Westernleaning Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Intent		Westernleaning	/r/seduction	17/06/18 07:26 AM

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13	Used go get girls easily, now I don't even get matches on tinder. It might be time to start going for guys?	/r/seduction	06/06/25 12:15 AM
10	Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morror Maybe you shouldn’t be so confident. Pride cometh before the fall.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 01:52 AM
83	Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morror What’s a morror? I need to get one to build my confidence in it.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 01:43 AM
4	Staying congruent when your a serious "tough guy", while still being friendly/playful/flirty Former boxer and judoka. You're trying to let out tension in the interaction. You need to be getting comfortable holding tension with a girl. You aren't incongruent. You're reversing the male/female polarity. You are drawing into her world, making the girls' emotional outcomes be the point of your actions instead of drawing her into you and making her actions about your own emotional outcomes (do you like her, don't you, do you want to spend time with her, don't you). It's super unseductive, esp…	/r/seduction	26/01/25 04:54 AM
113	I'm really starting to wonder if it's even worth it. I'm on a massive as dry spell guys. Is this what hookup is about? You dont' approach and you aren't willing to use dating apps? Are you expecting to order girls from Domino's? What's the point of your post? You've given up, your desires are not inline with your actions, either lower your desires or increase your actions, you are at an inflection point.	/r/seduction	14/09/24 02:34 PM
1	What causes girls to not want romantic ties and "just stay friends"? Sex God Method Daniel Rose.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 09:04 AM
1	How to get laid with minimal conversation Only date mute chicks bro.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:47 PM
4	What causes girls to not want romantic ties and "just stay friends"? The obvious question is how was the sex if you're hearing LJBF AFTER sex? LJBF is usually the comment BEFORE sex.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:44 PM
0	How could I get women to send me nudes When in doubt pull it out!	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:40 PM
0	How could I get women to send me nudes Just ask man? You'll never get them if you don't.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 09:39 PM
2	Am I being too nice? You would have to tell us a bit more but it sounds like you're not coming off as both high-value and seductive. Just from the way you're phrasing this "We have had a lot of fun, and you are a really nice and sympathetic guy, but I don't feel the way I would like to feel at this point", you're supposed to have seduced a girl within a few dates. If it's taking longer you have an issue. Learn physical escalation, isolate, escalate, and make it clear you're here for something sexual, if not YOU shou…	/r/seduction	22/08/24 08:58 PM
2	Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker? Being chubby/fat isn't a deal breaker in and of itself but you better be exception in everything else, especially game. It just makes everything harder, and it does send a message about yourself to others, that you don't take care of yourself, so how well can you take care of someone else?	/r/seduction	15/08/24 05:44 AM
3	How to handle a guy interjecting the conversation with you and a girl, taking over? It's hard to understand some of this story the way you write it, was the girl with her friend or the guy was her friend. But short answer version you don't need to do too much with someone like this guy. A short "wow a bit too much energy bro", or a curt "nice to meet you, give us a second to catch up", works wonders. The guy probably wasn't too different with her on the bus. As a man you decide who you give attention to and who you don't. Being firm, polite and not too invested in someone is pr…	/r/seduction	02/08/24 05:29 AM
3	Woman looking for advice: how to gradually escalate touch? When in doubt pull it out sister!	/r/seduction	23/07/24 11:59 PM
1	Looks advertises the quality of your genes Bro, some of the greatest seducers in history weren't the best looking. Genuine attraction is NOT about looks. Ever seen Bill Clinton? I've met plenty of great looking guys who do ok, but don't clean up when it comes to seduction because they have no idea how to handle a woman.	/r/seduction	07/07/24 08:44 PM
4	Do you mention your job on dating apps? Here's to give you a good answer: depends on the app. Hinger and Bumble yep, put it in there, industry at least. Apps like Tinder, who cares, just have good photos.	/r/seduction	07/07/24 08:39 PM
13	I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap... You didn't fail a shit test you committed a faux pas and a very major one. It's your job as the man to protect her "honor", aka give her "plausible deniability" ESPECIALLY in an office affair! Your part that says "I looked around at my colleagues all wide eyed and listening to our conversation as the office was quiet", and she was telling you "coworkers should remain coworkers" was actually her telling you to shut up several times. You've crossed from flirting and game into endangering her reput…	/r/seduction	05/07/24 10:21 PM
3	Past a certain age(30+), are most people married or in relationships? You have answered your own question. The issue is your bowling league, it's a couples activity. The issue isn't the "most people over 30 being married or in relationships". Btw, over 50% of marriages in the US end in divorce, so the statistic doesn't mean much. Pro tip for meeting single women: join a salsa dancing class.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 12:44 PM
2	Why is cold approach so addictive? lol	/r/seduction	01/06/24 10:06 AM
0	Day gaming at grocery store? Uhhh… yeah, that’s why they come to Reddit ask questions and get answers? Pointing out the help process like it’s a bad thing is unhelpful. Social skill #1 is be positive, no one likes negativity (well almost no one, you seem to like pointing out someone answering a question is a bad thing). :)	/r/seduction	06/07/22 06:08 PM
9	Day gaming at grocery store? Just go up, ask her where the mayonnaise is. She'll tell you she doesn't know or she doesn't work there, then go from there. Btw day gaming shouldn't JUST be the grocery store. It's pretty much anywhere you go during your day. Approaching and speaking to people shouldn't be difficult. It takes me about 2-3 months of moving to a new neighborhood to know most of the people there on a "hey how are you" basis.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 10:26 AM
0	[deleted by user] The part you’re missing is you’d better be in the pictures too sometimes because if you’re not she is looking for a bit more than validation.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 01:41 PM
1	Are dating apps worth it if you don’t have your own private place? Car, parks, motels, her place, your parent’s house when they’re not there, in your parent’s house if your name is Stiffler and your mom is home.	/r/seduction	27/06/18 10:27 PM
1	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Hey man, fist off I reread our posts above and I’m sorry if I came off as polemic or combative. I’m not trying to get into a fight with you. If you look above at your first post about being masculine and being the man in the interaction I agreed with you 100% and it’s spot on. You’re spreading great knowledge. A man needs to be a man, he needs to lead, know what he wants, shape the interaction, and of course approach lol! There’s no way around that if a man wants to get with women. The way to ge…	/r/seduction	27/06/18 10:23 PM
1	5 Signs How To Know a Girl Is Interested In You? If she does ass to mouth she’s fallen head over heels!	/r/seduction	25/06/18 07:34 AM
1	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Let me add one thing here, and thanks for your posts because they’re really solid and great for thinking about. Ok imagine this, you’re Adrianna Lima, or Rosie Huntington Whiteley, the hottest of the hot women. You do all the normal bullshit every other person does, eat, sleep, exercise, work, stress about bills, go out and have fun, enjoy the holidays, worry about family. During those things you meet different “men” , but a lot are the same, they’re just dudes who and to fuck you. They approach…	/r/seduction	25/06/18 07:33 AM
1	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Dude, stop with the indirect vs direct bullshit. You’re trying to pretend you’re some kind of PhD when you’re only a sophomore in college if that. You know the courses exist but you’ve only sat in a few of them. Dancing is HOT to women, why? Because they get a man who leads. It’s physical, it’s synchronized and it shows a man who leads. Life does imitate art sometimes. Anyway, add the fact that YOU like it, do you realize how fucking comfortable you come off in that part of your post? Girls are …	/r/seduction	25/06/18 07:11 AM
1	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Man, you’re trying to refute my point and using layer after layer of bullshit facts that lead to cognitive dissonance. I’m not trying to diss you or anything, but you’re off. Reread your post. You literally know what I’m talking about is right and admit it in your examples but then keep trying to deny you or “normal” people can reach it. You even admit you’re off, 3% of men, ARE NOT famous, you’re literally admitting what high-status men are... RARE. The best part is when you say “don’t expect i…	/r/seduction	25/06/18 06:53 AM
6	100 Women in 50 Days, Day 7, 8, 9: Almost lost my virginity.. and more numbers Man it’s been great reading your posts. It’s amazing to see what persistence, a plan, perseverance, and resilience can do in a short amount of time to help change someone’s life. Within a week you almost lost your virginity just from no longer accepting he status quo and going out and there and trying to change it. My one piece of advice though is to be careful not to “stay on the same level”. That approaching and getting numbers is great but at the end of the day the goal is closing. The girl w…	/r/seduction	24/06/18 02:36 AM
1	Is it better to keep escalating/pursuing until you get a hard no? Thanks for pointing it out, and thanks for the post. I kinda consider them the same as in part of a shit test is whether a guy is persistent. A lot of women will say “oh, I said no in he beginning but he was SOooo persistent”. But the short answer to the OP’s question is you should always understand the social dynamics. If you’re making a chick really uncomfortable or her group or you’re just off and digging a deeper hole stop. Like if it’s clear she’s out with an old friend and doesn’t want to …	/r/seduction	21/06/18 03:08 PM
2	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought You are so wrong here it isn’t even funny. Stop regurgitating some book you’ve read and listen to people who’ve actually had the experience. If you want to be a dork about this go read the Red Queen about why people have sex. The main point is that a man’s social status goes up the more women he sleeps with while women’s status goes down, stud vs slut. Women have evolved to be mUch more selective than men in who they sleep with. In other words most men will pretty much take any pussy that comes …	/r/seduction	21/06/18 03:05 PM
11	Is it better to keep escalating/pursuing until you get a hard no? The short answer to your question is yes. I’d be careful with your use of the word no. Obviously if she’s uncomfortable or not in to you fucking stop even if she doesn’t say no. But I’ve had multiple girls give me a no to a make out say, or sleeping together, and I just kept escalating, and ended up with the pull. Sometimes a girl is saying no to making out in public or it’s just a shit test. One of the things about being sexual as a man is that you’re almost always being physical/escalating, yo…	/r/seduction	20/06/18 06:52 PM
1	If you come off as a bit creepy and want to pretend you were joking, then don't fucking do it by literally stating "it was a joke". Dude what planet are you on? Are you smocking crack? Sure you might have a bit of autism but you’re not totally fucking retarded. Common now. If you send a dick pick when you shouldn’t it isn’t “a bit creepy” it’s 100% totally inappropriate you can’t just write the girl back “oh, just joking that was my brother’s cock” and smother it in more jokes. You should generally NEVER send a dick pic. It’s VERY advanced. Like a chick should be begging to see your cock, sending you nudes, you should be rea…	/r/seduction	20/06/18 08:33 AM
1	GUYS I READ AN ARTICLE SAYING BREAKING THE RULES INCREASES YOUR STATUS ? It’s called leadership, you actually set the rules. I’m not trying to be political but you can see it with Donald Trump. He broke pretty much every rule about what he could say and became President. But your article still doesn’t say WHAT rules? I’m assuming social conventions rather than rules. You have to be VERY careful with that because a lot of times there are tremendous consequences for breaking the rules and not being deemed a leader/alpha. The leader or alpha or group might severely repr…	/r/seduction	19/06/18 12:49 AM
1	Tips on being more seductive and ‘trying’ to be sexy. I think your primary problem is that you don’t see yourself as sexual and women aren’t perceiving yourself as seductive. You have a penis dude, you need to follow the little head. Communicating physically, bringing in fantasy like having a chick call you daddy, or making up nicknames for her like kitty kat, rejecting her playfully, “we could never get together you’re too much of a dork” etc... being playful, flirty that’s the stuff you gotta do. Sounds like you Aren’t comfortable with what you w…	/r/seduction	18/06/18 07:19 PM
1	GUYS I READ AN ARTICLE SAYING BREAKING THE RULES INCREASES YOUR STATUS ? The article isn’t well written in that it doesn’t ever explain what the rules are or how breaking them increases your status. Clearly if you rob a bank you might have a momentary status bump within a certain community but eventually you’ll go to jail and lose that status.	/r/seduction	18/06/18 07:15 PM
53	To all the"Funny" guys. There is no need to perform or make other people laugh ALL THE TIME. Just have a normal conversation with a joke here or there and you'll be okay. Yeah very good. There’s a thin line between being funny and having a good sense of humor and constantly trying to make everyone laugh like you’re the court jester or there to entertain them. The latter comes of as exceptionally weak because subconsciously you’re showing that you value everyone else’s wellbeing over your own. That is EXTREMELY unattractive to women.	/r/seduction	18/06/18 01:22 PM
2	Average looking thin guy - Tinder. Good idea? How old are you? You can’t use it as an excuse not to grow and better yourself. Man you’re lost in your head. You need to act, not think. Each day just get a little bit better. Forget about some magic moment where it all comes together. Just a little bit of effort each day. Start by going to the gym, either go with a friend who works out or just hire a trainer to write you a program and show you the basics. Or go to bodybuilding.com, get on the forum and get one of the beginner programs. Then ge…	/r/seduction	18/06/18 06:27 AM
7	What single change to your lifestyle made the biggest change in your game? This might sound stupid but wanting to change. Deciding that I wasn’t happy with where I was and wanted something different so going after it day by day, failing, learning, and getting back up and doing it again. Having your shit together, whatever that means to you, is the number one way to be more comfortable with yourself. The worst thing ever is worrying in the back of your head about money, family relationships, physical health etc, so in fact going out to drink/pull is actually setting you…	/r/seduction	18/06/18 03:33 AM
3	Average looking thin guy - Tinder. Good idea? I can’t give you any Asperger’s specific advice but at the same time you can’t use it as a crutch. If you want to hook up with chicks you have to be around chicks. Dating apps, social activities, group meet ups, social circle, Community groups,are all places you can meet girls. The one guaranteed way to not get laid is to not go out. So go out! As far as Tinder/Bumble/etc. you need good pictures. They’re primarily a visual application so your number of matches is directly correlated to the quali…	/r/seduction	17/06/18 06:59 AM
2	How to avoid the friendzone and/or use it to your advancage Great advice. And even your friends you should always be sexualizing. If you see a girl who’s a genuine friend you can always be like “come to daddy”, or “come to papa bear” or “damn is your ass getting cuter” lol. You generally should never be friend zoned. Friend zoning is when you change from a platonic friendship to some kind of verbal “I really like you we should be together forever”thing.	/r/seduction	17/06/18 06:45 AM
1	FR Solo Sarge - Short Night But Did Something You did fantastically from a going out solo and being the life of the party standpoint. Totally dominated social dynamics. At the very end you didn’t show leadership with the chicks. You coulda gotten all of their numbers, you came in SOOO strong. Repositioning yourself, moving guys out, having people want to follow you, you really came in as a total leader. If you’d gone in with the “fuck you girls are so much fun, we gotta do this again, what are your numbers, I’m setting up a group text for u…	/r/seduction	17/06/18 06:41 AM
1	Stylelife Challenge Day 2 Same here man no advice, just good job getting back out there instead of wallowing !	/r/seduction	17/06/18 06:22 AM
7	Critique my opening. Duuuuude, way too much talking. It looks like you’re having a conversation with yourself lol. Imagine being the girl receiving this you’ve gotten s good morning, your dog is cute, you’re cute and the guy’s dog is cute but looks like a rodent lol. Where do you even reply? Your first message should be interesting, every dude on tinder is saying stuff like “hey, yo, how are you, how was your weekend” it’s soooo bland! On this one you could have easily written something like: “cute pooch, whom did y…	/r/seduction	17/06/18 05:56 AM
1	Best places in New York for pick up? Dude, you did great. You approached a bunch, for numbers, I hope you had fun! 18 is a weird age as you’re something between an old kid and a young adult. You’re technically not allowed to drink, I guess check for clubs that are doing under 21 events, also hang our around places with universities like NYU, CUNY, Columbia.	/r/seduction	17/06/18 04:43 AM
20	Why do girls do this Terrible advice. Women will know that naturally 😉 you’ll come off as a fake	/r/seduction	17/06/18 02:40 AM
2	How can I DHV without a social group? LoL	/r/seduction	16/06/18 11:57 PM
1	Unorthodox seduction Greydalf I appreciate another opinion, and I know I’m not always right BUT words do have definitions. The definition of seduction is VERY specific and extremely narrow: se·duce səˈd(y)o͞os/Submit verb entice (someone) into sexual activity. The fact that I have two people trying to explain that seduction isn’t purely sexual is totally incorrect, it’s the very definition of the word. If you aren’t enticing someone into sexual activity then you aren’t seducing, end of story. You are practicing some…	/r/seduction	16/06/18 11:11 PM
1	Unorthodox seduction Don’t put words in my mouth. You are being intentionally manipulative and deceitful to claim I’m purely in seduction to get my dick wet. I never said or implied that, I just told you seduction happens fast! Your response is pathetic. It’s also what your original post was about, why one shouldn’t act now! Being comfortable with one’s sexuality and sexual desires as a man and acting on them while also appreciating women and respecting them is all part of “the game”. Being TRULY intimate with a wom…	/r/seduction	16/06/18 09:59 PM
2	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Exactly this! Such good advice here!	/r/seduction	16/06/18 07:07 AM
1	Please help seddit and analyze me Dude who the fuck cares. You don’t want sex? Wtf do you want to hold hands with your boyfriend and walk down the beach and she takes pictures of you guys to upload to her Instagram? Be clear in your intentions man. What’s the point of “I just want a date”? You want to user her as your emotional tampon about your ER visit for cutting your pinky finger? Or to try to convince her not to be religious? Give me a break dude!	/r/seduction	16/06/18 06:40 AM
2	Please help seddit and analyze me Terrible man, get coaching from one of the pros, not me. Your first message was terrible. You denigrated yourself, wtf. “That awkward guy”? Don’t you respect yourself? Why not just say “hey it’s Will from orientation”. Remember you need to prize yourself dude, you’re choosing her as much as she’s choosing you! Then the rest is just bland, wtf are you a career counselor or the guy who’s going to fuck her brains out? You need to decide. If you’re going to bang her you need to go sexual “hey sexy p…	/r/seduction	16/06/18 06:37 AM
-1	Absolutely no one my type is interested in me, and i’m really not picky. Maybe it’s a sign you should date guys?	/r/seduction	16/06/18 06:20 AM
2	Sub-communication is soooo much more important than anything else in game Crashlands, I agree with everything you’re saying here and think it’s a great post. I’m just phrasing it a bit of a different way. Women have a 6th sense to tell when a guy is being “incongruent” or talking absolute shit and displaying falsity with all/any of the traits you listed above. I am VERY against routines because they hamper self-expression. Simply sticking something someone else said into a conversation without understand its effect or HOW to deliver it is a recipe for disaster! Knowin…	/r/seduction	16/06/18 06:18 AM
0	Unorthodox seduction It is all the same, each one of those is an excuse on why you aren’t acting on your sexual urges and how you’re denying yourself your desires. Seduction over months or years? WTF? You do realize it all comes down to either the first time or no time! You’re going to wait for months and years to have sex with someone for 30 minutes?	/r/seduction	16/06/18 02:04 AM
5	Sub-communication is soooo much more important than anything else in game A lot of what you’re calling sub-communication can also be called non-verbal communication. Putting it all together is the important part. I agree btw that sub-communication is VERY important. Women have evolved over 100k years to weed out weak bullshiting men who’ll say anything to bang them for a night and then run away at the first sign of pregnancy or trouble. That’s why there isn’t any such thing as “the perfect line”. Women are constantly screening and testing men to make sure we’re still …	/r/seduction	16/06/18 02:00 AM
2	Can I get rid of the neediness while being in a relationship with the person I am almost obsessed with ?? It’s very important to understand what I’m going to say next. You aren’t a victim or handicapped. You also aren’t damaged and need to be fixed. You’re doing fine in life. You’re just stuck in a pattern you need to get out of. Recognizing the pattern is the first part to changing it. There is a name for these patterns, Freudian Regressions. Look it up. This is 100% scientific. Many patterns are healthy like exercise, perseverance, eating 3 meals a day, sleeping at a certain time. Others are unhea…	/r/seduction	16/06/18 01:01 AM
1	Can I get rid of the neediness while being in a relationship with the person I am almost obsessed with ?? No it isn’t too long man. I’ve got the right picture now. This isn’t a good forum for advice for you. You have experienced serious trauma in your life multiple times. Death, abandonment, emigration, instability, loss of language and culture etc, each one of those are huge. You basically weren’t dependent on anyone and there was constant change in your life, you still don’t have family or anyone truly close to you. You’re mostly an adult but have a child that comes out at times. You’ve overcome y…	/r/seduction	15/06/18 11:38 PM
-1	Girl that’s really rough You got yourself a freak! This one’s a wild one, not sure you can handle her. Turn her around and start spanking her hard if she bites your lips again. Tell her not to do it while you spank her. Read Sex God Method, you need to be much more dominant in bed with a chick like this. Pin her against the wall, push her on to the bed, etc	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:17 PM
5	Assertive Start carrying around a gun, added points if you wear a trench coat. Kidding. Start lifting, if you can do a martial art, boxing or bjj. Start sparing and get hit a bit it’ll do wonders to your self conscious. Do 5 minutes of affirmations a day. Look at yourself in the eyes in the mirror and say things like “I’m a leader, I don’t take shit, I’m assertive etc” the stare at yourself for a minute in the eyes without saying anything.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:13 PM
1	How do you like my direct openers? Tips? Time to get on the field! Dude, just go out and open. Don’t worry about your lines, just go out and have some fun. There’s a dude doing an approach challenge on here, 100 girls in 50 days or something, read his posts, seems like he’s having the time of his life doing it.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:10 PM
1	How do you like my direct openers? Tips? Time to get on the field! Great one!	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:07 PM
1	It's funny that many women think approaching a man first will make her seem desperate, while most men have the opposite thought Too bad women aren’t after most men, they want the “alpha” who’ll hunt and chase her down. Who by the way gets approached all the time, because the women he doesn’t desire try to get him to chase them, but you just don’t know it because you don’t know how to notice it.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:06 PM
2	The Ultimate Pro Tip That’s the pro tip. Be a fucking leader!	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:03 PM
1	Can I get rid of the neediness while being in a relationship with the person I am almost obsessed with ?? Have you experienced some kind of loss or trauma earlier in your life? Did a parent leave you or neglect you? Sibling die? Moved around as a kid? You have a compulsive desire to not lose this person, as if you suspect they are going to leave, yet the very actions you are taking are the ones that will guarantee that outcome. Paradoxically, you are self-aware of that, yet seem unable to stop it. This sounds like a standard Freudian regression that you’re in. A repeat pattern that was formed at an …	/r/seduction	15/06/18 10:02 PM
3	What is the best nlp book on seduction? It’s the first NLP book. People forget that NLP was co-founded by a Special Forces soldier who got a PhD in linguistics. A large part of it is a systematic approach to the use of auditory, audible, and tactile stimuli to communicate with another party. It was meant as a therapy tool and was really a codification of Milton Erickson’s work. I can save anyone from having to study all that with one sentence. The role of a great communicator is to know what they are trying to accomplish from the comm…	/r/seduction	15/06/18 09:49 PM
3	Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you? I think it’s cause a lot of guys see rejection as a one off. Ie Girl doesn’t like me hence I stop hitting on her. Persistence is one of the keys to pulling. I don’t mean being a stalker or weird or manipulating or anything hardcore like that but you just keep going for it, like you almost laugh any rejection off. Anyway, girls find persistence and passion really hot, it’s like catnip to them, but if you can’t escalate after you win you go in this fake basket to her. Tbh this is one of the things…	/r/seduction	15/06/18 09:43 PM
2	What is the best nlp book on seduction? There isn’t one for seduction per se. NLP is much more than just a seduction technique. It’s about how to properly communicate to get what you want out of an interaction. Doing NLP courses is much more powerful than reading a book. Frogs to Princes, Introduction to NLP, Eriksonian Hypnosis, are all good starting points for NLP.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:43 AM
1	Can I get rid of the neediness while being in a relationship with the person I am almost obsessed with ?? She’s bored and you aren’t just being needy, you’re being boring. You’re making this poor girl your entire life, it’s pathetic and you’re suffocating her. It’s a wonder she hasn’t left you yet. Read Sex God Method, spice it up in bed, do shit YOU want to do in your life, be a man, grow, strive for your goals, lead her to some fun places, connect with her and appreciate her, be mean and tease her every now and then.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:41 AM
1	Divorced after 11 years relationship Go out and do things you enjoy. Ever felt like going somewhere on vacation? Do it. Ever wanted to learn to ride a motorcycle? Do it. Like all breakups I’m sure it went bad for a while, go have some fun, do the stuff you couldn’t before and in a little while you’ll start enjoying yourself.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:36 AM
3	I should move on right? Move on from what? Asking her out to the pool with your friends? You aren’t in a relationship. Tell her to come to the pool next week, if she doesn’t come ask her out on a date. She’ll either say yes or no.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:33 AM
2	How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousing I think the natural progression from this video is physical escalation, closing, and pulling. The one that seems to be the biggest obstacle for people on reddit is the whole “see yourself as a sexual being”. So many people are caught up in routines and thinking there’s some magic combination of sentences that unlock Sex like some kind of video game level progression instead of understanding that them being ok with their own sexuality and sexual desires and them acting on them is ok and fun! You …	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:07 AM
1	Advance flirting tips anyone? Make her touch you, put her hand on your guns, abs, cock... that advanced enough for you?	/r/seduction	15/06/18 07:00 AM
6	Extreme frustration, loneliness. time to change Hey man, I’m sorry to hear you’re down like this and it’s great to hear you’re getting ready to fight your way out of the hole you’re in and I commend you on realising that there needs to be change in your life. But be wary of trying to fix everything at once. Try to make things better one thing at a time. You don’t want to fail at everything at once.	/r/seduction	15/06/18 06:53 AM
1	How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousing Great video! Thanks for posting. Each one of these is like an entire lesson upon itself. You did a great job of going through them very concisely. !	/r/seduction	15/06/18 06:39 AM
24	Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you? I don’t know about three strikes. I don’t think that there’s any hard or fast rules on this. I just know it’s something I noticed from when I was younger. I’ve always been comfortable approaching, talking, being physical, getting rejected but I had a harder time actually closing physically and being sexual back in the day. One of the things I noticed was if I’d talked a good game, organised everything, and isolated her but didn’t escalate I’d be in this weird “neuter” zone after. Like the chick …	/r/seduction	15/06/18 01:41 AM
1	Can I get rid of the neediness while being in a relationship with the person I am almost obsessed with ?? How is your neediness manifesting itself? And what do you mean she’s walking all over you?	/r/seduction	15/06/18 01:26 AM
0	Do you guys ever worry about STD with all your attempts to sleep with many women? Think of herpes as the gift that keeps on giving!	/r/seduction	15/06/18 01:24 AM
25	Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you? I would take out that how attracted to you are they. Women are known to have stronger emotions than men. But no they shouldn’t change their reaction within an hour. That usually means you aren’t doing a good job of trying to pull them, or that you care too much what they’re thinking, or you have zero situational read about what’s going on. One thing I have noticed from when I was younger. If a girl expects to hook up with you, and you don’t do it, they’ll put you in a “non-sexual”zone. So if you…	/r/seduction	15/06/18 01:22 AM
3	Does being more relaxed and mindful make you more attractive to people? First off congratulations on your all around self-improvement, physical and mental. It sounds like you really have your life together. The short answer to your question is yes, being more relaxed and mindful makes you massively more attractive to people, as does being physically fit. A lot of our communication as humans, in fact many argue most, is non-content related. Our demeanor, physical posture, tonality, speed of delivery etc all play massive roles in how others perceive us. Jordan Peterso…	/r/seduction	14/06/18 10:35 PM
1	International long distance fiancé (33 F) and I (44 M) of 2.5 years fading apart. Need to reboot. Need sage community input on this one. You know the answers now man. The question is if you’ll take action or just want to use us as emotional tampons.	/r/seduction	14/06/18 02:45 AM
1	So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome. No you can reengage. The point of texting/calling is to get a meet. Once you get a meet the point is to seduce. The point of seducing is to fuck their brains out. The point of having sex is that YOU like how it feels. After that the real intimacy/relationship starts. You put way too much onerous on their reactions instead of what YOU wanted. I get it you’re going through a bit of a rough patch but don’t use it as an excuse for why you can’t pull a chick or do what YOU want. Good luck out there m…	/r/seduction	14/06/18 02:01 AM
0	10 principles of game Stop qualifying yourself, it comes off as needy, little peenut. lol	/r/seduction	13/06/18 10:26 AM
1	10 principles of game You need to practice being indifferent more.	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:57 AM
3	International long distance fiancé (33 F) and I (44 M) of 2.5 years fading apart. Need to reboot. Need sage community input on this one. Sounds like she’s got some serious issues. I’m a strong believer in one not being able to “fix” people, that they need to fix themselves. And on that note if someone can’t take care of themselves they can’t be with someone else. It’s funny you used be word “mania” in there. That’s a word that’s strongly associated with mental illness. Anyway, beyond that it sounds like you’ve got it together and your fiancé is out traveling g and having a good time and doesn’t really do anything with herself. I’…	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:50 AM
1	Dm'ing a girl success rates I dm chicks all the time and have pulled quite a few. It’s also helped me pull other girls who’ve heard I pulled a friend or acquaintance so they’re interested. I’d suggest you start with something to catch her attention like “damn girl, your beauty radiates so strongly from my iPhone that I’m acquiring a tan, brb I need to apply Aloe Vera” how’s it going hottie? Or I just wanna cover you in peanut butter and see how much I can lick off before my peanut allergy kills me!!! I find “hey how are yo…	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:42 AM
-1	10 principles of game 4, 6, 7 & 9, disregard the rest. I’d also add enjoy it. Going out and pulling is really fun.	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:32 AM
2	10 principles of game 👍🏼	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:31 AM
1	People who live in bilingual countries, in what language do you talk to girls through text/in real life? I just escalate physically in RL and send emojis, memes and nudes on text.	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:27 AM
8	20 y/o male first date advice Start by giving her a hug when you see her. If she accepted to go on a date with you don’t be nervous, it’s already set up in a context that it isn’t platonic.	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:18 AM
0	So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome. Yeah are they cute? LOL Awesome question above. You need to tell us with all the advice you’re getting and IGNORING! Dude what the fuck is wrong with you? We told you to set up a fucking meeting and you went ahead and turned this into a Facetime Interview! You took all the goddamn emotional excitement/anticipation/surprise outburst doing that. I wrote your texts for you above. They’re funny, “let’s meet at yours, sorry can’t do mine, dad’s cooking meth again and the place might explode” make it …	/r/seduction	13/06/18 09:16 AM
1	When girl says that you cannot trust her fully nor does she want to hurt you You’re doing well man on that. You came here, asked for advice and a lot of people gave you good advice. You suspected but didn’t know for sure. Make up your mind about what YOU want to do now and go about pursuing it. Nothing that bad here happened. This chick sounds a bit fucked up. You had some fun with her but now your life will be better off without her. Next time you spot someone messed up like this you’ll avoid them. Experience is what you get when things don’t work out your way. Other th…	/r/seduction	13/06/18 08:58 AM
1	So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome. Dude, please unfuck yourself, please! For your father’s sake! You’re overthinking this times 100! Leave the needy etc out of your though process. Don’t do some kind of game analysis. Your dad’s text is fine but you don’t need text game here! You’re in 100% natural world here. They wanna chill! Just set up a meeting at their place then. I’d send a text and be like “hey send me a picture of you guys, I wanna make sure you aren’t really 40-year old make catfish or that my dad isn’t playing a prank …	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:37 PM
1	How uniform is womens taste in men? 99.9%, they all want to be swept off their feet! The 0.1%? That’s just Rosie O’Donnell, she’ll take anything she can get.	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:24 PM
1	When girl says that you cannot trust her fully nor does she want to hurt you She’s cheating on you and is bored of you. You’re too easy and a push-over in your relationship with her. You should have gone fucking crazy when she said that to you. I’d also guess that you aren’t fulfilling her sexually. Read Sex God Method and drop this chick. She’ll respect you more for it.	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:19 PM
-1	Taking the lead Do you also like it when a woman takes the lead and pulls down your thong and gently makes love to you from behind?	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:15 PM
10	So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome. Omg I just reread this text, you’re such a moron. “We’re down to hang or whatever” and you ask them what they do for fun? LOL and she says EACH OTHER! These chicks are DTF! Do you realize how turned on they are by your dad setting up his son for a threesome? Tell them to come over! WTF is wrong with you. How on earth can you fuck this one up? Do you even know you have a dick man?	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:08 PM
8	So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome. Dude, your dad is a fucking LEGEND. He must have been a hound in his earlier years! I’d be asking him for advice instead of a reddit thread! And you’re a Goddamn moron with your text. You were literally handed a winning lottery ticket and you’re talking about needing to eat, who the fuck cares about your diet or your instagram? So many ways to go with these texts “sorry my instagram got banned cause me and my dad were partying too much, come over to my place though and we can upload some picture…	/r/seduction	12/06/18 09:04 PM
1	How many days do you have from meeting someone to asking them out too avoid the friendzone? No it isn’t. Do you think acting like a chick’s friend without acting on your real intentions of wanting a sexual relationship with her is in anyway healthy for your relationship? So incongruent and manipulative and what a waste of everyone’s time! Talk about not valuing yourself or the other person. How could anything positive come from that?	/r/seduction	12/06/18 08:54 PM
9	How many days do you have from meeting someone to asking them out too avoid the friendzone? Dude pimping/pulling/seduction/macking/game is a 24/7 lifestyle. Forget the cheap tricks. Being unabashed and clear in your desires is one of the biggest turn ons for women out there! You do this in every aspect of your interaction, physical, verbal, spiritual etc. “Friendzone” is when you have zero in all the above. Making it clear from the beginning that you don’t wanna be friends is 80% of the game. Girls will hook up with you months and years later once they see you as sexual vs non-sexual. …	/r/seduction	12/06/18 10:20 AM
3	[FR] Thought swings with a woman, 100 Women in 50 Days (Day 4) You did good, but remember to not just get stuck in approach. At the end of the day this is all pointless unless you’re closing. Next time ask a girl like this what she’s up to, you coulda had a chance at an instadate, coffee, food etc. when she said she was leaving at 9 you coulda just been like “oh damn, You can’t the chance of missing the love of your life, let’s go grab a quick coffee before you leave”. You should text ASAP after getting a number. Any person is busy and dealing with 100 thin…	/r/seduction	11/06/18 07:58 AM
1	how to talk to the most attractive women? If you want the best you need to be a boss!	/r/seduction	24/12/17 05:09 AM
-5	Tips on how to build sexual tension in conversation Dude talk about sex like you’re a boss. Talk about your balls, cock, etc. her nipples are hard. This shit doesn’t work as a routine. You’re either in tune with your sexuality and body or you aren’t. Being physically fit helps. Not giving an fuck helps even more. Was out with a friend a few weeks ago he saw a chick with massive tits. Like FF. He started talking about how huge her tits were and how he wanted to fuck em. She overheard. Was interested like crazy lol. She ended up opening him up and …	/r/seduction	21/11/17 05:57 AM
2	Is there even a point to all of this? How on earth do you think you’ve focused on self-improvement if you’d only accomplished 10% of what you want to? Your message doesn’t sound like you’ve self-improved. It sounds like you’re going somewhere you don’t want to and are blaming the reddit seduction community for being rudderless? Do you think being celebrate and not lifting will get you where you want to go?	/r/seduction	15/11/17 03:01 AM
1	Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll. Dude 3 in a week after none for a few months is luck, especially if you can’t figure out how it happened. Figure out what you did right and keep doing it.	/r/seduction	15/11/17 02:57 AM
7	Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll. There’s a reason it’s called “getting lucky”. You got lucky. If you want a constant flow you need to improve your lifestyle and/or you need to get better at seduction so that you close more often.	/r/seduction	14/11/17 03:59 PM
2	What do you do when online dating isn't working? Escorts. Kidding. Change your profile man. Better pictures, better lines etc	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:35 AM
2	Importance and uses of Alpha Frame Fantastic reply man. If I may add don’t just be alpha to stroke your ego. Leading a woman, being a man of integrity, having absolute values, being picky, not over investing in things that don’t matter etc. this whole alpha thing has turned into amateur sociology hour sometimes in my experience. Just be a solid guy. Btw one other little mistake in the original post. True alpha is a leadership role. Being able to lead takes time and experience. You actually have to follow before you can lead. Not …	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:34 AM
1	Girl acting weird after hanging out? Tell us a bit more. What did you talk about? What did you say in your texts. No one can tell you from what you’ve written.	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:29 AM
5	Girl says she wants to take a nap? Sounds like she wanted you out lol	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:27 AM
1	Not being needy vs being way too aloof/uncaring? Dude you’re not being aloof. You’re being UNCARING or APATHETIC. It’s the highest form of neediness out there. You’ve decided to not even play the game cause you’re afraid of being rejected and are so caught up in your ego. You want girls to open you cause you’re aloof? You need to be a man and lead bro. There’s a big difference between not telling a girl you’re gonna be together forever and you can’t live without her the first time you meet and having the balls to be a man and just go up to her…	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:27 AM
2	What are some good general questions/topics as an excuse to approach a girl in the same class? Tell her you want her to sit on your face so that you can eat your way to her heart.	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:22 AM
4	I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15. How do you get over any fear my man? Face it! You’ve identified it, now start reading and self improving. Models by Mark Manson is a good start. Start hitting the gym. You might even want to hire a dating coach (I am not one). But overall stop thinking of being scared of approaching women and start thinking that you want to explore them. Like any explorer the journey is the part that’s fun.	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:20 AM
1	Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups? Amazing!	/r/seduction	19/10/17 10:02 PM
1	Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups? I hear both of you talking about the experience. One doesn’t like it because he lists for more (shouldn’t you just get more lol) second one doesn’t think much of it after the conquest. Does either one of you feel good when you’re having sex or are you just doing the robot?	/r/seduction	19/10/17 07:49 PM
1	Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups? Why don’t you like them?	/r/seduction	19/10/17 11:05 AM
2	How do you seduce sorority girls as a non frat and/or an older (grad student, graduate) guy? Be arrogant. Make fun of them (tease them). Put up fake barriers “I don’t hook up with sorority girls, you all look the same, you’re all hairy, I don’t just want to be a task for a pledge, I got standards,, I like girls who have their own character” you get the point.... don’t be a prick do it funny/playful	/r/seduction	19/10/17 11:04 AM
13	So tomorrow im dating an older woman Bring a walking stick for her. Older chicks really like it when you call them grandma. Ask her how bad her arthritis is.	/r/seduction	19/10/17 08:43 AM
2	23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any Situation Dude most boring shit in the world. This is like a job interview type questions. Be creative. If you put her on all fours what animal would she be? What buildings in your city would she destroy if she was Godzilla? What kind of crime turns her on the most secretly? Can she find that special something in your pocket? Why did she vote for Bill Cosby for President?	/r/seduction	19/10/17 08:42 AM
1	I fucking did it. Good job dude! Remember, you can’t lose something you don’t have... so ask away. Worst you’ll hear is no :)	/r/seduction	16/10/17 09:44 PM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. You didn’t propose that value was important, your thread is titled “You don’t need game All you need is value”and all you were talking about is approaching not closing. Approaching is nothing! Just about EVERYONE on this thread disagreed with you. The guy who brought up Harvey Weinstein CRUSHED your initial post with factual evidence to the contrary. Instead of you being humble and taking in the fact that you’re wrong you’ve decided to lie about what you initially said, attack each poster person…	/r/seduction	16/10/17 08:05 PM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. Read this: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/shock-and-awe-technique-by-ciaran-not-apocalypse-opener-vt84634.html	/r/seduction	16/10/17 03:41 AM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. You are insecure and inexperienced in both women and life. It shows very clearly. Stop pretending you’re some kind of value master. “Us people” didn’t agree with your vision and statements. Either listen or dismiss us. Stop trying to put words in our mouths and discredit us personally in order to justify your ego. That is as insecure and beta as it gets. I defined game as strategy and tactics to get a woman to sleep with you. I said you need to close and you need to be able to do this with women…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 11:06 PM
2	Why You WANT To Reject Beautiful Women Mine, society’s, their own. I think you’re being a bit cerebral in your question. Not every woman is available in our lives. Sometimes it is appropriate to just be friends. I don’t mean best friends. Sometimes there’s social barriers like we work together. I have a strict rule of no hooking up at work for example. Other times maybe a good friend’s ex who I don’t want to hook up with out of respect and not wanting to hurt them but I’ve gotten to know over the years and we hang out socially now an…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:50 PM
7	Why You WANT To Reject Beautiful Women Very good. In fact friend zone yourself “let’s just be friends”works especially well if you really do “just see her as a friend”. I’ve met more than a few hot women I’m just friends with because I’m not attracted to them. Does wonders for social dynamics. Even had a threesome with one and the ex at one point cause “we were just friends” lol	/r/seduction	15/10/17 11:36 AM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. 100% spot on. Great post. But joker’s ego is now telling him he’s an inner game guru so he’s disagreeing because... he’s super insecure. Got forbid he listen that might make him low-value. Despite several chill people on the thread saying otherwise. The Harvey Weinstein example above is fantastic.	/r/seduction	15/10/17 11:11 AM
5	Why You WANT To Reject Beautiful Women Good post but I wouldn’t use he word “reject”because it’s a bit too strong. You want her to be able to redeem herself, especially with a bj :). I’ve found putting up fake barriers playfully works wonders. Like “oh we can’t go out on Thursday, we’ll end up getting wasted and stealing a cop car then having sex all night in our ill gotten vehicle while listening to the dispatcher report random crimes, between all the fucking and laughing we won’t go to work the next day, get fired, miss the rent, e…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:58 AM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. Yes, I got it the first time. My point is that the OP’s post is titled you don’t need game you only need value. You need to close or it’s all a waste of time. That’s game. Being reactive instead of proactive is as low-value as it gets. Thinking about what place on the value ladder a chick is is reactive and low value. It’s also a waste of time. Who cares? You gotta have a strategy and tactics if you wanna pull. Wanting to pull is step 1. OP is only talking about approaching. He doesn’t know what…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:36 AM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. First off the title of your post is “You don’t need game all you need is value”. I disagreed with you. Approaching is all well and good but closing is what seduction is all about. You’re still at the point of having approach anxiety. You’re a novice. Closing is about authority and logistics. You’re nowhere near that point. You can’t lead yourself forget about leading a woman. Secondly swearing at someone for disagreeing with you on a public forum doesn’t make you high value, it makes you a petul…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 10:19 AM
2	You don't need game. All you need is value. Fantastic post.	/r/seduction	15/10/17 12:07 AM
1	You don't need game. All you need is value. You’re totally wrong. I used to believe this. Although TRUE high value, as in internally knowing you got it all together and are confident in yourself, will help massively with inner game and does help attract women it does nothing for closing. Your post is about as insecure as it could come off. Approaching 8’s who you think are 6,’s wtf. Women are human beings as are you you’re not a judge at a beauty pageant and neither are they. You can’t lead other people if you can’t lead yourself man. You…	/r/seduction	15/10/17 12:06 AM
2	Other males intimidated by me - good or bad? LOL Nah brah, he just never breaks eye contact first. It isn’t like that’s inappropriate or aggressive, just a naturally curious alpha demeanor. It works especially well on bouncers, cops or couples. They really appreciate some random dude staring at them persistently for no reason and not breaking eye contact first.	/r/seduction	14/10/17 01:04 PM
0	Its sad, there are more women than man out there and yet i still find a reason not to open them Dude just focus on having a pleasant conversation for now. Don’t even worry about opening. Talk to random people about the weather or sports. Say good morning or good afternoon to anyone you encounter in a professional capacity in a shop, bus, taxi,bar etc. and ask them how their day is going.	/r/seduction	14/10/17 12:31 PM
3	I hate who I've become. First off if you are schizophrenic it isn’t who you’ve become. It’s a psychiatric disorder and something you need to learn to live with before you can even think of pickup or much else. If you’re in a mental institution you’re there for a reason and that’s for treatment. You need to learn how to live with it. Don’t be too hard on yourself. One step at a time. The easiest way to fail is by trying to do too many things at once. Visions do not accompany all kinds of schizophrenia and neither do the…	/r/seduction	14/10/17 12:21 PM
1	"Women are a Lagging Indicator" or "If You Build It, They Will Come" To be fair to them, they can't stand there for very long. Or until some younger girl takes their place. Poor women, time is a downward slope for them if all they rely on is their looks...	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/17 10:11 AM