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| 1 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the onewhy not try this opening on the next 10 girls when you go out? walk up, make eye contact, big confident smile, immediately say "your awesome - high 5!!" while doing this, extend your right hand up to initiate the "high 5" and wait for the girl to make contact. Pull away immediately, then give the girl your other hand, palm up....when she puts her hand into yours, raise your hand and say "spin". When she comes out of the spin you say "not bad" with a grin. Every girl i've done this with giggles..… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the onemy last FR i walked into a bar in NYC on a saturday night...saw a cute brunette girl with large boobs at the bar...walked over and out stretched my hand HOG style...made eye contact...she put her hand into mine....i raised my hand and said "spin" with a cheeky grin. she giggled but complied...i immediately went in for a kiss as she was coming out of the spin, but very quickly and then pulled back (always pull back first). The girl pulled back laughing and i said "hey, not so fast...i'm shy" whic… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the onenext tie you go out, instead of opening by telling girls you think they are cute/hot, say to the girls "your outfit is on fire...love it!! high-5!" if at the beach "your bikini is on fire! love it hi-5" if at a bar/club and the girl is wearing a dress "your dress is on fire! love it hi-5" if she's not wearing dress, but a cute top and leggings, then compliment the top. "your top is on fire! love it hi-5" see..its so easy...could also mention her shoes if they are interesting...like knee hi… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneone thought that i hope you realize...your conversation opening of "i think you're cute / hot" NEVER works. No girl is interested in meeting a guy who only approaches her because he thinks she's cute or hot. However, if you were to say "hi there...i just had to ask you a question...you look so interesting...how do you do that?" (and ask a question / make a comment about something she is wearing / holding). My niece downloaded tinder and quickly got 1000 matches and guys messaging her telling h… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 02:32 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]the first few interactions should not be compliments or overt flirting or you asking her out in anyway...you should first try to create "comfort"...you want to prove that your presence is non-threatening...in a place where you go back often, this is the most important. you do this by saying "hey" or "excuse me" if you are in same vicinity and need to share space for a moment (and thats all....just 1-2 words and then back away)...at first you don't even need to introduce or exchange names...tha… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often entertain conversations with guys that they are not interested in?funny comment - my niece does indeed have guys chasing after her every day....but she is also very emotional and hurt that her exbf (who she dumped) is taking the breakup badly and acting out in emotional ways common when a guy is hurt emotionally. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.for fun, my niece went onto tinder (recently broke up with boyfriend who is not taking the breakup very well...he is in the emotional stage and acting out...so she needed a distraction) in 2 weeks she had over 1,000 matches...she said she had no intention of talking to or meeting any of them...she might chat with a couple for fun...maybe consider making plans...but never intended to follow thru she would sometimes make plans with 10 guys and flake on them all just to see how they would react. wh… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 01:41 PM |
| 6 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.the guys point is that average men are gaslighted by women..and it feels shitty. thats all he is trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?if watching a movie at somebody elses house, bring 2-3 of your favorite movie snacks. Bring what you want to consume (food + beverage)...so you are not expecting to be fed. snacks could be popcorn, candy, frozen pizza rolls you'll heat up in her oven, or whatever you like...bring a bottle of your favorite beverage (unless you just drink water). Normally this would be wine or beer...maybe soda or fruit juice...but whatever you like, and offer to share. yes, you'll be sharing with your girl...… | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | is it too late for me ?there has never been a better time to get onto Bumble and date girls my man | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]perhaps...but you can ask for a girls insta and its not as stalkerish as asking for a phone number | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]i would suggest build a fun presence on instagram - pictures and videos of you traveling to different places, doing different things with friends (guys and girls - build social proof) show your sense of humor and creativity - only post GOOD pictures / video give her your insta handle and suggest she DM you sometime this way the girl can look at your pictures and videos of you outside of the gym and gets a more well rounded view of you as a person. this lets a girl get more comfortable with you… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I just got rejected by the girl I was building up my courage so bad fornext time try just being a friendly person not looking for sex...be friendly to other people...not just girls you are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 11 | I finally approached her at the gym.next time, when you are dealing with a person in an environment where you will see them again (like your gym, school, work) your 1st interaction should not be where you ask them out. Your 1st interaction should be some harmless flirting...tell a joke, make her laugh...then make an excuse and leave. You should leave the girl wondering "does he like me, or is he just a friendly guy to everybody?". A big part of her "wondering" is the fact that you didn't ask her out...you didn't express your view … | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on how to approach a cute girl at the gym"throw and go" throw her a compliment at a time it feels natural and authentic (if you don't have anything to say other than "i think ur hot" then don't say anything...wait until you have something good to say)...don't ask for anything in return...and then go on doing whatever you were going to do next. if she engages you, be polite....but still have the intention of getting on to do your own thing. wait a week, and then do it again....again, throw and go. wait another week and do it again...a… | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?if you see a girl you are attracted to / interested in, anywhere in life, just think like this "how would Brad Pitt in his younger years during Mr and Mrs Smith, approach this girl?" and then act accordingly. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Simple Tinder photo trick to get more matches!sir, this is a Wendys | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Simple Tinder photo trick to get more matches!why not just get pictures of a male model who looks maybe kinda sortof like you...but obviously not you...these male models get tons of likes on tinder...wait a few days....then start swiping...match with lots of girls and let the matched sit for a few days...then have some simple convos over text...flirt, get the girl interested...then go silent for a couple days...then change your photos back to your real photos...and continue the conversation..be interesting...then ask them to go on a date...… | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girl at work"hey jane...a bunch of us are gonna goto happy hour for drinks...you should come...and bring your friends" | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Some women can lustfully have hot sex with a guy they just met in the club/bar bathroom just from instant arousal...other women need to feel the full range of comfort, attraction, and trust to "have the hots" for a guy. Those women who need more time and connection are actually repressed sexually.nope - when i used to go out to bars and clubs - this was indeed happening to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?the concern is - if your partner goes from rich to poor....will you still love and support them...or will you leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships business transactions?as a FDS-er, do you completely and overwhelmingly love your man? or, do you see your male partner as a means to an end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?find your way to NYC during warm weather (may-sept)...you will be swimming in it | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | There is a power dynamic in heterosexual intercourse. Sex for women requires more physical AND EMOTIONAL vulnerability.i don't know if they are mentally damaged...but i sure met a lot of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?i dated more women in my 30's than when i was in my 20's....make yourself the best version of you (eat healthy, workout 3-4 days a week, wear good fitting cloths)...then go flirt with women at social atmosphere bars and you'll be swimming in it | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | There is a power dynamic in heterosexual intercourse. Sex for women requires more physical AND EMOTIONAL vulnerability.the women who meet guys in bars and have sex in the bathroom (without a condom)..or who meet guys in bars and go home with them to have sex after a short flirting period to have a ONS (again, without a condom)...these women must not care about accidental pregnancy or STDs...as this is always the women's choice to have an enthusiastic and consensual ONS....and this happens A LOT (whenever these women are horny and a guy who they are attracted to is available) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | There is a power dynamic in heterosexual intercourse. Sex for women requires more physical AND EMOTIONAL vulnerability.how does this view jive with the thousands of women who meet guys at bars and have enthusiastic consensual sex in the bathroom....or go home with them and have a ONS within hours of meeting and literally knowing nothing about them other than what they look like, and their flirting vibe? something here does not compute... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?Tinder, Bumble, CoffeeMeetsBagel, Hinge, etc... hip bars in a crowded city like NYC are always good also, Equinox is always good | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I definitely ruined two women’s nightthe correct response should have been "bullshit...you're 26" this is flirty, and offers them masculine energy to play with | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?i was in your shoes once...i dated my HS girlfriend thru college...eventually broke up around 25...dated a bit, then dated a lot. You miss out on learning and maturing sexually when you stay in that 1st relationship for too long (as you did). Over the next 5 years your attitude will change...as mine did. You learn a lot about yourself by dating many different people...its very different vs staying with your HS boyfriend for 8 years. This is why i strongly suggest people don't "overstay" their ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 0 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?i'm assuming you are very young...if you were dating a guy who is 30, who has had on avg 1 GF a year for the past 10 years, and lets assume in all cases the relationship ends because either the GF cheats, or some other reasonable reason other than being bored, that would be 10 partners (and, thats on the low side for number of partners for a 30yr old man). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?easy to say when you have the choice to say "yes i'll have that" or "no thanks"...when you take away that choice, things change....as we've seen in society and this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?on the deadbedroom subreddit there are women with sky high libido who want sex every day, multiple times a day....not the norm..but...they exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?well...libido is a spectrum...some do..some don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?its not about the other person...its about the frustration of not being able to get a fundamental physical need (sex). if all these average guys could get sex with a a willing attractive woman whenever they wanted it...all their frustrations would go away...their sexual frustration is thru the roof, and masturbation does not satiate that need. i can masturbate, and its "blah, ok" and the need comes back in a few hours. when i have sex with my girlfriend, i can be satiated for days...sex with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?its not all men...but some (many) men just want to fuck...and...they can't, because no women will fuck them. But a moderately attractive women, if she decides "i want to get fucked" can just walk down the street and find an attractive guy to fuck her....while al these average guys cannot, because no women will fuck them. you have the ability to choose to fuck...these guys do not...no women will fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:43 PM |
| -22 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.well, get used to it...because they ALL do this | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 211 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.i've known a lot of girls that do this...its their way of signaling that they are desirable...to make you a little jealous, and encourage you to chase them (their ultimate goal may just be for a confidence boost...or to trade up from current BF...they are always on the lookout for a tradeup...just part of the game...get used to it) | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to create sexual attraction with ANY woman.you not gonna learn from a book.....you got to watch videos of guys doing it...this is all in how you carry and present yourself. Julien's TenGame iamaten had some really great videos....so did Tyler's HS@Home | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Finding late 20's early 30's girls.depends...where are you located? definitely sounds like not NYC... | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazysome people use sex for reasons other than reproduction...generally people with some kind of emotional disfunction...just as some people use their position of power to get sex (Harry Weinstein) some people use sex to get something else they might want (for example, a sociopath will use sex to manipulate for all sorts of things...and sociopaths are themselves a DNA phenomenon which has a survival of the species charactreristic to it...sociopaths so what is best for the sociopath, in a weird way..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 5 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyyour DNA from your biological ancestors gave you those impulses....your ancestors continued until they had offspring...and then had more offspring...congratulations to winning the DNA gene pool...why do you think you desire it? lightbulb moment here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Okay I have a hard time turning things sexualsend this "you're being silly...first, in general i don't like to sext...and i just wanted to wait a few dates before getting physical because the sexual tension is insane....and the buildup is part of the fun...can you imagine the explosion when we can be alone together..." | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar sceneyou realize...that actually happens...and when girls find out they go "eeww" but its the EXACT SAME THING as girls putting on makeup and hair extensions, and wearing pushup bras and high heels one of these has become socially acceptable...the other is not...but...they are THE SAME THING | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar sceneimagine you are in the produce aisle, looking at cantelopes (or whatever produce) and a guy walks over, also happens to be looking at melons, picks up a fruit next to you and smells it, looks for a brown spot, turns to you and says "i like mine sweet...this one looks really good...i love how fresh the produce is here...do you know if they have ripe avacodos?" the guy is cute and seems innocent enough, so maybe you respond with "i'm not sure, but yeah, the fruit is really fresh here" important po… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scenethe guy could just whip out his phone and say "add me on snapchat" | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar scenethats kinda the point...if a girl is moderately attractive wearing regular clothes and no makeup at the grocery store...then she will be a knockout when all dolled up. some guys are good at seeing "potential"...and those are usually the best girls | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar sceneit depends..imagine if the guy was smooth, charming, made you giggle, and you were attracted to him...he wasn't creepy....and then if he said something like "i never do this, but we should talk again sometime....here's my card...msg me sometime" | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:21 PM |
| -1 | Pros and cons of picking up at grocery stores instead of bar sceneour preference is you look good (to us) without makeup....and the only way we'll know is if we get to see you without it. this is why guys always complain about girls wearing makeup, because then we have no idea what you actually look like. wouldn't women have an issue if the guys wore full face masks and you couldn't see their face? you'd have no idea if you liked what you'd see... | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good cold approach methodyou would be better served by saying "hi there" "i hate you" "just kidding - your hair braids are super cute" (or whatever thing you can compliment that is not about her body) "i have to run - i wish i could stay and chat - but you should text me....here" (hand over slip of paper with number or insta handle or whatever) | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 12:43 AM |
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