| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Best Advice I Can Give. | Success Stories | Western-Rush6680 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/26 06:37 PM |
| 10 | Totally curious. | Rant | Western-Rush6680 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 06:09 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Best Advice I Can Give.can you explain this further bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Best Advice I Can Give.ive lived many lives, died many deaths and the hard lessons only make me a better man. perfect by no means. but the work through these experiences, and one chance in this life. the lessons go hand in hand in this life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 06:29 PM |
| 8 | Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myselfjust to give you some perspective. without emotion, considering you already have feelings about this. im 31(m), with 5 kids. 3 moms, 2 were wives. it gets easier, and better. this woman was not the love of your life. she was the best person, to be with, at the time. and vice versa. one could argue this woman stopped you from finding someone whos probably more suited to you. it hurts, it will subside. and youll look back at this and be like fuckkkk that. it gets way easier. trust me. youll bounce… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 10:53 PM |
| 3 | How much weight did you lose after the divorcei lost 30lbs in 2 weeks after separation lol got it back quick tho. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Perspective Neededyeah. i can relate to this. its hard to give perspective on it because to a real degree it is what it is. its really either deal with it or dont bro. having a spouse with struggles is rough as fuck... try and navigate your way around it if you can.. its always easier to leave. and i found myself doing just that.. and where am i.. trying to fix it lol why? because she needs me, and wants me. even though i have almost 0 capacity to deal with the shit when shit happens.. she and your kids are worse… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/25 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Very quick question for supportits all part of it man. marriage is the journey of life together..separation is limbo hell and the divorce is the final closure. and just so you know, the whole trope of strong vs weak men is bullshit. you are a man. regardless. and have feelings, regardless. and will process them how you need to regardless. dont hold yourself to strong and weak standards, it will drive you crazy. just go through the motions and do what u gotta do. it'll be okay, regardless | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?okay, let me ask you, because you arent talking as someone whos experienced the unfortunate turning tides of divorce. youre talking as someone who just wouldnt let that happen, and thats not exactly always in your control. so let me ask you. if it doesnt go in his favor, and his wife is within her rights to do that, and he cant do anything to stop her, what do you suggest? he fall into life altering oblivion? im not telling this man to write off his kids. im telling him to not destroy himself an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?and nobody said give up, i think you just enjoy going off on strangers on the internet? i even clarified my answer. i said if things dont go his way, in the divorce. he needs to cut his losses, i stated the children arent the loss considering they will always be his kids no matter where they are. on these threads, we only get one side and not the whole picture. if shes trying, it means it hasnt happened or could possibly happen. OP needs to be prepared for both outcomes. divorces are messy busin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?are you divorced sir? or have children? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 0 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?yeah but OP doesnt sound like thats his case, otherwise that would be the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?where did i say that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?there ya go!, personally im the kind of guy, i see people as people and meet them where they are without malice. i understand people, the concept of marriage and the nature of people in non ideal situations. i also understand that just because WE dont work. that doesnt make YOU or me bad people. the dynamic doesnt or didnt work, and thats okay. im actually closer with my ex wife now, that the pressure and nonsense of the marriage is over. we co parent beautifully, even though that wasnt always t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 08:28 PM |
| 0 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?im not suggesting he "let" her do anything. once people are divorced, whoever has custodial custody, can move wherever they want as long as its not a detrement to the childs well being. thats what most people dont understand. she may not be able to move out of the US. but she cant be barred from living free and apart. nor does he have control over whom she chooses to be with, or who she brings around his kids. thats what divorce is, the end of the union. both people are free to do as they please… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 07:59 PM |
| 2 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?i mean cut your losses in the sense of radical acceptance.. otherwise the man will suffer into oblivion. any man with kids knows theres a point where things can drive a man mad. i also stated the children are not the loss, the situation isnt in his favor, he will have to stand tall in the face of adversity. and be strong for himself, so he can be strong for his kids. separation is the limbo hell before divorce. divorce is the closure. no man, can win every battle. divorce is one of them. but wha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 07:55 PM |
| -13 | The kids dropped a bombshell last week and I am not sure what to do?cut your losses chief. kids are not the loss. your kids will always be your kids. unless you did something to deserve it which only you know. her trying to keep you from your kids makes HER the deadbeat. one day your kids will see that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 08:12 AM |
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