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Some would say radical, some would say narrow-minded but you want to live your life your way and who am I to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:11 PM
0

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:28 PM
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Nah, I'm a guy, that's a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:07 PM
3

He sounds like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:59 PM
1

Nah that's just your victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:56 PM
1

You won't see it because your mindset it not even close to the majority of men in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:10 PM
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It's not that normal to see in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:08 PM
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This might be the saddest thing I've read on this sub and that says quite a bit, you're so disconnected from reality I hope you get help one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:29 PM
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Pretty women aren't going to sleep with you just because you complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:38 PM
1

I always know what type of man I am dealing with when paternity fraud is high on their list of concerns. With your mentalities y'all are never going to have to worry about knocking up women anyway. Now let's look at the number of men who knock up another women while in a committed relationship, I am sure those numbers are comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:35 PM
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This is such a narrow-minded and disingenuous view on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:55 PM
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That's fair, being a good person is subjective I guess but to me the best people I know are the ones who faced adversity or were dealt poor cards in life and choose not to act like a victim or like they are owed anything and yet they still treat people with respect or give the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:14 PM
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Maybe you're not good people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:07 PM
0

This is truly a victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:17 PM
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So my takeaway from this post is just that most men are losers while women are getting their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:42 PM
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Every pessimist thinks they're a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:19 PM
2

I love this answer. I have a great relationship and an awesome career with very little education and overall technical ability. Whenever I have anyone ask for advice it's always to just try to be a genuinely good person and don't expect anything to be given to you. And in my case I have been very fortunate as entitlement is a major turnoff in both your professional and personal life. People here really think there is some sort of code to crack but there isn't. There is nuance to everything in li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:17 PM
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Not Reddit that's for fucking sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:14 PM
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I hate men who ask shit like this. I'm a dude, I choose who I finish inside, if I get a girl pregnant I'm not going to be a little bitch and look for loopholes to get out of my responsibilities or push someone into an abortion that could potentially fuck with their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:28 PM
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If you took modern women and put them back in time they would never date our grandparents if they were similar ages due to different belief systems. Women grew out of settling for what was there and choose men who have a more modern mindset. The ones who didn't are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:21 PM
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I'd be way too wary of someone who would only marry me if I agreed to change my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:15 PM
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Women don't have sex to have an orgasm my dude I'm sure this is what you tell yourself to make it feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:12 PM
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You seem to make a lot of assumptions like many of the other men here but if you don't like my opinion than I guess it's better to just invalidate other people and crawl back into your hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:31 PM
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What's the point of any comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:03 PM
4

Don't need a legit survey to see this sub is packed with virgins who don't know how to interact in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:09 PM
9

This just sounds like a big load of shit honestly and our therapy methods have developed massively in the last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:00 PM
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Biased data or information that is misrepresented. Someone is speaking on their experience, OP isn't requesting stats and your comments are more useless than OP providing herself as a sample size. You just don't like women and that is apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:48 PM
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This whole sub is personal biases dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:45 PM
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Only idiots take the Alpha/Beta stuff seriously and I'm sure your husband would love to know that you're calling him a beta online amongst a bunch of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:44 PM
1

As someone in my 30s, trust me with experience on their end the checklists start getting shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:43 PM
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None of this matters, you just love your confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:20 PM
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Or maybe people are in general less ignorant than they were 50 years ago? I choose to believe the lizard people are making our children gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:12 PM
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OP in summary: I dated a good dude and was too insecure to maintain a relationship so I chose to settle for someone I found less attractive because I can't handle other women giving my men attention. These are your issues OP, nobody else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:25 PM
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You base your opinion on women and their standards through your own perception, of course this is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:18 PM
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Ah so they are just shitty and misogynistic when they are single, much better. Let me ask you, do you think women in real life should want to date you based on your real life persona?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:53 PM
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Many women have way more options than most men, but generally they aren't willing to lower their standards to date guys like you that hide their sad mentality and complain about women online or commit to a relationship with a hot but toxic dude. Really no winning either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:43 PM
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Trust me, you would also rather be single than with those type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:41 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:52 PM
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It's not a relevant qualifier because people in real life don't think like that. There is no actual distinction between 'friendzone' and 'Friendzone' because all you did was re-label a pre-exisiting concept into something else for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:50 PM
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Ah so I was right, it's just semantics You can be friends with someone of the opposite sex without wanting to fuck them. Normal people just call those friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:47 PM
1

I have never heard anyone make that distinction before, just sounds like semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:14 PM
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Ask her out, if she says no then move on. If you choose to stick around as a friend knowing you want more it's not her putting you in the friendzone, it's yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:11 PM
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Wrong, the friendzone is the result of 1 thing: 1) Person A is attracted to person B and wanted to date them. Person B doesn't want to date Person A. Person A decided to stick around as a friend and look for their opportunity to try to turn it into a real relationship. The only person putting A in the friendzone is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:10 PM
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It's clear you don't have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:36 PM
2

Christ some of these posts are so detached from reality I wonder if they're posted by aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:21 PM
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It's amazing that you actually need to describe nuance to people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:15 PM
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Bruh, ain't no girl going to want to fuck some loser that doesn't have a job or hobbies or life essentially. The advice is to build yourself up, regardless if a relationship comes from it or not and your weird tangent over making money for evil owners is just super detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:12 PM
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You need to go outside more, I think I know of like 2 women that actually got elective cosmetic surgeries and they were fairly minimal. All you're doing is listing a bunch of rich insecure people that depend on their optics for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:48 PM
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You don't have to find something wrong with something to not be into it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:03 PM
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If my girl felt the need to check my phone I'd leave, the same way I'd expect her to if I needed a paternity test. Not sure bragging about how your partner doesn't trust you supports your point but enjoy it while it lasts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:01 PM
1

I love when people just pull numbers out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:00 PM
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These are some of the stupidest comparisons I have ever seen, nice work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:56 PM
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I'm a dude, I'm with my partner because I trust her and would expect her to seriously consider leaving me if I essentially accused her of cheating by asking for a test. Men here using this as some kind of 'gotcha' has to be the most embarrassing thing I have seen lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:55 PM
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OP's life experience is entirely online it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:13 PM
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Damn going through OP's post history I'm getting huge r/notlikeothergirls vibes. Kind of sad to read through.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:29 PM
3

I can agree with the premise in your title, it's probably why there are so many single men because they mostly have such archaic views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:18 PM
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This comment is so out of touch and the fact that RP men agree on it really solidifies that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:15 PM
2

This is actually a pretty normal opinion, not surprising people here don't agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:14 PM
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Out of all the stupid shit on this sub this is probably one of the dumbest things I've seen someone get bent out of shape over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:47 PM
3

Add judgmental to your list for accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:27 PM
4

You watch too many movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:19 PM
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What a sad mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:44 PM
2

Should tell you something about yourself then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:20 PM
2

Sounds like you're getting taken for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:05 PM
1

Thank you for confirming what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:11 PM
1

Because he's not emotionally mature enough to support his figurative partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:58 PM
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Yep, the problem here is that most of them men on this sub think they're at least average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:21 PM
3

Most women are here to troll the men who have zero self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:05 PM
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Because none of the men here actually come to debate in good spirit and instead choose to double down on their own rhetoric which is part of their major social and dating issues in the first place. I thought I'd come in here and actually try to debate but when people don't want to listen all you can do is watch the crash as it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:54 PM
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I love how many people proved your point in their responses to this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:49 PM
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Most women tend to want Godlike recognition for doing the simplest of things. You're in the wrong sub, r/notlikeothergirls is over there. No, most women in my experience don't expect godlike recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:47 PM
1

No man...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:11 PM
1

Yeah, maybe 500 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:16 PM
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It’s about commitment and boundaries. Like why still dress like your still single when your taken? Taken right out of the manipulators playbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:13 PM
2

I am wondering if OP is Jonah Hill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:10 PM
2

Imagine being so useless you that think it's emasculating to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:08 PM
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I guarantee you the vast majority of men here don't spew any of these things they say in real life, because women can't handle the truth. Lol, good luck living alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:58 PM
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The entire post is an anecdote lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
2

Not sure what you're smoking or what kind of remote village you live in but 5 minutes in a major city and I would dispute your points entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:41 PM
1

Maybe you're not a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:58 PM
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There is a difference between feeling entitled to a man's friendship vs being disappointed that men only want to be your friend to use your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:50 PM
1

Ah so you don't, you can't argue with someone who has no idea what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:20 PM
3

All your comments tell me is that you don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:50 PM
3

This is a loser mentality if you're a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:48 PM
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OP out here advocating for himself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:09 PM
4

I love the comments that speak for the entirety of two genders, really shows you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:07 PM
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Yeah instead we should just listen to incels and redpillers on reddit and their combined 6 minutes of dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:13 PM
3

Men who think like this are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:07 PM
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Sometimes I don't miss how ignorant I was when I was 21
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:42 PM
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I'm against what you believe and what you think accountability is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:02 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:54 PM
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r/notlikeotherwomen is over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:40 PM
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I didn't realize complaining about an entire gender online was equivalent to fighting for your rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:37 PM
0

How deep is your head in the sand that you think only women seek an attractive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:36 PM
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What the fuck lol, I'm pretty sure most tend to improve for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:32 PM
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It's cute that you think they hang around crowds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:27 PM
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Lol chill my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:55 PM
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We get it, you're gross and can't clean up after yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:27 PM
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its safe to say that every man watches some amount of porn or erotica No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:27 PM
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Women's anatomy is pretty basic dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:07 PM
0

Deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:21 PM
3

Rights did not exist until very recently because men thought of them and enabled them. While also deciding to restrict women's rights. Either way, I'm pretty sure I lost the plot here on what your point is but it's always funny seeing a man try to take credit for their gender's accomplishments without actually contributing anything other than vitriol against women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:44 PM
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It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:35 PM
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Last I checked men and women have the same rights. The fact that you can't see the issue with men having to 'give' women these rights is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:33 PM
1

Probably not, but going online into women hating echo chambers isn't the answer either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:44 PM
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I am a man, I grow up in the same environment as all of you. I spent most of my life up to my mid-20s on Reddit and playing video games dejected that life was so much harder than it needed to be. Then I went outside and changed my life to get out of a victim complex because all it does it make it harder to build relationships. When people start saying "all men are like this" or "all women are like that" all I can think is someone's life was shaped way too much by the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:24 PM
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Seems to me that this sub is just full of people who want to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:16 PM
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Ah yes, them getting shunned by women totally justifies the misogyny and violence. Just like how women were put down for decades and they solved it by shooting up schools to get respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:51 PM
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TRP is not perfectly normal dudes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:47 PM
3

Holy victim mentality batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:56 PM
2

Also the fact that I bet like 5% of the men on this sub actually know how to change a tire.. or drive for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:55 PM
1

A small percentage of women I have met have entitlement like you describe, same as men. Most women just want a partner. Also I guarantee you most of the men here don't know how to change a tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:54 PM
4

How do you guys not feel stupid having a conversation like this and arbitrarily applying ratings to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:49 PM
2

Lol there are practically no women out there that think Momoa has has a 'dad bod' such a disingenuous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:18 PM
10

Are you talking about your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:54 PM
7

It's always funny to me when men talk like this and are surprised women don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:53 PM
5

Do you own a home? If you moved in your partner would you expect them to contribute to more than just utilities and food?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:52 PM
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I wouldn't demand to be put on someone's mortgage who I was only dating, that is lunacy. I would appreciate being in a home she owned and being able to save some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:50 PM
1

From my personal experience Americans don’t seem to be as patient when it comes to dating compared to people in other countries. I would love to hear what your experience actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:14 PM
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The red pill exists because too many men spend too much time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:09 PM
1

don’t require the kind of peak physical strength that a much greater proportion of men than women have. You could have phrased this in a better way that doesn't overtly put women down, it's pretty apparent why you're having the struggles you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:55 PM
1

That has not been my experience with women and I'm about as average as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:02 PM
1

But that's what I'm saying, it's not a proper reflection and you can use any narrative to twist it any way. But let's be honest here, who do you think are the ones upvoting naked women by the thousands. Never said you hated me but you just used an underhanded debate tactic to try and invalidate my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:29 PM
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Lurkers can also be unflaired subscribers. No need to get defensive, just because I don't have my own data doesn't mean I can't pick apart the obvious issues with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:15 PM
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Using flairs can be incredibly misleading, gonewild for instance would have a shit load of lurkers and requires a profile validation which mostly only women would do to post pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:56 PM
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Or it's just majority men up voting the few women who post and not each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:42 PM
1

That's great and all, enjoy your freedom and more power to you. Just don't expect women to be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:12 PM
1

We will just have to agree to disagree on this. It's not hard to go into the majority of the posters profiles here to see how much of a disservice they are doing themselves. It's not them just simply complaining that dating is harder, people here are actively acting like women are a monolith and all think the same or believe their online experiences are indicative of reality but it's simply not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:12 PM
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This might be one of the cringiest things I have read on this sub in a long time... and that's saying a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:38 PM
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You think the guys who feel victimized by dating are actually looking at it objectively? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:29 PM
0

Men aren't pushing blame onto women when they state facts about human behavior. They're just trying to analyze and adapt. Are they though? Or are they just going online and on forums to complain about how unfair the system is. Too many people base their dating expectations on what they see online but I can guarantee you people aren't making the changes for themselves to be successful in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:28 PM
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Defensiveness is clearly a strong trait of yours wow. I'm a dude that doesn't mind answering this question because as partners we both need to bring something to the table. If your answer is cheeto dust and silver rank on LoL then no sorry, you're not bringing what most people would want in a partner. Just having a stable career, decent social life and hygiene is more than the bare minimum but is a lot more than some women have had in prior relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:18 PM
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Super average dude here in a bit city, it's really not hard dude and using the word 'gaslighting' and acting like a victim is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:54 PM
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Another dude here, wow this a read. I can't believe people actually live their lives like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:45 PM
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THAT is the difference, and to pretend otherwise is typical of women on PPD. What a shitty line to add to the end of a comment, wow. Essentially if you don't agree with me you're a 'typical woman' meant as something derogatory. Maybe you should stick to the Incel subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:43 PM
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