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Some things get internalized over time. Plus, I'm not impressed enough with their buffoonery to lose my cool today.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 03:25 PM
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I think you probably figured it out, but DAMN am I tired of spineless attempts to keep a$$#@!#$ on board with a group.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 01:12 PM
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I am very curious why they weren't more concerned about the light this puts on their organization. I mean, I'd donate to a domestic violence prevention group, but not one that is openly hateful of anyone...
/r/MensRights15/05/18 12:46 PM
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This is systematically under-taxing people with the intention of moving people into a pay-for-play medical situation. And the problem is we see "government taking our money". Government BELONGS to its people in any democracy. We aren't fighting government, we are failing to see that we OWN our government and its problems. We just need to manage our money and have reality based conversations about what costs what. I DO want universal healthcare. I also want to talk about what kind of rationing wo…
/r/MensRights11/05/18 11:20 PM
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According to internet searches, average pay is 27.6K and Junior Doc's first year is 22.6K with an increase to 28K in the second year. It's kind of apples to oranges though. So, GBP is 1.35 to 1 USD right now, but I pay WAY more in housing here, while food and beer is far less. Travel is more, but that has to do with car insurance, cost of gas, parking fees, etc. So, I'd say I can live the way I want to here with about 35K per year and that's for me and hubby (remember their taxes are higher than…
/r/MensRights11/05/18 01:52 PM
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Sadly, "I'm married" doesn't slow down 90% of guys I've met. I kind of wonder if I was just in a toxic culture for a bit. I was in a rural Texas college town or maybe by attracting youngish men I'm getting ones that haven't thought about marriage/loyalty like older people... I've also had to consider if my non-verbal signalling was broken. Eh. My solution of ditching the singles environment works for me. I'd also like to see more women asking guys out. That would take the pressure off one side a…
/r/MensRights11/05/18 12:02 PM
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I really think we have a strong marriage because I WANT him to have adventures with his buddies. Life is more fun for us, if we have stories to tell each other. And we still go out with tons of our single friends. Now, it is different venues. I hate nightclubs because I invariably get hit on and have to turn somebody down, which irritates some people. Is there a way to turn people down where they don't take it personally? this question is practically existential at this point But I get that we d…
/r/MensRights11/05/18 11:40 AM
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Because we aren't producing enough locally. Also, the UK process is that after high school you do a 5/6 year Physician's school, but then an 8 year internship. So, they are in the clinic WAY more, but they are trainees and poorly paid for 8 years. It doesn't attract enough people. And even though the UK is pushing to train more people, you would need to look 14 years into the future on the pipeline (if you want to train independent doctor).
/r/MensRights11/05/18 11:28 AM
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So, yes, people have died in A&E, but you should read about the UK's massive flu season and various fights about understaffing. Brexit hit the Junior Doctor and Nurse staffing numbers hard. That, plus an unusually deadly flu season, led to some tragedies. The thing is, US politikers love attacking the NHS, but if you live in the UK you find out that the NHS is LOVED over every other service provided in the UK. People here are devastated by the failure to care for the NHS that's going on right no…
/r/MensRights11/05/18 10:57 AM
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Nobody is dying, waiting for somebody to get this done. The NHS is constantly maligned, but actually does a pretty good job. Current delays have been brought on by a bad flu season and trouble staffing enough doctors. But elective surgeries aren't suddenly pushing out emergency surgeries.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 10:41 AM
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This irritates me so badly. I know my husband got a ton of jokes like this when we got married, but I married him to be a partner, not to control and manipulate someone forever.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 10:37 AM
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I think the problem is partly the pervasiveness of the term, without a "positive masculinity" or "toxic femininity" conversation. If you just link the words toxic and masculinity together over and over it starts to feel like everyone is calling masculinity itself as toxic. I'd like to suggest "compassionate masculinity" as I know some awesome guys that are good at empathy. I think it's completely undervalued to be a dude with a compassionate perspective. Argument: Mr. Rogers
/r/MensRights10/03/18 07:50 PM
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The big tragedy to me is what this could have been versus what I think it will be. It could have been a chance to discuss the myriad of ways men don't know they are making women uncomfortable. It is a movement ripe for a serious backlash. It is a movement that I expect will destroy the better parts of women's progress, by making us all look nuts. Sigh. I don't live in the US right now and I'm grateful for that.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 06:47 PM
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I feel like there should be a campaign called, "Sexy Balls". I think it would have to focus on humor, but still. I'd donate to Sexy Balls.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 04:03 PM
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I always want to shout at women minimizing men's issues. "This is what happened to you for decades. Why can't we get passed the desire to claim a special spot as the only injured party?"
/r/MensRights13/09/17 02:33 AM
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Let's say, that since I am here, talking, I'd like the courteous assumption that I have not forgotten men have issues that deserve to be taken seriously. I wish to take these issues seriously and I'm working to understand how to do that the best. I don't think feminist language/attitude is encouraging at all right now. However, I am going to keep doing my bit and we'll just see how it goes. I am hopeful. You can tell me you told me so in 10 years or so, if I'm wrong. That whole "one time" with p…
/r/MensRights13/09/17 02:31 AM
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I don't think killing feminism is a better path than evolving it. You'll see tons of people fighting for keeping it, if you go for the throat. You'll get more support, going for an evolution. Is it a hard road? Yep. Will it be worth it? I hope so. Of course, horrible things also happen to men. I hate the way stating one thing makes me seem to be minimizing something else. We need to back away from that way of thinking. Horrible things even happen to men specifically because of their gender. And …
/r/MensRights12/09/17 10:29 PM
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Okay. I may have been unclear. I think current feminism does scapegoat men sometimes. That is what I want to be conscious of. Further, I think the whole notion of "the patriarchy" also robs the women of their sense of agency. Horrible things are done to women, but they aren't immobile objects, waiting for the patriarchy's next move. Women make choices all the time. I'm interested in a feminism that isn't without self-examination of whether or not there is a tendency to label an enemy, in order t…
/r/MensRights11/09/17 05:25 AM
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Okay. Starting with labels. I'd love to live without them, but I am worried we are hardwired to look for shortcuts and labeling things into categories is a (sometimes) useful shortcut. I take on many labels that aren't perfectly accurate because I like talking to people. And arguing about labels from the outset seems to make many people uninterested in talking. I feel like the label says, "I agree with you." and the rest of my conversation says, "but let's try it all a little differently." You s…
/r/MensRights11/09/17 05:18 AM
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Let's just call it by an ungendered word. Don't we have technobable? Jargonize? I can natter on forever about programming and I'm a woman.
/r/MensRights11/09/17 04:45 AM
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Thanks for explaining this to me. Maybe we've set a good example of needing info, explaining, and listening. Who knows.
/r/MensRights11/09/17 04:44 AM
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Hold on, will the trick power the phone at all or just burn it out?
/r/MensRights07/09/17 10:41 PM
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Okay, first, I like groups that have actionable ideas. I really don't think I've ever heard of any egalitarian group. Feel free to suggest one. I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to, if I'm not talking to men's rights or feminists. Okay. So, for equal pay I'm interested in the two fields I have any experience with. My husband is a chemist and I am a software engineer. For his field, women are far less successful at becoming tenured. I watched a recent woman go up for tenure and she didn't g…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:23 PM
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Equal pay, actual discrimination (as a software engineer, sometimes women are the targets of some ugly stuff), and the hope that we can move women's right forward without having to demonize men. I feel like just as there are women specific issues, there are men specific issues. I support both groups in the pursuit of better justice. And I really don't say "the patriarchy" because I find that is suggestive that men are the enemy and I don't want that. Besides, I don't like all the men's rights st…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:01 PM
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Okay. I'm a feminist and I believe we could do better at not being terrible to men. If you put this on a business card, I'd carry it around with me. *This is a pretty good offer, since I'm more likely to speak to the nutty feminists than most of y'all. --why am I a feminist? --I am very interested in both equal pay and an end to human trafficking. And I mean an end to all human trafficking, I know it's slated as a women problem while being a problem for all.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 12:46 AM
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I think there's a lot here about all non military people lacking a full understanding of military people. It's one reason I look for military service in politicians. I'm not as comfortable with non military people putting service men (or women ) into combat.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 06:22 PM
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It won the Women in Film award. I really think that should be mentioned more often to combat the claims that it is anti-woman.
/r/MensRights14/06/17 12:04 AM
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I don't blame males. I think that people really like to have a villain for their movement. I think that we (living, breathing people interested in equality) do have a problem with pushing men into a villain role. Which means we need to find a different way to talk about our problems. Are women paid less for the same work? I think so. Is there a man-team out there intentionally making it happen? I think not. But I think it's tempting to imagine a system that doesn't like women, pushing them backw…
/r/MensRights05/06/17 08:46 PM
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I found the red pill very interesting. It made me think we need to ask ourselves if we are protesting in a voice that we really want to represent us. I'm not gay or male, but there is a tragic lack of listening towards the MRM and a lot of people responding to feeling like victims. Time to figure out how to do better.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 03:48 PM
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