WhatHadHappenedWas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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51	Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating Life Wow a lot of negativity in here. Thanks for the info OP!	/r/seduction	09/05/24 08:47 PM
1	I want to learn HOW TO LEARN to pick up girls / seduce girls As others have said here, you have to dig even deeper to find the root of the problem. At the bottom you’ll find a combination of self-esteem and confidence. From there, you’ll realize that you should not focus on women at the moment. Focus on finding things you’re passionate about and become a wealth of knowledge and/or skilled in these areas. Over time you’ll build confidence and it will mostly translate into how you interact with women. You crumble around these hot women because you feel you …	/r/seduction	28/04/24 01:17 AM
2	Everything starts well and they just ghost me Most girls in their 20s don’t like the texting part of dating. No one really does. After 6 or so exchanges, ask them their schedule then ask them out on a fun date. The girls that want to meet you will agree to the date. If they don’t request a different day but turn the date down, they are not interested in you.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 07:53 PM
7	Feel like I can't touch on first dates Watch some videos on more ways to break the barrier. You take her hand and take a surprise path, ask to look at her nails/rings, ask her to dance, hand on her forearm when you’re emphasizing a point or laughing. It takes practice but you’ll improve over time. If you do break that touch barrier and both have a good time throughout the date, definitely kiss her goodbye	/r/seduction	14/04/24 12:05 PM
7	Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates. Disagree with her	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:59 PM
1	Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates. Is she laughing on these dates? Do you tease her every once in a while? How confident do you feel?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:59 PM
41	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? Yep. If you’re having fun on dates, make the move. She is expecting it.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 02:10 PM
1	I get A LOT of first dates but can never get a second date. What am I doing wrong? How do you go about the invite?	/r/seduction	24/07/19 03:28 PM
1	This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you. Wow excellent answer, thank you I appreciate the insight!!	/r/seduction	09/10/18 10:40 PM
1	This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you. Actually curious about the swinger lifestyle. Do you maintain any rules about it? How does it work? How do you find other couples? What do you like most about it? What should you avoid in this type of lifestyle?	/r/seduction	08/10/18 09:42 PM
1	How to deal with a girlfriend who accidentally leads people on? You can't really change the way people act with other people. She is who she is...and you can't really change that. If you don't like it, then you can move on. Or you can let it go. If she's loyal then this other guy loses every time & there's nothing to do	/r/seduction	30/06/15 05:08 PM
1	Tinder , Okc and Online dating - favoring girls ? Many guys will go for anything. They're horny and desperate. & many of the girls don't even have to try. Plus they're overwhelmed by all the sexual advances they get everyday	/r/seduction	03/06/15 09:37 PM
3	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong OP, stop browsing this subreddit all the time and start browsing r/fitness. Read the FAQ and get in the gym 5 times a week. You'll learn to respect yourself and raise your self-esteem. Worked on me	/r/seduction	23/02/15 05:46 PM
1	Tinder video I made, proves that not giving a fuck works. Girls love sexy badboys. Emphasis on the sexy	/r/seduction	21/04/14 11:01 PM
18	How To Be Attractive As A Man Man, people really need to calm down. This post is about what it takes to be an alpha male – nothing else. Good post OP, I think it is all true. Look at guys like Hugh Jackman or Chris Hemsworth. Sure, following these steps in life won't make you a famous actor, but you'll be able to exude the same confidence these guys do. Stay humble, work hard, workout and keep a nice appearance.	/r/seduction	05/04/14 04:32 PM
4	Is it true that girls always behave differently on text, and differently in person? Honestly some people just suck at texting. And that's that. I have some friends that are great to hangout with in person but when I text them it's like I don't even know who I'm talking to.	/r/seduction	03/03/14 06:02 PM
3	How do you react to seductive/teasing snapchats? tease her back with words. "What color are your eyes?" "Are you hitting on me?" etc.	/r/seduction	11/01/14 07:42 PM
1	How to deal with other guys hitting on your girl? I usually just lean back and smile. This poor guy has no chance and it's always interesting to see how she will handle it	/r/seduction	22/09/13 01:20 PM