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You're sure about that? What about entitlement to life? Entitlement to being treated humanely? Not all entitlements are an abuse of power, some of them are considered "human rights." I'm not sure where you stand on some of those views, but personally, I want to protect some of those entitlements.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:58 AM
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Tell your friend she isn't very good at Feminism.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 08:29 PM
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Whaaaat? I'm trying to figure out what that means in your context, would you mind elaborating on that?
/r/MensRights23/06/13 03:48 AM
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A group is made up of individuals... What it seems like you're saying is that you're passing judgement on and entire group made up of individuals, but since you are just stereotyping Feminists into a group it's ok. I don't mean this as an attack on your character, but some clarification would be useful.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 03:43 AM
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Decent people don't want to protect things they believe they are entitled to? If that is what you meant, then i fail to see the logic in your statement. "Decency" is relative, and as a product of evolution, i would think it natural for humans to desire protection for entitlements.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 01:29 AM
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Do you think this is the result of media intervention? Sex in our society is like a double-bind. It is in most advertisements, movies, and television shows, yet it is construed as only for the "young," and "beautiful." As well as being still considered extremely taboo.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 11:23 PM
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Who doesn't want to protect their own entitlement?
/r/MensRights22/06/13 11:17 PM
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I hope you don't seriously believe that. There are a lot of radical Feminists, but there are some that are actually reasonable too.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 11:04 PM
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This is not very surprising information. I've some experience in the area, and I can say that I've seen sone women with mid-life crisis which was the prompting for divorce. I'm not sure I would call it boredom though...
/r/MensRights20/06/13 04:28 AM
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Well anger is a part of social action, and maybe this is her thought process... but I can honestly say I didn't know what patriarchy was until later in my life, much less examining the way men are "oppressing" women. Thanks for your response though, that definitely could be where her mind is at.
/r/MensRights18/06/13 03:41 PM
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I don't even know what to think about this. Is it a lack of education on the girl's part or ... attention seeking? I don't know, I'm stretching to figure out what is going on in this girl's mind.
/r/MensRights17/06/13 09:48 PM
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I think it's because of genders stereotypes. Boys are seen as "violent", girls are seen as "innocent."
/r/MensRights12/06/13 03:31 PM
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Yes, that is what I was trying to figure out. Thank you for that.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 07:10 PM
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No, please enlighten me, I'm really interested to learn!
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:39 AM
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It's sad, but it threatens people to know that maybe they aren't justified in some of their beliefs they've clung to for a long time. I see this in other forms other than just MRM & Feminism. I've seen in it religion as well.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:38 AM
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I see. I would agree with that. But they really believe that, they don't think they are lying.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:36 AM
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Well, from what I'm learning here on Reddit, a lot of statistics on DV specifically, which leave out men. Claiming that women are 85% of the victims of DV, when really that doesn't account for under reporting of men who experience DV, as well as that men who do experience it usually don't want to talk about it, OR DV organizations tell men that what they are experiencing isn't considered DV. This is just one example I know of, but I'm still really new to the topic, so I'm interested to find othe…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:35 AM
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I think sometimes the MRM is misunderstood, I've definitely had many a negative encounter with an MRA telling me that the Feminist movement is ridiculous, unnecessary, etc. As well as being attacked personally based on my status as a Feminist. Whilst this deterred me at first, I continued to monitor with the interest what the MRM represents and came to realize that it was misunderstandings and stereotypes that caused that to happen. If I was not determined to push forward, learn more and strive …
/r/MensRights10/06/13 09:21 PM
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Haha. Well considering I'm not accusing you of that, I would not worry about it.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:18 PM
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I have to agree with this. I know very few feminists who have children, the majority of them are young, twenty somethings, with very idealist views and a lot to learn. I am one of these, but I embrace the MRM, and I'm hoping that others can be open to doing the same. For me, I see my Feminist ideals as coinciding with the ideals of the MRM.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:12 PM
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I'd like to see a new movement, but who knows, if enough intelligent and informed people stayed true to the Feminist movement, maybe it can. The future is full of possibilities.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:09 PM
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In what way do you mean honest?
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:08 PM
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This is arguably the best idea that I've seen in a long time. It's kind of a spin on motivational interviewing. Love it!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:05 PM
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Huh, I did not know that. Thanks!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 02:45 PM
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While yes, that is an issue with women, I know plenty of people, both men and women, who have a sense of entitlement. I think it just happens to manifest in a particular way in women, which would be "Feminism."
/r/MensRights10/06/13 04:47 AM
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I want to see the day when all humans are humanists. Maybe that's too idealistic?
/r/MensRights10/06/13 04:43 AM
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I think I was recruited to MRM today in another thread. Damn you MRA's and all your good logic.... haha. :)
/r/MensRights10/06/13 04:39 AM
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Oh my gosh.... I think I'm slightly nauseous. And to think I wondered why Feminists get a bad rap.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 04:35 AM
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I'm astonished, you are full of information! I did think maybe that is what you meant, but I'm glad to see you think that is not the case. I shall get back to you when I get the chance to look at all of this, it is quite a bit of ground to cover in one day!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 12:25 AM
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I haven't had the opportunity to watch the video yet, I'm simultaneously working on a few papers for school work, so I've been saving them for later in the day when I can take a break. Maybe I should be concerned about Feminists vilifying me, but honestly I'm not worried about being vilified, I'm concerned that if this knowledge is out there and it's being kept a secret, I don't want to contribute to that. It isn't easy to change the minds of others, especially when such a complex issue such as …
/r/MensRights09/06/13 11:55 PM
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Yes, it has been brought up as an issue. Social policy is one of the best places to look for stereotypes of a culture in my opinion. Wanna know what people who have no knowledge on the topic think? Just look in politics or public policies being made! Also, as I mentioned in another comment, I have a male friend who has had the bad fortune to be a victim of rape, so I have slightly more knowledge in this topic as opposed to domestic violence.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:49 PM
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Apology accepted, we all have our off days, I wasn't going to take any hostility to personal, since sometimes redditors just have a tendency to do that. I hope your migraine gets better!
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:46 PM
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Thank you, I will have to take a look at this information!
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:45 PM
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I definitely knew this about rape, in my educational experiences so far it is a topic that is widely talked about, I think because the under reporting of male rape victims as well as because of the ridiculous misconceptions about men being unable to be raped. Unfortunately, I also have a male friend who has experienced this, so I have some first hand knowledge about the stigma that goes along with it. But, I truly didn't know that the statistics on domestic violence were so ridiculous off. I mea…
/r/MensRights09/06/13 10:44 PM
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I appreciate that, I know I'm not perfect, and it's so easy to attack others and get defensive in an argument about gender inequality, especially on Reddit. However, it's hard to refute some of the points you made, and I have to accept that I don't know everything. We all start somewhere, and usually it's in the darkness of ignorance. So, thanks! :) Today I learned something!
/r/MensRights09/06/13 07:29 PM
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Yuck, I know, I can't blame men though, because I've seen just as many women perpetuate sexism as men. Everyone, everywhere is guilty of it, I think that placing the blame on men is just an easy way out for a lot of Feminists. It's everyone's problem, and as a species I'm hoping we can come to own that.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 07:22 PM
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I will definitely take some time to look over this, thank you for providing these sources! I hope you don't take anything I say too seriously, I'm open to seeing others beliefs and attitudes, and sometimes that takes debating on the internet with a total stranger. I look forward to becoming more knowledgeable on the topic. I'm still young in my interest in the topic, and sorting through the readily available information to find the truth is one of the most daunting tasks I've come up against. I …
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:52 PM
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Who is placing blame? And where?
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:48 PM
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How can you further men's rights without furthering women's rights? I think they are interconnected, because all social problems usually are.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:30 PM
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These are just three of the websites or articles I found reporting anywhere from 85%-95% of domestic violence victims are women. Is this due to under reporting of men? More than likely. http://www.ncadv.org/files/DomesticViolenceFactSheet(National).pdf http://dvrc-or.org/domestic/violence/resources/C61/ http://www.scientificjournals.org/journals2009/articles/1420.pdf
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:25 PM
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I think this is the best thing you've said all day. This is the kind of response I was looking for, see this is something I can use and integrate into my identity. I might be a feminist, but I am also a human, and sometimes that means I am wrong. I'm really not arguing to antagonize MRA's, but I am trying to learn from debate. I hope to be able to say I am an MRA, but I am also a Feminist, and that requires understanding both sides and where they disagree and where they overlap. I hold to aspect…
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:21 PM
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then why comment at all?
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:13 PM
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One of the biggest problems in this area, especially for men I think, is that abuse has no concrete definition. So it's kind of a "she said" vs. "he said." Almost anything can be abuse in the right context, or it can be completely benign in others.... so confusing.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 05:48 PM
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If you haven't seen the documentary "Tough Guise" I would highly recommend it. It covers this topic (although I think it might be a bit out of date) and it's interesting if nothing else. I found it online for free.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 05:45 PM
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I can't speak for this, because I don't represent all of the Feminists. What have MRA's done for the areas in which women are behind? I'd like to see the two groups get together. Men representing men's rights, and women representing Feminism...it's never going to work. Each party only further's their own gender's interests typically and what would be even more efficient is one group for gender equity in which we could all make an effort for either gender no matter our own individual identity.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 05:41 PM
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Tell me exactly what I am supposed to say here? That I, one person, can somehow challenge the government or a large DV organization and say "You're statistics are wrong." If YOU care so much, why are you doing anything about it? Personally I'm going to school to gain a better education on the subject, to be qualified to do research in the area. I don't need to prove myself to you when I know these two things a) I am a feminist, b) I support and aim to further men's and women's rights. If you don…
/r/MensRights09/06/13 05:38 PM
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Right here! Out in the work force getting their hands dirty trying to help those poor men who were blinded by their wife because she beat him in the face with her high heels! We are Feminist, we are social workers, advocates, activists, mothers, fathers and many other roles. Maybe you should know what the fuck you're talking about before making ignorant assumptions. YES there are FEMINISTS who actually care about, advocate for, and work with male victims and mens rights! Tell me, what exactly do…
/r/MensRights09/06/13 05:00 PM
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For some, yes. For every Feminist, no. It focuses on women because of the evolution of Feminism out of the women's rights movement, but in my experience Feminist theory can be applied to both genders when inequality occurs. The main ideal in my opinion is equity for the genders.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:49 PM
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On an individual level i can say that isn't true for me. Women are more often the victims, but men are victims too and they have the right to be acknowledged as such. I can only speak for myself on this matter though, to speak for others would be foolish.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:45 PM
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Again, you say feminists, but here I am in my college education being taught feminist theory and we spend a lot of time discussing how rape can also happen to men as well as women. In my opinion, someone who believes only women are victims and men are perpetrators is guilty of sexism.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:23 PM
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I don't necessarily think that is always the case.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:20 PM
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Gah. It's so damn wrong! I know that Feminism influences it, but that is definitely not the sole cause of something like this happening. It is one of my new personal goals to try and change this for Feminism. It is ultimately the most hypocritical thing within the cause.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:19 PM
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Only an ignorant person would stereotype an entire movement. This thread is about stereotyping men, so how is it helpful to stereotype others? I see that as perpetuating the issue.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 04:18 PM
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I'm just confused as to how they could even miss that bias. These types of assumptions are just perpetuating the issue.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 03:54 AM
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Be careful lumping Feminism into all one category. I don't see this as feminist at all, just plain ignorant. Unfortunately, most bureaucracies like this lack innovative views on social issues, they are more of just of band-aid for the gaping wound that is society.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 03:53 AM
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When you come up with an answer, come find me! I haven't figured it out either.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 02:31 AM
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I didn't mean that men and women aren't different, because they are, but ascribing things like "strength" to masculinity and "emotional" to femininity sometimes gets misinterpreted by society as "I'm a woman so I can't be strong," or "I'm a man so I can't show emotion." This is more what I was referring to. While I do think some of these differences are genetically linked, we all share masculine and feminine traits. :) And I do definitely have to agree that Feminism is promoting that pedestal, I…
/r/MensRights06/06/13 02:48 AM
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It's about time some attention was brought to this!
/r/MensRights05/06/13 07:13 PM
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I guess to me, when I think of Feminism I hope that we can begin to view people not as "masculine" or "feminine" and begin to just value them for who they are outside of those traits ascribed to each gender. I think the fact that certain traits are viewed as masculine or feminine is the ultimately confusing part for others, which can result in putting one of the genders on a pedestal. I hope that clarifies what I said.
/r/MensRights04/06/13 08:05 PM
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If you get your facts from Facebook in the first place, then there is already an issue and it isn't Facebook.
/r/MensRights04/06/13 05:42 PM
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Certainly not all women say they want those things. I can say most of the Feminists I have known in my personal experience do not pretend to want those things.
/r/MensRights04/06/13 01:02 AM
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I'm sad that this feminist suddenly speaks for any women who identifies herself with feminist values as well. My boyfriend is a feminist, but he certainly doesn't try to prove himself by putting me on some sort of pedestal. The men she describes in the article are NOT feminist, to me they sound more like they are overcompensating for their ideas that all women need to be idolized due some sort of constant misogyny by other males.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 06:49 PM
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Unfortunately it's all based on company policy I'm sure. It really sucks that this happened to you, unfortunately sexism strikes again! You should file a complaint about be profiled based on gender!
/r/MensRights29/05/13 03:50 AM
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Arguments like this are detrimental to Feminism and all it should stand for.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 02:30 AM
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So sad, a women's only room is kind of the antithesis of feminism in my opinion.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 06:57 PM
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I have repeatedly stated that I think that even people who say yes and mean no should be held accountable. I am in no way saying they are not responsible for their actions, I am try to make a point that as a society, we also are accountable for the confusing messages we send women regarding sexuality, self worth, etc. I am also attempting to consider the people that this woman may have relationships with, but as I do not have a history of sexual abuse, it is enlightening to hear your perspective…
/r/MensRights25/05/13 06:14 PM
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Would you tell someone with a history of sexual abuse to "grow the fuck up?" That could easily be this person. You claim to understand how empathy works and yet have none. So, why should I listen to someone who is concerned with telling others how to live and not hoping to understand and make better?
/r/MensRights24/05/13 10:12 PM
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That is not what I meant at all. I am simply attempting to offer an alternate explanation other than women who do this are manipulative bitches. I don't think it is ok, and I am not condoning it, but it helps to look at an issue from different view points. Trying to put yourself in someone else's shoes can be difficult in these situations, but what I said was my best attempt at empathizing with this girl. There is nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 09:25 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of anger and blaming on women here in the comments implying that it is all on a women if she says "yes" and means "no." And while I agree that women should be held accountable for what they say and do, implying that a woman who does this is a "manipulative bitch." And that men aren't "telepathic," doesn't make this situation any better. Isn't it possible that women in this situation are just so damn confused they don't know what they want? Maybe that means she is blameworthy, or…
/r/MensRights24/05/13 03:19 PM
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