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🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah, that’s a thing too. I don’t restrain myself, because I don’t shame myself. Sex and love are two different things. Why don’t people seem to get that? You sound a liiiiiiitle TIIIIINY bit bothered ❤️ up your confidence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:06 AM
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Are you under the assumption that if you do all the right things a man will love you and treat you right? Love and treat yourself right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:12 AM
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No you can let yourself have emotions! You just have to be healthy. A lot of women are groomed to be co-dependent, or show certain traits when dating a man. It’s subconscious. You can have great affection for someone and love spending time with them, and admire them....without needing to be in love or get married. In fact, why don’t people understand that you can be in love for sometimes a short while and it’s okay? Love doesn’t stop just because you dont constantly interact with someone and mov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:11 AM
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All men are Low Value as hell. Some are just financially stable and have basic social graces and are presentable, and have experience with sex. You’ve never had a dude obsessed with you for MONTHS literally sending you gifts and flowers and everything? I have men doing this that I’ve never even gone on a DATE with. They will do anything. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:06 AM
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A woman’s sexual liberation is something men will never understand. Do they really think we LOVE them because they stuck their (plentiful and of low value) cocks in us? 🤣🤣🤣 I’m sorry I get y’all want to date in here but it’s the funniest thing to me. Men are NOT CAPABLE of what you think you want/need. Get your degree, get that job, pay off your car, get the best house that would make ANY bachelor jealous, and work your bad bitch shit. Why are y’all trying to find ONE HVM????? Get yourself THREE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:43 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 JOKES ON THEM. Sometimes we just want to fuck dudes with adequate dicks who fucking worship us, kiss our ass, and eat our pussy for 45 minutes after spending $500 on a date that day. Who is really losing out? 🤣🤣🤣 men really don’t get that we literally flip anything they do and make it positive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am soooo glad I am a woman ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:33 AM
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NP! A mattress is the best investment you’ll make and they last like 5+ years if they’re quality and you take care of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:57 AM
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😭😭😭😭😭 my condolences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:51 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:12 PM
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No way 🤮🤮 I cant even dip my toe in those groups/subs/forums. I always get so skeeved out. I honestly thought those men who do the pickup artist and stuff were just around for like novelty/fandom. I didn’t realize it was a real life thing people do. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:09 AM
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Oh my goddd 🤣 my ex took all this stuff out on credit cards he didn’t pay back, and claimed it was for me (a huge tv, sound system”. Anyway we got married and divorced and the creditors send me shit for the stuff he basically stole, and he STILL claims he bought so many things for me. LIKE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:07 AM
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Nooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 come on my toddler carries at least $2 on him at all times no joke lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:04 AM
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It’s so weird the stuff you start noticing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:02 AM
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True!! Ugh WORST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:02 AM
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YESSSS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:58 AM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I really want to give these women the benefit of the doubt and at least assume they’re trapped in some abusive relationship or something. Which lowkey, they are, and you can’t tell me any different. The way LVM treat women is abuse. Idk it’s the only way my mind can wrap around why women stay with men like this. I just pity them, pray for them, and keep it moving lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:56 AM
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It’s a futon 🤣🤣🤣 dontttt. Just get a normal mattress from a mattress store. Once you invest in a good mattress, you’d never think different. I have a Laura Ashley mattress and even when my friends just casually sit on it they end up rolling across it because it’s sooooo comfyyyyyy No amount of foam is going to compare to 2 feet of springs and another foot of what basically IS a Casper mattress lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:44 AM
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She’ll probably accept being the side chick and still pay for his shit 🤣 I’ve had the misfortune of knowing women like this in real life. They will accept ANY kind of treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:23 AM
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The only thing is what if I walk out and he follows!!! Then we’re just straight dine and dashing at that point 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:21 AM
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And you’re right 🤣🤣🤣 oh god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:20 AM
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HE GRABBED HER AND KISSED HER AFTERWARDS! I’m cringing now. When I was there I just turned away to hide my smirk and played on my phone 🤣🤣 oh godddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:20 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 isn’t it wild how women can be conditioned to do this? Even splitting checks is ridiculous 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:40 PM
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Now THATS the move sis 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:36 PM
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THIS!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:36 PM
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100000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:36 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 exactly!!! And I wouldn’t be embarrassed ever dude! One time I was about 19, and had a big house rented with like 6 roommates. I went out for dinner with one date, came back home, got dressed and went out for drinks with another - the next morning I had a different guy pick me up for breakfast 🤣🤣 my male roommate pulled me aside and was like “I have mad respect for you. Shit you can get it!!! Wow!!” And that always made me confident. Other confident and alpha people know a bad bitch when the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:23 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 thank you!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:19 PM
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EXACTLY!!!! also, even rich dudes are stingy. They do not want to pay for sex which is how they see it. People will argue that the mythical unicorn HVM would build you a castle of fresh picked roses he grew himself out of soil enriched by the corpse of his mother, but like 🤷🏻‍♀️ no. Don’t let anyone tell you different. HVM just have more class and more paitience, but their end goal is the same. If you find a dude, and you’re out of his league, he may scramble to impress you by spending money, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:15 AM
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THISSSS! He “fell asleep” when it was time to give you a commitment and actually schedule the date. I would have blocked him right then. He waited until the actual day and then tried to low scoop you. You knowwww these men totally do this shit as a method 100000% My mom gave me the best tip: plan a date. Let him pick everything. And then tell him your not comfortable, and would like to go to a museum during the day, or get coffee in the morning. His reaction shows what his intents were. When I a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:52 AM
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Exactly!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:14 AM
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This. They are always so bitter. Attractive guys don’t focus on their exes, because they’re focused on you. The times when I was younger and would give the “nice guy” a chance....OOF! I’d gotten actual tirades when I wouldn’t let them up to my apartment. The biggest move these LVM do is essentially BEG you to go out with them, and then they act like they’re doing you a favor. Ugly dudes always wanna act like they’re doing YOU a favor 🤣🤣🤣 like hunny please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:54 AM
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I never give ugly dudes chances. It would be physically painful for me to think about myself kissing or sleeping with them. So why would I even bother? And it may be my sexual fluidity, but women are always beautiful to some extent. A good 30% of men look like they were actually kicked in the face by a donkey lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:46 AM
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100000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:44 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 sis I just went to see Birds of Prey. The theater was empty except for one cute old couple, and a group of 5 early 20s guys. They were pretty quiet the whole movie, and didn’t really laugh or anything. That is, until Harley Quinn got punched in the face. They thought that was HILARIOUS. I can’t even see a movie without being reminded of the walking testicles of garbage everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:39 PM
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EXACTLYYYY. The more hot i get and the more weight I lose, the more dudes are blatantly begging to eat my pussy. It’s because they think they can trap you with bare minimum sexual attention/general attention. Think about it: how desperate would you be as a chick if you kept begging a guy to let you suck his dick? Lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:31 PM
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THANK YOU 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:43 PM
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YESSSS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:42 PM
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Exaccctly 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 01:10 PM
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Yes. We all accept the love we think we deserve. Some women don’t think they deserve much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 12:40 PM
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I’ve always found it odd to desire the company of those who do not want to spend time with you. Of course if women accepted that, it would slowly break down the entire relationship. There’s nothing sadder than seeing couples arguing in the bread aisle. I’m just gonna get the stuff for my charcuterie board and quietly leave before rolls start getting chucked 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:14 AM
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And most of them do. Maybe if you institute a very clearly defined household duties chart (AND STICK TO IT EVERY SINGLE DAY), and make a very clearly defined work hours/income chart.....I dunno. That’s the only way to be “safe” I can think of. Because of society though, we’ll always be the ole ball and chain, and they’ll always be “good” dads and husbands for doing the bare fucking minimum lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:32 AM
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I feel bad for ANY woman when a marriage is announced. Even with “HVM”, women statistically will be doing a majority of the housework. And god forbid there’s any kids - women are alone in that aspect too. She’s gonna be real sad real soon. It happens to all of us once or twice before we learn our lesson (usually).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:55 AM
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100000000% ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:53 AM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 yessss! Put this on my tombstone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:29 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you!! You’re putting yourself in a personal hell if you surround yourself with low value women. It’s important to surround yourself with people you aspire to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:23 PM
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Not to be rude, or seem blunt, but I don’t talk to or associate with women like that. There are low value men AND their counterpart - low value women. Lay with dogs and you’ll get fleas. Transcend. Find badder bitches to spend your time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:10 PM
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SCHEDULING your dating is important. I’ve only got one night I set aside. I don’t care if only Tuesday’s work for the dude, or whatever. If they wanna see me, they’ll adjust to my schedule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:16 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah we really don’t acknowledge them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:12 AM
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It’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:57 AM
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You have to schedule time for actually dating though. It’s really important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:22 AM
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Scheduling - I have a night every week I set aside for dates. I always schedule SOMEBODY for that time frame. Other than that, idk. I make the rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 11:57 PM
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It’s so sad. Prayers for Santa to bring some self esteem 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:59 PM
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Because when they’re muscley they look like literal trolls/garden gnomes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:58 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:27 PM
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Are you okay? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:25 PM
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Nah, it’s a sub to help women find men who aren’t a waste of time. Worshipping me and kissing my ass is definitely not wasting my time 🤣🤣 And dating men will always be shitty. Not all of us are desperately searching for man. That’s actually super offensive to assume all the women on here are just pining after the perfect man. Gross. Imagine this, just for a second - you can date, and enjoy men, without wanting a relationship. I think you may just be scorned from a prior relationship and you thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:22 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:45 PM
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No men are high value. That’s the joke. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the goal is to find a dude who’s at least tolerable and not a total fucking loser. “High value man” what an oxymoron 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:43 PM
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Nah I’ll let an ugly dude worship me. It’s a kink. I don’t actually invest in them or speak to them. They just never leave me alone, so might as well put them to work 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:28 PM
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Yeah, it’s disgusting. The funniest thing is when a ugly/short/fat dude EVER tries to do ANYTHING but kiss my ass and worship me. I’ve straight up told dudes face to face: “look at me. Look at you. Do you know how hot I am? Do you know how lucky you are that I chose to spend time with you? You don’t deserve me.” And usually they blush or try the whole “body type doesn’t matter it’s about the heart” and all this shit. Usually they end up losing it after they realize I’m literally smirking so hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:23 PM
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This!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:54 PM
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Thissssss ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:51 PM
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^ all of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:49 PM
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I get asked out daily, but usually only go out once or twice a week with guys. Usually different ones. Every once in awhile one strikes my fancy and I’ll go on multiple dates. I’m just not interested in more than that. Usually once guys read that you’re not a “typical” obsessive girl, they lose interest. They all want that stage 5 clinger because it flatters their ego. They think it’s weird that I don’t like them texting me and that I don’t want them to meet my kids. I don’t beg them to come ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:29 PM
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I mean, I essentially have. My life plan revolves around me and my kids. I’m very happy and fulfilled. I just go out to dinner and chat and go to movies with guys. It’s a social thing. I really frown upon women ever questing after or desiring a man. It’s not like a goal to be worked towards. I’ve found myself in relationships, but usually it’s very very taxing for me and I break it off. I’m a single mom with 2 kids. I have 0 time to dedicate to coddling a man or dealing with the nonsense. That’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:24 PM
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THIS. Just let it fizz. He may not be a LVM but he’s definitely not paying attention. I’ll straight up tell a dude “until you schedule an exact place and time, I am not reserving any time for you.” Usually that gets them to cough up a time and place right away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:01 PM
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That’s the reason why I casually date but keep my status single :) Once you enter a committed relationship with a dude, it all seems to go downhill from there. I keep my own home, my own car, my own life. Y’all can come and go as I please 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:43 PM
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I’d kms if I were that empty inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:49 PM
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I get it from dudes at work a lot. I’m usually their superior, and I’m top in sales most times. I’ve had 2 full grown men lose their shit and curse me out on sales floors before 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:08 PM
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Like, PATHETIC. They’re always like mad that I’m a bad bitch. To be honest, I experience these people in real life pretty often as well. It’s flattering 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:49 PM
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Same! As soon as I started posting in here I started getting like tacky messages from dudes. The kind of stuff you hear 12 year old boys say into headsets when they’re playing video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:43 PM
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OOOOOF! I have had MULTIPLE people tell me I strut when I walk. I COMPLETELY DO. But it seems super obvious to other people. You really can see confidence. And I can attest to the clothing thing - I get hit on more when I’ve got a messy bun and am wearing sweats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:20 PM
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Truth. Or the fact they just don’t DESERVE all of me upfront - I should save it until they’ve earned it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:17 PM
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Yes!!!! Usually the first negative things they’ll say are related to my confidence. Like “wow you’re really opinionated huh”. Or something like that. I’m always like....yes, yes I am. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:42 PM
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I just can’t dim my shine for a man, and I’d advise nobody else does either! What you’re saying is logical though. I just don’t like the reality. It’s depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:39 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this is too funny 🤣🤣 I’m telling you, they can’t handle women who know their worth! Their whole gimmick is that they are “needed”. Surprise, rug from under your feet, it’s 2019 AND YOURE NOTTTT. I have this big beautiful loft apartment and if a guy manages to play his cards right and I invite him over for dinner or something, I always carefully gauge their reactions. Almost ALL of them run around my apartment like “YOU LIVE HERE BY YOURSELF? ALL BY YOURSELF??” Like, yikes. You can t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:38 PM
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Also - I have no tips. Men do not like high quality women. There’s no way around this. There’s something in a psychology class I remember seeing a presentation on once, and it literally had to do with partners fitting best/ending up with those who have similar levels of self-esteem and attractiveness. The patriarchy has enabled the emotional castration of men, and the oppression of women. Men do not have high opinions of themselves. They have this innate hole in their souls. They can’t even cry …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:18 PM
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Bitch, I could have written this myself. I LOVE YOU for posting this. I have this same issue. I swear to god, like 7 times outta 10, a guy will message me back online “wow I can’t believe you’re real” And in person when I meet guys, they always tell me I’m “mysterious” or all these strange, not accurate, adjectives. Or they “didn’t think I’d go out with them” The whole thing is weird. It’s like your objectified before you even get to know them. Like, hi, I’m a person. If I seem mysterious, why d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:12 PM
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Yes girl!! So much this!!! I will explicitly make them Venmo me tho if it’s because they lost their card or don’t have cash 🤷🏻‍♀️ if I’m out with my girlfriends, and I lost my card, I’ve just venmoed them $70 flat and told them to cover my drinks for the night. I’m touchy about the money thing. I’m not trying to struggle date. I’m not needy emotional attention or whatever. You have to improve my qualify of life or why would I want you in it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:04 AM
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Omg thissss! Or when they realize you’ll never bow down to them or whatever, so they try to dump you first to maintain some type of power. Like ok you just did the hard work for me thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:47 PM
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Omggg! Some dudes can actually seem REALLY normal at first. They can be super charming. It’s not US who misses the red flags. They sprayed the red flags white. I’m just glad he exposed himself on day 2. He had done NOTHING but eat my pussy and stroke my ego before. I could have ended up wasting months of my life on some long distance dude who could hide his crazy for a weekend at a time 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:00 AM
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If a man ever looks at you or pauses when the bill comes, just get up and excuse yourself to the bathroom 🤣🤣🤣 take awhile, so he can’t pretend like he just didn’t get to the bill. ONE TIME THOUGH I had this horrible experience. I had known this dude in high school, and we hadn’t seen each other in 8-9 years, so we chatted for months online and then he came into my city for a weekend. HE WAS SO CHEAP AND LOW VALUE. He essentially gave himself an eating disorder by only eating once a day because “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:50 AM
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Girl. I have never in my LIFE paid for a date. I won’t even feed a parking meter. 9/10 I make them pay for my Uber there and back so I don’t even waste my gas. Sometimes I drive if I’ve got other stuff to do that day/night. ONE TIME though, I was really into this guy, and we had gone out 4-5 times. We spent a whole day a winery, went out for lunch and day drinks, went for this long walk....anyway i realized he had dropped a couple hundred dollars and I was honestly so pleased with him I bought u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:36 AM
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Wait how is this cute? How is this an example of a HVM? Y’all need to raise your standards. Holy yikes. He sounds like a stalker who’s got an itch to scratch and regretted ghosting her after whatever other option he chose didn’t work out 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:40 PM
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The instability of men is what keeps me like a football fields length away from them at all times. Even the HVM are crazy. They just have other shit to compensate for it so it makes them worthwhile (sometimes🙄🙄🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:41 PM
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Good on you, but like don’t talk to them this much. I’d just MAYBE say “fuck you, you don’t deserve me” if they really hurt my feelings and I’d just block them before they could reply and never speak to them again. I’m just imagining the stupid caveman face he’s probably making trying to read and decipher human emotions and thoughts. You probably confused him so much 10/10 he knocks on your door crying or puts creepy love letters on your windshield 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:00 PM
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That’s how you lose a penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:57 PM
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Yesss! Snip snip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:16 PM
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😍 I’m making it. In little bits, but it’s there. Today the kids are at school and I’m off work so I’m taking myself out to breakfast, getting my nails done, going shopping, then probably taking myself out to lunch too 😍😍😍😍😍 I date myself better than any man dates me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:51 AM
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❤️ thank you! Honestly it’s a lot of pressure because I don’t allow myself any room for error. His whole existence is an error. I have to constantly outweigh his shitty parenting and it’s exhausting lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:47 AM
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SAME I am fucking obsessed with it!!!!!!!!!!!! Everyone’s complaining about this season but I love it. The weird bee keeper people 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:45 AM
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It’s so true!!!!!! My ex cries in open court about how I want him to be homeless and I like taking his money, and how hard life is for him and how he just can’t get ahead. (He only works 16 hours a week and refuses to get a regular job because then, and I quote, “she would just take it all anyway” 🤣🤣🤣) And I stand there, as a single mother to the 2 toddlers he abandoned, who works 60 hours a week and goes to school, and I bite my tongue. Sometimes I want to get mad but me and my family literally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:44 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 IM SCREAMINGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:41 AM
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Oof I know the couple you’re talking about. In the latest episode it’s revealed that he’s not as rich as he acts (SURPRISSSSSE). It was pretty obvious to most of us from the begging. He’s divorced (alimony), has 2 kids (child support, private school tuition, college tuition), and spends any money he does have on flashy tacky toys. Every “man” on that show blatantly lies to women and dupes them to get them to give everything up and live in indentured servitude in some shitty apartment. Yet fans a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:40 AM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 THIS. Whenever I hear men complain that women only want money, I literally laugh because you just outed yourself as broke and now I have to leave this date/conversation. I also have a very low value ex husband who INSISTS I’m obsessed with him because I always want his money. Child support. He’s referencing the fucking child support he’s required to pay 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:36 AM
1

Right???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:11 AM
7

Oof you’re right!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:04 PM
33

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what’s up with men being so open about being cheaters? They don’t even try to hide it a anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:00 AM
26

Putting down other women to impress you is such a fucking beta male move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:37 AM
79

Y’all are giving him too much credit. That suit is rented or his parents bought it for him 100% This is the equivalent of dudes that pose with cars that OBVIOUSLY aren’t theirs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:17 PM
96

🤣🤣🤣 soooo right. He’s mad because his pickup strategy didn’t work 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:15 PM
9

I just can’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m gonna use this line any time a man wants me to drive anywhere to meet him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:18 PM
38

I chuckled 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they are so fragile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:17 AM
18

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:16 AM
4

1000000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:57 AM
5

Must be earth shattering to be honest. I can’t imagine being so delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:57 AM
4

It REEKS 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:00 PM
8

YES!!!!!!!!! This!!!!!! The only way they can process the rejection is to flip the narrative and make you the villain. “I’m rubber you’re glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you” ^ the life motto of a narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:03 PM
48

STRONGLY AGREE 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:25 PM
22

🤣🤣🤣🤣 We are our own people - or at least we should be. And abusers do not deserve sympathy, empathy, or pity. And we should NEVER feel remorse for escaping. I’m sorry you had to go through that! Also abusers aren’t people they are roaches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:36 AM
34

Exactly!!! The worst thing people do is act like someone else made a bad decision by breaking up with them. Who are they to determine that? Maybe you were garbage. I take out the trash every day and don’t cry by the garbage chute. Why would throwing out a useless man who hinders my life be any different? Also, who THINKS about their exes that much? Red flag. Why would you follow them online or in real life? Why are you even noticing their behavior? Even if they’re in the same room as you....why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:30 AM
16

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ YESSSSSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:42 PM
18

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thissssss!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:27 PM
32

Omg are you KIDDING?!?? My Target Circle app gets me more off than that and I don’t even have to fake an orgasm 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:13 AM
18

Thissss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:13 AM
39

He’s got a lot to offer baby!!!! Honestly tho if he’s packin I’d tap that for the Target discount
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 04:42 AM
3

No problem! Just don’t be discouraged. Even though some women may get messaged a lot....look at the quality of the messages. Quantity =///= Quality. I’m also really aggressive in real life too. If a dude is hot, I’ll just walk up and be like “give me your number. Now. “ all the guys they’re with will be like “OHHH SHIT BRO” but I ignore them and focus on the hot one. I’ve never had someone say no 🤣🤣🤣 it flatters men when you pick them over all the other men in the room. Men love and hate that co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:20 PM
3

And I’m 100000% the tired bitch who doesn’t wanna hear that spring chickens bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:15 PM
3

I KNOWWWWWW. And now that i actually am a mom, it seems to bring out this weird subset of dudes who are CLEARLY asking me to be their mom. A year or so ago I actually had a guy say “wow I wish my mom was like you. You should adopt me ha ha” .........I just raised my eyebrows. It all started hitting me and I left the date early. I was like holy shit....I can’t even fuck this dude anymore. It’s creepy he thinks I’m his mom 😭😭😭😭😭 It reminds me of that book “are you my mother?” https://prodimage.ima…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:13 PM
6

🤣🤣🤣🤣 like once again they’re hoping that forcing intimacy upon you will make you “theirs” SEE ALL THE SACRIFICES IVE MADE FOR YOU???? IM SUCH A GOOD GUY. ILL BE EVEN BETTER WITH YOU TO SUPPORT ME. PLEASE COME BE THE DOORMAT TO MY NEW LIFE like honestly that’s why they get excited. It’s not because spiritually we’ll make them better, though they will emotionally vampire us. It’s because they want us to take on stressors in their life for them so they can “really focus on themselves” 🤣🤣🤣 I literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:02 PM
4

So I will give a tip, beyond just updating your pics and choosing flattering ones. Logging on seems to bring them in droves. If I don’t touch my online dating accounts, I’ll usually just get a couple of messages a week it seems like. But as soon as I log on - my inbox is flooded with 50+ messages in an hour. I just delete them so my inboxes don’t fill up because I refuse to pay for premium versions. I also get bored and will swipe through guys, and I’ll message a couple every day that tickle my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:55 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣 its true!!! And the hotter I get, the more I have dudes like essentially proposing before the first date and telling me I inspire them to get a better job or something. Like ok so anyway holla @ me when you have that mystical “better job” ta ta for now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:45 PM
6

Ignore them and don’t act even mildly impressed by their mediocre bullshit. I mean you don’t want them harassing you though, that’s the thing. When you don’t fall for their manipulation and tactics, they go wild. They’ll desperately keep trying different tactics. You’re being too nice and normal. They’re used to that, and they will take advantage of it. Don’t act impressed at all. Because it’s NOT impressive. Having a job, having a car, having hobbies, having a family, having friends.....these a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:33 PM
2

I don’t wannnnnnnnna 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 These are great tho thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:58 PM
42

Herd-selection 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is so accurate. I never give men the benefit of the doubt anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:24 PM
75

THIS. THIS THIS THIS! Calling you pet names to instill a level of intimacy that hasn’t been earned. Trying to get you comfortable and asserts his power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:19 PM
7

Hard agree!!! I am literally cleaning up my second account now for vetting them and allowing them to add me so I have more access. God is it even worth my time? NO. But alas, the heterosexual curse has me driven 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:48 PM
3

Yes!!! One of my exes would go on this whole fake act of disgust and dismay and disappointment when he would “find” my toys. Imagine having such a small penis that a fucking inanimate object threatens you 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:35 PM
4

We all go through periods like that!! Until the past couple of years, I wouldn’t even wanna go out unless I had someone with me. I’m a loner too, and didn’t wanna date, so that left me with two options - never leave the house, or do all the things I wanted but just by myself. I’m worried I’m liking being alone too much :( I also always wanted a big family, but not with multiple men and I don’t want to spend my whole life raising kids alone. Even married women essentially raise their kids alone. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:33 PM
7

Oof agreed. And they get so offended if you try to pull out a toy or something afterwards. Like holy shit are you actively denying my orgasm at this point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:46 AM
9

😱😱 I didn’t realize there was a term for this!!!! Someone just shared this sub with me and suddenly so many things are making sense lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:40 AM
7

🤣🤣 truth. I’ve been married and divorced, and I’ve got kids. I’ve dated a LOT in my life. I’m just dating to have fun! I literally just want to laugh and eat food and see movies when they come out. I generally do all this by myself, but sometimes I’ll allow a man to accompany me. And I always regret it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:38 AM
10

🤣🤣🤣 same!!! I hung up the phone and was just grateful I wasn’t physically near him and he didn’t know where I lived or worked. I feel bad for any woman they encounter who has low self esteem or is just naive and nice and being a regular person. These people are so dangerous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:34 AM
6

10000000%. It’s so much easier. There’s tons of freely sexual women who wouldn’t be opposed to just having sex. Men make it so difficult for themselves. Just be HONESTTTTT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:28 AM
7

And I agree with you about the roommate thing. I’m not even opposed to living with parents. But why lie? Why not just own it??? I’ve dated plenty of cool guys who were chefs, in punk bands, non-profit activists etc etc. I mean it may change my expectations with you, but I’d love to go to a show or just chill at a BBQ and drink beer. But let me CHOOSE if I want to participate in that. It’s wild because they act like what they want is a hookup, and this “laid back lifestyle”, but then when you act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:26 AM
5

IM SCREAMINGGGGG 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:17 AM
12

Aaaaand that’s exactly why losers never post anything!!! Honestly good tip. I usually don’t want to add them in Facebook because I don’t want them stalking me and knowing my life, but I may create a backup account with less revealing info so I can add them and make sure they have healthy familial connections and a group of friends and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:44 AM
9

Dude YES! Those steps exactly! I’ve even had a few guys who, in hindsight, dragged out the initial texting because they were secretly too poor to afford things - waiting until their parents or whatever was out of the house to invite me over, unable to just book a hotel room for some magical reason, or only suggesting places around them because SURPRISE they don’t have a car. Or they’re waiting to use a friends car, etc etc And there’s nothing you can do to avoid these dudes, because they’re liar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:41 AM
3

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:30 AM
2

What a loser 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they lack so much self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:28 AM
15

Dude barely any texts involved!!! I just wanted to get dinner and he passed my base criteria (because he LIED of course). He worked at a bar I used to go to and I had just had him chillin in my Facebook for a couple of months lol. I can’t believe I didn’t vet him better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:27 AM
12

YES!! Soooo accurate! I’ve noticed that too. I’ve actually had to double check a few times that these messages weren’t coming from guys from FetLife or some kink platform. These sexually broken dudes were coming straight from Facebook, and are actually friends-of-friends, or from OkCupid, or something assumingely more vanilla. Even my old boss (who wouldn’t flirt with me at all when we worked together) started chatting me up and being so cordial and grand, and then BAM out of nowhere asks how mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:24 AM
35

I just had a guy tell me last night IN PERSON that he “gets used a lot” so that’s why he “never takes women out”. He told me I should feel SPECIAL and IMPORTANT because he chose to ask me out because “he knows I’m different than other girls”. I said, “that’s so sad. You never get asked on dates?” He proceeds to go on and on about how essentially he goes out with women and they don’t want to talk to him after that, because they’re obviously users and want him for the $12 an hour he makes. So I sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:16 AM
16

Yes! A couple of weeks ago I had been talking to a guy who lived less than 10 minutes from me. He wouldn’t ask me out so after a couple of days, I was like, “sorry, I’m not looking for a long distance relationship” I fell for the text trap for longer than normal because he was handsome and kept flattering me. We’re all human 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyway after I said that to him on the phone he devolved instantly into a snarling spitting machine of verbal abuse and went from 0-100. Went from literally cooing at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:08 AM
41

It’s so strange! I’ve noticed it the past couple of years. The amount of emotional labor and physical labor they require is laughable 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:28 AM
10

Men are so solipsistic. Exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:08 AM
22

Men are so solipsistic. Exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:07 AM
2

What a creep. Why are men so stalkerish like this? His ex wife is like one step away from being murdered from his jealousy. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:54 AM
17

Gas stations are the #1 place get harassed. Waving at me as I pull in. Trying to talk to me as I pump gas. Hollering at me as I walk in the store. Trying to flirt with me as I buy shit. Flirting with me at the counter. Following me to my car to flirt with me. Tellin me sweet little nothings like “how I need a real n****”. Really makes a girl swoon. Idk what it is about those places but men just can’t put their penises away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:57 AM
1

$babybumblebeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:53 AM
7

Usually I just make a “boyfriend”. But I forget there’s so many employable males available at any given moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:52 AM
15

Men don’t get to speak to me for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:51 AM
11

If they’re going to bother you, might as well put them to work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:51 AM
17

Yessss!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:05 PM
11

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 nothing seems to drive dudes crazier than women being happier than them. Example: me and a dude go out together. Some waitress or hostess casually flirted with him. When she leaves, I absent-mindedly laugh and tell him to tip her well - it must suck to have to flirt with dudes all day to make money. I wish I had a camera to catch the face he made. Upset that I didn’t get jealous, and also rejected because he realizes the girl isn’t actually flirting with him. Priceless. It made me laugh s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:58 PM
56

THIS! I’ve got too much damn pride to let a man even LOOK at me who’s done me wrong. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Give me any excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:10 PM
9

This is the greatest god damn thing I’ve seen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 06:08 PM
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