Whackthemoles Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	The wall for men and women is 35 “The Wall” is about looks, not reproduction. A lot of men have deluded themselves into thinking they all age like fine wine but that’s the farthest thing from the truth. Some men still look great when their 35+ but some look terrible and likely hit the wall in their 20s. The same is true with women. I always think the advice RP men give young men about this just sets them up for failure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/19 12:10 AM
0	Men and entitlement to sex This isn’t a very good comparison. Men who are seen as entitled don’t end up only being frustrated at themselves when they don’t get sex. They blame women for choosing to not have sex with them. In your comparison, a person can’t really blame the ingredients for actively messing him up. A better comparison would be a student being upset about getting a bad grade in a class. It’s wouldn’t be entitlement to a good grade if he blamed himself and was frustrated with messing up his tests. It would be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 08:17 PM
2	CMV: Partners that refuse to allow access to sex in a monogamous relationship are just as bad as a cheater Is communication not a thing here? If your the partner that wants more sex and your partner isn’t giving you enough, you should communicate your needs with them like an adult. If you realize your needs still aren’t being met, then you should leave the relationship. Why are speaking as if one partner rules over the other? Why does the person creating the dead bedroom have to “let” the other person leave. Just leave by yourself like an adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 07:46 PM
-1	Women need to take responsibility for choosing shitty men Men do this to or else there wouldn’t be all these guys who constantly seem to be dating “crazy” women	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/19 07:22 AM
5	"Settle while you're young" is a bad advice Settling down young and marrying young are 2 different things. Most people who settle down in a relationship young have a serious relationship for years that eventually progresses to marrying during their mid-late 20s. Women who marry during super young after dating for a few months are usually much more wreckless and lack more forethought than women who spend their entire 20s partying	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/18 06:10 PM
5	What do you define as cheating? I think it depends on if you initially hid the interaction. Like if a guy was talking to a female friend and he had no problem with his girlfriend knowing or seeing the messages, but now he hides them because she had a jealous meltdown about it, it’s most likely not cheating. If a guy had a female friend and constantly lied about hanging out with her and was super secretive about their messages so his girlfriend made him stop talking to her, it was probably inappropriate on some level and the gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/18 04:35 PM
2	"Settle while you're young" is a bad advice But that's the point, if you don't lock him down while you can it's because you don't want to or can't. If you can’t, the whole point of to find a quality man that you can lock down instead of fixating on men who don’t actually care about you. But usually, women are fine with being in a ~casual relationship~ with these men for months or even years because they think that he’ll eventually change his mind even though he won’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/18 04:28 PM
8	"Settle while you're young" is a bad advice Not true. I see this happen with both men and women. They have a great relationship with a great person. They can’t find any fault in them and can see themselves married to them but they’re still so young. They see their peers partying and hooking up and having the times of their lives getting attention from tons of people of the opposite sex. So they feel like their missing out. Like they’re being held back by being in a relationship so they end it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/18 04:23 PM
8	"Settle while you're young" is a bad advice I think everyone already knows that women who don’t settle young either like the single, partygirl life or simply can’t find someone willing to commit (or they can but the kind of men they want aren’t willing to commit). This advice is usually said because a lot of young women lack forethought. Many think that they can have fun when they’re young because the same amount of men giving them attention now will be there when they’re older, which is not true. Many think that they can settle down with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/18 04:18 PM
11	Do you think the average man struggles as much romantically as some RPers claim? That’s not struggling then. It’s just plain, ole fairness. Man who doesn’t care about his looks is, of course, only going to get a woman who doesn’t care about her looks. Just a like a man who puts effort into being attractive will get a woman who also puts effort into being attractive. Not sure why an average man thinks it’s unfair and that attractive people like other attractive people. This is all very obvious but I fail to see why this sub seems to thank that average men are living in a crue…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/18 05:57 PM
6	20% of unmarried 22-35 year old men and women are having 50-60% of the sex had by that age range. 50-60% of the sex The way some men talk about sex is crazy to me. Is there some kind of warehouse somewhere that “the sex” is stored? Sex is an action that anyone can do. It’s not some kind of limited supply product	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/18 03:33 PM
1	How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it? It seems like you’re the one not understanding context here. Men having to trust women would only be an issue if women are the only ones who can control an unwanted pregnancy however that’s not the case because condoms exist. If a man doesn’t trust a woman’s word then he could easily put on a condom but many men still choose not to because he would rather have sex raw. Men don’t have to trust women because they 100% have control over unwanted pregnancies. If men don’t trust women then they can m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/18 11:55 PM
1	How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it? The amount of women that lie about this is very rare. And first real girlfriend as in when they’re high school and college kids? Getting pregnant at that age is a woman’s worst nightmare. The scenario is usually this: The woman doesn’t take birth control because of terrible side effects/difficulty of access/laziness. The man knows this but doesn’t want to wear condoms so they both make a stupid decision and go for the pull out method or some other dumb way and then end up with an unwanted pregna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/18 11:34 PM
1	How is the male contraceptive pill supposed to end single parenthood if the men who cause single parenthood are not responsible enough to take it? Men not trusting women is not an issue since condoms exist, but most men value having sex raw more than protecting themselves from an unwanted pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/18 06:19 PM
3	[CMV] Saying that incels are dangerous is like saying that Muslims are dangerous I wouldn’t really call those men incels though. ’Incel’ isn’t actually a real word, it’s a term made up by the people who do frequent those Internet forums and believe in all those toxic ideas. Therefore if a man specifically says he’s a incel, I assume he goes on those forums and shares those ideas. If a man says he’s a 30-year-old virgin, I don’t associate associate him with “incels”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/18 05:43 PM
5	the incel phenomenon is not a result of feminism but of personality and character, incels have always been with us Not only arranged marriage. I feel like back then before the Internet was prevalent, some uncles were able to gain the motivation to change themselves to be better. Now Internet forums let incels validate each other’s toxic beliefs so now if an incel ever feels the motivation to change, he’ll end up logging online to see everyone tell him that effort is useless because the world is against and lose all that motivation. Now even teens are on those forums absorbing all of their toxic opinions and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/18 09:41 PM
1	[Q4ALL] Ugly Women Have To Work Harder At Dating Well obviously. Ugly people in general have to work harder at dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/18 04:28 PM
7	The fact that female groupies exist and male groupies don't What’s the outrage then? Why is it so wrong for women to have standards? And what other perspective is there to view this where men are somehow victims?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/18 04:29 PM
11	The fact that female groupies exist and male groupies don't So basically you’re saying that men have low standards. That’s usually what these arguments about “hypergamy” are. Men who would literally fuck any woman with a pulse are angry that women have standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/18 04:02 PM
1	Q4all: do you think men would be happy in this type of society? I agree with you for the most part. Though I do believe that many men can be happy with 1 woman their whole life with no extra effort, others can also be happy but will actively have to force themselves to be faithful, while the rest just aren’t wired for monogamy and will need multiple women no matter what. OP’s world seems to based on the idea that men are forced to cheat because the women they have are unsatisfactorily in some way. However, society in the past was based around women being sub…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/18 07:00 PM
0	Q4all: do you think men would be happy in this type of society? But OP isn’t talking about going back to the 1800’s. In OP’s hypothetical world, prostitutes wouldn’t exist because he’s saying 100% of women would never have sex without marriage first. That every single woman’s morals would be much too strong to ever go against this, while every single man’a morals would be too strong to cheat. So the question he’s basically asking is would men be happy in marriages where they are guaranteed regular sex from faithful women and where the possibility of ever sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/18 06:24 PM
18	If it is acceptable for women to leave unsuccessful men is it acceptable to for men to leave unattractive women? Well going by that, it’s less socially acceptable for both men and women to leave someone based solely on their appearance. Not sure what kind of point you’re trying to make when comparing success for one gender and appearance for the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/18 10:06 PM
1	Q4RP: Are “beta bucks” necessarily unattractive? Money may get the women all of the material things she desires but she’s not gaining any social status if she’s walking around with a troll on her arm. Everyone she encounters will know exactly why she did it and will also know how easy it would be for them to do it, they just don’t because they wouldn’t sink to that level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/18 07:35 PM