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| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.But I don't think socialization comes from no where. I think it's interesting in 6k years of human history, across all cultures, races, religions, creeds, and nationalities, we've had so few matriarchal societies. It's almost like there's a natural order to things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.But I believe there's a spectrum I'm a very assertive woman. But on the assertiveness spectrum, I probably am still less assertive than your average man. Exceptions prove rules. Yes, you know a gay guy who knows how to fight. If anything, that just shows how innate aggression in your sex is, regardless of sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.They get eye rolls from liberal women. From normal, centrist women like myself, they just seem like normal men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.I agree with this. Even the female directors I work with aren't known for being able to give direct feedback or make the tough decisions. And I'm in consulting, so these are the feminist girlbosses to the extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:43 AM |
| – | A lot of your problems in dating are simply your faultYes. I've accepted I'll never be stunningly beautiful, rich or famous. Hell, homeownership looks less likely each passing year. Death and taxes are the only guarantees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 01:02 AM |
| – | A lot of your problems in dating are simply your faultIt is their fault, yes. They're not finding a romantic partner because they're not attracting one. It's shallow, and it sucks, but if you're in this scenario, you need to temper your expectations accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityDo you know how scary it is to have someone put their hands on your neck and then when you're rightfully scared they suddenly get all sheepish? So much of porn is so violent. Having men exposed to this behavior from a young age is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityLesbian porn is extremely harmful and homophobic, you guys just don't listen to "real" lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:40 AM |
| 0 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityI'm pro masturbation. I'm anti-porn. You're creating a false binary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityMichael Knowles had a great point the other day. Ever notice how the most popular categories just seem to get weirder and weirder? To the point where it's like not even obviously arousing? It's because we're all so desensitized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedAs a conservative woman, good luck with that. Why you wouldn't embrace the women who don't hate you will always be funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedFor better or worse, women's issues tend to be systemic. Sports gambling is a great example. Women banded together to get the right to vote because it was an issue that affected all women. However, when it comes to sports betting, even though it's primary men who suffer, you're going to get the completely fair reaction from other men telling you to stop being a degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedAre they disaffected? Yes, there's frustration about the economy, but women seemed to echo that sentiment as well. Something I've noticed on this sub as well, many of the men who aren't getting laid are also liberal/anti trump. I think the fresh and fit voting block is very small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedOf course. I worked in suicide prevention. It's a very nuanced thing that happens. The profile of who actually is successful is still very confusing. Generalizing, it's often people who had it all: not some lonely incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:14 PM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI mean, sure. It's just unfortunate how much we hate women as a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:08 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocencebecause one day you will be an older white woman and you'll want the benefit of the doubt when someone pulls their phone out during confrontation. Karen is a sexist and ageist term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:42 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceRight. Unless the woman is conservative, men know they have talking points to follow if they want to get laid nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:41 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceRight, I don't have a dog in this fight. I'm glad it back to the states. If you want abortion, you can write your own laws for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:22 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceThey needed a carrot to get people to the polls. The right does the same with immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:18 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceYup, I'm 28 so we're at the age where my liberal girlies are picachu shocked that their fwb found a 'nice girl' and are getting serious/engaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:12 AM |
| – | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI live in one of the most liberal places in the US (Boston) Most of my friends still seek out the very small pool of masculine, conservative men. They're just quiet about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Depends what kind of red pill. I am red pill myself in the traditionalist sense. But if he's the type who is looking for a harem and thinks he can leave me post wall (which at 28 I am), that won't fly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Most of the easier women I know from college are married. It's the frigid ones who thought they were too good to who are still single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:53 PM |
| 4 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?I'm a firm believer there's a lid for every pot. The women I know from church are chaste. They usually end up with Christian men. If you're having trouble finding those with similar world views, I'd suggest changing the spaces you're in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?If you don't want your wife to have had a past, simply marry a woman without a past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Are you really "doing it for yourself"?No, I was doing it for male attention. I'm married now, and my "look" is lululemon athleisure, minimal make up, and I get my hair done like once a quarter. The only clothes I have that are somewhat "nice" are business clothing for work. Compare it to a picture of me from college, where I had bleach blonde hair, nails, tanner, and you could always see my ass and or tits. What changed? Whose attention I care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:12 PM |
| 20 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityExactly. Every group wants power. It's naive to think they stop at "equality" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:55 PM |
| -1 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.That PUAs and red pill ideology aren't the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Online sure. But irl, "nice guys finish last" is still a very common adage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:04 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Right? I'm not my husband's partner. I'm his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.I mean, is it anger or is it frustration? I'm happily married and I guess you could same I'm "angry" on behalf of young men and women being that the chances of them having normal, stable marriages seems like it's becoming less and less possible for the average man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.But you never see the captain of the football team researching PUA stuff. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.I echo this. PUA advice I'd argue never works as it's not a science, as people are fickle. But AF, BB, is true which is why I also had a RP flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones).Right. Electricians can make 6 figures. Many of them probably don't even make close to that... Many women think because caviar men will sleep with them, they're also caviar, which is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 06:09 PM |
| 14 | CMV: "Watch what women do, not what they say" is misogynisticThere's nothing that turns women off quicker than listening to a man talk about his feelings or God forbid, cry. Emotionally available is just code for "listen to me talk shit about my friends and pretend you're interested." It's not reciprocated whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 7 | CMV: "Watch what women do, not what they say" is misogynisticI think this is just the "Women are wonderful" effect. Yes, actions speak louder than words. You're not being silenced. Bffr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 05:52 PM |
| 7 | The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered...I agree. Maybe it's because the younger gen of women is groomed to see men as inherently predatory. I'm 28 and have friends that would find issues with an age gap, alongside everything else... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolGotta go overseas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingWhy didn't they do that in 2016? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI don't think it's organic. My husband is a great litmus test as he has no social media. If someone talks about how much they love Kamala (and we hear it a lot) his response is "that's cool vote for who think is best." The only people I see getting hot and bothered are the chronically online/politically obsessed. And it's hard to break through to them because they think they're coming from a place of activism or being informed. In reality, they sound like old man yells at cloud. I've lived throu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI'm joking. Lighten up won't you Francis. So, trump wins, project 2025 is enacted. Abortion is codified in my state's constitution. What now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingNot really, I'm employed But that doesn't answer my question. Kamala wins, now what? How do we protect wimmins rights? We suddenly codify Abortion rights as if we didn't have the last 40 years to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI've experienced that, but less and less since 2020 and I'm in Boston so everyone here has some point considered themselves an activist. The internet is not real. The pendulum is moving towards the center, and arguably towards the right every day. Anecdotally, my office gutted our DEI department in 2023 and sent out an email for tomorrow that we all need to respect each other's views. I could not imagine that kind of email going out during the silence is violence era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI'm in MA. No one is forced to do anything. How a president has the ability to stop this has yet been explained to me. I didn't know presidents can overturn supreme court rulings. Checks and balances and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?No problem at all girlie. I don't doubt women's ability to handle a job and be responsible for their offspring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?Life is about calculated risk. And mocked by whom? The women who were never wanted or protected in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?I trust my man. If you see men as creatures you always need to be wary of; I wouldn't give up my paycheck either. My Mom's degree is from Michigan, a top 25 school. I think she could do a risk benefit analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?I'd love to see the breakdown of this by class. None of the C-Suite at my job has a working wife. And this is in Boston, a pretty progressive place. My Dad, a financier, also has had a wife stay home for the majority of their 30-year marriage despite my sister and I being married with children ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?As a wife, my favorite thing to do on the weekends when I'm off from work is to light a candle, clean the house, and cook a nice meal for my husband who works so hard for us. I'm in my late 20s, and as I grow older, I know it's always going to mean more to him than being hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?It's funny cause it's true. I totally get there's female doctors, lawyer engineers out there, and kudos to them, but for the middle management pencil pushers like me, trad life looks more appealing every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIf someone brings up abortion in polite conversation, I assume they're losers with nothing else to focus on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:47 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?The spectrum between two binaries as presented by OP. And I agree with you. None of the wealthier men I work with have working wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?They don't want to hear it. They believe they can have it all. My team iced out one mother completely when she went on MAT leave. The one who just came back, you can tell the baby is not sleeping because she's pretty spacey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?Most women are somewhere on the spectrum. And I've seen the most career driven women change into "trads" when life changes for them. We had one women "nope" out of the office after only two weeks of being back from maternity leave. Said she didn't want other people raising her baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?Right, but it's only recently that we're expected to act like 6000 years of attraction standards simply no longer exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife?As they should. Everyone should be with someone they're attracted to. Older women simply become less attractive to many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingRight. This election is between a moderate and a leftist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingD&Cs are legal in most if not all states. This doomsday scenario is not something I take seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIt would be so boring if everyone around me agreed on every single thing. I'm so glad I'm friends with people across the spectrum. I'm even glad my husband is so different than me politically, even though we vote the same. It keeps me sharp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI'm a woman, and many women close to me (in a red state) have gotten abortions. So, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingNo, but my experience is my own; and it's based off of my time working in Europe. They don't have the victim complex we have as women/minorities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThank God, can we get rid of working the Monday directly after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:02 AM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingBecause if 51% wins, there's still 49% of people who aren't being represented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAs a woman and a member of the LGBT community myself the sky isn't falling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingWhich rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAnd they're usually easier and hate their dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingLand can't filly out a ballot silly goose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYour rhetoric. It's hysteric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 10:51 PM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYes I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 10:50 PM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThis is so dramatic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Politics and dating is so annoyingHuman rights? aka things I want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:43 PM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingDemocracy is two wolves and a sheep deciding what's for dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAgreed. I really liked how you phrased this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Politics and dating is so annoyingEssentially, the electoral college exists so New York City and Los Angeles don't get to pick the leader each time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAlso, most ideology exists on a spectrum. Not many people believe 100% of whatever camp they fall into. I am told I'm prochoice because the legality of abortion (When given to the states) doesn't bother me. We live in a democracy; I have to accept it. But I find abortion disgusting and will never advocate for it to be the first or second choice for an unexpecting mother. If a potential partner was like "oh you're pro-choice we can work" it doesn't actually encompass the totality of my belief sys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI mean look at the reaction women are having over abortion going back to the states. Kamala is going to win the election based on women being emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAs a responsible adult, I've never been in the scenario to need one. The only people I know who have had them were hot messes themselves. I'm not going into a relationship upset about a topic on other people's behalf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYeah I've seen my liberal girlfriends fold pretty quickly despite their indigitation about topics when we're out to dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Politics and dating is so annoyingWe are human beings who want to mate. We think we are more evolved than Monkeys, but someone is going to give. I was super liberal coming out of college (wanting to rebel against my upbringing of course). After meeting my now husband, I realized that the super liberal thing wasn't going to work if I wanted to marry this man. Ironically, I think I'm more conservative than he is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingLet me be clear, it's not that I don't care. My early ballot was processed last week. I listen to political podcasts every day. But in regard to my social and romantic experience, this is a non-issue. Maybe we will talk about something we saw in the headlines, but this dramatic ~human rights~ rhetoric isn't in my social circle. It's not what wealthy, attractive, people care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingRight. I live in Massachusetts. Let me tell you some of the things I've heard about the LGBT from lifelong democrats. They may vote democrat, but they're still Catholics at the end of the day... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:41 PM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIt's only an emotionally charged issue if you're emotional about it. I'm more pro-life than my husband, but I understand that it's a state's right issue and our state has voted to allow it. Not really much I can do. I think Bill Burr has the best take on abortion. Go check out the clip if you haven't. It really deflates the bitching and moaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI'll take it. And it's not that we're too busy being hot (It really doesn't take that much work if you're genetically blessed), we just tend to have nice jobs, active social calendars, and hobbies. There's a correlation between being ugly and not having much going on in your life. Politics is like religion- it's open for everyone and there's no barrier to entry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingI'm sure they're super beautiful and conventionally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Politics and dating is so annoyingYes, as one of the southern conservative girlies this is true. We do care, but we're not annoying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingNo one would openly call their friends ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingIn my experience, once I had my glow up and got into circles with other "Attractive" people, politics is discussed in passing. It's below average people who need something to focus on. We're too busy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Politics and dating is so annoyingExactly. It's a privilege to be able to mope and whine about theory and legislation. Most people have pressing, immediate, material problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:21 PM |
| -1 | Politics and dating is so annoyingAs a woman, we need cut these theatrics out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:20 PM |
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