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I just give her a long kiss and a smile and walk away. Sometimes she changes her mind and follows me, but if not, there's always later.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 05:04 AM
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Yes! This is what I do with my wife. It helps that she's receptive to it, but my always keeping that "sex is fun, not an obligation/chore" mindset is key.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 06:31 PM
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When she starts using girl game on you, for the love of God ENCOURAGE and REWARD IT. Is it manipulation? You bet! Enjoy the ride. Ha ha! I will. I think she's already started...
/r/askMRP21/11/15 07:06 PM
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Shit, you make a lot of good points. If I hit on enough women in front of her, I'll show her I'm a desirable am and she better stfu and defer to me or else I'll drop her. I was telling myself "to feel secure in the marriage, she needs to know that I'm desirable to other women (i.e., she made a good choice marrying me) and if she feels secure she will defer to me. Plus, she won't take me for granted if she knows I have options. Win-win." I was glossing over the damage to her insecure self-esteem …
/r/askMRP21/11/15 06:54 PM
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Sex God Method...interesting. The idea being that since she's generally DTF, She'd be more receptive to my upping the alpha in that area vs. others? Haven't read it, but it's now on my list.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 11:15 PM
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I was going to call you an asshole, but you're right. I see that now. Shit, I thought I was doing the right things but you guys are talking a lot of sense. Just the fact that my wife came here is evidence that I'm fucking up royally.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 09:19 PM
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She'll initially go along with a plan I have, and then want to pick it apart. She just can't relax and follow. It extends to all different areas (kids, home maintenance, finances, and even Saturday afternoons).
/r/askMRP20/11/15 08:55 PM
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I said this in reply to to someone else, but I'll reiterate here to get your opinion. She's arguing over little things, shit testing me and somehow I am failing. Obviously I have more work to do. I had hoped that the dread (seeing that I've improved my social skills and am attractive to other women) would help, but it sounds like it's the wrong tool for the job.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 08:33 PM
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I admit, I need to do more of the reading. I just picked up WISNIFG, so I'm going to start there. And I'm starting to understand what you all are saying about still needing validation from her. What I'm trying to fix is not being in charge of the marriage, or of our family. She's been handling just about everything (kids, money, house stuff, our social lives, etc.) and doesn't want to let go. She wants to argue with me over shit that doesn't matter, when she should just let me handle it. And unf…
/r/askMRP20/11/15 08:24 PM
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I want her to respect me and follow my lead, and my demonstrating that I'm a high value man promotes that. Right now she is fighting me for control.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 01:01 AM
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Second, why are you "pissed?" I'm just angry that she would come on here, to a message board for men, and discuss our issues. Her hamstering is embarrassing. help is probably coming if your wife actually reads the book I recommended. She mentioned that she'd bought a book based on what you guys said. It would be great if it helps.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:54 AM
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I haven't read WISNIFG. I'll get it and have her read it, too. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:48 AM
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Reading your story helps. I hope I can turn things around the way you did. Thanks
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:47 AM
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As I've said elsewhere, I'm just trying to level the playing field a little by showing her I have options and the game skills to pull women. A woman doesn't want to be with a man that other women don't want, and that's what I've always been.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:44 AM
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It lowers your SMV in her eyes If she's so disgusted and it's lowering my SMV, wouldn't she stop fucking me? That's what I would expect based on RP.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:40 AM
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I'm not trying to punish her, but for her to respect me she's got to know I have options. She's got options coming out of the woodwork, so it's hard to get her to appreciate that I have them, too.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:35 AM
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You're right. I am failing her shit tests. Here's how it usually goes : she tests me, I either STFU and ignore her or try AA/AM, she escalates the issue by getting teary and calling me an asshole, and then I get a little frustrated and pissed. At that point, I usually walk away, but she'll follow me and then we end up yelling at each other. I need to control my temper and not lose frame, but I'm finding that hard, especially now that she knows about MRP.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 12:30 AM
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I hear what you're saying, but although she can be manipulative (AWALT) and might have been using you guys as a proxy for me, I don't know if she was hoping I would read her post. She's more likely to hide shit like this from me. Maybe it was a validation seeking thing?
/r/askMRP19/11/15 03:11 PM
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Lol - that's hilarious
/r/askMRP19/11/15 03:01 PM
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The dread is to drive the point home to her that she's not on a pedestal anymore, and that I'm killing my oneitis. She's been he prize for too long. She gets so much male attention, I'm counteracting that by giving my attention to other women. Plus, it'll boost my SMV in her eyes to see other chicks give me IOIs.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 02:58 PM
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