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I'm not at all arguing against life in the 1970s. Of course if anyone is staying home full time there's different expectations, but for the longest time women got zero credit for raising children, and men though just because women didn't formally work that was an excuse for them to do zero housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:22 AM
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Alright, but when you see enough of it online you can't just dismiss it out of hand lol. Women also discuss having this exact issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:53 AM
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That isn't what she said at all. It just means that the world has changed. When two people are working full time, they should be splitting the chores equitably. Why TF should a woman care for the house and a man child on top of working a full time job? I've seen many relationships where women take care of the house more because their husbands work more physical jobs, and that is even after they work full time. You will not find those kind of women because of your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:53 AM
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The thing is, I always see videos online from conservative men bitching about wanting to be able to date liberal women, about how lying to them is easy, blah blah blah. There seems to be a disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:50 AM
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Then quit fucking whining about women asking about body count. Y'all can't make up your fucking mind. No wonder women don't want to be near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:50 AM
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As if incels aren't constantly whining about female purity 🙄 Be so for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:42 AM
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The only men saying that are men who have never been raped. Their opinion matters less than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:39 PM
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See, not at all and you're actually being just like the wine guy just in a different manner. He is very obviously a bad faith asshole because anyone with a brain and eyes knows wine had nothing to do with that. But now you come in generalizing every single man on earth through the actions of this guy 🤦 Even if I was a guy who enjoyed whatever Ansari does, he was an asshole for being sexually pushy/rapey towards a woman. This whole back and forth between you guys made me lose too many brain cells…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:02 PM
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🤦🤦 It's really no wonder that men are alone I stg after reading this little exchange lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:56 PM
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Thank you! This is basically all I was trying to say (it being a non productive way to discuss these things).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:49 PM
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I imagine any numbers for men's self reported instances of being abused by women would be massively underreported for obvious societal and cultural reasons. I've only been physically beaten by a few women, but they and a few others I dated were great at emotional/psychological abuse. I just don't understand why this is a contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:34 AM
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I just can't agree with that one, but it is also subjective so neither of us really has proof. I know I've been hurt by women, I assume you've been hurt by men (emotionally speaking), and I imagine everyone is like this. I have zero issue ceding the physical harm thing, but there are shitheads of all genders running around doing everyone wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:30 AM
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Yea I think you may have missed my comment at the end about how women are at much greater risk of physical harm, but both men and women are on level playing field for scarring each other emotionally and psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:20 AM
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Yes that was exactly my point basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:17 AM
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That's so damn true. And it's also part of the road to becoming a good person. So many people have zero introspective skills. Then, many that do have zero emotional intelligence. And the list kinda goes on. Taking all the bad things you've done and learning from and trying your best not to repeat them makes you a good person for sure 😊 And thanks so much <3 I'm honestly banking on a Reddit love story lmao. Unless I can move out of this fucking town.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:11 AM
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I'm so happy for you 🥹💜 I love hearing good people get their just desserts in the end. I just keep praying it'll happen for me one day 🤞 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:02 AM
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I totally misread his post anyways cause I'm a dumbfuck. It read to me that men are somehow uniquely susceptible to lasting harm from relationships. I realize now he was asking women for an estimate on how many scarred by past relationships, he'd probably be shocked to hear close to 100% lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:55 AM
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Yea, this is just yet another thing being gendered that doesn't need to be. Men, women, and everyone else constantly scar men, women, and everyone else. Sometimes it's because people are malicious, evil, or cruel; other times it's because they are lazy, indifferent, or immature. There's of course many other reasons. But yea, we've all been hurt. Women are at much more risk of lasting physical harm than men, but men and women both get equal traction on how much they can hurt each other psychologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:39 AM
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I'll show her this comment 😂 She always gets that smug "I told you so" look when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:20 AM
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I am definitely seeing that point of view more and more. Women are just tired of men. Can't say I blame them. Men from their teens to forties should probably buckle in for a rough ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:09 AM
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Where do you live that this is the complaint? 😂😂 Whoville??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:06 AM
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I think that's probably most people's balance. I thought I was only a dom until I got choked one time. But I also don't think submissiveness is naturally a feminine trait, it's just been gendered like so many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:51 AM
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I think that just like any ideology, feminism is going to have all types of people (including people who take it to the extremes). I'm on a subreddit where people discuss interest in historical (and present matriarchy) and how it can help heal the wounds that patriarchy has done to both men and women. Which is where that relates to the video you posted. That woman apparently blames all men for the wounds that have been inflicted on them by the current structural system we live under. But there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:23 AM
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Thats the weird thing, like their self esteem has to be in the dumpster to not immediately be thinking they're the one fucking better. If I ever hear an anecdote from a woman I'm dating (however it would come up)not just encourages you to fuck her better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:48 AM
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Right well I mean there are full time dynamics (the dream). I know I have to end up with a submissive/switch girl (I became into being sub on occasion when a girl choked me when she was riding) so I know I'd be looking for a woman that signalled those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:57 AM
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I'm not saying non monogamy is unnatural. I'm saying the way it was introduced back into society and kind of shitified in ways seems purposeful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:59 PM
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The current version of non monogamy that is being popularized by shitty people just to justify their cheating basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:23 PM
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No I mean the current resurgence in non monogamous relationships is predicated on an unnatural view of them compared to history for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:31 PM
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There's a better way, just because capitalism let's a few get by doesn't mean we should all be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:35 PM
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No, I mean greed beyond measure. That is what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:28 PM
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That truly depends solely on alignment. I read a great Google doc posted by a Redditor that I thought I saved but didn't. You could he knew AI, ML, and the related fields deeply. He basically said the best outcome is where AI's run everything and human intervention is impossible because of how opaque AI decision making would be. Then the AI colludes to simulate market conditions while solving the resource artificial scarcity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:47 AM
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Yea I think that the capitalist mindset of having everything you want, basically having your cake and eating it too has driven a lot of this idiocy. I also think many people are emotionally immature and recommend an open relationship in a fit of rage and then find it isn't all they thought it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:27 AM
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As you should be queen. I think that the most important thing is when two kinksters get that moment where they realize their values and ethics about kink click, and everything flows from there. There are so many jackasses that run around calling themselves doms so they can abuse women, most actual dominant men will keep it to themselves unless it's pried out of them nowadays because of the negative association.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:53 AM
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I'll take a crack at this. I think industrialization has a big part to play in making women's rights advancement much more likely in a country. This doesn't mean that every industrialized country is a haven for women (even the US has some negative points against it) but industrialization basically started two key things that would help advance feminism. The gradual atomization of familial and locality relations that were brought about by especially things like the Industrial Revolution cannot be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:30 AM
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This is exactly the correct insight. The only times elites changed the tunes they whistled was the Cold War and then during certain runs situations like one that rhymes with Drench Devolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:59 PM
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Yes omg enthusiastic consent is such a great term! I always said affirmative consent but my approach is much more in line with the feeling behind enthusiastic consent. Sex, especially kinky sex, can't happen without that element. Otherwise it's just some douche who claims to be kinky to indulge his passion for abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:00 PM
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Well I mean if it was someone wanting to engage in that kink in an ideal world they would be searching for a partner in spaces that are about that. Edit - Which to make it clear if it wasn't already that's how I am :) And sometimes you fall in love with someone who is open to trying your kinks, and you're open to trying theirs, and you find out what you like together. That's the fun part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:44 PM
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I think you don't even necessarily have to be active in the kink community either. If you're an empathetic, emotionally intelligent person with some slight quirks, you'll thrive in kink because you'll do the work and research required to be a safe partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:13 PM
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This is true. There's a ton of hidden emotional work behind engaging in kink, and a lot of dudes who already dump all the emotional labor on women are not gonna be a safe person to engage in kinky sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:07 PM
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I think that a lot of my "violent" kinks actually came from women in my life at first encouraging them. I had one girlfriend who liked to be slapped (I was terrible at this for a while), one who liked to be choked, one who liked CnC, some who liked all of those. The key is you don't just engage in this stuff with zero consent or preparation, and don't just assume anyone is into it. But I also have a good few kinks not about pain, and some specifically about the very opposite (ddlg and the like).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:58 PM
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I'm a leftist and feel that anything that distracts from the class war is objectively bad at the moment. This doesn't mean we forget about the patriarchy's role in capitalism, but I feel it should definitely be taking a back burner (along with other cultural issues) until we have united long enough to defeat the billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:03 AM
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Yea being a feminist (a legitimate feminist, not a performative one) is a huge boon for a man. Couple that with men being raised majority by their mothers from Gen X and there are plenty of fine men out there, we just usually prefer to keep our heads down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:07 AM
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I don't even think being raped by a woman justifies hating all of them, and that's honestly a toxic way of thinking to me. It feels alien, even as a male victim of a woman (SA), to even think to apply her template of what a woman is to all women. Any men that have been through this hell should know hating women will not solve your emotional turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:01 AM
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Yea this is basically what I meant. It may not necessarily go with their nature but as times evolve so typically do the economic structures we associate with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:32 PM
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Your experience is definitely out of the norm if you haven't been single for more than half a year. I have been single for about 7 years after a terrible relationship and in thirty now. I'm pretty sure my experience is closer to other men's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:28 AM
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No, men do not understand that they have no intrinsic value. That is the words of someone who has not done the work on themselves to realize that they are a whole, complete person with more to offer than just some vague sense of utility. You have to respect yourself enough to hold out for a partner that you can tell values you beyond your economic utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:16 AM
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I think there are a lot of men that are in a similar situation to me where our close friends from highschool have drifted apart as they move away from home. I live in a small town where there's no kind of hobby stuff or local places besides bars to meet people. You can't always blame men that are in a bad way for their situation, sometimes there's no helping it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:13 AM
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I think a lot of it has to do with this newer narrative that your partner always has to be on the exact same or a higher level of compensation as you. With it becoming more common for men to be homemakers or the partner that earns less, I think you'll see dating standards hopefully change where women will become like men and not necessarily care as much about economic status as looks/personality/other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:10 AM
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Lmao passport bros are the reason passport bros get hate. They're usually almost all douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:14 PM
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Yea, it's where a scammer (usually someone that's been kidnapped and enslaved in southeast Asia) "fattens up" the target by flattering them and building a relationship with them. They then use that rapport to drain as much money and assets from the victim as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/26 05:55 PM
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Yea you can tell they're not bi. It's a huge spectrum. I only like sucking dudes and topping I don't want anyone near my hole lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:09 AM
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I've come to understand that my mom is not a very normal woman lol. But honestly being ashamed is a very bad reason to set your child behind, ofc my mom has the talk with me at like 13 at first and then 14 in more depth before I went to highschool. You just have to be discerning. I don't think anyone would want to purposely raise someone that is an incompetent partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:03 AM
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Lmfao, my mom raised me by herself so I feel like I just got a lot more insight on the nature of women from her. She had "the talk" with me, and since it was my mom it involved talk of the clit and everything and how important it is to be a giving partner. I imagine most guys either get the talk from their dad (in which case it's probably all about male pleasure) or they don't get it at all. Yea, it was super awkward at first but looking back I so appreciate it and that's the kinda talk my sons …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:41 AM
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There isn't a justification for it at all. I always bullied my friends in highschool about treating their girls right when it came to that kinda stuff cause my mom taught me how important it is. They always thanked me for it too 🤣 You have to be a real loser to run around talking about how much you'll eat her holes and then only do it for 2-3 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:02 AM
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Lmfao so you're saying that we need to go into a less liberal system to force women to date you? No thank youuuuh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:31 AM
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Yea I try to talk to these guys as much as I can because I feel like men need to be active in fighting against the plight of these kinds of views. Sometimes you actually have a really good conversation that you feel may have actually gotten through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:29 AM
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Yea I always wonder what the idiots that post stuff like that act like in real life? To me they seem like the type to be sitting around smoking cock like it's going out of style lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:01 PM
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This has been a great way to spend the evening 😂 Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:39 AM
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😂 Thankfully it's my roommate, I hope that my future wife would have been smoking and cackling beside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:22 AM
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It's okay, I had just took a big ole swiggity swaggins off the vape pen so it was a perfect storm. It was worth getting yelled at for a nice deep belly laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:35 AM
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I do my best brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:54 AM
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Dude learn to laugh holy shit. It isn't cringe when women are funny, if you wanna go see Jeff Foxworthy with a bunch of fat guys go ahead lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:11 AM
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Can I just say, I think you are absolutely hilarious! I just cackled like a maniac and got yelled at lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:45 AM
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It's definitely something I'm going to look at. So you're basically saying that all those former gender expectations are kind of being flipped around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:37 AM
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Damn that is kind of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:34 AM
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Please do explain, I'm interested to hear your observation. Don't leave me hanging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:05 AM
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This is pure cope. Yea, misandry sucks and it would be better if women could use more thoughtful language, but I feel like throwing a not all men at a woman that is frustrated enough to make sweeping generalizations doesn't help anything. I feel like maybe an awareness campaign for both genders about generalized language use would be great. Men are terrible about it as well, that's why I chose your comment to reply to. It's laughable to think most online hate speech is aimed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:23 PM
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Yea, women do love the trades, and even unskilled physical labor honestly. These are seen as traditionally masculine career fields, and I think women also especially like the fields women have not broken into heavily yet because they can pick up a husband that works with 50 sweaty dudes all day or a lawyer who has fucked all of his paralegals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:47 PM
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Tbh I will raise any kids I have the way my mom raised me, my mom was a very realist parent despite being an idealist. She raised me with strong morals and ideals but also taught me how the world really was, and about relationships between men and women and they actually are. It's a parents job to prepare their child for the world that exists, not the world they wish existed. It's supremely selfish to do it the latter way especially cause they're the ones that brought you into the world. They ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:43 PM
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Those guys are obviously doing something wrong, but the way you phrased it in the comment I responded to did not make it sound like this is what you're talking about. Some men know how to approach women they like, establish a connection, and then get to know them for who they are. You're talking about shitheads that are looking more for a trophy than a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:39 PM
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Saying "Hey do I know you from somewhere..." is literally a commonly understood pickup line. You're right, you were done very wrong by those people that you trusted. When you're flirting with someone, I've literally never heard of some "set" way you're supposed to do it. Men have been zhuzhing up their pickup game for centuries. It is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:30 PM
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This is a terrible way to explain it in that it's just a damning indictment of women's understanding of feminism. I imagine most women don't feel this way, but it does make approaching women feel much harder lol. Are they one that wants us to be the confident douche or a feminist who wants the opposite 😂 Who even knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:27 PM
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You have a terrible mother, sister, and female friends if this is how they act lol. What kind of psycho mom would want to manipulate her son into not dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:13 PM
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It's especially hard for us left wing males to be victims of a female abuser... I was sexually assaulted by a woman, I only feel comfortable talking about it here anonymously or with my mother. I saw the way my little brother looked at me when I told him. It was like he had lost all respect for me. Male victims are judged and put under a microscope while their abusers often go free from legal or social consequences. But I quickly remembered that I know many amazing women who would be so angry on…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 09:19 AM
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I want to talk to you man to man bro. Can I DM you? I'm also a victim of a woman, but it was sexual assault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 09:16 AM
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I think men are also disproportionately targeted in pig butchering scams. You see a lot of stories about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 09:12 AM
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If that was true there would be zero marriages and relationships dude. I think those ideas are actually the fringe of what modern women view feminism as. We don't live in a world where every woman is a man hating psychopath, most women that complain about men online will end up with a man, and happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:50 AM
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Dude, if you think modern women are reading Betty Friedan and the SCUM Manifesto and getting their takes from that, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:44 AM
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Once again, I am not out here advocating for whatever Betty Friedan or those other weirdos shilled for. Feminism at its core is about crushing the patriarchy and bringing about true equality between the sexes. I think it's a noble goal and that's why I am proud to support it. I don't support whatever corporatist brand of feminism the billionaires are pushing like it's going out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:05 AM
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I think it was definitely a corporate psyop. All of it goes back to the "rugged individualism" trope that Hollywood and the US government created after WWII. They pushed tons of movies and TV shows acting like the history of America was lone tough men solving problems on their own, when in reality America had always been one of those "it takes a village" countries when it came to raising children. The corpos and government have basically destroyed that. They're trying to atomize all human relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:11 AM
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Lmaoooo, sure they don't bro. Capitalism is basically an outgrowth of the old school patriarchy. All the old money families gobbled up all the assets and wealth during the early days of capitalism, and their descendants still live like modern robber barons today (see some like fifth generation descendant of Cornelius Vanderbilt giving $125 million to Trump's campaign) but yea, they're not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:40 AM
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Patriarchy definitely does not benefit women more than it oppresses them. Splitting the opposition to this system is stupid, we all want to overturn this rigged economic game. It's them that want us to fight amongst each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:17 AM
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Yea depending where you look I'm either a last year millennial or first year Gen Z. I've taken to calling myself a Zennial, because it feels like those of us in those cusp years lived a totally different life from older millennials or younger Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:00 AM
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There might be some more predominant cultural conservatism but European societies are traditionally known for being socially liberal. Typically starting on the more libertine side and then getting more socially conservative as you go east.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:41 AM
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Yea I know Latin America, Africa, and Asia are very conservative compared to the Western world. But we were discussing the Western world, I even clarified that when I was talking about the Democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:39 AM
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Not even, the mainstream Democratic party is not that far to the left on social issues. Yea, some blocs of voters vote for Democrats that have those further left views, but they are not the views of the party establishment. That's been seen with how quickly the party has thrown trans folks under the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:36 AM
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<image> Un a plus. A lil white fuzzball.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:33 AM
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Bêbé
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:31 AM
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I literally said in another response that my feminism doesn't come from reading feminist luminaries or taking marching orders from women's organizations that have been coopted by billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:26 AM
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Yea once you realize that it is easy to realize that there are a lot of men and women with common sense that realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:24 AM
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Yea this is the kind of dude whose worldview is shattered when a woman he considers less attractive than himself totally blows him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 AM
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Yea I made this point on a dumbass Facebook post a local made where he labeled Democrats as communists. It's like, the Democrats are one of the most right wing governing parties in the Western world. It just makes me immediately view a person as not serious when they say shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:12 AM
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Also love your kitties :3 Here's my cat tax from a litter my cat had a few years ago. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:55 PM
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You gotta be able to sort the wheat from the chaff just like with anything else. I'm not big on reading the literature of feminist luminaries because I just don't find it super interesting and they all also have some sort of baggage. So I just study the history of feminism and talk to women and men about it to inform my own opinions. It isn't very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:42 PM
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🥹🥹 Poor babies, I didn't even think of that honestly I was just a dumbass kid... Being so small I imagine it's easy for sickos to abuse the lil babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:40 PM
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😂 I promise you he is snacked up, I'm usually the one trying to instill discipline in my roommate because he just feeds him everything he eats. The dog loves sugar. Twinkies, ice cream, candy, it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:37 PM
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I dated a girl in highschool who had two chihuahuas, Rosie and Max. They both hated anyone not in the family, and even everyone in the family except the dad. Max finally warmed up to me, but Rosie would just spend all day shivering on a pillow growling at anyone that got near her, just run up my girlfriend's dad's arm and sit on his shoulder like a parrot. So I had low expectations for chihuahuas 😂 But Taz is a total sweetheart. He has a huge personality so it's always something new with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:36 PM
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He is a total sweetheart. And spoiled rotten. He hates being picked up on his back, so I have to hold him like a fat baby with my arm under his bottom and his chin resting on my shoulder. So extra lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:32 PM
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<image> Roommate's fat chihuahua begging for some snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:25 PM
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Yes 💜 Some of us can see past being embarrassed by the petty name calling of guys who have never touched a woman in their life and realize that it's much better to work with women to flip the system upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:22 PM
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And we also support the structural changes that feminism wants to make to society. The patriarchy is the weighted glove of the capitalist fist that work together to smash everyone that stands against the billionaires. I support feminism because the patriarchy's false dreams of some better days are predicated on rolling back not just women's rights, but also ceding more and more power to the billionaire class overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:07 PM
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I think a lot of normal men, especially millennial men, have realized that the patriarchy only benefits a select few men at the very top. We're tired of it just as much as the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:04 PM
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Well I can't say I'm against hookups, I've had like three or four partners I wasn't in a relationship with. I think expecting puritanical sexual morality in the modern day is kind of a wild card. There are definitely women out there who feel that way, but it is also much more acceptable for everyone of all genders to be sexually liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:02 PM
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I'm sorry you had a rough time in college bro, I didn't go so I can't honestly commiserate with your experience, and I'm not gonna sit here and tell you you didn't go through what you went through. But that insane level of negativity is considered totally weird outside of that environment. Edit - I mean negativity you described from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:58 PM
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Then don't date girls that go to a huge party school if that's your bias? It's not a great one, I live near an excellent D1 research state university, and most of the women there are extremely intelligent and driven. If you're gonna try to date in the environment you should obviously have some good personal points about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:52 PM
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Bro you have to learn how to filter propaganda out of your world view lol. Almost everything on social media nowadays is a psyop by a government or a corporation for one reason or another. I'm not sure who exactly is driving the atomization of the relationship between men and women, but I'm sure there's some kind of nefarious entity on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:49 PM
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I don't know how we went from the archetype of the guy who gets the girl in the end being the hero to being a cuck basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:40 PM
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😭😭 Since when is that not foreplay??! Am I just weird??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:07 AM
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Just meant it more about foreplay in general lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:04 AM
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I think everyone except the chumps that would rather pump and roll over and sleep would much rather be eating ass than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:31 AM
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Lmao that sounds like a Ben Shapiro fanfiction man. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:30 AM
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Lmao you just know this guy is 5'2" and was crying and beating his meat as he posted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:28 AM
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Jordan Peterson???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:21 AM
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Yea the influencers in the manosphere are all absolutely pathetic once you strip away the money and newfound confidence from the money. Clavicular, Tate, etc. they're all honestly just absolutely pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:09 PM
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Well if women like this do exist (the kind that preach about picking certain kinds of men and then do the opposite in practice) I'd give them my advice for hypocrites (which is gender neutral). Don't be a fucking hypocrite!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:47 PM
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Yea they dislike anyone man or woman that goes against these constructs they've created out of thin air. Because then it would require some introspection and that is anathema to a lot of these folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:19 AM
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Yea these guys should be faulting the assholes that are willing to put on a front to trick women. You can tell most of them haven't been in an abusive relationship because they love to blame the victim always, wonder why women wouldn't find that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:13 AM
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Well yea the out of their league thing is my personal experience just bleeding over. And yea they can dislike unspoken language making up the lion's share of interaction, but that doesn't change it. You can either adapt or do what incels do and whine all day on the internet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:59 PM
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This is the only answer tbh. The most bad off guys I've met while navigating these communities are the ones that let every little thing get to their head and have absolutely zero mental fortitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:41 AM
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I am in total agreement with you, I've been harping on about how dumb it is to be hung up on a frustrated woman using generalized language. Like she isn't accusing you personally man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:13 AM
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And sadly supply usually isn't short for them because they totally lack morals so have zero problems lying out their ass to get what they want. Men are especially notorious for it, which is why it's so awe inspiring that some idiots can't give women a little grace when they speak about these issues lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:35 AM
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Lmao having to explain basic human nature to people is so wild. The men that are comfortable in their marriage (especially with the amount of effort they are putting in) are usually the same guys that have that cool confidence to know just because their wife complains on occasion doesn't mean she's made him a beta by letting Chad mog her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:23 AM
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Agreed, especially in the sense that that archetype (whether male or female) seems to always get away with their bad behavior. I'm not sure where he got that they are miserable from, they are usually much too narcissistic to have any self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:20 AM
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I have been making it a point to start iterating on the fact that so many of these posts miss the plot when it comes to how much communication is done via body language. They rage about the joke about the incel detector but when they day in and day out just spew filth about women online, that is obviously gonna bleed out into real life. Average dudes can and frequently do get women out of their league by having decent mental, a well developed sense of humor, integrity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:18 AM
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I feel pretty safe in saying that some aren't ruled by worldly desires. See something more in the pursuit of life and happiness than temporary things like money or power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:27 AM
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This checks. I'm a 6'1" man and they clocked me as obese at 240. I'm down to 200 now so it's Gucci but yea hearing the word obese freaks you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:23 AM
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It makes me wonder, how many of these incels grew up in broken homes? The only successful marriage I saw as a kid was my grandparents. I just don't get why they assume if a woman would just marry them all their problems would be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:22 AM
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I've seen your comments up and down some of the threads on this sub, you're not as bad as the incels but judging all men off your personal experience with men is whack 😂 Not every man is ruled by his cock. Edit - Not denying it would be easy to pull some of the people in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:16 AM
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Both sides of this gender war BS are taking the most hyperbolic statements from people and painting the gender whole cloth from those statements. Of course it's going to make people go insane. Most folks were smart enough to have been taught that hyperbole is a literary device back in the day, idk about now tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:14 AM
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"Dragging society down with me because I don't get sex is surely the answer to my problems." Broooooo 🤦🏻🤦🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:11 AM
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Yea I don't know where these younger Gen Z dudes and Gen Alpha guys picked up these old toxic masculine tropes from. I wasn't raised by some hardcore feminist but I was raised to respect women and their contributions to the family and society. Women have toted the emotional and physical labor of childrearing almost by themselves for thousands and thousands of years. I understand that these talking points are a reactionary backlash to that, it just doesn't make sense where they picked it up since…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:40 PM
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Be careful, t*ll is a slur nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:08 PM
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Yea to be honest for an average guy I am blessed I am aging well. Big ups to God for the thick hair and clear skin 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:44 PM
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I think that one might have seeped in, even if just a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:43 PM
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I think the jokes on him tbh because he doesn't realize that women age much better than men lol 😂 I'm thinking I just oughta add 10 to my age when I start looking for women to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:39 PM
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You need to be discerning about what information you are taking to heart about dating lil bro. There is a lot of terrible advice going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:42 PM
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I think they're, for the most part, an unintentional and unfortunate way of speaking when one is upset. Incels constantly generalize all women as well, it's not good either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:38 PM
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Yea but general men need to grow a thicker skin dude. It makes me cringe for our whole gender when a guy's response to a frustrated woman's accidental generalizations is "bUt It'S nOt AlL mEn."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:37 PM
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I don't at all vote to give money to foreigners or women specifically lol. You guys live in a delusion where you think that immigrants are living this amazing free life when illegal immigrants were netting $97.6 billion to the government every year. Not voting for a social safety net because people you dislike would benefit from it is peak stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:33 PM
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Heroin and prison time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:25 PM
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I'm so sorry that's how it went for you bro. I was raised by a single mother who really gave me a huge leg up when it came to women by teaching me about them. But this person is also wrong, anyone that acts like women can't be shitty is either delusional or a liar lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:10 PM
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I mean looks wise I am mid, can I DM you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:40 PM
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Lol well yea, we have different circumstances and the point of bringing up my partners isn't to humble brag. If this wasn't the internet I'd post a picture of myself so everyone could see how mid I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:37 PM
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Bruv if he didn't care for her after she had surgery to remove an ovarian cyst then he's a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:24 PM
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I haven't had much luck for a while either bro. It sucks, but as men we kind of got the short end of the stick where we are in this transitional phase from one period of how things used to be to a new one. And we have to navigate it without any of the knowledge of what the future holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:22 PM
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🙄🙄 The whole thread is a mess. I got a notification lol, and you were responding to someone I've been responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:20 PM
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Basing all your views on women off your worst experiences with them will make you jaded af. My last girlfriend did me dirty as fuck but I love women and have common sense so I know she isn't all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:58 PM
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This is laughable if you're talking about me. I actually try to reach out to the younger guys that seem like they aren't just the hateful incel stereotype. Some of them just need a man that has a positive relationship with women (not a fucking Chad) to talk to them. It can do unreal wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:56 PM
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I legit just feel bad for the dude honestly, you can tell his psych is so cooked it's unreal. He needs intensive therapy. Pornbrain in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:54 PM
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I didn't necessarily say it was common, but I believe that the guys like this aren't some rare unicorns like people are acting like right now. You're just not going to hear about the guys that go above and beyond unless their ole ladies are asked about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:19 AM
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So gross 🤢🤢 I'm glad you have a better man now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:24 AM
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I'm sorry that you went through that, no one deserves to be used. It's a shitty feeling, I've been there as well. I wasn't trying to chime in with a "not all men" here, I just wanted to offer that there are men out there that would never act that way. I am sure there are more than me out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:20 AM
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Then he was a total piece of shit. I've dated a girl with PCOS and one with endometriosis and I would always take care of them when it was bad. And I educated myself about what they were because I cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:16 AM
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Eh I think that's an unfair generalization. Many men have dated women with PCOS/endometriosis and know all about caring for a partner with those afflictions. And many men would do anything for their partner if they got sick to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:58 AM
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What kind of dumbass man do you know going around telling women he is polygynous? You're taking some kind of extreme example and applying it to all men...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:37 AM
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Jesus Christ and men do the same thing. Literally. People suck. Not one specific gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:36 AM
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Think it is moreso generational. Depending where you look. I am last year millennial, first year Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:18 AM
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It really doesn't dude. I explained further up I've been single for seven years not for lack of trying. Not everyone that has slept with people is a Chad. You can't live in a world where you've convinced yourself of that. I am literally the definition of a normal guy. Edit - Actually also poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:11 AM
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The people in an incel debate forum cannot be why women won't get behind decent men lol (which I see plenty of women with great husbands that love to brag, and I love to see that). Yea they're gross but letting that affect us is mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:09 AM
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This is so insane. I think you meant to take the black pill label lol. Having 20 partners does not make someone an ultra Chad, that is so moronic. Yea, I've had 20 partners but I've also been single for seven years and not for lack of trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:07 AM
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I'm 30 bro. I am seriously a mid average guy, I am not a Chad. My mom taught me a lot about women growing up and I had a really good male role model in my grandfather, I promise that having a decent attitude/personality/sense of humor can seriously help you swing above your weight. Actual spoken words are a really small part of interacting with people, I know the incel detector is obviously a joke but if the people that say the most degrading and insane shit about women all day on the internet t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:06 AM
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This is some dumb horseshit lol. I'm a man and vote for social safety nets because I'm not a bootlicking cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:57 AM
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So basically the thing about the high earning guys using their money to capture the lion's share of women wasn't a joke? Lmao no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:52 AM
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Both things can be true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:00 AM
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Dude, no woman is letting you cum inside her just because she can't bang Chad. Your worldview totally destroys women's agency (men's too). Yea, we are animals, animals with HIGHER THOUGHT and reasoning abilities. Now, use those to think of just how far humanity would have gotten if what you say is true. Are you saying the billions and billions of men throughout history are all dumbasses who fooled themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:49 AM
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Bro of course you aren't going to have good (or any) sexual encounters if this is how you think. Sex is 90% mental, I'd be shocked you could even get it up with all this shit in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:36 AM
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The only way to know that is either she tells you (in which case she is garbage) or you read her mind which isn't possible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:27 AM
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It's crazy cause literally almost all women enjoy sex, and even mid dudes like me have been hella blessed swinging above my weight due to personality/cologne/whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:08 AM
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Eh, I think if anyone has a hoe phase you aren't only having 4-7 bodies. I'm a mid ass dude and have had ~20 partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:45 AM
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I'd like to expand a little, no one should have sex to fulfill anyone's intentions except their own. Sex is meant to be beautiful and intense, and it is opening a deep connection with someone whether we acknowledge it or not. I see so many Reddit stories of especially women disappointed after sexual encounters, it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:16 AM
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I think this would be probably why most lesbians shouldn't date men that have shown zero commitment to the actual process of transitioning. I get there people can be in the phase before they transition but women should not have to navigate an environment where they have to judge if a man is just a total creep (most likely, look at the pick up artists, being a piece of shit that takes advantage of even the lowest and scummiest things to get some pussy is a time honored man tradition) or if they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:03 AM
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He doesn't really know what he's talking about, he can't fathom that you're getting bombarded by shitty men despite being a cool person. Don't let him warp how you view things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:49 AM
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I just want to be clear I wasn't trying to indicate that any of what you were saying is wrong or anything... I think these gender wars things are fucked, women are coming out of millennia of oppression and all men had to do was be like "Yasssss queens!!" and everything would have been fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:37 AM
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These are the blue pilled women? 😅 But in all seriousness fuck The Matrix for giving us this pill lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:33 AM
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Thank you for putting it to these people like that. I've been saying till I'm blue in the face that people sometimes misspeak and make generalizations when they are upset, and women have plenty of reason to be upset. The astonishing amount of grace these jackasses show just makes it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:30 AM
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Yea I remember back in 9th grade having to teach all my guy friends what a clit was and how important it was, and to always go for it before any penetration. Thank God for being raised by a single mom who had been disappointed one too many times ig? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:59 AM
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Yea it'd be nice to know if there's just too few women for us so I could just start embracing my bi side more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:52 AM
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Lmao if I was only on Reddit and never went outside where women who are way too beautiful smile at me everyday I would think not a single person on this planet was having sex. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:50 AM
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I wonder if this point of view isn't easier for women because they are the dominant ones in the modern dating market? I'm not any kind of pilled but at thirty even I'm starting to get nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:40 AM
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