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The fact you chose to block me rather than address this speaks volumes. As other commentors have said: nun mode. Asap.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 10:33 AM
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I think you need to provide more information. Your post history indicates you are/were married, may have a child, and a history of mental health considerations that may still be active. All of these will contribute to how you're perceived by men looking for their 'princess'. Engaging in sex early or freely will not help either.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 01:10 AM
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Most 'women in history' had also buried 2 children from preventable diseases and lost 40% of their teeth at 21. Don't measure yourself by an idealised standard.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 10:24 AM
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Laziness and a lack of fiscal responsibility/drive are two significant red flags imo, especially if he's reliant on family or the goodwill of others. People can change, but the fact he's been in this cycle for over a decade doesn't inspire confidence. Ask yourself if this is a captain you could rely on if you got sick and couldn't work, or if your children got sick and you had to become a SAHM at short notice? Could you rely on him if you got a mortgage or if the cost of living kept rising? Thin…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 03:38 AM
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@Mods, can we boot this guy, please? He's contributing a lot, but nothing of value.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 01:38 AM
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I'm very impressed with your openness to feedback - its not always easy to take constructive criticism on board and undertake self reflection. If you keep applying this skill, I have no doubt you'll reach an outcome you're happy with.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 12:31 AM
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At RPW, a core tenant is respecting your partner. 'Snubbing' him when he voices a concern or issue does not demonstrate respect. I think re-reading the sidebar would provide insight to your question, and more.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 09:02 PM
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The number of doctors who date/marry nurses is significantly lower than you'd think. The majority choose to marry other doctors or those in professions that have similar levels of prestige.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:39 AM
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Change isn't impossible - but it's not easy. You need a deep seated reason behind the change. This reason has to be more than 'I want to be a wife/mother' - you have to understand why you want this (i.e. you feel it will give you purpose which in turn will make you happy and fulfilled). This is a deeply personal question that might take some reflection and may not always be easy or simple. It is key however, to creating a solid base for all future progress. Once you've identified this why, use i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:51 AM
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I love the idea of a soft place to land - it's mentioned a lot in this sub - but I'm very curious as to what this looks like from a male perspective. What makes a woman a soft place to land for you?
/r/RedPillWives31/07/21 05:48 AM
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I cannot agree with these points more. Real, two-way communication, conflict resolution and the ability to empathize are incredible skills that should be practiced at every opportunity - but never to the extent you lose the ability to have fun and be fun at appropriate times!
/r/RedPillWives31/07/21 05:45 AM
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Seconded! No matter how brilliant Laura Doyle is, her book is not a legal text to be applied by every couple without variation.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 05:25 AM
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I interpret his 'tone deaf' comment as him projecting. He's uncomfortable you're pushing yourself to improve financially - either because he feels emasculated or its highlighting his own perceived failings in this space. That is his issue. Not yours to take on. Personally, his response makes me uncomfortable. A HVM will encourage you to strive for realistic and beneficial goals, especially ones that benefit the relationship as a whole. He is actively bringing you down because of his own insecuri…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 04:06 AM
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I don't have advice - I know there'll be women here who are far better placed to answer your question - I just wanted to commend you for taking responsibility and working so hard on your mental health. That's not an easy choice to make over and over again - but in the long run, it can only benefit you and your relationship. Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 12:54 AM
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Me, I guess? I politely asked her (?) not to give the advice 'just be yourself' in this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 09:53 PM
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RPW doesn't ask you to be something you're not ♥️. We don't tell you 'just be yourself' because that's permission to be passive in your self improvement, high on the idea that you're perfect the way you are - which none of us are. Instead RPW encourages you to be true to yourself, to be authentic and to nurture feminine aspects of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 09:43 PM
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I understand your intent, but a cornerstone of RPW is actively working on yourself to be better - we actively discourage advice like "just be yourself" as it undermines this. Regardless of whether you're motivated by the desire to settle down with a good man, or simply to improve yourself, for yourself, this a community that encourages women to do more and be more, rather than staying stagnant and settling. Please don't give this advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/21 08:10 PM
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Please read the side bar. We literally address this. There's also an unspoken rule not to be weird.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 09:04 AM
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Just my 2 cents as a surgeon's fiancée: I've met one medical doctor who's dating a hot 'bimbo' and he's seen as a bit of a joke by the rest of the hospital for it. The majority of the SOs of doctors are other doctors (the job is demanding and doesn't leave a lot of time for socialising during residency/registrar/house surgeon years) or those who you'd classify as 'well educated women' (Lawyers, architects, masters educated, PhD candidates). Those who aren't, tend to be high school sweethearts. D…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 11:19 AM
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