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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	CMV: Lack of Sexual/Relational Attraction Isn't Attributed to a Lack of Self-Improvement or Concurrent Value Luck is both people in a relationship choosing each other. The serendipity of mutuality. And when you look at it that way, you see how much rarer it is than we've been led to believe all our lives. So, therefore, we need to update our social safety net to stop privileging those who got lucky. Our life and health should not be dependent on whether we get chosen or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 11:41 PM
1	CMV: Lack of Sexual/Relational Attraction Isn't Attributed to a Lack of Self-Improvement or Concurrent Value Attraction is so often attributed to traits one would consider valuable outside of relationships and sexual attraction that it could be suggested (and often is indirectly) that the person who fails utterly in this subject, also fails to live life and achieve their purposes in life, assuming it requires any semblance of competence. If emotionally intelligent, funny, confident, talented, smart, kind, fit, experimental, socially competent, calm, passionate, driven, ambitious, studious, mysterious, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 11:37 PM
2	Which books or youtube channels would you recommend for exRedpillers that need to learn about dating and forming healthy relationships? I don't know about you, but I love that someone made a Ben Shapiro bot. 😄	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 11:42 AM
3	To create healthy and good alternative spaces to the red pill, one thing we should learn to do is to not invalidate men's experiences. Instead, engage in the toxic conclusions they can draw from it. This is a very good response, and I especially resonate with this: What do they want? How will they try to hurt me in order to further their social status and release their negative emotions on me? The worst emotional damage done to me in my life, was never by people yelling, name-calling, and being overtly mean. It was done by the subtler types-- the ones who cloaked their meanness with smiles and soft tones of voices, the ones who presented it as "constructive feedback", and the ones who took …	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 11:16 AM
5	My boyfriend is a Red Piller and it’s ruining our relationship. It's always sad when someone starts out being loving and safe to be around, and then over the years turns mean-spirited and unsafe. It's a bit like your loved one dying to you. Only more painful, because they chose that path.	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 11:00 AM

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