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| 33 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoIf your given a bowl of skittles, maybe 1000, and you're told "995 of these are poisoned and will kill you. But 5 are normal skittles," are you going to eat the skittles? Age gap relationships are those skittles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 13 | Controlling Behavior Re: Chores & MoneyIf you don't have the courage to leave yet, at least stop caring about his chores. Don't do them and don't care they aren't done. If he gets mad, ask him to show you how it should be done. Then compliment his work and thank him for taking that work load off you from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 13 | Controlling Behavior Re: Chores & MoneyWhenever someone critiques the way I do I chore I tell them it's their responsibility now, since they do it better, and walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:09 AM |
| 76 | Broke up with a psycho, afraid of him retaliating. SOS.replace your strike plate screws when you change the lock/rekey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 14 | Men with sistersSometimes people are simply incompatible. Neither of you is "wrong" but your views and expectations just don't align. Don't enter a relationship where either of you has to change your worldviews, it will only build resentment. | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 12 | It is possible for a HVM to like a girl back after she had feelings for him years ago?One of the key traits an HV person has is that they don't date if they are dealing with personal issues. HV can meet a person that is a good match, but not pursue them when they KNOW they can't be a good partner. If they are still connected years later after their growth and establishment is done and chose to pursue then it could work out. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 11 | Should I confront my fwb?I’m ashamed of myself A bad decision is not "yourself" in entirety. This is a moment of growth and part of it feels shitty, but you're a better person for realizing it's not right and ending it. There are women who do this for years with a guy just hoping one day he'll pick her. That's not you, and we're proud of you. Now, did you block&delete him yet? | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 18 | Should I confront my fwb?Confront him about what? You know that FWB doesn't actually mean "friends" in any sense of the word. All those characteristics (he’s at the club trying to fuck other girls...he is ashamed/embarrassed of me) are definitions of FWB, which is why FDS is so against them. You deserve better. Block and delete. | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 7 | When is it appropriate to get married?Both of you are still growing and maturing (the brain grows until at least 25 years old). Getting married before then isn't advised because it's possible you will simply grow apart on fundamental world views (kids, finances, education, politics, etc). The FDS rules on marriage are for later in life, after education and establishment. Only you can say if a promise ring matters to you or not, and your opinion is the only one that matters on YOUR decision to have one or not. Promise rings, engageme… | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 53 | What’s up with men asking for your number but never texting you back?They are collecting numbers to use later. These are 2 am "hey" boys. These are 6 months later "How's it going beautiful" boys. These are LVM who copy-paste the same text to 15 women every 15 minutes until a pick-me shows up at their door. It's a mass text numbers game. The solution is to not give out your snap or IG (or WhatsApp, kik, whatever else exists). Any guy who asks for those is looking for a hookup. Block & Delete/(unmatch). | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 04:49 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond when men ask questions or make comments about your intelligence?You've gotten great advice so I'm just going to leave a little levity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:51 AM |
| 84 | I tried to highlight the worst parts, but it's all so bad... 😬That is clearly a man living in a day dream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 4 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.This is exactly on point with the reality that MEN BABY TRAP WOMEN at an astronomically higher percentage than the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 28 | Please be especially careful with this type of narcissist!I hate that people do this stuff while driving. Distracted driving isn't charming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 44 | Anybody see thisLast year the link was posted on FDS and I went and found both of my NVX's daughters (my former step children), his niece, and their friends on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 8 | The only D you need is Dignity (and sometimes Divorce)Save this post for when you have those urges. Take care of who you'll be tomorrow, and she will support your decisions today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 53 | The only D you need is Dignity (and sometimes Divorce)I had the urge to go to a bar and drink last night. Instead I snuggled up with my dogs and put on a science channel and woke up rested with the same amount in my bank account. I went on a 5 mile run to reward myself for making better decisions. Level up, be the beautiful person you were born to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 37 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I love this! It will also help with women to see the real difference between behavior from a man who is LVM and the palpable damage of the behavior of men who are NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 25 | Justin Bieber has smacked Hailey (his wife) on camera HOW IS HE NOT CANCELLED??Why hasn’t he been cancelled?? Because US media does not care about men who beat women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 45 | Mother of X, Daughter of Y, Girlfriend of ZWhen you bring up "what do YOU want in this situation", they never really know what to answer I was this person before FDS. I still struggle to identify my wants far too often because growing up and in my relationships I was not allowed to have my own wants. It is why I placed too much need to being in a relationship. Every day is a challenge to be decisive and I know it's because my pickme mother chose a forever boyfriend who raises me to made sure I hated myself enough to be valuable to a man.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 48 | Men project their "wall" onto women because the truth is...Timestamp 3:00 - In humans, if an expectant mother is exposed to phthalates between week 8 to 12 of the embryo's development they can disrupt testosterone and lead boys coming out with **decreased penis size**, lower sperm counts, and smaller ADG, a smaller taint | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 30 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InWhy are you talking to you ex at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:00 PM |
| 111 | Last red flag: would you do my pedicure?"We met on Reddit" ...The men on reddit are mostly predators. The men that will DM you 100% are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 80 | You should still get std tests even when you are in a relationship.This. When I left my husband of almost 9 years I found out I had an untreated STI. I will never know how long I had it, but it was likely years. I am childfree, but for all I know he made me sterile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 91 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottles👁👄👁 ..... ... I need eyebleach from reading that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 181 | He was my best friend for over a decade until I realized four years ago that he had been sexual abusing and manipulating me for years. He texted me this out of the blue from a new number after blocking him on everything. Thank you to FDS for giving me the strength and courage to not respond."You got off lucky" ....Well that's a thinly veiled threat of harassment. This guy just checks off all the red flag warnings back to back to back. Entitled, ignorant, "I love you like a friend," you owe me, answer me give me attention, I've done nothing to improve myself and that should be your problem not mine, me me me me me me me. Sloppy texting is gross. I'm sorry you had to read that. This gives me inspiration to delete unsolicited messages without killing my brain cells to read them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 12 | LVM early red flag: InvalidationThat post that went around several women's subreddits about medical ailments that went away after a break up was unreal and eye opening. Sounds like you experienced it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 71 | Are you f$&@ing kidding me?They spent more time trying to back track "I don't mean be subservient" and no time making an actual point. In the comments it plays out to the same old "women need to fix toxic masculinity." Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 29 | The front page just re-traumatizes me all over againThat video is a follow up. Last week they had court and he was at the victims house. I'll find the video but it's terrifying. The DA (?) called out that she felt he was at her house and called the cops to check on her. Low and behold he was in fact threatening her for the court hearing. EDIT: I think the video was taken down but tons of reports show up. I'm still looking for it though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 19 | My pickme SIL sent me this. She loves it and hopes I'll like it too! 🤡They left out the part where you pick up the warm moist poop with a thin plastic bag. And where it's barking so hard at the wind it farts in your face. And when you wake up at 2am because it's vomiting in your hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:37 AM |
| 30 | Media consumption and animeI hate to break it to you, but Disney isn't great for women either. As a Beauty and the Beast style marriage survivor, the abuse nearly killed me. As a Cinderella style house manager, I cleaned more hours than I slept. I thought I married price charming but he just liked that I didn't have to lean how to clean to his mother's standards. As a snow white style caregiver, I was outnumbered and constantly waiting on thankless assholes. Those princesses made me think that's what a good woman and wife… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Anthony Spade - LVM. Avoid this type of man and all men in the comments."Attract to a bad woman" --- I have never heard that phrase and he kept saying it over and over. "Keep a bad girl as a friend...they come in handy when you're bored" -- no comment needed "She makes you laugh when you're mad" --- yeah, women are good at defusing tense situations SO WE DON'T GET MURDERED "If she's good in bed" --- 😂😂😂😂 bro is going to tell on himself like this‽‽‽ The comments are even worse than the video. The age of everyone wanting to be a vital video had opened depraved degener… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:23 AM |
| 38 | PSA! This has always been accurate for me 😂Men that hit never stop hitting. He'll hit a wall, then a door, then you, then your replacement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:42 AM |
| 97 | PSA! This has always been accurate for me 😂Chris Brown is trash. Fuck him. Fuck her for being a fan of him after what he did. He's not a good example of anything except if how cancel culture doesn't care about domestic violence. The report for those who have forgotten | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 149 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I was diagnosed with bipolar, depression and anxiety. Heavily medicated for years with little improvement. 2 months after leaving my ex I was fully cured. I have CPTSD but therapy has helped me through a lot. You're not crazy, he's an asshole. EDIT: reading how many other women have been through this really breaks my heart, but it's also giving me a huge rush of confidence. I've never seen so many abuse survivors come together in solidarity and support. It makes me feel awful but powerful that I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Guys think about thisI went through 4+ years of martial rape, several times a month. At the time I didn't know what was really happening. I was a good wife who was never supposed to tell her husband no, then I was the good wife willing to experiment, then I was the good wife willing to try because it makes him happy. By the end of it TW (I don't know how to do the black out thing, sorry) he was holding me down while I disassociate enough not to cry because crying only made him angry and rougher as he routinely enjoy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 77 | "When 1 in 10 men are shit and 9 do nothing, you may as well not be there"Daniel Sloss is the comedian in the clip. He has amazing shows 10/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:15 AM |
| 20 | Couch creatures deluxe: Bachelor Home Makeover - SNLThe video comments a full of men telling on themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 31 | How to deal with the feeling of loneliness?This comment hit me deep because I was in the same spot. I asked my ex to say he loved me because I felt so alone and he refused, left me literally crying in the floor to play on his phone in bed. I'm glad he did because it was what I needed to get the strength to leave. I have never been happy and I never went back. I cringe when I think about how absolutely low and abused I let myself be before I left. This was Match 2019, I found FDS in like November of that year. I wish every girl and woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 30 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowI remember that AITA post. The comments really supported the mom and gave her lots of legal tips for custody. IIRC some labor and delivery nurses talked about how it happens more often than you'd like to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 63 | They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours.He opens with "more than sex" then talks about having a fit body and being a good lay. In the same sentence. Wut 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Beauty and the Beast rantI believe the word you are looking for is 'allegory.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Beauty and the Beast rantignoratio elenchi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Beauty and the Beast rantJust "a cartoon," is that a joke? Children's media is specifically designed to create the next generation of ideals of a society. You really don't understand the importance of what children are exposed to and the specific goal and psychological development that children's shows are aimed to achieving. You're still brainwashed from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Beauty and the Beast rantPhysical attraction is literally the only thing he has for her. Does he enjoy her wit? No, she used a fork in her hair. He thinks she's dumb AF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Beauty and the Beast rantOr He thought she was pretty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Beauty and the Beast rantWhy don't you enlightening us, but don't use any words to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 12 | Here's a good example of my exes are "crazy"Whaaaaaaaattt the fuck was that. Her exasperation was so justified. That man doesn't know the difference between a women and 2 couch cushions, all he knows is that he wants to put his dick in it. Negative. Value. Man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 57 | Is Borderline Personality Disorder the real Battered Woman Syndrome?C-PTSD is often misdiagnosed in women as bipolar mood disorder. Bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder are very similar. You're not crazy, he's an asshole. Please seek to get your diagnosis corrected. Talk to trauma specialists who can correctly identify C-PTSD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 78 | Beauty and the Beast rant👏🏻Disney👏🏻 is👏🏻 misogyny 👏🏻 Sleeping Beauty = rape. The little mermaid = women should be silent Snow white = women should know their place Beauty and the beast = abuse is love The lion king = use women to get to the top I fucking hate Disney. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Opening linesAny boy who starts with Hey, [insert objectifying word like baby beautiful sexy smiles honey gorgeous] is an automatic block. He will pump&dump every girl he can. Any clever line is a block, he's copy-pasted it from r/tinder to 100 girls. "Hey" alone is lazy. He matches with everyone and throws it out line a fishing lure. Block I only replied to messages that were written for me specifically. "Good morning/ afternoon/ evening/ Monday" etc, as long as it's accurate to the time and day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 17 | an excellent message!!Thank you for saying this. I was in a traumatic abusive relationship and he had me CONVINCED I was the toxic one. I nearly killed myself trying to be a "decent human being" until one day I gave up and just decided to leave. 6 months of therapy later I finally, through fights and battles with myself, came to understand I was being dehumanized and abused for 9 years. I was an amazing woman the whole time, and I took care of him better than his own mamma 🤮🤮🤮. I will never be that pickmebitch again.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | New FDS Spotify Page! Now with SIX Playlists! Please post any songs you would like to nominate for the playlist under "FDS Anthems" on the Subreddit or the Website! Thanks!Can we get Winona oak - "with myself" added??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 25 | To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process....Give him an anniversary gift he'll never forget, divorce papers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:43 PM |
| -2 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandI honestly mean this question - since this is a hospital situation, a husband has legal rights that boyfriends don't, right? Couldn't that very clear statement and distinction be for HIPPA or something? Or for next of kin decisions or rights? I feel like, in this case, it's an important legal clarification. Am I totally wrong in that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 63 | Men know when men doFIRST OF ALL Any woman on FDS is a WINNER. You're a winner, I'm a winner, we're all winning. Second, I seeno negativity - only real shit reality. Actions of men should always be reviewed with an amount of skepticism and presumption of nefarious intent. That doubt until clearly proven otherwise is key. You're on point. Keep asking the hard questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 115 | Men know when men doI actually agree with you on my first thoughts being that he's doing it out of some selfish reasons, but I posted it because: A lot of men would have forced her to change. Unacceptable. It shows awareness that men leer. 3.*It's a man taking action against the perversions of other men. * | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 15 | Dammit I just realized I’ve been played by a fuckboy. I’ve been out of the dating game a while and am over 30. So I’m new to some things.What he said about his ex is a form of VERY EFFECTIVE manipulation called "triangulation." He would talk to you about her and make you feel insecure then specifically tell you that you're making things up, which is text book gaslighting. The hot - cold /push - pull is also very effective manipulation. This is a bad man, a type of man I was married to for 9 years. It only gets worse. He crafted your emotions to bolster his ego. He kept in contact with you in a way that made it seem like you reach… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 17 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Because of this sub: I no longer make excuses. I no longer give the benefit of the doubt. I no longer wonder if I ~was~ overreacting. I no longer blame myself for being raped, twice. I no longer value attention over dignity. I no longer listen to pickme opinions (my own or others). I no longer allow men to control me. I no longer pay for any dates. I no longer limit myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Throwaway because my boyfriend has my main account. How do I ask to be taken to a nice place for sex?You have the right and ability to change your mind at ANY POINT. It could be today, it could be while you're naked in front of him, it can be after you start having sex. If you don't feel comfortable say, "I'm no longer comfortable, we are stopping." That is 100% morally, socially, legally acceptable. Any man who is upset about concent is selfish and not boyfriend/husband material. Read that again!!! I have been with men who understand this, and men who don't. Do not let a man make you feel bad … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhat red flags do you feel are silly? I had 2 relationships, back to back, 7 years and 9 years. I entered the dating world of 30s with no dating experience and I've had to learn all the red flags late. Honestly, every time I ignored a socially trained flag it came back and bit me. I no longer ignore red flags. Do you know your own red flags? Do you know what bigger issues they signify? Are those issues you have? If the problem the red flag indicates is true, then it's not really a "silly" social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadIt's a bit telling that you called my experience "far fetched" when you've experienced similar manipulation. Why did you try to minimize my history when most people would have been empathetic, you having been the victim of the same ploy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI have too much respect for people to hold on to a maybe, someday, backup. I know some people do but I don't want anyone to feel like they were my back up, or that I was theirs. If there is any romantic possibility its either a yes and we date, or a no and we cut off and move on. Holding on to "maybe" people is a distraction from bettering yourself at best, and an insult to them at worst. I think you're ability to see when you're being real is amazing. Why aren't you just ALWAYS real? If you mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI stated my personal experience, that's neither grasping nor far fetched. I stated that it's not exclusively women who do it. Again, not grasping or far fetched. It wasn't a statement of greater or less blame, only that its not exclusively one sex. Ya know... "Not all men" etc. Pill, ring, patch, condom - all easily manipulated methods of BC. ?thanks? for stating the obvious? It is hard to manipulate surgically implanted devices. Vasectomies are hard to reverse. I can state the obvious too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWow, you are condescending. I have gone on first dates with men who likely don't get many second dates because they make comments like you just did. Your comment would have been strong if only you'd been able to control your personal insults and keep to the argument at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadNo, I believe they should not expect to date their female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou be their friend. Yes!! You date them No. I have male friends that I talk to about their dating experience and issues and we learn a lot from each other. We discuss why things aren't working and the challenges each of us face. But we would never date. That's the limit we've set and it's the only reason they value my input. I fully believe that if we dated they would change and start claiming emotions, not logic, are my main drive and stop hearing me. But I agree that having interactions is ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBy tampering with my birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadMy ex of 7 years tried (unsuccessfully) to baby trap me when I told him I was having doubts about our future. I agree it's a morally abhorrent action, but I disagree that it's a female exclusive issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI agree with having a clear and set line between friend and dating partner. If I was dating someone who said they want to "be friends first" I wouldn't continue dating either. Friends are platonic. Building a connection, companionship, and friendship before sex is different from being friends. Saying friendship as part of the relationship is different than just saying just "friends first." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYour original reply was "for the most part yes" Great edit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadAre you saying all women are sex workers in some way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWe also have an epidemic of single fathers, right? It takes 2 to make a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhen talking to a sex worker who sees sex as labor and her profession, that small percentage of women, maybe yeah. Expanding a statement specifically about a niche and taboo industry to "any woman" is not hyperbole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadShe is the type who when asked what does she bring to the table that says “I am the table”. I agree that line is bullshit, but for different reasons than your list. The value of a partner should be known without having to state it. If someone asks me "what do you bring to the table" outside of a formal job interview, I'm leaving. No list of attributes or skills would appease that person. Actions > words. If she wants a man who is chivalrous then she needs to show she is willing to be the house w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWe definitely have some common ground on how we think dating should be. Waiting in the beginning is not the same as going 4 months without after a year together. I wouldn't tolerate a partner that didn't want me sexually after we established a physical relationship. I can see how that experience shaped your views on future relationships, just like it would have for a woman. Men and women are weary and wary of people who are in the dating pool who really should not be. Deceptive people are exaspe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou're only factors to dating are money and sex? You mentioned risk investment by men, but not women. You mentioned time by women but phrased it differently than you did time investment by men. I fully agree that women need to bring value to the relationship and offer an equality of outcome. I think we see different things as items of value. In economic terms, you have a trade deficit with your dentist, but you don't feel like you're getting used. If the only service you feel a woman can provide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 10 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadHonestly, I think if you play you’re cards right, you can still turn it into more than friendship quickly but it’s not worth it. There are other women out there that won’t make you jump through that hoop. This is what the FDS message is about... "Don't be the girl that settles for nothing and brings the bar down." Plus, she wasn’t even fun. I’d entertain it, perhaps, if she was cool and someone I wanted to be around but if you’re cute and boring, I’ll pass on the friendship. Sounds like you were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadcompanionship, bonding and reliableness that I offer So... The relationship part? The part that matters for long term marriage to work? Isn't that what you want too? Everyone knows that if you just want a sex doll you should just get a sex doll (vibrator for women). Honestly, for some people this is all they need - themselves, and it's fine. But they shouldn't try to date if it's not what they want - men and women. Having a matching libido is a challenge for relationships whether they wait 3 mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadCalling out poor behavior is a step to becoming better. They also call out women's behavior they don't approve of (pickmesha) pretty harshly. There is a percentage of members who are more extreme or mad than most. That's true of everything. Anger is part of the grieving process and a lot of women on there are getting out of bad relationships and need support. The anger exists, but advice eventually comes to tell the women to channel that anger into productivity. Learning to change that emotion a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI would love to see the term "scrote" end. I find it gross and demeaning. Luckily, it's not a majority of the comments, like you are implying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 19 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadIf not getting laid is your biggest challenge then exactly the kind of guy meant to be weeded out by the process. Most guys who ghost after sex won't wait 3 months, they break it off long before that. That's the point. I have several friends who would want me to meet the person they're dating and I told them I wouldn't until they've been together for three months, and this is before FDS. Most budding relationships end within the first three months. Waiting to have sex until that critical time fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Why do guys act like this? What’s the deal?He's collecting friends and followers. He wants a good social media image. He's fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 11 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.I have to disagree with the comments saying you have him too much time. I think what you said was real and needed to be said. Your line of questioning was on point (kind of seemed like you already knew the answers tbh). And calling these men out on their shit needs to happen more. I'm tired of being told to ignore indescretions. You the real MVP carrying that to the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Grab some popcorn, An entire thread of men in disbelief of expected typical male behavior so much so they’re gaslighting each other. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. 👌Here is the link with the removed comments readable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 20 | this was posted to r/iamatotalpieceofshit and all of the commenters were sympathizing with the guy in this scenario...they aren’t getting itJust so I'm sure I'm reading it right... She's flirty because she's board. He's also flirty because he's board. He says he's just wasting (everyone's) time. She says he needs to calm down because she's also just wasting (everyone's) time. They both need to get off OLD/Twitter and do some self care. Neither of them have any business "flirting" and need to fill that time with personal development and hobbies. Go for a run or learn to cook... better yet, read a book on interpersonal communication. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 32 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Sounds like the kind of man who was standing next to Sen Yoho when he called AOC a "fucking bitch" and did nothing. A man who is part of the problem by refusing to stand up to the men who violate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 12 | We all know why.I can hear their laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Self Described Unicorn goes off on Tinder when I challenged his ego. Enjoy the lack of self awareness.I hate real estate agents & lenders. It's a cesspool of an industry. I work with so many and 99/100 are insufferable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | They hate it even when women act inside what's considered "our duty". It's always about control, being the breadwinner. Her "trad life" has been a tool of opression for centuries, but God forbid she uses this same trad life to make her own decisions without approval.Here is the archive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:12 AM |
| 25 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.After reviewing the site I knew 5❗‼️‼️FIVE‼️‼️❗, women posted in my area. I reached out to friends and family. Only one girl knew she had been a victim. I haven't felt this low and disgusted in a while. Thank you for sharing this. Please let me know any tips on getting images removed so I can share it with the victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Please help. This was the first person I dated after my divorce. He knew my husband had cheated and he did the same, all while promising he'd love me better. I need a brutal response befitting his scrotacity. All I can do is clench my jaw in silence.I wish there was a way to show people you're leaving their emails on read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 27 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?I don't get why men offer hikes. I tell them I love hiking with friends but there is no way I will go on one with a stranger. Then ask why they think that's a reasonable thing to offer and what woman would feel safe with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 44 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...He has a really common name, I honestly have no idea who he is. 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 56 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursI'd cancel and say the video made you uncomfortable and shows that you are incompatible on a moral/values level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:05 PM |
| 7 | My stepdad is truly thoughtful,I love that my mom married him. I had a small cosmetic surgery today,to prevent disfiguration. My stepdad is out of town for business,he called up his admin to have her go buy me my “creature comforts” to drop them off at the hospital.I love this!!! I think examples of what we SHOULD get is a great post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?R/FemaleDatingStrategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 08:58 PM |
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