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2

Just tell them you're going out some place after work and invite them along. Shoots your shot but leaves room for deniability.
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:44 PM
9

Physical touch and if she's going out alone with you when you invite her
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:51 AM
10

I'd argue most relationships end because guys stop trying to attract their partners
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:58 AM
10

You need a wingman to distract the ugly decoy
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:25 PM
2

That's the game. But I'm curious about the girls you do actually go on first dates with. You say they ghost after. Why do you think that is?
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:46 PM
9

So that tells me you're attractive but something is going on with the date that's making them ghost. Ideas? And never message girl again if she doesn't reply the first time. It's like tennis. Always wait to hear back first. Never hear from her again? Oh, well, 4 billion more to go through
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:43 PM
39

Extended eye contact
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:36 PM
647

If she isn't sucking my dick she isn't a 10. NEXT
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:19 AM
23

They send more choosing signals. You will notice them glancing at you and quickly looking away. Rooms will get quieter when you first enter. But women are risk averse by nature. They don't approach the guys they're most attracted to. They approach the guys they know they can get. This only changes if they are very inebriated or you've expressed interested in them yourself. Pick up is easier, but women largely do not approach you first.
/r/seduction20/04/25 12:36 PM
3

If she has a boyfriend worth mentioning, she'll tell you
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:11 PM
248

Social circle game is by far the easiest. If you're a decent guy who knows what he's doing, the group chat does all the work for you. Not the group chat you're in. That secret girl's only group chat they don't tell y'all about. The issue is most younger guys don't have mixed social circles these days. Many people only have "friends" they only interact with at school or online
/r/seduction18/04/25 12:52 PM
3

Depends on the woman and the disability. Jameela Jamil struggles with a disability and she's considered an icon.
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:14 PM
10

Insta date is the best method
/r/seduction15/04/25 11:33 AM
207

Seriously. I got to talking to 2 older women one time, one was pretty plastered and she just spouted out "you know, you couldn't get me pregnant anymore, the eggs are gone." Her friend was shocked. I just said she was making some strong points lol
/r/seduction14/04/25 05:17 PM
7

She complains about it because it effects her emotionally and it makes her feel insecure regarding your interest. I'll be blunt; girls who feel completely secure in their relationships grow bored of those relationships lol Rather that texting her more, take her out or invite her over slightly more often than you normally have or facetime her or send a voice message instead of a text. Just say something like you prefer speaking to her in person, you're flying planes and they keep falling out of t…
/r/seduction13/04/25 07:11 PM
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I think you're over reacting lol. You opened up emotionally, and because she isn't being being as lovey dovey as you expected, you're feeling some type of way. It doesn't sound as if she's done anything disrespectful. I'd pull back as far as the needless good morning texts, but I think she's just pulling back in her texting slightly so she doesn't come off as too attached already. Stick to just asking her out on dates. No need to texts her all day giving her a play-by-play every time you eat a m…
/r/seduction13/04/25 06:53 PM
1

It's not your business. If a girl feels it's worth mentioning her bf she'll tell you. But on average, girls dress better when going out when they're looking to attract a guy. The ones in the club in sweat pants are likely committed, or at least not worth the effort unless your just trying to practice
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:37 PM
1

Absolutely. Building muscle in your core and lower body, consistent stead state cardio, and reducing body fat( not too low) will all increase size and erection quality in healthy people that don't have some other condition causing the issue
/r/seduction10/04/25 12:35 PM
-3

Athletes tend to have healthier circulatory systems so usually they are, but it isn't a guarantee
/r/seduction10/04/25 12:13 PM
1

It's direct as far as girls are concerned, while simultaneously showing tact.
/r/seduction08/04/25 10:52 AM
3

Men should be direct. Also saves you a lot of time in the long run. "Hey, I'm headed to such and such. Wanna tag along?"
/r/seduction08/04/25 01:17 AM
7

It is for people with options. Those who know their options are limited or have an ulterior motive like needing papers may push exclusivity quickly.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:22 PM
3

True. In that case I would give her my number, but not expect much. I'm just saying going for insta date rather than just trying to get the number after an interaction is a great filter for removing girls who don't like you all that much, and will end up just wasting your time.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:42 PM
8

A girl who likes you enough will ghost her friends, leave her parents on read, and leave her kids home without a babysitter. If she doesn't make time to see you then and there, she likely doesn't like you enough anyway and you would just be a texting buddy for a bit before things fizzled Best to hit while the emotions are high.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:16 PM
2

Rather I would pick to retain my present handsome, charming, broke self lol. I know I can make the money I want to have the life I want. Rather keep all that as is than give up my looks and charm for a lump sum
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:46 PM
-1

I'm already that first one 😎 No amount of money will ever buy a woman's love. I know the girls I'm with like me for me. And my handsomeness
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:00 PM
1

If you're very attractive and clearly charming, they may intentionally delay having sex with you to make you invest more.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:01 PM
2

It sounds like you're a hotty OP. If you're just that attractive women may treat you like the sun and not want to look directly at you. But you may notice them giving you double takes or catch them glancing away when you try to make eye contact. Dressing down makes you look you more approachable. Women are risk averse by nature. They never pursue the guys they're most attracted to. They pursue the guys they know they can get. If you're a babe and dress well, they assume they don't stand a chance…
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:04 PM
4

Grind it into the girl's ass lol what's the issue?
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:24 PM
5

Right, but it isn't so much that men are now playing on max difficulty, so much as women and every non-white race in America were playing with broken controllers until recently. This, combined with: Social media creating unrealistic life standards The destruction of "third places" where people could gather and chill. The internet replacing in-person communication and true community Has turned what was already a massive social issue into clusterfuck.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:17 AM
8

I'm saying most men have never had charisma, and the only reason many men were able to get women in the past is because of money. Men haven't changed, but access to financial independence has
/r/seduction04/04/25 10:34 PM
33

Because for most of history, they've never had to have rizz. This is truly the first generation in the history of western civilization where women can make and even exceed what men can make. Beyond the societal expectations of women being encouraged to marry and pop out kids in their early 20s, most of the jobs women could get traditionally, paid shit, so they had to shack up with a man for financial stability. Before, a mediocre man could drop out of high-school, work a trade, and afford a subu…
/r/seduction04/04/25 10:13 PM
6

Getting mad is never the solution. And if a girl isn't showing you the interest you want to see, pull back and mirror her actions. Plus, you should be dealing with enough girls that one pulling back is scarcely noticeable.
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:33 PM
5

I don't think it's toxic, but some girls absolutely call me toxic for this lol
/r/seduction29/03/25 04:18 PM
50

You're absolutely right. Some people will say you'd come off as butthurt, but why are they still caring what this girl thinks of them? Going no contact at this early stage can only benefit you. You have to treat the attention you give like a precious resource. No debating. No explanations. No soothing her fears by telling her how ok you are with the rejection nor giving her well wishes. If she isn't following your lead and progressing on your timeline, she gets no interaction beyond a kind smile…
/r/seduction29/03/25 04:06 PM
2

Attraction isn't a choice, but whether they're open to you is. It's likely the girl finds you attractive but isn't open to conversing with you because she's seeing someone, she's stressed because if she lives in America she's likely having her rights stripped away, or your approach was off. Regardless of her reasoning, just wish her a good day and keep it moving.
/r/seduction28/03/25 10:00 PM
3

I'd recommend progressing slowly in terms of committing emotionally, sure, but you can go for the kiss now and get more physical if you're comfortable. You should take the lead in inviting her out (one date per week). Don't look to her to ask you out. You can keep an eye on how she invests in you, like how often she texts or calls, but that is the extent girls tend to show their interests in the early stages.
/r/seduction26/03/25 07:06 PM
3

How far have you progressed with her physically?
/r/seduction26/03/25 06:48 PM
0

She knows if she wants to fuck you within 5 seconds. Whether she'll give you the opportunity to take longer
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:39 AM
1

Not overtly since I don't like hitting on chicks who aren't free to slap me when I deserve it. I've had good results just leaving my number for bartenders or whomever if we've developed a rapport and they're clearly into me.
/r/seduction25/03/25 04:04 AM
7

The average guy is awkward, charmless, afraid, or even resentful of women. Basic stuff like etiquette has become a rare trait
/r/seduction24/03/25 10:07 PM
34

Women have definitely made note of when I did innocuous chivalrous stuff like that. Not gonna make a girl like you. But it will make a girl who likes you like you more
/r/seduction24/03/25 07:15 PM
33

I like having her on the sidewalk side so I can use her as a shield in case some homeless guy tries to stab me.
/r/seduction24/03/25 07:14 PM
1

Supermarkets, parks, coffee shops, etc
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:26 PM
13

It was a solid response, you're fine with that. When a girl likes you enough, she will either be turned on by or forgive brazenness every time. If she doesn't like you, she may be put off. You want to galvanize like that. It saves a lot of time. As for what you do now, nothing. You're waiting for her to reply. Go talk to other girls.
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:36 PM
175

Truth. And 7s are more entitled than any 10 I've ever dealt with
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:04 PM
71

"Personally, I'd say for my perky nipples"
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:40 PM
1

Me neither lol. But if you're at a bar, just ask the bar tender. They keep pens for when people sign the checks
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:41 AM
2

This is a possibility, so that's why you befriend the guys and less attractive girls first. And if you aren't able to close, just slip the girl you like your number on a napkin.
/r/seduction07/03/25 12:42 AM
36

Talk to everyone, guys, girls, old, young, whomever. It helps you get into a social mood and girls will be wondering who that friendly popular guy is. Once you're comfortable doing it groups will just adopt you for the night. I get free drinks a few times a month from strangers just doing that. And just like with girls, focus on the people you're talking to so the intrusive thoughts don't have time to take hold.
/r/seduction06/03/25 02:48 AM
11

Friends fuck all the time lol. Especially if OP was genuinely a friend that caught feelings rather than a rejected simp that wound up in her orbit.
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:00 PM
2

You were good when you matched her energy. But that last text of yours was you getting emotional because she took so long to respond. I'm not saying you were wrong to be upset. But you can't let that anger lead your actions. And honestly dating has changed since covid. I don't know if it's due to how ubiquitous dating apps have became or if most of us just have group anxiety and social media brain-rot, but you need to expand the time frame for when you expect things to happen with some girls now…
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:52 AM
2

True, you should invest most in girls that show their interests by actively investing their time in you, but you shouldn't necessarily burn the bridge of every "maybe" girl who doesn't immediately fall into your frame. Just ease back. Don't get mad. Be cordial. Thank them when they offer help. And try to ask her out again in few weeks. Or fuck her roommate if you're bitter lol.
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:37 AM
6

Status moreso. There is no amount of money you can make that will ever buy a person's loyalty. I've met plenty of women in bars whose boyfriends and husband made a lot more than I used to.
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:40 PM
21

A. Nothing, she literally gets dozens of texts a day and forgot. B. She's interested but you aren't a priority yet. C. She has anxiety, and really likes you, but didn't know how to respond. D. She left you on delivered purposely to get you to chase. E. She isn't interested. Regardless of her reasoning, the best thing for you to do is nothing. If she contacts you again don't be butt hurt but don't reply too quickly. If you see her in person be cordial, but not too interested.
/r/seduction01/03/25 04:26 AM
1

Pretty sure the ancient Greeks did this
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:30 PM
2

She likely doesn't want to seem too interested. Her meeting you is a great sign My rule of thumb is: Less than an hour for a response, you can probably bang her today 1-2 hours with detailed responses and questions, she's very interested 3-4 hours somewhat interested, depending on how much effort she puts in. Could be busy or deliberately trying to appear less invested. Match her energy and focus on setting a date. 4-8 hours very busy or not very interested. 8-24 hours, deliberately disrespectfu…
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:53 PM
2

That's a fine wait time for adults. She's likely interested. If she were taking 8+ hours to a full day to reply I would say she doesn't respect you and was just keeping you on the hook. Don't worry about minor things like snap score. Just focus on meeting her in person.
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:43 PM
1

Quality over quantity. Odds are girls like that will just use you for attention anyway
/r/seduction28/01/25 05:45 PM
1

"Your gift is my presence." If she's shown you she has a sense of humor. Otherwise, leave her on read
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:34 PM
0

Well yeah. Commitment is for people who know their options are limited
/r/seduction27/01/25 12:11 AM
0

Depends on ones definition of options. Literal options? Yes. Good options? Not really. Just because a high quality guy is willing to pursue a girl to have sex with her does not mean he would want to commit to her, and generally speaking, that is what most women want.
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:59 AM
3

I'd ease back in going out and contacting her unless she hits you up first. Set up dates every 2 to 3 weeks and don't initiate contact beyond setting up the dates
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:13 PM
2

How much time is between each date?
/r/seduction18/01/25 02:41 PM
1

In my experience the hottest girls tend to be the friendliest and most direct, especially if you're somewhat attractive and are a great conversationalist. It's the 7s who will play the most games to try to get you to invest the most.
/r/seduction10/01/25 08:18 PM
1

Make the friend like you Get another guy to distract the ugly decoy
/r/seduction30/12/24 11:37 AM
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