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| 2 | Sex is good for men and women to doDo you also look up weed studies while your friends are passing a blunt and read them to them outloud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Men could literally wake up one day and repress all the women on earth, men have 0 reason to be upset at women's behaviors.Yes sorry my autocorrect >< | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Men could literally wake up one day and repress all the women on earth, men have 0 reason to be upset at women's behaviors.Maybe men should work on becoming more attractive to women, women aren’t born looking good straight outside of the womb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Men could literally wake up one day and repress all the women on earth, men have 0 reason to be upset at women's behaviors.Men should all read about Aquatofana story, many men who think they can just abuse and suppress women back in the day also died in mysterious ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Men could literally wake up one day and repress all the women on earth, men have 0 reason to be upset at women's behaviors.Read about the relation between misogyny and how repressing women is actually bad for many countries economically, if it’s gonna hurt shareholders pocket they’ll definitely push feminist ideology even if they don’t agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you actually want women to do?Oh … sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 10:10 PM |
| 12 | What do you actually want women to do?That’s crazy because even men can’t do this, how do expect it back ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Okay….. so what, who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.I also wish I had a rainbow unicorn that shits skittles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Well dumbass, you can still get sex reliably, without playing the game. Through prostitution, idk what else do you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 04:42 PM |
| – | Male sexuality just seems borderline antisocial to meThe thing is ,most can’t, your average 20s girl isn’t interested in anyone that’s older by more than five years than her, but if these men have something that she want ( status, money…) best believe he’ll take his chance with her . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Well get better at identifying who’s worth the investment , since the lot of yall like to tell women to pick better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.I do, lol we fight over who pays everytime we go out, my friends we buy each others wish list items, flowers, cakes, even when we were students and had barely anything to scrap by, men are lonely bc they can’t comprehend women will do this just bc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:36 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Where I live ,prostitution is legal and brothels and so far women hasn’t formed a Ss squads, again yall are weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:22 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Women nowadays make just as much as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Weirdly only 2 I’d say from 10 guys who can get casual sex actually go after it, most of them seem to stick to the girl they met at 18 or in college and are happy they don’t need to date anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.You think a date and some flowers are paying for it? Most women will do that for their friends and expect nothing back, yall are weird . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to not have many things to talk about?Maybe other men are more interring for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?It’s 2025 and most of them live in western secular countries, they should go out and explore these urges instead of projecting their fantasies on the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 09:56 AM |
| 14 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?Sometimes i forget that im reading a post written by a hetero male, they really like to go into details. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 09:52 AM |
| 6 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realYes and men on the other hand did indeed explored all thier dark sides, did shadow work, got over their mommy and daddy issues, healed their Madonna whore complexes and are now higher beings of consciousness bc….. they are on Reddit discussing things women intuitively picked on when they were seven ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realWomen from now on should shout out facts from the rooftops to clear any misunderstanding, there’s girls at 10 finding out that the prettiest girl in the class is getting crushed on by the equally attractive boy and act accordingly, but men well in their twenties and thirties still struggling with this concept, ofc nobody will tell you to your face they value looks above all else, they’ve been socialized to not do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 01:12 AM |
| 4 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.That’s a crazy thing to say when the whole point of marriage was quite literally a „business transaction „ between the women family and the groom, idk what kind of lala land yall are talking about, it’s not more transactional than any point of time before that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.As a women , I did , actually they’re very popular ( Latino men and women ) in middle Europe countries at least . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:45 AM |
| 5 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.This makes so much sense, the guys that I know are popular with girls are exactly like this, they love deeply and feel too much almost, while the ones who say they don’t know why they don’t get much attention back are usually emotionally detached and cold in their approach ( before yall jump on the attractiveness train let me tell you several Casanovas i observed were neither tall(5’7 or 8) or handsome nor rich) . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:44 AM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highMost women are aware they’re not doing it for themselves, at least every woman I know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 10:37 AM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highIt’s like the beauty industry that targets women is a billion dollars industry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedYou would do the same thing provided you’re attracted to me stop with this nonsense . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosWhy do you think the others aren’t participating? At least as much as you want them too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:27 PM |
| -1 | Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them.I mean she has a point ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsWhere do you live buddy ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 08:22 AM |
| 3 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsIm actually curious about that as well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:46 AM |
| 7 | Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery?It’s not that easy , most have actually a tedious skin care regime thar they follow up with some concealer or foundation to cover up things that no ointment can help (scars, dark circles , hyperpigmentation….) , most already dye thier eyebrows at home but some people have most to none so they have to either draw them or get them tattooed, most eyelash serums don’t do anything (some worsen the dark circles), plus the ladies that you see done up most of the time just enjoy it and like to experimen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 12:27 AM |
| – | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule: What's unfair about casual sex only being available for the top 20% of menIsn’t that the same thing for women? At least they can improve money wise or character wise, for women that’s all what’s the emphasis on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Women and Men have completely different ideas about sexGurl take his hand and put it on your clit while yall are at it ,he should automatically get to work and yeah men can multitask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Women and Men have completely different ideas about sexUsually that’s the first thing they go for after caressing your breats, most men know neck, breast and clit are the usual pleasure zones for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Women are standoffish to men far more frequently than vice versaDepends on your nationality, culture and social class, from my point of view and how I experienced the world, men were the unfriendly scary and callous gender, they had the most despicable names for women they thought were unattractive, laughed and physically harassed girls daily , by meeting guys who are from a different social class you’d think I’m lying because they were the very picture of a Gentleman . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectationsYou know … forced means bring back no fault divorce ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 09:57 PM |
| 10 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Mine is also cats, outfits , makeup and sight seeing, if you seek more of something obviously you’re going to see just that, which will make you less able to objectively observe and form your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively for male attentionNo but I sure dislike you ,you sure think you know it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:35 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionLol maybe my experience is unique bc me and my now hijabi friend will dress in big long shirts that hide everything, wear no makeup and tie up our hair , avoid eye contact or paint a permanent scowl on cause men wouldn’t let you live in peace (its normalized in certain countries), first thing I did when I moved where men are socialized to never approach a women unless in bars or clubs was wearing the shortest skirt I could find , my friend from Iran does the same thing, she dress provocatively/d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:36 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…If we look at it this way, most men are taller than most women , women that are too tall are also excluded the way short men are so I don’t see the point of this post again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why can't women take an L?I will be if I was explicitly asked . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why can't women take an L?I’ll be objective and be honest about what he can improve in whatever means necessary to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 11:55 AM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?Exactly it’s a one Billion dollar industry, if a woman actually asks for my opinion and specifically asks for me to be honest about her looks I’ll give it without holding back ,otherwise why would anyone be going around offering unsolicited harsh opinions like that ? What does it benefit you to betitle them and put them down, it seems like some of these men seem to don’t understand etiquette and social grace . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menHave you had anyone voice some of these red pills takes to you ? Most men irl seem to want the opposite of what they describe as a feminine women (some men from my culture do like that but some are the opposite),also saw many guys who prefer an older women with career aspirations and opinionated attitude as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:16 AM |
| 8 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menI totally get you , although i’m mainly here for two subs about skincare and fashion, I love looking at other people’s unique point of view and challenging their opinions and getting mine also questioned, before Reddit every dinner was an opportunity for me to discuss politics, news , ideas now I moved I needed that back , so I joined Reddit . I think you’re right on types of people on Reddit 😆 sometimes they’re also just like to oppose other people and get them riled up for the fun of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 2 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesMENA Region, US dating climate seems …. quite intense, because even in Europe I noticed men don’t struggle in dating it’s actually the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesEverytime I go on this sub I get a cultural shock 😟 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Well women generally don’t give a sht, don’t think you’re so special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:51 AM |
| 8 | No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with.I have a friend like this , she’s the most sane rational person and matter of fact she’s smart af and goes to med school, i don’t understand is it that hard to believe some women just enjoy casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Does female bonding sound as artificial as I think it does? Or is this how women genuinely feel?You’d be surprised on how much women the flamboyant man attract . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Does female bonding sound as artificial as I think it does? Or is this how women genuinely feel?Finding something to compliment in someone isn’t lying , I went with a friend out one day and she es planing on taking pictures so she was dressed to the nine and had makeup on (unusual for her) she literally looked so beautiful I had to let her know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?You think the the six or eight developed countries women are representative of the rest of female population struggles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle?Right to you and you body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?😂 why is he do defensive?, what did you even do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:30 PM |
| 3 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Exactly! I never know this is a problem until I learned English and got on this side of the internet, my roommates is my height (5’7) and was in his late twenties, Still a student, far from the beauty standards, and had two girlfriends. My bf got asked out by one of our classmate and they went on date and it was nice and they’ve been in a relationship ever since,he’s also my height and a student and far from BS, while she was gorgeous and was always asked out by multiple people but she liked him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:54 PM |
| 6 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerGenerally speaking, attractiveness naturally comes with wealth, better access to doctors and surgeons to fix or prevent anything not wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesTHIS! So much this! How is “you’re so vanilla !” Is turned to an insult nowadays, like it or not bdsm is not healthy and most of the time is unresolved trauma soothed temporarily behind kinks and “exploration” which can be unhealthy. As well, plastering (it’s between two consenting adults/none of your business) shuts down the important discussion that should be had about it, porn is now being exposed to children and teens and it’s very obvious how addicting porn can get , at some point a 17 yo w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesThat’s why I don’t understand, they think it’s fair to think this way about other women until they get married and have daughters then watch how they won’t let a red pill man in 100km radius of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.I think both Johnny and amber were toxic , she was just crazier but that doesn’t make him a saint, this is coming from someone who supported him even before the trial started I always thought he was innocent but my mind changed after it, it’s low of him to try to submit intimate videos of them both to the court and expose her past (she was a exotic dancer), court ruled it as irrelevant evidence anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALAlthough I never grew up in a cultural where sex before marriage is a thing. I believe women are right in making men wait until fifth date or forever, it doesn’t make sense on why should she not make them wait to weed out the not serious ones , you rage all day on how women nowadays are so promiscuous and have high body count but want women have sex on first date , wouldn’t men think she’s easy for doing that and dump her anyway resulting in her having a higher body count everytime , yall are co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesIsn’t he a pimp that owns a MLM scheme and have confessed to sex human trafficking ? Y’all have some weird idols nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Yes, Women are judged by many things BUT Don't forget the fact that people have a natural tendency to just put women on a pedestal.I don’t understand the sentiment here, men sometimes never cease to amaze me with their naivety, you’re mad women are only valued for their outer appearance? Guess who else doesn’t want that either! She just sitting there doing her damn job that she went to school for but bc he’s accomplished In his career they should bring someone else on his level to interview him, preferably male with same background as him as well? No? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?It does nothing for me, if his body is chiseled I mostly appreciate the works that goes into it, but on rare occasions i do think “oh , he looks good” in wanting to jump his bones kind of way but that’s rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 20 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:They didn’t have porn back then, yeah they had magazines, drawing but that’s not as advanced as the porn we have today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Yeah the 2000s were the time for them to shine , the kims made thick popular throughout the years, the trend didn’t reach Asia though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Oh understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 8 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?So skinny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Where are you from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the good looking people IRL?I live in a big city, If I want to see some chads I just go downtown or richer part of the city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Recent changes to public perception of masculinity have made men, on average, softer, weaker, and less attractive which is partially why so many women are choosing to remain singleDo people forget being overly masculine or feminine is a turn off for both genders, a balance of both is what an individual should strive for, I think he should say usually women are not attracted to overly feminine men just like men are repulsed by an overly masculine women, but even those who have an imbalance can find a partner they just have to find a partner who balances them out, like a fem man with a masc women or the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 30 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Ego, it tells him he’s not enough, he’s weak and the other man is stronger richer or simply better, it wounds his masculinity that he fights so hard to protect everyday, his nature tells him to protect it and keep the women so he multiply and keeps the genes going, we tend to forget sex is not just pleasure, sex is power, and therefore he lost the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Women want to feel desired by many men, men want to be desired by one wonan only.He’s probably religious, my bets are on a Muslim or a devoted Christian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Women want to feel desired by many men, men want to be desired by one wonan only.This sub have some insane ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 5 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Are you helping raising these said babies? Why do you give a fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Abortion do not only happen to single women, married women often face misscarriage and it’s pretty indistinguishable from abortion thus endangering the mothers life by banning abortion , plus women are the ones who takes care of that child in 90 percent of the cases and as long as no one is paying her the parental leave, diapers,clothes,food, daycare and everything else she should not be forced to have it, there also women who are victims of rape would be forced to carry it, your question does n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?As a third world women resident, both genders have it super easy like man I log in on some subs sometimes to see what’s new just get a reality check, you dont go hungry? Your fridge is full when you open it? When going outside alone at you feel safe to some point? No harassment on daily basis? All you gotta worry about is getting laid and where you should travel this summer, your life is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t more men get sex bot?I don’t think men themselves know what they want, they’re just as confused and they don’t know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there truth in this - If a woman doesn't give you her body, she isn't interested in you?I don’t know, it’s not about him I’m just religious :). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?I’m single , I’ve been only in one six months relationship in my life when I was 19, we broke off before Covid by a week and been single since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Porn has actually freed men more than anything invented beforeThe reason is ... as a result of the lack in sex and brain fried by porn they only view women as sex objects, it could be also his upbringing, some of these men have deep mommy issues, every woman is a slut or a gold digger but his mom ,they grow up with this deep hatredand resentment for the other sex and too much porn doesn’t help either, instead of shutting the indigo page of pornhub and sit down in silence and do some reflection on themselves and why they think this way , they go on YouTube … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Porn has actually freed men more than anything invented beforeWell good for you ig, keep watching porn since sex is all what women are good for, certainly not something a porn watcher would say . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:35 PM |
| 16 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Based on his bitter af personally and boho I’m the victim attitude, grow tf up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:57 PM |
| 21 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Another red pill favorite humbling method, okay ? Why did they approach her then? And why should they be entitled to her attention, women don’t have an inflated self image, actually women nowadays are more insecure than ever, ever heard of instagram and the rise of plastic surgery, y’all have 100% audacity and 0% shame , find a middle ground ffs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 5 | How many of you have seen the Madonna Whore Complex in action?Kuwait: 60% Bahrain: 24% UAE : 25% Qatar: 34% Morocco: 40% Egypt: 10% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 5 | How many of you have seen the Madonna Whore Complex in action?Yeah, otherwise it’s going to be hard , tests to prove virginity are popular here. That I don’t know, we still have high divorce rate though, she can get an arranged marriage they’re quite popular too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 17 | How many of you have seen the Madonna Whore Complex in action?It’s not as rare as people think, at least where I live, especially in religious communities, here women are generally expected to be virgins till they marry, but the new generation is « surprise « have sex before marriage, I’m not sure the statistics because no one will admit to it, but it happens, so men will love his girlfriend and date her for years but will marry the girl his mom choose for him, we joke about this where i live a lot, they rarely ever marry a girl they’ve dated for long even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?I will feel okay with it if it looks good, prob ask for tips too, everyone likes looking at beauty . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 17 | Why are single mothers far more commonplace than single fathers?Women usually care more about their kids than men, men always joke about girls (sometimes boys) with daddy issues like it’s something funny, and then they wonder why court give custody to mothers more often, ask any jury and they’ll tell you men rarely ask for it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?Some Men are really just pulling shit out of their ars at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 34 | How to lower standards?No I don’t think this type of men can be gaslighted into giving avg girls chance, some men literally do not see women that are not attractive worth even acknowledging their existence, like even for friendship they’ll rather be friend- zoned by a stacy than befriend an avg girl he does not find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 12:45 PM |
| 11 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI live in Morocco, due to its proximity with Europe we’re definitely more liberated than some of our neighbors (still not even close the US level of liberty) and I must admit we have issues on our own , also it seems impossible for traditional women there to find a match, it like women are just objects of desire to some men no matter what is the setting . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 25 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldNo matter how much I hate that I live in a conservative country, I appreciate that sex comes after marriage here, at least no one is expecting it from you when you date them like you guys do, it seems exhausting . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the root cause of almost all dating/gender relations problems and everything being discussed hereExactly you’re entitled to like that, but watch out when they find your comment and start calling you names, I mean it’s not even a matter of preference but it seems like a projection and insecurity of their part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:45 PM |
| 17 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themYou are not a woman (living in the western world or not) so you simply won’t get it, of course not all men are evil but they simply are looking out for themselves, if your feeling hurt because of that then consider it a privilege that only your feelings get hurt , life is unpredictable women would rather be rude and not get in that car or get in bc she’s too polite to decline and ended up in a ditch, will refuse a drink or drink it bc she’s too polite and ended up drugged, she will not say yes b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the root cause of almost all dating/gender relations problems and everything being discussed hereThis is true , that’s why it’s so hypocritical of men to shame women for their N body (ik you have a preference but evreytime I open PPD there’s at least 10 guys crying and slut shaming women) , because if women were hornier than men and the roles reversed and suddenly men can get sex easily just like women can do now they’ll probably be racking up three digit N body more than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Sex life of a high value man?First of all if he “pump and dumb” he’s not a high value man, just because he’s goodlooking, rich and young doesn’t make a high value man instantly, if he to tell me he have a women in his bed every week or night Many women will be instantly turned off, because he clearly has no respect for either the women or himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 6 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?Exactly, a man who is out of touch with his feminine side is going to have as much trouble in life as a overly feminine men by lacking emotional intelligence and other feminine qualities that will help him greatly, same goes for a women that is overly feminine and a masculine woman. This unbalance often comes from our upbringings, some men are taught that femininity in men is something to be frowned upon, or taught that masculinity is inherently bad and “toxic”. It’s up to us now to identify fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 14 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?Every man has a feminine side to him, and every women has a masculine side to her, some have more or less femininity or masculinity and I honestly think we should make peace with that side of ourselves, instead I keep seeing men that try to deny that feminine side of themselves to be alpha males , or women trying to deny their masculine side by being the Mary sue,both are not good I think a feminine man should work on his masculine side without denying his feminine side completely and same for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?2-5% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?I would say everything you said is valid, except the 50/50 divorce part , in my country even though we don’t have the 50/50 divorce policy here , very traditional religious country too and we still have a high divorce rate, and people are getting married less bc that stuff is expensive. It’s true that’s it’s not worth it for both genders, but he was asking that regardless, like in a different setting where the two both are capable of proceeding into marriage without worrying about finances, what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?I saw a similar question about what is the benefit for men in marriage, and if they answered the op that he gets support and social benefits he called them not good enough, when they told him he gets financial help ect he said not good enough, honestly I was like you clearly don’t think marriage is worth no matter what we tell you, you already made up your mind that nothing we will say is good enough to bring to the table of a tall dark handsome rich man , so there’s no reason to argue with you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?Now you’re talking about this , it does make me think it’s similar to the movement of eugenics, exemption for the race part , a high income smart good looking person should mate with another high income smart good looking person to give a offspring that have higher chances of becoming a high income smart and good looking, but why should they ? When did life ever became this simple? And who said this should be the natural state of things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:54 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsIt depends, I think it’s a matter of difference of culture and surroundings, since high school till now I always heard comments about my and other girls body, It can be that I studied and worked in an environment that was predominant by men ( technical fields like electrical/mechanical eng) ,while my friends who are in other fields didn’t encounter this as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 19 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsI think it’s for both genders, women get made fun of A lot for stuff they can’t help and thought men wouldn’t care about like : Cellulite,stretch marks, scars, big/small areoles , saggy breasts / tiny ones, dark underarms or private areas, basically what is normal but their exposure to perfect women in porn/instagram hinders them from thinking it is normal indeed. The politically correct campaigns that advocate for self love for women usually you only find women praising and lifting other women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?I can’t say for sure either what it is, some commented on how men like the chase and women who have high body count are “easy to them”, someone also said that it ignites insecurity in men bc of their natural competitive self don’t like to be compared to past lovers, both seem reasonable but I can’t help asking questions like : What about men who marry sex workers/porn stars ? Are they lacking what men call “need for chase” and are not competitive ? Or they simply don’t care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you make a woman feel superior?They worship each other, they’re couple goals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:52 PM |
| -2 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Men judge women with high body count alot mainly because they have repressed their sexuality and can’t get some like those women do , if men in general could get sex as easily as women do now , I doubt many of them will refrain themselves from indulging, women simply are taking advantage of that most men don’t have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Western women, western men and perceived valueThey do what I call ✨projection ✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?I’m (21F) I rarely feel any attraction to both genders, neither romantically or sexually, don’t crush anybody , I was in relationships before but I called it off bc I felt like I’m wasting their time and lying to them, I felt like I was using them even though being in a relationship is nice but I couldn’t shake that guilt,i got into them because I thought I should get in a relationship first and then feelings and attraction will come with time, but it never really happens, I suspect it’s stuff t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?I’ve dated a man shorter than me when I was 19, I didn’t mind it because I liked him but whenever we go out and I wear small heels (like 3cm bc my feet hurt when I wear flats ) he complains about it the whole time we meet, I think he get self conscious since people stare at us but I didn’t care , but he obviously did and after a while it gets tiring, Also I’m not super tall or anything I’m 5’7 ,172cm . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 5 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating.You might as well just go all for it and cheat in my eyes it’s no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI noticed them being bad with money coming up a lot , I wonder why? Honestly I understand why it would scare you . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:38 AM |
| 23 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingDoctor/surgeons , ceos and lawyers, they are usually emotionally unavailable, career obsessed wish is cool if you’re in the same field with the same goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:52 PM |
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