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You say you’re a hypocrite cause you wouldn’t accept that past behavior in a girl, why is that? Because I know the reasons for my high body number, i.e. I know exact reasons why it happened (i.e. me being cheated on and taking it really badly) and I know those reasons are no longer valid (i.e. I am no longer with the cheating ex). Also, during that period I had been actively seeking casual sex, i.e. it didn't just happen. I had to work on it and invest lots of my time on it (multiple cold approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:08 PM
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We tried to watch for IOI (indicator or interest) when approaching, but it's better to approach every hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:55 PM
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I agree it's rather time-consuming and has low success rate. I had to do tons of cold-approaches and lots of dates. I am not saying it was straightfoward. But then I can approach 20 girls per day (twice per week) and get 3-5 numbers. With a good text game that results in ca. 2 new dates per week. Beats Tinder every singe time in quality and quantity :P Me and wife are both rather old-school approach, lol. I am very adaptive and that why I learned cold approaching and pickup-artistry, but aside f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:13 PM
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Not really :) Wifey is attractive, loyal, reliable and young (26yo I met her). She's definitely not a submissive one (she's stubborn like hell!). When I met her she was working in a small retail store but I didn't care (I have good income). But she had ambition! I paid a half for her studies and covered most of life-expenses and travels. I then polished her CV, trained her for interviews and pushed her to apply for jobs (which sucks when you are getting rejected all the time). She eventually got…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:58 AM
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This is a very short lived career, maybe 10 years max if you start early (20yo) and are hot enough. Once you cross Rubicon, i.e. your 30th birthday, your followers base will start shrinking. Let's say you are hot and you can pull $100k per year for ten years - that's about a one million $ max. After then you are going back to manual labor or shitty office job (because of your lack of experience). Also, your dating pool is very small and your hubby won't have much net worth. In a professional car…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:43 AM
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I am in the same boat as my wife, i.e. I don't want to think about her past partners. As for cuckoldry - fuck that! I am too territorial anyway. Those guys are in the fast lane for a breakup (like 98% of them divorces in two years?). As for other forms of open relationships - wifey is just damn hot for it; I would be setting a firing squad for myself. Nope. As for my two-years stunt - I aimed at 10-15 total lays (to get some experience above my target girl <10 body count) and I never planned to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:15 AM
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I have yet another group: Brainwashed by media and celebrities. I used to belive all promiscous women are somehow damaged, but I moved on from there - they are humans like everyone else. Some are smart, some are stupid. Some might be a good partner, some won't ever be. Some have their shit together, some don't. However, I would never know why she was promiscous and if that really ended. Women (and men) lie a lot and I cannot read their mind yet. The female promiscuity (even former) is just a hug…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:49 AM
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Idk. I never had girl letting me what she was up to before. After a while I got my 6th sense. However, it could be just me - I always was sending strong boyfriend vibes and that could probably made them aware more (later I learned to llisten more). Also, I never had patience for waiting a girl to reveal herself. I preferred to classify her early (even if I skip good ones). I had two LTRs with girls commenting on their exes and it was always pissing me off. I don't keep contact with my exes and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:31 AM
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Absolutely, I mean why would you torture the woman you claim to love by venting private stuff that you know will hurt her? I should have said that it's not like I go around telling women about my past, I'm just honest with my partners and give them honest answers when asked. Oh sorry, it's not like directly saying things. This will just upset your partner. It's like a bit giving hints that you were in demand. Wether you believe it or don't, women were the ones that always brought the "sex past" …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:25 PM
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Nah, it's not that every girl with 20+ N was abused, raped, etc. The most of them are quite normal, i.e. 'the next door girl'. You won't know till you you are close to her. Nevertheless, there are a few factors here: - ick-factor with the knowledge she had so many dicks inside her. It's biological and damn hard to uncondition; - the risk of the above (abuse, rape, etc.), but it's not that prevalent as feminists want us to think (damn, every porn star was 'abused' nowadays - I call that bs); - at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:30 PM
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Idk. For me it was always early rush (fucking like rabbits), then it was coming down. I am a bit hyper-sexual like my dad and I keep exercising. I am right now almost five years with wifey and we are still going strong. It's a first time that long relationship for me and I think we finally connecting (before it was me having trust issues and her having different vision of the marriage). I still get hard-bonner for her every time, but it's not the same as early sex. She is slowly getting more adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 03:14 PM
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Wait till the chemistry drops (two years max), then the fun and insecurities start ^^ Even 10 gets boring after a while. Then you start looking into how-good-partner she is and evaluate risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:00 PM
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Depends where do you live. Red Pillers are a bit extreme, but in major cities girls can easily rack up 20+ (not all of them, but definitely half is 15+).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:45 PM
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A bit of dread goes long way in LTR ^^ Just don't overdo it - your gf should know that you are a man in demand, but not haunted by those images.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:29 PM
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One for me was that past behavior hardly ever stays in the past. Sometimes is does stay in the past, sometimes it doesn't. However, do you want to bet you life and well-being on that? For me it's a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:23 PM
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Those stats are from like a decades ago. During the last decade average number of sexual partners really grew. In major cities, for an 25yo girl, the avergea count should be like 15+. About half of girls I dated were 20-30. There is nothing wrong with having causual sex and it doesn't make a bad person by default. I know many awesome women with high N who have their shit together and are more accomplished than their male work-colleguages. However, imho, it makes you a risky partner in the contex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:18 PM
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In my 20-ies, I was a good guy and racked like 5 partners. Then I met a girl who had like 30+ bodies, but I didn't care much. I recall we had a talk when she disclosed her number and I was like 'wtf?', but that was it. I didn't feel threatened or insecure. However, a few months later I found she cheated on me with her sugar daddy and those 30+ bodies suddenly came and hit me in my face. Shortly afterwards there was 2nd cheating (much worse!), so I downloaded her phone content and emails. Then I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:19 PM
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Nah, my friend. It doesn't work like that :) I am far from the good one, lol (read my other posts), but I call that bs. The casual sex is awesome - some sugar babies will try extra with you and they are naturally sex-positive (i.e. willing to get in the ass, lol). However, the 'relationship' part it as fake as it goes. Those girls meet you for your money and a part of the deal is to pretend you guys have a 'relationship'. Actually, it's even more funny, they might fell in 'love' because the sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 02:20 PM
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Coolidge Effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:37 AM
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Oh, I cannot disagree more (in a friendly way!) that cold approaching is for chads only :) At my uni, I was beta like fuck (maybe even gamma, lol). Imagine a shy skinny nerd with unfitted clothes - I am the guy behind him :P Plus my uni course was quite prestigous, there were tons of those tall/handsome dudes from good families. Damn, I was a virgin till 25 :( Skip five years and you see me with a genuine 9, in major European city in my own house. What changed? I found a PUA and game. Then I wen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 11:20 AM
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Thank you for sharing that. I guess you did right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:13 AM
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Cold approaching is hard my friend. Firstly, guys have approach anxiety, i.e. fear of being blown by girl. Secondly, it's hard to be super extroverted during conversation with a stranger. Hot girls tend to be initally mean and you have to plough through that bitch shield. Thirdly, even after getting her number, why should she respond to you at all? Flakes are the worst. When I hear a woman telling how dating is terrible for her, I immediately ask a question - how many guys did you stood up in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:08 PM
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a long term relationship which is the goal of many. from what I saw it really varies with age: 20-24yo very rarely thinks of any ltr and just enjoy chads. That's the easiest age to have casual sex with them. Just talk to them and if they like you, they will fuck you; 25-28yo start to realise that Chad is not suitable for ltr and look for boyfriend material. This is the hardest time to have sex with them, because you need to give boyfriend vibes and also player vibes in right doses (varies per pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:59 PM
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Regardless of how we call it, what is the value she provides? If that's only sex, then I can get a sugar baby and escort way cheaper. And then rotate them every few years. If that's reproduction value, what values and moral code will she pass to my children? I don't have anything against being a main provider (I earn 8x more than wife) and building safe environment for children, but wifey has many other positive traits I hope she will pass into children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:29 PM
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Women have both enormous access to chads (by going to clubs or registering on Tinder) and also to guys in their social circles (work, university, etc.). However, the older they get, the less guys in their social circles are available (because they pair up). The most of women join the apps because they either don't have those social circles anymore or the available guys are taken already. However, they are still selecting those men on online apps just like they were selecting chads, i.e. based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:20 PM
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I think it's a case of people saying one thing and acting differently. Lol, that's very true :) I had a situation where one girl cheated on me twice. Long story short - I took her back after the first time, the second time was even worse and completely zeroed my self-esteem for a while. The pull of good pussy is terribly strong and we had this crazy chemistry (I am bit hyper-sexual, so was she). However, if you asked me before I would say 'it's auto-dump after cheating'. I dumped her eventually,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:16 PM
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I'm. Not sure what the percentage is. All I can say is that it hasn't made a noticeable difference. I accept that. I did some Googling yesterday but I couldn't find any pool or whatever. May I ask what were your circumstances? Your boyfriend ballied out or something? Btw, I am interested in Nikki here: https://youtu.be/Bym1i6xwqbg. I watched it for a while now. Nikki's damn hot AND a single mum. I guess she will find some dude, I just wonder what will be his status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 02:48 PM
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I had a situation like this. I was a pickup artist and I managed to get a girl via cold approach. To make things clear - I have good career, education, etc. and I was definitely boyfriend material. The cold approached was just the way to get into relationships with hot girls because 'wine & dine' didn't work. She was 7 and it was my first relationship with a hot girl. We had crazy chemistry; however, I didn't realise that she saw me only as a fuckboy. She cheated on me once (she had sugar daddy)…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:27 AM
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It doesn't matter, ~30% of men unilaterally say single moms are deal breakers. The higher up the socioeconomic ladder you go, that number sky rockets. For men in the top 10-20%, it's pretty much 100%. Is there any pool or research for those ~30%? I would imagine it to be much higher. Me and my friends are definitely not in the top 10-20%, but I still don't know any of them to be willing to commit to a single mum. The only one who I recall had a brief FWB relationship with a single mum and it las…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:59 AM
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I automatically think there's something wrong with guys who cold approach - like they're very socially inept or don't really care about women. I guess that somewhat true. I didn't have social circles where I could find girlfriend, so I had to improvise. As for carying about women - I don't think it's much different vs. 'normal' guys. Some PUAs are assholes and want to be a player forever. Those are usually the loudest ones with substancial online presence. However, for many of us, we eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:18 PM
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No I mean it would drive me bonkers if I lived somewhere where dudes cold approached. LOL, and it certainly does piss off girls. Imagine walking Oxford Circus and being stopped three times with the same lines :D But from the other side - PUA are generally very much into self-improvement and are pro-active. Would you really like to date a dude who sits in his flat all day and who doesn't try anything better than Tindr? I am good example - I started as a skinny nerd with unfitted clothes and the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:05 PM
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I don't know one single person on this planet who has successfully cold approached on the streets. You know me now :) Check those: https://youtu.be/PQQYKKqPYhc and https://youtu.be/IZHIy4BnNE4. There are many videos on YT. Maybe it's a uk/Europe thing. Either way, I'm very grateful I don't have to put up with that shit - it would drive me bonkers. I agree it's very time consuming and you need to do it for a few years to get results. It's just hard to become natural to talking to people you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:56 PM
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OK, it seems to be working for you nicely :) My perspective might be a bit biased. When I was hunting for a girlfriend I was an active pickup artist and I never had a problem with getting the next date. Plus I have a good career and I am physically fit. I was able to afford to be picky knowing the next date will come quickly (i.e. weekly). I was in early 30ies and my gf search-range was 23-27. Wifey was 26 when I met her and it still took me 18 months of approaches. I never registered on Tindr o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:47 PM
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For casual dating - I guess I would have no objections if sex is good. But for anything long-term, it's a dealbreaker. How I see it - a kid is a liability. It takes time and money. Plus it takes from your time which you could be spending with me. Are you somewhat insanely hot? What kind of men are you dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:27 PM
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Maybe 1/10 dudes who meet me care about it. I have serious doubts about that. I dated two single mums, but dropped them as soon as I learned they have kids. One was social worker and quite young (~26yo?), she got pregnant during uni. The second I don't remember. Funny enough, both were hot and had nice personalities. I would definitely date them if they had no children. I am sorry, but I want to have my own family. Anything long-term is off table.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:09 PM
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Most men are just executing their default programming, i.e. be kind and nice to girls, be reliable, don't be that bad boy. It's something we were taught by our parents because it worked in their time. However, with so many Internet forums, it's coming to an end. Also, maybe 20% of top good-looking men can readily have casual sex. For the remaining 80% they need to learn how to be confident and mean. It took me four years to uncondition myself from being a 'nice guy'. Funny enough, just after I b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:21 PM
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Sorry, I misinterpreted your question then. I don't see any issue with single mothers outside dating context. Shit happens for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:12 PM
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Google for 'Yad Stop'. This is the famous 'kiss-video': https://youtu.be/htxEFH23ZZE Basically you run before girl, raise your hand to stop her and start talking. In classic scenario it's 'hi, can I say something really quickly. I just saw you there and you are cute'. Keep it light and funny for a few minutes, and then ask for a number. Sometimes you can pull girl for an instant date. Very rarely you can also pull her home. That's a good routine for a start, but once you get better you will act …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 09:06 PM
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It's generally about resource investment, i.e. as a male who wants my own family, why should I date single mums? Her kids will cost my money and time. At the same time, I am reminded that a woman I date did not make right choices when selecting a partner. Is that a good bet for anything more than a fling? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:50 PM
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OLD doesn't work and I agree. I did a lot of 'wine and dine' and it usually ended with 'let's be friends'. However, I completely disagree that cold approaching doesn't work. I started with Day Game because I am too introverted for clubs and I had full time job (it's hard to awake after a night of drinking). It took me three months to get first number. Afterwards it took me the next month to get laid to an 7. It was my first relationship with a hot girl and it went really badly. I had more consis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:35 PM
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