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139

There are countless women working at NASA whose names don’t come up nearly as often as these people’s
/r/MensRights30/12/25 10:07 AM
1

Again, what is the proof that you deem sufficient? Shall I send you the full story of what happened so you understand the gaps in knowledge you have about my life? Would you believe it? Or have you made up your mind?
/r/MensRights28/12/25 09:31 PM
1

Gold digging isn’t a slur anymore
/r/MensRights28/12/25 09:01 AM
2

Exactly. Don’t put powder near the fire
/r/MensRights27/12/25 02:27 PM
2

Why would I lie? What do I possibly gain from lying in this context? Because what, it amuses me to lie to strangers online? What kind of person thinks like that? Yeah, I figured out myself that the three female mental health professionals that had seen me could not possibly understand what I needed because I’m a man. Two of them misdiagnosed me instead of treating the underlying causes of the symptoms I was having. When I found a male psychologist who finally said the words “you were a victim of…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 02:26 PM
8

We don’t have a man issue, we have a poverty issue
/r/MensRights27/12/25 08:35 AM
2

What kind of proof would you accept as sufficient so that you believe me? I didn’t say they all had cluster b diagnosis. They all have some traits of this, some traits of that. That was my argument from the beginning. The chances of me finding a partner that had similar traits to the ones I had seen my whole life growing up is near 100%
/r/MensRights27/12/25 08:27 AM
9

They did not correct themselves man. I had to correct them through me taking over my treatment. It was only when a male health professional who were capable of bestowing some compassion onto me that I clicked. But I don’t blame women as a whole, nor do I blame psychology. I blame the culture we live in which it doesn’t even occur to a female psychologist that a male patient may need to be told he was a victim of abuse
/r/MensRights26/12/25 01:40 PM
23

My dude, I was misdiagnosed with a cluster B disorder because I had erratic behaviors driven by trauma. But because I’m a man, and therefore should be perfectly stoic, all the female health professionals that mistreated me thought I couldn’t control my emotions. I should have been a perfectly stoic man. Meanwhile, my ex-wife, my mother and my sister, who have all lied (one of them in front of a judge), are not being counted by these statistics. They fly completely under the radar because the rad…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 01:06 PM
66

This is unsolicited advice that works with any gender: keep verbal agreements to a minimum, have as much as you can in writing
/r/MensRights25/12/25 11:12 AM
4

Why the torso?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/25 08:31 AM
1

The right to vote being tied to conscription means democracy is only granted if there’s war. I’d rather not have war and still vote
/r/MensRights24/12/25 02:03 PM
0

I’d argue that’s the same thing. They’re both sociopaths
/r/MensRights23/12/25 02:36 PM
5

If someone went on tv and said that in order to be a billionaire you have to be an asshole, would you say the person is disgusting?
/r/MensRights23/12/25 08:45 AM
9

“Allowed”
/r/MensRights21/12/25 11:55 AM
9

The notion that “men don’t cry” is not something men do to themselves. It’s something that is thrown at us. The reactions you are mentioning all imply that he was not able to handle hardship like a man
/r/MensRights21/12/25 11:48 AM
80

“Reverse sexual double standard” sounds like a long winded way of saying something is a lie
/r/MensRights21/12/25 11:29 AM
3

Surprise!
/r/MensRights20/12/25 08:46 PM
8

Oh yes, in Brazil we call them the “daughters of the generals”: women who receive their fathers’ full pension and never marry so they don’t lose the benefits
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 09:35 AM
3

Because it’s easier to take a single word and lump every meaning you want into it than applying nuance. Just like with the use of “communism” in the US.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 09:31 AM
-3

Thank you
/r/MensRights18/12/25 10:11 PM
5

I think the word you’re looking for is “fundamentalism”. Religious fundamentalism is not acceptable in any religion
/r/MensRights18/12/25 10:06 PM
1

Because it makes money
/r/MensRights18/12/25 09:49 PM
-2

Look man, I’m not trying to be rude or anything but I’m pretty sure women see right through you
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:58 PM
2

Sure. In r/NiceGuys
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:44 PM
2

Right. What does your height have to do with feminism though?
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:41 PM
0

What the hell is a 5’9 feminist?
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:36 PM
18

When I lived in the uk some years ago there was a campaign on the train about helping homeless women because their numbers were increasing. Well, once women are treated more like men in a system that thinks homelessness is just a side product that will eventually go away if I don’t look at it, women will checks notes go homeless. Yet somehow the campaign goes through, completely ignoring all of the men who were already homeless in the first place
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:29 PM
8

Indeed. The more makeup, the more lunacy
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:11 PM
1

Not a lawyer but I believe he can. The trouble is that he will have to bear the burden of proof in yet another lengthy, draining process, in a different court, where he has to potentially go against a judge who is biased against him.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:05 PM
55

This whole thing sounds a lot like the whole “boys will become violent because of video games” bs they used to talk about when I was a teenager. Which never really materialised, but it’s so much easier to say than actually thinking about the underlying issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 01:01 PM
1

Because we all have mothers
/r/MensRights18/12/25 10:49 AM
3

I’m gonna go a step further and suggest OP starts talking with her friends about the times she’s been toxic. Acknowledging not only heals her, but will give them a good example. I say this because my ex ended everything in a very toxic way, I called her out for it and she said “no one needs to know about my private life”. Neither men nor women do it, but I do it so they have too
/r/MensRights16/12/25 09:53 PM
0

Came here to say this
/r/MensRights16/12/25 07:37 AM
1

I didn’t get the reference
/r/MensRights16/12/25 05:06 AM
50

And yet, while promoting “women in tech” gives you brownie points, there’s no such thing as the “men in healthcare” movement
/r/MensRights15/12/25 01:23 PM
2

News flash: politicians will say anything to get in power
/r/MensRights15/12/25 10:56 AM
2

It’s all a façade. Smoke and mirrors
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/25 08:43 AM
1

A calculator that doesn’t calculate if you type in 69 because that’s offensive. That is fantastic! I can’t wait until we get to the point where you’d have to call a black market mechanic to fix the something because he can’t be on the books since no-one is allowed to admit that 2+2 isn’t 5.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 02:24 PM
-1

So they’re “progressive” now? What a PR stunt!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 01:43 PM
5

Yup, the thought police using the screen that sees all. I once heard a historian saying we don’t live in the world of 1984 because there aren’t 3 world powers at constant war with each other. Like, if the novel got one line “wrong”, then it’s completely wrong.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 01:38 PM
14

Wait so the computer now forbids you from using it? What is this, 1984?
/r/MensRights14/12/25 09:11 AM
-4

Because they did nothing wrong. They were just teenagers who used their bodies to get close to a rich man. Nothing wrong with that, no sir (sarcasm, obviously)
/r/MensRights14/12/25 08:28 AM
4

I’ll be a feminist when they break the “glass ceiling” that is preventing them from joining the military
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:06 AM
6

Right, so where is the march of women for mandatory conscription for themselves?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:05 AM
10

The definition of a kangaroo court
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 07:44 AM
64

Do not engage with women. Simple
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:11 PM
7

But but if a woman dies it’s so much worse because they are so frail
/r/MensRights13/12/25 08:03 AM
13

The sad reality of being a man is that you are held to the highest standards at all times
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/25 09:29 AM
32

I’ll be a feminist when I see the march of women for mandatory conscription for themselves
/r/MensRights12/12/25 09:19 AM
12

That’s why they call it sugar babies
/r/MensRights12/12/25 08:45 AM
2

At work
/r/MensRights11/12/25 07:33 AM
2

With all then men in her dms, that’s the guy she went out with
/r/MensRights09/12/25 07:04 PM
19

It’s not like women don’t do it either
/r/MensRights09/12/25 12:39 AM
5

This is fantastic!
/r/MensRights08/12/25 06:34 PM
7

She has not learned anything
/r/MensRights08/12/25 09:15 AM
15

I love how Emily built a 1M following just out of exposing women’s lies
/r/MensRights08/12/25 08:57 AM
3

Record. Don’t tell her you’re doing it. If you have the emotional resilience, don’t react. Show as little emotion as possible. Short sentences. Don’t bother trying to make sense of her remarks, don’t try to be consistent with what she said before. Imagine you’re being watched by a judge. Easier said than done, but I wish I had heard these things when I was dealing with the narcissistic women in my life
/r/MensRights07/12/25 07:03 PM
7

Well, I was trying to avoid that because I’m so conditioned to not take away from women’s issues, but let’s not forget that 80% of homicide victims are male. You’re more likely to be murdered just by virtue of being a man. How that’s not a gendered issue is beyond me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 11:44 PM
9

Right! If you zoom out even further it’s even less
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 08:28 PM
39

Very well put. Our monkey brains don’t know how to handle numbers, so people come out with the impression that a woman has a 60% chance of being killed by her partner. That’s the effect they want, but it’s just false. If 20% of murder victims are female and of those 60% are from a partner, the chance of a woman being killed by an intimate partner is 12%. Not a very impressive number for a UN report. To be clear, these numbers should all be zero, but they are truly being massaged to convey a narr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 06:57 PM
1

Thanks for reposting. The other one was behind a paywall. Judging only by the text and what the prosecution is saying, it sounds a lot like negligence. Maybe he didn’t want this to happen, got nervous and made several mistakes. But it’s still negligence
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:08 PM
16

r/Linkedinlunatics
/r/MensRights06/12/25 12:01 PM
3

Thank you. I had already looked into it but it doesn’t help in my case
/r/MensRights06/12/25 10:16 AM
4

Many men defend this kind of crap
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:30 PM
1

Is that guy for real?
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:27 PM
8

Thank you but I’m not bringing any woman here. I live in a castle now
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:26 PM
84

When are we protesting?
/r/MensRights05/12/25 03:24 PM
34

Yup. Only way I can see it happening is if I get cameras installed. I would say it’s for safety, but it’s for evidence gathering more than anything. I’d be a lunatic to put myself in another he-said-she-said situation where I know what happened but there’s no proof so she wins
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:28 PM
62

I wouldn’t. I’ve had my fare share of pain coming from relationships to the point where cohabitating is a no no. Yeah sure trust issues, blah blah.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:12 PM
6

I haven’t been to the cinema in years
/r/MensRights05/12/25 12:20 PM
8

If I’m going to ruin my “reputation” and potentially never be hired again for being a “misogynist” for advocating in favour of men, it’d better be for a cause that’s unquestionable. Miscarriage of justice against men is a no go because everybody is an expert on whataboutism nowadays, especially the male feminists who love female liberation so much they even talk on their behalf. The recent wave of male-only conscription is my go to, but it’s hasn’t come to me yet. Once it does, I’m in the street…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 09:23 AM
11

The “surgery” happened more than 30 years ago
/r/MensRights05/12/25 08:45 AM
1

No armies. If army, then every gender armies. Simple
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/25 02:22 AM
-2

I think you’re overthinking it, much like the people at the Men’s Liberation, who’ll write endless essays about a marvel character. It’s really simple. My dad used to teach me that hiring a woman is bad because she gets pregnant and then you have to find a substitute. Well, then make the law give an equal amount of time off to both parents when the kid is born. Now no one is at an advantage and everyone gets to stay with the kid. Iceland did this a decade ago with exactly the results you’d expec…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 02:16 AM
24

No sir. You were lucky. I didn’t have a choice on the matter and now I live with the consequences. If anyone of any gender talks about bodily autonomy and doesn’t include mine, they are the ones distracting you from realising your body is discardable to them
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:59 AM
3

100%. But we all grew up with the notion that a woman throwing a fit is normal so we let these things slide
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:55 AM
39

I always had one scar from a botched stitch, but after doing a medical inspection I found 2 more. Plus a granuloma. Plus a scar that runs diagonally (!). Plus I don’t have enough skin anymore, so it stretches too much, bleeds sometimes and hurts during and after sex. Receiving oral is a drama. Usually the first time I just let it run its course and pretend I’m enjoying it. Later on when the topic comes up I tell the story. It usually backfires because now I’m the one doing the consoling. I’m ver…
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:48 AM
11

They are paranoid
/r/MensRights05/12/25 01:17 AM
1

Is the 1€ white monster drink produced after intense, ahem, shaking?
/r/MensRights04/12/25 11:57 PM
6

Embrace the “monster”! Go roooooarr (Not being sarcastic, just being silly)
/r/MensRights04/12/25 10:43 PM
22

Oh this is a good one. Because my mother did this to my father, constantly nagging at him that he wasn’t man enough, that he couldn’t make even one decision by himself, only to turn around and nag even more because it was the “wrong” decision. They only want you to take the lead so they judge if you did a good job and blame you if you didn’t.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 08:28 PM
8

I’m going to pay you back, I promise
/r/MensRights04/12/25 08:12 PM
82

Being the one who seeks reconciliation after a fight you didn’t start and you were right about. Apologising for being rude after you’ve been wronged, but receiving no such apology for being wronged in the first place. Thinking three times before bringing up a topic because there will be a tantrum. Being scoffed at. Enduring in a relationship where nothing is ever good enough. Being held hostage when she’s throwing s tantrum in public because everyone thinks you did something bad. Handing over yo…
/r/MensRights04/12/25 08:00 PM
25

You went through all that and you still bring women to your home? What are you, a masochist?
/r/MensRights04/12/25 09:45 AM
-1

That’s so much overthinking
/r/MensRights04/12/25 09:33 AM
4

Ok fine. Listen all men. From now on, laugh maniacally when women do stupid shit
/r/MensRights04/12/25 07:42 AM
45

Not a care in the world
/r/MensRights02/12/25 04:39 PM
1

It’s funny that the default tone of the internet has become “I’m really mad at this topic”. I can see how my messages sound so stern and serious, while in my head while writing I’m like “yeah, totally dude!”
/r/MensRights02/12/25 01:20 PM
1

Geez… yeah, your wife based her whole personality on pleasing men because she went to cooking school. /s
/r/MensRights02/12/25 01:09 PM
1

Of course it doesn’t. I have nothing to do with what people do with each other consensually. Live and let live
/r/MensRights02/12/25 01:07 PM
2

Oh this is a good point. Feminism speaking on behalf of women. As if all women were internally feminists just waiting to be liberated and not capable of independent thought. To the point of even pressuring women into being bi, cause liking men is also “patriarchal”
/r/MensRights02/12/25 09:02 AM
18

You don’t need to go that far. If men are more likely to be the perpetrators of murder (on both men and women), why don’t we investigate that? Why don’t we divert resources into making the lives of those men better so they don’t end up in a situation where they think killing someone is the solution? Wouldn’t women benefit from that?
/r/MensRights30/11/25 02:49 PM
1

🌈
/r/MensRights30/11/25 02:31 PM
4

Yes yes, I exaggerated. Let me formalize: given the amount of times any human is wrong in their lifetime and given that the category of women is roughly half of everybody, and given the number of people that have been alive, the number of times a woman has acknowledged her mistakes tends to zero as the number of generations goes to infinity. It just doesn’t roll off the tongue so well
/r/MensRights30/11/25 11:19 AM
1

There’s nothing sacred about an embryo. Women’s bodies have been tossing them out for a very long time and you don’t even know about it. The majority of us have been born onto the dirt on the ground and we’re all here. It’s just a thing that living things do. Cancer is also a thing that living things do. Presumably, both babies and cancer were made by god, if you believe in that. Why do you remove one but not the other?
/r/MensRights30/11/25 10:13 AM
10

The problem is that a woman admitting that she’s wrong, by herself, no faff, has never happened in the history of humanity
/r/MensRights30/11/25 09:58 AM
-13

Look, I’ve been beaten up for being different. There are trans women who are beaten up to the point of having brain damage. I’m not going to argue against the validity of this law. So long as there are people being beaten up for being who they want to be (and cause no harm), this is valid. We can argue that harsher sentences do not stifle behavior, but that’s a different conversation.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 12:56 PM
4

I like this
/r/MensRights29/11/25 10:50 AM
8

Well, that’s to be expected isn’t it? Once women are liberated from traditional roles, they will end up with the same outcomes as men have. Because the world is brutal, but it was all fun and games when it was only men who took it
/r/MensRights29/11/25 10:48 AM
2

Who wants to win this stupid contest?
/r/MensRights29/11/25 10:45 AM
8

Don’t worry, Brazil has had this for years now and nothing changed
/r/MensRights29/11/25 08:32 AM
11

The bare minimum for me is a 100k salary a year without doing any work
/r/MensRights28/11/25 07:55 PM
3

She could have just left the delivery by the door, right?
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:40 AM
38

He was VERY lucky to have that footage
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:37 AM
10

Because it’s easier to marry the CEO then to be one
/r/MensRights27/11/25 08:29 AM
6

Another classic situation where people point the finger at the mirror to see who’s the most wrong
/r/MensRights27/11/25 07:01 AM
97

LLMs are not truth machines. They only replicate what they feed them during training. If the training data emphasises the inclusion of women in the workforce, then that’s what the LLM will do. The LLM will not suddenly realise its own biases in any way, just like humans don’t
/r/MensRights26/11/25 09:30 AM
1

The wives
/r/MensRights25/11/25 10:33 PM
15

Hm, what am I disillusioned about? Well, for one the prophecy that enabled my parents to build wealth through being competent and hardworking was just a fluke of the economy at their time. There are far too many people around nowadays, but with the same if not less ladders to be climbed. Two, that being competent is a thing. Today, the idiot who sucks balls the most gets the prize. Third, that you have to build wealth first and then you enjoy life. Well, I’m not going to retire, that’s for sure,…
/r/MensRights25/11/25 02:21 PM
1

Well, Baby Reindeer. Also a docuseries on Netflix called The Innocence Files
/r/MensRights24/11/25 10:22 PM
44

Paid by men
/r/MensRights24/11/25 04:48 PM
1

My role and purpose is to do some stuff sometimes but mostly being a lazy monkey until the next meal time, finding new delicious things to eat, playing games, seeing friends sometimes, drinking beer then stop drinking beer, complaining about my belly but not really doing anything about it, getting mad at how people suck, reading about science and how wonderful and bizarre the universe is, that kind of stuff
/r/MensRights24/11/25 08:49 AM
1

Red scare! Woooooo
/r/MensRights24/11/25 06:19 AM
15

There will be backlash. Just be aware of it
/r/MensRights22/11/25 08:36 PM
6

I think this is a great idea. I wouldn’t run it everyday though. You don’t want to trivialize the topic. A simple ad for a man’s group in your area would be nice. Something like this: https://youtu.be/fS0RqI6jSIk?si=Waiq6V_ZQyxX8Shr
/r/MensRights22/11/25 08:35 PM
-5

Is this what we’re fighting for? A doodle?
/r/MensRights20/11/25 07:59 PM
1

Welcome to the bleach my eyes club
/r/MensRights18/11/25 10:10 PM
9

That’s cool, I didn’t know that
/r/MensRights18/11/25 10:09 PM
22

You got to be kidding me
/r/MensRights18/11/25 06:47 PM
3

Just let them do it by themselves
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:38 PM
8

You can’t spoil someone emotionally and expect them to do the same back. That’s not how people work. You put them on a pedestal, they stay there
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:36 PM
56

stop the gene activation that makes fetuses male They’re not the brightest bulbs are they?
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:30 PM
24

What’s the name of the thing that pressures women into being hopeless, defenceless, damsels in distress? The “patriarchy”
/r/MensRights16/11/25 08:43 AM
6

And if you tell her that, she’ll rip her earrings off, yell ENOUGH, isolate herself, at which point my father will step in all like “look what you did”
/r/MensRights16/11/25 08:14 AM
20

There you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenAreViolentToo/s/JCxBDW0UQn
/r/MensRights16/11/25 12:03 AM
1

Well, my comment was based on the fact that I’ve had the same thoughts and I remember how I was feeling when I had said thoughts and how keeping that anger inside me was making me ill and how getting the anger out in a productive way made me feel better. That’s all
/r/MensRights15/11/25 11:15 PM
1

No need to overanalyse it. To me it read like a lot of frustration and I wanted to show empathy. That’s all
/r/MensRights15/11/25 10:58 PM
48

My mother will say one thing and then 2 minutes later when I recall it she’ll deny it vehemently snd say I’m judging her
/r/MensRights15/11/25 07:30 PM
9

Easy man, easy. Let the rage out, but don’t let it consume you. I’m a victim of a botched circumcision done by my uncle. My family was against me for denouncing him, the poor fella (sarcasm). All of this rage came rushing down on me when, at the age of 40 (!), I heard the words “you were a victim of medical malpractice” for the first time. I get it. Collectively, people are a pile of garbage. Try to find the ones who aren’t. Try affecting for the better the lives of those closest to you. Shortly…
/r/MensRights15/11/25 02:26 PM
1

My dear internet stranger. The day I see the march of women against the conscription of men, or the march of women for the forced conscription of both genders, then I’ll change my mind. Actions over words. In the meantime, thank you for the suggestion
/r/MensRights15/11/25 02:01 PM
1

A politician should be equally likely to go to prison for wrongdoing, but who’s gonna police the politician?
/r/MensRights15/11/25 08:12 AM
7

Because no-one is counting them. Simple as that
/r/MensRights15/11/25 08:06 AM
1

That’s what they say, not what they do
/r/MensRights15/11/25 07:59 AM
1

Exactly! “Won’t anyone think of the children?” Then they pass a draconian law so the state knows everything we do but we don’t know anything about them
/r/MensRights14/11/25 10:55 PM
2

No no, you’re forgetting the cronies who advocate for mass surveillance on the internet because of cp
/r/MensRights14/11/25 10:52 PM
8

People use children as an excuse for all sorts of bad shit
/r/MensRights14/11/25 07:28 PM
2

Dunno, I’m not German, but I do know they have to prioritise candidates somehow, so if you have poor eyesight or something they might discard you
/r/MensRights14/11/25 06:27 PM
2

She’s jealous because the other girl is pretty and young.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:35 AM
1

Nah, it’s about the girl club. Boys? Blergh! They are snotty and mean. They’re like 5yos
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:34 AM
17

Oh man, sorry I’m just not physically fit. Such a shame /s
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:31 AM
18

Neglect.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:27 AM
2

All the feminists
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:22 AM
1

Hey kid the playground is over there
/r/MensRights13/11/25 09:48 AM
3

Goes to show the cancel mob is very selective about whose past they don’t approve
/r/MensRights13/11/25 09:42 AM
2

Didn’t Simone abuse a woman?
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:51 AM
1

And thank you for putting it into a very clear protocol. I was also reactive when I saw gaslighting, but here’s the thing: so many women (and men too, don’t get me wrong) have no issue telling a lie with a clean face just to cause a reaction. And since it’s all hearsay and hearsay favours them, they get what they want. Hence documenting is so important. Once you have that video of the complete opposite of what they told, everything falls apart.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:44 AM
4

I know the battle over the custody of a child is an order of magnitude worse than a childless divorce, but I only have experience with the latter. Still, every single thing you said describes what I’ve been through. This should be taught in schools or something.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 12:34 PM
2

None taken. You are correct, I was a salty. I feel like nowadays whenever you read anything on the internet it’s like you’re on a game show on tv with a giant spinning wheel of IS IT SATIRE OR FOR REAL? [queue the music]
/r/MensRights12/11/25 05:21 AM
39

Dude my mother is jealous of my relationship with my father. Women are made of jealousy
/r/MensRights11/11/25 08:13 PM
4

Perfect
/r/MensRights11/11/25 08:10 PM
2

I say egalitarian
/r/MensRights11/11/25 08:10 PM
3

There is no patriarchy in my story. There’s only societal expectations on both genders that everyone in my family’s history, going back 3 generations at least, had to fulfil. Everyone failed because they lived lives they didn’t want to. Read on pluralistic ignorance, there is your answer
/r/MensRights11/11/25 07:07 PM
2

Isn’t radical feminism a white supremacist-adjacent ideology? Are they primarily white?
/r/MensRights11/11/25 02:29 PM
3

Do not get married. Do everything for the kid by the book and more. Most importantly, be present for the kid. Just don’t sign the paper.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:21 AM
3

Finally some good news!
/r/MensRights10/11/25 03:46 PM
13

Who wants to join any group that says you should die?
/r/MensRights10/11/25 03:40 PM
1

<sarcasm>Men cannot be victims of DV</sarcasm>. Better? I forget that people have the reading comprehension of a car tire
/r/MensRights10/11/25 08:20 AM
0

Duh, there is no domestic violence against men
/r/MensRights10/11/25 12:27 AM
8

I like your optimism, but I’ve had my share of finding the best way to talk to people about things they don’t want to understand
/r/MensRights09/11/25 10:00 PM
23

Yeah man, they’re gonna shame you no matter what until you say exactly what they want. This conversation is fruitless
/r/MensRights09/11/25 08:44 PM
4

Or 10 minutes
/r/MensRights09/11/25 08:09 AM
4

But what did he do, huh? /s
/r/MensRights09/11/25 08:03 AM
26

It is a term created by sociologist Arlie Hochschild meaning to “induce or suppress feeling in order to sustain the outward [support] that produces the proper state of mind in others.” That’s exactly what I have to do with my mother
/r/MensRights08/11/25 07:24 PM
11

That the patriarchy is something that has ever existed. Yes the Greeks and Romans were patriarchal, but as far as we know the Hittites weren’t, the Ancient Egyptians weren’t, England never has been. We know of major atrocities committed by female leaders in all these cultures and yet, somehow throughout all of human history women have been oppressed. Hitler had a wife. Bibi has a wife. The orange man has a trophy wife. Are they innocent bystanders? Oh please. These women are very happy where the…
/r/MensRights08/11/25 07:15 PM
13

Thank god there’s a term for it now so I can describe my mom in like one sentence
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:55 PM
4

I don’t think it’s the left (whatever that means nowadays). It’s just marketing. Outrage sells. Telling women that men are the boogeymen is very cheap in terms of effort
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:48 PM
0

It’s good advice to be skeptical of all lawyers, even the good ones. In my experience, what they all want is to churn out cases as quickly as possible with as little effort as possible. They will purposefully give you advice to not act because they don’t want to have to deal with the paperwork.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 07:33 AM
10

It’s reassuring that even a marriage counsellor can fall into a narcissist’s lair. I was naive once, but now I’m cynical. Everyone wears masks. That’s lesson number one for all of us. Lesson number two is: record everything you can from now on. Three: do not put yourself in more danger. Is there anything you can get her on? Was the abortion legal? If not, use that. A person doesn’t behave like that once. Then talk to several lawyers. Ask them for a simple consultation (which are hopefully cheape…
/r/MensRights04/11/25 10:34 PM
8

Men don’t have an issue with successful women. Men have an issue with people who brag, put others down, gloat, is superficial, materialistic. I could go on.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 08:14 PM
2

Yes, but it’s not about the gender. On the last company I worked for, I saw racism and raised the issue only to be told I have to be more political. I was sure they wouldn’t say that to a woman. When told this story to a female friend of mine, she said she was dismissed using the words you mentioned. You see, it’s not about the gender, it’s that toxic people really don’t like to hear they are wrong so they’ll turn it onto you. If for women is “you’re too aggressive” for men is whatever else. In …
/r/MensRights04/11/25 01:28 PM
4

Western society raises men to think they’re so starved of female attention that any attention from a woman is supposed to be a good thing
/r/MensRights04/11/25 01:00 PM
1

Yes yes, let’s reproduce like rabbits, as god intended
/r/MensRights04/11/25 12:57 PM
16

Yup. Don’t give them the views
/r/MensRights04/11/25 08:50 AM
7

I’m aware I’m replying to myself but I’ve been there OP. My TWO female psychologists mistreated me because they couldn’t fathom that a man could have some childhood trauma for having had his penis cut wrong in a botched circumcision when I told both of them that that happened to me. No-one ever called it medical error when I told them I was left for hours without analgesics by the doctor. None of them called it abuse when it was done by my uncle, who abandoned me and my mom after dropping me off…
/r/MensRights03/11/25 01:32 AM
10

I only got progress when I found a male psychologist, recommended by a male friend (great friend in fact), who recommended a male psychiatrist. That’s what it takes
/r/MensRights03/11/25 01:22 AM
6

This
/r/MensRights02/11/25 06:27 AM
16

If feminism were about equality it would be called egalitarianism
/r/MensRights01/11/25 08:24 AM
2

This sounds like the powerpuff girls. One is feisty, the other one is kinda clueless, the other one is the leader somehow
/r/MensRights01/11/25 08:20 AM
4

My man! Great choice! There’s a lot of power in being the only guy who knows how the plumbing works. When shit hits the fan, they have to listen to that weird guy who doesn’t care about fashion. As to therapy, it took me a lot of adjustments and I dunno, it’s not the panacea everyone claims it is. But after a lot of work I did manage to learn to defend myself. It’s very liberating. If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 09:47 AM
9

Mate, it’s not late to see a therapist. I’m 40, also the son of an abusive mother and I’ve also thought I attract the narcissists. And it was true, I was gullible, innocent. These are common side effects of having been raised like we have. I started therapy as a way to not end it all and now I see it as keeping the habit of investigating my own mind. It’s a wonderful thing! Also, don’t go into programming if you venture into IT. Look for something like networks and infrastructure, the bare bones…
/r/MensRights31/10/25 07:41 AM
19

Cause who’s a self-employed firefighter?
/r/MensRights30/10/25 11:00 AM
90

How do you prove that consent was asked for and given?
/r/MensRights30/10/25 10:50 AM
1

Yes I am cherrypicking “collapses” to illustrate that “the collapse of western civilisation” is just fear mongering since “western civilisation” only exists as it is because of all these other “collapses”.
/r/MensRights28/10/25 08:13 AM
3

I’m all for it. Out of sight out of mind
/r/MensRights27/10/25 01:12 PM
1

You vote for a representative in government largely because of the French Revolution. Was that collapse also bad? Europe saw the rise and the fall of fascism around and post WW2. Was that collapse also bad? There are plenty of examples of society “collapsing” and things moving on. Things inevitably change. That’s just how it is. We keep moving on. There’s not much else to it.
/r/MensRights27/10/25 01:01 PM
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There’s been many collapses in western history. The British empire collapsed and now you live in an independent country. Your life is a product of that collapse. Should we mourn it too?
/r/MensRights27/10/25 07:12 AM
-4

What’s with this obsession with the “collapse of the West” though? Like yeah, and?
/r/MensRights27/10/25 05:53 AM
1

I think paternity tests are a marvel of human ingenuity. It answers the question “is this snotty fucker mine?”, which no other species on earth can answer (except seahorses I suppose). But to everybody’s point, I don’t think it should be mandatory, cause that’s impractical. It should however be a right. Every man has the right to request a paternity test at any time, no questions asked, no judges required.
/r/MensRights26/10/25 07:06 AM
13

100% agree. I quit dating, have been focusing on my friends and my mental health, and I’ve never been happier!
/r/MensRights26/10/25 06:53 AM
0

Because it’s shallow.
/r/MensRights24/10/25 03:54 AM
10

My body, my choice
/r/MensRights23/10/25 06:30 AM
3

Oh ok. Let’s start with the premise. “26% of women feel their careers are…”. For one, we shouldn’t care about sentiment studies. And two, I read somewhere that single moms indeed make less money, since they have to juggle family and work. Why not so much for men? Well, because all a judge cares about is that the man provides. And so he does. Societal expectations and all that. But in the end of the day, why should I care? You had a child, now deal with it. Is it unfair? Of course it is. Capitali…
/r/MensRights21/10/25 06:35 AM
2

Why are you replying with the same text, but with slightly different words? Is this a Turing test?
/r/MensRights21/10/25 05:52 AM
5

And?
/r/MensRights21/10/25 05:06 AM
12

I once had a former friend of mine (a dude) tell me that lesbian couples are more likely to choose sperm donors who were blond and with fair eyes. But he soon put me at ease saying that feminists were already “problematising” the issue. Phew! Otherwise lesbians would have been racists and we can’t have that, no sir
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:59 AM
5

This boils my blood. The fact that the state only cares about a man’s presence in a child’s life through money is enraging.
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:56 AM
1

They came up with a name for that now? “Benevolent sexism”, is that it? That sounds very stupid
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:51 AM
2

Hey man, we’ve all been there. One moment you’re happy and the next you lose yourself in another person and when it’s over you don’t know who you are anymore. I’d say look for a psychologist for a few sessions. That’s what they are there for, to help you process your emotions. Other than that, a wise person once told me: remember that time when you were happy with yourself? Yeah, go back to that. If you can’t find any memories, make them. Just like photos on your phone. Are there any photos on y…
/r/MensRights19/10/25 03:40 PM
1

Go on and fix it then.
/r/MensRights18/10/25 05:00 PM
1

I think you’ve never been in a situation where you tried to find a lawyer willing to sue another lawyer for malpractice. I have. Do you know how many there are if you’re a nobody like both of us are? Zero. Have you ever had a conversation with a lawyer about what’s the best way to present the information cause the judge may not even read it? I have. It’s not a one-off thing either. Talk to any lawyer and they’ll tell you they have to think about how to make the judge read. The system you believe…
/r/MensRights18/10/25 02:43 PM
6

Whatever man, the law is already an obsolete concept. You can write whatever you want into law. The declaration of human rights exists and yet here we are
/r/MensRights18/10/25 10:49 AM
7

Ah yes yes, the perfectly human trait of empathy does not apply to 50% of the population. It must be something in the water
/r/MensRights18/10/25 10:09 AM
13

It’s so much easier being a scientist when you can change the meaning of the numbers
/r/MensRights18/10/25 10:03 AM
10

Don’t engage
/r/MensRights18/10/25 09:47 AM
2

Dude it’s all about that sweet sweet virtue signalling. That’s all that really matters
/r/MensRights18/10/25 05:05 AM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily a feminist plot to make men think they’re stupid. I think it’s more a case of they have to dumb you down to convince you to buy stupid things. Like take Gillette that you mentioned. I haven’t bought a razor blade in years, maybe a decade. But I’ve seen the ads where they try to convince me that shaving my beard off would get me more women (it won’t), that women don’t like stubbles (quite a few do), etc. That is the dumbing down in my opinion, they have to tell a st…
/r/MensRights17/10/25 05:41 AM
1

Thank you Here’s a link: https://youtu.be/hg3umXU_qWc The feminism that she talks about is what you talked about, but that’s not the what feminism is about anymore
/r/MensRights14/10/25 08:10 PM
2

Thank you
/r/MensRights14/10/25 07:00 PM
3

Yeah, nah. Been there done that. Been lectured by other feminist men about feminism only to venture into understanding it myself and realizing what you just said. There are quite a few important voices in feminism that understand that gender roles are harmful to men just as much. Chimamanda Adichie and Bell Hooks come to mind. It’s a pretty obvious concept too, I mean it’s not like women are raised full of expectations from society, but men are born in a vacuum. But as obvious as that is, most f…
/r/MensRights14/10/25 06:47 PM
7

I have major respect for teachers and nurses being mostly women. It’s tough work. The fact that they are paid so badly while software engineers make bank writing shit like TikTok is nuts to me. Shows what we as a whole value crap more than education and health. Except education and HEALTH is something everybody actually needs.
/r/MensRights12/10/25 05:35 PM
12

Only a tiny percentage of the accusations are false Where do we keep the tally of false accusations?
/r/MensRights12/10/25 05:56 AM
12

What gaze? I haven’t looked at a woman in ages
/r/MensRights12/10/25 05:52 AM
10

That’s what happens when you instil in everyone’s mind that men only want sex. Obviously, every woman will then conclude the next man only wants sex with her, but I don’t know about you guys, but I really don’t want to have sex with many of the women I interact with. Maybe it’s just my personal experience
/r/MensRights11/10/25 06:15 AM
2

The thing that feminism doesn’t reckon with is the incongruity between the “women are strong” narrative and the things women like doing sexually. And jealousy.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 05:18 AM
2

Exactly. “Human-level intelligence” is not that intelligent
/r/MensRights11/10/25 05:13 AM
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AI, or AGI for that matter, is not a truth machine. It just rewords the information it has consumed. It doesn’t analyse what it says for inconsistencies, much like the majority of the humans.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 06:46 AM
5

I think there’s a rift between people who think in absolutes and people who understand nuance. In everything really. If men are misogynistic because they say “all women do x” and women are misandristic (?) because they say “all men are y”, just let them bicker to eternity. I don’t care
/r/MensRights09/10/25 11:41 AM
6

Are you ok?
/r/MensRights09/10/25 06:08 AM
20

"She is 21 years of age. She has her whole life in front of her." SHE DELIBERATELY DROVE OVER HIM
/r/MensRights06/10/25 02:29 PM
14

You get brownie points for being a man who “protects” women.
/r/MensRights06/10/25 06:04 AM
5

Wth is this?
/r/MensRights02/10/25 11:30 AM
12

There’s that, but I mean they didn’t go around to make a survey of how women and men feel, both married and single to check what the differences are. The article is literally just women sending letters to the newspaper like they were teens in the 80s talking to the radio station
/r/MensRights30/09/25 06:09 PM
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I clicked on the link expecting to see some data to back it up, but it’s all vibes. I mean, I have only myself to blame for that
/r/MensRights30/09/25 03:49 PM
12

The person who told me to start doing this in my life was my sister
/r/MensRights30/09/25 05:48 AM
0

A family is what you make it out to be. Good friends, a shared activity. I think you’re kid is missing that
/r/MensRights29/09/25 10:10 AM
-1

Did you just come up with a backstory to say you’re handsome? Geez
/r/MensRights28/09/25 06:05 AM
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She’s more concerned with how she’s gonna be seen if she’s beside these men. All women are. That’s what matters to them. It’s all about the looks.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 07:15 AM
-1

Ok. Just close your eyes and pretend you didn’t see it then
/r/MensRights24/09/25 10:35 PM
0

And was I talking to OP or to the commenter?
/r/MensRights24/09/25 10:35 PM
0

OP made no assertions about genetics A man is someone with XY chromosomes Hm, I think you are just mad I made you think, but you don’t know what to do with the thought. “Does this mean I have to like trans people now?”, you might be asking yourself. “What am I gonna tell my family?” Well, nothing. Nothing changes. There is a statistically insignificant number of trans people in the world. Their lives have virtually zero impact on my life and your life. Why does it rile you up so much?
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:38 PM
0

I answered the claim that genetics mean anything in this context.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:29 PM
-1

A man is someone with XY chromosomes Did I?
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:25 PM
-13

You’re talking like genetics is some kind of absolute, but it’s way weirder than you think. But that’s besides the point. Humans and chimps and lions and some other animals are capable of killing their own species. Other species aren’t. I don’t remember seeing parrots killing each other as much as we humans do. Are we genetically predisposed to homicide? Perhaps. But we have decided that that’s a bad thing. Humans are definitely capable of determining which behaviors are ok, even if they are roo…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:19 PM
16

I was circumcised at 8yo. By my uncle. Who butchered me. I live with the consequences now. I was mutilated. I’m glad you didn’t have any issues. Now if you could please show some empathy towards guys like me, please say you have been mutilated, but you were lucky nothing bad came out of it. Thanks
/r/MensRights21/09/25 03:44 PM
4

That Natasha lady wouldn’t have given the butter to the guy either. Honor means nothing to them
/r/MensRights21/09/25 01:14 PM
10

They band together, it’s different than helping each other out
/r/MensRights21/09/25 01:11 PM
2

Women are being excluded from the military work force. Aren’t they going to do anything about it?
/r/MensRights19/09/25 07:17 AM
2

Nah, people lie about their height all the time. People lie about not caring about height. There’s lots of ways to mislead with height. What you’re saying is that people lie about their weight because they can change it, but haven’t.
/r/MensRights16/09/25 07:00 PM
1

You clearly believe in the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis, even though you didn’t know its name. So, what both me and the text are talking about is this hypothesis that the language you speak affects the way you think. But then again, imagine coming to a comment and not knowing what I was talking about.
/r/MensRights13/09/25 07:25 AM
10

Oh there is no sarcasm here. Only me pointing a mirror at you and you not liking it
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:20 PM
14

What else could I possibly be using other than words?
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:17 PM
17

My point exactly
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:11 PM
10

Incel became a slur. Why are you defending a slur?
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:06 PM
13

You clearly have never been in a relationship with a woman
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:06 PM
28

Incel = men with an opinion I don’t like FTFY
/r/MensRights12/09/25 08:04 PM
12

Does it matter? Neither is good. Imagine saying you’re against human rights
/r/MensRights12/09/25 11:52 AM
9

Don’t you love when people who don’t understand a thing about a topic act as if they did? What is it called again? I forget the name they gave it. Linguists have been pushing to change the nomenclature of “gender” in languages to “noun classes” because ignorant people think the “gender” in a language reflects the concept of gender in society, which is far from the truth. It’s just a borrowing of the word “gender”. If that were the case, then China should be a more equal society, shouldn’t it? I …
/r/MensRights12/09/25 09:40 AM
34

I’m gen Y and the thing I wish I could tell my younger self is: my best memories of my 20s were not with women. Find a few good friends worthy of your time and cherish that.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 06:23 PM
6

I am not a conqueror, nor am I aggressive, neither are my friends. What are you on about?
/r/MensRights11/09/25 10:53 AM
10

Get recordings too
/r/MensRights11/09/25 10:13 AM
-1

Oof
/r/MensRights11/09/25 08:08 AM
53

It’s cause she’s white too. Feminism loves a blonde victim.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 08:06 PM
1

Yeah I see your point. I had a male friend who would cry whenever he talked about how much anti-racist he was. This was before TikTok. In person. The social justice warrior does precisely that too. Reprimand others for not adhering to the enlightenment. Those are two examples I’ve come across with men. They don’t do it because they care about the issue at hand, they just want the clout.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:52 PM
9

Nah man, nobody reads profiles. The women who have tried having a man’s account on a dating app know this because it also doesn’t matter what they write on the profile, they don’t get matches. Even with a fake photo of a guy, which she got to curate. You can explicitly say “you are a rapist” in there, but if you’re cute, you’ll get matches. If you’re not, you can write a poem in there, write the best joke and it will not matter.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:43 PM
3

And they don’t shame that? That’s fine according to feminism
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:34 PM
-6

Cmon guys some of you think it’s hot. I know I do. The problem is she’s not doing it with me. I would love for a woman to do that with me involved, but I’m not her type. And that sucks. Can’t she just not rub it on our faces? Is that the fun part?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:20 PM
3

But it’s ok for women to turn a blind eye to the fact that men have to pay to see them? Are they the product then?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:07 PM
12

There you go. Where’s that other user saying height is such a precise measurement? The average person doesn’t even know what 5’7 is. Give me a break
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:05 PM
3

I appreciate your point, but that’s overanalyzing. Also you don’t have any measurements to base that off of, no control group. So that’s an opinion. Moreover, isn’t it the case that feminism demonstrates that the effects of expectations about the body are harmful? Why is it not so for men? Are we somehow immune from societal expectations? That’s only bad for women, because men what? Need to men up?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 06:55 PM
1

It’s funny how people will assume things once a religion, an ethnicity or a skin color is mentioned. I have never favoured a Muslim nor am I going to, but hey I guess you know more about me than I do. Moreover, I can attest with 100% confidence that reading the Quran gives you no insight whatsoever about how the culture is transmitted. And I did allude to Christianity having been fundamentalist a couple of centuries ago. I guess you missed that part. But to your point, every religion, political …
/r/MensRights10/09/25 12:54 PM
0

That’s cause what I didn’t say is that correlating personality with physical appearance is discrimination. By definition. And sure, some black people may have a particular personality, but once you dig into it you realize it’s about the environment they grew up in, their income and access to education, all of which are not “traits” the person has because of their race. As counter examples, you have plenty of low-income white people who have similar personality traits. Or middle-class black peopl…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 12:32 PM
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100%. Not only that, but I’ve heard many times that me being shorter makes them feel awkward. That’s cause she shames other women as awkward for being too tall in her head, but then passes the blame onto us.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 11:56 AM
37

Isn’t that a good thing? It shows that men are more open to different body types while women only select the same one. Who’s objectifying who?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 11:42 AM
1

Because 1) some people think that liking someone because of their physical appearance or the money they have is superficial and 2) because conflating physical appearance with personality is obviously a falsehood.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 11:23 AM
25

This is only true if preferences were a normal distribution. But when everybody “prefers” blondes, “prefers” not dating black/brown people, “prefers” thin, you start seeing that individual preferences are not individual at all.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 09:58 AM
380

Bumble and Tinder have a filter for height. Not for weight, cause that would be body shaming.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 09:50 AM
0

I wouldn’t say mandatory. It should be a right that men may waive if they want, but can enforce if necessary.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 08:34 AM
1

If a man looks at himself in the mirror 50 times a day, never apologizes, never acknowledges his faults and belittles others, he’s a narcissist. When a woman does it, she’s a woman. With that mindset, people go on to run studies and conclude that men are more likely to be narcissists. Isn’t that fabulous?
/r/MensRights10/09/25 08:15 AM
9

YouTube errored out when I tried playing the clip. But what you’re describing is something I’ve experienced my whole life coming from a Muslim family. I’ve had white friends lecture me on how Islam works and how Muslim women are oppressed. They never asked me but if they did I would have told them that my grandmother was beaten up by her MOTHER-in-law for refusing to wear the veil. This is the white saviour in action, telling others how to live their lives. Many people, smarter than me, have poi…
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:53 AM
28

Fuck the UN
/r/MensRights09/09/25 07:07 AM
2

It is unjust that there is a law that only punishes one gender, despite there being a constitution that says everyone is equal in the eyes of the law. It is ridiculous that people weaponize the law, the judiciary. It makes you realize it’s only words on a piece of paper that change meaning depending on who reads them.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 02:58 PM
1

Brazil
/r/MensRights08/09/25 09:33 AM
2

Yes, but it’s worse than that. Say a woman is in a relationship and her male partner controls the finances, takes her phone away from her and says horrible things to her. She can invoke this law and her testimony is sufficient to open a case. If a man goes through the same things, he has to invoke three different laws, in three different cases, and in each of the cases the burden of proof falls on him. But how do you prove that someone manipulates you, right? Edit: oh, I forgot to mention that i…
/r/MensRights08/09/25 09:20 AM
14

Intersectional feminism: you can be a woman and black and you’ll suffer from both kinds of discrimination Men: can I be a man and a victim? Intersectional feminism: no
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:46 AM
2

Lei Maria da Penha, in Brazil, is the law the governs domestic abuse. It cannot be invoked by a man if he’s the victim.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 06:33 AM
2

Yes and yes https://www.planalto.gov.br/ccivil_03/_Ato2004-2006/2006/Lei/L11340.htm
/r/MensRights08/09/25 06:25 AM
32

Aren’t they the ones who say women carry the burden of working at home? Isn’t sharing the kid more often a good thing for them too? I’m so confused
/r/MensRights06/09/25 10:55 PM
9

Bias is more severe not less. In Latin America, even though crime is rampant overall, the easiest way for the police to actually go after a man is when he doesn’t pay child support. Even murder isn’t that important. I mean, the police does it too so… In Brazil, the law explicitly denies that men can be victims of domestic abuse. Etc.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 07:42 AM
9

What The Innocence Files on Netflix. There’s one case where the guy was wrongly convicted and they interview the prosecutor. His alibi was that he was at home during the time of the crime. The prosecutor, a woman, literally says: “what young men is at home on a Friday night?” And that was enough.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 07:30 AM
4

Dude, my heart goes out to you for all you’ve been through. If I may suggest something, get a camera that records for your home. I know you said money is tight, so it doesn’t have to be a “proper” security camera. I have an old laptop. I painted a small piece of paper black and taped over than green light that turns on when you’re recording. You can break the light too if you want. The laptop sits on a stand on the desk I work at and has a view of the living room. When I had a woman visit I woul…
/r/MensRights06/09/25 07:23 AM
5

What is the concept?
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:22 AM
38

1000% Feminism sells. Both the left and the right will invoke women’s “suffering” to get sympathy for their cause
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:16 AM
0

Ok then. Keep theorising about the boogeyman
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:09 AM
1

It is clear you have never listened to vulnerable men and their stories then.
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:07 AM
2

Do you know what happens to men who are vulnerable?
/r/MensRights04/09/25 08:46 PM
-2

Dude, if you haven’t watched this, please do: https://youtu.be/3WMuzhQXJoY This is a woman who received death threats for defending men as well as women. The quiet part in what she says, in my opinion, is that she would call herself a feminist again hadn’t it become a hateful movement. That’s what I’m talking about. We need more voices like this. But debating whether the patriarchy exists is not going to move a grain of sand in this direction. Besides, how can you categorically prove that someth…
/r/MensRights04/09/25 08:38 PM
-3

Sure, but what you are failing to acknowledge from what I said is that there are women who identify as feminists and who do agree that men have rights too. They are also shut down by mainstream feminism. There are women who defend men’s rights and women’s rights and don’t identify as feminists. Now, it’s not my job, nor men’s job to fix the mess they’re into and define feminism for them. Nor is it intellectually sound of us to lump all feminism together and say they are all evil. If you don’t al…
/r/MensRights04/09/25 05:07 PM
-2

That’s a whole load of blah blah blah. Gimme actions, not rhetoric
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:51 PM
-2

Feminism is not a cohesive thing either. I wouldn’t call myself a feminist, but I support some of their causes.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:17 PM
0

Wait what? Despite the internet being essentially free and there being thousands of people there saying “don’t confuse correlation with causation”, why do people still confuse correlation with causation? I mean, it’s my wild guess, but couldn’t it be that an economy with high prices and low wages and potentially overpopulation leads to people competing for resources, which therefore leads to women competing with each other? It doesn’t have to be a conspiracy you know
/r/MensRights04/09/25 08:15 AM
1

Nah man. I never thought I’d say this. Ever. But I like being alive.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 11:36 PM
11

That’s eight years of post-nut clarity right there
/r/MensRights03/09/25 09:39 AM
2

You’re right. Mandatory conscription for CEOs and their families then. I mean, if you’re rich, you have more resources to recover without straining the economy right?
/r/MensRights03/09/25 09:36 AM
29

In retrospect, that would have been better than simping like I did for my first girlfriend
/r/MensRights03/09/25 09:33 AM
47

I had a family member offer to hire a prostitute for me, to “get it out of the way”
/r/MensRights03/09/25 09:12 AM
2

Exactly. It’s all bullshit. But if it were their asses on the line, I bet things would de-escalate pretty quickly
/r/MensRights03/09/25 09:10 AM
2

Yup. Putin, Zelensky, Netanyahu, Trump, Obama, whoever is the German chancellor now, Xi Jinping, all of them. Just put them in a warehouse, give them AKs and let them fight for whatever it is they’re fighting. I could not care less.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 08:46 AM
10

Exactly! Patriotism is an honor trap for men. They shame you if you aren’t. If you are, you’re dying for them. Cool isn’t it?
/r/MensRights03/09/25 08:03 AM
9

It feels good when you are patriotic on my behalf
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:26 AM
1

I think this is also part of a larger trend in society affecting all. The internet divides us into hyper specific tribes and we are simply forgetting how to tolerate others. Hence, less friends. But still, I’ve removed all friends who don’t talk to me about their feelings and I have been devoting energy to the ones who do. It’s a small number of people, but I know I have people who have my back as I have theirs. Reach out to your good friends.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:08 AM
1

Don’t know don’t care
/r/MensRights02/09/25 02:50 PM
3

This: https://youtu.be/uc6QxD2_yQw
/r/MensRights02/09/25 02:46 PM
1

Superheroes are for kids
/r/MensRights01/09/25 08:17 AM
0

The Innocence Files
/r/MensRights01/09/25 06:31 AM
27

You can approach men if you want, you know?
/r/MensRights01/09/25 06:30 AM
10

I’ve had enough of this soft-core social movement where middle class, white teenagers argue over macha.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 10:07 AM
12

Why does the death of a woman evoke more empathy than that of a man? Yes it is horrible and yes it sheds light onto this discrepancy. These two things co-exist at the same time and one doesn’t invalidate the other.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 02:22 PM
139

Where are the girl bosses now?
/r/MensRights28/08/25 11:32 AM
24

Compulsory for men, optional for women That’s all I needed to know.
/r/MensRights27/08/25 07:51 PM
4

Fuck Disney
/r/MensRights26/08/25 08:05 PM
5

No one’s forcing you to laugh. I’m sure some of the other guys laughed it off, didn’t think it was funny either, but also didn’t want to make a fool of themselves. Just don’t laugh and find who doesn’t either. Then filter your friends accordingly.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 06:20 PM
44

I’m from a country where men are forced to enlist in the army but women aren’t. Men can’t leave the country if they haven’t fulfilled their obligation. I have to have a document that no woman has to have. I’m marked. And I have never seen a single woman request equal rights on this topic anywhere.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 06:09 PM
3

Sure. If that makes you happy.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 06:51 AM
6

What I believe the OP is saying is that we don’t talk about the gender death gap in the workplace. I would argue that the risk of death is worse than the risk of underpayment, but no affirmative action with regards to death is taken while a considerable amount of energy is devoted to making the lives of women better. Their lives are already considerably better in this particular metric (death in the workplace), but no-one bets an eye. Although feminism advocates for equality, it is selective in …
/r/MensRights24/08/25 11:48 AM
6

Then what you’re doing is already more than enough
/r/MensRights21/08/25 02:46 PM
3

Here’s what I would do: gain the accuser’s trust; get a recording of some sort of wrongdoing; don’t share it with anyone; with that in hand, collectively pressure HR to reinstate him What are they going to do? Fire 10 women? Now this is just me, and I don’t care about repercussions
/r/MensRights21/08/25 01:33 PM
7

She does have a reason. He gets fired, someone has to fill the position. It doesn’t sound like she’s senior enough for the same job, but eventually a junior moves up and she’s hired full time.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 01:26 PM
7

There’s not much else you can do in my opinion. Just show him support and let him know that there are many men who’ve been in similar situations
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:47 PM
9

I don’t doubt it. But the problem is that he’d have to file some sort of lawsuit, in which case the burden of proof would be on him. Though commendable, a support group of women is unlikely to be enough. Not to mention the emotional strain on him to go through with it
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:05 PM
40

And then they say false accusations aren’t as common. Well, they aren’t because they go unreported.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 11:48 AM
27

Men are raised so starved of love that any female attention is supposed to be a blessing
/r/MensRights21/08/25 10:46 AM
6

The CEO to worker pay ratio has skyrocketed while men are numbing themselves down with video games and women with makeup TikTok videos
/r/MensRights21/08/25 09:32 AM
1

Are you desperate?
/r/MensRights20/08/25 05:40 PM
17

The article was written by a woman
/r/MensRights19/08/25 06:02 PM
-1

Ffs. Who gives a flying fuck about this? Go talk to a homeless man, hear his story, give him a hand. It will fill your heart, instead of you lot worrying about a movie.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 10:15 AM
-2

Or having more female CEOs. What we really don’t need are fucking CEOs. Period. Pass a law that restricts the pay gap and everybody will benefit, including the single moms.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 02:33 PM
-6

Wasn’t there a study that showed that the gender pay gap is most prominent for single mothers of color? Which is evidence that the system we live in punishes single moms. That’s a cause I am behind, making their lives better. But arbitrarily making professional athletes have the same pay when women themselves haven’t showed up to watch women’s sports is where I draw the line.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 02:22 PM
0

Yes, but it’s not like the judge gets up from his chair and shouts FAULT dude. Ask a lawyer
/r/MensRights14/08/25 06:44 PM
1

Ask a lawyer if you don’t believe me
/r/MensRights14/08/25 06:41 PM
3

3rd wave feminism isn’t a cohesive movement. These are middle-class, white women wanting the state to support them because they exist, instead of competing in the job market like men have. They realized the system we live in is shit and don’t actually want in. Chimamand Adichie and Bell Hooks are two examples of feminist women who advocated for the negative effects of gender roles for men too, and who supported bringing men’s issues into the conversation.
/r/MensRights14/08/25 08:23 AM
-3

In many jurisdictions, it is up to the falsely-accused defender to file a case for slander or something afterwards. The accuser doesn’t get automatically charged. That’s not how the judicial system works.
/r/MensRights14/08/25 08:09 AM
10

No I mean everyone. As a society
/r/MensRights13/08/25 05:06 PM
61

That’s 10 years too late for such an obvious conclusion
/r/MensRights13/08/25 06:23 AM
5

Pfff that’s cause they’ve never been married to a woman nor have they divorced a woman
/r/MensRights12/08/25 07:02 AM
2

lol
/r/MensRights11/08/25 07:23 PM
5

Here’s what I would do (beware, this is not legal advice; I’m not a lawyer): Find any precedent of a case against temp work internet service (gig work kinda thing) in your jurisdiction Befriend a female OF content creator and figure out how much time they spend on it Open an account and spend the same amount of time creating content of yourself (This is the hardest part actually) Find a women who makes money off of OF in your jurisdiction and agrees to testify about it 💥
/r/MensRights11/08/25 12:15 PM
7

Oh it’s in England. Interesting
/r/MensRights11/08/25 11:53 AM
8

Goes to the “brilliant ideas I wish I had” bin Are they based in the US?
/r/MensRights11/08/25 11:51 AM
1

That’s what low self esteem does to us
/r/MensRights10/08/25 07:19 PM
37

The crux of the matter imo is that many toxic behaviours women have are simply normalized. If a woman cries, what did you do to make her cry. I was at a party with my ex’s friends once and they were talking about the documentary of a case of a woman who not only killed, but dismembered her husband. And they were all laughing “he must have done something really wrong”. You see, even modern feminism is misogynistic, because it assumes women are not part of the human race and capable of killing ano…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 07:03 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights10/08/25 02:43 PM
16

Are you for real? That happened to me too. And a friend of mine.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 07:30 AM
1

You can’t swipe right on 60% of profiles before hitting a paywall. Dating apps are pimping women. Just so you know. And who says I’m miserable? I’ve just now declined going on a weekend trip with a woman because she said she won’t stay in the kind of hotel I can afford and she wanted to give me lessons on how to properly take photos of her. I’m just a wallet and a walking selfie stick to her. Talk about objectification, amiright? Instead, I’m going with a male friend of mine, who’s been there fo…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 07:25 AM
34

Some time ago, a female friend of mine told me that I needed to get back on the apps, find someone. I told her it is not a pleasant experience for men in the apps and she didn’t believe me. So I said: why don’t you do it for me? I gave her an old phone I had, she created my profile and ran it. After a weak, she gave the phone back. She never told me why.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 11:56 PM
31

“We all got stats man” Then proceeds to say rejection is the universe telling me to be a secure attachment something something? Makes sense to me
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:53 PM
9

The only person overreacting over a topic that most of us agree is not as important as actual physical violence against gay people is you. We already know that.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:09 AM
15

Although I am very much sympathetic to the Palestinian and Ukrainian causes, the person comparing gay clubs with g*nocide is you, “adding more umph” to your argument. Person comes here complaining about drama and throws a drama bomb. I think you just want attention.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 09:41 AM
25

Have you not ever heard about how straight women invade male gay spaces? I’m not even gay and I know about it.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 08:50 AM
1

The rationale was that they didn’t want to encourage a blame game, but it stems from this obviously incorrect idea that male violence exists in a vacuum, that men are “inherently violent” as opposed to also being conditioned by society just like women are. Because of course we are. Men are not born in a vat. I relate a lot with what you said. I experienced an event of violence where a woman I saw twice was beaten up by her step-brother. It was the first time I realised I had been violent myself …
/r/MensRights08/08/25 06:35 PM
5

I did go to a male focused group and you know what happened? They said “we don’t talk about women here”. So you go there but you can’t really say that your mother abused you, that you ex abused you. And then they ask themselves “why do men suffer in silence?”
/r/MensRights08/08/25 05:12 PM
13

My therapist wisely says: the people who need therapy the most don’t do it; it’s the people around that person who end up in therapy.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 04:59 PM
7

When you learn to truly love yourself, you realize you don’t need a partner. You can have one, but it is no longer a catastrophe to break up. You start focusing on the people that are actually there for you. But we are so conditioned into thinking we’re only worth something if a woman likes us that we take everything else for granted.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 04:55 PM
43

Thank you for saying the words I wish more men would hear. It’s a quiet prison for a man living in an abusive relationship where he’s not the abuser. No-one believes you. And god forbid you respond in the same way! I commend you for staying for the kids, cause we know that in order for you to get custody, you’d have to have a mountain of evidence (and even then). My heart goes out to you my friend.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 10:00 AM
2

My life’s 1000% better after I stopped trying to help insane people see that they are insane
/r/MensRights06/08/25 05:32 PM
5

Oh, I see. Thank you for clarifying
/r/MensRights06/08/25 02:36 PM
4

What?
/r/MensRights06/08/25 02:17 PM
15

Men live shorter lives but retire later by law. Men are work horses
/r/MensRights06/08/25 08:54 AM
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