Wewinky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Talked to a lawyer today, how screwed am I? Find out what she really wants first (and hope it's not revenge) and use that as leverage to get what you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/25 05:42 PM
2	Does couple / marriage counseling work? A good therapist gives you the tools to figure shit out in your marriage. It's up to you AND her to both apply those tools. Anything different then that is a frigging waste of time and money.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/25 10:02 PM
15	What’s your opinions gentlemen, Intentional? Move ALL your shit into another room.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/25 07:14 PM
17	Nowadays feminism is mostly a form of man bashing. Imo. It was an extremely racist movement when it first began too	/r/MensRights	26/03/25 07:38 PM
2	Why do racial disparities matter but gender disparities don't? It's about what makes them feel the best about themselves. There is no logic behind it, just feels.	/r/MensRights	26/09/23 05:56 PM
11	Why do men supplicate and use desperation tactics 25% more than women? Men aren't traditionally unemotional that is a false narrative that has been pushed for years. They're stoic, control emotion. When they don't control their emotions bad violence things happen. Why? When bad things happened violences was needed to survive. A sabertooth tiger coming to eat you or your kids as an example. So when a relationship end that control gets screwed with and more extreme things happen. The desperation is stronger. Add in women generally leave a relationship mental a long t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/09/23 03:18 PM
4	My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido? Stopped reading at feminist, run dude.	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 02:01 PM
9	Wife is filing for divorce. What resources do I have, how do I prepare? Realize she is now your mortal enemy that could potentially destroy your life and act accordingly, within the confines of the law of course. Just remember enemies can respect each other.	/r/MensRights	28/08/23 01:59 PM
2	Double standards in sexual activity for men and women. It's about learning how women work with experience so you don't marry up the first one that lets you touch her boob.	/r/MensRights	21/08/23 02:48 AM
5	Domestic violence against men in Somerset soars to record levels One thing that is ignored with domestic violence is they're often doing it to each other a good portion of the time. Their both victims of DV. But because one of them is male we all know what happens. So it might not be soaring it might finally being acknowledged.	/r/MensRights	20/08/23 03:43 AM
3	Do you believe that we live in a patriarchy? We live in a society built by men for their families.	/r/MensRights	18/08/23 10:57 AM
20	Feminism is NOT for men Women are shit at empathy, sympathy is their thing. Very different.	/r/MensRights	17/08/23 08:04 PM
1	About the positive aspects of men loneliness Way more, half is just the financial stuff on paper. Time, kids, youth, retirement, pride etc etc etc	/r/MensRights	17/08/23 07:55 PM
4	About the positive aspects of men loneliness Marriage is an expensive gamble, 50/50 chance you'll lose over half your shit. 80% chance she'll be the one who decides that. The positive aspect is not have to deal with these shitty odds the could severely screw up your life.	/r/MensRights	17/08/23 04:44 PM
2	27 and getting divorced. Her lawyer is trying to extract every penny from her as they can. Also she and her lawyer are the enemies', treat them as such.	/r/MensRights	17/08/23 12:11 AM
3	Almost 50,000 people killed themselves in the US last year. 80% of them were men. What percentage are men trapped in a bad marriage because they fear family courts? rhetorical question, fuck the family courts.	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 02:41 PM
2	Almost 50,000 people killed themselves in the US last year. 80% of them were men. What percentage where because of the family courts?	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 01:46 PM
25	Saw the Barbie movie - holy crap it was bad, but not necessarily why you think. They pandered to the crowd with the most buying power, middle-aged white women. Paid off big time.	/r/MensRights	11/08/23 03:43 PM
2	Why do men always have to propose marriage? Then you'll think yourself into becoming a divorce statistic.	/r/MensRights	05/08/23 10:55 AM
6	Why do men always have to propose marriage? Because men are supposed to lead the relationship.	/r/MensRights	05/08/23 12:59 AM
1	Soon to be ex moving on to other partners You thank those other partners for taking over your problem.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 03:33 PM
21	Why didn’t I get the talk? To escape accountability aka easier to blame you for EVERYTHING.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/23 09:16 PM
0	Why are all male characters in movies muscular and built in a way that's not even close to reality ? No idea, not gay so don't care what other dudes look like.	/r/MensRights	09/07/23 09:13 PM
4	Finally filed To add to what other people have said, never bash her or put her in bad light in front of the kids. Especially if she deserves it.. She'll do that on her own. Long-term, it's better for the kids in many different ways.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/23 01:42 PM
10	Be careful out there, fellas Remember, HR isn't there for you. They're there for the company. So they'll do what is best for the company, not you.	/r/MensRights	11/05/23 04:11 PM
0	Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not? For a high stress job I'd imagine they'd want to home to someone in-between. Someone who doesn't add more stress. An overly successful women could be that, a not very smart person can do that too. So I'd say if doesn't matter unless until it causes unnecessary stress.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/23 08:22 PM
2	Restraining order Start recording those calls or better yet block her.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/22 12:31 PM
-1	Would you tell your kids why? Just focus being a good father/example. Don't speak ill of her no matter how much she deserves it. This is about the kids and only the kids. They'll find out all the shit on their own. People talk. But for their own mental health it can't come from you. You just got to be there if they fall to caught them and talking shit ruins that. Putting their mother in a bad by you saying she had an affair is doing that. Let other people to that. In short they'll find out and it shouldn't come from you.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 11:11 PM
1	Would you tell your kids why? A 13 year old left his father hanging? Also mother said nothing about him. He did all himself. What kind of man uses their child against their mother? What type of man defends a man like that?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 09:50 PM
-4	Would you tell your kids why? He gave info to use me against my mother. Kids don't need to hear the details. Just that dad and mother still love them and it isn't the kids fault.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 09:25 PM
0	Would you tell your kids why? Oh there is more to the story then that. Hope that comment gave you the self esteem boost you where looking for.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 09:15 PM
-5	Would you tell your kids why? As the kid who is now 40 keep the info to a minimum. And never ever talk bad about her to them, ever. It will scar them. I haven't talked to my father in over 20 years because of the shit he said in the divorce. Everything he said was right but it didn't matter because it was my mother.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 08:20 PM
1	Do you think it's okay to lie about circumstances to protect yourself from gold-diggers? Lie by ommision or/and avoidance. Don't tell an actual lie, not a good way to start a relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/22 02:29 AM
3	I need advice from guys: How to help my (heartbroken) best friend during his divorce? Bob's a nice guy, woman get bored of nice guys. Bob should read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/22 11:13 PM
1	Do you think if all the men in the world became the idealistic men for feminist women that they would still find something to hate us for? Yes.	/r/MensRights	02/03/22 08:48 PM
1	I’m going through the divorce process now and I find myself being attracted to many women all of sudden (even a crush on a girls 20 years younger than me) and it’s to a level where it’s consuming me and it seems kinda bizarre. Is this normal? Has anyone experienced this and how did you tame it? Cause your thinking with the wrong head. Go rub one out and start thinking with the head that will get you into less trouble.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 02:53 PM
3	what to do when your soon to be ex starts a propaganda war with your young kids? Actions speak louder then words and kids ain't dumb. Be the better person and they'll see it. May take awhile but they will see it.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 02:50 PM
1	Post the proof? Then do whatever floats your boat. Just remember it backfire on you in ways you haven't thought of.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/21 02:20 AM
1	Post the proof? Hard no if kids are involved. Not worth the potential hurt it will cause them.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/21 01:31 AM
5	Had the talk last night, today is filled with doubting myself Change your home/lock screen on your cell* to how you described your marriage. Miserable, sexless marriage. Give you the subtle but constant reminder.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/21 03:34 AM
16	I need to be roasted - go at it Don't lose out on these memories with for kid, she ain't worth it but they are.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/21 03:37 AM
9	25 Years and Ending it Today The issue with falling on your sword is you get stabbed.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/21 10:04 PM
2	The wasted time Look forward to what could be instead of looking back to what was. Cause you can't do shit about the past but you can something about the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/21 06:03 AM
1	Grabbed my food and kept it moving… Which car?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/21 10:43 PM
2	I fucked up Change your though process when she is talking about this other guy. Start to feel sorry for him for he has to put up with her crap now. Then while walking away think, better him then me. May seem like an impossible thing to do right now but keep that though in the back of your head until it becomes possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/21 05:11 PM
3	A very serious question about second wives... A bad personality can turn a 10 into a 5, a good personality can turn a 5 into a 10. Emma Watson is a good example of this she is hot until she starts talking (well for me anyways) Plus looks don't last forever, personality generally does. So when your sitting I. The retirement home which one would you prefer to be sitting beside?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 12:32 AM
1	She Waited 6 Weeks Time to focus on you and stop worrying about her. Focus on healing and focus on your kids. They need their father in their lives, so if you don't like being a babysitter stop being the babysitter and be the father they need. You can't be a father or heal hiding in a bottle.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/21 05:16 PM
1	She Waited 6 Weeks It's a him problem not a you problem now. Time to heal and continue working on being a better father and person.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/21 04:12 PM
5	If she ask for a divorce but don't Manipulation tactic, usually trying to get you change.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/21 08:00 PM
2	How would you advice a guy in his early twenties to date? Watch for the bait and switch. No idea how to do that but watch for it anyways. It fucking sucks. The oh I like everything you're into. Then after the ring or kid come the all that stuff I said I liked well that was B.S.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/21 09:27 PM
2	A MLM was the last straw, need some advise Look up Grey rock method before you do. So take steps to protect yourself from the faults domestic violence claim.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/21 11:16 PM
26	What would you tell your younger self? yes she has nice tits but the BPD isn't worth it, run	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/21 09:06 PM
1	My wife and I have talked several times about divorce, and I have a custody question for you gentlemen. You'll regret being Mr Nice guy and letting her move across the country with your kids. Like seriously regret it. It will destroy your relationship with them. Alienate you from them, especially when she gets a new man in her life.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/21 05:36 PM
6	We have come to agreement and uncontested divorce but I am worried I may be conceding too much financially . I don’t want a whole mess but Is it possible an attorney would answer my questions just regarding financial monthly payments I have agreed to, to check if it’s fair enough? Phone call maybe ? Listen to this guy, and reread his comment multiple times a day.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/21 05:26 PM
1	Thank you to the community (Filed last week) Bad idea, source I was the kid	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/21 01:35 AM
3	I did something and now I'm a fucking wreck It's your house, she can't stop you. But she can pull the domestic voilence card so prep and protect yourself from that.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/21 01:47 AM
2	Do the arguments with the ex wife ever stop? After four years the argument today was about me getting them the Covid vaccine. It just never stops, any chance she can attack she does. Takes two to argue. Just don't respond.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/21 05:07 AM
2	I want a divorce but I’m too afraid. We have a house, I have a job, the kids are within reach. She is just so scary and terrible though. (That’s it in a nutshell.) Document the abuse and grow a spine. If she is this bad staying will hurt them more.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/21 06:34 PM
2	I want a divorce but I’m too afraid. We have a house, I have a job, the kids are within reach. She is just so scary and terrible though. (That’s it in a nutshell.) If you're scared how do you think your kids feel? Pull the trigger and create a better space for them away from her.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/21 01:19 AM
3	Help me be a better Dad Get some basic rules and routines so things feel normalized. Simple things like brush your teeth before bed, make your bed, set weekday and weekend bedtimes. Then do a hobby together like wrench on the car, video games or biking/hiking. Also give him his own room to can set up and decorate. Make it feel like a home instead of somewhere he visits.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/21 12:49 AM
5	Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men? Look at who gets more Government money. Example woman's vs men's shelters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 08:32 PM
3	Feel like I know what should happen but too lazy or afraid to follow through. Start creating a track record of the abuse. Find file reports after you have a few recording (incase you run into cops who automatically blame the male). To get encouragement to do the right think. Just remember kids tend to follow in their parents foot steps. So just think if you don't do something now your kids have a high chance to be in the same situation as you in the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/21 01:59 PM