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Same thing here, she would throw me under a bus if possible, already tried.. i wont even discuss my kid with her cause all she wants to do is start a fight then say im the one at fault.. ex is the queen of gaslighting and i want no part of it
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 03:47 AM
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But i still dont acknowledge the x
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 12:26 PM
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Same boat
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 12:25 PM
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I told mine never to never speak to me, that she was the worst type of human there is, i said i have no value whatsoever for your opinion or your life, dead to me. Go fuck yourself and forget i exist…. Think that went well🤷🏻‍♂️😂
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 12:24 PM
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They dont change, what they do is throw away the respect they had for a husband
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 04:21 PM
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Yep, my x gaslit and made up her own reality and still does, i just dont even acknowledge her when she tries to speak to me, i pretend like shes not even there, and love watching her veins popping out that mug of a forehead, nothing pisses her off more, good.. it worked , she doesnt even bother picking fights anymore not when no one is fighting back, i could care less to let her suck me into her delusions, silence is the strongest weapon in the arsenal
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 02:45 PM
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Yeah nothing wrong with his comment i gave him an upvote
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 02:31 PM
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I told mine she doesn’t deserve my last name, you broke vows and ruined our family, she has no reason to keep it, doesnt have a career other than sitting on her butt all day with her face glued to a screen, been over 8 years and still using it, says she likes it better than her maiden name, im embarrassed to even say i was married to that twat
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:13 PM
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Dont do it, my x cried to me saying she missed me and that she saw how different i was and how much i was like the man she first met, my response was you wanted that man you met to change then threw him away, and now that hes himself again you want a do over? I said she had her opportunity and messed it up, took vows and broke them, and that I’ve moved on and wasn’t interested in going in reverse. After that i was the “asshole” meh ill take that over the bull she put me through anyday. Know your…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 08:23 AM
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Im on the same boat brother, its been 2 years of this and still in court, she prevented contact anytime she could then i filed for my daughter and she kept her from me since, and my daughter hates me now fathers day my birthday her birthday Christmas, you name it, for the last year and a half not a word or a call, like theyve held my funeral and pissed all over my headstone
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 02:45 PM
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She can take me as i am; or take the next bus, i will never let a woman talk me into giving up who i am again, by the end of my marriage i was a hermit all depressed and a shadow of who i used to be, give her what she wants and they just want more, Never again I shouldve left her in the hole i found her in
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 01:39 PM
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I used to always say “you done yet” watch her fume and smoke out the ears then leave the home for a bit, this was towards the end, id be smirkin to myself knowing shes loosing it, wss at a point where i didnt gaf what she thought anymore
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 01:26 PM
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My X did the exact same stringing me along but smashing others, eventually when she wanted to work it out i shut her down
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 07:09 PM
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I did, felt guilty but that passed after i found out she was bumpin uglies with the kid next door, go for it OP if shes seeing a guy then why bother with therapy, that should be a hardline for you if she wants to go to therapy then she needs to cut ties with him
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 07:05 PM
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Oh she played the victim alright, and still does, difference is now im not listening or even entertaining any conversation, waste of my breath
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 06:34 PM
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One thing i realized over time and experience, when you find out, shes most likely been working on a back up plan for awhile, so yeah its too late shes already emotionally cheating if not physically either way im not sticking around to find out, if the shoe was on the other foot they would not be cool with it so ill take the nearest exit, been there before and shouldve left sooner tbh. Ive had a few serious relationships iver the years, and i can honestly say only one of them was worth it(i fuck…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:21 PM
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4 letters, one vowel, ryhmes with runt🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 12:15 PM
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From experience if you put your foot down, they just get better at hiding it. Gaslight the situation and find a way to blame it on you. Ive worn both shoes and can honestly say there is no such thing as just a friend, women love having a plan B for security in my experience anyway
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 06:21 AM
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I went through this, wife says “he’s just a friend, of my family too i could never” then why hide and delete the convos? “Oh because you would get mad “ um what? Only thing that would make me “mad” is you not telling me before hand. Fast forward to after i was gone, and who is she with, you guess it😂😂 run and dont look back she will just do a better job of hiding it… Know your worth!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:49 AM
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Silence is golden, she nags at you ignore and go for a walk or go for a drive, you do not have to put up with that, tell her its abuse and she needs to stop, from experience the more you give the more they want … she sounds like a miserable person. And dont tell her anything let the papers be a surprise. And document everything id voice record her rants incase she makes stuff up about you, and that they do
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 03:05 PM
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I dont , worry about things you cant control anymore its a mute point, so i dont and just focus on me and those who matter in my life
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 10:52 PM
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I was angry, more with myself, shouldve never bothered replying when she contacted me, met her on a dating site and she messaged me, myfriends kept telling me i can do 10x better and i shouldve listened, but i was blind,i learned from my mistakes
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 10:21 PM
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I left because she made me miserable, and wouldn’t communicate she would not tell me anything and was talking to other guys behind my back, its easy to read, when she stopped confiding in me and instead would confide in someone else, my mother even told me i deserve better than her, and told me “theres always a couch at my place for you when you finally open your eyes” so i left not even 2 weeks after my mom said that, got on my feet and never looked back
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 09:29 PM
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“Horror show of a wife” i didnt know my ex had a sister🤷🏻‍♂️🤪
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 06:29 AM
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Hit the rippers😂
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 04:47 AM
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Thats where im at right now 10 minute walk away and miserable until i decided a fee days ago it was time to live for me, i dont mind road trips to see my kid, but im definitely not staying in a tiny town with the ex and her whole extended family close by, when i can still see my child the same amount and live for me, there are no jobs other than ones with shit pay and no night life at all, im out🙌
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 10:14 PM
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Atta boy, now call up your buddy’s and go celebrate, liberating isnt it?
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 10:03 PM
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Mine was a word .. 4 letters…starts with a. C😉
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 01:04 AM
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I know the feeling, my exwife was just like that a narcissistic gaslighting wench, talking to somene and hiding it from me and when i find out cuz she was sloppy its”hes just a friend i didnt tell you cuz youd get mad” ya ok i left shortly after, best thing i ever did and would you look at who shes with now? Same “friend” OP grab a hold of your balls talk some sense into them and get out now
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 07:41 PM
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Sorry to break it to you, bit it was more than once and may have never stopped when you got back together, call your lawyer and get out brother, you tried, focus on you, even if it was once which is doubtful? Trust is gone, i mean the fact alone that she slept with 4 guys in what was it 2 weeks after the separation? Thats a red flag for me anyway, and you found out on Christmas, shes saying 2 months ago but yet hes texting in the present, i call bullshit on her part maybe im wrong but does it re…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 07:29 PM
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Material things? Nothing she took it all, what did i gain? My dignity and self respect, ill take that trade anyday🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 06:47 PM
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Never said it is easy, i went through hell myself but you cant sulk you have to file, its a tough situation but if you do nothing nothing will happen, you’re absolutely desperate and i get that, try go fund me people just may help even if its last resort, file yourself and keep trying to find a lawyer but you have to get it started or your ex will argue that you didnt even fight her move
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 08:01 PM
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I mean they will help you see your kids but you have to get in there, represent yourself if you have to but time is ticking you have a window and it will close fast
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 07:55 PM
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Get a lawyer asap and do exactly what he asks, even try gofundme if you have a hard time with the fee, i had the same sort of thing happen to me and was awarded a 50/50 split( i work she didnt), courts will help you get in there asap
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 07:04 PM
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