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When you hit puberty. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:47 AM
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It's mainly because women more often use makeup, and in dramatic cases, it can take a 4 woman to a 7 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:02 AM
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I might end up in a band. I play guitar. That's kinda the music I like, but I like more of an Asking Alexandria style.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:16 PM
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I'm 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:11 PM
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When you say socialization, do you mean like relating to those guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:44 PM
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I've talked to stranger women, and imagine I could make friends out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:41 PM
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Is it about finding some sort of zen mindset that's so complicated or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:26 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:24 PM
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Somebody put my phone number up on craigslist saying I wanted to lose my ass virginity. To this day I don't know who it was who did it. It's gotta be one of my friends but I don't know who. I got spammed hard by random dudes. There wasn't even a picture up of me. I found the craigslist post, the guy was all like: "be gentle with me". lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:23 PM
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I mean idk, it's not necessarily what happened. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:20 PM
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They are nerdy autistic guys though, there's no denying that. I typically think that the audience is the way I described because people don't generally think of too skinny being a problem. If you're fat, well duh, of course you're going to be inhibited by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:50 PM
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Being an adventurous guy whos not afraid to take risks is way more attractive than being pretty and boring What kind of risks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:18 PM
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And then you proceeded to fuck initial leader guy. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:17 PM
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I wish I knew wtf behavior to do if I'm not just ugly beyond redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:14 PM
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I could have love without sex as long as she's not having sex with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:10 PM
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Do you ever feel it's weird to talk meta about your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:08 PM
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To me it's not even that. I feel like talking about gender relations with a female just makes things awkward between you and makes you both want to fit the image of their perception. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:06 PM
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I think what I feel uncomfortable with is talking about gender relations in a meta way, with a woman I'm in a relationship with. In the relationship I'd just like to let things unfold. I don't want to talk about what I think makes a guy attractive or what she thinks about what makes a girl attractive or vice versa. I feel like it just makes things awkward and unnatural as both people try to fit closer to that image.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:02 PM
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See, I could say "yes" to this and mean "no" just because I wouldn't be finding a guy 'good-looking' short of him being the spitting-image of a woman. Yeah I don't even know what a good-looking guy looks like for my own sake in attracting women, let alone me finding a guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:57 PM
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hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:53 PM
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Would you let a good-looking guy give you a handjob / blowjob etc? Idk even know what a good-looking guy looks like if I saw one. I'd be about as open to any looking guy sucking my dick, and I'm about as open to that as area 51 is to tourists. I almost got with a "transwoman" once and I just couldn't do it. There's just a manly presence that I'm not attracted to whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:51 PM
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I think these gay dudes think that straight men are playing hard to get or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:47 PM
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It's not the same thing imo because if you're both straight theoretically it's more possible for the friendzoned dude to come out with a victory than some lesbian chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:47 PM
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y u so gey?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:46 PM
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The girl I was obsessed with in high school was this kinda chubby girl who was always flirting with people and touching them. She always wore clothes that kinda covered up her weight, and her makeup skills were on point. She was an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:26 PM
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I feel like if a woman is already attracted to you then "be yourself" applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:08 PM
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Hot women? Any cold approach I've done has failed and I've done like 50+, but I can get with fat women on tinder by straight up asking them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:08 PM
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I feel like if a woman is already attracted to you then "be yourself" applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:07 PM
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So these guys even struggle with big chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:19 AM
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I'm 21. I lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was 19, then I got with a fat chick by straight up asking her to fuck. Trust me, these guys aren't going for fatties. If I can do it they can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:12 AM
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Idk where I stand. Might be a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:00 AM
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Kinda joking, kinda not since I'm an ugly person and women having choices is not good for me. Why is equality in and of itself something worth sacrificing for though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:55 AM
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I'm starting to agree. I think I should just become a world champion armwrestler instead because getting attractive women is impossible for me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:52 AM
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If red pill and PUA game was all about getting anything but hot chicks, then I don't see why it exists. Yes, 90% of men can probably get with a fat chick, but that doesn't require any effort or technique whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:50 AM
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I mean, I got with fat women, but I didn't use any sort of technique for that. You think the top 90% could get with attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:36 AM
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Guys who look like me could probably make a million dollars before they're able to get with an attractive girl. It may as well be impossible, because nothing I do, whether red pilled or blue pilled, goes well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:25 AM
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People who become black pilled believe that looks are the only thing that matter. I don't think that viewpoint arises from red pill rage. I think people get black pilled when they realize they can't get with the women they want no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:19 AM
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It's not about them "having ass" I just like seeing ass of any size.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:15 AM
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With attractive women it does. Maybe in every single other area of life it doesn't hold people back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:14 AM
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What are you confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:13 AM
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Yeah, just get all women to not have sex with a man, and he'll probably kill himself eventually, or want to kill himself but doesn't want to hurt his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:06 AM
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Sex makes men feel like men more than anything. It makes them feel like winners of life. A man with steady sex from a woman or women he finds attractive sees no evil. Anyone who insults him he can just laugh at. Anyone who hates him he can laugh at. A man who has steady sex is content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:03 AM
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I've never experienced transcendental sex. It's always felt like fast food to me so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:59 AM
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Trust me, sex is the thing that makes men feel the most like men. They feel strongly desired through sex. I wouldn't call that loved. Men can be hated, but if they're strongly desired for sex, they can just laugh at the haters all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:57 AM
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You're more close to the truth goatismycopilot. Sex is very important to the male ego mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:53 AM
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He doesn't need sex to feel intimacy. He needs sex to feel like the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:52 AM
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Many men seem to only experience intimacy via sex. That's not true, imo. See my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:51 AM
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I wouldn't say that men feel loved only through sex, but men feel like "The Man™" through sex, and that's something that's very important to us. That's more of the reason men are so stressed out about not getting sex because they feel like they're in some way a wimp or a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:50 AM
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Are you incapable of meditation though? Like if you consciously focus on silencing your thoughts can you do that? Is this what Buddha meant by women can't be enlightened? hehe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:41 AM
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Basically. Nothing else matters except for personality traits that a third grader could accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:34 AM
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Are you saying it's looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:33 AM
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Women's rights was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:30 AM
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I'm just saying that people who are black pilled, are probably just ugly, and they can't really be anything else, or else they'd be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:29 AM
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Pretty much the less a given man understands women, the more I can be sure he is an upright and forthright individual with good taste and interesting hobbies, just generally a person worth associating with. Conversely, any man who understands women is, to some extent, able to think like one, and is therefore untrustworthy and unpredictable, if not outright insane. I think this is how I end up choosing my friends as well. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:25 AM
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I edited it a bit how's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:18 AM
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I'd only want to be the lover if a woman had that dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:57 AM
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Well I'm fucked then because I'm not getting any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:57 AM
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That doesn't make any sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:55 AM
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The black pill is just what happens when you try the red pill and fail. It doesn't make any sense why if you're ugly you'd be anything but black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:50 AM
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How's your progress coming along? Have you slept with some hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:49 AM
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Or they're just ugly dudes who fail at relationships because they're ugly, and that's what ugly people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:47 AM
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I've tried the red pill and honestly don't think it helped me at all technique wise. I basically just asked a fat girl straight up to fuck and it worked. I appreciate the warnings about women from the red pill, but when it comes to getting with hot women, it's all about looks imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:46 AM
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The black pill is just reality. Ugly dudes exist and nothing they do can change their luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:44 AM
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Or the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:44 AM
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Am 21. Pretty much black pilled at this point. I was red pilled around 17. AMA. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:43 AM
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A high SMV girl is always going to have an attractive face. I mean, you can't deny that a girl with a so-so face wearing those shorts with her booty hanging out (assuming she's not super overweight) don't automatically make a girl high SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:40 AM
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I'm not sure if game works, because I've never successfully gamed a hot woman, but I've gotten with women on the bigger side by simply saying "wanna smash?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:38 AM
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Example 1 Example 2 Example 3 Example 4 Example 5 Example 6 Example 7 Example 8 Example 9 Example 10 I could give you these all day if you'd like to find some kind of correlation between them all. The second and third to last ones are mainly for their bodies and dat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:31 AM
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Is it possible to know if a woman has high SMV by just looking at her. A woman has high SMV when there's pretty much a consensus that she's hot, and that's determined by looking at her, yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:07 AM
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feelsbadman. I wish I was never born or at least born as Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:06 AM
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I don't think the audience of incel and red pill material is a bunch of fat rednecks though. I typically picture them as skinny nerds like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:05 AM
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Disgusting generation of crime glorifying degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:58 PM
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If he told you "I'm NOT actually attracted to other men", would you buy it? Lol reminds me of this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:54 PM
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I'd put all the extra money into the stock market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:50 PM
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How can you say not understanding female nature is why people are frustrated, while at the same time, you say learning about it is a waste of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:14 AM
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I just wanna drift away in my sleep and not wake up. It sucks being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:10 AM
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I "took women off the pedestal" and whoopdeedoo I still can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:09 AM
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I became less sensitive by not giving a fuck about anybody and vowing to never "fall in love" again. If you're actually dating and fucking women you find attractive then you're in a different situation from me. I had one "girlfriend" who I didn't even get to fuck and I just wanted to marry her and be done with all this complicated relationship bullshit. She ghosted me and broke my heart irreparably. To lose my virginity I had to use a prostitute because idk how the fuck to get laid. Then after I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:07 AM
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They're either psychopaths or have low impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:58 AM
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Ever read over old texts and feel weird about how you talked in the past? I don't cringe, but it's interesting because the way I express things changes. Like I checked my old Skype account and read some of the messages there. It's like you're a different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:31 AM
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Why do people talk about maturity so much, and yet these 20 year old women are consistently immature? Like even 20 year old women will be like "you just have to wait until we mature". It's like, if you're self conscious of it, why dafuq don't you just mature now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:29 AM
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Same. I love trolling people with Trump, but I'm pretty politically neutral. I just like to give a fuck about things within my realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:27 AM
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I hate the left, and when I say left I mean all the LBGTQ bs and political correctness. I'm just neutral to the right, but I support them fucking over the politically correct people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:25 AM
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Probably just don't vote. Things are pretty crazy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:24 AM
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I want that 1k a month from that one Asian dude, but where's the 330 mil for everybody per month going to come from and how does that not cause inflation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:22 AM
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What if you just don't get butthurt into oblivion and nobody likes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:20 AM
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It's the thought that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:14 AM
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I would suggest any guy who wants to get with a girl to not actively try to befriend them. Make yourself known to her and open a pathway for communication. If she wants you she will make herself open to advances. 900 years later...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:14 AM
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I think they just can't get what they want so they just keep trying and never quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:10 AM
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Obesity is an obvious thing though like having a tiny dick. Like what the heck do you expect? I think the issue is beyond just obese people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:06 AM
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If a woman doesnt have a continuing sexual desire for his man Hehe you gey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:53 AM
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Anti depressants are bs imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:50 AM
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I just gave up and fucked a few hams to lose my virginity and can confirm this. I'm not having more sex until I get some of that hot young girl pussy because sex is not that great that I would continue to fuck hams.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:48 AM
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What was it for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:45 PM
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Small dick If I had a small dick I wouldn't even try. If I had a micropenis I would just become a monk. I don't understand why anyone with a small dick would expect anything from this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:31 AM
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I don't think so tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:01 AM
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You think a cute 20 year old cashier is more attractive than Jennifer Anniston? Yes. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:16 AM
1

I agree with you on MBTI. Depending on my mood, I can be all over the place on that scale. I also don't like to pin myself to only acting one way. I don't want to identify with anything so I can feel free to act any way I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:09 AM
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I definitely have a sense of that. Like I can tell the Michael Jackson accusers are lying imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:07 AM
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You mean the rejections will make him quit? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:00 PM
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Better than attracting nothing as a normal dude. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 09:59 PM
1

Something that always confused me about "Game" is how are you supposed to have intent, but be free from outcome at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 09:56 PM
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Yeah when people are absolutely enamored and hypnotized by a person, it's a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:23 PM
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If it's just a friend, I don't think that kind of intuition matters unless if you depend on them for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:19 PM
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Sorry, can you explain where the intuition by your husband was? He put the lock on your daughter's door because he suspected something? I had trouble following.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:16 PM
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I think it depends if you depend on that person for something. If you're just friends or acquaintances the same guy who's an asshole to people who depend on him, you're not going to see as many of those bad aspects of that person. Like a manipulative woman who fucks over men all the time, might be perfectly good friends with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:13 PM
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Yeah why are people debating something that's so obviously true? How else do you explain the presents under the tree and the eaten cookies left out from the night before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:43 AM
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There's no such thing as a legitimate intellectual. There's just you and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:40 AM
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I like your line of thinking but I still think that truth could be approached from many different angles by different people. It's all about what you want it to be, and how close or far away it is to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:37 AM
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I guess the word is not the thing. A cat is not the word cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:08 AM
1

I'm 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 11:36 PM
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Everything's great as both until you hit puberty. Then shit just hits the fan if you aren't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:30 PM
0

Yeah this. Letting you put your penis inside is already what the guy wanted, so the woman's approval doesn't matter as much beyond that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:57 PM
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I mean you can kinda cool down too as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:53 PM
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Because when I was really young I thought it was a natural thing that everyone would just have like eating food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:51 PM
1

As someone that experienced unwanted sexual advances I can guarantee you that I don't need to be a woman to know how that feels. I don't see how unwanted sexual advances are so traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:16 AM
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I was twerked on at a party so does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:15 AM
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Would you have told the construction workers they're too pretty to be doing manual labor? Sounds like some fun banter I'd say if I was a construction worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:04 AM
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The naturals are good looking guys who are essentially just experiencing the SMP as females.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:03 AM
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I think I even got a little momentum from losing my virginity to a prostitute at 19. My momentum hasn't been swinging me any higher than fat chicks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:00 AM
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Except that it takes a lot more practice than shitting in the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:58 AM
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Is it entitled to expect to have sex regularly like all women and very attractive men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:05 AM
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Guys who are able to get laid don't give a flying fuck about women's empathy. Yeah but that same guy if women just decided to not fuck him would devolve into a dead inside little bitch just like the rest of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:04 AM
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Of course you're not going to give a fuck about changing opinions when they're already in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:02 AM
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Does it make me subhuman if I can do literally everything else except get laid with women that are attractive to me? I can get with fat women off tinder I guess so not completely subhuman by your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:01 AM
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I don't think guys like that want pity sex. They want regular sex which they can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:59 PM
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I'm a guy who can't get women who doesn't think going to the gym enough will get me them, and I still go because I want to be stronger, and once your stronger, you don't want to lose that strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:56 PM
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I will admit that I've been close to getting in trouble, but only because I stepped over the line sometimes influenced by TRP. I'm not going to try anything too crazy now. I'm pretty good at talking my way out of trouble, just not good at talking my way into pants. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:26 PM
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Yeah this kinda sounds fucked up, but I don't understand how people think that predators can easily seduce underage women. Like high schoolers are just as hip to bullshit as any other group from my experience in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:24 PM
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I feel pretty comfortable being alone, but I'm just frustrated and want to do this thing that's been my goal for a while now. Any other thing in life would be an easier task for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:23 PM
1

Attractive women. What dafuq do you want me to call them? They're better looking to me than other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:18 PM
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I've fucked fat girls by straight up asking them, but that's about it for my sexual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:15 PM
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I talk to them after I get the hint because fuck them for being so high and mighty to think that I should just walk away because they think there's something wrong with me. I take it very personally. It doesn't ruin it for guys who want to "approach strangers respectfully" because all these guys who "get women because they're respectful" are actually just insanely good looking and can say whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:11 PM
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Idk what to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:07 PM
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My motivation for lifting weights is not to get women. It's to be stronger. I'm okay with myself enough to accept my current state, but that doesn't mean I trust it to just allow me to drown in pussy through radical acceptance and not approaching at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:04 PM
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Then it is all about looks. A good personality is just a given if you have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:04 PM
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I've had conversations with a lot of stranger women. Getting a girl on my side I just mean getting her to be completely honest with me or not treat me like I'm a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:03 PM
1

Yeah I'm about 5'11", so I can lie and say I'm 6'0" for any girls with that issue. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:01 PM
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I feel like I can't even put effort in without having this flawless zen mindset where I go after it yet I don't want it at the same time. It's because the stuff you said. Like I can't consciously perform for it. I have to some how unconsciously slip my way into it. It seems really annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:56 AM
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I don't know a lot of successful guys. I'd imagine they'd just tell me a bunch of TRP stuff that I already kinda know, but don't know how to act out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:24 AM
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Tbh I'm pretty content just letting it come out in wet dreams until I figure out how to get sex with an attractive woman. lol I'd like a genuine female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:23 AM
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I don't think these easy to fuck, hot as fuck women exist for just everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:04 AM
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Most successful guys probably don't even know what they're doing. They're probably just good looking and don't screw things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:00 AM
-1

Also, idk if you’re interested in relationships at all (doesn’t sound like it) but that is generally a better way of getting sex and a fun time with a (hopefully) pretty cool person too. Yeah I'm considering it for this purpose. I just don't know if I can get that either. There's a whole new freshman class coming in at my college so maybe I can accomplish something. Not likely though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:59 AM
-2

Probably just because I haven't had a single successful cold approach ever and my frustration level is 100. I want to sleep with hot girls but I've never been able to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:48 AM
3

Idk what to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:44 AM
1

He went for damaged, broken, neurotic, needy types. How do I find these women in the hot variety? I imagine they still aren't easy for your average dude and won't just cling to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:43 AM
3

I lift weights, play guitar, thinking about becoming good at armwrestling because I wanna be like this to people. I think it would be fulfilling after some hard work to hold guys like this. The problem is that I trust in my abilities to do just about everything else except for girls. I know if I put my mind to something, I can do it. I can do just about everything except girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:36 AM
1

Hehe. I mean, I never would have asked fat girls straight up to fuck before the red pill, so maybe it helped a little. I don't consider straight up asking to be a red pill concept though. I think I crammed so much PUA and red pill shit into my head that I didn't know where to begin and what to keep track of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:29 AM
3

I mean, I've approached and been rejected 50+ times without one successful approach so I'm not afraid of getting #metood. I've only been successful asking fat chicks to fuck on tinder. Anything I try in person doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:24 AM
2

Not quite how it is for me because all the times I've gotten sex have been with fat chicks by asking them straight up and prostitutes, but I feel like the red pill gives you a good foundation to avoid getting fucked over. So far it hasn't helped me get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:22 AM
7

I have plenty of social skills with guys. Girls seem completely different to me. Guys think I'm cool and will tell me about their gf like I'm supposed to relate, but I can't get a girl on my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:20 AM
4

I still approach women so I'm not a complete quitter. I can't get laid by anything other than fat women and prostitutes at the moment, but I'll keep trying. I'll still complain about not being able to figure out whatever the fuck it is that's holding me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:19 AM
1

Guy two got mad, went for the women who would fuck the easiest Unless if he means fat women, I'm not sure what he means by this. I don't wanna worry about a unicorn. I just want a hot girl who likes me and doesn't need me to do anything I don't do naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:17 AM
5

There are betas out there wasting their time in the friend-zone, I've been there, but once you've been red pilled, you've got all you need in terms of self respect. You know all the ways you can get fucked over by women, and you will find it impossible to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:09 AM
3

I could at least be a low-budget PUA because I can get girls numbers. I can wow all the incels with the woman's number that leads nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:01 AM
6

What if no woman is into you and you just keep accepting no's until you've been rejected by every woman in your social environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:59 AM
9

Just do it until it works. Idk if it will ever work for me, but at least I keep trying. All this "women will instantly report you for sexual harassment if you approach" is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:58 AM
1

Maybe you should grow some balls, and not care about a stupid made up concept called "self-respect" and do whatever you wanna do. Just go out there and talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:55 AM
13

It is not that hard. It's pretty fucking hard. If when you say, you're big, you mean muscular big, that's probably the key to your success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:54 AM
-5

To me, if they show disinterest, I'd rather stay to annoy the shit out of them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:52 AM
4

Stop being a fucking pussy. I may not get anything from my approaches, but I've never gotten in trouble for talking to a woman. I've been rejected by 50+ maybe even 100 women. Just fucking do it if you want to do it. If you don't, don't expect to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:50 AM
6

She's a mediocre 6-7 and was thinking about the really hot guy at the bar when she asked the question. Why do people keep denying that it's all about looks for men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:32 AM
3

Could you explain more about the guys who head in my direction? I feel like this mindset of mine has a simple solution: a girl who I like, likes me back, without me having to be some zen master who doesn't make a single mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:29 AM
2

Gee, I had a perspective change and it didn't help me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:09 PM
1

For whatever reason, women don't tend to assume we're superior to men despite having better social skills are verbal abilities on average. They forgo having superiority for having humbleness superiority. hehe Weird attitude towards women - they obviously think they're superior. Women can pick up on this even if it's never overtly said. It's just...off-putting. Women pick up anything they don't like as a "bad vibe" and then continue to define it with whatever they feel like saying it is at the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:04 PM
1

I can definitely snap out of that when I'm talking to a girl, but if I have any intentions at something sexual, I know it's going to be an uphill battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:58 PM
2

The frustration I think is not knowing for sure if it's my face or something else. If I knew for sure it was my face I could be like alright fuck it I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:54 PM
2

I don't blame them for anything but not having sex with me. I pretty much have everything else covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:48 PM
1

Red mindset. Unless if you mean it's blue to think like this. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:47 PM
1

I'm 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 09:42 PM
3

In a sexual context, women are my enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:07 AM
0

Life is completely meaningless. You live, you do pointless shit that doesn't add up to anything, and then you die. Oh yeah, because random puss is SO FULFILLING when you think every single woman on Earth is part of the scary, gynocentric shadowy world order. This is contradictory though because no guy takes it to that level if he's actually getting pussy from hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:31 AM
-2

They want to have It All and give nothing in return, which is why they are at the bottom tier. Except it's not about what you give. It's about what you were born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:14 AM
-1

What is getting older going to change? How come there are people my age who do just fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:05 AM
1

I don't think it's even fear of getting hurt. I have trouble believing any girl would be on my side or be straight forward and themselves with me. I feel like I elicit nothing but fake responses from women when I'm talking to them. I feel like they just want to get talking to me over with if they don't want to be just friends. If they're just hooking up with me, them being honest with me or not is not my problem. The problem is probably the same reason they aren't being 100% straight up with me …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:01 AM
1

I don't know how to not stress about it when I'm talking to them for a very clear purpose. I know it. They know it. I just want them to be on my side and think the people I don't like suck and not want to fuck those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:22 AM
3

Basically I had a girl that I had oneitis goggles for in high school. She was a bit on the chubby side but she did her makeup good. I was her friend for 2 years and then ended up with us being girlfriend and boyfriend for 2 weeks and then she just ghosted me. I just wanted to marry her and be done with relationships and stuff. It fucked me up when it didn't work out. Then I found TRP and started to feel like the whole idea of a relationship is pure cuckoldry. I approached like 20-50 girls around…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:18 AM
2

No. I think it consists of a lot of skinny nerdy guys. Losing weight is such a simple solution that if that was the only thing you had to do it would be fucking great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:01 AM
0

"I don't need no man" historically has been a re-packaged mantra to go along with the inventing of the boogyman by feminism (men). I'm pretty sure it's a result of being pumped and dumped by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:56 AM
2

Do you ever get bothered by the idea that maybe women like you gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:52 AM
2

This is why I at least want to bug women by approaching them. Me going MGTOW might just be letting them off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:50 AM
1

Tbh I like MGTOW the way it is. I wouldn't feel the need to view it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:49 AM
1

They do kinda seem evil to me. Anything I want them to do, they'll do the exact opposite thing. I just can't do whatever it is that I'm missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:46 AM
2

The notches would cause him to not give a fuck about it. I mean who the fuck cares about being an "object of pity and disgust" if you're getting fucked by the women you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:44 AM
3

I've been crazy from not getting laid with chicks I find attractive all this time and I'd rather have not been alive since 17 after my bad breakup. This shit just alludes me. If the answer isn't being super attractive facially, then idk wtf it is. I'm good with animals, other dudes, and guitar. I'm smart, got good grades, and my friends think I'm cool. I'm not too fat or too skinny. I think I've got a good personality. I'm pretty damn strong for my weight. WTF is it? WTF do I have to do to win t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:33 AM
1

These guys don't ask. Me and my friend in high school thought we could "wear girls down".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:17 AM
2

You aren't alpha unless if you talk like a cave man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:18 PM
1

I think this because of the Chadfishing experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:16 PM
3

It's not even porn addiction or any of that. It's just all the Chadfishing stuff that makes me think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:16 PM
6

TRP guys start off as guys who try really hard to build an emotional connection by orbiting a girl for long periods of time. Then they get friend zoned. So what are you supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:14 PM
7

Be honest, you'd fuck a good looking guy no matter what his intentions or rationalizations are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 02:20 AM
0

The young man who lacks backbone but expects a woman to follow his lead. When I think of using my backbone, I think of like slapping somebody or beating someone up. To me putting someone in their place with words just doesn't cut it. It feels petty to me. If someone makes me pissed off, it would be much better for me if it was legal to throw hands because I feel like a fight says more than 1000 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:32 PM
16

The only problem about the survival of the fittest thing, is that in civilized societies, I don't have the power to kill you for mates without repercussions. So women pick good looking Chad, I kill good looking Chad and take his women by force. I'm the fittest right? I make laws and traditions to meet my needs. I'm the fittest right? I kill every other male better looking than me and that makes me the fittest right? What makes people the fittest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:20 PM
1

Wait so were you the crazy one or was she?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:35 AM
1

Oh idk what made me think that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:58 PM
1

They're conceited, ignorant, frigid, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:33 PM
1

Yeah the bad boy is more likely to not give a shit about the girl and just use her for sex, not care so much he burns her house down. The girl's typically the crazy one when the bad boy comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:22 PM
1

What reason do you have to call men smug and icy if you are one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:20 PM
1

Are you a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:30 AM
1

Not really me or any men that I know. The people I generally hang around also struggle with girls. So maybe those are the things that you and all other women are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:25 AM
1

Like wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:21 AM
1

I really don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:19 AM
1

I'm just telling you that if you did that to me you would be deceased.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:15 AM
1

The victor is whoever nukes this entire fucking bs world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:14 AM
8

This guy doesn't fit bad boy stereotypes. He fits desperate as fuck stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:46 AM
1

Unless if you're probably ugly. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:34 AM
1

Yeah that's totally fair of you to like 6'4" guys now that I see you're 6ft. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:33 AM
1

My guy friends think I'm cool to the point where they tell me about girl stuff like I'm supposed to relate so I don't think it's my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:32 AM
2

For some reason I feel like game doesn't work that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:31 AM
1

How do you get women without focusing on them? Seems like a proper mind fuck to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:29 AM
2

The difference is that women actually like men being whores. A woman being a whore just makes me wanna space out and not think about it too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:23 AM
1

Those 20 men can fuck the million other women in a casual sex scenario. If all men want to fuck just about anything, they can choose from the best of those who want to fuck everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:13 AM
1

I'm just referring to normie men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:49 AM
1

Nobody praises Belle Delphine. People just think it's hilarious that she can sell her bath water. The people who actually buy her bath water are dumb idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:34 PM
1

Literally nobody: OP: Why is Belle Delphine praised while Logan Paul is shunned? I love that meme now hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:32 PM
1

I wouldn't mass approach either if I didn't get rejected so much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:44 AM
1

Russell Brand was probably like this during his "sex addiction" times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:48 AM
1

Voice might be more of a personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:41 AM
3

If you're just a number hound, then if they say they have a boyfriend or something, just say you'll be friends. Now you've got your number that leads to nowhere and you can post the approach somewhere and become a PUA coach and people will think you're a god. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:40 AM
1

That'll work too. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:57 AM
0

Here's how you get a number 100% of the time. Ask them: What's your number? or say "Give me your number." Lean more towards that versus: "Could I have your number?" Anything that makes it harder for them to say no is best. I was surprised to actually learn about that in my sales class, because it was something I kinda learned to do naturally and intuited it from RP teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:43 AM
4

Invest into a long term relationship with them and if you're lucky they'll marry you. Anyone willing to have a relationship of many years with you will probably marry you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:39 AM
5

Just be super fucking hot and have a nice girly voice and you'll be all good. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:37 PM
2

Money is attractive to women in the same way you would find money attractive. Let's say there was a fat woman who was a billionaire who offered you an open marriage. Idk about you, but the money would definitely be a big bonus for me. I don't think money is sexually attractive to women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:35 PM
5

Every time I see shit like this I just laugh it off cause I stopped giving a shit about how I'm seen by others. These two things sound unrelated to me for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:30 AM
1

I feel that I need a woman like this so we both technically don't have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:08 AM
1

Confident doesn't really mean anything to me. I can act mad. I can act sad. I can act aggressive. I can't act confident. It's not one of those emotions or set of actions that I understand. I still don't think what I was doing is what I would call confidence if I had to choose a word to describe it. It's literally like this energy of "I'm about to fucking explode I swear." but not entirely serious. It feels like going insane. It seems to me like girls are into something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:54 PM
1

One time I got mad at a girl's lack of responsiveness to what I was saying so I started to be a little aggressive in a mocking way and it seemed like she was responding better after that. Then I just bombed on purpose because I had to regroup my thoughts about the situation. There was another time where I had just got back from the gym and I was angry at something, and when I walked past this girl it seemed like she was giving this cheeky smile. Maybe I've gotta be more aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:22 PM
1

If you're Chad women will just bring the game out of you by the way they interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:07 PM
1

The uglier you are, the better your game needs to be, its just a fact of life, get over being bitter and do it. What parts of your personality would you say you need to kick into overdrive to have better and better game?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:04 PM
0

You don't need game for women "in your league".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:03 PM
3

Stop listening to Jordan Peterson, and stop listening to anyone who isn't guiding you on how to do a physical task. That's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:41 PM
1

I have sent a dick pic to a fat woman and it was well received. After that it was well received again. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:38 PM
2

Possible sure. But easier said than done. For many guys it's basically like having to..destroy what little humanity you have left in you. And I understand that, but I feel that getting rid of your "humanity" can liberate you to do more things you wouldn't have done before. If fat women and hookers are really a guy's only sexual options then surely you can understand why some guys would rather continue to be lonely incels than resort to that. To me it was just about getting a concept of what puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:32 PM
1

I'm in shape soooo... Not 200 lbs mind you, but I'm trying to get up to there. Maybe having dat lean mass will help me out. My problem was always being too skinny, but now I'm a little heavier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:22 PM
4

To me I just had to get that love and being wanted shit out of my mind and just want sex. It's possible. At 19, I lost my virginity to a hooker, got with a fat woman I wasn't even attracted to, got with another hooker, got with another fat chick, and then got with another fat chick. My n-count is now 5 so I can talk about how cool I am to my friends hehe. I've got it out of my system, so at this point if I can't get with hot women, I'll be an incel for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:47 AM
4

I got a hooker to lose my virginity at 19, am now 21, still can't get laid by hot women. Feelsbadman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:42 AM
2

Maybe if she's like a sex slave tied up in my basement or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:35 AM
3

True. Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:16 AM
1

I do, but generally I make sure the lady is within my geographic region before thirsting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:10 AM
0

Why would some dude on reddit who doesn't even know if he's close to you wanna smash?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:47 PM
2

Or as people of culture say: "immature women". Yes billy beta, you don't have to worry about those HOT AS FUCK "immature" women, just wait for them to mature, ahem get ugly ahem and you'll be inundated with choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:36 PM
1

Guys think I'm cool at least. So idk if energy is my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:47 PM
0

Just learn some acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:09 PM
1

I feel like you can change your energy levels though by meditating or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:08 PM
4

You're right. I've gotten laid with fat girls from tinder by simply straight up asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:23 PM
16

When I first quit porn I was horny a lot - so much so that I’d bring women home that were interested in me just to scratch the itch. If I could just casually do this I wouldn't ever had watched porn in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:13 PM
1

It's still popular on youtube, and it makes sense to me that it was popular in the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:03 PM
1

I'm 21, but I still found someone online preaching that stuff when I was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:53 PM
3

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:18 PM
1

Well that's when I found all that stuff. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 04:18 PM
1

It seems like that would be illegal and you could just sue the fuck out of them.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 08:19 AM
4

I would probably just accept my unattractiveness and become a monk if I was like that.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 07:45 AM
1

Surely you can get refunded though if you don't like what you get?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 07:43 AM
2

Ahh, I was just interpreting that based on the poetic writing you were doing. How old are ya if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:36 AM
4

I've never had the experience of being desensitized to types of porn that I watch to the extent where I had to move on to more intense things. It seems like that would be more related to how hard you whack your dick but idk. Ted Bundy said that porn was one of the reasons that he went to a bad extreme and started serial killing, but I think in that interview he was probably just appealing to the religious man he was talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:21 AM
3

Just for funsies I'm gonna guess you're between the ages of 17-21. Am I correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:17 AM
2

I'm sure you could cut a deal with the hookers if you give them a path to consistent customers. They don't all have to be high end I imagine. I'm just over here cracking up at the thought of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 07:00 AM
1

I like 5-10 out of a 100. Seems like a nice honest number. That's a crazy business plan in OP though. Taking incels on an immersion program and then just using their money to buy hookers. lololol
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 06:56 AM
1

(nobody does 50 nor 100 sets this is a lie), you cut down the best 3. It's actually pretty easy since some girls will give you their number, no matter what. This is bs though. If I've done 50-100+ sets, I'm sure those PUA coaches can do it if they're getting paid for it.(maybe I'm misinterpreting what you mean by that) I can pretty much get a girls number in 100% of my approaches, but yeah, I've learned that it doesn't always mean they're interested.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 06:41 AM
3

13-What happens if a student does immersion training with you? If they paid you a lot of money? You hire an escort to sleep with your student. It's not uncommon to hire escorts for students. I've seen it where a girl magically showed up and was down to go out with us(we were a big group of five). The student then took the girl home and even banged her raw. She was clearly a professional. LOLOLOLOLOLOL. That's fucking genius.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 06:35 AM
9

I've fapped and I've not fapped. It doesn't seem to impact me too much either way. Like some guys say their balls hurt when they don't fap. I don't experience that at all. All I really feel at the end of a porn and masturbation session is embarrassment really... I become a completely different person when I'm horny. It feels strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:21 AM
1

Honestly I have no idea what wearing clothes that make me feel "sexy" would even mean. That too. I don't understand what that means besides sometimes I wear shirts that are really tight to make my chest pop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:15 AM
5

Couldn't tell ya lol. I do check myself out in mirrors though. Flex my muscles and stuff, and I feel like I look alright looking sometimes, but apparently not to girls :P I definitely feel good about achieving my workout goals independent of women. I don't take nudes with no intention of sharing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:13 AM
2

I gave some in my other comment. I think you will find that love will disappoint you as well. All things are disappointing after you've achieved them, until you transcend that need for some higher bliss from your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:26 AM
1

Partially because I got no girls anyway, but also because you've got what's most important which is the essentials, so you've probably got all the time in the world to approach random women. Are you going to college? I wouldn't if I were you tbh. Just live below your means and spend your life doing whatever you wanna do. I know it probably feels fucked up in your current mindset, but you could fall in love with any girl that you share mutual interest with. There's nothing special about any parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:04 AM
1

I'm more like, he's worried about love and he's making 60k passive income a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:39 AM
1

I would kill to be in your shoes, even if it meant no girls for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:38 AM
3

You tryin' to smash or something? My butt is taken by poop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:14 PM
6

Are you guys hitting on me or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:13 PM
2

If it was a guy you'd be like: Omg why can't he just give her space... so clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 08:20 PM
9

The real question is does butt sex feel the same as pussy sex to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 08:18 PM
4

I wonder how many gay dudes are just desperate straight dudes who can't get any from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 08:16 PM
8

assholes and vagoranges hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 08:08 PM
2

Or the other way around hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:22 PM
1

I think there are just as many females getting around as well, so probably about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:26 PM
2

And if you don't want to do all that shit, hire an escort. Lost my virginity like that at 19 because I was just like fuck it. I've been trying to find this zen state of "not desperate" for a long time now and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:13 PM
1

To cancel out the humble brag, I'll say that fatties are the only ones I've gotten laid with, so I'm clearly not at Chad status yet. A lot of incels could get with fatties on tinder imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:08 PM
1

From my experience, as an average looking man or higher, I only pump and dump obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:13 AM
2

If I did that it would be a girl with separate finances from mine, so essentially just a really good friend with benefits and then other friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:43 AM
1

Maybe once I'm stably fucking hot chicks I'll have an opinion on this but idk if that day will ever come.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:40 AM
2

Why don't people just have a bunch of fwbs if they're gonna do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:03 AM
3

I don't understand why you'd want a main relationship if you just wanna cheat. Why not just have a bunch of plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:00 AM
1

Which one is it, do you do drugs or sell them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:22 AM
1

What are you gonna do if you're a cop and a man reaches for something and does this to you? hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:58 AM
1

I just don't think that cops are actually out to get people. I think some of them make mistakes and shoot people under pressure, but I really don't think that they want to kill anyone, except for maybe confirmed bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:55 AM
1

There also tends to be more crime in poor neighborhoods because they are desperate for money, and therefore more cops. I've never heard the gay thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 10:09 PM
1

So you think we should have no cops? What are we supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:54 PM
1

The guy had a gun, and I'm sure that was a mistake and not racism if he was really reaching towards his wallet. You just don't know. He could have quick drawn on him. That's just a cop being overly cautious at best and negligent at worst. What he should have probably done is asked the cop to take his weapon and wallet while he kept his hands on the wheel. That's a tragedy, but what can a bunch of unarmed cops do against real criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 09:45 PM
1

If you're male and a minority, and you don't commit crimes, then you won't be harassed by the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:14 PM
2

Give me an example where that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:08 PM
1

Is it that hard to put on a happy face so you don't get killed? Is it that hard to be submissive and put your hands on the wheel so you don't get killed? If you didn't do anything, then you don't have to worry. Just don't do anything even resembling breaking the law, and you will not be shot by a cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:06 PM
1

I guarantee that 99.9% of people who get shot are being uncooperative and unfriendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:47 PM
1

If you get pulled over, just be submissive and cooperative for 2 minutes and then you'll be all good. You should respect the authority of a cop because they enforce the law and as you know, can shoot you with their gun. If they were just nice dudes letting people off the hook all the time then everyone would be a drug dealer. I have trouble understanding how people believe that the entire police force is out to get innocent black people. You think that they only hire racists or something? How co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:42 PM
1

Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:30 PM
1

Ye ideally I like emo chicks in style. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:28 PM
1

I'm saying that, I imagine these super-rich families have been in the United States for a long time. Somebody worked hard to get the snowball of money rolling. The money just didn't pop out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:27 PM
2

All I know is that I've been pulled over by a cop with a gun and wasn't killed because I did what he said, then he let me off the hook. People who get shot must be doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:15 PM
1

It's almost as if people who's families worked for their money to get to the point they have now work's paid off and now their future family members don't have to work as a result of their hard work and their family cohesion and willingness to pass down their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:11 PM
1

What are cops supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:09 PM
1

And typically everyone is "compatible" with that same 20% and competing with everyone else in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:06 PM
1

Everyone would prefer someone who was attractive and not everyone is attractive and therefore it's not 50/50. A lot of people will try to hold out for an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:05 PM
0

Most men don't kill other men for no reason. As long as you don't rub anyone a really wrong way, most likely no one is going to want to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:28 AM
4

Give me a quick run down then. The ways I know are escorts and asking fatties straight up to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 02:10 AM
6

Love? What the hell is that? It's dismissed as irrelevant. It's pretty hard to believe in love when you've been burnt and believe in a narrative that women are having sex with every other man before settling down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:32 PM
7

Yeah no criticisms on the beliefs in general, but a lot of the guys on MGTOW are incels in denial, as has been said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:07 PM
1

Lol if I wore those booty shorts, whenever I got a boner it would stick out the bottom of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:02 PM
2

I guess all that is the trade off for being able to have an infinite amount of sex. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:57 PM
1

My reading on Reddit has lead me to compliment men more. I wish we could have an international day of cat-call/compliment at men. I think it would be fun. I think it would be. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:48 PM
5

Don't do it man. Don't get the plane and don't go after her. You're too attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:09 AM
1

I'm just against the guys who are like: "Women will be sorry they crossed us!" I really think they're mostly indifferent to MGTOWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:45 PM
1

I totally believe most of what MGTOW preaches, but some guys I think are in denial if they feel like all these guys going MGTOW is going to change anything. Hot people will still bang hot people and nothing will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:38 PM
2

See I just feel like I'm that guy that always is going to get rejected by women I find attractive. I feel like there's nothing I can do. I at least hope I can be Chad in another life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:03 PM
1

What was the actual violence he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:00 PM
1

Do you feel like the guys you reject would be rejected by most other women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:53 PM
0

The guys you reject, do you feel like every other girl would reject them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:52 PM
1

I don't think hot is a top 10% thing where it's always shifting. I think what's hot stays hot, and if there were 100 million hot guys and 1 million ugly guys, that wouldn't make the 1 million ugly guys better off because they're scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:21 PM
1

Well my guy friends think I'm cool to the point where they tell me stuff about their gfs expecting me to relate, so I must look alright lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:17 PM
1

But it's just true. People like good looking people. Is that so controversial on this sub that you can't talk about it? I don't identify with the incels so I don't see what the problem is with having the position that red pill game doesn't matter, and blue pill game doesn't matter, and that all it takes is to be good looking. Why is that against sub rules to state that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:53 PM
1

Yeah and there's some rare men who just get to live in lala pussy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:50 PM
1

Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:48 PM
1

I haven't moved on from it because I've found it impossible to fuck any hot women. I had a girlfriend that I didn't fuck, and then I fucked some fatties from tinder and that's about it. That's all I get from lifting and my wonderful personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:47 PM
1

Idk why we can't all be hot. It's not something that's relative imo. If you get hot women wet, you're hot looking. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:44 PM
1

Yeah but you get there most of the time by being good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:43 PM
1

Yeah I guess so. But I'd say loyal to you because you're the most high quality good looking male she's ever seen in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:42 PM
1

Well finding your own validation doesn't mean you'll be drowning in hot chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:39 PM
1

Maybe not desperate but just very sexually attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:37 PM
6

Nah, I'm not a different username guy. I just feel like game comes as a side effect of the hotness and no matter what you say it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:57 PM
2

I can be validated by other things, but that doesn't mean I don't feel like I'm filling the void where being attractive to hot women should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:53 PM
1

It's different for women because it's more common to be validated for looks, and I've definitely come to understand that side of things, but I think guys would rather be complimented for their looks. My parents also preached the importance of intelligence and the jocks peak in high school regular crap, but it doesn't make me feel very good to be smart if I can't have a hot woman desperate to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:51 PM
1

It's something that you definitely probably wouldn't want to live without, while you might be able to live without deep conversations if you were able to have something else as fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:47 PM
1

Same completely. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:44 PM
1

Like for some reason I thought it was possible for anyone to have an attractive girl who wants to fuck them. I thought personality was that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:43 PM
3

Yeah for real attractive males it would just be something that they don't have to deal with that's a burden. If someone had a crazy growth spurt where they became 8/10+ they would be so thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:41 PM
1

I mean, once you're good looking you can sort of transcend it, but there's not much else in life that will hold you back as long as you put the effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:39 PM
1

I guess I always thought hookups were a no big deal, attractive women for everyone sort of thing. I don't know why, but I thought sex was just one of those things you do like eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:30 PM
2

Responsibility towards what? I'll just tell ya one of mine. Been watching arm wrestling videos and I think being a world champion arm wrestler would be fulfilling. Kinda random but it seems so fun when the guy is just holding the other dude like it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:28 PM
1

You were the one that said "Of course women want good looking men for hookups." or something like that. That just goes to show that putting in effort towards hookups if you're not physically ideal is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:25 PM
2

What do you think is the most validating experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:24 PM
3

I imagine super attractive males don't really notice it, but they don't have the void or have to deal with the endless pursuit that unattractive males do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:23 PM
2

Looks close the deal when it comes to hookups, and women here have admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:21 PM
2

I mean, being able to fuck a bunch of hot women even once would still be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:21 PM
1

It could be a CMV but I'd prefer it to be an open discussion. What do you think about the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:19 PM
1

I'm white so probably not an ethnicity issue. :P I don't know what work I need to do which is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:17 PM
2

Infinity. I would have married my first one but I fucked it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:29 PM
3

I started thinking that until I realized I was nearly incapable of getting with anybody else. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:26 PM
1

That's the dream for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:06 PM
1

Just wondering if the simple fact of you approaching more often improved your numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:25 PM
1

There's always enough Chads to go around so hard to change the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:09 PM
1

Did you approach before you "started learning game"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:08 PM
1

I had crushes that young, but I didn't have a oneitis until high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:03 PM
1

I had crushes on girls when I was younger, but I don't remember having my first oneitis until I was in high school. When I got home from my first day of kindergarden I told my dad I had 7 girlfriends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:03 PM
3

I think men and women are about the same in terms of what they're attracted to. Women are probably attracted to looks to the same extent as men, and men are probably attracted to personality to the same extent as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:52 PM
1

"women don't realise degrees don't help them make sandwiches" I think that's sarcasm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:45 PM
2

There isn't just some switch in your head that you flick and go, "Okay, time to completely abandon my biological imperative." There is if you rewire your ego to feel superior for leaving women behind and depriving them something that they supposedly want. People who go their own way completely and don't bang women probably couldn't bang them if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:44 PM
5

I would still fuck her probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:52 AM
1

Well if you're the one initiating the ghosting, of course you're going to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:32 AM
3

I definitely think it's possible because I've heard that from other people, but I think if it ever happened to me I would have another existential crisis. The pursuit of hot women is something that's keeping me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 06:02 AM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if he wasn't fat. He's got a small chin also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:07 AM
2

Well if you're an incel guy you can be a TRP guy and it won't help. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:07 AM
1

A while back I learned that your image has to be congruent with your essence (im talking about the spiritual essence, "vibe" of a person,) More often than not people can tell when your outward image is a facade vs when you are genuine. Is that like some RSD Tyler philosophy combined with incel philosophy? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:03 AM
3

confidence is attractive If you're good looking. If you're an average dude, being interesting will get you laid (with girls who like you and are glad they fucked you) ten times as much as being more physically attractive. It's just totally bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:00 AM
1

lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:56 AM
1

Steroids are hard too. Unless you're just talking about sticking through a shirt that's slightly below the size you should be wearing and my pecs do that. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:53 AM
1

I know, just sayin that sometimes they say men are afraid of commitment when they're trying to cope with their pump and dump hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:32 AM
1

Name checks out. Also, I guess I'm a top 10% dude because I can bang fatties at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:53 AM
1

And then you probably corrected it by being an absolute bitch to your perfectly kind future boyfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:50 AM
-1

Luckily, being short is not a setback I have to deal with and I can also laugh at the manlet memes. I feel like if I had a small dick or was short, I would just accept that I was not attractive to women, but I don't know if that's true. I would probably be more stubborn than I am now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:48 AM
8

I've been feeling your female toxicity all this time and only now have I discovered it was you! I was wondering what all that smog was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:45 AM
2

Be the person you want to date and it’ll happen. Ugly people that no one wants to date definitely exist though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:44 AM
1

Probably slap me in the face. At the end of my relationship with a girl I liked the most, I was trying to say anything just to get a reaction out of her. She just ghosted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:42 AM
1

Like women say that all the time about bachelor men, but I don't think a man would ever describe himself as being "afraid of commitment" nor would I ever think he would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:40 AM
1

It was a prank. It's not like I was out to get him. he sounds dumb, too, if he believed a YouTube Service Agent "from his area" is a thing. Yeah that was definitely a stretch. I didn't flat out ask him for his password. I asked him for his recovery questions first, but then that didn't work, and I told him it didn't work and then I just straight up asked for his login email and password. :P That was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:38 AM
1

I'm not too afraid of rejection to the point it stops my approach, but I still feel like "Fuck." after I get rejected because I feel like I'm dwindling away at my numbers of women that could be in my massive harem. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:21 PM
1

Except you've got some friends right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:19 PM
1

Are you really afraid of commitment? I don't understand what people mean when they say that. I can understand not wanting to give up the opportunity to find someone new, but I don't know if I'd call that afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:17 PM
1

Oh got confused with the comments lol. I feel like the SJWs are too busy denouncing Trump to do anything else atm. Haven't heard many new ideas from them recently. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:12 PM
1

Maybe, but if you don't watch or read the news you barely hear anything about that sort of stuff. You should help your son out if he struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:55 PM
2

I keep seeing comments where I think it's a guy and that sort of thing is attractive in a guy, but then realize it's a girl and I'm like: This
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:53 PM
1

I don't think the metoo movement is doing much to guys who have the balls to approach, and all it does is give people who don't a reason why they aren't already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:46 PM
1

lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:46 PM
3

I think a lot of guys are like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:42 PM
1

Used to be like that, but then I realized that people don't hold on to stupid things very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:40 PM
1

I lack millimeters of bone and that's why my crush doesn't like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:34 PM
0

I feel like my salesman skills are alright in certain contexts. One time I convinced my friend to give me his YouTube username and password for his Halo clan and then I changed their channel title to: The Homo-Friendly Clan. Then I put a pride flag as their logo. It was funny because the only video they had up so far was of somebody shooting a penis into the wall on Halo, so it kind of fit the channel lol. I eventually gave it back to him. The reason why he trusted me was because he didn't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 09:32 PM
0

Yeah but that's probably one of the reasons to transcend the validation part of the act. I guess you could also make your salesman skills part of the validation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:04 PM
3

As a man I think I'd fight the robber though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:58 PM
1

And you'd be fucked with no one there who could do shit against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:57 PM
0

I don't think too much of them just because it's very hard to relate. Even if I was raped by a woman, I couldn't imagine it being as traumatizing as being obsessed with a woman who doesn't like you back. It's like if somebody just forced me to take a check for $300. It's like, damn okay fine I'll take your money. No need to be so forceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:39 PM
1

I must be Chad then. O wait, why can't I get with attractive women? If you don't work out, do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:26 PM
-1

Yeah kinda seems like a man's writing style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:24 PM
1

Go for fat women. It's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:21 PM
1

For your Illuminati bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:53 PM
3

Violent crime isn't a woman's game because they are physically weaker than men. It's not out of being more virtuous as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:52 PM
-1

This. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:50 PM
0

I challenge any woman to be able to hold a man in a shed for that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:48 PM
7

A woman slapping a kid in the back of the head would probably just push the kids head over a bit. A man giving a good slap to the back of the head my flip the kid over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:47 PM
2

One single strongest man against 3.5b? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:42 PM
6

Cuz they aren't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:35 PM
1

I think women are more attracted to the chimp side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:06 PM
1

I feel like I've gotten bambi eyes from women a few times when I was really angry, but I've never wanted to get with a woman when I was angry so I can never manage to do anything with the possible interest. Expressing a little intensity may be what I need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:05 PM
1

built and launched rockets in college, lol. Penises you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:01 PM
3

I mean, I make my friends have a lot of fun, but I struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:00 PM
2

I had a hard time believing the bullies get more dates than the bullied. Really little kids don't know these things, and those kind of stories can be ingrained in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 08:11 PM
2

I just don't acknowledge the new Star Wars movies as the same story. Same as I don't acknowledge that Dumbledore is gay in the original stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:39 PM
2

People acknowledge that TV is fake, but it's just a question of what part of TV is fake. Everyone knows the magic in Harry Potter isn't real or when the Joker robs a bank that it didn't really happen, but in a movie when there's this nerdy guy who gets the hot girl, is that as unbelievable as Harry Potter magic? Clearly two people simply having a conversation in a movie can be quite realistic, and relationships are something that do happen in real life. Do you expect a kid to know that this nerd…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:36 PM
1

The only other situation where I imagine someone saying that is as the cucking is taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:19 PM
1

What normal person is going to state a fact like that and not mean to offend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:10 PM
2

Oh so 2"? Same difference dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:40 PM
1

It's worth reading imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:39 PM
4

Can't control people like that anymore. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:39 PM
2

Seems legit as someone who's banged fatties. They seem to be the most appreciative of the "direct approach".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:37 PM
1

I know that some people have that kink, and it disgusts me. You probably take advantage of it with your little 5" "BBC" which is why you're defending it now. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:29 PM
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I mean most insults go over people's heads most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:18 PM
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Well obviously pre-25 women are the most attractive, and me being pre-25, it's their standards that are relevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:52 PM
1

I was thinking someone would say that, but does that not sound like a very offensive thing to say to somebody?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:51 PM
0

For some reason it seems to be my easiest path to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:48 PM
1

Calling a man a cuck who doesn't want to be is definitely an insult. Idk how you could ever say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:31 PM
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I'm a male and I honestly don't care that much. I feel like I can figure out most things when it comes to sustaining my life, so other than that I don't give a fuck about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:31 AM
1

So you're saying if I tell you that your wife doesn't like you and would rather screw other men that I'm not insulting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:29 AM
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I'm pretty sure everyone knows what the word cuck means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:58 AM
1

I think this post is talking about how some guys have a fetish for being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:38 AM
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If I was going to just give my gf to other men, I'd not have a gf, I'd have a friend with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:19 AM
1

Yeah same, but sadly I haven't been able to implement TRP successfully with women I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:18 AM
1

I think none of this really matters if you just are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:16 AM
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I'm okay with being on the fucking of another man's wife side of things but not the cuck side. I would not want to be cucked and I don't understand why anyone else would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:12 AM
2

I can kinda picture it then. Like cheeky smiles and such?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:19 PM
2

What's an example of subtle playful humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 09:34 PM
1

There are plenty of not extra thicc women in the U.S. despite the stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 09:29 PM
0

But then where do you draw the line so you don't end up friend zoned? Maybe just by not getting your hopes up for any particular woman and waiting for it to happen naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:44 PM
5

It seems like aspies banter all the time on 4chan. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:38 PM
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I think there's a difference between the banter you have with the boys vs the banter you have with women you want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:37 PM
1

I have only experienced directness being appreciated by thicc women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:18 PM
1

if they don't something is wrong with them. I have trouble believing the whole: "Everyone who doesn't like me is fucked up and worse off for it." thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:18 PM
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That makes it seem even harder because no matter how good the salesmans "game" is, I'm not going to buy anything. Makes it sounds like I have to be on the Devil's level of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:16 PM
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Yes, there are women who prefer more directness. Extra thicc women in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:15 PM
1

But the "for women" mask makes me feel much more uncomfortable than any other. Why is that you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:14 PM
1

I'm a Chad to fat women I guess then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:12 PM
1

I think it's better to think of shit tests as teasing because otherwise it becomes a high pressure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:07 PM
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Hard to call them simps if they're the ones getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:06 PM
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I have been "manipulated" before so I'm probably kind of turned off from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:00 PM
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Are you a bit on the thicc side by chance? In my experience, many big women appreciate guys who are straight forward with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:58 PM
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That's the most alpha guy I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:53 PM
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If you go on tinder, and this is my experience, you can get them even without a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:52 PM
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Actually, fat women will let you be straight forward with them if you are fit and okay looking. I experience the same thing as you though with women of higher tiers. I've even had fat women say: wow you're really straight to the point aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:37 PM
1

What is real confidence supposed to feel like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:35 PM
1

Yeah I probably could have done both, it's just that my parents preached the whole "jocks peak in high school" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:31 PM
2

(probably diet) What diet do you think causes acne? I've gotten a lot better but I've still got it and I've got a little bacne as well. I don't feel like my diet is unusual from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:52 AM
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I think anyone who says they prefer BBWs is just saying that out of some loyalty to them because they were the only ones they could smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 05:48 AM
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I'm willing to bet 100 million dollars that looks matter just as much to women as they do to men and that any personality traits they like are just extra things on top of good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:37 AM
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Probably me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:35 AM
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I figured it out in high school but didn't manage to do much with the information, lost my virginity to an escort at 19, and banged some fatties by saying "wanna smash". Figuring it out didn't really help me much :P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:34 AM
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I actually feel like he's a nerd who hates himself and not a guy who peaked in high school. I would have loved to have peaked in high school and got some high school pussy while I was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:30 AM
2

I’ve learned a lot and I’m still figuring it out. What kind of things have you learned and what does Chad look like in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:29 AM
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no it showed past a certain level of hotness personality didn't matter to some women EXACTLY!!! Does TRP include trans-women in their hypotheses????? I think not! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:26 AM
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I feel like I tried a TRP approach and thought it was working at first because I was having conversations with girls, but when I've ever tried to actually get somewhere with a girl, it still goes nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:23 AM
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I liked my high school experience alright. It consisted of me trolling my nerdy friends and making funny inappropriate jokes. I used to laugh at one of my friend's crushes on girls. He had really bad acne and glasses with a lazy eye. Even as blue pilled as a was, I knew he he had no chance. He said something that kind of devil's advocate red pilled me. I was mad about this girl going off with another guy, and he said something like: "Girls go off and have short term relationships where they just…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:17 AM
1

Isn't the point of this conversation that Chad gets with BBWs so people lower than Chad can't get with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:14 AM
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I imagine some people got used to just being with BBWs and now don't mind watching porn of it. It's like watching realistic porn. They can see themselves getting with a BBW more than a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:35 PM
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I can pull BBW irl. Everyone can if they really want to. But I imagine most people who are incels are guys unwilling to stoop to that. Chads aren't overwhelmingly pursuing BBWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:33 PM
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Chads aren't watching BBW porn and most of the time probably aren't watching porn at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:31 PM
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No Chad that can pull Stacies as easily as he can pull fatties is going to pull fatties. The only reason a Chad would get with a fatty would be if it's harder to get with a Stacey. Maybe like a Chadlite or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 08:28 PM
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I saw that maybe once. You might consider me an attractive guy who got with an overweight girl, but I just smashed her in her dorm and didn't really go out in public with her. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:43 PM
1

Just match up with fat or ugly girls that are socially awkward. Can confirm this works for former cels like myself. I'm only really into smashing them though. I'd like the bat a little higher but idk if I'm capable without literally batting someone and taking them back to my prehistoric cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:37 PM
1

Yeah I can see why the okcupid thing would be flawed based on the demographic that uses online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:35 PM
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It doesn't matter what men expect. If they've got no leverage points, they aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:33 PM
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People don't want to date BBWs or be seen in public with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:30 PM
1

I'm not saying it's possible for anyone to become Chad, but women could make a Chad guy if they all just decided to fuck him. Like if they took the most incel guy, and all of a sudden just teamed up to fuck him. He'd be Chad. They're obviously going to choose someone they're sexually attracted to most of the time, but if they wanted to make one guy feel like the man and look like the man to other men, all they gotta do is all fuck him. It's a matter of women's choice. Women choose the winners an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:29 PM
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What do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:44 PM
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Nah there are Chads into fatties who want a quick bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:44 PM
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Well it's probably something you don't like and how can you complain if you don't do it? I'm saying what you're saying makes no sense. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 05:43 PM
1

Yes that's why I believe I should be getting with hot girls all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:06 AM
1

And if you're fucked by your genetics, the non-fuckable category is removed completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:05 AM
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It makes you pretty damn good imo. I've only banged fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:03 AM
1

How does that even make sense though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:01 AM
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I'm going in boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:59 AM
1

I feel like I just have a smash or pass rating at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:59 AM
2

I honestly think they never cared that much about money in a sexual sense. They just want your money for the opportunity it gives them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:12 AM
1

I'm really good at playing guitar but I'm not drowning in puss. Explain urself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 03:09 AM
1

Yeah, just hold your username on a piece of paper next to it. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:33 PM
1

I've gone from RP to BP in strategy, but not in my weariness towards women. My strategy is just kinda: whatever works works, and sometimes different things work at different times. Obviously I took some major points like don't be a bitch and stuff, but other than that I kinda just go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:29 PM
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Because porn is basically cucking yourself. The first time I heard that metaphor I was like: Oh shit... lol I can understand if you don't see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:26 PM
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I lift. Other than that I don't do too much. I make sure my hair looks right each day I go out where people will see me. :P I play guitar so maybe getting in a band would help. I'm not sure if that overcomes my looks or not. I'm pretty sure I have a receding chin just a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:23 PM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:19 PM
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That's all I've fucked for free lol. It's why I've been kinda moving away from TRP, because idk if it's for me. I definitely still learned some valuable lessons about what to watch out for though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:19 PM
1

That doesn't necessarily mean that you can't be a hot milf. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:17 PM
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That's because they put out easier, unless if you're talking about non-fat women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:15 PM
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I don't think you're a woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:14 PM
1

I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:11 PM
1

Definitely my experience with my fat fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:05 PM
1

Yeah it could be because I was going for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:00 PM
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It's kinda like when your mom tells you you're handsome and you know that she's just your mom so she's just trying to get your spirits up. But then you go out there and you're like OH FUCK she REALLY was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:54 PM
1

That's like some billionaire saying, I only want to give this guy a million dollars, but you get my prized button collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:52 PM
1

I got laid with fat chicks a few times on Tinder. That was how I lost my virginity, but now I got that kind of sex out of my system. I'd like to fuck attractive women but idk if my looks are capable of it. edit: I've got plenty of hot girls' numbers and it doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:41 PM
1

I think my friend got kicked out of a frat for being ugly or "creeping out the girls". One of those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:37 PM
1

I don't even know if it's about selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:36 PM
1

Pm me some of the things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:34 PM
2

I think it's easier to get from pump and dump to relationship than it is from nothing to pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:29 PM
1

Fat chicks have lower standards. Every other woman though I'd estimate that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:27 PM
1

I can get laid with fat chicks with whatever personality I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:26 PM
3

Oh so she met Nazi Chad at a party. Now it's all cool then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:24 PM
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I think this just proves that women are as looks focused as men. When they say they want something personality wise they just mean on top of being good looking, and even then the personality thing isn't even necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:21 PM
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Black guys are into fat white girls because they're white and they're the easiest to get. I'm a white dude and fat white chicks are the only ones I've banged thus far. lol If you tell them: Wanna smash? They'll say: wow, you're so direct and straight to the point, and then you'll get to smash them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:17 PM
2

What do you consider the popular look?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:13 PM
2

There are definitely fake butts that seem ghetto to me. Like Nikki Minaj's butt is definitely too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:13 PM
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Nah definitely not the best thing in life. The best thing in life is fucking enough good looking girls as the ones seen in porn so much that you don't feel like watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:57 PM
1

MONITOR RAPE!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:56 PM
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Hoping he is exaggerating in saying that all men are into teen girls. I mean, I definitely am, but I'm 21. I can't ever see those girls ever becoming less sexually attractive to my eyes if I'm completely honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:55 PM
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I feel awkward after watching it. Which is why I try to stay away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:53 PM
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doesn't mean a guy actually wants to fuck an 18-year-old Welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll...................................... Of course with my Dad it might be different for example, but me being 21 I wouldn't turn such a thing down especially if it was a hot porn girl. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:50 PM
1

homosexuality Not on the man side I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:43 PM
1

How do you not control someone and have boundaries at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:42 PM
1

I do think "jailbait" porn or the fact that there's a fetish for barely legal, super young and petite looking girls is a bit concerning. It's not even a fetish really imo. That doesn't mean they don't like women their age though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:41 PM
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I've always had issues with my face but I'm glad height isn't an issue for me. I'm like 5'11" which I can basically just call 6 feet. Except maybe that's manlet tier for these womenz?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:33 PM
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Doctors used to think smoking was good for your lungs. Maybe it is in a: what doesn't kill you makes you stronger sort of way. :P I agree that porn isn't part of being a man. Having sex with women is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:26 PM
1

What would you think if your gf was masturbating to pictures that another man sent to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:24 PM
1

This is exceptionally wise attitude when it comes to a lot of things in relationships Fitting flair. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:23 PM
1

What's she supposed to be? My enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:20 PM
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Because they're incapable of getting any better and they've come to accept it. I can't understand it either relationship-wise though :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:19 PM
1

That's like your lady saying: how are you going to complain about cheating when you're not even capable of getting laid outside our relationship? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:17 PM
3

I don't understand the exact nature of "being confident". I can't even imagine it. I can tell you with 100% confidence that I can play just about any song on guitar, but I really don't understand what it means in context of communication. Like the word confidence doesn't really give me direction on how to act. If I was an actor and they said: act confident, I would need something more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:24 PM
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I do believe women are more fluid in terms of what is needed from them. They aren't even trying to take on a role though. People just put them there. It doesn't take effort to follow other people's expectations of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:13 PM
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I didn't know how to tell him I wanted to break up with him" or "I was too weak to tell him To men this is like saying, I didn't want to take his fingernails out so I just took the whole damn finger off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:09 PM
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The women who can sleep around then also be a great wife, doesn't seem realistic for them. Majority of these men if they were losers for 25 years of their life there is no way to instantly turn that off and act like a hot shot. Well of course the latter is a lot harder. It doesn't take a professional to be a great wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:07 PM
1

Be one with the Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:00 PM
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Chad is whatever women choose, which can be really frustrating. Chad can be whatever you want. If you all sleep with the nerdiest nerd man then he becomes Chad. The reigning Chad is voted for by women having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:48 PM
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I agree. I think if we men didn't want validation from sex, that we could just jerk off. Physically, jerking off is about the same, but mentally, having sex with a beautiful woman makes you feel like the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:39 PM
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men want sex for physical reasons (stress relief, pleasure) Stress relief isn't a physical reason imo. I also think that guys just want sex for ego reasons. Sure there's sexual desire, but I think a more driving force to go out there and seduce a beautiful woman versus just jerkin' off is that they want the ego fulfillment of being chosen. The physical aspect of sex is not that much different from jerking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:36 PM
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It's not a need imo. It gratifies guys' egos which makes them interpret it as a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:31 PM
1

You could still argue that because a millionaire probably has plenty of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:30 PM
1

Although I'm kinda a guy who's drawn to alt-right type things, one thing I never do is follow the big leaders in the movement. I consider red pill to be under that umbrella of the alt-right. I don't think it's smart to listen to people like Ben Shapiro or Jordan Peterson or any of those talking heads. Like I can literally hear in the way my friend argues that he listens to Ben Shapiro. I dislike when people parrot a phrase from the leaders and that's why I try not to listen to them because I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 05:28 PM
2

Hmm, women kinda seem like the devil to me in that sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:02 AM
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I think you'll think differently towards the end of your life because sex might not be relevant anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:54 AM
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Also with makeup and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:28 PM
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I mean, I've fucked fatties, but I don't think I would call them attractive, nor would I want to associate with them outside a casual setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:27 PM
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I can grow some facial hair pretty well, but I don't grow any hair that connects my mustache to my chinstrap, then I got a soul patch thing that grows out. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:41 PM
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Genetic physical attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 05:29 AM
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I was saying I don't have many things in mind that I would feel disqualify a person, but then I realized there probably are some things, but they all would revolve around not being able to have sex with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:46 PM
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Well now that I think about it. Nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:29 PM
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I can't ever imagine myself as the one somebody would make a wrong move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:06 PM
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Not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:03 PM
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I mean if your goal is to put on mass, then you'll get pretty big by bmi standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:02 PM
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Meh I wish I was good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:57 PM
1

A pet peeve of mine is people who say "I'm not typically people's first choice, but people choose me first all the time." or some variant of that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:56 PM
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Getting ghosted. hehehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Not if you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:53 PM
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A woman can trust she'll always be able to get laid (by someone), but most women can't assume they'll find love after that. Not too bad of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:53 PM
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Sure, but I think making reproduction asexual would cause people to cease caring about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:51 PM
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Sure... but just make hotness not a matter of scarcity, just make it a reality of the human species. Like everyone feels sexual tingles for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:45 PM
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Mods this is clearly incel material! Aren't you going to shut it down?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:30 PM
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Just bein sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:29 PM
1

How do you do it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 09:17 PM
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It's hard to go out and be all sexually free as a man without breaking the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:04 PM
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What am I supposed to do? Kick my friend in the face whenever he crosses me? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:03 PM
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I see women as not on my team sexually. It's like I gotta fight them. They're like the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:02 PM
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To me "woman" is the collective force of everything that results from female sexual desire. Sure, women are people, but they like certain things in a mate that men don't and that makes their personalities different to deal with in a romantic context. Like you can't just talk to a woman like some random person if you want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:00 PM
1

Are you black?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:39 PM
1

Well it depends on your beard I think. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:35 PM
1

I would rather be sexually harassed/assaulted because I don't think it's something that would traumatize me for life like it seems to do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:32 PM
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Yeah lol, but even so... it's hard for me to imagine a sexual assault from a woman that doesn't make me feel like the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:31 PM
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(1) Increase general lifespans by two centuries That gave me an idea. Eternal youth and no death, except there's an off-switch when you're ready to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:30 PM
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Why not just make everyone hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:29 PM
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How about you exclude 100% white children from your rule? It'll be better for everyone because everyone thinks white girls are the the hottest hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:27 PM
2

Make everyone hot to each other and make reproduction asexual. Sex would just be a fun thing to do. Edit: Also everyone has eternal youth and you can only die when you flip this off-switch thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:23 PM
2

Has feminism not been as loud lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 07:23 PM
1

Slim is not above average for men. Above average is anything muscular. Skinny is bad for men. Fat is bad for men. If you lose weight to the point where you're super skinny, that won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:59 PM
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What are you talking about? I could totally deliver that joke easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:57 PM
2

200+ lean is definitely major steroids at around that 6'1" area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:46 PM
2

yeah if u were not fat you'd send nudes. @kandyapplez ;) /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:45 PM
1

consume 200+ grams of lean protein a day (that's 4 large chicken breasts) Wat... how large?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:41 PM
1

Or you can be like me, and not be able to stuff down all the food required to get fat even if you tried. I imagine there are women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:29 PM
1

Ahh ok. Makes sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:18 PM
1

Hmm. Well if girls are contemplating approaching you then you must have something going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:43 PM
1

Lots of guys don’t date women who are too fat. Well of course. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:43 PM
2

If you're not flexing, it's pretty squishy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:41 PM
1

Super muscular guys tend to be obese by BMI standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:40 PM
1

I think she was talking about two different guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:39 PM
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I don't think he's even talking about doping. He's just saying that these guys go to the gym to lift weights and don't just run.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:34 PM
5

You think sports athletes don't go to the gym? lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:30 PM
1

I'm pretty toxic sometimes, but it doesn't seem to work out. :P My cousins say it all the time but I'm not too big of a fan of the word toxic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:28 PM
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I mean, I've heard that before. A girl just said to be like I was on Xbox, but it's really hard to do with someone you just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:00 AM
5

You want a completely hair woman? hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:46 AM
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I don't see why people have a problem with those dudes. I'm not a huge guy, but I'm not intimidated by them. They're just regular dudes. It's like if I'm a monkey he's just my gorilla buddy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:44 AM
1

I was too skinny I think, so I can't relate to the fat struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:39 AM
0

I'm about 5'11" so I can just say I'm 6ft. Feelsgoodman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:31 AM
3

you have to put up a face to "earn" them You kinda do imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:56 PM
1

Not to the extent I would seek out different types of people I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:53 PM
1

I'm just picturing a politician now supporting a free use policy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:42 PM
1

Also, the less I care about her relative to how much she cares about me, the more power i have respective to her. But how do you exercise that power without starting to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:38 PM
2

I don't think psychopathy or narcissism inhibit people from their goals so they won't want therapy. What I'm saying is that they just have different morals and a different philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:15 PM
2

psychopaths or narcissists who are the ones who actually could use the therapy. I don't think therapy is the way to go for a mostly moral/philosophical issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:10 PM
1

I'm just using incel to mean involuntary celibate and not necessarily the mindset behind the incel community. Somebody who wants sex but can't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:06 PM
1

It seems like such a big part of the discussion though. The only reason people turn to TRP is because they are literally incels. Some continue to believe in TRP tactics despite their own lack of success with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:31 PM
1

I've gotten to 50 with nothing at least. Maybe 100, but I haven't been counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:27 PM
2

Yeah, but if you do go on a rampage you should go all the way and find a way to call in all the nukes on everybody at once. Shootings are lame. It's not like you're gonna get everyone. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:26 PM
1

And a giant harem of women emotionally attached to you is the healthiest thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:22 PM
2

higher standard of love and lifetime happiness. Idk I would be pretty happy with a life of consistent hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:17 PM
0

Yeah I'd rather someone be like that and not want different things from different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:14 PM
0

Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:12 PM
5

Maybe if you don't want kids I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:10 PM
1

I definitely appreciate the role of a step-father. My dad had a step-father growing up and I think he was his favorite. But now I see kind of a taintedness to it. I think every man should strive to pass on his own genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:48 PM
2

It's more like if you really break it down, an ass is just two kinda spherical cheeks. A vagina is just an opening. Boobs are just more spherical things. For some reason we get hard when we see them, but we don't really think about what the meaning of it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:41 PM
1

I wanted just one woman but then I got burned and now I understand why a lot of men want variety. It was a seeing the forest from the trees sort of thing hehe. I don't have much of a social network in the sense that it's all organized. I tend to have friends from lots of different groups of people. I'm a 1 on 1 kinda guy. I get plenty of validation from my friends whether it comes to arm wrestling them or making funny inside jokes with them. Similarly, as a woman, I value commitment (not just fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:35 PM
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I feel like beautiful people and trees are two separate entities because only one of them will get you sexually excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:16 PM
1

Women sure do like to look at men’s wallets though. Men are attracted to rich women the same way women are attracted to rich men. Imagine if a fatty woman billionaire offered to provide for you and you just did chores around the house. That would be tempting right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:14 PM
-1

What about sexually attractive and beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:10 PM
3

Tfw you're that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:04 PM
1

I would never think of participating in sexual activities with the horse or tree. Same way I wouldn't participate in sexual activities with the wrong girl. That's total bs dude. A beautiful tree or horse is not going to give you a semi or give you some kind of sensation in the pants region.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:03 PM
1

talks in the same manner to his mom and sister too. I don't agree with ya there :P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 12:38 AM
1

Men are the pickers in the sense that King Arthur picked the sword out of the stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:12 PM
1

But he's very man looking so isn't that what's attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:03 PM
1

non-masculine and not having an alluring presence Idk what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:57 PM
2

I've always said I'll probably make a mil before I can get an attractive girl. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:31 PM
1

I socially engineered my friend into giving me his YouTube username and password and changed his channel in a funny way, but it was just a prank and I gave it back to him. :P Sadly I can't use it to bed 100s of girls for whatever reason hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:55 PM
1

Yeah it would sure help if I knew what that problem was, but apparently it's this big burden for women to tell you what your problem is, hence one of the threads earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:30 PM
1

I feel like there's a place where you can be nice while consciously realizing that it helps you get what you want without being manipulative, and the girl accepts that you're being nice to get what you want as well, because you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:29 PM
1

Tbh man, I don't think girls like the GUYS for their money, I think they just like money like everyone else. I think I could make a million dollars before I'd be able to get a yes from an attractive woman lololol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:25 PM
1

It is, until you can't get what you want for years and years and years and you start questioning your pesky morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:24 PM
2

I was just bein sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:21 PM
2

I think nice guys see niceness as a trait that seals the deal in an otherwise promising package. They think everyone has the potential to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:21 PM
1

they were noticeably less dominant than the other men around.. but honestly it made them more attractive to me because I don’t need a guy that is super concerned with status. Women's sexual choice decides the status of men imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:19 PM
1

Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:17 PM
1

What if the guy wants sex, but is also genuinely nice. How do you decide that the two traits are divorced from each other and one is not supporting the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:16 PM
1

But you're pretending to be nice and are a nice guy. REEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:13 PM
2

I don't understand how you can get things without wanting them and working towards them in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:11 PM
1

How are you supposed to get what you want then? rip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:05 PM
1

Lol so just be a dick and you're not a dick. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:02 PM
1

Same except I'm probably ugly so I can't use it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:49 PM
1

that's good, but all of those things are expected. that's like the bare minimum. I think another thing is that people don't expect relationships to be this grandiose thing that requires more effort than basic courtesy. They're thinking: "Why do I need to impress you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:48 PM
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Just because you’re not on top of the social food chain, doesn’t make you nicer and a better person. I wish my parents would have fucking preached this shit and not the bullshit about how Chad peaks in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:45 PM
1

What were some of your clueless ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:43 PM
2

I like that. We need more MGTOWs like us and not people in denial thinking they're depriving women of something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:41 PM
5

Let me explain to you why people laugh at you .... it's because most people figure out being attractive matters in high school Implying that if you just figure out that you need to be attractive that you just suddenly become attractive. It's not like, "oh, being attractive matters!" suddenly grows the chadliest chin of all and turns into a mini hulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:40 PM
1

The implication is that the person is attractive or that there's someone out there for everybody, so since that person is nice, why isn't that somebody coming along?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:38 PM
1

Crying was contagious for me when I was really young but not so much now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:48 AM
2

This would never happen to me, but no that wouldn't hurt me at all. Fuck-zoning is a concept I have no sympathy for. It's an awesome place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:42 AM
1

I used to feel like I was giving vibes but I think I lost it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:26 AM
1

Money is more directly correlated to your efforts compared to every other thing on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:25 AM
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Oh actually I wasn't intending to call you unlikable. I was saying that I'm unlikable. I feel like if I shotgun approach 1000 times I'll still come out with nothing. I just wish I was born into a family that encouraged the development of Chadly traits rather than doing good in school and being smart and shiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:22 AM
1

I'm not likable to girls for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 04:00 AM
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I just don't have that "other people aren't entitled to have this from me" feeling when it comes to social interactions. Physical things I understand. Like I strongly feel that nobody is entitled to just take $10k from me. If someone asks me something like: Tell me why you said this: " " I don't feel like it's too much of a burden to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:59 AM
2

Women are like this: Homeless guy: Hey can you give me some advice on getting a job? Woman: WOAH hold up! Are you asking me for money!?!?!?!? GTfO stupid beggar. Homeless guy: wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:52 AM
1

Ppl who need more than that tend to be people who are 100% okay being in relationships where the other person likes them a lot less. And I can’t relate to feeling comfortable in that or even wanting it. What if you're just not a likable person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:47 AM
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I don't think she owed him a "why." Why is a why such a burden to explain that you have to bring up the "I don't owe you" card? It'd be like if your friend says hi to you and then you're like "I don't owe you a hello!" Then your friend is like dafuq, it'll take like 2 seconds to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:45 AM
1

Hang on, sounds like you're strugglin' my dude lol. Just don't worry about your game and ask for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:41 AM
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It’s pretty disrespectful since they clearly don’t think she’s got her own legit thoughts and reasons. It's not intended to be a disrespectful thing. They just want to fix whatever it is they fucked up. They're not asking: "Do you even have a reason?" They're asking what the reason is so they can fix themselves and be better for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:30 AM
1

Yeah I don't approach and flirt with fatties. I figure if I'm going to put in the effort to approach I may as go for girls I find good looking. The fatties were immediately dtf from Tinder. Maybe you should just do serial monogamy if it's easier for you than trying to get hookups. I don't think it would be that much more fulfilling for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 08:32 PM
1

I don’t feel validation from the entire situation. Same. I'm still tryin to get with hot chicks. I’d rather just masturbate than fuck someone I’m not attracted to. This too. I just wanted to have sex a few times and see what it was like. I lost my virginity to an escort at 19. If I need to work hard even for a fatty, what’s the point? I didn't really have to work for the fatty. I basically just said: "wanna smash?" lol. Last time I used it I had over 1,000 matches in like a year which is a small…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 08:06 PM
1

Have you tried banging fatties from tinder? That's what I resorted to. And tbh I've only had 1 gf. Also you gotta eat a lot to get jacked, unless if you have the opposite problem that I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:02 PM
1

Ye I can't tell you if there's hope or not because I'm 5'11" and I still struggle lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:25 AM
1

What about your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:21 AM
2

To know how badly they don't want it of course to make the rape sweeter. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:20 AM
1

I've done all that stuff. Is it supposed to make my approaches work 100% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 04:27 PM
0

I'm socially and emotionally intelligent enough to have friends. I banged some fatties so that wasn't very discriminatory. So learning to seduce women is not hard work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 05:32 AM
1

Nothing because I'd be a woman. Muahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:39 AM
1

I'm like 130+ IQ boi get on my level. Everything else works out for me with hard work except women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:27 AM
1

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 08:22 PM
1

I really don't think anyone in any sport views it that way. People still respect the true winners more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:18 PM
1

I think women would be less attractive if they sounded like men, were hairy like men, and other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:17 PM
2

I don't really see people as damaged goods emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:15 PM
1

Emotionally tough towards what? All I can tell is that it tests your ability to solve puzzles/riddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:14 PM
0

Fuck poly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:53 PM
0

I'm just ugly man. I don't know what the purpose of shit testing is. Is it supposed to prove you're tough? I could kill somebody if I set out to do so. I just don't understand what the point of it is. Shit testing doesn't test anything valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:50 PM
1

I think you can take multiple things into account that make it needlessly complex due to all those things stemming from one cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:48 PM
3

I wouldn't want to date a single mother unless if I was a single father. Then it would be an equal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:43 PM
1

I guess I should just rape women and not be ashamed about it then. If they whine about rape they're probably just shit testing me. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:25 PM
0

You can not give a fuck all you want and still you won't get laid if women think you're a harasser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:18 PM
1

Well how the fuck else is he supposed to act? Just not approach at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:16 PM
2

I think you're misunderstanding what "a numbers game" is. Playing dating as a numbers game is shotgun approaching. You can "not make excuses" all you want and still not get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:14 PM
1

Even with it not as high on the priority list, you still probably get more than most men. That makes it hard to determine if you'd be as horny as a man if you were as sex deprived.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:11 PM
1

Ye I think it's good to be overweight as a guy if you've got a good body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:06 PM
2

None of my problems have to do with weight. I'm 5'11 around 150 pounds. I'm trying to put on more weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:02 PM
1

I can agree with that but I feel like something as grandiose as a sex cult is the only way a non-chad is getting any. A non-chad isn't going to just casually have sex with attractive women. He has to physically and or manipulatively control them and do things normies aren't willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:18 PM
0

Wealth is the easiest thing to change on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:08 PM
1

I have trouble picturing game, because I feel I can't be gamed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:06 PM
1

Men can be average or ugly, and get a lot of average or ugly girls. Just want to make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:04 PM
2

The desire to have a sex cult stems from not being Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:03 PM
1

the kind that transcends. This sounds like a thing someone who buys into charisma as a legitimate force and not a manipulative scheme would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 05:00 PM
1

Nah lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:58 PM
1

Or if you just use physical means rather than manipulative means to acquire these sex slaves. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:55 PM
0

Most people have a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:35 PM
1

I'm 5'11 and I've probably approached like 50+ women and haven't managed to get anywhere with them. I've hooked up with some fat chicks from tinder, but otherwise nothing. I've never got with someone I met offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:31 PM
1

I wanted to believe otherwise, but nothing I do helps me. I feel like I get so close sometimes with women I find attractive, but maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:29 PM
1

I mean I have managed to hook up with fat chicks, so maybe I'm like a 6? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:28 PM
2

I thought the whole point of TRP was to improve yourself to get 7-10s. I don't need a strategy to bang a fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:27 PM
2

Yeah I could totally kill it with obese women, and I've done that, but you may as well just rub one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:23 PM
3

He's famous though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:22 PM
1

I'm not necessarily agreeing with incels' looks standards model of what women find attractive, but whatever it is that women find physically good looking is what they choose. Personality doesn't matter. Most people have a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:21 PM
1

Except for be born good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:02 PM
1

What will accepting it do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:22 AM
1

Well if there's some way to save my progress beyond death lemme know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:58 AM
1

risk averse Risk averse is like risk avoidant. sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:38 AM
1

You'll spend your whole life doing all these things you won't remember when you die, so what does it matter if you evolve mentally or not? Eventually your suffering or joy will cease.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:37 AM
2

Couple million in the bank . Profession that is respect. Nah, I'll be makin afk money off my money by that point :P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:34 AM
2

I just want money and to keep that money to myself. Idc about status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:32 AM
1

Beyond goals, there's nothing to personally develop to. Don't fall for that shit about having to come to some magical transcendent perspective. The peak of that kind of growth is just realizing that life is meaningless and then you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:29 AM
3

That's the ultimate fear of TRP, that the apex social man gets the leftovers from the apex physical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:25 AM
1

It’s also not a casino where you can beat the house by crunching the numbers. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:18 AM
2

Doesn't everything generate feelings? Idk man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:15 AM
2

If a man has access to an 8/10 there's no way he's ever going after 4/10s and 5/10s on the side. Is it really that different to just rub one out though? In my experience it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:12 AM
1

Yes that would be pretty convenient for women to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:11 AM
4

It’s almost like sex is a biological necessity Hmm well I'm not dead so nah...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:09 AM
1

I seriously think that's how it is. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 02:03 AM
2

Nah, it's just like if a fatty billionaire offered to take care of you for the rest of your life. It would be tempting, but that doesn't mean you're super attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:19 AM
1

they're even harder to get into relationships with. Naaaaah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:16 AM
-1

You should get an escort if you're 18+. I think we just need some kind of magic mindset to get it without paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:20 AM
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As Salty said, you should get an escort. I think free sex is something you have to not want to get, and at that point, you don't want it and it's not fulfilling. Idk it doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:16 AM
1

This. I did it at 19. Since then I've only been with fat chicks, but sex really doesn't seem worth the effort that I have to put in to get it. It's like if you had to spend a million dollars on a chocolate bar and you had to earn that million dollars mining coal, otherwise you could never have chocolate or any candy again. ehhhhhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:09 AM
0

Gay people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:05 AM
2

Idk man, I'm starting to think it's equal for both genders, with both genders leaning more towards your description of the woman experience. You can't be charismatic and ugly, guy or girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:01 AM
1

Well it would help to not be in a famine first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 03:59 AM
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Tfw 5'11+ and white and still can't get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:23 AM
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I didn't choose a gender either. I have a penis, and I'm a person. I don't identify as male. I just am a male biologically. That's how I imagine most people think of their gender. I just do what I want, and accept that I have a penis. Is that hard? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:01 AM
1

Isn't it basically " don't try at all and don't want what you want to have" and other stupid contradictory shit? :l
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:53 AM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 03:52 AM
1

I'd substitute lots of food for sex. I can't get any anyway. Gotta get that bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 02:37 AM
1

Opt out of children that aren't theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:49 PM
1

Cuz I don't wanna be a cuck. It's fine if you aren't fucking anyone at that stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 01:17 AM
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You're essentially being a cuck until she chooses you. I don't think one is asking for a polygamous relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 05:21 PM
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The abundance should be more like a wait-list. Rather than entertaining multiple suitors at once, you entertain one, and if you don't like him you go to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 05:19 PM
1

Everything else works out for me. If I put effort in, I get something out of it. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:24 AM
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I don't know if I would say that reality itself is not objective. I'm just saying I would really like to talk to the narrator of life if there is one so he can tell me what's going on, and what are we all heading towards for what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:32 AM
1

O yeah, gotta get to 99 Social.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:29 AM
1

Ye, I think about it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:26 AM
1

Yes, everyone please burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:25 AM
1

This seems self-contradictory. Like, you're implying that women already have a bad opinion of the person, and you're just saying that their opinion becomes worse? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:24 AM
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Nothing has objective value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:23 AM
1

If you could not do that you would experience some type of pain from it I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:21 AM
1

And then you and everyone you love dies and it all meant nothing in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:20 AM
1

If the only people who base their self esteem on sex are sex starved, wouldn't that essentially equate to sex positively influencing people's self esteem who can actually get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:18 AM
1

I'm sure the founder of Facebook would be drowning in pussy if he wasn't in a relationship. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:12 AM
1

Oh because I definitely fucking want to accomplish something when it has no damn correlation with my happiness. Makes the most fucking god damn sense to me out of anything I've ever heard! I just should not want what I want, and still go after it. YEAH! that's possible. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:10 AM
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That's why I'm giving up. It doesn't make any fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:08 AM
1

Part of me wants to say "fuck them then, I hope they die in a ditch." but another part of me knows you'd say something like "alright, more for me then." I just need personal access to multiple nukes so I can blast everyone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:04 AM
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People think being fat is the only issue. I think being too scrawny is much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:59 AM
1

How dafuq do you do that. I can't even do that at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:58 AM
1

You're right. I'm probably ugly as fuck. Nothing I do works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:54 AM
2

I really don't think TRP matters. The incels are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:53 AM
1

If you're hot, no matter what you do will work. Otherwise you're fucked and your life is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:49 AM
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It has to be something. Maybe not dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:37 AM
1

He's probably got something physical going for him. I've tried and I can't fucking do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:33 AM
1

I guess so but I can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:27 AM
1

Anything works for the top 5%. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:44 AM
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LMFAO THE GUY WITH 1500+ in the back loloololololololol edit: oh, he's gay. nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:37 AM
1

I lost my virginity to an escort after reading PUA and TRP material and getting frustrated with it all. Then I did a few fatties from Tinder without applying any of the stuff I learned. I just can't seem to get with hot women no matter what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:37 AM
1

Idk man, your own faults seem to be something you can never find even if you're looking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:32 AM
1

Not everyone bitches and moans about it, but not bitching and moaning about it doesn't make it untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:29 AM
1

You could always just join me in the incel sex cult revolution lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:27 AM
1

interesting people with lives that DON'T revolve around trying to get laid, get laid Maybe for women, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:25 AM
1

Are you saying incel sex farms are the way to go? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 04:22 AM
1

If you agree with all of this then how can you say that Harvey Weinstein's game can overcome his ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:24 AM
2

Enemyzoning is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:23 PM
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Nobody is an introvert or an extrovert imo. I think it's important to not identify with either label in order to be whatever you want whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:20 PM
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My biggest point was this is all a matter of how you’re socialized and who you hang around starting at very formative years. I don't think it necessarily has to be in your formative years, but if you hang around people at any period in your life, you'll probably become more like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:12 AM
1

Not everything has to be backed up scientifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:10 AM
1

I feel like I can be suave, but whenever I try to use it to get anything it throws my vibe off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I don't drink. When I lost my virginity I was surprised how loose pussy in general feels in comparison to a hand, but I still came. Is the drunkenness the major factor for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:54 PM
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Good enough for sex, but not as great as the "work out with a meaningful purpose in mind" guy. But being good enough for just sex is the hard part. Coming up with some bs meaningful purpose is easy. I have more confidence that I could pull off getting in a relationship with a woman than having casual sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:51 PM
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What are you talking about? I've never experienced a pussy that couldn't make me cum. I've even only had sex using condoms, which I imagine is less sensitive than without.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:46 PM
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"Today my ex followed me to my car from work for a third time, and I don't think I have any other options but call the cops next time even though I don't think he'll hurt me and I'm worried how serious i'll be taken?" I find this hard to sympathize with because it's basically saying, you're so attractive that you've got a guy following you to your car. You're set. To act like having trouble with women is a non-issue is like saying being poor is not an issue because when you're rich you can get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:11 AM
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"Today my ex followed me to my car from work for a third time, and I don't think I have any other options but call the cops next time even though I don't think he'll hurt me and I'm worried how serious i'll be taken?" I find this hard to sympathize with because it's basically saying, you're so attractive that you've got a guy following you to your car. You're set. To act like having trouble with women is a non-issue is like saying being poor is not an issue because when you're rich you can get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:11 AM
1

I feel the same way. I don't want to dominate or be dominated. You need to get a man to come to you and approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:08 AM
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A partner who cheats doesn't have more to offer. Cheating is a -100000 trait in a matrix in which the highest value each trait can get you is +1. Cheating wipes anything you have to offer away. Good looks and charisma isn't so important to me that I'd let myself be cucked. There are plenty of good looking charismatic women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:04 AM
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Hiding it is the selfish act because you're lying to your partner. Fuck feelings. People deserve to know the truth even if it kills them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:58 AM
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Confessing cheating is usually a selfish act, wrapped in a contrite shell. No, hiding it is the selfish act because you want to keep up a facade like you still have a normal monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:58 AM
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Which is why you should fuck 100s of men without telling your partner amiright? /s No bitch. Your partner deserves to know so he can break up with your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:57 AM
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Girls seem to be about sparing feelings while guys just wanna know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:55 AM
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attractive, funny and confident guys, but they see themselves as none. Therefore they still don't approach And the problem with incel thinking is that they think all those things are inherent and come naturally rather than from hard work. Maybe attractiveness comes out of nowhere, but the other two things you said come from work. With confidence you just have to desensitize yourself to your approach anxiety by constantly approaching whether you get rejected or not. A lot of incels have a funny s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:52 PM
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"im fucking this loser, what are you gonna do about it?" Kill both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:55 AM
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So you're saying that she fucks indiscriminately guys she doesn't care about? Okay, sounds pretty appealing to be a guy she doesn't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 05:09 AM
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I approached someone at the gym once. Typically I'm just focused on my workout, but she said she had a boyfriend and was polite about everything and I went back to what I was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:08 PM
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"that girl who led me on and used me for sex" or "that girl who pressured me into having sex before I was ready" story It seems like some extremely attractive men who've never struggled with sex have this story some times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 06:34 PM
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The one random girl who bought me food one time had a friend with her when she did. Her friend was saying something about how she liked having a boyfriend who didn't know how attractive he was and she didn't want him to know because then he would have enough confidence to pursue and attract other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:54 AM
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Nobody lacks empathy for the guys who don't approach, they just don't make themselves known to anyone. Plus you're not in a good bargaining position when any girl you're interested in probably has tons of guys approach her and interested in her at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:55 AM
1

Where do you girls get all this money to spend on hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:40 AM
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I would learn to do it myself before I'd spend hundreds of dollars on my hair each time I get a haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:38 AM
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everything he has earned in his entire life... if it meant he could be a tall man with a strong jaw A man with a ton of options and would be able to attract (and then not commit to) the very attractive women that all men find attractive. He states he would give up his successful career, his hobbies, everything, his entire life. I feel that. I think I would get over it if I had a girlfriend I loved though. I would feel that it's unfair to her for me to harbor those feelings and I would forge a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:33 AM
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My sex drive isn't uncontrollable until the point where I actually take action to engage with it. Once I'm in that sexual mindset, yeah I really don't want to stop, but I feel like if I just don't think about sex, there's no inherent drive that would remind me of it unless I saw some ass in real life or online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:55 PM
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Maybe because sex is to make babies, and our brains are figuring out that more sex doesn't necessarily mean more babies so are adjusting accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:55 AM
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standards are a good thing. How do you get there without it being a circular argument? I feel bad for ugly girls and guys alike. It seems stupid to me that it's even possible to be ugly. Everyone should be attracted to each other. I can't get around the idea that it's shallow and not worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:51 PM
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SEXUAL ATTRACTION is promitive and atavistic and doesnt care about morals and ideals What if your idealistic view was the only reason you actually had a desire for it and now that you view it as it is, it's not even worth pursuing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:45 PM
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Maybe men's sex drive derives from ego while women's sex drive derives from the constant stream of sex they've come to expect from being young, single, and "free". When men settle down, it satisfies his ego. When women settle down, they lose access to the unending string of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:45 PM
1

There was a girl who chased me around the playground in elementary school. That didn't necessarily translate to success when it counts once I hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:36 PM
1

I think innate talent is just innate inspiration from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:28 PM
1

Well, the chip is stopping me from seeing any value in the stuff I could gain from taking it off my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:46 PM
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Attractiveness matters, there's never a time where it won't. However when most of your female friends are attractive, it becomes a matter of character and personality. This is why I feel like all the differences between men and women about sexual attraction are actually just the result of having options, women naturally having more, rather than an inherent difference between men and women because biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:47 AM
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I'm still at the chip on my shoulder phase but maybe I'll come around. Relationships beyond just being friends seem "toxic" to me. I don't like to use that word because my cousins say it all the time but I can't think of a better word. Something feels tainted about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:45 AM
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I don't think men and women are impacted by looks differently, but I think men underplay the impact personality has on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:27 PM
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very few people even know what they need in a relationship by that age. Wtf is there to know? Sexual preference mainly right? So you agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:03 PM
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Ok, they can be young wild and free over there and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:02 PM
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I think while alt-right and red pill stuff likes to see itself as controversial, like Trump played on, there is a silent majority who agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:58 AM
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Hmm, do any of these third world countries have white women in them? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:39 PM
0

I'd also rather pass an opportunity for sex than sleep with a creepy woman. You're a lesbian right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:33 PM
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That's dumb and I think it's enough for me to not see girls as a thing worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:20 PM
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Yeah I got the same problem of not being able to be successful in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:33 PM
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I'm just saying that those girls were as simple as "wanna smash?" I've tried all kinds of things for more attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:15 AM
1

I still think it's easier to get in the top 0.1% money wise than the top 20% girl wise. Or at least the path to doing so seems much more clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:39 PM
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Yeah, maybe for celebrities like Russell Brand, but even if someone has the disposition to have a sex addiction, most people aren't going to be capable of actually fulfilling their addiction needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:15 PM
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Because I don't understand how someone is so good at getting sex as a man that they can call it an addiction, just as I don't understand how someone has so much money they can buy 100s of Ferrari's. A sex addict man has to be a gigachad if they are consistently getting with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:04 PM
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We're talking about sex here not looks. I'm saying that if the average guy has a woman that lets him get to sex, the nastiness doesn't become an issue. They're thankful just for the opportunity to have sex. Attractive dudes are probably more picky because they have a wide variety of sex experiences and know what is good and bad. All sex is good sex to an average man because he's not getting any that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:59 PM
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Attractive dudes rate performance. Average dudes don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:49 PM
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And what evidence have you got to support your belief women rate performance more? Attractive men are picky about sex because they have a never-ending supply. The average dude is just happy to get to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:31 PM
0

I'm just wondering if by "have a beer with once in a while" you mean "have sex with once in a while".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:29 PM
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I've banged a few fatties and usually all it takes for me is "wanna smash?" Every other level of attractiveness girl seems to be a stone wall to me so maybe I really am ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:27 PM
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Okay to have a beer with once in a while for the stories but gross otherwise. Does this also involve: "Just seeing what happens."?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:24 PM
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But sex addiction is pretty much an oxymoron. It's like someone saying they have a Ferrari addiction and they just can't stop buying Ferrari's. It's like: God damn, how do they have the money to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:22 PM
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What do the professionals know that I don't? I feel like when I have good sleep, good food, good exercise, and don't procrastinate that I feel good. I'm open to maybe feeling even better, but I'm not sure what the professionals can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:31 AM
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He starts seeing a shrink and they go through all the fucked up shit he went through as a kid and find the root of the self-esteem problems that have plagued him his whole life. Can people really narrow this down? How does that process work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:23 AM
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Imo RP is best for putting into your mind the worst case scenario that can happen in relationships. It gives you a fuller picture of what could go wrong, but if nothing's going wrong than you don't need to apply any strategy to what you're already doing naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:08 AM
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Because of serial monogamy. More girls cycle through the same guys than do guys through the same girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:02 AM
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Idk a lot of beautiful people in relationships look too stuck up to be happy. I can much more easily imagine a happy relationship between two unattractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:59 AM
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I mean, I don't have to pay to talk to girls. I may still get rejected, but talking to hot girls throughout my day is no biggie to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:28 AM
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It was in my sophomore year of high school and I tried to get her back through a lot of junior year. I'm a junior in college now. It brought me all over the place and now I'm sort of in existential crisis territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:22 AM
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I would have settled down with my first girlfriend but she didn't like me like that so it broke my heart irreparably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:34 AM
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I wanted to marry my first girlfriend, but then that didn't work out and I never felt the same about anybody else and it really hurt me so I stayed away from relationships. I tried to get casual sex, but that didn't work out either. I was just so frustrated with all the effort I put into relationships and sex with no output that I just paid for it. I liked it, because I know I'm capable of working a job for money, and therefore I'm capable of paying an escort. It's a clear path to sex for me. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:31 AM
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Yeah I don't understand how there's any demand for that cam girl stuff when there's perfectly free porn out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:09 AM
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I still think there are opportunities out there for those who are intelligent enough to find them with very little initial investment. I'm not trying to be a billionaire. I just want to retire early with enough money to provide for my food and living needs. Ideally I'd have enough to live a couple times over, but that's not necessary as long as it makes me through my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:23 AM
1

The Rothschild's family overages their social status to get business opportunities the rest of us don't even know exist. What does this even mean? If everybody's doing it then it's not a good business opportunity. I'm not trying to tell anybody exactly what I plan to do with my businesses and I don't expect anyone else to either. Most people aren't going to know business opportunities exist and that's why they are business opportunities in the first place. Not taking an opportunity because of pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:18 AM
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I've never experienced this. I can see how it could happen though. You have to talk TO the girl and not AT her. Maybe there is such a thing as being so ugly people won't acknowledge you, but there's a way of speaking to where some people won't even think you're talking to them and that's the point where they will ignore you. If you really try to stop them then they will listen. You can't half ass things and say, okay I lost, right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:03 PM
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Nah. Have you experienced this yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:12 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:11 PM
2

I still think the average guy and girl aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:09 PM
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If you walk up to a random girl in Starbucks and start talking to her, she's going to be creeped-the-heck out and wonder what the hell you want (or worse, know what you want) if you don't play that right. In my experience, even with no game, I can manage to not creep the girl out. I usually just get the girl's number and then she just doesn't text me back. I'm pretty good at the non-threatening game. I can tell when someone's creeped out by me and it's usually when I'm pissed off and go up to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:07 PM
0

How are people going to know if you're below 5'8 on a dating profile unless you say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:01 PM
1

Become a rapper and that'll basically give you the same amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:37 PM
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I'm trying to start my own business some day, but I'm not going to use my parent's money to do it. I guess you can argue that having parents that can afford to take care of you if you fail is a privilege, but I assume that you're talking about having to be a millionaire or a billionaire to risk something. I don't think most people are living on welfare with no savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:36 PM
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Women prefer older men usually because men are immature af, no one needs boys. I don't understand what matures about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:03 AM
1

1-to-1 relationships are for children. Sure, if you're not having kids you can be as polygamous as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 02:45 PM
1

Sure, but I want things to turn around for me. The less I care about it, the less I'm actually going to be willing to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:08 PM
0

I can't find that mindset for whatever reason. Why do you want it if you don't need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:06 PM
1

What happens is that I have a conversation with someone, get their number at the end, and then they just don't respond when I try to text them. I've had that happen at least 20 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:02 PM
1

Fair enough. If I don't care about the person enough to care about whether or not they say no, where does the motivation to pursue them at all come from? All my motivation comes from wanting to win the interaction, and if I don't win then I get frustrated. Sure, I can "not give a shit" to a certain extent, but after getting rejected like 20-40 times in a row it really takes a toll on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:51 PM
1

Essentially the red pill says that hot guys fuck women when they're young, and then women settle down with an ugly or average looking guy with a stable job or a decent amount of money when they want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:45 PM
1

Do you know about the concept in the red pill about alpha fucks beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:24 PM
2

Don't listen to this stuff and just let your mind be silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:07 PM
3

I doubt they have Chad boyfriends unless if they're good at doing their makeup. Maybe what you're seeing is a date after the ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 10:00 PM
1

Cuz beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:56 PM
1

The men here suck really bad at judging what women find attractive on many levels. I feel like there's no straight answer to be found anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:56 PM
2

The silver lining is now I don't really get hung up on women anymore. She wasn't perfect by any means but everyone else I meet sucks by comparison. This is how I feel, even though my first relationship was pretty shit, I never feel like I'll have an experience or pursuit that feels more meaningful than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:54 PM
1

Does this mean the world's strongest men competitors are peak sex appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:19 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:10 PM
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An HB7 could have the "best personality" (this requires another discussion) in the world, and most men would still rather choose the HB8 with an average personality. For me 7 is high enough to the point where being an 8, 9, or 10 is just adding diminishing returns of hotness. I would have trouble distinguishing a 7 from an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:41 PM
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Rationalization of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:51 PM
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I'm not saying you cant go from a friendship to a relationship, it happens, just that its a bad strategy, not something you intentionally do. I think it depends on the dynamics of the friendship, but yeah, indirectly pursuing someone through friendship usually doesn't work out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 04:33 AM
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I just feel like it's hard to find a straight answer to this stuff without having an existential crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 09:11 PM
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Maybe that last part was a bit of an exaggeration, but I have a new perspective now that seeing yourself as one self is limited. You already find yourself as you are in each moment. There is nothing hidden within you. Your present moment self is the only one that matters. It's very confusing and zen-ish but my perspective on this matter changes all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 08:44 PM
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Well I'm 6ft and white and I'm still shit lol. I don't understand how people think their race is a disadvantage. Attractive people are a minority in every race. My roommate who was temporarily on the college football team told me all about the revolving door of pussy that college athletes go through. They're mostly black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 08:38 PM
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Yeah, I'd really like these magic words and instructionable actions that get me laid every time. If women were throwing themselves at me I probably wouldn't want to manipulate them, but since they aren't I have to figure out some way to pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:50 AM
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I'm not putting any negative spin on that word. I'm just saying that none of the girls I talk to do I feel like they care about me, and if I just move on, I feel frustrated because I feel like that's exactly what they want anyway. I almost feel like I have to be a burden on each one before moving on just so they can feel something besides indifference towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:47 AM
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The list of meta studies is fascinating, detailing how different contexts matter. for a ONS economic success has much less weight (unsurprising really) This is what I'm saying though. Women are attracted to money in long term relationships because if they want kids, it's good for the guy they have kids with to support those kids with money. Women are not sexually attracted to a man having money, hence economic success not having much impact on ONS success. I'd also argue that it extends to short…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:41 AM
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What I mean by leverage is if I leave they won't actually give a fuck. I feel like I can't make any woman give a fuck about me. The very thing that would compel them to change their behavior is what I'm talking about when I say leverage. If they care about me at all, that's leverage I have. It's not necessarily a negative concept, it's just that you need someone to care about you if you want to impact them in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:58 AM
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Women wanting money isn't even controversial though and money is something you can easily make. It's not like looks or height where you can hardly change it if you were dealt a shit hand. I'd absolutely love if women's attraction was all about money. That would be awesome man because then it would be all based on merit, but it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 03:54 AM
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How am I supposed to "not stand for it"? They aren't going to take anything I say seriously because I have no leverage like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 02:49 AM
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Humans are individuals. Sorry to break it to you. There is no universal rule. There are no steps to take that will lead you to victory every time. That's life, and it's scary. That's not life. That's just people. Life responds to your effort. Everything else that I've ever tried has been a mountain that I can move. Women just don't budge. You have to work on yourself so that you aren't easy prey. You have to be able to cut someone off if they start mistreating you. Yeah, and just cut off every s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:06 AM
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I'm not a balance kind of guy. I have to swing one way or the other. Either I'm going to pull that trigger or not. If I go into something I'm frustrated when I lose, which works well for me for most things, but for some reason not for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:55 AM
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That's because there's more than one right and more than one wrong behaviour because different women have different standards. That's unacceptable to me. I need control over the situation. I can't just fling myself around all detached and not giving a fuck while still pursuing something. There has to be some kind of method that works for me, on most women. I hate going in blind to anything. I want to be sure of something. This is just my opinion, but wanting to get leverage over a potential part…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:52 AM
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Yeah, but I can't bring myself to actually like women if they are this way. I've thrown them off the pedestal and now they're dirt to me, so the only reason I'd want to associate with them is to show how cool I am for eating dirt to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:44 AM
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This is a blue pilled point of view. Imagine if some rich fat girl offered to fund the rest of your life and you didn't have to work. It would be enticing to you wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:41 AM
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It seems like it doesn't matter how much you know them or not. They have to let you win. You can't get by them or trick them into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:39 AM
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they don't want a 'boring' straight-edge homebody. Fuck you guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:36 AM
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Nope, nothing helps me. I'm just a piece of shit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:35 AM
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Man, you're totally a dude. What's with the self-hate if you're supposedly a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:34 AM
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My personality works just fine on my friends. It's only girls that don't like me. I'm not really a weird person. I just can't get women to like me for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:33 AM
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So black pillers are essentially the most correct in saying that it's looks that get women wet? That's all I want to know. If it's behavior too, the right behavior is an absolute mystery to me. I feel like anything I try, I immediately lose any leverage because it indicates my interest for the woman. I just want to get leverage and I don't understand how the fuck to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:30 AM
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There's no such thing as finding yourself. If you complicate your inner workings too much, you'll kill yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:27 AM
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It's too complicated to find that balance of behavior that you need to pull off if you aren't the super attractive man. I'm just so fucking burnt out on trying to figure out how to get with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:26 AM
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I'm gonna go with getting left behind by girls who go after both. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:23 AM
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In my opinion, your point of view is blue pilled. Women are all about dem athletic males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:22 AM
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Exactly, I don't know where this idea that white people are peak SMV comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:19 AM
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Black is worse but not necessarily a death sentence This is the one I don't get. I thought girls were all about that BBC ya know? I'd be abusing the shit out of that meme if I was black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:19 AM
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We disagree about respect again. I'd respect the prison warden more because he's doing an important job. The DJ is more like an idol, and I don't like feeling like I'm worshiping someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:17 AM
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I operate from a VERY liberal view of sexuality. My only problem with that is that sex is not inclusive like every other liberal position. It's exclusive in a sense and therefore not consistent with other liberal values. You have to look a certain way and act a certain way to get it. You can't just go all gender nihilism and expect something to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:10 PM
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I get if you come to an understanding, but I wouldn't use the word respect. When you hear someone say: "I respect women", you don't think: "I fuck the shit out of them while they're bound and gagged and call them my little slut." I mean, can you understand my perspective at all? When people say "be respectful" at an event or function, sometimes they will literally mean don't hit on people. Sex is like the opposite of being respectful. It's as raunchy as you can get. I think we could be dealing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 05:33 PM
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My point is that "respect" is a conversation that happens outside of sex. You don't get hard to how much you and your partner have mutual respect. It's more like, okay, now we've established respect, let's switch gears and have kinky sex. Most kinky sex acts in my mind, are so divorced from that initial conversation, that what you're basically saying is that because you're consenting to disrespect, it's respectful. That's fair enough. It just doesn't fit together well in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:59 PM
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It's first off based on mutual respect The idea of sex and mutual respect being anywhere near each other is such a dissonant idea to me. Like, who thinks about respect when they're horny? How do those two things go together at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:32 AM
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I don't know. What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:17 AM
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Well if they think the guy is so special than it's about them having the audacity to think they can pull off snagging him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:56 AM
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Me knowing this, doesnt make me happy, it makes me sad, but it at least prepares me for what I'm up against. It might make you sad, but I think the main feeling you feel as a result of TRP is the relief that you don't have to do anything for women anymore. I prefer the uncomfortable truth over a comforting lie. Of course, but the "uncomfortable truth" makes you feel enlightened and superior. Everyone's attracted to "dark truths" and when they learn them, while they'll always argue that they don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:24 PM
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I hope girls realize that a guy in that position has too great of a life to ever be impacted by that "insult".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:13 PM
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Generally, people are just nicer and more talkative. Hmm, oddly this changes for me depending on my mood and my vocal intonation more than anything else. If I'm winning, and everything is going well during a certain day, people are nicer to me. I also actually started to get matches on Tinder too. Are your matches very attractive? Some girls surprised me with how forward they were. I thought I was in the Twilight Zone, girls who barely knew me just wanted to fuck, and they weren’t afraid to show…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:09 PM
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It’s weird how I don’t even feel physically attracted to girls anymore. While I don't think this is true, I think it is possible to control your mind to the point where you're not focused on the sexual aspects of bodies. I believe you could easily become sexually attracted to women if you started looking at them and thinking about them sexually again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:40 PM
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I'm feeling that getting kids to exercise from a young age and not play video games all day might solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:55 PM
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Oh, well of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:53 PM
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those men with the lowest testosterone levels would have to been vastly more successful in reproduction than high T males, which is even more unlikely. Beta bucks perhaps? I mean sure, alphas might be having all the casual sex, but betas are the ones with kids in the end unless they get paternity frauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:27 PM
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dickhead I grow hair on the other two things, but do people ever actually grow hair on their dickhead? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:23 PM
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My understanding is that a cold approach is when you talk to someone you have no mutual friends with or aren't aware of any mutual connections, and a warm approach is where you do have mutual friends and are aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 01:51 AM
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What would you say the most important thing to focus on is during a cold approach? I read a lot of TRP but I found that my knowledge of the concepts didn't directly translate to me implementing them properly partly because it was a lot to think about at once, and partly because taking action is a much different feeling that knowing something. I just stopped reading for a while and approached somewhere between 20-50 women. All of them were rejections. I've had all my sexual success online. I defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 11:45 PM
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Aside from random dick pics, they ranged from "i wanna taste you". To "sup", to "want sum fuk?" On the other side, there are guys who go the extreme nice guy, sjw approach. Thry tend to get ignored or put in the friend zone. Are these two extremes that don't work and you're advocating for balance, or is the first one the one you think works?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 10:44 PM
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Hey I'm new to this sub, could you give me a quick run down on how to max out one's looks? Don't take this as a "just take cold showers bro" comment, but I've found that if you're used to warm water, and you jump in cold water, that is a test of your willpower. Willpower helps you blow past inhibitions until slowly, your willpower is so strong that it's indistinguishable from low inhibitions. Exposure is the best way to go about it. Just approach a woman with no plan and say hi. Don't care about…
/r/BlackPillScience20/02/19 05:39 AM
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To be fair, even though he waited two years, them doing it 2-9 times a week for 8 years seems pretty promising.
/r/BlackPillScience20/02/19 05:19 AM
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At least in my opinion no it doesn't, but at the same time it's kind of complicated. Obviously girls don't like guys who are pussies. This is of course assuming my definition of confidence is correct. I've always seen it as a rather vague word. Initially I just thought it was a lack of fear, but some people argue that there's a charisma component too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:37 PM
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To some extent. I think there are men that don't look like they have anything wrong with them to men that look either average or ugly to women, and that there are some men that look ugly to men but are actually extremely attractive to women. There's probably some intuitive agreement even if the person judging isn't gay though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:32 PM
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I mean everyone gets older, so could that perhaps be the reason they lose desire over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:21 PM
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shift the goal posts from "be a player" to "regularly bang models" I thought the whole point of the "player" title was that you were good with women of all levels of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:18 PM
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Confidence isn't intended to "work". It's intended to allow you to pursue all the opportunities available to you. If you've got the balls to approach anyone, then you'll have more potential prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:11 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:08 PM
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Ugly to you because you're not gay. Definelty is easier being confident the better looking you are. This always sounds like it's implying that confidence is the main factor in attracting someone and the looks are irrelevant as long as they have the confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:06 PM
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Well I've approached like 20-50 times and got nothin, so it's definitely not approaching itself that gets you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:34 PM
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It wasn't a personal thing. I just feel that getting a job is a completely merit based thing and there's no reason to complain about it. Being short and complaining about it I totally understand because you've got little control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:01 PM
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Statistics show that women don't date jobless men but men don't mind dating jobless women I've never had a problem with this standard. Get a job you god damn bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:57 PM
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Well, if I feel so compelled to nuke the world, my moral evaluation becomes and evolutionary one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:31 PM
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I don't really respect the things that girls like. Low on the social totem pole means nothing to me. If you're always taking social risks (depending on what you mean by that) you're going to lose friends not gain them. I don't know, everything is stupid. When I'm in this bad mood about this stuff if I could nuke the world I would. There's no reason for things to be one way or the other. This world could easily have popped up with some different mechanics. Idk man...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:48 AM
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Alright, under the condition that they are 16, a virgin, and naive, I'll give you that it's creepy then. Still I believe 16 year olds are wiser to that sort of stuff than you're giving them credit for. I'm 21 btw so I'm not sure where I fall on your creepiness scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:50 AM
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As soon as they start fucking each other I stop having empathy for them as "little kids". A lot of 16 year olds have been around enough to be conscious enough to resist some creepy guy trying to groom them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:20 AM
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They all have vaginas and tiddies, so that's a start. The next step is to expand upon that to check for other commonalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:28 AM
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Okay so 14 and under, I totally get the aversion, but 16... I don't really see the issue. I understand though if the guy is like 50 or something, but I don't think 50 year olds are able to easily manipulate 16 year olds into having sex with just because the girls are young and "naive". Most of them I imagine are going to have that same "ew" reaction that you have that an older guy is into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:05 AM
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That can be pretty comfy while you regain the motivation and the hope to get back out there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:56 AM
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I recall when I lost my V card I was honestly thinking "Thats it?". That's what happen to me, except I paid for it because I was just done with trying to "figure it out".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:45 AM
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As a once very skinny boi, there is such a thing as too skinny. Also, "don't be fat" isn't the only threshold one has to get through. If it is, then you're Chad underneath all that fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:27 AM
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Have you considered bloatmaxxing for that strongman build? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:24 AM
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If she wants a traditional man who's religious and she cares about her own integrity, then staying a virgin until marriage is the way to go. There's something special to me about those relationships. I'm not a religious man myself, but I admire that relationship style.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:22 AM
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I doubt that tbh. I get feelings for women, but I'm not thinking oh wow, how very feminine she is with the youth and the fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:31 PM
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they only look for youth and looks. Yes, this is true. As long as your sluttery isn't public knowledge, a man will wishfully believe that you're pure. Just don't be transparent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:30 PM
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What stops you from just jacking off if pussy and girls are so shit? I don't understand. Maybe I'm throwing it too far into the volcano?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:27 PM
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I'm fine with that being attractive, but I don't think neuroticism stops you from being capable of killing someone to physically protect someone. Therefore, I disagree with your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:17 PM
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How do you maintain motivation to pursue pussy when it's off the pedestal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:05 PM
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The way I see it is, you see an opportunity/risk, and then take action to get there that typically involves routine and discipline. The risk comes if all that routine and discipline means nothing and you wasted time and money trying to get there. I can't imagine any guy making it anywhere with anything if he just fires from the hip all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:01 PM
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A nervous, neurotic, routine-obsessed guy strikes out here. That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 09:36 PM
1

Why was she hypergamous though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:09 PM
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Female thirst would appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:56 PM
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Ironically, there was one instance, where I was sitting on a bench meditating and this girl probably thought I was depressed or something so she bought me some food lol. I don't think girls or guys invite strangers to hang out with them unless they are sexually attracted to those strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:57 AM
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I think that a lot of women think it's better to tell someone a lie so that they aren't hurt than to tell them the truth and hurt their feelings. Men think the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:10 PM
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They are to me, or at least most of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:02 PM
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To be fair, a lot of guys when they're in love with a girl don't want her to have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:50 PM
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It's legal where I'm at too. This might sound weird to some people, but I've come to a point where I don't mind so much about the age where I lost my virginity, which was 19, as long as I could have sex with a 16 year old. I'm currently 21. The women I've had sex with have all been 18-25. Did your social circle just expand to 16 and 17 year olds or did you cold approach girls who just happened to be that age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:57 AM
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I've fucked four different pussies and I'm 21. I was surprised at how underwhelming it was. Maybe it was just because two of them were paid and the other two weren't very attractive to me, but what are you hoping to get out of it? It was also all with condoms so maybe some raw pussy is a different experience. You can always think about what you don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:34 AM
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How do you address issues like this? I think I have a thing where I self-sabotage, but sometimes I feel like if I think I have that issue and dwell on it, it just perpetuates itself. It seems way too complicated to figure out. Like, I might diagnose myself on a particular day, but then once I get a good night's sleep I feel completely different and almost embarrassed if I told someone what I was feeling on that day. There are just so many different ways I can look at myself and it seems like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:31 AM
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All of the working women I've heard of have required condoms, so idk how STDs would get around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:58 AM
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What if it became normal for the every day girl to be a prostitute though? That'd be kind of nice if there was an abundance of hot girl prostitutes so that it brought down the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:56 AM
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I like the new flair change lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:35 AM
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No I won't suck your cock you homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:32 AM
1

How do you go about getting those experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:19 PM
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Maybe so, but I've never had one that gave me insight enough to write a whole book of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:01 PM
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I think religion is where ethics stem from. Some people might believe they're above the law because the people who enforce them are just men, but if you can get people to believe in an all powerful force that judges their actions when they move on to the next life, that may recruit more of those who would otherwise rebel and break the law to be good people. I don't believe in the theories that say religion was a coping mechanism or came about randomly. I'm pretty dead set on the idea that the fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 06:55 PM
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It gives them more meaning in their lives, but that doesn't always necessarily mean pleasure. Were you arguing against something I said or were you just curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 06:20 PM
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She's an ISIS bride so obviously someone seduced her in some way. Whether you think it's because they were alpha or they had some other method, that's up to you, but they clearly made her want to be with them and have kids with them. Is there any refuting that the ISIS guys are alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:10 PM
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It’s probably due to radicalization, more than “oh those isis terrorists are just so alpha”. You said what it didn't involve. I just have a problem with words people use because they heard them on the news somewhere but don't really understand the whole meaning of. To me whenever people use the word "radicalization" on the news, it sounds like they're just taking all the responsibility away from the "radicalized" person. It also sounds like one of those scary words that people think could happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:01 PM
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radicalization And how do you think that works? You think they just send them their radicalization potion in the mail for her to drink and after she drinks it she has no choice but to join ISIS? I'm sure the process of radicalization is a lot more complicated than just the word and seeing the ISIS terrorists as alpha could very well be part of it. is it really any surprise she wants to come home now? And get to have her baby and get off scot-free from a death sentence? Naaahhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:51 PM
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Well it's a mixture of both those things. Women fucking alphas and cucking betas is pretty offensive, but when the alpha is a terrorist, that's ultra offensive. It's the whole "Fuck women for liking bad boys." taken to an extreme level. It's totally justifiable in this case because the guy is literally a bad guy and there's no way you can refute it by saying: "Well at least he's an honest terrorist unlike those nice guys. REEEEEEEE" Her and her baby on the way should be shot if she comes back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:43 PM
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She comes back, the UK should shoot her in the back of the head ISIS style.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:38 PM
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I've never understood the race one. I identify with my family more than anything in that regard. I want my family's genetic line to continue. I don't give a shit about white people as a whole unless I knew every single one of them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:47 PM
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Does everyone just think white girls are the hottest? Jeez. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:43 PM
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Hmm, didn't do anything sexual today, but still didn't figure that more sex was happening than already happens every day on a college campus lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:26 AM
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Men have it too easy so they want to become women. In what way do men have it easy? If more societal pressures existed on them they wouldn't even think about how women have it so easy What societal pressure actually does what it's intended to do and doesn't compel people to rebel and do the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:51 AM
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I mean, that's fair, but someone in their family built that from the ground up so that the next generations wouldn't have to work. Maybe your family isn't in that situation, but someone down your generational line could be if you selflessly sacrifice yourself to grinding for them. Maybe the next generations don't "deserve" it, but the man who grinded to get that money snowballing deserves to have it go where he wants it to go. Can't you relate to that sentiment? Wouldn't you like to be able to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:10 PM
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That's the common ground that brings them all together and what makes them MGTOW in the first place, so it's basically a bunch of promotion material for new MGTOWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:23 PM
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I honestly don't mind that women pick their partners this way because I think money is the most merit based standard they have. If you work hard for it you can get a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:44 PM
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Yeah, people want physically attractive people to see their inner beauty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:42 PM
3

I don't personally. If men were entirely judged by how much money they made that would be okay with me because money is merit based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:41 PM
0

It's not that there's necessarily anything wrong with being attached in this way, it's just that it's a high risk strategy. It's a possibility that she'll reject you and you'll be fucked up. That's why most people rather than looking for the one before they even secure a relationship with that person, go through a series of not very serious relationships to try to find someone that they click with and who makes them want to take that relationship to the next level. If you try to find the one by …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:50 AM
2

I think it might be more of a MGTOW topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:10 AM
9

pinning me down in an argument as abusive Is this like in a flirty way to try to take the pressure off? I'm trying to imagine how this pinning down someone in an argument works as a straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:51 AM
3

I feel like men and women feel the same attraction, but they focus on different aspects of it when they are post-rationalizing it. Men don't want to say they liked her for her personality because it makes them seem like a romantic little pussy and girls don't want to say they like guys for their looks because that makes them look shallow or like sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:12 PM
1

I still feel like in this state of not caring I won't put enough effort in to peak anyone's interest. I have to activate this desperation within me to even put forth effort. I don't know how to take action non-desperately, because all my motivation seems to come from desperation. It's confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:34 PM
1

Yes. I don't think I can just make the fact that people are ugly go away with my mind if that's what you're saying. It doesn't change into a not shallow world if I'm the only one who thinks so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:56 PM
-1

I want control over women, otherwise I don't want anything to do with them. I want mostly everything to go to my liking in my interactions with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:06 AM
1

To me the idea of always being prepared to ditch the girl I'm with for another has made being with a girl at all unappealing because it makes the experience not very special.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:04 AM
1

It's mainly the "The women you know now aren't the women who hurt you" argument that stops me from expressing the red pill rage to women. I'm more in a red pill depression. You should hurt the people who hurt you if you really want revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:01 AM
1

I can see that people will exploit you when you're weak, but I don't really know what I want from relationships anymore with that in mind. I also have trouble conceptualizing how I can go about being kinda interested rather than obsessed. I'm going through this phase where I'm not very interested in anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:56 AM
1

I think something that might be good for you is to remember women you're not attracted to. Fat women, ugly women, old women, boring women. Surely you'll have met many. Realize that you were the male equivalent of those women--even if they're fine people with good hearts, you don't want to date them or have sex with them, and that's that. This just makes me depressed and makes me want to become a monk somewhere and not deal with the shallow world. Ugly men and ugly women alike make me sad. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:20 AM
2

One does not simply become Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:06 AM
1

Yeah, some people with good skin act like people with acne must be just sticking their face in mud and not bathing. I wonder if it's mood related though. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:34 PM
2

My first girlfriend who I just wanted to be done and marry was a plump emo chick. She did herself up well. The fact that she was a little fat didn't change the fact that I liked her a whole lot, and when she ghosted me, it led me to having an existential crisis. You know what, I do kind of agree with you, but I was arguing with you like you were talking like peak attractiveness is what's necessary. There are girls who I may or may not have banged, who I'd never want to be seen in public with or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:19 PM
1

Tfw you have no belly but you still aren't Chad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:01 PM
0

doesn't take care of his skin Does he "not take care of his skin" or he just cursed with acne genetics? Does everybody with perfect skin have to do something to maintain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:47 PM
2

A dick doesn't get hard at the thought of how sweet and kind someone is. A vagina doesn't get wet at the thought of how good and virtuous someone is. Looks matter. They're not everything but there has to be a signal that our lizzard brain accepts so that we are able to mate. And this legitimately makes me not want to have a relationship. I thought it would do something for me that apparently it doesn't provide. First of all i would have no trouble gaining 300 lbs. I would throw up before being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:42 PM
0

You mentioned in another comment you specifically asked them not to discuss other men. If you weren’t dating, you wouldn’t be entitled to that, and it could be a covert contract you made with them. So because I don't have a covert contract with a woman I can take a dump on her face because she's not entitled to the lack of dump on her forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:12 PM
2

gain 300 lbs Gl with that lol. I'm trying to gain weight right now and it's not an easy task to gain that much. You'd have to actually try to dive bomb yourself into the ground. I don't see how a relationship works where you both acknowledge that if the other wasn't hot you wouldn't be together. I look at ugly people in relationships, and they seem more happy like their relationships have meaning. Hot people together are just all frowny faced and superiority-complex looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:09 PM
3

You know, I've actually gotten a step beyond you, and if you decide to approach more, your next wall is going to be when you start getting numbers, but then none of them actually respond to you. Really, you shouldn't assume something is an IOI until it actually turns into something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 02:54 AM
1

I'm 21, so maybe I'm just moralizing and if I was put in the right situation I would, but I really don't think I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:48 AM
2

What I feel like helped me more was cold showers. When I was used to warm water, feeling the cold water made me very afraid of jumping in. In overcoming that fear, I was able to apply that experience to approaching. It's a matter of developing willpower and just walking over there with the determination of a god damn hitman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:45 AM
1

Maybe I just have a lower sex drive than some people, but I've never understood why one absolutely needs to have sex right this moment to the point where they would cheat on their partner. I lived long enough not having sex to know that it won't kill me to wait until I get home to my partner. I think one should feel a sense of obligation to your partner. I wouldn't see the relationship as fulfilling if I cheated on her. I hate to see happy faces that are happy about something untrue. It bothers …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:37 AM
3

While my upper body might be nervous, I've learned to just move my ass and legs over there and then I'm forced to say something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:49 AM
1

Are you serious? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:28 PM
5

TBH any guy who says they enjoy cold approach is lying, it is terrifying. I like being able to do it. I approached so much that I don't really feel that much anxiety. I could go up to any woman I wanted to, but the real question is whether or not it would lead to anything. It's just nice knowing I have the balls though and that transfers to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:26 PM
2

It's definitely talked about on the red pill sometimes. Considering what they want it's the ideal situation for them to be bum Chad. It's pretty funny from a red pill perspective that some people think that bum Chad gets a bad deal because he doesn't get to "keep her".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:01 PM
2

Because it means you don't value your partner that much and you should just have casual sex with a bunch of women instead and be an eternal bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:42 PM
1

I really don't understand how someone can be good at seducing girls on the front end but not maintaining it. It seems like he'd be going around breaking hearts and not having his heart broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:36 PM
1

I feel like you can't actually study personality traits concretely. How are you supposed to measure romanticism in a "study"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:33 PM
3

How's it suppose to be an effective strategy for pursuing women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:41 PM
1

If they're just normal people that strips me of my motivation to pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:11 PM
1

Nah, everyone sharing the women and things being more meaningful is better. It's all over when the nut busts but a meaningful framework for society can last a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:32 PM
1

If you were looking for something serious that would make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:25 PM
1

I lost my virginity at 19, did I make it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:24 PM
1

Was this a girlfriend of yours who accepted your virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:23 PM
2

Yeah, how convenient that would be to girls if male virgins were okay with their place. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:21 PM
1

It's more like on the way to the top there's just this gap where somebody would have to hold the ladder and I'd have to jump for it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:58 PM
3

Tbh, this is what I expected to happen, but there seems to me to be rungs in my ladder missing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:50 PM
3

I think OP is a woman, or claims to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:45 PM
1

What if she was a bit manipulative, and as a result of being heartbroken by her, I became much more cynical and closed off from flashy personalities? I feel like that gave me a motivator to kick my brain into shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:27 PM
1

I'd say if I was allowed to watch with a shotgun. I'd be like "You guys better make this good because this'll be the last time for the both of ya."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:12 AM
1

and the guy more or less left at my command See, I don't understand how this makes up for the loss of dignity from letting your partner get banged. It's an oxymoron to me. Like somehow because the guy leaves when you say so you're the boss? Nah, the guy fucking your girl is the boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:06 AM
1

The Chad Chonk versus The Virgin WestsideMoonWalker! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:01 AM
1

Nope. They cheat on you, you ghost them. That's what happens. That's justice. Cheating is the crime, death in your partner's mind is the sentence. Clearly their emotions overpowered any guilt they had about the situation. Their efforts won't help if the thing that led them to cheating in the first place is a lack of impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:00 AM
1

Nah they just have a whole soundboard in their furry suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:53 AM
1

You've got to be on this same level of pussy getting versus dick getting I feel like. Which basically means you've gotta be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:52 AM
2

You bring up a good point my good sir. If anyone who's gone infertile who didn't have any kids isn't plotting to nuke the entire planet, they're a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:49 AM
3

That's fine with me. I'm not sure what we're all replicating for. What are we building up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:47 AM
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