WhatDreamsHaveGone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her flee Take a step back and just read your own replies here - what would you think of another guy talking like that on here? You're just looking for ways that this thing that happens to chumps all the time happened for a different reason in your one particular case. Yes, it's extra-difficult when she's a long-time oneitis, but objectively that has zero relevance to her & the way she acts or thinks. If you're at a point in any relationship when you're trying to "win her back" then you've already lost. J…	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/19 04:50 PM
8	The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. Young women nowadays are like kids in a candy store - as long as you look tasty you'll be in with a chance, but probably not for very long, and if there's always someone else tastier then why would she look at you? If you're not the most eligible guy in the room then the most you can hope for is sloppy seconds, pity sex, or being 2nd / 3rd / 10th best when she can't get the one she really wants. Otherwise you have to either become more valuable or just pretend to be for long enough to get what y…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/19 03:39 PM
39	The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. Arranged for her to come to my yoga class Well there's your first mistake. In all seriousness, there's nothing to be disappointed or disillusioned by here. She was on Tinder to fuck, she found your "connection" sexy and threw herself at you, but you didn't fuck her. What's a hot girl who's on Tinder to fuck going to do next? Yup, fuck someone else. Feeling attached to someone you have things in common with is normal, especially when she's hot. Just don't let feelings guide you, control you, or l…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/19 09:00 AM
53	Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden. Somehow, with emotional labour. So it is the recurring conflict of "you can't have your cake and eat it too" ... that's what women always seem to want! Some advice I've received from older women over the years: 1) Women never know what they want 2) There's no pleasing a woman 3) You can literally never win with a woman. As time goes on I'm seeing just how true that is.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/19 07:40 PM
1	If you want to know what chicks want, what they really really want, just listen to them: "I guess you didn’t like guys who were—Dependable." I've found the more down-to-earth post-wall women who aren't desperate actually have some honest wisdom to share. I've learned a few useful things from them in the past which later aligned perfectly with experience & the stuff I've read here.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/19 10:30 AM
18	Buttstuff 101 It's only gay if you push back.	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/19 10:57 AM
-3	NASA is unable to launch the all women spacewalk due to many technical constraints, and the only thing that matters to society is that women were barred. Yes but gay ones	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/19 10:48 AM
2	If something about you doesn’t get you laid, get you liked, or get you paid, stop doing it They believe that inside their minds, they, and only they, determine what is truly important. Yes, we do. When you state that "the rest of the world decides what’s valuable by rewarding you or inflicting consequences upon you based on what you do" then you're implying that the only rewards worth having in life are those bestowed by other people. I see the point behind your post, but you're throwing out the baby with the bathwater - realising nobody gives a shit about you unless you're useful & t…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 11:19 AM
2	Victimhood Society - British MGTOW Where did you move from? Just for context.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/19 02:52 PM
152	A Lost Friend and Cucked PUAs Re cucked PUAs, that just sounds like easy money. Emotional release feels good, and working out is hard. You can make a killing selling tickets to a seminar where people get to feel good about themselves without lifting a damn finger. You should accept yourself as you are - only so you know exactly what needs to change. "You are enough" is a great message to tell yourself until you encounter absolutely all real-world evidence to the complete contrary.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/19 01:16 PM
3	"Teaching self defense is rape apologism" - Feminism does not want strong women I'll give up my own self-defence training then. Next time I get mugged or stabbed or some drunk guy starts a fight, I will instead educate them on the errors of their shameful patriarchal toxic masculinity. While we're at it, let's stop telling kids to stay away from strangers with candy in the back of their van. Let's stop looking before we cross the road.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/19 12:37 PM
2	How Women Try to Control Men - And What To Do About It > https://youtu.be/LCHPSo79rB4?t=475s Jesus Christ those ears... somehow makes his fawning "God I love that you can share that though, that's so powerful" even cringier. She actually talks some sense in that vid too.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 01:08 AM
2	ANNOUNCEMENT: Burning Straw Man Festival 2/13/19 you're	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/19 12:45 AM
2	Shit tests or just very low interest? She was never into you, you just happened to be there when she wanted to fool around. By intruding on her time with texts when she doesn't want to fool around, or has more immediate / better options, you're a distraction to pass the time at best, and just plain annoying her at worst. text me after If she's making you do all the work, she already sees you as one of her orbiters.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/19 04:37 PM
2	The Essence of Self Esteem The whole self-acceptance / self-love thing can easily go awry - I agree both of those things are necessary but only in the sense of needing to accept where you are in order to know where you're going, and to love yourself enough to go there. Not "I'm fine the way I am" which is the message pushed by the kinds of triggered safe-spacers who demand everyone must love them while bringing nothing to the table.	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/18 08:21 PM
1	Lessons Galore: Give us an alpha or we'll find him ourselves. OP has wrongly attributed those quotes. "You need to bring men with you" That was said by the co-founder. "How can we get anywhere until men are willing to share their power? What I'm not entirely convinced about is having men in charge." Later on, she says that we are letting him "take the public glory as it were, and have that high-profile role". That was said by some other woman who (it seems) isn't a part of the group. But the whole thing is still hilarious.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/18 01:05 PM