend time with him". Now, in a conservative country or among socialized boys and girls - red pill truths aren't covered with feel good bullshit. It is implied that a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:54 AM
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In the early days of feminist watchdogs I witnessed a discussion between a nice gal and a feminist jorno. Jorno was arguing about something being subversive misoginy and the gal was saying, I don't think so, I think it's just guys having fun and it's so silly that it's more funny and a common sense argument against mysoginistc attitudes (I think it was about female body armour in VG or something inane like that). Then the jorno got her degree out and puffed her authority saying: she is uneducate…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:41 AM
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Women don't know what they want until they get it, and realize they like it. Topic is over from my point of view - and this is the only red pill truth on the topic. The rest are just blue pill lamentations based on a model of female rationality that doesn't exist for the most part. Most women, get into relationships or start having affection for a man, only after they actually talk and spend time toghether. Women are not men, their hamster doesn't spin just because they saw some abs. That's perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:30 AM
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Thing is - I can see both angles - your relationship wants are very personal - I find it fucked up that as a society we think we can set standards on what, who or how often a person fucks. They are just 2 things so different that it makes absolutely no sense to my brain in using social norms for your most private and personal indulgence. But, on the other hand, I grew up seeing a lot of men justify clearly manipulative women - and not the manipulation you think - the benign manipulation like tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:12 AM
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Sure, keep telling yourself that while never actually propositioning anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:10 PM
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Hyperbole. you have the mindset of a fat girl that can't get dick on delivery
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:25 PM
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The thing is - she is not your friend. There are friendly girls, but usually around hot guys. I had this girl friend that had a childhood friend orbiter. And she was telling me, what a nice guy he is and how she wished he could find someone. I gave her the name of her very single and very pick me friend and told her too hook them up. She was appalled - looking for excuses. She ended up later that year introducing him to his very overweight cousin. Because that felt more like "his type". Another …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:27 AM
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Because conflict is silly. (noticed your tag so I'll be more overt than coloquially acceptable - appologies to anyone else reading this as it might sound psychopatic) It's about what you get out of the interaction. It's game theory done instantly at a subconscious level. You have a man with 2 ladies. They both have a grievance(which is different than a concern). One complains in a bratty playful way, the other pulls out a serious "we need to talk". You play the 2 games: one with a baby girl - da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:03 AM
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I think you're a bit on the spectrum and it's a weasel argument to say: mah preference. Real people don't argue their personal choices. Especially "confident" people. That's kind of how you come across as confident, you make a call and don't leave wiggle room or negotiations. Just this morning I heard a girl say: Men with big dicks(energy) never call women sluts. Now - we as men, know that's not true - but what is true is that confident guys don't sit there and argue, they just make a call when …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:40 AM
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All that she describes is men that aren't working within the social confines of her world. That is the flavor of "no pussy" because a man that knows how to navigate the world and is aware of how the world percieves him will imediatly resolve or work towards resolving those issues. That's the thing man - you are just a fat woman that can't get no dick and thinks dick should just come to them because they exist. The world doesn't work like that. You must work within the world and then you won't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:28 AM
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Shut up, you know that was funny :)_P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:08 PM
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Red pill standard is we love sluts. It was anyway. THat's like how we sharpen our teeth. There is no rule against having a LTR with a slut, it's just cautious to be aware that higher impulsivity and more excitability implies you have to be much stronger in your frame. That is the TRP break down in between men. They are no different than a conservative cocky russian hotmess or a bratty virgin, you keep her around as long as she plays nice and treats you well. When she stops, her N-count doesn't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:07 PM
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it was a joke. Relax, you're being a lesbian right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:02 PM
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And bisexuals get ignored as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:58 PM
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Some of you have partners who I assume are on board with your RP ideas? Do they know? no, but they sure as shit love the results. I can not even count the number of women that love to just be around me, that say that I am one of the last few men left, that they wish more men were like me, or their husband was more like me. When you unlock your masculinity and stop being ashamed to be a man, stop trying to be more talkative, more feminine, more attentive - beautiful things happen. What you see he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:56 PM
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There's crying and vulnerability and then there's weakness and defeat. First one is actually like catnip. The latter, is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:46 PM
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OMG, why would men not want to feel like a loser and be belittled by the person they trust the most and should make them feel safe and secure - such pussies. I started out this RP journey by going after independent women. 50-50. I saw way to many men put down their life, dreams and joy just to be the man their ladies needed, no wanted, no, wrong again - just simply demanded. I went into dating with the feminist conviction that women are just normal people like you and me, and if a lady asks me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:00 PM
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I think they shame them for being proud of having experiences. (excluding the retards that are intimidated even by women that go out regularly and the man whores like me that love sluts) most red pill men on the practical sense, think it's very wierd for a woman to brag about experiences and how "liberated" they are. A woman fucking is not a show of strenght or value - it's a show of being conquered. And it's not even out of prudishness. Show those men a porn star or a girl that fucks like her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:41 PM
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Not pittet against each other in a moralistic sense, but I do think they are incompatible. I don't think you can be naive and idealistic after you had a good raunchy time. And I do think that that idealization is negesary to think of relationship sex as being your whole world. Secondly - I think a relationship only works if it is the goal. If you are steadfast in your comitment. This is why I have little to no respect for blue pillers - people that would want fun sex life, but think a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:59 AM
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I agree - but I think you are pushing some moral judgement of your own. Is sex as fun a objective value judgement or is sex as a layer of bonding and relationship the main value addition to a person's life? Romantics(blue pillers that don't have access to a lot of sexual options) and conservatives (for what it's worth) would argue for the latter - with degrees of tolerance for a libertine society. Which came first the chicken or the egg? Do we raise the fun value of sex because we are a society …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:50 AM
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I don't think people can avoid bonding over sex, especially after the first few times they have it. ANd breaking that bond, sometimes within the first few minutes after popping - leaves a void inside us all. I think men have it easier in that sense, but like most things, it's a switch. Men after around 7 partners, especially short term turn into cold fuckboys that don't care or trust a woman they fuck. But they still can bond. They still can lead and offer support, comfort and warmth - they just…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:27 AM
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I mean - being hot makes it easier. And if they had a lot of short term partners, my guess is they weren't engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:19 AM
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It is because you can really tell what a person is like in a relationship based on the dynamic of their parent's relationship or their lack thereof Oh, yes you definetly can. If she has not seen her dad be worthy of love, or her mom loving and caring for her dad - she will have absolutely no insight on what a healthy loving exchange is like. Maybe she will idealize romance novels and think she needs to be served, or porn flix and think she shows all her love by serving, but will have no idea how…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:18 AM
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Not all men get to be promiscuous, but good job trying to argue that men are like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:15 AM
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The only submissive wife/dominant husband relationship I’ve ever been exposed to was one where the wife had to literally call her husband at work to get permission to turn the house temperature up in the winter. Because it's a economic decision - if you think raising the temperature is unconsequential you are a child. Or child-like, like a lot of young people. And the most successful relationships I’ve seen have always been equal partnerships like my parents. Happy for them - but do you think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:13 AM
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Let's be honest, bars and nightclubs are filled with trashy women they aren't, but ok. With bars and nightclubs crossed off the list, post college men don't really have great options. There's online dating, which has very unfavorable gender ratios for men. There's cold approaching, which is generally a social faux pas in places where alcohol isn't being served. There's Church, but if you aren't a Christian, you're shit outta luck. Workplace dating is risky if you even happen to be in a field tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:08 AM
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I think media serves the ego of the reader. And women's ego is just more fragile in general. They know they need to change. They are actually begging for a smartly dressed well put together man to tell them to shut up and behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:02 AM
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namely a traditional relationship Middle american 20th century evanghelical household. In most post agricultural societies - and even some industrialized agricultural society women were not just sitting pretty and doing housechore. They were working. Stop it with this idealization of the lady of the house - it sounds retarded for any non-american middle class person hearing it. In traditional cultures men are obsessed with patrilinear continuity. Your arguments are from the angle of man-child to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:00 AM
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straw man much? Listen mate - ugly men fuck women all day, every day. Stop with the fucking exceptionalism. Women fuck to have fun and have the impulse control of a kid in a candy shop. You just aren't there when they get the itch and when you are, you are wierd and keep repeating "truths" to them, thinking somehow you will find a self aware woman that will just tell you you are right, women are bad, and they all deserve to spank them and you should start with them there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:59 PM
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Yes, because I don't go for try to get employed at google or tesla. See as a older millenial, the internet was a avenue of finding out niche people, topics and ideas. But something happened for the crowd that came online after 2008, when google personalized search and defacto became the arbitrary provider of internet information. Everyone, older and younger became exposed to the same shit, the same attitudes, the same beliefs(heavily skewed ones at that). Instead of people enhancing themselves w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:22 AM
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I don't think winning a meme war is a good thing, nor does it mean you are right. I mean - fuck, it just means you have a lot more time on your hands tbh. Ever got in a meme war with a boomer with paint skills, they are relentless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:13 AM
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I would say passive men have a harder time overall. THe thing is women don't see you romantically until you push and force them to make a call on whether they want to or not. It's easier to find a wife that cheats than it is to find a single woman that is proactively asking men to fuck or date. If you understand that. You got half the pill down and it's just refining your job application from there on our. Or knocking on your neighbor's door while her husband is at work, to ask for the vacuum cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:11 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:08 AM
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Trust me - as painful as this is to hear - as long as you look like a woman and are fuckable most men with an erection can't give any less of a shit about your make up. Be sensual, tactile and loving, and you can be a inanimate robot girl, and you'll still be a top tier date. There's the performative part of gender - and there's the sexual polarity part. A teen modeling in her panties and playing the "oups, I really hope there's no big bad man to take me" to the camera, is a socialized behavior …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:59 AM
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Sure, but it's not cheating until it's disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:29 PM
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Compared to europe, yes. Compared to Nepal, probly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:27 PM
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I think there'd just be more immigration There was, until politicians realized that only creates more problems and stopped it. Yes, when talking about structural shifts it requires cultural, then political shifts and social adaptations - that's the whole point. Social engieneering is hard. But it's easier to adapt than to plan something that can ruin us. I don't entirely agree with this, frustrated people are frustrated for a reason, it has a real basis, they didn't just make up things to be ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 AM
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Courtship? Mate, people have fun in life. A relationship is not a commitment to the other's smallest insecurity. You can be unlovable, you can be unbearable - you can be wrong and the way you feel to be fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:33 AM
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I mean - I think the more schizoid a society is and the more we teach girls to avoid boys because they all r@pists, the more those needs will just boil under pressure, in between crime podcasts and continuous news of SA - they kinda fetishize it and become prime targets for the rude boy slapping their arse in the club in a dark corner and awakening all those pent-up feelings in one bold gesture. I don't think the number of psychos is increasing, I think it's just easier and easier to be successf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:00 AM
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sure seems like it, but I doubt population control is the reason. It's consumer based economics. 2 young single people spending most of their time working, and then spending money is better for economic output.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:56 AM
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Kinda agree, but I would change it to naivete rather than standards. Look, men need to bust. It's not a want. The issue is women and society convinced men that female attention or being considered is a proxy for getting the bust. It's not. Subscribe to her OF, buy that bag, take her to dinner, but only after she finishes the job. Otherwise you're just played.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:54 AM
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Finding a funny girl that doesn't want much out of live, and making her the happiest girl in the world. Changing cities every few months. Making memories and friends together with OF money. Settle for a kind handicapper that is attractive, that is just happy to have found me and relocating to some village in the middle of nowhere, preferably with a nice view and growing old together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:51 AM
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Maybe the reason women don't trust women is that they know just how poorly women manage shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:39 AM
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Some would say that's just the implied cupcake at the end of a meal in a older diner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:37 AM
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I mean, it's not. What you are concerned about is her disrespect. You just lack the language to tell what that pit-in-stomach feeling is. It's someone you care deeply for, not respecting you and your status in their life and in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:35 AM
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She is telling you how to lie to her. Problematic family - here's why I think my mom is overbearing, don't be overbearing. Low self-esteem - wow, I love girls that don't know how hot they are, you turn me on so much, just sitting there, it's not even funny. Fidelity - I had a possessive ex, we're young, let's just enjoy life and not judge one another, the world does that enough. What do you think of that cute waitress? These are chad tests. She wants to relieve the fuckery of her past with you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:32 AM
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Low birth rate isn't that bad outside of a pyramid scheme tax code and pension program. It would be easier if politicians would just to better maths and stop promising money from the future. Better divorced than miserable in a family. Gender war is a social construct fueled by media and frustrated fucktards. None of the shit on jezebel or the daily beast matters to your life, right now. You choose to let it occupy your mind. Last 2 points contradict one another, how is raising a child single dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:28 AM
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THat's the traditional woman for ya fellas. A reminder, most divorces come from conservative women, because thots don't really marry. Overwhelmingly alimony r@pes come from stay at home wifes after long term marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:06 AM
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I wouldn't sacrifice for my country - why are these women not sacrificing for their country :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:04 AM
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Bro went to japanese mamasan and dropped a full bottle of reds instead of blue dragons. It's quite shocking when you find out how female attraction looks like, how it makes you feel and realize - WOMEN HAVE THE ABILITY TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THAT... Then you realize, the women you respect, treated as well as you could your whole life, tried to communicate and understand could make you feel that way with minimal effort, they just don't give a crap about you, or how YOU feel. And it's not that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:28 PM
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Well submissive doesn't mean person with no boundaries, it means that her boundaries and requirements are are communicated from the position of a submissive and respected by me, instead of enforced by her. I.e. she expects me to lead, propose, initiate, push and demand. She on the other hand enforces her accepts by reacting to my pushing by following, considering proposals, conceding to my pushes and executing my demands if she wills it and desires. And if not, she signals that my request crosse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:06 PM
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I mean - I don't wanna say they are wrong. But I have met an absurd amount of unsocialized millenial women, and most gen Z women have never been socialized and struggle with even basic social processes. I doubt they could ever navigate a relationship beyond being pressed for sex with minimal conversation and actual socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:42 AM
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(answering as if I answer the other side's entitlement claim) I mean - why are you there then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:36 AM
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Funny how we live in a society where kids are responsible for relationships and sexual developement but we agree they are too dumb to make driving decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:34 AM
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Kinda - as a 5'6 manlet - I think the issue isn't that women won't fuck shot guys, it's that when women are in the "selection decision making process" like on tinder, like in clubs, like at work in a large company - it's like when they have to pick where to go out to eat. They will never pick McDonalds. But if you put cold fries and mayo in front of them she will stuff her face. I think women are gaslight on how capable they are at making decisions rationally. While men are gaslight to think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:32 AM
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The mistake is not bangin them, we all need to bang. It's like taking a taste. The mistake is sticking to it, and doubling down after the crazy shows up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:18 AM
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I think the summary is: I wanna do what I wanna do, even if that makes me unhappy, as a modern man/woman raised in self esteem culture, trying and failing is worse than never having any win at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:15 AM
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I think you said something crucial... being pro one gender. That is such a fucked up way of thinking about society, when we live in the best world that ever existed. And we created that world by removing differences and designing society for all out of principle, not creating legal particulars for one group. Because think of what any provision that is "pro group X" is. It is inherently a constraint or an obligation on all others outside of that group. If your particular cohort isn't mentioned or…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:00 AM
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Yeah, kids grew up in isolation of other people, and especially the other sex. They grew up surrounded by their own doubts, with people of the same mindset and comparing themselves with idealized social media accounts. It's weird talking to early 20 somethings. Unless you talk like a social media post, reciting truisms, they kinda have a hard time conversating and giving personal takes or experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:41 AM
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Nah, that's just what online dudes dream of. Once you get to fucking you realize, the barrier of getting it up is lower, and the way they talk, suck and touch you is more important than how they look from a perfect angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:38 AM
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And bullying is a female problem, but we aint gonna spank a bitch in public to solve that passive aggressive socially tolerable agression
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:36 AM
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I don't think that pregnancy or disease is that big of a concern once you get into the lifestyle. It's hedonistic man, it's not meant to be safe and planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:55 PM
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And here I am fucking armenian girls with fuzzy pussies and stretchmarks. Well, fuck me, I guess I don't count as a man anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:53 PM
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How did you draw those conclusions from that text. Ok, here's the thing. For most women, great sex is sex where they feel raw male lust and passion fueling him. Her insecurities and neuroticism melts away when she feels herself as being used by a uninhibited animal. That's great sex. That's why they stay with the arsehole that thinks eating pussy is gay. It's an energy exchange. Now, as a society we insist on thinking women are just men with different body parts. And as such we push sex to mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:52 PM
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It's non-confrontational and a defensive posturing ensuring only arseholes will turn you away when in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:40 PM
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Height - smaller than me - forehead kisses are fun. Income - doesn't matter - as long as she understands the value of the money she has - that's what matters. She can be rich, but if she thinks interest is something you earn for not spending your money, she can go back to the casino. Race: black Body type: fuckable. Preference for tall and lanky. But honestly, it doesn't matter, all women are the hottest person you have ever seen when you're going hog wild. House - doesn't matter - I mean it's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:38 PM
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I don't feel magnetism Then leave - nothing worth exploring, it's just a friendish situationship then. Just wish people weren't monsters If he is abusing you, definetly leave. But not acting how you want - is not abusive, nor does it make him a monster. been traumatized by a lot more Ever though why this corelates so much with non-binary people? It's as if - people that are just accepting and don't have a stable world view tend to not process emotions and conflict in a healthy manor. Wether I be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:11 PM
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Like most peoplE here you way overestimate the extent to which the average American cares about feminism. It's not about caring - it's about control over social norms. You have issues, the only real avenue to look for help is a therapist that tells you to cut your balls and listen and believe whatever the wife is complaining about. Show me any alternative to that - and I will retract my statement. Maybe a evangelical minister that gets super involved with his parish, but even then it's happy wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:49 PM
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Well not all your partners will be nice and kind - that's where some judgement comes into play. You select what man's life you become part of - but the solution isn't to fight that urge to become part of someone's life. ut involves both of us respecting each other enough to not hurt the other person and also learning about each other and growing in terms of emotional connection and emotional intelligence. So you find someone you love, then ask them to change into someone else - definetly makes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:27 AM
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Because not all men are equal. And they not only know it, they feel it every time they hit a issue, their inate instinct is to go cry to daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:15 AM
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I think the biggest factor in insecurity - and the boystorous overcompensating is the expectancy that children are full adults that can decide for themselves. You don't really have the ability to make something of yourself and it's all just social play pretend. Combined with the hyperawareness and your brained being geared to get feedback at a neurotic rate and you have a recipe of neuroticism, where any decision is super important while giving only superficial feedback because there's no real c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:15 AM
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Or maybe your world view isn't meant for the relationship with this guy. This is a story as old as time - women are psychologically malleable and over sensitive to cues because you have the ability to mold to someone's life. Guess what - that's literally what a good relationship is - growth together. Them shifting their life to accommodate you, you growing your values to include theirs. (note: this is not tick for tack - a confident man that has his shit toghether, won't change their world view …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:01 AM
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Exactly - everyone is a silent sunburnt dirty skinny starving bitch - you want the round pale with some buns and a princess attitude. Everyone is a healthy-at-every-size (as long as the size isn't skinny) bossbitch, independent, loud feminist - that conservative wallflower with a eating disorder looks pretty tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:57 AM
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It's a game, you fucking muppet! Stop taking tinder so damn serious. Women can love and hate you and then love you again within 30 minutes based on just what you say or how you touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:53 AM
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But this idea that people struggle so hard to commit to monogamy is totally exaggerated, or the belief of very young people who haven’t matured yet or experienced being in love. There are different types of relationships under the monogamy banner. The issue is that you can have a genuinely horrendous relationship, yet because it's LTR - it get's treasured and defended. And what's even more fucked up - the ones that do try to redefine what a GOOD monogamous relationship is - are feminists that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:51 AM
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Who is happier, the one that chooses between 3 potato dishes for dinner or those that choose between 50 options of different costs? Poverty is a inverse of economic freedom. Choice. However happiness is a inverse of choice and relative happiness. You can be poor and happy if you don't have any choice and nobody else has any choice either. Such is life - nobody actually complains about living till 85 - because very few people live to 110. But everyone seems to think 50 is too early to die, despit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:39 AM
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I would argue lack of physical fitness is the most important factor. Men can not fuck, even fit men with abs, have the resilience of a fat kid at disneyland. (yeah, yeah - women aren't all that either, but even the worst harpy calms down enough to be livable with after a good fuck)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:18 AM
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You have no idea what masculine is. Want masculine - Mr. Nobody. You know what the role of the family is for the MC? At first it pacifies him, and then it's a vulnerability he sends away. All those movies are for women and soyboys. Those movies define masculinity as an act. As a pretense. That's the underlying tone - those men are just children that need to grow up. There's no point in pursuing your own masculine identity - it's just ego - the real point of life is to find a nice girl and get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:14 AM
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Have you had those feelings and those issues with other people? Because, honestly - it sounds like your issue is that you want to have regular relationships, but somehow conform with neu-gender rules. The whole point of gendered roles is that there's no negotiation and communication required as most give and take's are already implied. If you want your relationship to work based on new rules, you need to have that conversation and tell him - it's not ok to presume things will go down the sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:10 AM
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Choosing the option that doesn’t sacrifice pleasure is still a choice. That's a kink - understimulating your dick is not sex, it's a kink. If men have no choice but to cheat then I don’t get what the point of vetting men would be. I didn't say cheat - You presume that every time a gal flaps her eyelashes at a dude, he gets to score. You have to know that's not true. it sounds like men don’t deserve to be trusted ever In the sense that incel ladies think of men - some magical asexual beings that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:01 AM
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If you don't understand the impact you can have over women, it means you just never had a woman put her life in your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:55 AM
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but it is also chemically .... And stop. We're talking about feeling, how you experience and live life, not dissecting frogs. People do not analyse their way through life, and it's a miopic way to live. You experience life, you feel it with others and rejoice in that experience. Some are just casual hookups with wiskey dick and laughs. Others are hours of slow lovemaking with a girl that looks at you like you're the most pretious thing in the world with her. Sure, it's brain chemistry - both the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:52 PM
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How's it feel to never have had the confidence of a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:48 PM
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How the hell are you comparing 1990's whore prices with 2025 dating prices :) Hos are more expensive and what type of dinner and drinks are you having for $300?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:00 AM
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You had me up until you said goddess. Yes, standard people can be attractive - but you sir, you are not attracted to your wife, you see her as a source of sex and feminine energy - and in actually depersonalized. I truly believe you don't know how fucked up this is - and you will be very happy pressing the button, twisting the nipple and kissing commencing - but your wife feels that you don't see her as a whole person and aren't actually fucking her the person when you're bumping the uglies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:56 AM
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His female colleague that told him to not be a nasty judgmental man with conventional standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:52 AM
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Fuckable - not pretty - just not ugly. And under the fuckable definition, it also implies a loving attitude and sensual disposition. Which is much more important than our culture - with all the varied tribes and subcultures - ignores. A slutty attitude in private(what you do in public for all to see is just attention whoring) more than makes for any small insecurities that women often fixate about, which a man might not even notice, and a horny man won't ever care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:51 AM
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Sex is just adult fun. Rethink all of this bullshit narrative you have built around it. Sex is not some magical communion of souls, nor it should be all the time. Would you want your child to be insecure, frightened and have a important part of their life lacking - or would you want them to live the best life they can have, especially in one of the few avenues that actually makes us feel connected and seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:47 AM
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I think you don't know how cruel you can be as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:44 AM
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Why is politeness the social norm? Because living in a society where everyone does what they want and says what they want is collectively worse place to live in. Imagine a world where all men would whore around - you think you're insecure now when your girl goes pass the big bouncer, imagine a world where he can just fuck the random while his boys keep you down. Think AMOGing is bad in clubs, I'm in Paris right now, the amount of flexiing these new generations of PUAs is doing is retarded. Afew …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 07:41 AM
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We view them too bitter and entitled. A conservative minded early 20 something has more energy, enthusiasm and is just easier to be around for long periods of time. There's a lot of things going for a more mature established woman - I generally prefer them for anything short term or casual, but without a good attitude, none of them make it worth it in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:35 AM
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Because all young people are depressed helpless weaklings? Pardon sir, you do not speak for any poor person that had to work to get enough free time so they can complain on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:30 AM
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Being horny is not a choice and there's no real options yet that doesn't sacrifice one's own pleasure. When it comes to a pretty woman, definitely don't trust men to make choices. Always have your home girl vet your relationships, you ca not think straight when your dick is in some girls hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:29 AM
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Everything you see is fabricated, it's not 2002 anymore, please be more aware that all this is a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:26 AM
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I don't want equality, that's silly. I don't have ovaries, and I do have a higher sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:25 AM
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I agree, but why does anyone have to do mandatory military service? Because a standing army is the 18th century nuke. You have a standing army because if you don't have one, you're one stupid diplomatic incident away from invasion. Not effective in the age of nukes, and kinda silly in the age of international treaties, but it is a diplomatic ballsack that is better to have, than to not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:15 PM
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Buzzfeed however is jur recycling talking points from real sociology studies and rethoric. Behind the ludacrous click bait - there are literal scholars that think staying at home is a masochistic endeavor because modern women hate themselves or that a man looking at a woman lustfully(even when is is buttnaked by her own choice) - is him pushing his male privilege in our patriachal society onto her, and intentionally making her feel like a object to be used by his pleasure. Don't get me wrong, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:13 PM
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Who said abortion is a problem - I love abortions, best $300 you will even spend. I even pay for taxi and chocolates after. Of course I don't wear condoms, that's why I pay for the abortion. It's only right if I enjoy myself I pay for the inconvenience. You still limit your options by choosing the wrong women to pursue. Actually a serious point ; Nope, you pursue all women, only the slutty ones say yes. What can you do? Not have sex? Wait 3 months for a kiss - like the femtards are advocating re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:08 PM
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Actually a millenial but sure - dismiss any criticism because you might cry in front of your crush if you reflect on it more than 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:05 PM
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YES - because equal rights doesn't mean men are the same as women! It doesn't mean men aren't better suited for combat, that military moral and camaraderie goes to shit when you add women and that women can not psysically keep up in a combat situation. Men are not women. Stop the ludicrous sophistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:04 PM
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Nothing happens without a man’s consent (I would hope). So yeah, men allowing their dick to slip in someone, is definitely their fault That is hilarious - you know why - because it satirizes a normal state of nature. Men would fuck anything if horny enough. Sorry, but you're really trying to force a men are just like women argument - that is hilariously off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:02 PM
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“superficial reasons” such as a guy becoming too beta I think that's a major reason. And potentially the only reason besides lifestyle changes or stuff like that. So, speaking as someone that does the blindsighting - the thing is - chemistry needs to be maintain. And if you let routines cover your schedule as if you are single, you basically move that relationship into that of roomates. And no, there's no - 2 month or 2 year slump, there's no "but we're friends now". That's just coping. It takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:13 AM
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Go to a gay club. There is no woman on earth as judgy as a gay dude looking to score.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:08 AM
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She literally did. SAHM is a lifestyle goal of modern post industrial evanghelical women. It's like the boss bitch of today. It's a projection. If you have that particular fetish, sure, it can be satisfying. Until you get into something else aspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:06 AM
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There is zero reason to believe that strangers would be less likely to assault you if you gave them the same amount of opportunity. Literally the law and basic human empathy - but fuck what a messed up world you live in if you genuinely think there's predators lurking outside ready to pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:04 AM
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Sex is about power, it's a validation that you have arrived, you are the man / woman. Because women are gatekeepers, a good man, is a man that has a lot of legs open for him. Because men have higher sexual appetite, a good woman is a woman that can keep the dude locked in and from straying. That's what get's your endorphins pumping. Can a man feel like the dude, without legs opening up left right and center? Sure. Can a woman feel like a woman despite her man sliping in between legs left right a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:02 AM
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I think the waters have been intentionally muddied by propagandists. R is very rare, mostly done by relatives and when the victim is unconscious. SA can be literally anything and is a term that is primarily used as a decency norm, to keep women in mixed spaces feeling safe. This means that to fullfill that function the terms needs to cover anything that is beyond the comfort zone of the most neurotic woman (or man actually - as most work related impropriety reports seem to be done by overeager m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:55 AM
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All this stems from the expectation that willingness to have sex - implies the responsibility of the consequence. It doesn't, abortion is a thing. Birth control is more used than coffee. Childbearing is 100% choice. And not one the man has any control over - beyond not having sex. So - sorry, but when one gender is literally raised to manage their fertility and the other's only option is to not have sex, you are drawing some might convenient logical lines, just to argue men are responsible becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:47 AM
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all modern dating is mediated by extremely efficient algorithms like Tinder. No, Tinder is not as common as you might think. The inevitable result is that the top men receive almost all the attention while the rest are largely ignored. Meanwhile, women are flooded with sexual opportunities and fewer long-term prospects. This has always been the case. THe average girl just didn't get a chance to have a go at the prince poney show before the digital age. Hypergamy is a sociological behavior, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:40 AM
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Women from Reddit always say that they like sex as much as men but what they dont understand is that they're a really small minority concentrated in the same place. This is obviously not true in real life, all you have to do is go on any dating app and see how thirsty dudes are and how many matches/messages women get from men. Women talk about subjective specifics, that they extrapolate to. Women when they say they like humor, they mean they like their man - no any man, their specific man they l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:12 AM
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Mate, I used to agree with you - but then I went to sweden. Femininsm has none of that Americunt shit. That is the mental illness that is the american higher education system and the activists it collected and the acolytes in journalism and media that they have trained. Old school liberal feminists from France to the middle east are genuinely concerned mainstream feminism is giving voice to what are essentially mentally ill women. As for your issue with not finding any good woman - it's because …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 AM
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They literally confirmed in their last comment they think self improvement messaging makes women insecure. I think you are insisting on saving this point. Can we agree self improvement messaging doesn't make people insecure then? It should be easy if it's a mute point. And I am talking about messaging, not social media comparisons. And I am talking about healthy people, not people that are already insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:22 AM
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It's not hygiene either ironically, but I agree - for some reason hygiene is seen as self improvement :D But hey - it just lowers the bar for retards I guess. I have seen dudes close just because she liked how they smelled. All things being equal that dude should not have gotten the girl that night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:20 AM
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100%, I am in Paris right now and everyone is so classy and fuckable. And as a consequence - much more open to talk to people, have relations and be chill about it. Being desirable is core to a healthy human development - it's so fucked up that we prefer to keep people in a child like wonder about how special they are and all that matters is on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:17 AM
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Notice the use of the word "wanted" and not good looking or doctors? You must be living in a city then :) I agree - city "alphas" don't marry in general. But when they do, they get a nice hot young thing and settle too greener pastures. As for the legacy betas start - I'll leave that as a secret between the wifes and their lovers See, you seem to ignore 2 core concepts of the sexual market: Choice and hypergamy that results from that choice. If you don't have choice - if you feel like you got lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:15 AM
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Being single is empowering, and you can divorce at any time, yet also choosing the right person is the most important decision ever and you should never lower standards (which creates lots of stress) I think single people say a lot of crazy shit, anything almost just to not look in the mirror. Men claim to want trad women but also expect them to behave like porn actresses. I don't think they are the same men that say those 2 things. Having sex is not a big thing if there is consent, but also som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:09 PM
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I don't think womankind cares about children as much as you think. I think they are more concerned to have the ability to scratch the mothering itch, more than how healthy or safe that child grows up to be. Women - all women - see having a child as a fundamental right, a gender right - that elevates them from the baren male sex. How they actually define that right - varies based on political and religious beliefs, but you will find that they see having a child as a very female exclusive concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:32 PM
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Wanted men, don't marry average girls. The reason women marry whatever is that there's nothing even remotely close to grasp on to that wants to marry or commit to her. And it's worse, they feel their magnetism on these elegible bachelor slip more and more with each passing year. I don't know what the rest of those rationalizations are - it's like you never talked to a single woman over 30 your entire life. Funny and good personality - like what? She means a hot dude that puts an effort to make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:12 PM
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I think it's just one of those myths we collectively constructed. It's easier to deal with someone from your own socioeconomic class, same values, same cultural cues, same sexual flavors. But honestly, brainy girls just are not worth the BDSM rope. If you want anything but a bratty sub, that read all the books and has a hankering for travel and swinging - get a poor girl. A nice meal at home will make you the best guy that ever walked her front door that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:08 PM
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I think that's just because simps are starving after human contact. I don't think anyone jacks of at ruby Tuesday on the left here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:02 PM
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Steroid use is rampant just because it’s almost impossible for most guys to look buff naturally. Steroid use is rampant just because it’s almost impossible for most guys to look buff naturally. Sure mate, millions do it regularly, but gym definitely doesn't work because you feel like it shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:01 PM
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I agree - I just don't think this is socially constructed. Women worry about stuff all the time, and to a much higher degree than men about everything. This correlated with lack of a male POV to validate her and confirm she is fine, and the obvious fact that looks are a major social asset - kind justifies the obsessiveness. But none of this validates the very modern view that - self improvement content is what pushes this neuroticism. If anything it empowers women to take more control over their…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:59 PM
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It might be packaged in a more cheerful way, but make no mistake, every IG guru that’s doing reels of her workouts or try-on hauls or make-up tutorials or “how I make my favourite smoothie” or whatever is selling self-improvement. The reason they get popular is that they’re selling aspirational examples and instructions to women on how to be happier, healthier and more attractive, just like the influencer. They don’t need to outright say “you suck and need to improve.” They cultivate their image…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:54 PM
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Right, skin routines is self improvement. Cool, can't argue with that, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:52 PM
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They just don't meet men. They kinda just work, supermarket and some pilates. Workspace and gym pick up is super taboo for these girls. They lack the self confidence to even handle pick up in a calm and collected way. And when they do meet a kinda ok guy, they dismiss him because they don't feel tingles like in romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:51 PM
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I agree with the sentiment, but it's myopic. As working adults, you have very little time - during the work week. A lot of women are just bored our of their minds and use relationships as a personal entertainment source. Especially if you give them the tingles and they are genuinely into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:24 AM
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Many women actually do not want to have a boyfriend that they are attracted to and enjoy his companionship but they just want to meet a wealthier guy who accept to spoil her and give her cash and gifts and to pay her bills. Nope, they all want it all. They just put their baggage and insecurity at the forefront of their dating strategy. they often treat her men like a mobile sentient wallet in human form without having no legit feelings for him. You'd be surprised. In general they - like all wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:21 AM
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What do you do after your dream girl grows up, gets grey hair, gains 2 pounds, is not young forever? If by the time she gets gray hair, the only reason I am with her, is that she has a tonned arse - I'm either in a coma, or she must be sucking like a hoover on turbo. I ask from a point of view seeing men worshipping the female they see online who is an anime character Those men don't exist in the dating pool. And when you find them you get the ick real fast as you can see they aren't really enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:14 AM
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I mean autism exists in women as well. They can just hide it behind the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:06 AM
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Me personally, no. But you have to admit dance theraphy and cleanses are a pretty low effort way a lot of women do "self improvement".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:04 AM
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No, imprinting has never been a case, ever :D Stop trying to get the kiddies into the scene, it's creepy when you wash it down and try to make it PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:02 AM
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there are hundreds of "standardized" women. First of all, they identify as hot girls, not standard. And they aren't in their IG feeds, actually there's a lot of dudes with very above standard bodies in their feeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:01 AM
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The mindset that women are so fragile insinuating there's anything to improve makes them insecure. This approach with setting the standard for the most fragile person in the audience is infantilizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:59 AM
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ok, stop believing legbeards. I have not met a woman in real life that wouldn't prefer to spend Christmas with a man, any man as long as he isn't creepy or dangerous, than alone or with "girl friends". Otherwise, yeah, but they dropped the ball when they went to the world wars and women found out that factory work isn't hunting, or building and even children can do it. So why put up with the cow, when you can just get the milk yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:43 PM
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I can say for me there were 3 stages, maybe 4. When I got a car I liked. A coupe. Women just get into the vibe, even the ones that you know for a fact have no ideea what car it is, and don't care about money. When I started traveling. Again for me. But just talking about some inane story that happened in a foreign country makes women's ears perk up. If you show random pictures, they are hooked even if you are boring yourself with the stories of your vacation. Last one(s) was getting into hobbies…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:38 PM
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I call bullshit - if you don't send body positivity overt reinforcements- women are insecure If you even hint at being fit - it's literally underminining women's confidence. Nah, nah. You don't get to play both side. There is a clear enhancement of your life satisfaction if you take care of yourself. How you present yourself is a indicator of social self awareness. It's not ok to be a loser. And everyone that says that, is literally wishing you stay unhappy just so they feel like a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:30 PM
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Everyone has insecurities, the issue is when you let it run your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:26 PM
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what do men of higher moral standing and relationship value like you LOOL. I think you need to talk to incels if you are concerned with "high moral standing" :D you consider to be unacceptable behavior for a woman you intend to wife up or just commit to? Financial irresponsibility. I am at a point where if I see a woman wearing even fake labels, I know that's not even a friend I would like to spend money around. What qualities do you consider good in women that produce a desire to commit to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:25 PM
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When people on ppd say women would rather be single what they are saying is by default women are content being alone. The relationship with a man is a bonus but not a pillar of life. Just FDS strays, trying to convince the world they are happy and single by choice. What do you think are the reasons for people not staying together in the most financially prosperous and free countries? Jobs. Honestly, you can not have a good professional life and a good sex life. Sex, good sex(not the sex toy mutu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:17 PM
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I don't think attractiveness matters if the chemistry is there. THe issue is that with the art of female seduction being burned down and pissed on, without a certain je ne sais quoi? - all women have to get men to act and start the interaction is T&A, and maybe a insult to their masculinity if they don't get the telepathic hints and aroused by the square footage of skin on display. No man cares about social status, wealth or career- we would trade all that for a nice easy going personality and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:13 PM
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Fear is what we feel when the unknown confronts us. I've talked to r@pe survivers and abused women, and I've talked to statistics geeks that live in a world of their own neurosis and genuinely think all men are just waiting for an opportunity to use them like some 50 shades fan fic. The 2 have very little overlap. The latter's paranoia stems from never being socialized with boys. They are the female incel. Same fear, but instead of being remissed just to their romantic relationships, it infuses …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:07 PM
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Yes, and no funny enough. I know plenty of nice girls that haven't went on a date for months, and even then they only go out with me because other men don't engage them. Similarly - there are some serial daters out there that have 10+ dates / week, with 10+ men. So from the male side, it feels like they are dating more and more, but only the same type of girl is actually going out on dates with them. Most women don't jump at the occasion to spend a night with a stranger that wants to sleep with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:58 PM
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but people generally end up with someone on their level. How many people do you think end up dying alone? Has to make 250,000 dollars a year, great sense of humor, confident, handsome, well-educated, and knows how to dance. That's very american and mostly comes from loser women that have done nothing and project their aspirations on the only aspect that has worked somewhat for them - their relationships. I don't think a woman that genuinely looks for a partner will reject you because you don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:54 PM
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I think he is a crybaby and was never in a position to stand up for himself. Now he will learn.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 06:46 PM
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I agree - but for some reason, what men see is only the body positive, the reactionaries, the I am a plus size girl and I fucked 3 strippers last week - sort of stuff. Even when looking over the feed of my girlfriend or coworkers (consensually I assure you) I see a bigger proportion of self assuredness content than content that insinuates you have reasons to be insecure. Although, the later definitely has a bigger impact and latches on to the neurotic brain easier. (probably because it's obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:44 PM
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I mean, if you add "emotional investment" is that doesn't count as transactional. Here's how I see it... The moment you stop getting utility from a relationship - it's masochistic, it's unhealthy. What people have a distaste for, is when you add a mix and unmatch between material, physical and emotional. Usually the ones getting emotional, are sad sacks that get taken advantage of. Now - I would argue that both the blue pill gal pal that doesn't completely hate men, and the red pill dude that sn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:40 PM
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If I saw a study saying that high n count women are better partners, I wouldn't even double blink. You don't live in statistics. I just am completely unattracted to women with high bodycounts. I was as well, then fucked one and her slutty friends for a full afternoon while just chilling. Sex is only a big deal because society made it a big deal. Guess why? Guess what sex is willing to overinvest just to get sex? Sure mate, it's your choice. But in my experience it's like talking about the haunte…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:30 PM
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That high N count makes a woman a bad long term partner. Poor mental health, bad world views and dopamine addiction make her a bad long term partner. This corelates with high N counts, but it's not necessary. Most divorces aren't actually filled by sluts(which don't really marry that much), most alimony r@pes are filled by traditional housewife's that had a blueprint of the white picket fence and the man failed to deliver on her very red pill expectations. It's easier to imprint on a slut you me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:43 PM
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Women don't admit to cheating not even for science. And men tend to respond with their ego front and center. My cousin still says that flirting with a coworker was him "cheating" and that he could totally have scored, but he is a serious man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:37 PM
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Women apply negative filters, not tally up possitives. Let's say I like tits, I do - so it's not just theoretical. If a girl has nice bazzookas, that's something I am drawn to. But if they aren't there, I find something else nice about the girl. A girl doesn't say: I like tall men, she thinks, I don't see myself with short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:35 PM
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I have no ideea, I am a whore. I find this incredibly infantile question. Once you become a sexually active adult, and are staying safe, going out - and are reasonably attractive, the amounts of partners tally up, more than the nights when you get blackout drunk. More so - what is less thrustworthy? A woman that by the age of 40, started dating at 16, and by 40 had over 20 long term "relationships", that she would swear were all serious, yet none actually lasted more than a few months. Or the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:32 PM
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generally I get the impression that women pretend to listen and let this woman to talk the talk, while feeling second hand embarrassment. It’s not that women with functional lives draw wisdom from the fds expert. Dear, I know 3 women that ruined their relationship and their character/temperament/ability to actually appreciate men in general - because of peer pressure and trying to be a "boss bitch" from music videos. I am absolutely sick of hearing - well if a man can do it (womanizing) why can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:22 PM
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Let me be clear - women are cowards and fail to stand up for their man, not only in public but in their own mind. They let the biggest bitch in the group, the bitter perpetually lonely harpy occupy free real-estate because they are incredibly socially neurotic. Take advice from women that are actually capable of holding down a man, not the worst of the worst. Say what you want about red pill dudes, if I talk about women frankly - there's no man willing to listen to me. Especially those in relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:42 PM
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I'd love to believe a senior fellow is actually smarter than a grad student - the grad student has the obligation to know all the arguments. A professor - has no such obligation. But nice sass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:39 PM
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It's not actually that impressive. A critical metanalysis doesn't require you to research and double down on the experiments. It just requires you learn the fundamentals of a field, which most grad students do anyway within a few weeks of reading, then you read the industry buzz in their publishing mags. It's literally easier than keeping up with the kardashians, because there isn't a episode every day coming out. You don't understand quantum physics, but you don't have to, to understand that ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:18 AM
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I think they do, but it's also exhausting when it's expected. I think they like taking care of their man, doing the social stuff, parading you around. But then they also kinda expect you to ground them, be their home base and take them home when you see they had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:05 AM
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Happy you brought up sexual autonomy. You see, marriage exists only to block that. Everything else can be done by consenting adults, but we have contracts to oblige when consent would be withdrawn or you want to push the bounds of the agreement. If there's no obligation - and to be honest there isn't in modern marriages - most people work. If you can support a woman, you're doing well for yourself anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:03 AM
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THe same reason why being the dude and talking non-sense gets you laid. Women are magnetically drawn to high energy people/situations. They love getting on a ride and stopping their brain and just enjoying the ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:00 AM
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A fucking president - what's wrong with your brain? Most women although excited by the gangsta, actually find it too much and too fast - that's why grooming is a thing. You let her see the vanilla and the benefits before the violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:59 AM
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If they can't date due to life being busy, that's such a cop-out. You should make time to actually enjoy life. Dating being one of the easiest ways. Contrary to popular belief, there are still many women who date seriously and only seriously, no hookups or ONS in between. All women do this. The thing is - they suck at it and think the ONS stand guy can definitely change if she just lets him hit it. See, the reason why men only find the slags, and only the slags are on the market, is that most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:56 AM
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Some are, some aren't. But I would argue the opposite, what excuse do people with regular families have for being narcissists? Or depressed twats? I can tell you, most of the burned out 20 somethings that are directionless come from very pleasant families that only enabled their fuck ups. Always there for baby girl to come home and make her feel all better. But the reality is that they're dysfunctional from the way they argue, their self-esteem, and the way they carry themselves. because? Sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:49 AM
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I think you are way too into social trends, go out touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:43 AM
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Your question is about mojo and the male vibe not about women. Yes, it is normal that out of 100 attractive strangers, most, by a wide margin would not want to be involved with you romantically. If you have 1000 approaches - you're good. I am giving you permission to stop cold approaching and start fucking acquittances and people you meet in social situations - like most people do.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 08:42 AM
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You can add those areas into the same category. Although I have to admit both the 2 astrophysicist I know are super cute and fun. On the field itself - you need to see why they believe what they believe - because I have no doubt they know what they believe very strongly and are capable of arguing it. But you won't see the other side, or the competing theory unless you talk to a different linguist that has adopted to other POV - and that's when the stupid and ignorance shines through. The inabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:51 AM
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To not be a chump yes. Also, it's easier to "get away with it" with foreigners. You are socially more free. But be under no mistake, I know plenty of dudes (some quite attractive) that travel and just never really push themselves to go on an actual date. Women have a easier time expressing anything but contentment outside of the US. And they generally see your passport as 10 inches in height added to your SMV. That's essetially why Nice guys are fucked in the west. Women need hard polarisation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:46 AM
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>Would you play a game at a casino with a 3% chance of success? - NO If the only cost was a bruised ego - sure. Everything you get in this life is because you went for it and took a risk. The amount of things you RECIEVE in life is extremely small. Get your mind out of this child that takes whatever mommy gives him attitude. >Ask yourself this have you EVER seen Leonardo DiCaprio, Donald Trump, Future, Cristiano Reynaldo, Pete Davidson or ANY man who has built his life COLD APPROACH a female. NO…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 07:37 AM
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The date, the hanging out, the cozy cuddles. The process of extended foreplay that grinded your gears and opened your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:24 PM
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The category is: Anything that makes them think they are brainy As for "modern lingustics" basically being "maths" let me just reserve my skepticism for a field that is unfalsifiable, and observational bias is off the chain. Tell me what your favorite linguist is, or what theory you love, and I'll tell you what all of your papers will be from now until you retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:23 PM
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Well I can get more women in a relationship than I can get to JUST bang. I think most men - if women would have a think about it, and without their single bitter harpies whispering in their ear - would be relationship worthy. There's just a lot of cultural bullshit when it comes to relationships. We spend 2 months dating, and filtering and then when you actually start living together or spending time for real, you realize you're just then actually looking at the other person as a human being you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:20 PM
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I don't think "nice guys" can adopt chad-like tendencies without making women feel like something is off. I think nice guys aren't nice - they lack a sense of base entitlement. The nice guy is the one that after Stacy teases and asks to sleep over, in his bed, in just a t-shirt - still thinks he is unworthy because she didn't overtly express sexual intent. In degrees of obviousness, that is the nice guy. A man that doesn't think to himself as being a valid sexual option for the woman that can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:17 PM
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Listen - if you tell a white woman some thug has 40 baby mommas - she will be intrigued. If he has nothing else to his name, just that - will make her want to see that freak of nature. Tell a woman you have 40 female friends - she will just nod, maybe even unsconsciously - you can be the perfect guy for her, her instincts can't hear any other arguments. That is preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:09 PM
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You can not be too inexperienced. You can only have a bad attitude. It's still part of the date, but this time, your turn to make him feel like a man, since the last 2 hours he has been struggling to make you feel like a woman. If you need to get off, do that after. Now, it's about building some fundamentals of physical affection and having fun with the man that wants to impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:06 PM
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Just finished my round of swipping for the night, I noticed something very funny. All PHDs gals are ugly as sin. There's no reason to be so, but for some reason mixing higher education with Bumble and you get a mess of a roster. Otherwise - nursing or elder care - they are freaks, I mean baby talk, enemas and don't leave her with the dog over the weekend kind of freak. Teachers and lawyers tend to be submissive, but there might be a personal filter here as brainy non submissive girls hate me wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:02 PM
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Get shoulders, dress nice, be calm, competent and kind. Then once in a while smirk to that girl. ANY girl. The pastor's wife, the club promoter, the feminist teacher or the asian OF owo pick me for money girl. And you will get an open. How big the open is, how obvious, how far she wants to go or how easy she will make it for herself to get there will vary wildly, as per your world of many realities theory. But the science is there. The tingles are there, the almost "subconscious" opening she lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:54 PM
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Theoretically you can also fuck a female dog or mare. Doesn't mean you're gonna satisfy your biological need. Same with the chumps on online dating. They are just horny with extra steps. There's no human behind that profile. While I agree with sex is easy for most women, by a wide margin. I think when it comes to relationships, It's the blind leading the cripple out there for women. They don't know what a man is like, they can't verbalize what they need in a man, and when they get to raise a poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:46 PM
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To you and the black pillers that think male sexual market is fixed. Especially those black pillers that are still in highschool or college and haven't actually dipped their toe in real life society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:57 AM
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and gold diggin I doubt the confidence to emotionally manipulate a man and get away with it with your face intact is "instinctual" Most guys don’t cheat but they’re still miserable fucking the same girl for prolonged periods of time I think the miserable part is because of her emotional unavailability and her projecting her very modern existential disatisfaction onto the man. Again - very modern trait, can't be instinct. hey still look at other girls and imagine fucking them. with their girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:54 AM
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Mate... for the last fucking time. Work out. Buy simple clean clothes that fit your new 6-months working out body. be clean and groom Be polite and kind, with no expectations. Get out of the house so women can actually see you. A woman will start creeping around you. This is just fat girl logic. Stop it, it's embarrassing. All men that worked for more than 2 months on themselves knows you're the one tying you down. Everyone knows you're full of shit, apart from you. Will that get you a girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:13 PM
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I wouldn't say superior. I would say has a working understanding of the world. That's what masculinity is at it's core. That's what women don't understand because they take the Hollywood's grunting and posing that boomer lads made popular as masculinity. Explain your worldview and how consequential you see the world to a woman that you have captivated - i..e. you have her undivided attention and the only goal in that moment for her is to understand what you are, what makes you tick, and how you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:04 PM
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I think most people have no issues dating. I see around now the chrismas markets are filled with couples, girly girls, and understanding dudes. If you let go of this overimportant slice of internet people - you see society is fine. Girls still ask dudes to open the pickle jar and girls still smile when they catch a guy staring at their legs / cleavage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:53 PM
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Patriarchy hits differently if there's no such "male" in the household so she can see first hand "evil incarnated" that melts whenever she asks for an icecream or comforts her when her favorite band spllits up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:49 PM
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I think it's the only excuse. And I would push back against this attitude of people be bad. They are bad and good, what are you actually getting by focusing just on the bad? It's a defensive attitude because what you actually hate is the fact that you aren't capable of bringing out the good. But to not blame yourself, you prefer to think of them as unjustifiably evil. It's a patterns of thinking that we have seen in atheism+, in feminism, in mainstream political thinking. Your inability to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:44 AM
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I think preferences are extremely personal. What does it say to a company when they can't fill a position and who they get quits within a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:07 AM
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If a woman gives a lonely man attention against her sexual impulse, in exchange for safety - is that men controlling women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:35 AM
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I disagree - I don't think they are healthy - but there is a special sort of emptyness in people from single family homes. They don't know what being with someone in a healthy way is. This manifests itself either in the form of excitement seeking or in the opposite, idealization of what a normal relationship is supposed to feel like and feeling like what they have always falls short. And let's not get started on the fact that way too many single mothers literally teach their daughters that men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:32 AM
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Funny, actually trying some interesting apps right now. One is basically showing your, star sign, height, job and voice only - so basically the things women care about, but won't outright say it. And the other is basing matches on personality types. Both quite interesting. I genuinely enjoy using them. And I think that's the thing - people on tinder don't really feel real. I mean think of it. It's like browsing an escort site or SFW onlyfans (sometimes with the same girls). You are literally doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:29 AM
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Just because a woman is single, it does not means she wants a relationship right now. Women don't know what they want. If they did - they would just tell men, men would do it - and literally everyone would be happy. Wanting a relationship does not makes you an inherently better person, while being a single person who just wants sex does not makes you an inherently worse person. It is a qualifier. Someone (assuming rational) likes you enough to share their life with you. You can't be horrible. Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:20 AM
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Do you genuinely think a woman, a person - is happy because they can be cruel towards someone lesser? Do you genuinely think so many people are just plain sadistic? Women want to behave, men want to be kind - by a very wide margin. You however don't get to see them, because they aren't "dating". They aren't on the market. You see only the broken, the scared, the emotionally imature because you see those that are loud and make a splash in our kardashian culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:13 AM
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Going full RP here... and no rubber in sight. There are no rude women, or men. Just people having a bad day for different reasons. In particular I have not met a rude woman that wasn't triggered about something other than me, or what I said. It's that old saying - it's not the dishes, it's your snapchat history with the kids teacher. I have met cruel women, especially in a group setting, And I also have met rude guys in a group setting. Dunking on the opposite sex, especially when we can get awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:27 PM
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I did feel distressed about him not wanting sex with me, but only until he explained why he wasn't in the mood. You have to understand that I was 23 at the time, a virgin until having sex with him, and this was / is my only relationship. I didn't have any previous experiences to build off of, only what mass media said ... which is that men are horny 99% of the time. Since that day, I have never felt distressed when he declines my advances. I don't want to introduce divergent sentiment in your vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:07 PM
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it's not realistic for the woman to live with the assumption her man is always going to want sex If you wag your finger at a wall, it surely will change color eventually. it is the person who doesn't want to fuck that holds the power, not necessarily the woman. No - you can't personalize it because of your first hand experience. That guy - would have been dropped by most women. And like you said - you felt destresed - despite it not having anything to do with it. I am not arguing for "men always…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:02 AM
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I am already content as sad as that might sound for the grind-set mindset small dick energy preworkout infused entepre-bros. But I don't find that contentment with in the family pillar sort of role. I was talking actually just last night to this woman that was praising her husband talking about how hard he works, how he provides for the family, how he opened up his life for her and her kids. No ego, or boss bitch energy - she genuinely thinks the world of this dude and is very grateful for his e…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 08:52 AM
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Like I said - stirring shit up :")
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:43 AM
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Men are human beings too, and aren't in the mood for sex 100% of the time. They have just as many potential stresses in life as we do, and that's gonna effect the amount of sex "on tap" for that day, week, or month. This statement is what some women unfortunately believe when they get upset that their guy isn't in the mood. Listen mate - society isn't kindergarten. You can't go to the teacher and complain when someone is saying something rude about you. Reality is - between 2 men, one straight o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:08 AM
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I don't think dating is working for anyone. It's a made up 60s bullshit concept that allowed men to score and women to feel attractive for days other than their wedding day. I do think it will make the sexual market more fragmented, you will see couples swinging as a norm. Men doing their mothering sessions with their publicly assigned sex therapist. Women doing their recuring polygamy sex workshops on the value of sisterhood, communal living and draining the single cock for energetic bonding. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:02 AM
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Very good post, with a very strong point. I would add - look around the men you follow. Are they masculine? Is their aggression controlled and warranted, or you just like the voice and feel like they are daddy protecting you from the mainstream and speaking "your truth".
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 09:53 AM
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Good topic. But I'd like to divert. What was first - the grossness of female sharts or the anxiety of women having their man, men in general or other women know they ruin so many panties they caused a Pacific Island worth of poliester. Boys grow up with the notion that women are gross. Only when sally becomes interested in boys, does she stop wearing stained T-shirts, cakes her face and stops laughing when smeared with buggers. The main stream while good at identifying issues, refuses to aknoled…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:48 AM
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I don't know man, I don't have the answer. Sometimes I think TRP fucked our wiring up somehow, made us as broken as the CC riding startlet, that can't settle for a good ol husband. I've had some amazing relationships, with easy going, fun women. Yet, it wasn't enough. I felt content, but not excited or happy. On the other hand, TRP made me a man, gave me the knowledge and experience that was denied to me by my environment lacking in male spaces or male role models. I am a better everything becau…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 09:28 AM
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Ok, first of all - be honest, bi do kinda like the drama and get quite a chuckle from stirring shit up. If you wanted a nice chill life, you'd do what ashamed bi but declared gay or the straight dudes do. But otherwise thank you for bringing this up, it's a very Christmassy theme. Secondly, I think what men or smucks say is just projection of what they feel, and what they feel in both cases is super vulnerable. Now I have this perspective as a swinging straight dude, that knows a lot of gay fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:08 AM
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Just try :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:11 AM
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if you believe there's a natural man-meter inside women -and natural is better than the projection based self actualization scale - yeah, it is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:10 AM
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oh boy, looks like we're gonna break your cherry. Next time your woman starts being argumentative from nowhere, smash your hand on a table so hard it hurts then walk away. You can come back and appologize in 40 minutes to 2 hours. If your woman fucks you over the next 24 hours, and if she fucks you more violently than she ever has - you have just experienced a woman's natural survival instinct first hand. Welcome to the red. Does that mean you should beat her, so she gets horny. No, it's a refle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:43 PM
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I managed to get my sex drive under control Ok, here's where you're talking but it's your online content creators that are speaking. You don't need women. True. But You don't need them is different than Women are fucking me up. It's very easy to reach a point where you realize, a 20 year old girl, doesn't have much to say. But just like a ok podcast, you keep her in the background of your life to drown out the silence if you will. But when you say: I am cured of needing sex fam!!! - that's where…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 11:56 AM
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Are we talking about different YA genres or do we have a different definition of simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:15 AM
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Because they are more anxious when left by themselves and are easier to accept. The mental path of least resistance is just to be social. While men are fine-ish with being alone (the dude bros that aren't become much more social in general) and there is inherent threat and conflict with men. In my experience the worst dramas started from frustrated chumps that felt hurt or disrespected and then sulked the whole hour or night in viewing distance of the rest of the group. Women even when shit on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:14 AM
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I used to think so. Practice makes perfect, fake it till you make it. But what I found is that social rules are very flexible and you can fuck up a lot and still get top marks if you leave everyone with a great impression and good vibes. Similarly most people are generally anxious, especially everyone under 35 in the west. So they are really not marking a tally. I think the best strategy if you are a young guy is to be the guy that makes everyone feel more comfortable. What I have noticed as tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:09 AM
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Sounding is a male only thing for obvious reasons (I'm not sure if women can do it). They can for the right price and some dubious boundary pushing. The depravity gets more and more extreme as you're chasing a serotonin/dopamine high. I mean it depends on where your goal post for depravity is. I saw some SM shit that fucking scared me, and the woman was asking for more, while a TOP 100 Rihanna song about BDSM was playing in the background. So where do you put sadism? leather gear and cosplay or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:01 AM
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I was intitially thinking you're a plant, but now I see your username. So chill everyone, OP isn't trolling cheap bait, he is a bit slow or a child, or both. Being asked out and treated is not at the same level of sacrifice/entitlement as only the man gets to make decisions in the house for life. Instinct based arguments are not acceptable, stop thinking women agree with hood-rats on tiktok. Both those points are autistic, and I would argue the women and men that make them in good faith are on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:40 AM
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Aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:20 AM
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It's a though experiment! I promise, no matter how selfish your choice, no actual people will be harmed as a consequence of it. Let go, dream big!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:57 PM
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Respectfully boring :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:56 PM
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fair, I did try - hence using the disney analogy, but like good girl - that's a term absolutely devoid of meaning because literally every single person has a very specific and narrow definition of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:54 PM
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I would argue that you wouldn't classify a man going out and hitting on women in a bar as a past time as gentlemanly. If you get to pick your gentleman with just the right edge that is convenient, it's not really a would you rather, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:52 PM
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THey end up a nice gentle man, that the protagonist;s parents would approve of. They only have enough of an edge to create drama and romantic tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:51 PM
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So you're saying perfect lover but would hate to put the rest of womankind through that shit against their will :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:50 PM
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Young Adult novels, the Twilight, Hunger games novels where there's two hawt guys fighting over a plain jane
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:49 PM
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Pottery shopping with their coworkers, and poetry slams to support their sister, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:48 PM
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Well, yes, see how subjective "good" is when it comes to men. But the moral of these men is woman focused. They wouldn't share women on a part time basis, or tell her to "just take care of it". But they definitely wouldn't oppose to sleeping with a woman until they check her at the marriage registration office, or demand a condom despite her complaints. I would think that would be quite rude. Although I would love to see that in a Disney property tbh :D And I would add, they would be quite tradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:48 PM
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According to your definition, according to others they even smack your arse respectfully when you signal you're into it. But then this wouldn't be a would you rather, now would it. So the definition is PG, disney level. Without the sordid after camera stops shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:42 PM
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Yes - that's the point I was making - Mormons are superficially nice. So that's what the hypothetical gentlemen will act like - the ideal mormon with no back door pajama fetish. Just take the top level stuff of Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:41 PM
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How is a world of kind gentle women-listeners obviously bad? As you can see, the gentle man utopia is very loved. While I get a feeling that people think a world where everyone looks like channing tatum means everyone will turn into a fuckboi douche bag for some reason. :) Anyway, I think this turned into a fun little threat - as people choose based on what their trauma it seems. Nice men world - nothing bad will ever happen to me vs hot men do bad things to me all the time, NOOO!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:38 PM
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Good point on the last one - although, most women that cheated with me or my friends did not tell us: btw I'm married unless they knew we're too scummy to care. I don't agree on the first 2 points. Good men will do what the woman thinks is best. And if the woman thinks it's best to not get protection, or the woman decides she needs something else - babies and divorces will still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:34 PM
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Then I can see your point, and the first option makes perfect sense. THank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:31 PM
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I am not making them, I am just having fun with a classical WYR question. The choices aren't supposed to be good vs bad, that's the point of the question - it's subtle bad, vs other subtle bad. Yes, I agree - if you ask people to choose between cats and dogs, the question should be - that weigh the opposite. So you either choose between a big cat the size of a large dog or a small cute purse doggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:30 PM
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Agreed, but do you know how your favorite disney protagonist treats his mother when the cameras are turned off? No, you don't that's what's so scary about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:26 PM
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But would you treat them with kindness and respect? Because being a gentleman and nice, doesn't mean they can't say no or have standards. Quite the opposite I would think. Few gentleman in a society where that is a standard, would accept ratchet tendencies and outbursts. You know the saying: What a man has on his arm is a better indicator of his value than what he wears or what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:25 PM
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Do you think women wouldn't divorce a kind man in a world filled with kind men? Respectively would have a child and then regret it? Like I said, women don't change. At least not at the start. And the ratio of high value men to meh will be conserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:22 PM
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I would argue it differs in between them as well. But that's the definition in this particular Sophie's choice. Otherwise it would be a pretty boring hypothetical, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:15 PM
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That's why I didn't say: whatever gentleman is for you. Like it or not, mormons are very polite and respectful. That's where the trap of the inquiry is. Everyone wants a perfect gentleman - but with a very specific amount of edge, they want then and there. Nobody actually is honest and says - nah, nice guys are actually super boring if they don\t have my very specific quantity of edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:13 PM
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It's not that it's incompatible, just that at a conceptual level the PC definition of gentleman is incompatible with the office bro, that creeps afterhours to let of steam, frustration and let's be honest - nail something easier than Jessica from accounts and less pious than his schoolteacher neighbor Cassie. The good man, the ideal man - doesn't shoot his shot in bars, and is therefor in a world of true gentlemen - the bars will be filled with only women, the good men are reading or walking the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:24 AM
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Correct... and without any differences between male temperaments - there's nothing to fall in love with. Everyone being luke warm makes for a dreadful dating life. Now let's see how many feminist vote for a world where every man is mormon and raised "right" :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:11 AM
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Gentleman don't go out drinking tho :) Not do they approach strangers they don't know, giving choice to the people that sit around and just wait for a buffet of men they can pick from. Now you're seeing where I'm fishing. It's a lose - lose choice. It reflects the responders bias whenever they fail to see the downside in both scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:06 AM
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What's better - a world filled with gentlemen or a world filled with male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:06 AM
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Dude, in Dubai - it's like a RP paradise if you got cheese to qualify to the race. Let me tell you - I agreed with the Asian's are on hard mode until I went to the bar scene there. Holy fuck my man, I was AMOGed so hard by all the brown and chinese bros - it's not even funny. And I wasn't mad at it, because unlike the Serbian and Polish meatbags - they were all super polite, super classy but shady AF and knew how to lock me out of the sets smoother than a car salesman for a sports coupe. Get cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:04 AM
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Women don't know how to change energies in a male to female dynamic. Ask strippers starting out - it's wierd for them to make it sexy, if they don't feel it's sexy. So if the man doesn't know - odds are all relationships will merge towards that of brother sister. Blame society - it told both men and women that "sparks" just happen. And all you have to do is show up. Well - you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:12 AM
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I doubt the average man can make any woman happy. Respectively I doubt the average woman can be happy. The average person is stuck in life and generally frustrated with what life has planned for them. They lack agency and are generally just jumping from dopamine kick to dopamine kick. Any man that navigated through the 5-to-7 range knows just how wide the disconnect is between what they expect and what they are actually capable of. These are the women that put minimum effort and when the guy pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:08 AM
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Not in the true sense women that use the term. FDS created the concept of high value to signify a man that has it all, but for some reason simps for the plain jane, and obviously not every plain jane. Just you, the woman that wants him. It's the female unicorn, a sum of projection of all their entitlement and insecurity into one.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/22 05:56 AM
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I legit think its a good thing that the standards for men have increased Has it? Or has women's entitlement increased, and they are having way too much fun on the market to even consider getting locked down. My friends on Tinder/Bumble, conversations seem to fizzle out way quicker than I remember experiencing myself, and my friends look great. Because they are there to be entertained, not actually see you as human beings. all I get now is people coming up and dropping "my friend fancies you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:38 PM
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Men tend to focus on the logical side of things. With the exception when they have their genes invalidated. The nicer the guys, the more arrogant and entitled. A douche only wants some pussy, a nice guy wants to be proven as superior. Despite what women think, I believe that most men will take it in good stead if they're told the truth in rejection. In my early days on the pill I believed that, but man, there's some fucking delusional SOBs out there that even scare me with the sheer level of del…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:31 PM
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THere are no "high value men" that's just a conservative spin some frustrated twats dream of. You can get with a conservative guy - and focus on having kids, being a mom and kinda settle for everything else in life. You can find a charming coworker - and hope he can't get better - but rich lawyers have the gift of gab, keep themselves clean and have enough money to be fun. You can find a fit guy and get stuck paying the rent and preparing his and his gal pal' breakfast. You can find a funny guy,…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 06:19 PM
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Well, sounds like your classical work hard, and then get addicted to the dopamine drips our society offers in your off time. Remember you can do things because you want to, even if you don't feel like it. It will be cognitively painful at first, but if you stop the quick dopamine fixes, your brain will readjust and give you the dopamine from good habits. Your mistake is thinking there is an end. There isn't until the big end. You do your best and then you d1e. Life is the goal. This second is th…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 07:57 AM
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Why don't RED PILL men understand the difference between fuckmeat and a woman that you trust with your savings and share a family with? Fucking is need. If you aren't fucking you are suppressing your natural instinct and as a reaction your brain will create rationalizations to silence the dissonance. This is what christian pillers are doing. And it's super convenient for the mainstream because right wingers stopped having any winning political arguments in the 80s. Now, if you banged your way th…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 07:49 AM
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Actually the red pill is a reactionary cultural movement against the narrative that women be wonderful. I.e. propositions 1,2 & 3 are not natural desires. TRP - (the one I adhered to years ago at least) wasn't about moaning and bitching - it was about parenting. Telling kids: son, your dad is a wimp or missing, this is how your mom acts around a man. That's what you need to be. The best RP takes I ever heard were actually from a italian granma while chastizing her neice for dating slags and keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:39 AM
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I think you are part of the first generation that thinks life is about avoiding hardship. It is nothing else but learned helplessness, your brain was raised to basically do the same processes as a depressed person. I want you to get a empty can of coke, and kick it around. Be loud, have fun, try to do trickshots with it. Learn nothing happens if you fuck around. And when it does happen, you can mostly say sorry, lift your hand apologetically and move on. That is life. That is a healthy brain goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:29 AM
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I'll put it to you straigh since you're not neurotypical. Equality is not sameness. Stop using the term equality - it is nebulous and it doesn't describe accurately what you mean. Men are expected to make the first move because women like the roleplay. It's like saying we're still expected to give gifts for Christmas. Well yeah, it's a nice habit that everyone agrees to - and you don't get to say - I wanna give gifts in april only. Your job as a person on the spectrum is to abide, not set new tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:24 AM
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I don't wanna defend tate - just look at some of his interviews on the dude-bro podcast circuit. Dude is a nerd - he is a wierd conspiracy theory, prepper. His money he god from online pimping - so not much of a hustle. He literally brags about his debt and how the his hoes saved his arse when they started to cam. The only thing he has for him is his fighter background. And the controlled aggression that he learned from that life. Which is very intentional, very socially aware. He is nothing but…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:05 PM
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There is a sexual value judgement that we put on women/men - that blue pill spaces / politically correct spaces don't talk about and actively suppress - because it makes people feel uncomfortable. It's something that men feel through microaggressions and it is sometimes hinted at in pop culture and in some female only spaces. That value judgement is even further diffused by the "disney" story, of the nerdy guy that has actor looks and situational magic excites the great 10/10 gal with a heart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:47 AM
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Nah, she was great, and I do want to be a father. But I didn't want to be a great one, I opted out because I knew I would have been a shitty father and probably would have left some time down the line anyway when I felt too crampt. That's why the loneliness comment hit so hard. Not that I was feeling bad with her, but rather how unilateral the emotional investment was. We were people playing out and improvising the gig of their life. But it was a empty excercise. I could have played my part, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:17 PM
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It can be masculine with strong frame, but it does not have to be. My icon is David Bowie. Korean dancers score more pussy than Andrew Tate and it's like look at them. While TRP gurus of the world preach game, bugattis and two coffees when they only drink one, where is pussy? Having hysterical seizures at Arctic Monkeys concerts. If your standard for life is just pure numbers, definetly bowie, I will one up you and say Prince - that dude is smooth as silk. Perfect game. But, that doesn't work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:14 PM
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I am not argue over peoples characters. If you like her, and find the things she saying empowering. Good on you, she was the most sane voice in the MRA movement 7-8 years ago. But also at that time there were some things that made me think she might not be as good as a person as her arguments and her emphathy would let you believe. She had some spats with John the other, the crazy redhead lady that is his partner, then she started some agressive begging for donations that were a bit, manipulativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:04 PM
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May I remind you that marriage is literally human trafficking in origin? Seriously mate - the concept of love is very recent - like 200 years. The concept of freely marrying for love was a posh middle class fantasy for even the most liberal of societies until the last 2-3 generations of women. I think transactional pragmatism is having a resurgence because too many people realized the "all you need is love" is a fucking pipe dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:04 PM
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I think it varies a lot by your location and the women you ask. Here in europe I saw the opposite - old women saying: don't waste time with a slouch in bed, while young women saying - we can get better sex toghether. I think most women don't know good sex, until they have good sex. See, the sex a woman gets varies based on what sex the man does. While as men, unless you go to a escort that is a great actress or get tied up in a OF shoot, odds are you'll have about the same sex with all the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:59 PM
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I don't think looks and/or money are that important, but I do think masculinity / game matters. So if you count that as personality we good, we're on the same page. But I get a feeling you mean interesting/fun by personality, not masculine with a strong frame. Here's the thing, in my younger days- while doing pick up - I had some days where I could not give a shit. I was tired, cold and not in the mood to talk to anyone seriously. And like a lot of guys that did PUA can testify - those were the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:53 PM
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You just broke the mind of so many gen xrs and millenials, it's not even funny. Here's how I learned to love people, and not how they make me feel. So I had a off and on long distance thing with this submissive single mom. We were pushing the point where I needed to give her some form of guarantees. After weeks of hesitation and doubt, I had it all planned out - get a promotion, leverage it for relocation costs for me, her and the kid to another country, spring it on her the next week. I felt a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:38 PM
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Can anyone explain this? women's arousals is a narrative context that happens in her mind. A hint at a dick pick is more exciting than seeing a full staff. THe idea of sex is often more seductive, it turns her know gently to use a common analogy, than flipping the sex button on and getting it on. because the female imperative is to nest - she needs to both find the right man, and find the right man within a social context. But I don't think plasticity and social conditioning are related, arguabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:25 AM
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This. Also worth adding from a red pill lens that women project a lot on the man/woman/animal (no parafillia shaming here) that they are fixated on and the relationship they have. They are bonding machines, and all that red flag talk or past hurt goes out the window once you got her hamster revved up and working for you, working towards her own seduction. That's why you leave space, you don't blurt out your history, you leave mystery, you let her mind process your existence and make sense of why…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:14 AM
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It's a good idea for both. Both happiness indicators and health indicators go up. The reason why you think it's good for men, is that the feminist literature focuses on the fact that in % the improvement is greater for men by a few percentage points, and they are fast to ignore the benefits to women, instead replacing it with the narrative of "lost freedom". Divorce is exclusively a bad idea for men. Especially in societies that transitioned from women first religious culture, to women first fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:09 AM
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I think the only way a woman can truly see the world from the male perspective is by having a son. The rest are still solipsistic. They love to be seen as empatetic, and play the role, but if you face them with a choice of protecting the man at the cost of even the most inane inconvenience for another woman - they will backpedal on the morality of it. On GWW and JPT - I think it's cool to be that girl that mimics some empathy for men. They adore the power and attention that brings them. These ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:02 AM
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Women that grew up without fathers or weak fathers they resent think fatherhood is just a icky financial compromise for mothers. Shocking. Listen mate - women know what women do - they know the feel of the D, they know how easy you can be a good woman and slip, because your reptile brain just took over, they know fucking happens when you are angry at your partner and want to get your power back and you reach for your phone and like a pic for the dude that knows what that means. There is inherent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:54 AM
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When women talk about this stuff, they put themselves in the scenario in question. When you talk about seamanmaxxing - a woman can either put herself in the shoes of the women that you leave at home or in the shoes of the woman that gets a foreign big man. It will ick the middle class girls that don't have a big man fantasy, but it will be romanticized by girls that do have the Pretty Woman fantasy. Additionally - women do not like instrumentalist theory about sex. They need to believe it just h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:47 AM
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She told me she lied to me because she was afraid I would leave her. Seems like she was right. In a world that fucks - you are the exception for being wierded out by fucking. Turns out she send nudes to a guy for money before. If this is a hard limit for you - you need to start dating 10 y/o, maybe 15 y/os from north koreea. loyal chicks don’t even give away contact information at all No, loyal chicks have an exciting man that pushes her buttons day in and day out, and when they aren't engaged w…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/22 06:41 AM
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Did you get the memo that said women are just a reflexion of the values of their past men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:11 PM
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Or did the sex have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:15 AM
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Yeah, that would work in your brainspace where men are women but don't know it, and women are just children that need to break out and just go on a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:13 AM
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Typical internalized misogynies - if you must share your body with a another human, it needs to be a queer person. Men have enjoyed the female body for too many years without earning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:11 AM
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Sex smex - you need the cummies girl, go get them for yourself. Why should you put up with a man just because you wanna climax. Human contact is just ick and you don't where his put his mouth before coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:40 AM
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FML - you caught me, I'm a old millennial. But analogy stands, change it to Souljaboy, Moneybaggz, Lil P - it feels like that should be a rapper, missed opportunity with the name there if he isn't. Ok, the weekend - I know for a fact that dude is still soaking panties all over the world with a simple falsetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:10 AM
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Oh, you don't need a man honey - vibrators always get the job done and never ask for a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:07 AM
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I travel a lot. And in between india, russia, italy, spain and the god awful canada - let me tell you, most kids are doing just fine, socializing, hooking up and staying toghether if they like one another. But, that being said - speaking as a man-whore myself, I think there is a 100% correlation between american dating culture and it's spread across the world and the issues "young" people are having while dating. Guys have been conditioned to think showing up and talking unlocks panties, and if …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:04 AM
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I agree with the sentiment but not the fix, fear (because that's what cause the ingroup preference) is not a solution for fear. Female and male bias towards women and women "problems" is baked in to the inbalance of the dimorphic nature of our species. The reality is that if there is inherent threat - men need to take action - they are as an average, so as a hedge more level headed, more agressive, stronger and genetically disposable. Just like women don't get to tell you how big of a loan you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:28 AM
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Like I said - imagine thinking sex is about orgasms. Hear that ladies. You suck at sex if you can't finish. Get rekt! Men - we're winning, yet again. Long live the bust! Men sex is best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:05 AM
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I think it's hilarious to hear people talk about the male experience with such projection and confidence. Let me just say this: As a man, you do not speak for me. I don't identify with anything you said. And I find my need for comfort and support to be misinterpreted as some form of need for a emotional breakdown to be insulting and ignorant. Men want peace and reasurance when they have hard times. We are not women. We don't need to explore our feelings. We need to know that even at our weakest,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:41 AM
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I think the "fetishization" of dating as a path to get some is dead. It;s more likely you go to a game lobby and ask Betty if she wants a ride or a walk than asking her out on a date - with food and questions. As for incels, I think it's growing - but I don't think they are incels, I think they are just under-socialized boys. I think once they get pushed into society and made to interact with women, most shouldn't have a problem - the issue is that a good chunk of men and women - are just pupati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:35 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:27 AM
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That's your choice. But honestly - people are not their beliefs man. They just inherit them. There's good people under a shroud of ideas they never doubt. And while I do agree that a relationship needs common values so that the partners don't end up pulling in 2 different directions. I also think if you are single and have already decided how the relationship is going to work, and what the value hierarchy of that "idealized" relationship is going to be like- before you even have a second party i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:48 AM
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Yes - let me take it slower since this is a more thoughtful comment. Sex is not about cumming, specifically not about the mecanical stimulation that you do while masturbating as a man. That's like a side-effect. Sex is about releasing the lizard brain and taking in all of the emotions, relationships and stimulation you receive at that time. It's like eating, rather than scratching. Being good at sex as a man (or arguably as a woman - although men are easy to overstimulate) is to engage her lizar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:43 AM
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Instinct works if you have it - if your instinct is to freeze and calculate outcomes - shit ain't gonna work. Exposure therapy man, jump in, accept the worst things possible and be relieved when things end up ok, and surprisingly often enough - work out amazingly well for no obvious reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:55 PM
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ok, maybe your parents aren't the best example. The point is - plenty of people don't and they are happier than those that hesitate and wait for the right time. Yes me to, I needed to unlearn to not be anxious. To just jump into stuff and be ok, with shit not going as planned from the start - because I would not have a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:39 PM
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Imagine thinking good sex is about making your lady friend cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:36 PM
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No, that's the thing, it's not calculated. Do you really think your mom and dad made plans? A savings nest, calculated annualized return on when to shift from work to having kids? They just made it work. They did what they could on the fly - not optimal, but they did it. While I see couples, smart couples - even myself included that feel like there needs to be a plan, an optimal life path to minimize couple dissatisfaction or financial difficulties. There isn't but even despite knowing this - I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:00 AM
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It's not about me arsehole. It's about you and your want to believe being fed by a society that delivers on what people want. Social sciences are always based in apocryphal "science", but YOU don't care unless it's feminist science. YOU were raised to read, research and validate what YOU think. Keep your head in the sand mate, don't let that vulnerable mind get poisoned by dissonance. THis is the major difference between TRP now vs 7 years ago - I think even red pill school made a stickyed post …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:55 AM
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Not really - no. I think that's the major difference between old generation that were free range children and new ones. My dad just goes to a new city because he saw a cheap flight, no plans, not google research, just goes. Same for some of the older men - they constantly told me, don't worry about it, you'll figure it out. It took a while to understand - they weren't crazy. Implicit risk is ubiquotous, and worrying researching optimizing is a bias we - children raised inside have - it's fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:50 AM
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Depends on your definition. In my definition, I am - hence the flair, but Rollo, Fresh and fit, or Andrew Tate don't fit my definition, despite being what most young men think of when they get into the space.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:45 AM
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Did you know 1 out of 5 women experienced Rap or have reported sexual assault on in their lives based on the selfresponses of a gender studies class studying the frequencyof sexual assault Get out of here with those studies. If you would run any paralel self reporting study on hypergamy you would know we would fail harder than the women, since we are are more thirsty and all observational statistics don't account for the fact that WOMEN JUST HAVE MORE CHOICE. For a man to jump on a carousel he n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:17 AM
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Your middle class is leaking. Listen, poor people sex lives has always been much better than college educated people's "relationships". Life is much simpler, much more boring when you are poor. A rose, actually matters when you are literally living in a trailer park. Being that one guy that has a $2000 banger is a status sybol when all the cars of your peers is their dad's The issue is that social mobility based on looks removed all the hot women from the projects. That - might be a problem. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:11 AM
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I don't think men are fuckbois, I think men will just do the most they can. High demand men, just have absolutely no reason to commit. We don't care about the long talks at the end of the day, we joke around and shoot the shit to unwind. We don't care where we eat out and if feels like emotional labor if the issue takes more than 10 seconds to resolve. I don't think women ever required marriage for pussy access, that's just conservative rule to entice inexperience men in tiying themselves to sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:07 AM
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Women do not understand the concept of being un-fuckable. They are inherently fuckable because of male sex drive. So their advice is perfectly reasonable. Hang out with a girl, brush casual arms, touch one anothers fingers, look into their eyes, smile and don't pull back, then kiss. What don't you get? it's easier than cooking or being respectful. Men being friendly - is not a mistake. The issue is that men and all low sexual market people to be honest - do not understand that being friendly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:01 AM
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I think women can not admit to themselves the world is inherently unpleasant. Young guys as well. They cling to hopes of tall dark and handsome, or slut gamer and loyal for years. THey think they are the exception. Life's good when being wrong doesn't get you killed I guess. I would argue that it is possible to get red pill men out of their view - once they are forced to deal with women as humans. This is why I argue for a rotation, this is why I think you need to be a PIMP of OF girls - at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:56 AM
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Such a good eufemism for "we're a bit 'tistic mate" No, most red pill content is stories and examples, like most online content you take that 1 extreme whore example and make it a rule. That's the thing between old dudes that was based on trends and new guys especially kids raised on content. Extreme case that even normies would find wierd, you think are norms. The politics has infected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:52 AM
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Feeling masculine aggression and desire is essential for a woman's sex drive. Without rude boys, most women can't get off. And this means ironically the generation of pussy munchers and consent beggars is training a generation of men to be horrible at sex, incapable of activating a woman's prey instinct and become glorified human masturbatory assistants. Women have a inherent instinct when they are behaving poorly or are rude, they just intentionally ignore it for any guy that they know won't te…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:48 AM
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I don't think you are talking about dating, you're talking about boyfriend shopping. Everyone you see on social media is a narcisist. We just normalized it as a reasonable reflection of society. Height is important because dangerous men are attractive. Height is the most innocent of "dangerous" traits a boy can have. When I was young it was having a car/bike/leather jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:29 AM
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First of all - content marketing is garbage. It's literally echochamberism made for profit. There is no red pill cannon anymore. They all sold out for Miami airbnb money. I would argue to go to the marriedRP subreddit - that's applied red pill, and deals with polarization exclusively beyond the black pill bait and the politics woow is my masculine culture. I would argue however that you still grasp at the though of a special girl. AWALT isn't accusatory, not any more than saying all men get bone…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 07:26 AM
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I know this is a popular view among inexperienced women. Well - I'll tell you what I told my younger sister - something I picked up from a Italian Nona that was chastising her granddaughter for being stupid and dating just what she likes, not based on what she wants/needs: A hawt guy doesn't need you. After you reached a point where you can date on an equal playing field with women - when you as a man are on the same level of fuckability with the women you date - you as a woman dating this sort …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:07 AM
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Women's advice is aspirational, not transformational. They would like a world where they maximise their choice and have informed choices. Women do not want that buffet to be filled with creeps however. Women give advice to guys that are fuckable about how to be easier for them to have relationships with. Women do not want creeps to get into the dating market and crumple their good vibes. And unfortunetly they do not have the experience of seeing guys go from creeper to jeepers. In her mind a sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:49 PM
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Not really, it's more of a proxy for competence. College education is statistically much more attractive on women to men than lesser education. coping much? There are socio-economic filters, but ultimately men don't really care about degrees, especially since most degrees aren't really a guarantee for intelligence or class. college-educated men aren’t looking to seriously date Brandi from Claire’s Not if they are playing the field, but then they aren't marrying a college educated gal either. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:52 PM
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has something that the woman wants transactionally. or is just bored on a Friday night. Most attractive and self respecting women will never actually like a man who’s boring with no personality even if he’s good looking. It never happens. You have really not had female friends, have you? It happens all the time. Women want sex mate. Just sex. They aren't some profound nymphs' that need the holy seed. Stop your purity fetishism and join the orgy that is society. These men need to follow and can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:44 AM
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Don't like stuff comrade. Be a bus rider to show solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:36 AM
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I think it's just that you're super aware of the extreme of cases because of the content mill. Most women know they aren't the table, and are actually super insecure and under pressure by society to have sex just to get a second date. If you would go in Buttfuck Idaho, where there's no phone signal or some village in Kenya - you would see dating just happens the old way - boys meet girls, girls smile, boys ask them out and girls are giddy and grateful. It's just that guys are autistic and ugly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:34 AM
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Men actually have a lot to lose from aging too- they generally pride themselves far more on their physical capabilities than women do, and these of course deteriorate with age. You have no ideea what men think or value :D Men actually have a lot to lose from aging too- they generally pride themselves far more on their physical capabilities than women do, and these of course deteriorate with age. College educated upper class women know they have absolutely no chance at a college educated upper cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:28 AM
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I know guys that are 40 and live with their mom and dad or are unemployed "streamers". Age is not a determinant of maturity anymore. Religion has, but it shouln't. Fucked to many PTA moms to think it's corelated with any form of morality. Smoking is just a inconvenience - if that;s a factor you;re looking for a pet, not another full human being to share your life with. Politics just makes small talk easier - that's not chemistry, that's being socially awkward. It has no factor in your life, nor …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:14 AM
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Purple pill: Emily Ratajkowski is dating Pete Davidson because she is a strong successful woman that enjoys a funny guy. If you believe that go and touch base with your local model and see how your child molestation joke goes. You can't reject social narratives but kinda sorta also think they work. Now, while I agree defetism and all this bullshit Miami lifestyle is just wierd and old red pillers would laugh these clowns out of a set. You have to pick a side. Are women dating, attracted and enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:59 AM
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Fair - and that I think is the bullshit aspect. If you ask people to pick the partner they want to be chatting with after 50 years of marriage - 100% will get it wrong. Same for asking about marriage or kids. Ask 2+ year old couples about that stuff. Ask adults that have a mortage and a stable job about that shit. It's not something you are capable of making a informed and thoughtfull decision on, before you get to a certain level. You can - but it's based on projections and wishful thinking. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:36 AM
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When faced with a generation of mommys boys and paranoid girls, yeah, I need to argue for the other side. In reality I think both can suck equally easy and there are no martyrs, just narcissists that know how to make it about how big of a victim they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:32 AM
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I don't think you understand how dating apps work. But let's say we get Tinder 2.0 that forces you to look at descriptions only. People don't get horny for life goals. They get horny based on energy and how you carry yourself. And the people that are turned on and make relationship decisions before they even met the person in real life... they are just wierd mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:36 AM
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I think a woman is as sexual as she needs to be to keep a guy interested. Most born again women seem to either be profoundly inexperienced and bullshiting themselves or profoundly hurt and in reaction to a very sexual past they are repressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:32 AM
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Highly critical of body traits. I think it's the opposite if you look at the milf porn popularity. Spiritually unwell. My runes say differently. Egocentric. "You can't afford me." Well I would ask a high price if a old gal asked me to slurp on her sundee. But I think porn did the opposite and lowered my inhibitions and raised my freakness, and the price would be lower than if I didn't see Black Granny Addict 16. Damaged once they hit a certain age, like 30 or over, having nothing but cum stains …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:30 AM
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Whatever you think you are - will be what others pick up on and think of you. I also think that people with little experience dating think that people go to the "girlfriend shop" get passed a phisical, grind some booty for a few hours on Saturday nights and then get picked to be boyfriend. Most couples form among people that are friends of friends. It's not while actively pursuing booty, that you meet women, if you aren't a extroverted Chadwick. And most people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:15 AM
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If you use outlying behavior to make a broad moral argument - it is. Speaking as someone with a female relative that "stuck around" with a ill family member - it's not a moral decision. Her narcisism rejoiced in the victimhood of being stuck in that caretaker position, always complaining, always painting herself as the martyr - while in the same sentence demeaning the sick mother in law. I do not see a man being fueled emotionally by that type of "sacrifice". This does open up a discussion about…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:10 AM
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Have you ever met a person that just complains about innocuous things? It's really childish mate. And if gives off a very bad energy. You are far from being red pill, I assure you that. The whole point of the red pill is to accept the different abilities and relationships between men and women. To understand that the state or society will not change and make your life easier, maybe even understand that your power isn't in being accepted and enabled. If you think it is weak to not do activism and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:03 AM
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pot calling me what? Men do drop the mothers of their children when they’re being woken every hour to change diapers and have no energy for anything, or when they have the audacity to age or get ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:34 AM
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Well they do - those are your friends. I agree with the advice - just going out and being resonably fit and you still get something during last call. Yes, there are compounding factors and such... but I would like to rephrase it. Why is it moral for women to have profoudly sexually frustrated guy friends and not just give them a blowie once a month or on their birthday? Not joking. Speaking of female empowerment and do what you want with your body. How is any heterosexual woman with a male frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:50 AM
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So if a woman is frustrated and takes it out on her man - she should shut it and appreciate that he is still there and being a adult that is reponsible? And if that woman caused that man to break and finally leave - then she should reflect and consider that maybe she isn't such an amazing partner that guys should be grateful for having her. Listen. If you truly believe all people need to be held accountable - we have no problem and we completely agree on the morality of the issue. But you don't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:42 AM
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Yes you are - you are just a parrot reiterating a manosphere point. More so - you can't even realize just how childish it is to complain about the hardships of approaching. This is why it's easy to dismiss And yes, you are asking for pity- the whole point of this trope is to emphasize - sexual market value is not fair. You're right - because your concept of fairness is fucked up. You are not equal. You aren't even equal to me or your coworkers. Society is not a safe space where you can just lay …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:20 AM
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Women think about abandoning their child to the garbage disposal as well. Can you not see that you are incapable of seeing emotional depth in men? You can not conceive men have legitimate pain, strife, disapointment, anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:08 AM
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I don't think it ever was prestigious. It was a state of equilibrium First, let me emphasize that the concept of breadwinner is very American and modern. Most of humanity did not have enough income to support 2 people on one wage. Only with the advent of industrialization - and organized city labor was there enough wealth generated by one individual (usually very lucky individual at that) that he could make the argument for the lady of the house to just take care of the home and children. (if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:48 PM
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I don't think the issue is the content - shit dating advice was popular even before the internet. The issue is that we dissocialized guys and hype socialized women. Young guys just don't go out. And if you don't expose yourself to the female gaze, odds are you aren't gonna find ANY woman that wants to bang. Women will like you for different silly shit - it helps to be hawt, but I know a dude that got laid because he is into rock and holds literal speeches about rock history. Another guy is liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:37 PM
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I think women would be in charge and the overweight men would sniff their panties while the twinks would fuck them, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:12 PM
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THen tell women to stop being bitter cunts and blame their unhappy marriages on the men, on their friends, on their parents, on literally anyone but their shit attitude towards life. Men don't drop nice attractive low maintenance women, no man that gets constant sex will think - I wonder what's out there. Those are all action on the part of the woman. How a man feels isn't based on zodiac signs or the weather, it is a reflection of the woman's behavior. If a man is a serial arsehole - cool chast…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:11 PM
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mate, while I agree with your arguments it's not healthy to think of people as reactionary entities. Not in the sense that you bring down society, but I mean not healthy for you. Think of it this way, "shutting down your self -iciding" can be reasonable and logical. But if it is justified morally for one person, then it is justified morally for all people that are unhappy or lack a reasonable hope of being happy. It's a conditional requirement to believe in human autonomy and rational processes …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:29 AM
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The thing is - the other side (for whatever reason) doesn't tell you what they are thinking, they tell you what doesn't make them feel like a bad person. This is why were here, this is the whole reason a "red pill" countercultural movement happened. Arguably women being honest would blackpill the world, as society and people need some comfort to go on with their day, but the premise of: give me reassurance is pretty fucked up way to use the internet. Imagine a abused wife coming to incelchan and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:19 AM
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If tomorrow all women would decide to give a random blowie to the nicest guy they know - douchebaggery would disapear overnight. Women do not see nice mild manner men as sexual beings. And this isn't to say - poor men, nobody fucks them. This is to say that a woman that isn't into a guy can have the guy tick all her boxes and her instinct would be to create new boxes or find red flags. Until WOMEN understand why they can not be happy and be excited by mild men - we as a society are stuck at dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:13 AM
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I don't think dating and sex was actually that accesible for most people. I read somewhere that in the 1920s, most property in NY was rented out to single people or people living in essentially dorms. 60% of men were bachelors, just skimming away through life. TInder, and whatever this shit is that we call dating - just democratized the rich beautiful lifestyle and brought it to every tom dick and harry styles out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:35 AM
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Ok, physicality one is bullshit. Most men are not in shape and would be eaten by a crocodile first if they and a woman was chased at the same time. As for the "gender x does y". The argument is flawed because it's based on behaviors. And behaviors are defined as a rational choice - by most reasonable people. I think the arguments in this discussion stem from youtube content of "gotcha" videos that are meant to own the libs rather than explore motivational influences and their potential roots - s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:32 AM
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"Hows the lighting at your house?" Followed up by - "Let me get my camera" It's just sex mate. relax. America - here's the truth - you are very wierd about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:27 AM
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Am I just the only one waiting for a woman to come over here and ask for reassurance that small dicks are ok? - from guys only? Kids these days - looking for advice and going directly to the source that gives them the advice they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:24 AM
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I think you're drawing really broad strokes and for some reason you tried to reduce it to a semantic parallel. But the substance is true. I would say BP do rolls of the dice based on people's kindness and faithfulness. The premise is, most people are kind and nice. So while dating you'll get someone to stick. While RP start out with the premise that not everyone works together, so you optimize yourself to work for as many people as possible, and then go after your partner with clarity and shamel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:22 AM
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Yes, that's a literal paralel. Mate, I was a outspoken atheist since I was 6 in a conservative country. I have been called a pagan, ignorant, damned all my life. Your reaction is no different. Reality is women are also responsible actors. And like with all humans being a shit person, will only lead to your life being shit. We just don't have any expectations from women because the no judgement moral relativist views in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:08 AM
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But I'm special, my lived in experience is harder than you know. Pity me, pity me damn it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:58 AM
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They do - look at strippers. You learn to deal with rejection, like with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:57 AM
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Because that's not how the dance goes. Men pull, women follow, men push, women allow and permit. I mean you can try out experimental dances - but don't be surprised that your partner gets confused when you demand russian nuclear access codes in order to get your pants off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:21 AM
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So you're telling me you prefer to hear the politically correct lie, rather than truth that takes into account men have feelings and women also bare the burden of a loving relationship. Got it. Ask yourself why it's always about the woman feeling respected valued and appreciated but we as a society don't think men need that and it's demeaning for saying women should be concerned about that? Why is it emotional labour to be a wife, but it's all steaks and blowjobs to be a husband in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:18 AM
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for all those that were starting PUA - 15% was something one could only hope for. You're telling me out of 100 dudes, 15% can close with skill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:16 AM
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Ok, so - you agree there are positives - but you hate the fact that it hurts? Well, the thing is - people do a lot of hurting naturally. Only recently and in small parts of the world can people, children - actually decide that hurt is bad, and cut off parts of what makes a normal life - because they want to avoid getting hurt. I think your premise is fundamentally flawed. Life is not about avoiding hurt. Now, moving on to casual dating - I think "hurt" occurs when 2 factors are simulatneously pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:22 AM
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No, they are just more polite and know they have a plateau of what they can reasonably get. That girl is what we call a slam pig. THey have same triggers, same psychological make up. They just lack the ambition to take full advantage of the woman card and find roomate fucking as a alternative to socializing, or adulting of any kind. I genuinely suggest you stay out of it - because their outward apearence usually is indicative of their inner apearence and feeds back into it - into a miserable sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:12 AM
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FIrst of all, women say the right thing, but do the wrong one all the time - most men too, internet men just don't have the SMV to actually get a chance to do the wrong thing that much. Secondly - I think sluts are fine. The issue is disrespect. Remove women that are disrespectful and I guarantee that all that remain will be good choices that you will be happy with in the long term, regardless of their sexual past. Thirdly - women have a resentment towards fuckboys, but not disrespect or hate. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:06 AM
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How is a new girl more of a dream girl that my literal wife? Listen - first of all the premise is bent backward onto itself. I would not stay with a woman I don't find attractive. Definetly not with one that is "disinterested in sex". Both gaining weight and desinterest in sex are health issues - don't let the "anything goes" crowd tell you otherwise. They are gaslighting you. Now, sex does get sidestepped, proper healthy eating habits as well. More than reasonable. But just like I have to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:54 AM
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I disagree. Girl "sneaking into panties by friendship game" is amazing. You should see lesbians work, 100% creep. They go for the ones with a broken heart, they use alcohol, they even gaslight. Also, there's a specific flavour of lesbian that have perfect frame. The butch, androgynous girl that mimics to a T the attitude, the body language and fashion sense of a man. It would be called out for small dick energy if we would go all out like that and flex all the time, but it does work. Then there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:41 AM
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What is freedom once achieved? Is it happy ever after, or abundance and choice? Is glutony the goal, or just the effect when someone that was raised starving stops being in a position of scarcity? I think we raised good people with abundance. Currently dating a newly emancipated lebanese girl. She is raised right, she has good values, and she doesn't seem or claim to have a high N count. but she doesn't give a shit about any of that - she wants the full california girl experience. The sex, the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:55 PM
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People like what they like. As long as they are honest about it and consensual communications all around, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:07 PM
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She didn't "check me out" in my first couple of months, we only met in a corporate party 2 months into the internship where we conversed a lot and learnt about each other and it was an instant click. I've always been of the opinion to never bang at work, so I played the nice beta guy card from the get-go. Since that party, she's always initiated contact. The other guys have always given me the eye because this hot chick comes all the way from her department to talk bullshit with me when she has …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 10:47 AM
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I joined the company a year ago as an intern and worked my way up and now we're on the same level, more or less, different departments. We first met during a corporate party in some bar and the connection was instant. Na noodle, she was just checking the fresh meat. This girl is the hottest shit in the office. Every other guy is trying to get with her. She is that because she checked her vibe with everyguy in there, that's how she gets to be top hottness. she's been initiating conversation with …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 09:13 AM
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I think the concept of slutshaming is misconstrued to help propagandists fit anything offensive into the narrative of patriarchy. But it's still alive and well - look at the chumps around here that vilify fuck-boys, the FDS harpies that vilify any male desire and the women that indulge in it and enjoy it. or the premise that vergins are just easier women to deal with, instead of realizing the goal is easy women to deal with - regardless of their notch count - the number is just indicative of hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:51 AM
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Actually I find women over 30 to be better at emotionless ONS, but thanks for showing us how full of prejudice you are. Picking them while they’re young doesn’t stop them from wanting to develop into an adult. You’re just placing yourself in their window of life-changing decisions. And how many of those decisions do you think will end with the same man they were with when they were young? Actually, how they grow up shapes them. If they grow up being used by chads, frustrated by chumps that can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:14 PM
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It's like the red pill has a saying - women never tell the story about how they get on their knees and suck dick until they choke. Just saw a girl bragging about going to a infamous Berlin sex club, and when obviously getting the "look" she jumped out saying - you don't have to do anything, I went for the music- while just 2 minutes later hi fiving me when I said: but it was definetly worth the memories. Women only talk about things based on the impression those things create. They don't talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:45 PM
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I think when it comes to manipulation it's about leverage not age. Age and the legendary teen girl manipulated is just the stand out example because we as a species care a lot about teenage girls and their wombs. You can have boys being manipulated, and it's fine, it's just hormones - think with you big brain you raging pack of hormones! You can have old men being manipulated - and still be seen as the predators because "all they want is icky sex, the pervs!" You can even have older women manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:51 PM
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All through my life I’ve found myself wanting to have sex, date, and interact with women not so much out of genuine interest, but rather the societal benefits and expectations bestowed upon me from success in these interactions. I think you might have some wierd socialization issue. How would other people even know you had sex? Are you planning a big reveal after the act? I, much to my detriment, very heavily care about my “body count”, and internalize the concept that higher is better. I strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:48 PM
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Children SHOULD respect their parents. Jobs SHOULD be fulfilling All people SHOULD be equal. I find people that think the world changes based on their moral value structure to have lived in a decent amount of privilege's and had the world around them shaped to accommodate them by some third party in some way. In reality - parents will be respected as long as they don't bend and offer certainty to childre. You will find fulfilment in your job if you take ownership and proactively expand your func…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:37 AM
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This is such an interesting topic why did you preface it with "what the media says". Media says whatever gets clicks - that's female sympathy and fear (justifiably so) from men. Secondly - women are less violent. Even the crazy ones, they are less likely to use external force to vent their frustrations even when it's on themselves. Testosterone feeds on violence and physicality. Now on to the topic expectations of what a good life is in boomers and gen X and especially in millenials and Gen Z is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:15 AM
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It seems that with the advent of the liberalization of the sexual/dating market, women have now been empowered to be as selective as they want. They always have been, only with the advent of Disney love poured into children to "educate" them that being a wimpy funny chump with a heart of gold gets women turned on to such a extent that they just rip your clothes of, sometimes literally. With men increasingly getting excluded from the dating market, be it from being too short, too poor, or just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:00 AM
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sorry to jump off, but what do you think "that one girl in every group" did to gain her admirers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:14 AM
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I think breeding is hot. And I know it's a very common kink. So more power to them. Sucks for the kids, but it sucks for the kids that live with man hating ball busting mom-dad family as well, so at least those ladies know what they want and get fucked on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:33 AM
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Many men on this sub seem to want a woman who’s submissive Most "men" can not handle a submissive woman. It's a chore. What they are asking for is a woman that doesn't default to belittling them. Trust me, some of these peeps are getting close to T-girls just because they want a semblance of easy going femininity in their women, even if it comes at the cost of a extra dick. but they also want a woman to pay her way No, they want a woman that doesn't take advantage of them and their thirst. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:31 AM
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haaa absolutely - there's a massive difference between proselytizing online and creating content for lonely bored men and going out and getting the score, making women happy and living the life. The weirdest thing happened in recent years, internet marketers convinced young men that being grouchy internet marketers is the way, is the path of a successful man. I mean Kevin Samuels? That man could not score with any hood rat he did not pay. He had no charm, just the velour of class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:23 AM
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I think a lot of people love to think of themselves as wonderful. See the screetching I am a good man - from chumps. The only difference is that western society thinks that's normal and "healthy self esteem". What you are referring to is the "women are damsells" lens that is told to men in conservative cultures. I don't think that's the case anymore - it's framed as: "women are amazing and need help at every turn". In terms of judgement - you can't be more wrong, but I am talking about judgement…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:20 AM
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ok, sure, you are special and magic happened. Queer women and even men experience life in their own magical way that is totally aligned with your values and preconcieved notions. And I am the bad incel that thinks sexual attraction is shallow. Cool, pat yourself on the back the world is exactly how you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:04 AM
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First move meaning initiating one on one conversations to see where things go, just like he did. That's not a move. THat's what women think is a move. The move is changing tempo from friendly and diluting tension to sexual, and increasing tension. And obviously if I didn't find him attractive even after knowing him personally I wouldn't go out with him. Is that wrong?? It's naive. You finding him attractive is something he created. It doesn't just happen. I've never considered "not finding the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:23 AM
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I think most boys are told to not be rude. And most girls are told rude boys are bad. Both is absolutely fucking wrong. Being playful and teasing is a way to build interest and create intimacy and relaxes most non-western women. Flirting is engaging you on a sexualize level - r@pists don't need your interest! And abso-fucking-lutely being scared of men's clumsy, bad, awkward flirting and advances is 100% learned behavior. Even in third world countries where you are indeed in danger of r@pe and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:55 PM
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He isn't talking about your comfort but your arousal. If your husband would have not made a move at any point or if you would not have decided he is attractive, he might still be a good friend. Women see temperaments - good impression, must be because he is a good person. Bad impression, must be because he is bad. But as a man, I assure you not finding the right words is something that turns you from flirt to creep. And you can be both at the same time because a woman perceives the same action w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:47 PM
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Honest about them existing or honest about what it takes to navigate dating? For the latter you have conservativism. Best practices ingrained in culture that offer a compromise between the genders, neither wins or loses. But overall they both get castrated and limited for the good of the tribe and future generations. For the former - well you get men into problem solving mode. Some will looks maxing, others status maximize and start sugar daddying. And men would get a head start in that. Imagine…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:43 AM
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Their loyalty and ability to bond with the (right) man mind body and soul. Sucks that you need to be almost psychopathic to elicit that bondind reflect and part of the bonding process is to be closed off, keep a distance, bait her neuroticism and force her female instincts to kick in so she closes the gap and leaves her ego and relationship trust issues at the door. But hey, that's just male make up. They use lipstick you pretend you're an arsehole that might pimp her out. You won't but never sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:36 AM
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Women are emancipated, they demanded of society to be seen as more than sex objects and future mothers. Men have not, men are still only "good" only if they have a girl vouching for them and qualifying them as datable or as family pillars. There is no other socially acceptable frame for masculinity. The argument can be made that gendered traits only exist in relation to a person's role within society and their relationship with the apposite gender. That's the easy normie excuse. And the rest of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:27 AM
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I saw the topic of n-count and AFC - but I didn't realize poly life is also a trending topic in regards to TRP :) sounds kinda contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:04 AM
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I think it's a cope for insecure people that can't commit but are profoundly scared of being lonely. Also, some of the dudes or girls that lead those houses aren't right. Not in the they aren't good christian sense, but when you talk to them they give a cult leader serial killer vibe. They seem empty - like nothing is there behind the eyes. New guy here, might not be familiar with the history of the community but why is poly a stickied weekly topic>?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:17 PM
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I mean - you could wear make up. You could be a kept man. You could go to college. Fight the oppression and become the best woman you can be. Nobody is stopping you. The default of human existence is trash. You aren't disadvantaged because you see others doing better. Maybe even with less effort. This is your brain on middle class priviledge. Here's the reality of poverty, of being trash. Men can work hard and be ok. Women need to fuck something or someone to be ok. And even that they got 5 year…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 09:32 AM
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Wasn't this a CMV thread? I guess I did - but you don't like having it changed - so let's stick to the principle of it and avoid any possible argument to the contrary :) Most women do regret it, they regret it almost instantly after the guy leaves. It's just not something they are comfortable admitting or god forbid discussing and fueling the conservatard arguments in public. And men telling women on anything is not received well, so we should quit doing it, they are grown ass adults too, let th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:34 AM
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Two, wrap it however you like - they can't get someone who desires sex with them, and it messes with their mind badly. The death thing is good if you want to remember to stop wasting your time, but comparing yourself to starving people - I just don't see how it's useful. Don't you think someone can be starved of affection? About the homeless advice - You're right - but when you give them the "get a job" advice, it's very much implied it will only get him the most basic of needs, he will not be r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:59 PM
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Women sleep with men constantly on the first date, in the club toilet, the car and so on, without any form of commitment whatsoever. No, SOME WOMEN. Trust me, I love bathroom sex, and it doesn't work with most. And to be fair it's easier to get a girl excited after a night of dancing and alcohol than after 8 hour braindead work and 2 hours of chores and cooking. The value they brought into the interaction was their looks, not money, effort, emotional support or something else; which brings me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:51 PM
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I think the standards for men are lower. The same can be argued women are better at sex. Well nobody gives a shit how bad they are, the still get the job done because men pop easier than a overheated hot pocket. Same thing for looks in men - if you're not outright ugly, women see you and from that moment on it's just descriptive narration in their head and projections of your character flaws or intepretations of who you are based on all minute details of how you talk or carry yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:34 PM
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My question is, do you also see a rejection of femininity in western society? No, it's just a performative form of overcompensation due to insecurity created by past heartbreak. What do you think are the driving forces behind it? I think it's essentially a reaction to weak men, disappointing, film-flammy men. Arseholes disappoint women. But weak men break women's trust in maleness, in the concept of a man, in the hope that a man can offer her the stability of a home and the space where she can l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:28 PM
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I like your view. But I disagree with some intents. There are no rights when it comes to human interactions. You can not guarantee the right to slut around. People just do whatever they feel like doing and hope they get away without consequences. I hope we can agree with that point. Honestly when I hear rights and human interactions in the same sentences I get creeped out worse than hearing about and misconstruing J. Peterson's enforced monogamy argument. Now - your premise of slotting without c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:13 PM
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Ok, I fundamentally disagree with the concept of "access". You are not owed anything. No living wage. No shelter. No women. No friends. Society is not a substitute for your parents. The natural state of things is death. You don't move, you die of sunstroke. You don't earn, you will die of starvation. Your baseline is death. Fucking understand that. It's not your cozy life in 6th grade when you had a snowstorm, you played Vidya all day and your mom made you cocoa. That was not baseline. Being hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:41 PM
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ok, so something is wrong when you think 5'9 doesn't stand out in a crowd. Maybe in the Netherlands, Sweden or Croatia. Wtf is wrong with you Americans and grading averages. I actually encourage my sister to go for average Adam. I told her (she's a 5) that she needs to get on board with the average dude and push him to become the high value man, because high value men are busy fucking the girls with thin waists to even consider what she has to offer. And she knows it. She didn't like it, like mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:25 PM
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What is |approach women |? The only place where it's acceptable to "approach women" is in a brothel. Because you're not interested in meeting women, you are interested in solicitation. I bet you approach women all day. It would literally be very difficult to avoid speaking to 54% of the population. But you don't count that as approaching. You count the pimp walk and booty caress as "approaching". The sly: I have a free dick, wanna ride" proposition. And yeah, that is only acceptable in a brothel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:59 AM
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What's the point in playing video games? Listen, get rid of the piss arse player 2's that are overly competitive or go for the hyper serious 100% completion. You can make it your own. And then people that like that, stick to it, and people that don't you wouldn't want them around wasting your sunday afternoon anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:48 AM
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Finally some sense - I was scared after all the ice baths there's no balls left around this subreddit. People are agents of their inate imperative. They rationalize it with this and that argument. And we might theoreticize it too much, but ultimately a woman does not act as a person, a autonomous child that just needs a cup of cocoa before bed and if she is good you will give it to her. A woman's imperative is to have structure within which she can confidently nest and become a motherly cocoon f…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/22 11:27 AM
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And people should just stop being bad and just be good mkay. Life doesn't work like that, people don't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:00 AM
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Yes, if you make that distinction - I absolutely agree. The issue is - people don't make that distinction. And that's when they fuck up. That's when signals get crossed. That's when girls/the hawt dude think it's just a random hang, because they have nothing else to do. And the simp thinks they are in boyfrient/gf chill vibe already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:40 AM
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Mate are you arguing for rethorics sake or are you actually open to have a conversation about something you might be wrong or even not understand? No honestly, I expect (socially savvy) people to be nice to me because I approach them in a friendly joking manner. Because being nice and being treated in the same way is a social convention that makes everyone's day much better. IF someone likes me, or I like them - we break the niceness convention. We are a bit cheeky, we joke, flirt and exchange s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:59 AM
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No, I am not miscontruding - your premise - be nice so people like you - is wrong. It's first day of school social skils, when you were home schooled and your parents hope your wierd quirks don't shine through on the first day and you don't get bullied. In reality people being nice, put us on guard... they make us keep our distance and be polite in terms.(This is what i called for in my first comment - it forces other to behave) People being nice beyond what the social situation calls for, creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:48 AM
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I think "observations" are really flawed way to judge situations. More so culture. Every black pill lookism bias can be blown away by just not smelling bad, being socially and changing your location. (they are some of the craziest motherfuckers - usually on the internet people diagnose the problems but make up crazy stuff about solutions - they diagnosed solutions but extrapolated problems from them) Relationships are not about looks. Hell not even sex is about looks. And if you don't understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:51 AM
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yeah people are bare mimimum nice, they are usually nicer to people they like And that's a counter how? if you like someone you are nicer to the person they usually have higher priority No. If you like someone you create fun with them. You tease and joke. You spend time and create your own little bubble of mischief. Listen mate, you fail to understand social contracts. You just default to positives. Let me simplify things. If you are more respectful and attentive towards a woman you don't know, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:29 AM
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a lot of women seem really like to like psychoanalyzing men and calling them “insecure” You know chicks with dicks aren't really chicks right? So are men with doubts for a woman's primal brain. She might empathize, connect and even love you as a person, but if she feels your doubt - her ovaries are Yelling - he will bail if a leopard comes around. Isn’t some degree of insecurity rational? Only if you believe in Disney. If you accept the premise that AWALT. All women have the same wiring, some am…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:19 AM
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they aren’t getting what they want from it and I think this is stupid. Well when you become god-emperor we'll organize society based onw hat you think. Right not, It's called being a nice friendly person. If you’re not getting what you want from a relationship I don’t see any reason you shouldn’t take a portion or all of yourself from that person. It’s not manipulative it’s protecting your energy and is in fact more respectful to the other person. No, the manipulation was the initial niceness. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:02 AM
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I think you're full of frustration. Here;s the deal. If 1 out of 20 women will have 20 ONS - and the rest have only one guy per year each - there's still more casual sex in the market than relationship sex. Men will still go after the one that advertises being a slut, the one going out, the one with more masculine energy. While the others that aren't into that life, are just harder to find, especially among the 5% sluts that are louder. This is why the old timey way of seeing all women as sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:10 AM
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I think the issue is a misunderstanding of the term. If you read the literature and not watch the reaction social commentary videos, you will see the term refers to the wimp and the frustrated chump that tries too hard. While positive masculinity is described as supportive, parental and protective. That sounds like a page out of conservative pamphlets. Where the issue with the cultural usage of the term comes from is when you label behaviors without actually acknowledging the personal experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:53 AM
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Myron is an idiot doing tailored made content marketing for red pillers, he is not red pill. I would argue that being a grifter (which what content marketing is) is not red pill by definition because you necessarily have to say and care what others think of what you think and do. From a red pill perspective - all women are promiscuous - just like all women are loyal Bonnies for the right Clyde. Most just don't know it yet, because they haven't met that man that they would lose everything for. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:38 AM
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Because nobody choose based on average correlations - at least nobody that isn't that weird data science girl that used algo's to pick tinder dates. For example - did you know that most women that get divorced identify as religious and conservative women? What does that mean? Go for progressive women? Just because they are less likely to get married? And therefor divorced? Or go for a marriage with a conservative religious woman and navigate that relationships to the best of your ability to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:04 AM
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Women touch obvious players - Fire burns woman - man says: stop putting your hand on fire -> Men hate when women put their hand on anything but their dick. This can't be a honest argument mate. Women being picky isn't women choosing smarter - they just are even more picky towards obvious players. Again - you can't do this argument if you argue in good faith. The argument is once you have certain experiences - odds are your standard is raised. Then most men will be unsatisfying. Then that woman h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:43 AM
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