WhatIsThereToLose Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
379	Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic group	RED FLAG 🚨	WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 10:59 PM
269	Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about us	STAY WOKE	WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/21 08:03 PM
185	Taking a lady out on a date used to be a privilege for men. When and why did it become a "nuisance"?	DISCUSSION	WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 02:06 PM
166	How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?	FDS RESCUE MISSION	WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 02:40 PM
1	Found quite the catch, ladies!		WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/20 10:46 PM
0	Narcissistic scrote has been manipulating me for 5 years and making me miserable.	RANT	WhatIsThereToLose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 10:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	Just seen on relationshipadvice... guess it's about us He searched her Instagram name on Reddit. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/21 08:16 PM
52	Dating Profile Translations and jokes, a field guide and PSA. "Whoever matches last, texts first"/"Girls should be able make the first move" - I am lazy and low effort, so prepare for a walk to the field or netflix at my neckbeard nest (you can bring the wine)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 08:48 PM
7	OC I'm dead	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 06:17 AM
8	How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me? Yep! NOTHING good ever comes out of "staying friends" with your ex. Even if you don't end the relationship on bad terms, always cut the contact. The naive and co-dependent me from the past tried "remaining on good terms" with my ex, which was incredibly toxic with him being passive (and even not so passive) aggressive towards me. I am, unfortunately, guilty of the occasional stalking, but I am working on that and telling myself they are not worthy of my time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 08:08 PM
11	How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me? Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. You mentioned great and valid points - it is so important to realize that the low effort guy did not magically turn into a loving and caring HV boyfriend for somebody else over night!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 03:41 PM
13	How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me? This is a very good approach!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 03:12 PM
14	When guys claim to like you or want a relationship but try to get you to lower the bar. I completely agree. I used to be a desperate pickmeisha and make up all kinds of excuses for shitty men ("he is just shy/busy/unexperienced...") to convince myself to give them a chance. Now I walk away at the first sign of LVM behavior - and until now, sadly, this behavior always showed pretty soon. But I am definately happier since I save myself a lot of drama that way. No more time wasting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 01:26 PM
29	When guys claim to like you or want a relationship but try to get you to lower the bar. Totally this! I once texted with a guy who seemed pretty decent and we agreed on a restaurant date for the next day. Shortly before the date he texts me whether I'm down to "cook together at his place" instead. I noped out immediately and deleted him. So be careful even if he invites you for a real date - he might still try to convince you to go for some low effort activity instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 11:28 AM