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You're kinda missing the point in the first place dude. Pickup is a supposed to be like a supplement to your character, not a rule of law for every interaction from now on.
/r/seduction05/02/20 01:40 PM
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Everybody could use a lil Shia in their life
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:07 PM
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To me it seems like you’re disassociating “connecting with someone” from having a sexual vibe and sexual tension underlying an interaction—and are convincing yourself it’s an external issue at fault here, and that is the perfect recipe to live perpetually in the friend zone. Sure, being good-looking opens the door much easier for you, but she’s still standing in the doorway looking you up n’ down before considering letting you in, and the door will be shut soon if you dont quickly stand out from…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:23 PM
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IMO clarity with your intentions sets the interaction off on the best possible foot, either the sexual tension starts picking up right then—and both can start screening, or the lack of vibe/situational unavailability can be expressed immediately. It’s not like hot girls don’t have insecurities or don’t second guess themselves too—especially if you start the interaction off innocuously or platonically, so I think the initial approach is the best place to leave some guesswork out of it. It’s obvio…
/r/seduction21/08/19 12:51 PM
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I dunno about this. Being direct shows intention and that you’re grounded in what you want, you make it man-to-woman immediately and speed up the process of being able to concretely gauge receptiveness, there’s still a lot about you and your interest in her that can be a mystery for her to unfold if you do this right. Granted I wouldn’t go as far as “this is probably extremely creepy”—unless you’ve got your expressions and tonality down to make it clear that it’s a joke, but starting with a stat…
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:30 AM
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Out of curiosity, in your experience, what style/techniques would you recommend with a tall Eastern European-American extrovert who has your stereotypical “good looks” (good bone structure, athletic) and has worked hard af to establish value and introspective awareness already Dig the post btw! Had some good laughs and it’s some quality content too 👌
/r/seduction19/08/19 11:02 PM
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Your opinion is wrong.
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:35 PM
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What you’re doing is wiring your brain to always look towards an imagined optimal self before acting, you’re living in the land of tomorrow instead of being present to what you truly desire in the present moment. This can set a precedent for the rest of your life to where you might even achieve what you think you want now, and still be discontent with it. Like I said earlier, those are definitely great tasks to set for yourself, but it should by no means be the foundation and focal point of your…
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:19 PM
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Aiming for an imagined standard of perfection before acting out of intent where you are now in your life is counter-productive, dude I highly recommend just approaching women with intent and getting a feel for what it’s like to try to build attraction before assuming you’re not worthy.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:40 PM
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Not being insecure to make friends does not equate with not having insecurity with approaching women at all, not in the slightest. I have friends that are very successful socially, financially, emotionally, and are considered quite attractive physically, good bone structure, fit, etc. but still can’t approach a woman without a wing or someone hyping them up. This is an internal issue of yours, and you’re putting the blame on women, and unless you wake the fuck up you’re not going to get past it,…
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:39 PM
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Alright dude, you’re doing nothing but deluding yourself if this is what you actually think. What the fuck do you expect to happen, a girl, who often deals with way more insecurity and social pressure than you, to just walk up to you and express intent? I’ve seen fat and troll-looking dudes end up with very attractive women and when I talk to the girls they immediately allude to how he made them feel, the confidence he had when approaching her, etc. never what they thought of him physically.
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:43 PM
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A good method to gauge with is triangular gazing, slowly focus on one of her eyes, to the other, to her lips on occasion, if she reciprocates and looks at your lips she wants to kiss you. Our eyes are naturally drawn towards the things we want.
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:17 PM
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Looks are not, appearance is. Do you approach women with romantic intent?
/r/seduction14/07/19 04:46 PM
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There is a lot more to us beyond looks, focus on those things, learn to generate self-amusing emotions congruent with your lifestyle, and take concrete steps towards putting yourself out there.
/r/seduction14/07/19 04:04 PM
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Working on getting what’s in your control optimized is definitely a great task to set, but as far as interactions with women go beyond that, the confidence that you exhume when you are totally centered and congruent with who you are far exceeds in effect over trying to meet someone else’s supposed standards. If you feel deep down like you would be able to offer a great interaction with someone had you been the given the chance, focus more on that voice than the one saying you’re not worthy of th…
/r/seduction14/07/19 03:16 PM
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I would tag along having some emotional awareness and reciprocity, women connect primarily on an emotional level—especially in the approach.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:28 AM
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Once the mindframe of “leagues” is banished from your mind you’ll be able to cultivate a newfound confidence far beyond what you’re imagining here.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:52 AM
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Feeling lonely never feels healthy, it’s a matter of what perspective do you CHOOSE to take despite the feeling. Do you choose to indulge in behaviors that are counterproductive towards your long term goals, or in sacrificing short-term detrimental pleasure for the sake of bettering yourself and heading down the path you know you want to.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:20 PM
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And I am the ignorant one. Yes.
/r/seduction08/07/19 02:06 AM
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Good, won’t even get tempted
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:25 PM
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That...
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:24 PM
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Embrace the fuck-ups as a part of the journey, and know that each one is bringing you a step closer. I’ll sometimes have moments where insecurities act up right before or in the middle of a set, starting the whole interaction off on the wrong foot and afterwards I’ll laugh at the ridiculousness of it, maybe write a short personal field report with a few pros and cons/do’s and don’ts if necessary, and immediately accept it as a forward-propelling act of momentum socially—especially contrasted wit…
/r/seduction29/05/19 02:00 PM
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Doesn’t sound like you’re coming from an abundance centered mindset my friend.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:12 AM
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Doesn’t sound like you’re coming from an abundance centered mindset my friend.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:12 AM
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Doesn’t sound like you’re coming from an abundance centered mindset my friend.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:12 AM
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Dude with a naive savior complex towards women Usually comes crashing in in the middle of your set.
/r/seduction16/05/19 09:26 PM
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As long as the delivery isn’t cookie-cutter, and you’re actual playing with inflection, timing, and nuance, not just reciting, you should be cool
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:11 PM
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She could’ve been mirroring your confidence and happiness if she’d been having a good day herself, or it could’ve been a pick-me-up if she wasn’t doing good, could’ve thought you held yourself like a high value individual plus had a dog, could’ve thought you looked cute, could’ve just been saying hi, could’ve could’ve could’ve... None of it really matters in the long run, it’s all hypothetical, the better question is how did it make you feel, what action did you want to take, what action did you…
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:03 PM
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Totally this, do it genuinely but don’t make it out to be a huge deal, and preferably not at the beginning of the session.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:30 PM
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Nice guy with game here, you're describing a somewhat antiquated view of game (besides the obvious minority imo) The past year that I've been diving deep into this, a small portion of the content has encouraged short-term hacking to feel alpha, but even then, it was often proceeded by, this is a temporary fix, once you can associate that confidence as the new norm, work to make it congruent with your personality. Just like there's paradigms to the understanding of human behavior, there's levels …
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:19 PM
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Totally. Cognitive biases effect everyone, and it’s definitely a factor that’s beneficial to be aware of in a seduction context. Empowering and confident character traits and actions that are supported by others can really serve to naturally bring your guard down
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:13 PM
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Not endorsing infowars, there’s quality in-field here.
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:20 PM
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Yea, but if you’re getting into solid game, be aware that often times if they receive all their validation from you during the grind and feel like they could easily get you then her moving on to the next dude that spikes her emotions even a little bit better than you (especially a player that noticed lol) becomes much more likely. I see a lot of guys (and have been the victim of myself) treat the grinding as a finish line and immediately get too attached and then smothering her, not moving locat…
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:48 PM
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There’s a couple similar points, but no.
/r/seduction08/05/19 05:50 PM
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it's like Simba thinking he's just good to go where the light doesn't touch
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:20 AM
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Actually I’ve noticed that women can tend to take that as a compliment on its own, and she’ll feel like she can get comfortable interacting with you quicker—but of course it then becomes a matter of making sure to build attraction from there and not follow that route down into the friend zone. Spez: the especially if you’re not ashamed of them is the key part in that point I think
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:07 AM
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Love the need to take more risks video dude, that’s gonna be a near-daily watch
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:52 PM
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You can talk about yourself while maintaining aspects of mystery, and actually build intrigue, subject changes and open loops are awesome tools for this.
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:25 AM
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Don't go into interview mode, have fun, talk about yourself and what you're into, be interested in her, be expressive, be okay with lulls in conversation, if you give a compliment try to make it unique to her. You got this!
/r/seduction16/04/19 06:42 PM
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Thank you so much! I’m trying to be as practical and applicable as possible while showing nuance—which is what I would’ve loved to have been shown at my journey’s start. And I was definitely pretty nervous for about 75% of the interaction if I’m being honest haha (which I told her later on, she said I seemed like I was calm and collected—which I think comes from slowing yourself down) But from the next date on I noticed that she had totally viewed me as higher value than the other guys chasing h…
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:32 PM
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Thanks man! I didn’t realize how important of a role that self reflection was for a long while, it was definitely a game changer once it became common practice. I would add—while also enjoying every step of the process!
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:36 PM
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Yea showing subtle intent and being in a comfortable state of mind that shows through eye contact and body language were definitely two of my biggest pain points for a while, then following up with corresponding convo was hopeless once I started working on that—always something to improve!
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:33 PM
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