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Watch the show "seinfeld" and learn to talk about nothing. ​ EDIT: For instance, "why do people say that you "get on" the train when in reality, you actually "get in" the train?
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:04 PM
1

I've had old ladies at the gym make eye contact and smile, but I'm pretty sure it's just out of courtesy. If she only did the "eye contact and smile" just one time, I wouldn't look too much into it. Now if she does it again, then you have an actual sign that she is open to having a conversation.
/r/seduction07/06/19 04:19 PM
1

You said you have great sense of humor. Use it on your texting.
/r/seduction07/06/19 04:11 PM
1

Say you know parkour.
/r/seduction07/06/19 04:08 PM
1

Depends. The girls you don't "pedestalize" (and have success with), is it because they are less attractive? And the ones that you end up putting on a pedestal, are they the hot ones? In general, guys will have better luck with less attractive women than they do with more attractive women.
/r/seduction07/06/19 03:55 PM
1

You have to start over, meaning trial and error.
/r/seduction07/06/19 03:49 PM
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Talk to them about what they're into.
/r/seduction07/06/19 03:48 PM
3

Because they know they have a good excuse to reject guys in case they were asked out.
/r/seduction07/06/19 03:38 PM
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I don't know how people can online chat with someone (with the intention of wanting to date them) for years. It seems pointless.
/r/seduction07/06/19 03:35 PM
3

Meeting a girl on a first date: Confident guy walks up to the girl and gives her a handshake. Cocky guy walks up to the girl and hugs her and twirls her around (as if dancing). Arrogant guy makes the girl wait for 1 hour because he is worth it.
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:20 PM
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There are two ways, and one way is much easier (at least mentally). The easy way is to just date a bunch of women you think are hot, and the more you date them, the more accustomed you become of being around them, and eventually, hot girls won't seem like a big deal anymore. The harder way also requires practice, which is, basically, just talk to them more, and soon, it becomes not such a big deal being around them. The first one is easier, mentally, because not only do you get to talk to them, …
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:00 PM
1

Stand next to your Tesla.
/r/seduction06/06/19 10:42 PM
1

Better than telling her "i like you" or "I really like you" or "I love you".
/r/seduction06/06/19 10:41 PM
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Are they touchy with you too? if so, then it's definitely flirting.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:47 PM
2

Logic says go for the hottest girl at work.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:46 PM
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I would have just asked her out on a date to see if she really is interested. EDIT: also, she probably was interested, but when you touched her like that, she felt disrespected and that is a turn off for pretty much everyone.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:41 PM
1

Just ask her out to a movie, and if she is interested, she'll say yes.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:39 PM
0

Respect what they want. If it's not something you can handle, move on.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:58 PM
3

Some people are just fickle. They get into someone really quick, and they lose interest really quick.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:56 PM
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I think when guys who does pickup start referring to women as "sets", it pretty much tells you that they don't approach them as people, but more as a game. ​ EDIT: I don't think you'd want your sister or daughter to end up with someone like that.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:48 PM
0

Really??? THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE...YOU KISSED HER ON THE CHEEK AND DIDN'T KNOW THE RIGHT TIME TO TEXT HER!
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:39 PM
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Well, if you've been to this sub before, you'll see many stories of guys who saw signs that a girl was interested, and when they asked them out, they were rejected (sometimes cuz they already have boyfriend). Anyways, there's no point thinking about it since she's taken.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:38 PM
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There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:05 PM
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you kissed her on the CHEEK instead of the lips PLUS your gonna text her too early or too late. There is no coming out of that even if she enjoyed herself for hours with you.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:07 PM
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This must be PUA - hippie version.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:05 PM
-1

Suit yourself. You said she was laughing and seemed very interested in you, BUT you kissed her in the cheek instead of the lips and you don't know the right time to text her. That's game over, bud.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:02 PM
4

I like to see the flirty side.
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:00 PM
1

It's different for different girls. Some girls might think your boring, some might think your interesting. Just keep trying to meet girls. Eventually, you'll meet one who thinks your cool.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:59 PM
-1

I think probably best to move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:56 PM
0

Maybe he is michael jordan of PUA?
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:54 PM
0

Hmm...a girl who seems very interested will definitely lose interest if it ended awkwardly and you text her the wrong time. Tough one.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:50 PM
-2

Say "can't you read?? it wouldn't be a secret if i told ya!!!!!!, jeez!!!!".
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:47 PM
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they should reply to a "hi" if they are interested. No need to show more sexual interest.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:10 PM
1

Once you get a girlfriend, that feeling will mostly go away.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:03 PM
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Not all girls will take that compliment well. Some girls will feel objectified and you lose them already. But if you're the type who doesn't care and will just move on to the next girl, then nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:00 PM
1

Get behind her and show her proper golf swing form.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:58 PM
1

You want to know how to show that you have sexual interest in them?
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:50 PM
1

Between ghosting and staying friends, you're better off ghosting. If you are not capable of keeping your feelings in check, it would be best to just ghost.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:47 PM
1

You say you have a sense of humor via texting. Are you able to make them laugh throughout the date?
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:45 PM
1

Try neg, push, pull, push, pull, then neg again.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:36 PM
1

Talk about stuff that she likes.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:32 PM
1

As long as you bring spoon and fork, you're good.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:22 PM
1

Just text her the next day. If still no response, move on.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:11 PM
2

A girl will give advice based on how she would like a guy to approach dating. Unfortunately, not all girls are the same.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:09 PM
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Girls won't spend time with people they are bored with.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:04 PM
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I don't think you have to worry about getting friendzoned when you haven't gone out with them yet. As for ghosting, you have to realize that some girls give them numbers out not because they are interested, but because they felt pressured or didn't want to hurt your feelings at that moment. You just gotta keep getting numbers and eventually, some of those numbers will lead to a date.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:02 PM
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Get numbers of girls who are sober.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:52 PM
1

Depends on the girl. Some girls don't like the pressure or expectations of going on dates, so they prefer to hang out.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:33 PM
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Part of it is alcohol. When they are sober, their judgement changes.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:30 PM
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didn't ask him if he hates women. I'm asking you.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:29 PM
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:|
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:28 PM
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If you're shy with a girl on a date, she will get bored, and your kindness and respectfulness will only get you a new friend (at best). If you're shy on dates, it's possible that it's because you're just not accustomed to talking to girls. Best way to improve is to go on more dates (even with girls that you are not physically attracted to) and practice having conversations with them. Have questions ready that you know you can ask them and practice answering questions with more than a one-word an…
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:27 PM
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I'm guessing you hate women?
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:02 PM
1

You said there were 2 other people at the couch. Couldn't they vouch for you?
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:01 PM
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How do I Snapchat this girl? ​ With style petite...with style
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:58 PM
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Guys who walks with chest out is confident.
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:09 PM
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What do you think of people who watch cartoons? I'm assuming you think people who watch cartoons are losers? Cuz I doubt you would get mad if she asked if you watch movies.
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:01 PM
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Start dating other gorgeous women, and you'll have an easier time resisting those feelings.
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:23 PM
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You don't have confidence, that's why you feel insulted. I'm in my early 40's and on my dates, I'm the one telling women that I like to watch anime/cartoons all the time. That's what confidence is, being comfortable with who you are.
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:16 PM
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I don't think it would have made a difference if you waited 3 days or 1 week before texting her after the date. If a girl is interested, they'll be happy to receive a text message from you the next day. Trying to change her mind after she has expressed her disinterest will only make you look more desperate. Put yourself in her place. If you went on a first date with a girl and she asked you out on a second date, and you actually told her that you're not interested, is there anything she can do t…
/r/seduction31/05/19 08:27 PM
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Just correcting your logic, dude.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:12 PM
1

Tattoes, piercings, dress in a way that show off your muscles, etc.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:11 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:09 PM
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You're telling him to basically get used to getting rejected. I agree with that technique. But making yourself look worse is like telling him to wear a mask and start asking girls out and get rejected. IT'S NOT THE SAME because he knows it's not the same as HIM being rejected. I can put on a mascot costume and act like an idiot (for a month) no problem, but remove that costume, and I wouldn't be able to handle it the next day.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:48 PM
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Yeah, she's not interested. Possibly felt bad saying no so she gave her number.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:40 PM
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You NEVER EVER text a girl on the same day she gave you her number!...just kidding, she most likely wasn't that interested (probably gave you fake number even).
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:33 PM
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If you get rejected dressed up like a bum, in your mind, you know you got rejected because you look worse than you actually do. Getting rejected as your normal self will be different because you know they rejected you for you, not for some intentional lesser version of you.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:30 PM
1

Just an inch below average. No big deal.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:17 PM
1

What a douche.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:16 PM
1

yes
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:12 PM
1

In junior high, it's really hard to tell if girls are into the guys.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:01 PM
1

This is kid stuff. Learn from Austin Powers.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:00 PM
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You don't wanna be purposely rejected by making yourself look worse. Making yourself look worse than you actually look is just a coping mechanism. You have to be comfortable getting rejected being yourself.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:52 PM
0

Are you talking about escalating physically when approaching them for the first time? Cuz you definitely don't need to do that to get their number. If you're talking about actual dates, you don't have to do any physical escalation until like the 3rd date. Just be interesting and make them laugh. Once you feel that they are comfortable with you, you can finally tap them on the arm.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:48 PM
1

Don't mess with people close to your boss. It's not worth it.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:39 PM
2

You made a mistake of hoping to have a one on one conversation with her at a party. You should have just asked her out on an actual date.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:37 PM
1

Know what you're gonna say or questions you gonna ask before you approach. Have a list of stuff to talk about. ​ me: what's your favorite color? girl: blue me: cool, you know it's gonna be blue moon today? girl: [giggles] really? me: yeah. I actually wanted to become an astronaut, but found out we never really landed on the moon. girl: what? you're not one of those conspiracy theory guys, are you? me: HEY, if I wanted to be talked down to, I'd just stay home and talk to my parents! I'm out! [wal…
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:05 PM
1

Maybe she doesn't kiss on a first date?
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:59 PM
2

Parent's basement.
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:55 PM
2

You don't have to be an actual "bad guy" type,. Just look like one.
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:53 PM
1

Leave her a note.
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:50 PM
1

It doesn't make sense that she needs to get to know you more over text just to go on a date with you; You guys already talked in person. I think if she is interested, she'll make time for you.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:18 PM
1

Some girls are worth looking for other gyms to go to.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:05 PM
0

Yes, other guys will notice you hitting on the girls at the gym. If you succeed, then yeah, they'll see you as the man, but if you fail, they'll laugh in your face...from the inside.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:01 PM
1

Lesson here, just because a girl makes eye contact, doesn't mean she's interested. Maybe if she makes eye contact that is like at least 3 seconds long, then she's interested.
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:58 PM
0

Some girls don't like to rush to the bedroom. She's a keeper.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:57 PM
1

You could reply with: "that's cool" "I miss you too"
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:52 PM
1

Instead of wondering, just ask her out on a 3rd date and go for a good nite kiss. If she rejects, then she just wants to be friends.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:35 PM
1

How you react in the case of a rejection will determine how awkward it would get. If you make it seem like her rejection is no big deal and that you're totally cool with her decision, then it won't be that awkward. Girls will feel awkward because they think they made you feel bad.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:29 PM
1

After 3 dates, it's ok to go in for a kiss good nite.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:13 PM
1

Nothing wrong going for the 9's and 10's. Depending on your success rate, you'll either stay with just going for 9's and 10's, or you'll lower your standards.
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:06 PM
1

If you don't want any confrontations in solving this, you can just avoid her as much as possible or stay at a distance when you are in same place. And don't flirt back.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:51 PM
1

What's your example of coming on too strong?
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:58 PM
1

why not do both at same time?
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:45 PM
1

Absolutely
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:43 PM
1

Better to learn on your own so you have your own style, and not some generic style.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:42 PM
1

You're just paranoid.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:33 PM
1

practice.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:31 PM
2

Then it's your chance to ask her.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:30 PM
1

Looks same. But if you're worried about not looking the same, just post more pics, preferably a non-selfie pic. Get a pic that is taken at least 10 feet away.
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:29 PM
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Wait till it's your last day of you being her patient. Most of them don't date patients because they value their job and would like to keep it professional.
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:01 PM
1

Ask about homework.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:58 PM
1

Just go for it and approach a girl. I hear guys have better luck with in person approach than online.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:50 PM
1

It's gonna be tough talking to someone you worship. Go out on other dates till you feel she is just another person.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:46 PM
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Extroverts are hard to gauge. Their outgoing personality can be mistaken as interest. Kissing on the date is a good sign. Also, getting a 2nd and a third also a good sign.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:44 PM
1

Unless you're Dracula, you're not changing any girls minds with eye contact.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:38 PM
1

It's hard to talk to girls if you look at them as sex objects. Look at them as a person (you know, like you do with friends) and you'll be better when talking to them.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:37 PM
1

You lost your confidence after the dance lessons. If you stayed confident in yourself (someone who never danced before), the mood of the date would have been better. ​ EDIT: you should have had the mentality of "I never did this dance before so I don't expect to dance like a pro", instead of "I looked so bad dancing".
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:21 PM
4

You seem like a future rapist with that mentality of yours. I suggest you take rejection well and move on.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:10 PM
1

It's best to just tell her how you feel about the direction of the relationship. At least you'll know if it's time to end it or not.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:56 PM
4

Just go to r/tinder and cut and paste other people's materials.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:49 PM
1

What makes you think it will be easier for a girl to agree to be physically intimate with you than to agree to give you her number and go out for drinks with you?
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:41 PM
19

Yes, it would be creepy.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:36 PM
1

Start with baby steps before trying to hook up. Go on a date first.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:34 PM
0

Hugs are good if the girl is feeling it.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:12 PM
1

How is your dating history? Are you able to get multiple dates with women? If not, you should probably start with that first.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:11 PM
4

Don't go in with any expectations. This will allow you to be more relaxed and avoid disappointments.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:54 PM
1

Maybe his gf has a friend she can introduce to you.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:26 PM
1

Can't say if it matches the hype, but one thing is for sure, it's better than your hand.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:25 PM
1

It's worth a try, but make sure to video chat with these women before traveling to meet them. You want to make sure they're legit people.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:24 PM
1

She's just being friendly maybe.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:14 PM
1

How do you know she doesn't want to be alone with you? Maybe she is just waiting for you to man up and ask her out?
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:05 PM
1

Every other day.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:03 PM
1

When you say he is dating, do you mean they actually go on dates or are they just on an "internet relationship"?
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:02 PM
1

You should have asked what they like to do for fun.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:58 PM
2

It's probably because you just don't connect with them girls.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:55 PM
1

Usually, humor can win over women (at least some). Maybe you're going for the wrong type of women.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:54 PM
2

Ask her to meet for something else, and if she is not interested other than meeting you for dinner/lunch, then probably better to pass.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:50 PM
3

Cuz everyone likes those awkward hugs where the girl is not having it.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:46 PM
1

Is that how your conversation on a first date would go? Just talk about normal stuff like what she likes to do for fun, work, etc.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:45 PM
2

Fashion is a big factor in attractiveness.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:41 PM
0

Crazy idea, but you can try texting her again.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:38 PM
0

text "hello???"
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:33 PM
1

You would require his full attention and if he is as attractive as you say he is, then chances are, he has other girls that has his attention.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:32 PM
0

Could be the height. Just go for the short women.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:30 PM
2

Not all girls are comfortable with a hug. I suggest you let the girl lead with what she is comfortable with. If she doesn't lead with a hug, go with a handshake or just say hello. It's what happens on the good bye is what really matters.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:29 PM
1

Get out of Alabama, and you may find better success.
/r/seduction14/05/19 08:27 PM
1

I'm sure you can trim the facial hair and go with a shorter hair cut. At worst, you'll be in same boat if it doesn't work.
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:51 PM
1

It's most likely the reason 0-8 is easier for you to read is because you're probably (i'm taking a guess here) good looking to the point that their attraction towards you is really strong. On the other hand, 9-10 have dated many good looking guys and they don't swoon as easily as a girl who is 0-8, or that maybe your an 8.5 and 9-10 girls are showing less obvious signs cuz they're not as interested.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:33 PM
1

Confidence is just one of the many other qualities that makes someone attractive. Can confidence alone do the job of getting any person you like? No. But it's better to have when it comes to dating.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:24 PM
1

Have you tried other looks? Maybe the GQ look?
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:14 PM
1

only hb7?
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:06 PM
1

Couple years ago, met a girl, we were just dating casually. We would go out on dates and then head to her place afterwards. Then I just start asking to come over her place (without any outdoor activity beforehand), then after 2 times of just asking to hang out at her place, she stopped wanting to see each other.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:12 PM
1

Most girls, depending on your age, will be shocked to find out a guy is a virgin, but that shock does not mean they will run. Some girls won't mind. Anyways, don't worry about that part, first find a girl who would like to go on dates with you multiple times.
/r/seduction10/05/19 10:13 PM
1

I wouldn't say that to a girl that I really like. You could say that you still talk to other girls, but don't talk about future dates with other girls UNLESS she asks you explicitly. If it's a first date, it shouldn't hurt your chances if she asks that, but if she asks that after couple of dates, then it's most likely she is interested in knowing if you are looking to be exclusive, and if you're not, then you have to be honest about it.
/r/seduction10/05/19 10:08 PM
1

That's what I'm saying. You lose "staying" power because you stop all the "date stuff".
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:36 PM
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Be honest about what you currently do for fun, and what stuff you'd like to do for fun when you have someone to go with.
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:35 PM
1

You can't be too nice. You have to be between nice guy and bad boy. Pay for dinner, but make her tip.
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:13 PM
1

Some people are just not into texting. Maybe they are more into face to face conversations. Most people say I'm exciting to talk to in text, but kinda boring in person, so it's possible for the opposite to also occur.
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:11 PM
0

This is very interesting. I'm gonna have to do more investigating. What's her phone number and can you send a photo?
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:01 PM
1

One thing you definitely don't do is tell them your a loner type on a first date.
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:54 PM
1

She just wants more followers most likely.
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:52 PM
1

Maybe take them out on actual dates.
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:51 PM
5

This is sub for guys who want advice to get dates with women. If you want to vent, there is r/braincels
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:54 PM
1

She was calling you a slut.
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:28 PM
1

Complimenting any part of her body is not appropriate that that point. Instead say "I like your nose ring" or "I like that skull tatoo on your neck" or "I like how you make baggy jeans fit you like skinny jeans".
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:16 PM
1

Arrogance is usually an unattractive trait.
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:12 PM
1

NARCO
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:10 PM
2

Feeling ok (with self-esteem intact) after rejection is key. I've been rejected by woman I found unattractive and attractive. But I've also had success with women I found attractive. I feel my success with those attractive women helps me keep a mind set that it's ok to be rejected because not every girl is gonna like me and I know that there are girls out there who will. On the other hand, if you've never had success with a girl you found attractive, then I'm not sure what mind set one would nee…
/r/seduction07/05/19 08:09 PM
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Not really, most of the time, it just means they are shy or not interested.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:53 PM
0

it's a serious advice. Once you lose your virginity, you won't tense up anymore with little physical touching.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:51 PM
1

She is giving signs that she may be interested, and that's all you can ask for before taking the steps of asking someone out. If you're comfortable with the idea that if it doesn't work out (ie. rejected or break up) with a co-worker, then go for it.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:50 PM
0

This sub is for serious people wanting serious advice. Grow up.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:47 PM
0

Do what I do. Just ask if it's ok to kiss her.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:43 PM
1

Play it off, be the mysterious silent type. Then talk to the girl in the group who isn't talking much.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:35 PM
-1

Don't worry, once you lose your virginity, that issue will go away.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:32 PM
1

Do you feel you are going for girls that are not in your league? Or are you failing with girls regardless if they are really good looking or less than average?
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:29 PM
1

I don't like to play games mind games so I just text when I feel like it. If a girl is interested, it won't matter when I text her (the next day or after couple days). Maybe for girls who are only slightly interested, texting her days later could pay off on getting another date, but I guess I prefer to date girls who are really into me (I find them more fun). Plus, I don't like to try hard; I just like being myself around them.
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:38 PM
1

It's NOT impossible for the guy to end up having feelings for their fwb, BUT don't count on it. Generally, when a guy meets a girl, he kinda knows early on if she's girlfriend material. ​ But if you're gonna be an optimist, then one thing to look out for is if he actually spends quality time with you (one on one) outside (ie. like going on actual dates). If all you guys do is just coming over to each other's place to do the deed, then it's only fwb.
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:33 PM
1

Do you feel overly self-conscious about your virginity? Once you lose it, do you feel you're confidence will improve because you no longer have to feel left out or nervous when people start to talk about sex? If that's the case, then losing your virginity ASAP (in an unconventional way) will help you in the long run. HOWEVER, if your confidence is low because you don't feel you are attractive enough or have good social skills, then losing your virginity won't change anything. Try a professional …
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:14 PM
1

I know someone who did and they regret ever doing it. I say, if you're desperate to buy "love", you might as well just hire a professional dating coach to help you where you need it. Instead of buying fish at the store, you're better off learning how to fish.
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:03 PM
1

I had a first date where the girl was also very much into me. She was initiating all the physical contact.. Made out before finally calling it a night. Next day, no reply to my text. I tried to figure out what happened, but in the end of the day, everyone have their own reasons for changing their minds. So just move on.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:58 PM
1

fake
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:32 PM
1

Brad Pitt, George Clooney, etc. would say yes.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:31 PM
1

Depends, does she hold hands and hug other guys friends like that? It really depends, some girls are just flirty.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:27 PM
-1

Another guy who doesn't know the difference between having a friendly conversation and harrassing women. ​ Probably says more about you.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:22 PM
1

If I didn't double (or triple text), I would have 30%-40% less dates.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:21 PM
0

You must be gay.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:10 PM
1

You can read, you perv.
/r/seduction02/05/19 10:09 PM
2

Your problem is you think too far ahead. Don't think about what happens if you mess up or whatnot. Just go to that date and act like natural. Don't worry about her not liking you because the best you can do is be yourself, and if that's not what she is looking for, nothing you can do because you can't be anyone else.
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:13 PM
1

Looks like somebody inadvertently revealed he is into minors.
/r/seduction29/04/19 08:58 PM
1

It's either because you're more relaxed and more confident when drunk (and girls like confidence), OR you have beer goggles on so you are aiming for less attractive women which gives you higher rate of success.
/r/seduction29/04/19 08:54 PM
1

You live in a country where it's ok for 22 year olds to date girls who are under 18?
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:57 PM
1

I highly doubt there will ever be a girl that you will be in a serious relationship with that will make you not feel attracted to other girls. It's more about if that girl you are with is someone you feel strongly enough that you WON'T act on those primal urges (because duh, you truly love her).
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:37 PM
1

Did you date her for the sole purpose of just having sex? If so, that's messed up if you made her think it's a serious relationship. But if you became exclusive because you really felt that at the beginning, but now you feel differently, then it's best to move on OR try for another month to see if your feelings grow (if not, then break it off).
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:32 PM
1

How old are you? You said you approached a 15 year old and said she was too young. Plus you also approached a girl in the mall who might not even be in high school yet. I hope you're not 18 and above.
/r/seduction25/04/19 07:28 PM
2

Find someone easy.
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:33 PM
1

How?...you'll know when they don't sleep with you.
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:30 PM
2

If you talk to women who don't sleep around, obviously you are not gonna do well. If you talk to women who sleeps around, then you'll have better luck.
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:03 PM
1

You're talking to the wrong women.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:13 PM
1

Put one hand between belly and chest. Then walk.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:06 PM
1

I remember we are at home with another girl, and I say: "well this is my room, carefull, might be porn open on my pc" and she said "well, ok, then we will watch it" And thats how I knew we will fuck. And we fucked within 2 minutes. Like I said, not all girls are into casual sex. Basically, you never had a chance of having casual sex with her.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:01 PM
1

It's natural. Guys like to look at girls they find attractive even if nothing would ever come out of it.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:24 PM
1

Don't text everyday till the date. And when you do text, keep it short (unless she is the type who LOVES texting).
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:21 PM
1

She's a player. Move on.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:11 PM
1

If she doesn't fall for your personality, then it was just not meant to be.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:10 PM
1

As long as you are not telling them that you love them or whatnot, then nothing you can do if they fall for you hard.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:09 PM
1

I prefer to just go up to a bunch of girls and hopefully one will have a strong initial attraction and chemistry that I don't have to memorize steps and strategies. ​ EDIT: it's a numbers game.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:06 PM
1

It's possible that you guys won't end up getting married, so just enjoy it while it's happening.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:04 PM
2

Just treat the girl with respect and you're golden.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:56 PM
6

Getting a girl without making her laugh mostly likely mean she is boring to talk to.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:42 PM
2

No, because again...she is not into casual sex.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:40 PM
3

Owning a tesla creates value.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:32 PM
2

Both. You messed up because you made the girl (who is not into casual sex) feel cheap. EDIT: only way you could have avoided making her feel that way is if you never had intention of casual sex.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:24 PM
3

If you are someone who has lived in a cave all his life and not know social norms,...yeah, it's ok to think sex should always happen on the first date.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:23 PM
1

It means that while most guys don't find her attractive, YOU DO. That's good for you because you don't have to worry about competition.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:13 PM
1

You: Hey [girl's name]! Girl: Oh, hi. You: Do you wanna be more than just fellow classmates? ​ I think you should just ask her out on a date (dinner/movie, this can't be mistaken as friends hanging out).
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:11 PM
0

Correction: Do you believe you can't get "any girls".
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:09 PM
5

If she is not into casual sex, it means nothing you can do about it. EDIT: The fact that she faked phone called someone means that she was turned off by what she knew you were thinking was gonna happen.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:04 PM
2

Just flirt with him more, more physical touching here and there. I'm sure he'll get the hint (after all your talk about not wanting anything serious), and if he doesn't initiate a move, then it means that he is not interested in you that way.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:02 PM
7

She is not into casual sex, the end.
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:58 PM
1

By letting them know from the start (before sex) what you are or are not looking for.
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:03 PM
1

Get a dating coach.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:59 PM
1

As long as she knows where you stand (looking for serious or just casual), then you should be fine. ​ EDIT: However, if you guys are not adults yet, leave her be. You don't wanna scar her for life.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Looks like you still stressing about awkward silence. Until you master it, you won't be truly comfortable talking to women. So I suggest you get used to (practice) awkward silences during your approaches until it no longer bothers you.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:29 PM
1

You're having trouble getting dates from asian girls?
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:23 PM
3

Best reply is to ignore it. Making any other type of reply shows that you care what she thinks. A confident man doesn't care what other people think. Plus, to ignore someone's "shit test" let's the other person know that you see them with low value and that their thoughts are meaningless to you.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:11 PM
1

Just go old school...walk up to her and hand her a note telling her how you feel about her.
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:02 PM
1

Just text her a little bit (unless she is into the whole texting thing).
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:52 PM
5

It's a girl's way of taking away pressure from dating. They're afraid you might fall for them, and they don't want the pressure of having to tell you that they don't feel the same way.
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:45 PM
1

Isn't it interesting though that i'd say almost all girls who wear caps at the gym are hot (or is it the fact that they wear the cap that makes them hot)??
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:47 PM
1

Just date more.
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:46 PM
1

Is it a known thing that if a girl wears a baseball cap at the gym, it means she wants to be left alone?
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:14 PM
2

I think you want to post in a different sub.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:10 PM
2

it's ok to be rejected. there are other girls out there for you.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:38 PM
3

I'm guessing you haven't dated much? I was the same way before I started dating. If a girl gives me eye contact a couple times, I think about her for days. But after dating for years, those situations or girls you are not dating don't really stay in your mind long.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:36 PM
1

You're most likely bad at flirting (or boring conversationalist). Why don't you post some examples of the last time you flirted in person or phone. How did it go (what you said, what she said)?
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:51 PM
1

You might want to date her for a couple months before introducing to your parents. If she is the ONE, a couple months isn't gonna change that.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:46 PM
1

Learn to salsa. ​ EDIT: or if you're just going to give up, maybe you could just be frank and tell her that you like her, and ask if she likes you. Once it is realized that you both like each other, then things should flow more easily.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:41 PM
1

Forget about your pride early on. Just get that first date so you can show her your value. And if she ends up liking you, then it was worth it.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:35 PM
1

If she hasn't explicitly said she is no longer interested in meeting, then just keep messaging once a week asking for a date. You never know, she might really just be busy or she is bored one day and decide to meet with you. While that's happening, start approaching other girls and get their numbers.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:30 PM
2

Is she a weird goth girl?
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:14 PM
1

We live in different city (over 1 hour away) and we don't have mutual friends so we only met when we want to meet. Plus, it wasn't a bad breakup or anything, we talked it out and came to conclusion it wasn't gonna work.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:12 PM
1

Some girls do it, and some girls don't. If she's worth a second attempt (to ask to meet on different week), then go for it. That's how I've done it. If I find a girl really attractive, I give it a second try. If she's still too busy, then I know for sure she is not interested.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:05 PM
2

He is probably just not witty so flirting is more a challenge for him.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:59 PM
1

Stop thinking about sex when you see 9's and above, and you'll be less nervous.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:56 PM
2

Same thing has happened to me. Casually dated a girl who was very much into me, but after a month or so, I became more distant from her, and when I tried to re-ignite the spark, it was just not the same. I think some girls are just like that, they can easily get into someone as well as easily lose interest (if you show them lack of interest on your end).
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:47 PM
1

it's possible she is interested in you.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:42 PM
1

Better to just ask her. Giving your number will just make you wait around wondering if she will call or not.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:13 PM
1

Wait till she is single.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:11 PM
1

Just text her again to confirm if she is free saturday.
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:55 PM
1

I suggest you just ask her for her number the next time to find out if she is interested or not. Cuz if she's not, you waste your time thinking about her and end up looking like a stalker.
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:53 PM
3

Put the ball in her court. Tell her that you like her, but that you are not the type to mess with girls who are in relationships. Either she breaks up with her boyfriend which means she really likes you, or she stays with him and you just misunderstood her feelings for you.
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:44 PM
1

first guess: japanese second guess: chinese
/r/seduction08/04/19 09:21 PM
1

She's given you enough signals. If they are mixed signals, she can't blame you for it.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:00 PM
0

No, don't do it. It's a horrible show!
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:59 PM
1

Maybe she just can't make it to manhattan?
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:55 PM
1

She sounds like she's interested. If you need a girl to say "i like you" for you to ask her out, then you're gonna have lots of regrets.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:52 PM
0

If you ask her out on a date and you end up not getting a date, it means she's not interested.
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:04 PM
1

Ask her to meet up.
/r/seduction04/04/19 11:01 PM
2

Dude, 5 girls think your sexy and they even gave you their contact info. Trust me, you don't have to try hard. Just be yourself, no need to do anything extra.
/r/seduction04/04/19 10:57 PM
2

Straight but don’t find vaginas appealing at all I doubt it.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:44 PM
2

You need to work on your text game. You appeared very weak in that conversation. Very passive. Now, I'm not saying you should be aggressive and start doing something dumb like negging.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:36 PM
1

It's one possible sign of interest, but not a guarantee. You want to look for multiple signs. The more, the better.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:22 PM
1

Think like an alpha, and you become an alpha.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:55 PM
1

Try online dating.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:54 PM
1

Gotta say dibs first.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:49 PM
3

Or words spread at your workplace that you harass women.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:48 PM
1

You guys haven't dated that long. Maybe give it a few more weeks and see if things change for the better.
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:27 PM
2

Unfortunately, there is no magic pill. You most likely will end up looking nervous with her if you were to approach her now, which would be a bad idea. Best you can do is practice approaching other girls (outside of work) and get comfortable with talking to them (regardless of whether you get rejected or not). Then when you've become more confident, you can approach the office lady.
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:22 PM
1

People think differently after alcohol leaves the system.
/r/seduction26/03/19 07:00 PM
1

I'm confused, you have had LTR, but still a virgin?
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:58 PM
1

hopefully you and your friend are in the same level of attractiveness. edit: if the 3 of you are talking, at the very least, her eye contact is even between the two of you. If she seem to pay more attention to him, not good news for you.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:45 PM
1

So your saying before this, she was the one texting you with "I miss you" and tries to set up as many dates with you? Or were you just in the same casual mode as she appears to be in? If a girl is really into a guy, she will make time (ESPECIALLY early in the relationship).
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:44 PM
1

Make sure she doesn't have the hots for your friend.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:54 PM
-14

Just send one more text the next day. If she doesn't reply, then ask her in person if she got your text. If she says no, then she accidentally gave you the wrong number perhaps, and if she says yes, then it's time to move on.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:52 PM
5

Stay in the middle of bad boy and nice guy. Moderation is key.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:48 PM
1

Have topics already in your head to talk about before you approach, enough for a 3-5 minutes and then just ask for their number or to dance. You know that old saying...girls know in the first 5 minutes if they're interested or not.
/r/seduction26/03/19 05:24 PM
1

They feel you're safe because they don't have to worry about other girls being attracted to you, or that it won't be easy for you to move on to a new girl.
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:31 PM
1

If all your dates feel the same way, then you probably want to tone it down a bit. If it's just him, then you just need to find a guy who likes your humor.
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:29 PM
1

At least you were being honest. There are girls who prefer to date guys who only date one girl at a time.
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:17 PM
1

Don't neg/insult a girl (unless your really good looking). You're better off complimenting or not giving a compliment at all.
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:07 PM
1

Could be that your conversation is on the boring side, and girls, in general, don't take the lead in conversation so it ends up fizzling out. Perhaps talk to a girl with more of a purpose or goal. Either talk to them for a few minutes and either just ask for their number or to dance. This way, you'll know for sure if they're interested or not.
/r/seduction25/03/19 07:02 PM
0

If they are still under the age of 18, then it's possible she was just nervous and wanted to get away fast. If they are adults, then it's most likely her friend was just teasing her and she really was not interested.
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:58 PM
1

Abort! Don't be that "guy".
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:41 PM
2

It is not yet time, young caterpillar tadpole.
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:43 PM
2

She likes you.
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:33 PM
2

Act like it's not your first time someone touched your arm.
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:30 PM
3

You're too young for the arts of seduction.
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:28 PM
1

If a girl is interested, they will make time. You tried 3 times, and she just can't make time for you. Move on (unless you are casual about it and don't really mind whether she goes out with you or not). I've asked out girls knowing that they will say no, but it's more like when my mood is "i have nothing else to do, so why not try?".
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:24 PM
1

If you ask her to your place (for a movie), and she is not that type of girl, she may get offended. If you really like her, take her to the movies.
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:16 PM
1

She seems interested. If you are also interested, then be playful back.
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:14 PM
3

She's not into casual sex so move on.
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:46 PM
1

I'm guessing you haven't dated many girls at this point of your life, but if you have, you'll know when a girl looks at you with admiration. Usually, they'll look in your eyes and smile when interacting with you.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:34 PM
1

Google it.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:31 PM
1

If she hasn't questioned, then nothing is expected. Have anyone here ever been in an exclusive or serious relationship without talking about it first? Usually a person would ask if you're still seeing other people or ask what their relationship status is.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:30 PM
1

Do what I do...just admire them from a distance, and go on about your day. EDIT: Is she easy going just with you or is she that way with everyone else? If not, then she probably does like you. How is her eye contact, does she look at you with a smile a lot?
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:01 PM
1

She has never asked if you are seeing other women? Hopefully you don't lie about that with the women you see. Anyways, if she never asked that question, then I'm guessing you guys never talked about being bf/gf (exclusive), in which case, she is well aware you are not committed to her so you are free to see other women.
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:59 PM
1

Some girls text immediately, and some girls don't (and some do it because they're not interested).
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:55 PM
3

You should tell your friend to record a video of your facial expression when you talk to them so you know what adjustments you need to make.
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:50 PM
1

Just keep talking to many attractive women. Eventually, you get used to it, and talking to them won't be intimidating. It's same with dating. First time you go on a date with a really hot girl, you get intimidated, but after dating many hot women, it's not as big of a deal.
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:43 PM
2

Just hire a pro wing man.
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:39 PM
2

Next time, don't fall inlove too fast so you don't get too emotionally attached after one date. When you don't think a girl is your girlfriend, you are less likely to get mad when she doesn't text you soon enough. ​ By the way, is this your first date or you haven't dated much in the past? This happened to me in the past. It was my first time texting with a girl. She didn't text me after a couple hours so I said some stupid things to her. She replied back that she was just busy and that I was we…
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:18 PM
5

You tell them she is your friend. Calling a girl you just started dating or hanging out with does not automatically put you in a friendzone.
/r/seduction20/03/19 09:07 PM
2

Woman #3 reminded of a girl who I really had good connection with. Conversation was very free flowing. We were so comfortable with each other. Unfortunately, as I got to know her more, I realize that the same trait that made me connect with her so well (which was the fact that she was very flirty - i really like it when girls are flirty when they talk to me) is the same reason I couldn't trust her 100% (thus, not a long term relationship potential). One time at dinner, she was talking to the wai…
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:59 PM
9

You come off as too desperate/clingy. Best way to avoid making same mistake is by not trying to go for a kiss until after the 3rd (during the goodbye), and don't compliment at all.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:46 PM
5

Don't neg.
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:06 PM
1

And you don't worry that she will cheat on you too?
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:01 PM
1

Only allow yourself to become teary eyed, but never let a tear drop.
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:00 PM
1

It takes no effort to say "tell me something about you". Show effort by being more specific.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:56 PM
3

yes, you messed up. Best way moving forward is to not say anything to a girl that would be insulting to her.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:49 PM
1

I'm guessing you go into it expecting success? You can prevent feeling bad by not expecting anything.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:47 PM
3

I'm pretty sure any guy could give a girl an insult and that girl would remember. It's not really a good thing or hard to do.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:39 PM
2

I'll try that move too.
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:44 PM
1

It's possible. But if you feel worthy, then try to win them over and make them forget about the night time date guys.
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:42 PM
1

How do these girls give a cute/sexy look? Do they bite their finger nail or flutter their eyelashes when they look at you?
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:39 PM
1

What is the point of trying to qualify the girl? She already knows you're interested since you initiated with her.
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:35 PM
1

Trainers are suppose to be nice to their client because that's how they earn to make a living. Also, know that if your trainer is in good shape, very good chance they like their partners in very good shape as well. But since she will no longer be your trainer soon, what have you got to lose?
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:40 PM
1

Only the very good looking can afford to not play the game.
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:35 PM
1

Are you Russian? When I read this, it is with Russian accent.
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:24 PM
3

Hold out EDIT: If you think you can get girls you find attractive, then hold out. But if you look in your history, and your luck with attractive girls is extremely rare, then you should just be thankful for what you have.
/r/seduction14/03/19 10:14 PM
1

That's only power if the girl you are talking to is actually not pretty.
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:04 PM
2

Oh man, sorry that you're not having sex in another country. Let me play you a song with the tiniest violin.
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:03 PM
1

After you heard, you should have been done with anything to do with her.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:26 PM
0

You should be ashamed of yourself, messing with a girl who is in a relationship.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:24 PM
1

Movie and dinner is a fine first date. Also, this lets you know that she likes you for you, and not for the cool "experience" she can get from you.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:20 PM
1

Say "my goal is to become a super model".
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:18 PM
1

There are girls who are into chubby guys. I think it's because they are more trusting of them knowing that a chubby guy is less likely to cheat on them (since they would have a harder time attracting girls as attractive or more attractive).
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:16 PM
1

You should have had one of your friends distract the other friend (of the hottie), while you talked with the girl you liked. Or you could have just tapped the other friend on the other side of her shoulder, and as she turns, you grab the girl you like for a dance.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:05 PM
1

You're in good shape. Boys still in school have a hard time walking up to a girl, but you're already doing it. Just keep at it, and you'll be ready when you become a man.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:47 PM
1

Too easy. You just leave your phone number in the receipt, next to the big tip.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:31 PM
1

You say- "yes you are". They're asking for a compliment, you might as well give it to them.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:29 PM
2

When you become a master, you won't need to deflect...you simply absorb.
/r/seduction08/03/19 08:45 PM
2

Date many more attractive women, and you won't be obsessed as much.
/r/seduction08/03/19 08:42 PM
1

School and work definitely is a good reason for the slow response time.
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:30 PM
2

Make sure your fly is not open.
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:25 PM
1

Just go for it.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:18 PM
1

The last part...she doesn't want you to think you guys are bf/gf. She wants to keep things "not serious" yet. ​ EDIT: unless she has a job that requires lots of her focus. Is she same during weekends?
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:15 PM
1

Maybe she saw something on your FB that turned her off.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:12 PM
1

Wingmen in INDIA?...
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:10 PM
1

Highly doubtful...Just ask many of the women that trump sexually assaulted.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:07 PM
2

It really depends. If a girl is not really into you, waiting couple days could help pique her interest. If she is really into you, it won't matter whether the next day or the next couple days.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:05 PM
1

If you're a virgin, grinding is better.
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:03 PM
1

Some women are simply social butterflies. They are the hard ones to read. When they talk to you, they look like you have their attention and they smile often. This can be mistaken as a sign of interest. I think when it took her a couple days to reply back to you, that was her polite way of saying she is not interested.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:10 PM
1

So this works on famous actresses and super models who have rich and good looking boyfriends/husbands?
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:02 PM
1

I think the fact that she is not willing to break up with her boyfriend to be with you says a lot.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:00 PM
1

It's good to approach hot girls when starting because then, you go in knowing you're gonna fail anyways (so emotionally, you are already preparing yourself for rejection).
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:38 PM
1

I had the biggest crush on Jennifer Love Hewitt back in the days. But I know it's not gonna happen, so I gave up. You can't win them all.
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:36 PM
2

If you need pickup guide to get a date in bangkok, you should probably just give up on dating.
/r/seduction01/03/19 05:46 PM
1

Asking other people about her whereabouts, and going to her lunch area for weeks in attempt to see her, and then going on instagram to find her current location, and going there to see her again. ​ Not creepy or stalker-ish at all.
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:54 PM
1

Yes, girls don't usually initiate conversation with guys. If you're interested in her, keep talking to her.
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:44 PM
1

If you have no plans of dating them, why does it matter what they think of you?
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:41 PM
8

she likes you. ask her out if you're interested.
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:43 PM
2

Just go with the "I'm not good enough for you, you deserve someone better". It's a rejection with a going away compliment.
/r/seduction28/02/19 08:24 PM
2

Using cute is mostly based on the girl's face. Using hot is based on the girls clothing/makeup (ie. girls who wear sexy clothing like skirts, form fitting clothes, showing skin, etc).
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:12 PM
2

You should change the title: "how to cheat on my signifcant other".
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:01 PM
2

On the second date, when you guys say your goodbyes, ask her if you can kiss her.
/r/seduction28/02/19 06:56 PM
10

Is this a humble brag?
/r/seduction28/02/19 06:54 PM
1

Is it possible you are mistaking those IOI (from girl who already rejected you) as just her keeping an eye out for you as precaution? I'm sure you would look in the direction of a girl you have rejected in the past?
/r/seduction27/02/19 07:52 PM
1

"I should probably get going, have a great day".
/r/seduction27/02/19 07:32 PM
4

It was a way for her to de-escalate the situation. She figured she made it too obvious that she was into you. So she is just stepping back a bit.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:17 PM
1

I wouldn't use those lines (you mentioned) anymore cuz I'm gonna give this to all my friends to use.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:15 PM
3

So basically you wanna do what PUA are already doing?...Making money out of guys who have trouble attracting women? ​ EDIT: or is this for free?
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:09 PM
1

I would say avoid him, but I doubt that's possible since he is your professor, and unless you're ok with telling him to back off, you won't be able to stop his come-ons. Plus, he could fail you in his class if you did stand up to him. Best to just report him.
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:06 PM
1

Maybe send a second message to confirm? ​ EDIT: it's better to just send a second message instead of over thinking if she is purposely ignoring you or not. If she ignores second message, then move on (nice and quick), and be done with it.
/r/seduction26/02/19 07:56 PM
2

it's possible she was interested.
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:30 PM
1

slip her a note. Time to take it old school.
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:22 PM
1

start out with baby steps. first day, just say "good evening or afternoon". Next day, say hello, and say something short about whatever. It lets them know that you are just being friendly as opposed to full on hitting on them. Basically, keep conversations short until perhaps they start to prolong the conversation themselves. ​ EDIT: if their replies are long, then that means they are becoming more comfortable with you. If they reply with short answers, best to keep convo short until they start …
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:16 PM
3

Don't worry, think of this as a practice date. Just ask her things that interest her, and if you don't know her interest, ask her what they are.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:51 PM
2

I think when a girl agrees to a third date, it's safe to assume she is interested (unless you been hiding your true self which could turn her off once she sees it).
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:48 PM
1

start looking for other girls to have crushes on.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:35 PM
2

if it's obvious between you guys that you like each other, then you might as well be honest and tell Maria that you got her number from your mom's phone without your mom knowing. why make it so complicated?
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:31 PM
1

Sounds like she hates you.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:28 PM
1

You were a complete gentleman and treated her like a person instead of a sexual object (plus you said she seemed like she had fun), you monster! I don't think women would approve of guys like you.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:21 PM
1

The only downside of settling down with a girl in her prime is you don't know how she will be past her prime (not aging well). On the other hand, settling down with a girl past her prime gives you a good idea if she ages gracefully.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:56 PM
1

Not sure if a girl mentioning to a guy "she likes" that she cheated on her ex is a good sign. Usually, girls will try to hide that fact cuz i'm pretty sure it's universal that being a cheater is not a good quality in a mate. ​ EDIT: basically, why risk turning you off by admitting that she cheated on her ex if she is trying to make you like her. Better yet, would you tell girls that you cheated on your ex if you are trying to make her want you?
/r/seduction21/02/19 08:19 PM
1

Spending time with a girl is easy when the girl enjoys your company.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:43 PM
2

The fact that she still talks to him (proposal guy) means that they are still friends, and if there was a proposal, I'm assuming they are pretty close friends, so yeah, it would be like her telling her close female friends.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:37 PM
2

So you think girls will commit to only seeing you while they know you are not committed to them?
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:35 PM
2

Giving out your number allows you to recognize the girls who are REALLY into you (if that's what you are looking for). But for girls who are only sorta/maybe interested (based on initial interaction), you could lose out on your chance with them, especially the chance to pique their interest more had they gotten to know you better.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:24 PM
1

what's the big deal if she talks about you (ie. showing your messages) with the other guy? I've always thought girls talk about the guys they are dating with their female friends ALL THE TIME - she just happen to be close with a guy friend too.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:16 PM
2

I meant by the time he is 23.
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:51 PM
2

Haha, the game never stops...right. smh
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:13 PM
4

You may suffering from all those teasing now, but you will be a well oiled machine (by the time you're 18) when it comes to talking to women. No pain, no gain.
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:12 PM
2

The fact that the gf is the one asking for space (and the guy is thinking about sending flowers), it's pretty obvious who here is at fault in the argument.
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:03 PM
2

They're already in an actual relationship. There's no need to play head games here.
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:02 PM
0

If you love her, then just give her the flower (but don't stay long, she did say she need some space). It will show her that you are thinking about her.
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:01 PM
1

You have some anger issues with women, most likely.
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:52 PM
1

I think the problem is that when you look at attractive women, you expect something to happen with them (ie. dating them, talking to them, etc). I enjoy looking at attractive women and just appreciate their beauty.
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:33 PM
1

I'm sensing you may be chatting with a fake user (being catfished). Ask her to do a live video chat. A girl who is confident enough to show provocative pictures would have no problem doing video chat.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:07 PM
1

If she got turned off by that joke text, then you're better off. You want to be with someone who gets your humor.
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:56 PM
1

Girls i've dated say that guys who move too fast (after 2-3 dates) on wanting to be exclusive usually make the girls uncomfortable.
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:55 PM
2

guys who are successful with women give off a vibe that shows they don't need validation from women (because those guys already know that there are girls out there that like them).
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:30 PM
2

Do what I did...I allowed myself to be rejected and humiliated. And if you're a good looking guy, it won't always end that way.
/r/seduction15/02/19 10:20 PM
2

It's possible you guys are having boring conversations over text. As long as she is very engaged during in-person conversation, then that is what matters.
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:47 PM
1

Have you tried having your friends set you up?
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:38 PM
2

I've been rejected many many times, but I've also had some success with women. Rejection doesn't really affect me anymore. Just go with the mind set that some girls will like you, and some girls won't.
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:33 PM
1

Start dating or focusing on another girl, and your interaction with the girl, who rejected you, will come to you more naturally. ​ EDIT: because you won't care anymore
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:28 PM
1

Well, if you end up meeting 3 girls (that you find attractive) using this "model" picture, and you don't get at least one second date from any of the girls, then I think it's time to remove that picture.
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:24 PM
1

It's possible she followed you in hopes of you becoming one of her followers. Many people like the idea of having more followers.
/r/seduction04/02/19 07:56 PM
1

yep, the arm touching is a good sign.
/r/seduction04/02/19 07:41 PM
1

I concur.
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:12 PM
2

So she is negging you now too??
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:08 PM
-2

Slightly chubby, but she's hot.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:56 PM
-3

sorry, but she's hot.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:55 PM
2

She pushed him because the guy made the mistake of putting his hand on her even before he could introduce himself. Respect personal space.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:55 PM
1

yes, most likely she is talking to someone else.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:51 PM
4

'"I feel bad for you, because you entered at the lul in the conversation"' Why even talk to her about this? By the way, when you say she entered and talked about boring stuff, do you really think regular conversation (school, work, etc) is boring to everyone?
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:27 PM
1

Assuming you have no desire to lose weight, then it's good to realize not every man out there is in good shape. There are also overweight guys who are good people.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:25 PM
1

Some girls will like you, some girls won't. The end.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:21 PM
1

Are these harmless funny teasing or is she hurting your feelings? If she is hurting your feelings, then she definitely don't like you.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:19 PM
1

If there is high level of attraction, then text message response time should not matter. In fact, I'm pretty sure the response time interval between the two subjects wouldn't matter as well. I have a pretty good feeling when you guys set up the first physical encounter scenario, she'll even take care of the financials.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:15 PM
2

Maybe you were in better shape in your 20's?
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:07 PM
2

If you do quick looks (and not too often), then it's ok. A girl will only feel uncomfortable if she notices you staring at her. So if you're going to stare, make sure she doesn't notice.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:04 PM
1

Don't listen to these guys. They wish they can find someone that can make them feel like they don't want any other girl. You're actually lucky. You should go and ask her out (if you haven't already).
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:05 PM
1

usually with my feet.
/r/seduction25/01/19 10:45 PM
1

My guess is your friend is better looking than you. If you want the attention, I suggest you get a wing-man less attractive than you.
/r/seduction25/01/19 01:23 AM
1

Sneak behind them and just start dancing with them. They can't reject you if they don't even know you're there.
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:54 AM
1

bad idea. when you are not that good looking in the first place, standing next to a really good looking guy will only make you look even worse.
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:35 PM
1

This is true Source: past experience
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:32 PM
1

Won't she just think that your laughing hysterically as an overcompensation of you getting butt hurt?
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:30 PM
1

Have you ever made out with a girl that you weren't really that into? Basically, you're THAT girl in this instance.
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:27 PM
1

You can ask a couple times, but once the reason becomes repetitive, it's best to stop asking. Asking a couple times is good because the reason could be something that you can actually change. I once asked a girl why and she said I had bad breath. So I started working on improving my hygiene, and grooming myself better.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:59 PM
3

Two reasons: 1. You're not nervous when it comes to girls you're not attracted to; Not nervous = appear more confident. 2. Less attractive girls are less picky than more attractive girls.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:49 PM
1

Don't be a coward.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:55 PM
1

I think it's safe to say she is not interested.
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:22 AM
0

That's easy...just be good looking.
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:10 AM
2

Go for more attractive girls so you'll be more motivated.
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:08 AM
1

You're afraid of failure, coward.
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:06 AM
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