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Some people consider their dick art 😎
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:22 PM
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Do talk about it, be the greater one talk about it and see if she was just as akward. Why? Because you guys already bonded, even if you screwed up she (largely) had a great night. There is nothing wrong with admitting making mistakes, and possibly jokingly suggest sober dating (as in no pot), until you get to know eachother. TIP: you can always mention something like an apology coffee, or a coffee to sober her up.
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:58 PM
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Gym doesn't fix everything. Do 3 sets of pushups before you go to bed, or get up.
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:06 PM
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Approach anxiety. If I have a tinderdate ill be talking asif we are old friends, but I just somehow dont talk to randoms. It fucking gets in my way, and limits my options, but the comfort zone is too comfy :(
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:02 PM
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Who posts thos crap?
/r/seduction20/02/16 06:58 PM
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I personally would say it depends on how much you will concentrate on yourself skating, and your date. If you can only stand at the side, and when you try to roller you go into the " I must not fall mode", I personally would say no.
/r/seduction20/02/16 06:57 PM
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It sounds like you rushed kino in at the end? A blanket, food? I mean, all of the things sound like the opportunity to get some kino in. You can mock feed her bites (depends on what kind of food), whilst joking around, or if further ( not in this case) feed her with your mouth, but in any case you should have been making contact. Same for sitting on the couch with a blanket. Ideally you want to get a small blanket whilst watching tv, where you have to crawl together to optimally use it.
/r/seduction20/02/16 06:42 PM
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Its imho one of the better options. It keeps tensions and the energy high, possibly exciting.
/r/seduction18/02/16 12:11 PM
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I am in the same case. Am currently dating a shy but pretty girl that is into books and reading. Be yourself, but dont lead the conversation too much. As she told me on our date, the previous guy she tried to date only talked about himself. Show interest in her, talk a little bit about yourself, and.dont fear a good silence or two.
/r/seduction18/02/16 12:10 PM
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Ok so I think you are looking wrong at this. You seem to be thinking that this sub will teach you to start picking up girls as the comments progres. You can only be confident, if you are confident in yourself. A skinny loner doesn't sound confident to me, and what you need more than girls or a girlfriend, are friends and selfconfidence. So start working on those. Hit the gym, start working (having cash can never go wrong), and more importantly, find some damn friends. Its not easy I know, but it…
/r/seduction18/02/16 12:06 PM
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I dont want to sound stupid, but could it be you scared her with your homework? I as a guy wouldn't want to date another person that brings homework to a date. Then again, I do own enough dignity to atleast stop by and say hi, and not let them hurt themselves over the other one not showing up.
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:48 AM
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This, it can come of as really unprofessional as a waiter to be hitting on customers, so try to keep some safezone preventing you from getting fired.
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:44 AM
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I agree with all points, excluding the dont critisize/disagree. Yeah you totally shouldn't be the nagging guy, but a healthy difference in opinions with a possible way to help them can go a long way.
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:42 AM
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The guts to actually approach girls. I have tried it over the years 2-3 times, but got turned down. I think that struck a nerve with me, and I stopped approaching. I still haven't fixed this issue. The other day a 8.5/10 was eyeing me, and I was uncomfortable, let alone unable to approach ( I will make up excuses, place myself under stress and alot of other made-up bad thoughts. After it happens I will usually be kicking myself for fucking not trying). Prevent yourself from this if you can. You …
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:33 AM
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I as a person embrace this rule: the first time I encounter her I will clearly say hi, maybe even wave. If she ignores me, she is a salty bitch ( wat is wrong with saying hi), and I dont like salty bitches, so ill just ignore her. Edit: but make it clear you are just saying hi and not creeping. Say hi and move on to your more important shizzle, dont fire an entire barrage of questions at her.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:53 PM
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The shorter the better, that way you get to keep the tension in there, after her initial yes it will be less likely to flake.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:43 PM
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Yeah they can, if you are clear enough with them. I had one that was trying to hook me up with her frienda that were never going to be any matches the first one she showed a picture and then casually mentions she lives in another country, the second one was just to put it nicely not up to my standards.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:41 PM
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The advantage of being gay, is that you are dealing with guys. They are waaay more straightforward than girls. You should try to do the same. Be clear in that you are not just looking for a fuck, and make the dates also more than just a sausagefest, possibly not even taking your clothes off on the first date.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:35 PM
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It stings and will feel akward, I know. Just try to focus on what matters (joking with friends, flirting with other girls) and just ignore her, up to a certain degree ( if she says hi, say hi back, dont be a total dick). Its more important you refind your mojo/flow than how you treat a girl that turned you down.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:32 PM
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My trick I use when navigating outside is to walk a wrong way; then place my arm around her shoulder and then pull her gently in the correct way, but that is around the shoulder. With the arms like that, I usually have my hand in my pocket when the girl sort of clamps to it.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:29 PM
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too bad man, but I guess we need to find the thrills another way haha
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:54 PM
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I honestly think you are missing the point of this whole sub. This guy is not boasting about girls, he is trying to motivate other users on this sub.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:40 PM
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I have the same, if not worse to the extent of preferring to go to afghanistan as a soldier over talking to a girl.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:39 PM
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as easy as it is said; this is my big issue. I can act smooth online and everything, but in real life I just go into passive mode.
/r/seduction05/02/16 07:40 PM
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this. don't let a flirt get in the way of your friendship, even if it does become annoying from time to time.
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:38 PM
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no, how you handeld those if you experienced them.
/r/seduction04/02/16 08:23 AM
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How did you experience self esteem issues, and the constant beatdown?
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:27 PM
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Dont thank me bud, you still have approach her. Now go make me proud ;)
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:55 AM
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How do you open such an approach? I just then start blurting immediately about a coffee which goes way too fast imho.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:43 AM
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Then id say just do it bud. Either you go up for it or spend 6+ months waiting to then be turned down. On the fb versus snap, Id personally go for fb, unless you are certain you can woo her with some perfectly fitting snaps.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:41 AM
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I know my real life impressions are better than my online game, so I ask her out in person. What is yours? If you feel ancious to approach, use snap.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:35 AM
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I didn't think of this, cheers man. The only use so far was as an anti-cockblock, where I was talking to a girl, a male friend wanted to tear apart the convo to piss me off, but she kept him busy whilst I did the talk. It worked alright, but only because she knew about the other guy's intentions.
/r/seduction16/01/16 03:22 PM
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Using as in getting things out of the "relation" without damaging it is something I should have mentioned.
/r/seduction16/01/16 03:18 PM
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I think you are missing the point of friends. I am not looking to hook up with these female friends, fyi. Some of them might have a (boy)friend, some might not be my type. There is a reason they are in my friendzone.
/r/seduction16/01/16 03:17 PM
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I left out personal details info etc because I was looking for a core concept: motivation to start working on seducing. We all want to be the guy who gets all the girls though the phrasing is different from person to person. What I am interested is your experiences so far, why you still browse this website. Because I feel more and more that half of the articles on this website arr clickbait. "10 things to do". "50 words you should not say". And yet here you still are. Doing your game. Wether its…
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:55 AM
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to expand on this: sitting next to her will make it a bit easier to initiate said things.
/r/seduction23/09/15 07:45 AM
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be more sexual and forward in your talk, but stay comfortable!
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:11 PM
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ok so here is the problem with daygaming in a small town: thw number of approaches you can do is low. I live in a small town, where most girls will be on their commute in the morning, get home in the evening and only sometimes even go out in the weekends. 30 minutes away from me there is a large city, where i could do easily 50 approaches in an hour. the difference between doing a 2 if you are lucky or a 50 on an average non rainy day, is huge. you ideally want to look to do these approaches in …
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:10 PM
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ok so I feel that these sudden advances would lead to a much more confrontational "do you want to go out", instead of the jokes I am currently cracking with rare playful kino. I am pretty sure that such a move would be like giving her an ice cold shower, putting her for the so called chop block, making it a yes or no, and either way this is going to be akward. I would prefer to learn to make the subtle advances, which cause her to question: Is he flirting with me? Does he like me? and slowly sti…
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:47 PM
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what do you mean with the distace to frustrate her, and how does this work?
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:15 PM
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its not that I am worried about my friends, its that I am in a professional setting, where it would be really uncomfortable regardless of what the outcome is.
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:15 PM
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Because of two things: I feel like it will be an upgrade to my game. the setting. I dont want to go into too much detail, but usually when I seduce, there is this concept of collateral damage, where it becomes really obvious and almost an eyesore for others around. Aside from that, its a pretty professional environment where I need to work with others, but if I am basically "classed" as a cassanova (exaggerations ftw), it pretty much breaks down any constructive work enviroment.
/r/seduction07/09/15 07:30 PM
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then you still want a healthy relationship, not with one person holding the other hostage with their love.
/r/seduction30/08/15 09:26 AM
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Can someone do a short summary for people unable to visit the site?
/r/seduction25/08/15 10:27 AM
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Op, you need a kick under the butt.Stop whining, start living. BALLDNESS IS NOT UNATRACTIVE! INSECURITY IS! If you are not socially awkward, and have a smooth talk, you will seduce. exactly same goes for your length. Yes it sucks. yes you wish you could be taller, but guess what? you wont get taller! Deal with it, accept it and learn to deal with snarky comments. Now I strongly suggest you get the rest of yourself in shape. Shave your head, go to the gym, learn quick witty, funny or charming rep…
/r/seduction25/08/15 10:25 AM
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read the girl(s), so f.e. If she moves back or looks disgruntled, lose the kino immediately, whilst if she turns towards you/smiles, its acceptation, and you could escalate/apply more kino later on.
/r/seduction27/07/15 03:41 PM
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subtle kino yes, but only if you are confident with it, f.e. a subtle hand on her when you approach. but be careful you dont overdo it.
/r/seduction27/07/15 03:30 PM
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r/seduction newbie here. whats kino and [FR] ?
/r/seduction26/06/15 01:31 PM
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