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Tell your “friend” that it heavily depends on context. Some women could use this as filtering while others could go in on a flirty joke, but it won’t mean they’re interested in being sexual. From the info you gave us I can’t make any determination
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:59 PM
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You get my point tho
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:27 AM
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Im not a boob guy but went on dates with women who had them big, so it’s definitely possible 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:27 AM
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29 and 22 is still more or less the same life stage tho. I “dated” a few 18 year olds, I’m 24, but I could not find any chemistry between me and them. For hooking up I wouldn’t care if they are 18 or 19, as long as they’re consenting adults, but for actual dating I’ll pass on them.
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:51 PM
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Bro if there were a blueprint of flirting we would all be successful, it heavily relies on each individual. My way of flirting is by teasing, but some girls I met would take me too literal and wouldn’t realize I was flirting. At that point I knew the chemistry just wouldn’t work with them. Figure out how you flirt naturally, and stick to that. Keep things playful and have fun, the worst you can do is have boring surface level topics. As long as you don’t do that you’ll be good
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:32 PM
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It’s hard to reply to a message that just says “home”, it doesn’t really open many doors for her to continue the conversation since it looks very dry. Text her you’re home, that you once again really enjoyed your time with her, and say something else you guys talked about during the date, or you could even ask directly if she’d be interested in seeing each other soon again.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:21 AM
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What do his personal relationships have to do with his book? Is his book called “how to have perfect marriages”? No. He teaches men how to be better men and get rid of nice guy syndrome. Never in his book did he guarantee perfect relationships.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:17 AM
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Just read No More Mr. Nice Guy my man, people recommend that book for a reason. It’s practical and straight to the point. It also explains that in a way you’ll automatically stop being a nice guy when you start maxing out all your aspects in life that don’t necessarily have to do with dating. Which is the correct mindset to have. Women will know when you act like you’re trying not to be a “nice guy”. Whereas when you literally change aspects of your life to be the very best version of yourself, …
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:44 PM
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I always tell them to text me when they get back home safe. Even though 9/10 times I know they’ll be alright since I live in a very safe neighbourhood and I’m having lots of dates during the day. But I mostly tell them to text me this in order to keep the ball rolling. Lots of times when they text me they’re back home they add something else to that message, about the date or a running joke we had. And even if they don’t it breaks the ice enough for me to keep the ball rolling by commenting some…
/r/seduction16/08/25 07:59 PM
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As somebody who’s in his early 20’s I see dudes in their late 20’s or early 30’s constantly pulling younger women. Sure they’re not pulling 19 year olds but I feel like women in their mid 20’s a re perfect. Got the youthful appearance while still being bearable to talk to and not being as insecure as younger ones. And guess what? This exact age group of women love men your exact age
/r/seduction14/08/25 01:56 PM
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I think you just haven’t met the right person since you mentioned you have very little experience. I doubt any man actively looks for the “chase” without meeting that interesting woman to chase yet. I certainly know that for me I’m only interested in chasing when that woman makes me feel a special kind of attraction other women don’t give me. It’s not like I like chasing for the sake of chasing, it’s with specific people only
/r/seduction11/08/25 11:17 AM
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Honestly just the idea of the women that I was interested in getting absolutely railed by other dudes while I was too concerned with treating them nice is what did it for me.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:23 PM
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I wouldn’t say you should base your relationship onto how much investment the other person puts into you, because that can turn into a paradox where that person might be waiting for you to do the same thing to them. Just remain realistic and do what feels best for you in that very moment. Don’t think about what that other person will think about your actions. I feel like people overcomplicate stuff too much by reading lots of books on dating etc. while sometimes the answers are quite simple as l…
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:18 PM
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After having gone on numerous dates I feel like I have completely been desensitised by having big expectations after dates. I have been heartbroken more than enough times just as I have been successful more than enough times. Eventually I learned that after the first, second, third, or even fourth successful date, it’s still no guarantee I can work out well with that person in the long term and that anything can still suddenly kill the flame. At this point I don’t have any expectations at all. I…
/r/seduction10/08/25 05:05 PM
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I really don’t see why it’s inappropriate. Apparently it’s a common thing that older women “shit test” younger guys into making sure they’re well aware the woman is older and that they’re okay with that. So yes, I believe her question is totally fine, just didn’t know how to reply to it
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:47 PM
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Once again she literally asked me, so I have to mention something either way. I ended up being honest to her and she reacted quite well to it
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:42 PM
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This is gonna sound cheesy, but if your aim is to have something long term the most important thing is to become the very best version of yourself. It’s important to recognise what you love in life, who you are, and give that 100% of your efforts. Do stuff you think really fits you as a person, become great at it, and find your own purpose. Once you do this, the right person will come into your life naturally. PUA lifestyle has these things as well, but it’s also a lot of “fake it till you make …
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:37 PM
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With all due respect, who are you to say what’s right or wrong in your eyes when it comes to stuff I want to do for myself? We all have different things we’re into right?
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:32 PM
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What’s your point exactly? I’ve had enough experiences with women my age or younger. If I’d go for something long term I would also go for younger. But I see nothing wrong with a casual fling with somebody older
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:25 PM
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Based on other posts and people told me in real life, most older women don’t react well if you’re inexperienced. So it’s a fair assumption to make. Either way I’m not a virgin and I’ve definitely had enough experience with women, just not with somebody much older lol. The things you mentioned afterwards could very well be true, but I’m still trying to see if being honest might be a dealbreaker for her. I really don’t want to fumble this
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:41 AM
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Like I mentioned in my post, she asked
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:21 AM
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Where did you pull a milf? I’m talking to several women my age (early 20s) but would love to go for somebody older too, just don’t know where to find them
/r/seduction07/08/25 07:24 AM
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Does it matter?
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:32 PM
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It does to some extent. But lots of women already have it fixed in their mind that they don’t want to go home with guys on first dates. I would say most women have this mindset.
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:01 PM
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It’s not worth it in the long run for sure. Once I have alcohol in my system picking up women is so easy that I can do it without trying, the frustrating part is that it’s the complete opposite when I’m sober. But I’m trying really hard to convince myself to do it without having anything in my system, it’s the healthier choice to make
/r/seduction06/08/25 04:46 PM
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A sad reality but a relatable one.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:13 PM
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Approaching people on the street that are not tied to anything in your own life. They’re not part of any social circle that you’re in and have nothing to do with hobbies or work that you do. They’re just random people on the street that you believe look interesting/attractive enough to talk to. You must be new to this because this sub talks about ton about it, and there’s an insane amount of videos that break down how to do this.
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:00 PM
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Have you tried cold approaching?
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:56 PM
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You don’t want to enter this paradox. Because it could be considered that your assumption that my comment had to do with ego, is your own ego speaking. I have my very valid reasons for not downloading TikTok that are personal to me.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:55 PM
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Nah sorry man, I really avoid tiktok like the plague
/r/seduction04/08/25 01:50 PM
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Are there any videos to watch on this? I’m interested
/r/seduction04/08/25 01:46 PM
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You can read a thousand books on this but if you don’t practice in person you will get nowhere. Best thing you can learn is through trial and error. One tip I can give you is to practice conversation by yourself. Look at any object in your room and try talking about that for as long as possible, then based on something you’re saying, you can find ways to talk about that specific thing afterwards, then you find another topic while you’re talking, you get the drill. This will teach you to never ru…
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:11 AM
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Aside from what everyone is saying, also don’t forget to work on yourself. You won’t be able to get hot girls if you aren’t hot yourself. And I don’t mean this in purely physical looks, but also in how you carry yourself, your confidence, motivation, and everything that comes with it. Hot women get approached by several men on a daily basis, if you want them, you need to stand out in some way compared to all the other guys that are approaching her. How do you plan to do that?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:23 PM
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This gives more casual vibes though, I doubt the women who are open for something more serious would react well to that
/r/seduction01/08/25 12:09 AM
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But how. I know I’m lacking in an area, but what annoys me is that I can’t pinpoint where I can improve and especially how
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:48 PM
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I don’t know where you live, but I’d basically be shooting myself in the foot if the first thing I’d comment on were their physical attributes.
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:11 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. But how can I start a convo without asking any questions?
/r/seduction31/07/25 06:01 PM
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Any idea where I can start? I knew I could change something about how I talk to them. But after so much analysis I still don’t know what to change. How can I be in a convo without asking questions?
/r/seduction31/07/25 05:34 PM
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Awesome. Didn’t know about this stuff, but I believe this will help a ton. Appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction31/07/25 05:20 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. Will try this out from now on
/r/seduction31/07/25 05:08 PM
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How would you handle the conversation without asking questions?
/r/seduction31/07/25 05:07 PM
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I’m aware that people lose interest if there’s too much chatting. Which is why I wait three days at most, but lots of times less than that. However, asking them out on the same day of matching never worked out well for me. But maybe it’s worth a try
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:52 PM
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How does one become more interesting and flirty through text? It’s really hard to get to that stage when the woman I’m talking to replies with very short answers or barely ask any questions back. I’m more than willing to learn though, I just really don’t know where to start.
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:49 PM
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Maybe you’re right. But at that point I have no clue how to make the conversations more exciting. For me banter is very important as well, and if the woman I’m talking to puts in a lot of effort into the conversation then the banter and flirting is pretty much effortless. But most of my matches almost give me nothing to work with and reply with one word, never ask questions back, and barely have anything about them on their profile which I can use to keep the conversation going. In those moments…
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:47 PM
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If I would ask them out earlier it would mean I would have to do that the very same day of matching with them. But if you believe I can get some success out of that it will be worth trying. Appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:45 PM
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Personally, porn has made me almost asexual. The downsides of it were horrible for me to get laid. I was still successful with women, but when I got the chance to get laid my libido was so low that I straight up wasn’t turned on. By avoiding porn for at least two weeks, I’m completely back to normal again
/r/seduction26/07/25 01:33 PM
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That’s kind of wack, not gonna lie. Then again you’re a woman so most men will react positively to anything you DM them
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:56 AM
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I literally just talk to them and become interested in who they have are as a person. After that, the friendship just appears out of nowhere. And if it’s in the early stage, drop a few flirts here and there and you got yourself a person you can romantically involve yourself with as well
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:37 PM
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How old were you when you tried the 50+ ones? And where did you meet them?
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:11 AM
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Women do it because it won’t affect them. The large majority of users on dating apps are men, so women can do whatever they want, they will get matches regardless. It’s not fair, but it’s how it is
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:04 PM
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Honestly, I’ve had this happen to me and I loved it. Because she really showed how much she was willing to meet me without playing any games. Her messaging me at every second would be annoying yes, but that’s an impossible thing to achieve.
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:25 AM
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It’s not just Latin America my man. In my experience they’re actually more communicative there than in Europe where I currently live lol
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:58 PM
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I’m kinda disappointed in this sub lately. All the posts with tons of upvotes say the most basic things that we all know by now, but the people posting these are acting as if they just discovered something revolutionary
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:18 PM
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I agree with you but I fail to see how this is specific towards women. Men have this too, I can take myself for an example as well. If I’m not fully feeling it anymore I don’t really care how much she feels for me, the vibes are off from my perspective
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:54 AM
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Ah fun
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:32 PM
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Damn so getting off Reddit is all had to do after all? Can’t believe this
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:58 PM
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This is awesome, thanks a lot for this. It will definitely be a challenge to do this smoothly at first because usually just approach people in a formal way. But I definitely see how this is way more entertaining and fun, especially at nightgame. I’ll follow your advice tonight
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:18 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. You’re right, my approach yesterday was definitely boring. I just had no idea what else I could’ve approached with to make it more fun and engaging. I struggle quite hard with approaching somebody in a fun and engaging way
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:00 PM
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Being grumpy is 100% more masculine. Might as well get skin cancer next, I want to become the next alpha
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:23 PM
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We will all get cancer either way, might as well try to look our best before we get it
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:15 AM
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Pour toxic chemicals over my body to assess my masculinity because taking care of myself is a beta move. Got it
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:14 AM
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If this is a feminine take then by your standards wiping your ass after taking a shit could be considered gay lol
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:13 AM
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A sports car will attract more dudes than girls lol. Getting a flat would be your best option since it opens up different possibilities. Just be sure you make these big life decisions for yourself, and not just for the sake of getting with more girls. These are very big changes to your life that you’re mentioning, and it’s pretty stupid to take these chances only for women.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:04 PM
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With what? 3 sets of lightweight dick curls?
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:53 AM
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I know it’s hard but try to calm yourself. Anxiety is your worst enemy during sex because it has the power to completely ruin it. Try to relax and be in the moment without thinking about anything else
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:05 AM
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Shit bro. I was just a spectator on this thread, but your comebacks really suck
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:01 AM
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Bro you’re getting downvoted for being so blind about the fact that we’re fucking with you lol.
/r/seduction05/10/24 10:36 AM
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You’re in a seduction subreddit and never heard about WhatsApp groups in clubs?
/r/seduction01/10/24 12:14 PM
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I can’t comment on black people since I’m a mixed Latino. But I’ve been getting positive experiences from girls in Eastern Europe. My current girlfriend is Russian. As long as you try to look good, wear nice clothes and groom yourself properly you shouldn’t have a problem. But other commenters were right that they are more racist in those areas too
/r/seduction13/07/24 04:40 PM
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You’re a joke
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:35 AM
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lol I didn’t intend it to be snarky at all, I was genuinely curious
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:48 PM
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If you had bad experiences in Europe too, where did you have good experiences?
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:44 PM
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Will do 👍🏻
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:08 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:06 PM
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My guy, you posted a tier list about overwatch characters taking you on dates. Your entire argument here is invalid. I’m not obsessed with finding a life partner, I was simply asking a question. You don’t sound as wise as you think, you’re not all that. Your arguments aren’t getting to me, once I’m done with this message I’ll carry on with my day and still wonder about the original question I asked.
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:59 AM
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Ah.
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:55 AM
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I’m not living in Eastern Europe and I’m not Eastern European lol.
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:44 AM
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I mean nationality. Europeans would be called white, but southern Europeans and Northern Europeans age differently. So I wanted to know about specific nationalities
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:42 AM
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As a European lemme say, if your primary goal here is to fuck then please come right in. You’ll have a great time.
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:01 AM
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Can’t you just show them through private message?
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:57 PM
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Straight 10’s? Then you’d have to show me proof before I’d believe it
/r/seduction19/03/24 06:44 PM
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Beautiful does not equal “the most beautiful girls on this planet”. There’s definitely beautiful girls that are also worth being with on a personal level. But once a woman reaches a certain level of beauty their egos become inflated. I’m not blaming them though, this is a very human reaction. Not saying it’s impossible to find women like this who remain humble, it’s just really really hard. Especially in the social media era where validation is a 24/7 thing.
/r/seduction19/03/24 06:38 PM
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You’re asking for something impossible with this combo
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:56 PM
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