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| 1 | I need help with sexual anxiety?I suffered from massive anxiety after my ex-girlfriend told me that "she knows I think I'm pretty good in bed" right after sex. Was practically impotent for a few years after that, only getting half-chubbies, and when I finally got it up, I could only last a minute or two. It was horrible. The best thing I've done for myself, was doing the three breathing locks, or bandhas, a yogic practice that's easy to learn (spoiler alert: the lower lock is a literal kegel). Not only has it helped me last lo… | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Loss of interest? My friend, I rebooted my profile, changed one nonsensical bio to another, added a quarantine-relevant meme in the end, and tried another order of the pictures. Went from a constant of 6 matches over a week, to 42 in 12 hours. Grab a page from the marketing handbook and test test test! :) | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 11:26 AM |
| 3 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Well, given that most of us are self-distancing and that everyone are a lot more active, it makes getting the opportunity for conversation easier, but actually maintaining interest a lot harder; especially for me, as I usually do a lot better, once I get a feel for the person I'm talking to. It's much easier when you're standing face to face with an actual person, rather than standing face to a picture, and a bio that states they like fitness, traveling and pizza. "Hey baby, you look like you're… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 2 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive."Being attractive" lands men nowhere, inherently and by itself. Exhibit A: the stereotypical small-town jock, who married the prom queen and had children, rather than going to college. Now, he spends his days drinking beer in his greasy wifebeater while raising the bullies of the next generation. His wife constantly yells at him, and they're fighting all of the time, both figuratively and literally. If it weren't for feelings of obligation, maybe she would've left him a long time ago. Maybe, she… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Naw man, don't knock the guy unfoundedly. He might've gotten hurt recently, he might've gotten rejected a lot. He might just be a frustrated chum who's been disillusioned with the effort it actually takes. It happens to the best of us. :) He might just be a troll though, stubborn and immovable, until he either dies sad and alone, or finally realize that he himself, is actually the reason for his own undoing. You can't know that in advance though. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.So you'd want to date a loser with neither ambition nor social skills? Just because someone wants a person who's successful, doesn't necessarily mean that this is the sole reason. Especially when you consider that, many of these girls just swim in offers. Why would, or should, they choose the average joe, when they've just got handed a love note by a Christian Grey-esque type, asking them to come visit their big-ass mansion? (When it becomes a demand though, best to stay away. The ones who deman… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 02:02 PM |
| 67 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Even better, when you finally truly realize and dedicate yourself to this, becoming productive actually gets easier. Take it from me, I'm very emotional and passionate. This quarantine stirred up a sort of obsession within me, that caused me to just troll dating sites and apps without mercy. Which, mind you, is a good thing, as it has been mainly untouched territory for me, and as such has helped me to understand, the underlying social workings in play here. But I digress. When I realized that m… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 9 | How does the game change after you’ve slept with her?First of all, you're not showing "low interest" - that's a pretty shitty way to establish a connection with a potential mate. What you're (hopefully) doing, is showing them that you like them and enjoy their company, but that you aren't needy and desperate. You're basically establishing that you're a person of high value with options. I know you might feel that this is just semantics, but for 90 %, if not more, it makes all the difference. Not to mention that, it sounds like you might be interes… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I will leave this hereLmao, I said those exact words to myself, click the thread and see your comment. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | I only go for 9s and 10s and I am a novice, is this a mistake?I love how you focus on the numbers so much (who the hell counts approaches beyond newbie stages?), yet what you seem to really care about is the quality. I highly doubt your issue is with getting laid. You're picky and you should just embrace that. Of course, don't delude yourself; if you get rejected often then you're doing something wrong. If you're just not attracted, then don't force yourself to do it. You're not doing any good for anyone by "upping your number", purely for the sake of doin… | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How to start hooking up with other girls while being in a relationship?You don't have to talk about it, with women you are interested in; although it could spark an interest in you. Like "yeah, I'm seeing someone, but it's not exclusive", just establishes that someone else is also interested in you. Some people do find it weird though, so if you want to be safe, keep it light. For example, a stereotypical "young and naive" party girl archetype; unless you're an obvious sex symbol, an experience, odds are that her rationale/justification for wanting to sleep with yo… | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on "Male Sexual-Market Peak"?Ask yourself: has others done it? If yes, then the answer for your question is also yes. If you're in doubt, try to find others with similar circumstances as yourself, that has done it. If no, then the answer is maybe. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: If you found a porn video of your daughterThat's not true, unless someone is specifically digging up 'dirt' on you, and that you see it as such. Have you seen the amount of porn on the internet? The chances of you being recognized is smaller than you'd think, if you only made one or two videos, and if you don't see it as a bad thing, as something to hide, you have close to nothing to worry about, if anything at all. Also, the intimacy argument is null, a matter of taste, as it implies that intimacy is the only reason to have sex. Even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP: If you found a porn video of your daughterI don't identify with a 'pill', as I don't know what either of them entails (and suspect no one else really do), but as a person who has considered going into porn myself, I wouldn't be surprised as to why my daughter felt she needed a safe environment for sexual exploration. Though I would definitely ask her about it, to make sure that she's doing it for the 'right' reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 09:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Daily approaching day 1 (inspired by a user of this sub!)In context of what OP said/wrote, I completely agree. I am disagreeing with the ending of your first comment, that even sarcasm is guaranteed to come off as bad. If you regularly make use of cocky funny, for example, and you've used a bit too much cocky, then a joke on your own expense is exactly what is needed to balance things out. Also, if your "target" (still don't like that word) is, or in any way feels, as if she is 'beneath' you, that you're 'out of her league', and you try to constantly … | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 02:09 AM |
| 15 | [FR] Daily approaching day 1 (inspired by a user of this sub!)That's not entirely true. Self-deprecating can be a fantastic tool to disarm defence, especially if you're good-looking and fashionable. Looking too perfect can come across as either threatening (to a 'superior') or slimy (to a 'subordinate'). Also, self-irony is very confident, especially following a neg that proved to be too harsh. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 03:25 PM |
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