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| 32 | How to deal with touchy girls? | Outer Game | West_Hunter_7389 | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:00 AM |
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| 1 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?Enjoying it, and doing it good, doesn't have to be necessarily related. If your bf likes to do it, but you have never explained him how you like it, he'll never learn the right way to do it | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Boys. No matches? Delete your accounts TODAY, recreate on the 91st day. In the meantime, go do in person activities ONLY.wait, you can get scores over 7??? kidding 😂 As the other user said, dating apps are worthless for most men. Is the apps fault? no, maybe. Bumble had speed dating events where you just talked first, and then you saw the photos. The functionality got me one date, but they removed the feature. But anyway, let's not blame the apps. Is men's fault? Nope. Any man can try to improve their looks. But not every man can move from being a 3, to being a 7 just by hitting the gym and dressing better. Not al… | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a speed date event? (I have never really dated in general)Be careful when talking about religion. Even when sharing the same religion, not everyone feels the faith with the same intensity. It's great that you have these good experiences with videocalls and going with someone. Then, you have the skills, you'll do well at speed dating. Best of luck😊 | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a speed date event? (I have never really dated in general)Don't talk about politics Don't talk about religion If she talks about sex, then you can. But rarely it will happen. What you can do: - talk about the news - talk about your last trip - make healthy jokes - listen to her. Plus, if you can take some inputs about what she's telling to move the conversation that way, great. People love to talk about themselves | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I hired a dating coach after years of failing - Here’s the best flirting advice I gothey, IT guys can write too. Plus, since we are used to being by ourselves, we develop a richer inner world. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 10:55 AM |
| 26 | Went to a rave partyThe man feels great because he found the easy mode of the game. Let him brag a bit about it. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Why does sex always last 1hour+?I'm not complaining, it's just a blessing Then what's the issue? if they are eager to have sex with you, they are hard, and they make the effort to make you enjoy it, don't worry: they feel really attracted to you. Some men last longer than others, just that. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Men, what winter piece of clothing are a turn on to see on women?tight sweaters. If the woman doesn't have large breasts it is ok too. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else Use ChatGPT?Not long ago you could read here, from time to time, the motto "fake it till you make it". Ofc, I think it depends on how you use chatgpt. Do you let Chatgpt to write you everything? then you will get caught in the first date. Do you use it as a feedback system? maybe you'll learn something | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Lay Number 5 : How I lost my virginity after a failed date .Congratulations | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 09:03 PM |
| 3 | URGENTnot necessarily. Sometimes they do it to see if they still have you hooked | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 09:05 AM |
| 3 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?How old are you? I mean, it's not the same to be full of lustful thoughts on your teens, than in your 20s | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Be a giver, not a takerPlus, no woman would allow you to give her an erotic massage if you haven't seduced her before | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What's a key way to tell if she's only going on a date for your attention/walletyou're right. You said it can grow quickly from 10 bucks. ...and you're right again. I don't know where do you live, but in Spain's biggest cities, 10 bucks can be just the 4 first drinks (considering you pay for her drinks too). | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 12:38 PM |
| 9 | Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you?Every woman is different. She may lose interest because you didn't insist, or she may have found someone who she likes more. If it's the second option, why not be open about it? because if she had told you, you could have dumped her, and maybe she wanted a second bullet, in case she failed with her choice. BUT, the big but, if you choose to not listen a no, you can be exposing yourself to rape charges. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 07:42 AM |
| 6 | What's a key way to tell if she's only going on a date for your attention/walletBecause if you think spending 10 bucks on a bar is expensive, almost any date can be expensive. A dinner will certainly cost you way more. But even if you choose to go hiking, or you have to go to her place (if you live in a big city) you may have to spend the half of it on transportation. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 07:31 AM |
| 14 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?like, I'm the interesting person you're lucky to meet. isn't it? interesting... | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 12:51 PM |
| 6 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”let me guess: prime Brad Pitt looks? | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 12:21 AM |
| 25 | Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app?I think FeeId was specialized on threesomes | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Need advice. I am a seductive woman but rarely approached.You are asking about what to do to make guys approach you. I say, do the approach yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Need advice. I am a seductive woman but rarely approached.If you are beautiful but don't go to talk with the man you want, you are not seductive. You may be attractive, but not seductive. A seductive woman doesn't blame men for not being brave enough to talk with her. She knows she's so attractive, not many men would dare. But she chooses her target, talks to him, and ends up having the man she wants. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 12 | I can cross being "kissless" of my listCongratulations for your first kiss!!! | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Barney's playbook?https://youtu.be/I0NuscsZTs8?si=BitohdAtudGGOSl2 The whole episode was about the theory that everyone has a pit where he would like to imprison forever a shitty person from his past. But when you have a pit, at the end, the only one imprisoned there... is you. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 12:16 PM |
| 4 | Barney's playbook?Yes it's fiction. But scriptwriters have good brains for both making you laugh and making you think. The theory I love the most, it's the pit one. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?You see my point? Nothing you have done up to that point is objectively "wrong" but each additional step puts you in position to make the "wrong" choice. yet, it's your choice to stop the chain in the early stages, rather than in the ending ones. I sometimes date bisexual women Of course, what can mean 'cheating' to a couple, can mean 'not cheating' for another one. I can't cover up every possible case, but my point is that every person can still make a decision before breaking a line. For examp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?As a neutral example, anytime you see a plane crash, the cause is always going to be “pilot error.” I don't see why. In the example you give, the pilot was the last link in a chain of events. Plus, I don't see why the plane crashed story is related with acting rationally: the pilot made probably made some bad decisions, but took all these decisions by himself. There wasn't any animal pulsion to make him act exactly like that. He could have made other decisions, probably he chose those actions be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 11:44 PM |
| 4 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?You are talking like you've been cheated on. Honestly, it's not your fault. Your mate could have chosen a better decision than cheating on you. Come on! we are not animals. We don't move by pulsions and instincts. We have a brain, we make decisions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 10:43 PM |
| 5 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?So not entirely sure about this. I think everyone (male or female) cheats under the right circumstances I strongly disagree with this. If you do it because it's the chance of your life to have sex with a supermodel, then you gave more value to an instant moment of pleasure, than to a relationship with the person you decided to spend your life with. If you do it because you feel your partner is a shitty person, then you are choosing the easy exit over facing your problems with your partner. Not e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 10:32 PM |
| 3 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?To clarify: it's not a bad deal because "all women are cheaters" (a truly false statement). It's a bad deal because, if your wife happens to be a cheater, (a thing you don't know before marriage), laws are meant to protect wife's well-being, even when she was the one who cheated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I got my first date... I'm happy.Congratulations man!!!! May be this date, the first one of many many more in your life. With this woman... or with whoever come to your life in the days to come | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Perceptions of Attractiveness Across LGBTQIA+ and Heterosexual Individuals (Call for Participants 18+) ✨💖Someone else told you to post on here? hey man, that's harsh. Are you suggesting I need your permission to write a comment in any Reddit post? | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Perceptions of Attractiveness Across LGBTQIA+ and Heterosexual Individuals (Call for Participants 18+) ✨💖Then why post on the Seduction subreddit? I don't know, maybe the study needs guys specifically, or specifically guys who work in improving themselves. Also, the second paragraph in my previous comment was not directed at you. It was directed at others I wasn't trying to attack you, or even to defend myself. I was trying to point out what I understood are the actual intentions of the study, after reading the post. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Perceptions of Attractiveness Across LGBTQIA+ and Heterosexual Individuals (Call for Participants 18+) ✨💖I think this study has nothing to do with seduction. It's focused on perceived physical attractiveness | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 05:26 PM |
| 21 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?It may be easier, as long as you are already a good seducer. If they figure out you are going for them just because you're thinking they'll be easier, they'll get offended (which I totally understand, on the other hand) | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.yep, better having only charisma than having nothing | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 01:57 PM |
| 3 | I didn’t think behavior analysis could go this deep… now I’ve got more than I can handleCouldn't it be that maybe now you are overthinking everything? | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How to pull college age girls as an older man?So... college girl is like university girl? sorry english is not my first language. I was on the edge to report OP | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 08:44 PM |
| 59 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do ThisI also organize the info in paragraphs, and don't need an AI to write | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 10:53 AM |
| 669 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do ThisCongratulations! You've made a great post. - The text is separated into short paragraphs - You use bold font for highlighting the sections - No jib jabbering, or long weird explanations about women's minds - Direct and clear description of the problem, and possibles courses of action. I'm going to save your post, to reread it the same day I return to a pub. Thank you | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 10:07 AM |
| 47 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Or he didn't, but she didn't enjoy the beach house anyway | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Woman asking: How can i seduce a guy without anything sexual involved?Why don't just make some friends? And then, whenever you like one of them, you can invite them to a date. If both of you want sex, do it. If you don't have that feeling, just don't. I think people give too much importance to sex lately, whether it be for having it on the first date, or for having it on the tenth one. If you want to find a guy who doesn't want you just for sex, you could take advantage of the friendship phase to know more about him, and guess more about his morals, and dating ide… | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Worth joining salsa class to meet more women?No, but.... ...but salsa lessons are connected with other events called "social" where you can actually meet women. To interact with them will be really helpful if you become an average dancer. Plus, being able to dance salsa is a good skill to have in another contexts | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 09:15 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce cats and make them like meCats smell fear, ...like kids. lol Now more seriously speaking: if it's a domestic cat, it should be vaccinated, just for the cat's sake. So no rabbies risk for being bitten by a cat. How to make cats like you? give them food. Just a small quantity, so they can approach you again when they are hungry | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?you can write here. But I think people in reddit tend to create new posts with the updates | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Don't worry😊. It seems you are on the right track. Good luck and keep us updated!!! | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:03 AM |
| 6 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Emotional adiction, sounds psychological issue to me. Go to a psychologist. In the meantime... I would suggest: - go for a walk everyday, try to do 10 minutes of walk, then 20, then 30. And then... if it fancies you, you could pursue improve your running resistance. - fruit is sweet too (I know is not as sweet as sweets). Maybe you could have some grapes, oranges, or apples at the fridge, to eat them when you are hungry. You avoid the emptiness feeling, and you are getting much less calories per… | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 09:50 PM |
| 5 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?Omg, the keto sect again!! | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What I wish guys knew about cold approachingwhat you say makes totally sense, thank you for pointing it out, and sorry if we have ever met in real life, and I've made you uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 09:46 AM |
| 2 | How to show interest in a guy?From an ugly guy's perspective, any gesture can mean flirting, the same way it may mean flirting. If you want to learn some spanish, Pau Donés made a song about that: Cómo quieres ser mi amiga, si por ti me perdería (how you wanna be my friend, if for you I'd lose myself) Si confundo tu sonrisa, con camelo si me miras (if I treat your smile, with flirting if at me you're looking at) Si confundo tus caricias, con camelo si me mimas. (If If I mix a friendly caress, with love if you spoil me) Pasio… | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the reason woman reject youI'm not a model, so no success on dating apps. I've even lost dates, because the girl, after arranging the date, asked for more photos, and as she didn't liked them, she decided to cancel. Plus, how do you show how your height? Even short girls look tall in photos. In real life, after taking dancing lessons, I found myself as the only guy the women at a party didn't want to dance with. Plus, I don't see a way to show the money to flirt. I mean, would you go to a girl and say something like: hey!… | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 08:22 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the reason woman reject youI think the money is not the problem. Neither is the height. I'm tall, and I have the same success no matter if I work or not (which tends to zero) | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 12:34 AM |
| 2 | 3 practical things to kill anxiety around women (from a formerly shy dude)great post man! thank you! | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 08:52 AM |
| 19 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?I'm lonely man, and I don't get more than 5 matches every time I pay. Although there may be bots on dating apps, I think you are over representing them | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 08:37 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with touchy girls?No, you are stupid. This sub is for seeking advice, haven't you noticed yet? What's your point in being an asshole? | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with touchy girls?ok. so what do you do with that? suppose you are with friends, and that happens continuously, what would you do? | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with touchy girls?So leg to leg touch, means really interested? | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with touchy girls?maybe in your culture, or maybe you are REALLY hot. Take a look at other subs, and you'll see women afraid of being judged or even rejected for being the ones leading the interaction. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 11:03 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with touchy girls?thank you guys! I'll take into account your advice next time! | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 07:37 AM |
| 17 | You need to spend money to get laid!I even remember something like: 'men buy a fancy house to fuck the woman in yhe fancy house'. If men could, they would fuck their women in a shoe box!' | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 4 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)However, the typical image of a prostitute client, is either: - an owner of a small business like a pub, or a farm - a low-level criminal And I mean, none of them could be considered poor. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Looks advertises the quality of your genesso... exactly what I said. If you have to choose, go for social skills. But irl, you are not limited, so go for both | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Looks advertises the quality of your genesI beg to differ: if you only can have one, then you should have social skills. After all, to meet girls you have to move, and talk with them. Unless by improving your looks you can become Chris Hemsworth, the girls will not come at you. Of course, the best of the best is to improve both in the social skills, and the appearance | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Stop playing video games, get out into the real world.There are really cute girls at manga stores, willing to talk to any guy about their hobbies. Unluckily, they are either too beautiful, or have watched too many animes I don't know... so I'm not good enough for them | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Best dating/seduction coaches?Don't believe me if you don't want. Whatever you believe won't change the truth | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Best dating/seduction coaches?I had a friend who was really short, and he was the one who got most girls of the group. It's true that most women were as short as him, but I knew one of his gf who was a bit taller than him. His secret, he knew how to talk to women, and how to approach them. He even got a girl who was into shy guys, by faking himself as a shy guy | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Logical man's guide to flirtingOr paraphrasing you (but in a more kind way of speaking) you don't need to read this post if you already know how to flirt | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Logical man's guide to flirtingQuoting from him: "in chapter 2 I'll teach you techniques of flirting". | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Logical man's guide to flirtingDisagree, sometimes a date happens, and the logical guy has no fucking idea of what the hell happened... | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 167 | Logical man's guide to flirtingTo summarize: you guys suck at flirting - yeah, I suck at flirting I'll teach you how to flirt! - Yeah, teach us how to flirt!!! -... in the next episode... Come on, man... I need to flirt better now... Tomorrow will be no girl to flirt with... | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 44 | Never go on Dinner DatesWhat worked for me was being a bit playful. Something like: if I do this, you have to kiss me when we go out of the restaurant. She agreed. So after the restaurant, I asked for my payment, we kissed, and we had a great night. Another advice I've read a lot here, is to not sit in front of each other, but next to her. If you have 90 degrees with her seat, you will still be able to look at her eyes, and also be able to go for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:57 AM |
| 2 | How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy?My question is: are you willing to have sex with him if it doesn't lead to anything serious? then tell him directly: I don't want to have sex until we have a serious relationship. Of course, he can leave if that's not what he wants, but he can stay, and enjoy a happy relationship respecting eachother's boundaries | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Want To Date But Not Have SexJust try Tinder. If you are as lucky as me, you won't get any sex from it. lol Jokes aside, I think you are overthinking. When you are dating, there will be girls who are entertaining and funny, but you wont want to kiss them, there will be girls that after the first kiss you'll decide you are not so much into them, and there will be girls that you'll want to kiss, fuck, and even have a long relationship with them. And whatever you feel, and whatever you decide at every date, will be totally ok.… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 08:08 AM |
| 2 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!I would say... Do not lose that nice guy vibe. Use it in your favour. You are trustworthy, so you can invite her to a date (or in the date, to your home) without calling any alarms. Just... be a bit more proactive suggesting a date | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 08:27 AM |
| 30 | Dont act needy they said. Welp now I am in a relationship and it backfired.I think there is a slight difference between giving her enough attention, and what they call being needy (giving too much attention). But honestly, if you have reached the point of being with a girl who with you want a serious relationship, you can just... be yourself. Get free of the theory, create a new theory just about her, be yourself, and learn from your mistakes. Be the owner of your mistakes, and enjoy your life. The more you fail, and the more you recover from your failures, the more co… | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 01:03 PM |
| -2 | easily jealous of other guys who get a lot of women.Since it is something about changing how you feel, therapy would be the best option for you. The therapist can help you explore your feelings, and give you clues about how to overcome them | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone else not know if they are attractive or not?Your ex friends are not giving an objective opinion, they are siding with your ex. Since you are black, and you are being approached, I think on two options: - you are actually really attractive, since normally girls don't approach guys. since you are black, the women who approach you want to fulfill a fantasy. ...or maybe in some cases, both options apply at the same time | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 08:24 AM |
| 10 | Love-Bombing women to accelerate emotional intimacySo... telling a lie, on purpose, faking emotions, just to get something for yourself? Things like this, sounds like psycopath behaviour | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls?could be jealousy? I mean, she is in a long distance relationship, which means, my bf isn't here. Plus, she asks you if other people can come to the party, like if you could mind if that could happen. I mean, you only want to be alone with a girl you like, not with a friend. When meeting friends, I always think the bigger the group, the better. It's weird... And I don't mean she is attracted to you, she could be, but necessarily. But I feel she thinks you should be attracted to her | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 06:05 PM |
| 3 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “why don't you prepare some lines at home? It can seem artificial, but while you are learning that nothing bad happens when you go to a girl, and say any of your lines to her, you'll have time to one day come up with better things to say. | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 08:52 PM |
| 2 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeI think the main flaw of your argument comes when you say that 4 or 5s are behaving like if they were 10s. So it seems you still are wanting to accept some disrespectful behaviours if the woman is hot enough. And the root of what you complain about, is the men who allow disrespectful behaviours of a woman because of her beauty. | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 15 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.Not so super rare, and some girls even decide at the moment if they are ok with you approaching them or not. As happens with guys, you can find good girls, mean girls, crazy girls, smart girls, and dumb girls. Plus, the flattering they feel depends on the looks of the guy (for some is way more flattering a super model, than an ugly guy). | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 11:23 AM |
| 6 | What to do if I'm afraid of sex?Therapy, but... not every therapist will be ready to deal with sexual problems. So, maybe look for a sexologist | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Getting laid as an introvert?I think you've nailed it with the 'social battery' analogy. I feel exactly like that. It's not that I don't enjoy people, it's more like that I make a big effort when I try to face uncomfortable social situations. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | I finally know what it feels like to touch and be wanted by a woman. Unreal experience.the stripper thing, or the seduction one? | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 02:33 PM |
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