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Hard disagree. At a con, the idea of 'potentially' running into someone you can clique with...yeah completely agree that's a phenomenon that's been known to occur. However, you can just as well JUST go to showoff your custom costume, buy some merchandise, meet a creator, attend a panel, etc. Tons of options that entirely aren't contingent at taking someone home. So the instance of a couple pairing off on that fated day, a happy story, hope they grow old together. CONTRARY to the bar, I would go …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:43 PM
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Leaving out a BIG piece of context. Posting, "(a) picture," right as if THAT'S what the issue was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:34 PM
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Conveys a deeper sense of caring and respect for who he is as a person. Very noble 'presenting,' just not how it plays out irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:22 PM
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Is it a lore accurate rendition of an armor set or outfit worn by a normal/non-sexualized/typical hero/main character type? Or is it a lewd and sexualized version of said character ? If it's Style #1, yeah the gf can get f**ked with that request cause it's a nothing argument for the sake of arguing. Style #2, totally valid request, should warrant at least further discussion before decision is made. Full cowl Space Marine and BDSM-verse Chainsaw man aren't even in the same arena let alone league …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:19 PM
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Just like gyms, can easily be done at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:07 PM
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How you can say that and think it bolsters 'your' point is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:20 PM
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And that's 'literally,' not the same thing. Jeez talk about missing the diff between "King of the Incels" v "Incel King." How can you not see the difference. 1st one is clearly a man who is looked up to by Incels. Other is the grand high Incel ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:33 AM
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So point blank that's assumed false? Is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:08 AM
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Ain't going back to LTR, that's for the birds. All types of women, one at a time though, say what you will to guys who enjoy spinnin' plates but that's a headache and a half I don't care who you are it's a lie to say otherwise. And screw having a kid, let alone children, need $ to keep my lifestyle going, and not having a LTR makes that a hellscape scenario & f**kin' nightmare I'm giving a wide berth to for as long as I'm not old asf like 34 or sumthin. got a little over a half decade before tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:02 AM
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I mean I wouldn't expect my mom to have ever given me advice? Tf. Pops came through on that front. Mom falls under that whole bit about, "You wouldn't ask a fish how to catch a fish." Mom helps snap you outta bad calls: "C'mon ma, what's wrong with her? She looks great I -.." "Uh-uh She 'looks' like a tramp!" And then of course there's the obligatory argument, and then yeah sometimes I'd come to terms with, "maybe I'm rationalizing things with the wrong head on this'n." And call things off or at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:34 AM
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Did you genuinely think any man worth his salt would have any other answer beside a hell no? Cause if not, think shouldn't even warrant the question. Anyone who says yes I would is missing a spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:34 PM
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Honestly, if that's all it took to end the irritating stonewalling women sometimes choose to exercise, incredibly worth it for that kind of return.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:30 PM
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Hey if they were to become 'standard,' both genders are paying for em'. Tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:28 PM
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If there's a kid out there who's somehow in 2024 still believing in the bs that the 00's and early 10's endorsed when it came to, "what women want," and, "how to be happy,"....and then they learn that they need to put a pause on that shit fast should they want some results, then yeah, being here has given me the opportunity to do some good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:24 PM
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Definitely the cause. Ignorance is bliss is reading loud and clear from your statement. And it's fine, there are morons everywhere, freaking out about that would give anyone a coronary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:16 PM
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All this boils down to, "your a lazy pos if you don't mind read your way past my lack of communication skills." I'm fine when your not fine is a sign that the topic is a leave alone subject if you're any normal person hearing that, you move on, why press? Jeezus, the people phoning in the, "I'm fine," responses are the lazy ones, use your words! Everyone you loved was so proud when you first started, why stop now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:27 AM
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You were good looking in your younger years. Simple as that. As a fucking braced faced geek up till 2nd year college, I can tell you it definitely get better later. Long as your not a loser about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:42 AM
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Mom chooses terrible person and you seemingly follow in her footsteps by sleeping with a 22 year old? It's not some grand secret why you don't hold anything against men, it WASN'T the fault of men. You sadly had shitty parents and were just unfortunate to have run into one of the many headasses who see no problem with dating coworkers like some ill-socialized asshat tryin' to sh*t where he eats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:01 PM
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Maybe not 100% but a noticeable difference than the percentage of conventionally attractive guys who went to the same party with their SO and had the chance to sleep sith said co-ed. You thinking the percentage would be I guess 'somewhat similar' is what's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:48 PM
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Happens on "Bumble," FTFY. Very much true for Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:50 AM
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I mean pound for pound you take all trumps winnings and losings, and compare that to the tally of an average person...the ONLY category they'd win or be be more successful at trump at would have to be a moral or character metric. And um, sorry to say but it's just an entitled attitude that would let anyone be able to say, "well that's a clean cut winner right there," to the average joe with his golden moral compass. Shitty person with house food and infrastructure is realistically better off tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:31 AM
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Doesn't matter if it would change his mind. If he were convicted and this dooshnozzle hadn't wavered a bit would you be irreconcilable distraught? But the fact of the matter is, for all the haters it must be a bit demoralizing that all this time has resulted in practically nil. I'm astounded at the length of the investigation alone, especially with every BP'er and their female friends touting, "he's posted all the proof himself online like an idiot." Ummm, people like Sarah Boone prove that if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:26 AM
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I mean, going as far back as 2019 I'd say yeah those can be considered success metrics. What were you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:20 AM
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And any word has an entirely different meaning because it's moreso describing the behavior of a man who's able to pull off a pretty impressive feat as a man while simultaneously not having any capacity of self control to not abuse this gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:03 AM
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A belief system that in the eye of the person saying incel...will result in no one having sex with them, so yes, it's still an insult that's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:01 AM
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Even guys recognize it's a sad pathetic mf who can't cook/clean for themselves tf are you even mad at?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:49 AM
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Not at all. If they were a man already it really would just be a drop in the bucket; If you're a man the world operates in a way that it is indeed man up and get over it, or you end up an incompetent man-child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:50 AM
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Any Video/article/podcast that uses the phrase, "where have all the...Yada Yada yada."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:16 PM
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It's not a willingly justification, but the opposite actions don't get the results so go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:14 PM
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Because my brain is nowhere near that premise when the question is asked. I've had doctors misdiagnose me before, gotten the wrong anesthesia amount during my wisdom tooth removal, even gotten screwed over royally by family. All were parties I had trusted, but for one reason or another I got wronged by them. If I got so far into the relationship that kids, (and presumably) marriage, house, etc are starting to come into the fold...I'm grown enough to know that yes, some arbitrary amount of trust …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:03 PM
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Emotional sure, I'm sure the anxiety going and and the relief/devastation at the end play a role in it. Irrational not one bit, her body her choice, 9 months went by it is damn sure her baby, guaranteed. Unless she never left the house, doesn't have friends, medically cannot do drugs or alcohol and idk... has other qualifying factors that would suggest she's 'not' a normal human being, I'd be placing women in a defacto 'saint' role if I were to then come to the conclusion that the man should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 PM
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Both situations are governed by, "he/she MIGHT." You wouldn't give him your address cause he might be an abuser, you called the cops cause he might be a threat, he wants a paternity test cause you might have made a mistake one night and are hoping he has that blind trust women try gaslighting men to start having. Edit: misspelling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:26 PM
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No that's on the woman to suggest. All y'all say it's a reaction, if it's a reaction it means it's influenced by emotion, not all women are so emotional so not all women would suggest divorce, all in all, asking for a paternity test isn't asking for a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:23 PM
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She divorced him for hurt feelings, he didn't have an issue with her, she had an issue with his wants. Totally makes sense he moves on to a woman that wasn't such a bad call.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:21 PM
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Friends like wanna go and just hangout somewhere? No. That's the kind of interactions I have with gfs/fiances/wives of family or close friend group. Other than that the person I'm dating is the one I'd be hanging out with. Grew up with more sisters than brothers, it's pretty hard to truly just hangout when girls are in the mix ime, college reaffirmed this belief several times, now that the big friend group has tapered off after graduation with people moving and just general life events it's sooo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 AM
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I mean, enemy of my enemy is my friend, is a thing. I think that's like one of the oldest sayings out there. Clearly, there is an established link between person's feelings being influenced towards a subject whether in a negative or positive way, by a third parties involvement. No direct action needs to have taken place between actors 1 & 3, but the result is no less valid or justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:08 AM
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It's lesser known cause the other reasons are doing just as good a job by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:53 AM
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I see nothing wrong with that statement or the actions by the parties involved. Friend 1 can not want to interact with ex, friend 2 can still find some value in hanging around ex, choice posed to friend one is what he does, amd it's one of 2 choices. He chose 1 of the 2, it all adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:43 AM
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Why say that the intentions come from a 'mad' place? why would I have to interact with the person anymore once the relationship ran it's course?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:26 AM
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Okay, drinking as a hobby is completely a thing though. Your husband was just an alcoholic, why try to model some conclusion based on his shortcoming to the action itself? That's a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:29 PM
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For me right now as a 28 going on 29 year old man; I don't know if I'd say a "huge" difference but it would definitely have me pause for consideration, and if we're being fair here...is that all that fair to the woman in question? For me to 'pause' and think, "do I want to explore a longterm option?" As opposed to knowing full well I'm all in? I don't think so, and so for that reason I'd have to say I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:31 PM
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If you see the 'prime' and then age with it that's where you don't mind it and you get the marriages that make it to the 20/30/40 year wedding anniversaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:18 PM
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For dating, sure. Starting a committed relationship that considers things like marriage, kids, retirement...pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:14 PM
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I mean yeah that'd be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:12 PM
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OK I think 'most' people find that scenario satisfying and you using the context bit of 'trust fund' but to follow that up with just 'some' people is really under-exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:04 PM
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Ugh, I swear California took, "not everywhere is like your liberal arts college campus" and went 'Challenge Accepted.' And to top that lunacy off, people want to go ahead and say it's a good idea seemingly glossing over the dumpster fire that state is in. If it were so great, people wouldn't be leaving it, additionally I'd be vindicated in my opinion of Californians must get indoctrinated to leave and bring everywhere else down to their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:50 PM
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How is what you described still considered a hookup? All those extras makes it seem that your scenario falls under hanging out with a FWB, or just spending time with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:10 PM
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If they still wanted the mom in their life, I'm out. They sided with a liar, I already had the huge L in life by getting married to her, don't need reminders. If we were united in the comradery of, "fuck that bish," They may no longer be my kid but that's bfff material. Edit: as for the 25, 40, etc....if the kid decided at some point that they'd give the mom another chance. For my mental well being, I'd need to chalk that up to, "well the friendship was nice for as long as it lasted, but from he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:07 PM
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Appreciate that, everyone's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:27 AM
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You're gonna have to tell me where it's hindered me? Has it kept me from achieving what in your mind is the 'optimal male form'? Were my sexual escapades lightyears less enjoyable than they should've been? No one aside from bedroom partners and my immediate family have seen what's down there, who tf has slighted me? I'm a litigious man so if I can get my pound of flesh by all means point away, but really, no one comes to mind as having treated me lesser/inferior for my male extremity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:19 PM
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Gave it a glance and my takeaway, the internet really does give an outlet for the sad and the stupid. First couple posts got several people saying that they got/are getting it as an adult and I'm just thinking why? If you don't speak up before getting that kind of operation and have any kind of grief after that's on you. And fine, call me heartless for saying it bit if they were terrified of some 'possible' repercussions for speaking against it then that solidifies the blame on them. Not regardi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:04 PM
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Ah that makes sense, thought they took the logistics of where you were going into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:38 PM
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Still sensitive. The way you put it would lead me to think that sex for a circumcised individual is lack luster and not worth it. Looking back that is far from what actually happened. Delusional, possibly, but as someone who 'afflicted'as you like to make it seem, you're the one freaking out and acting like a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:36 PM
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You're right they never sold it to anyone, but they were adamant that the issues people thought would happen weren't an issue.....only for the relationship to end precisely how people thought, though I'd argue it's "KNEW" it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:28 PM
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If a circumcised boy is complaining that he's circumcised, sorry that's just a boy who was abused mentally into thinking something was wrong with them. Speaking as someone who is already circumcised, when am I going to experience the pain and suffering that supposedly is tied to that medical procedure performed oh so ling ago? Sex still feels great, hasn't excluded me from having sex, how is it even an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:04 PM
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And Asians are moving to the 'rural' southwest or east?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:46 PM
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I mean, tough shit / oh you poor thing. Which one do you want. I was also and haven't encountered 1 problem because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:43 PM
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Because ignorance is bliss, and you're always gonna have those people who are comfortable being borderline braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:58 PM
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Is he a monk or something? Won't take pills for ED and won't try to get chemo and beat the cancer cause it's a different type of shitty feeling, jes gonna peace and wither away without complaint? I mean, those are active moments of refusing solutions. The second she knows he has no intention of finding solutions I'd applaud her walking out the door. Nice try at the gotcha moment though, but not a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:09 PM
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So by your own account even you couldn't pull it off, or at the bare minimum it just fell apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:16 PM
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You misunderstand, it's Filipina women, it's women in America.the culture of the west, location was referring to CA and is based on my opinion that it's too expensive, too much crime, homeless problem, and attracts morally bankrupt individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:09 PM
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It's the culture and environment that ruins that option
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:59 PM
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Date? No chance. Inquire about whether she still in need of some sugar, not entirely out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:38 PM
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How can just sex get old? Like what was the thought process that was going on in either head where the conclusion you reached was, "yeah, 'we're' not into this." Tf? That just sounded so otherworldly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:20 AM
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You work with what you're given. TRP places a focus on $ because women enjoy men who have it more and then going and spending it on, obligatory imo, dumb stuff. By all means start liking men who build everything they use and are frugal and that'll be the new goal to go for. Buuuuut they won't, and so it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:01 AM
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But for the ones that do and say just as much they're just wrong, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:55 PM
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Kevin Samuel's shit on both men and women who were delusional with what they believed they deserved. Fresh and Fit is one of the more meme'd on channels I'm confused as to why you essentially have night n day examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:21 PM
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And so it's woman's self fulfilling prophecy? Don't tell them precisely because you CAN'T trust them with what your thinking/feeling? And where pray tell does that choice stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:01 AM
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Right, its like when peopke get like life or car insurance (such idiots lol) like what could they possibly be thinking? That being alive & well = fleeting/not guaranteed Or that People hitting my parked car while I'm in my apartment = my fault for buying the darn thing and leaving it out in the garage and not physically with me in my apartment. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:58 AM
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The woman claiming that the man doesn't trust her -> means he thinks she's a terrible partner -> breakup/argument over a simple test. And because this is the land of the free and home of the lawsuit, here come the suits for emotional distress/abuse (however bs/fake the case may be, still a costly endeavor for both parties)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:49 AM
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It would be the lesser evil since women all claim BS at the suggestion of their man going, "oh so you don't trust me?" So make it compulsory, no harm done to anyone, we all HAD to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:46 AM
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Wrong, your misinterpreting the amount of women who are just in situationships or just lying to themselves telling everyone they're in a relationship. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:32 AM
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Being an individual who saw the morality in breaking up with my partner before pursuing someone else I met while abroad, I don't see the issue with punishing those who don't think through the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:30 AM
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Um BS, that's just a + not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:32 AM
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Your own scenario of when it WOULD happen is a scenario that literally COULDN'T happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:31 AM
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Dont look for commitment, it's the losers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:24 PM
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Personally, I'd love for feminists to admit they don't give a damn about 'equality.' It really just deludes sad men into thinking it's a movement that cares about 'em as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:13 PM
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With the countless documented instances of how bad men & women in the dating sphere have become, why on Earth would "successive" rejections diminish a Man's ego? I mean, trying to find a woman worth dating is already like finding a needle in a haystack, within another haystack, and they were both wrapped together in the same bale....pretty gd hard. So when you finally don't get rejected, that much better. But then its just another obstacle of trying to avoid those feelings of, "oh look I found w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:03 PM
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If you were forking over half your salary - wtf were you doing renting that place that needed all that work?! What I'm saying is, I managed to managed to pay cheap rent that was never raised in the 4 years I was there for college (which wasnt the deal outlined at the signing of the place) because each time the landlord was over to 'inspect' I'd show him the latest "upgrade" I'd been working on, whether that be the wiring in one room, fixing the leaky sinks in the bathrooms, repaired some cabinet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:57 PM
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If your a man who doesn't know how to care for a house, yeah you SOL. But why is that the default from your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:27 PM
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Oh absolutely. Anything I can do for her to stay happy, done. Anything I couldn't, I'm gonna still try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:08 PM
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It'd be a sad day if my younger nephews ever enthusiastically referred to themselves as a, "soft guy." To the men I've seen now I'm MY age group referred to as, 'soft guys,' those are what I'd call role models. Those I'd concede that it seems to be jokingly lumped in synonymously with the quip, "Beta Billy," or just a more effeminate man description.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:48 PM
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Cool, good on you. Don't quite have much else to say to that as I'm hoping to land a girl like his current gf who alright as a homemaker. But to each their own, hope he realizes what he's got.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:43 PM
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It's 'crabs in the bucket' come to fruition. It goes to shit and they survive = back to "them good ol' days" They become ashes on the fire = "glad I don't have to deal with that shit show anymore" Choices made simple once again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:41 PM
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I'd say, that as a RP Man as you so claim, he's playing with real, f**ckin' fire holding beliefs like that still with a woman willing to do that for her man. I mean, maybe she sees something that we don't from your albeit short synopsis, but no, he should be greatful he found a setup like that. I'll laugh when the wife wises up and acts that way for a deserving man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:37 PM
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No that part doesnt quite go away. It's just the age range when they're the MOST stupid, overlooking clearly logical red flags or shortcomings cause feelings trump logic in that age range. You're still gonna be guy crazy, just gotta hope the decision-making-skills go through the much needed development that comes with time as it goes. Mid 20s seem to be when things start seeming less delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:18 PM
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All grifters, if you searched then and couldn't see the stuff that calls them out with receipts, then you're just selectively looking for trash and saying it's representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:04 PM
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Because her replacing you is waay easier than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:21 AM
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Oof, not to impune on your mad social skills, but it's practically a life lesson of mine to understand whether I'm talking to finance or legal people, because it never fails they are exhausting to be around. So while I understand your mo, I really doubt you're pulling it off, non-verbally at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:22 PM
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You don't know how to leverage the success. What, you think you can just hand out your business card or clip an ID and expect a harem to swarm? It's the inner working of the man whose earned his way to that spot that then has the character that women find attractive. If you still don't believe me, fine. Pretty naive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:04 PM
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Wikipedia for facts lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:00 PM
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If they're employed, and don't have the attitude of, "this job fuckin' sucks but it pays the bills," then it really doesn't matter what they do. If someone is with a job and don't mind the circumstances cause it funds a life they enjoy living, what possible problem could come from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:52 AM
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Gives you the option of never having to know. It's a really dumb option, I grant you, cause I don't know how you could see yourself with someone who could do such a thing. But that is one explanation for the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:04 AM
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Is a crazy girl easier to talk to, hangout with, and open to uninhibited fun? ✔️, if given the choice would she be chosen over the good girl, I mean...am I getting blackmailed to hangout with her? I'd rather hangout with not crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:58 PM
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Women go for who they want at the expense of people who fall short be it aesthetically, financially, or spiritually; that in turn makes it harder for guys to interact and go for lasting relationships. "Enjoy the decline," means to try to become what they find attractive so you can also participate in this current dynamic created by modern feminism. It's leaning in to the change that was sought after. A man who is going to try and retain some chivalry or honor or whatever trait you'd think he'd h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:43 PM
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Eh, I don't concern myself with the #'s. I'm with OP in just not giving a shit, but that's moreso in just I'm never gonna get married. The decline to me is that finding a woman worth marrying is pretty much a patients man's game, a VERY patient mans game, so best to just avoid that stshow and just keep trying to be attractive enough to get dates when I'm out and about, OP was also right about just approaching, the hurdle of rejection really is a mindfuck but worth getting over. Also, while I agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:38 AM
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There is no solution that could be found because it's a practice of approaching a an equation with ever changing variables, i.e. women's feelings (towards what they do/don't find attractive). Nothing short of compulsion would help, and since that is equally deplorable, repugnant & just wrong, best to just enjoy the decline and keep it steppin', enjoy a new partner whenever able.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:58 AM
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If you really ascribe RP to the dismal state that NFT's & Beanie Babies are in that's on you. Ngl that came across like bragging you pistol whipped a blind and, "he didnt even see it coming." Also, TikTok for 1, is just reskinned Vine/an upgraded iFunny, and 2, it's owned by China of course it's gonna have an impact, they took those mfs to congress over the amount of things it was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:24 PM
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That there are more serial killers that are men than women (true), more men are prone to commit acts like DB/DV/SA (true when it's a one party offender, though trends say it's equal abuse when both parties are involved) Men have a propensity to be cold and calculated regardless of the situation (true) anything wrong with the conclusions? Not that I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:09 PM
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So..."just give it time, someone will give up chasing the idea of what they thought was attractive, and realize you're just fine." That's the takeaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:03 PM
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Whatever my guy, I've heard my nephews and young cousins use the phrasing and lingo WAAAY earlier than I got around to it. IMO it doesn't matter not 1 iota that it's changed it name and has been marketed out in waves; the point I was making, and that you indirectly confirmed, is that it IS STILL HERE, it didnt start going away even with all the vitriol it gets. That's why it can be rehashed/re-labeled every which way, it's some common sense talking points with everyone just trying to give their …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:39 PM
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What we see is more and more people knowing about it and from younger ages, and with all the censorship that it goes through, something like a 10 year run shouldn't have been deemed possible, but here we are. RP does work but you're not gonna see "Relationship Stories," of successes because the goal isn't a LTR relationship, more than likely if you want success from RP that means you wanna be able to date anyone you find attractive. And why wouldn't guys want that kind of notoriety, cause the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:14 PM
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Lasting? Case by Case basis. More successful than prior, abso-fukin-lutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:54 PM
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Only if what they've been doing both WASN'T the RP and they were clearly shying away from some of the clear-cut takeaways; Don't be a fat fuck, Stop believing in 'The One', Be a gd man already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:53 PM
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Cause it's not as clear cut as it is with women. Like OP states there's a higher 'chance.' The day I see a headline reading, 'Meryl Streep announces preganancy,' is the day I'll change my tune to, "you know, why DO they only talk about males declining fertility?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:20 AM
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"Hey I won't contest this, just please don't fuck with my shit and let me just get on in peace." My woman presents me with any papers that's my go-to negotiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:14 AM
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No fault divorce, a reason that on its face screams, "eh it's not like I'm not worried for my life or anything it's just not working out." And thats...I mean not fine but is what it is, imo it's clear western culture prioritizes 'feeling good' without a care in the world over most anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:12 AM
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Plane ride and an hour drive and I'm...on the outskirts of Vegas or Reno. With that Expense/Experience ratio, abroad ends up being the better deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:59 AM
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Yeah, it would be satisfying for the story to make sense, and not have to walk out thinking, "that was stupid/didn't ake sense/totally unrealistic."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:12 AM
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Have managed to live in some expensive places around the US by getting roommates cause rent is something I will always strive to pay the least amount possible, have NOT enjoyed the company of plenty of past housemates over the years but as long as they had the same goal of saving on rent money we're copacetic. And full disclosure, my living like this hasn't precluded me from getting a LTR, Aside from my first 2 years of college I have only been in LTR's. And aside from that, how long is the thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:04 AM
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Instead of arguing I'd like to say you'd need to expand on your point to get to what I'm trying to say. That's one of the many reasons that it could've happened, cause again, how they feel is like the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:51 AM
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How, anyone who's been in a relationship knows that their gf/partner/situationship's feelings are like the wind, guys trying to predict it are about as accurate as a meteorologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:56 PM
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They're about as weird as the straight edge weirdos who are adults yet haven't had drugs or alcohol. To be clear, it's a completely valid way to go about life, but for someone who's done/accomplished what they can't/don't wanna do, their apprehension to being alone/not being sober just strikes me as a little baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:30 PM
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Huh, I lived a stones throw away from the border and noticed the opposite; Fresa & normie girls alike all going after a tall guero bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:40 PM
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LOL Not the Y as your sample 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah it's the schmucks who think they struck gold meeting their unicorn. Give it time and a divorce and they'll sing a different tune, guaranteed. Show me a man who's happy in his marriage and I'll show you a mule who's just been broken in properly. High school reunions are a trip, catching up with the dudes who married their hs sweethearts or some girl they met in college was nothing more than reassurance I made the right choice in NOT participating in the shit show that is marriage. It couldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:05 AM
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Yeah wouldn't deter me, long as she doesn't have any kids there's no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:04 PM
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So wait, TRP going through women and not wanting LTR is bad....and so the solution is not putting women on pedestals because relationships aren't the answer. It sounds like TRP is right but not... idk, 'morally' appropriate? Where did your argument go with this one? I just said there is nothing to be done, and you said relationships shouldn't be the goal? Well people wanna sleep with other people so there damn sure isn't a thing we can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:41 PM
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How exactly would men solve the problem when one variable in the problem is what women are/aren't attracted to? There's no course of action that would influence a perception like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:23 AM
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So while totally capable myself as a handyman; that skill/oppurtunity to showcase said skill doesn't even come up lest something goes to shit. And regardless if you fix it yourself or not, imo just having your head on straight through the ordeal goes a long way. So, you don't got to be like Jesus the Carpenter, but just don't be a pansy and address the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:49 PM
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Get in a relationship trying to be one, see how much easier it actually was, proceed with this new normal. Initially very hard, cause you gotta attract a girl, but afterwards just a rinse and repeat thing with some minor changes thrown in if you so desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:52 PM
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So they're too shy to do anything? Or are they horned devils jumping at the chance for a quick lay? I find the idea that these two personalities reside comfortably in the SAME GUY. Sounds like a Jekyll & Hyde spin-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:48 PM
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It's what's worked for me when getting a date so I'd have to disagree. Seemingly eager to hangout and being polite when talking via phone doesn't have the same success rate as when I'm aloof & not considerate with texting back or being kurt with phone calls setting up the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:44 PM
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Easy, don't fuck it up like you did and not settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:05 PM
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Dating a single mom is a minefield and while dating in general is no cake walk, it's worth staying single while trying to find a woman who's managed not to add so much drama and labor to their Dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:54 PM
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They wouldn't "replace" men the same way people say a female sexbot would replace women. Stems from the fact that men don't need much to be satisfied, unless this was some robot from that show "Humans," and even then that'd be a stretch, women would still have a need for what a man (and an attractive one to them specifically at that) could provide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:25 AM
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You asked for a law that regulates the feelings of man. My response was, "if you come up with one," and if adopting that law along with mandatory paternity tests would resolve the issue, then yeah I don't care what the law would be, so long as a paternity test was no longer being treated like tea leaves, i.e. "if he wants one that means he doesn't trust you."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:20 AM
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You come up with one that equally, "shows signs of distrust," and you got my vote. Will the fairness of a male equivalent resolve the whole, "so you mean you don't trust me?" issue? Honestly, if you gotta have some comeback/revenge test to come to terms with what a guy just sees as reassurance or peace of mind, then all the better. Edit: misspelling & grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:58 AM
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All the longest relationships I've had, my then gf initiated. When I initiate its usually to take them out on a date and hopefully have a good time. Things work best this way. Sorry about your friends bad luck, but is it possible they were just punching above their weight and didn't get a resounding, "sure!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:42 AM
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C. I'd commend the effort it took to make her feelings known since as a guy the onus is a majority of the tune placed on us. But knowing full well that whatever our relationship would be going forward isn't what she'd want; only makes sense that ties get cut. No harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:59 AM
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See but that's the thing, when you're unlucky in your twenties (and full disclosure I mean you may have had one or two relationships; not if your part of the forever-alone-club) you'll put up with most anything to keep what you believe you lucked into. Once you have options, no need to deal with that kind of thing anymore. So that's why I say it's not taking it out on em'; it's just you learned what you no longer need to put up with anymore. You now know, not hope, that there are other fish in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:51 AM
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Add a decade and some change to this guys viewpoint and it still rings true. From nerdy-looking and struggling with electrical engineering to being fit and working in construction (covid related career change) I don't see any point in settling now that options are presenting themselves. I did fine single when no one gave me the time of day (taking care of my apartment and health) and now that I have what women want (disposable income/own place/glow up); almost nothing can convince me that settli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:27 AM
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Why is it considered, "taking it out," on them? Why can't it just be called what it is: enjoying the options you now have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:12 AM
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"Enjoy it while it's there", done pretty well with that mantra. Works with 'most' scenarios in life not just dating. Ties in with the, "all good things must end.' If you have an issue with 2nd statement, you're not ready to accept/practice the 1st.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:34 PM
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Yeah the price margins are no where close. OF girls waaay cheaper. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:49 AM
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It's a sad state where sooooo many men are lonely losers who are this attention-starved/delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:47 AM
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That's a massive oversimplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:49 AM
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No I just can't see what word/phrase in his response/reaction that reaches the threshold of "too seriously" in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:05 PM
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No, it's more like the friends I got are what I call "lunch time friend" which I use to describe: you know in school you can be cordial with most people, smile/wave/"morning"/etc. Then at lunch where you have the choice of sitting with anyone, you have, at least in my case, friends I had coming from like Jr. High that I would sit with cause we go way back y'know. So coming back to present day; anyone I meet is just like when your in school, say hi, get to know em', and sure maybe they're awesome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:02 PM
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Apologies, didnt mean to cause confusion but can see how I did. To be clear, not mad at all. Not a BlkP/Incl just an occasional browser here to see how the brain rot is progressing for some of the more unfortunate internet people here (hence the /s). I just find it hilarious the poor bastards who were already having problems finding relationships with women are concurrently told, "be her friend," annnnd, "but not too friendly you're gonna shoot yourself in the foot doing that." And yet when the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:51 PM
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I got the friends I got, very content with the dynamic I have in my day to day. If "I'm" gonna add anyone to the current mix, it's gonna be with someone I'm hoping is my gf,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:39 PM
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And yet it's called mysoginistic to not wanna be friends with women. When you are you're likely to be placed in that box. Tertiary friend at best, that's the window /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:09 PM
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Not like the guy was using Bumble BFF or anything like that, no interest to be had there to begin, why now is that supposed to be like his consolation takeaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:55 PM
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What did he do that was "too serious"...and then what could he have done differently. Not OP but it's clear what he was asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:44 PM
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Oooor, just pay for it and you get the same result, barring that Brian was smitten with a 5 or 6 and didn't just want to sleep with em'. If he was just looking for a notch addition, way easier ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:04 AM
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Person your attacking didn't decide, they're correcting your...honestly in 2023 annoyingly ignorant...beliefs that TRP gives a flip about LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:40 AM
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