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| 0 | Song about neediness. Ordinary Things by Lukas Graham. | WhiskeySoldier | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 08:43 AM |
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| 1 | First ever date + kiss, now what? Uncharted water for me!Keep us updated, im curious. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson: my or the highway?I believe MM actually mentiones why his book differs from other PUA books on the market. Many, many books are focusing on "fake-confidence" and "do this, then say this, after that do this and she will come home with you". MM actually preaches self improvement and having more "true-confidence" and attracting girls legitimately this way, not by tricking them by doing X then Z then Y but by actually being an attractive person. And of course, self improvement will not only affect your pick-up skills… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | "I believe in a yolo lifestyle..."It is completely possible and actually works really great for some people to use their AA to their advantage when approaching a girl. For example: "Hey, do you know that feeling when you see a really hot woman, or well in your case a hot man, in the bar and you just want to go up and talk to him but you don't know what to say? Well thats kinda what im feeling right now so... hows it going, im Whiskeysoldier". My guess would be you saying you believe in yolo when you ask her out for drinks perhap… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.Pretty much yea, except Queen Elizabeth is clearly HB10 because of her looks...? | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.As explained in the sidebar: HB- Hot Babe. This basically refers to any girl. Typically seen in front of a number (1-10). The HB “scale” doesn’t just refer to how beautiful a woman is- it also refers to how highly she’s valued by other people, as well as how highly she values herself. An HB10 is generally a model or actress- you may never get an opportunity to interact with an HB10, simply because of how high-valued and off-limits they tend to be. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Me (17m) met a girl (16f) and and unsure about what to doCheck the sidebar. Read it all. Now there you go, answers to 99% of all your upcoming questions. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | A question about models by Mark MansonIn my version he explains it on page 43. But basically, being vulnerable is putting yourself on the line. Not changing your behavior to match the girl. Quote from the book: "show your rough edges. Stop trying to be perfect. Expose yourself and share yourself without inhibition." | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Im doing netflix n chill with a girl and I need some tips.This. So much this. You shouldn't measure success in how many times you get laid. | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 02:22 AM |
| 2 | A small rant to extract the positive.My guess on why you are feeling tense around her is because you might have, whether you are aware of it or not, put her on a pedestal, just realize she's another human being. IMO, it works great as an opener for those with huge AA. But if you are going to mention it in a conversation. Don't do it in the first one you have with her. Now go get her tiger! Edit: you shouldn't feel like you have anything to hide from her. But don't spill your guts on what your opinion about her is the first thing yo… | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Being Direct? (Especially w/ girls you already know)As Howard the dolphin said. Just tell them out of the blue. As for my last fwb to give you an example; we had been friends for about 2 years, sure we kissed like once or twice when we were wasted as fuck, but nothing serious. One day when I knew her parents where out of town (she lived there between changing apartments) I just texted her "this might be crazy but #yolo (jokingly used, ofc), I think you are smoking hot and I know you think I look good aswell so why haven't we hooked up?" It took h… | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | A small rant to extract the positive.You seem to have very high approach anxiety, which is no problem, you will get over it. There is a quite awkward way of actually approaching and explaining your anxiety as part of your opener. Saw a good post about it a few days ago but I'm on my phone and can't find it at the moment. Basically, next time you see her, go up to her and just tell her "you know this feeling when you keep seeing someone really cute (or whatever you think about her) over and over again and yet you never go up and tal… | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How to become a better conversationalist?I'm suprised this has not been mentioned yet, quite commonly mentioned on here but its actually a really good line. "It's not what you say, it's how you say it." | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Approach=>do everything right => is your (more attractive) friend taken? This scenario repeats and makes me depressed :(The master has failed more times than the novice has even tried. I'm just guessing here, but it sounds like you spend far too much time on studying, not actually putting it into practice. This is completely wrong. I'm not saying "don't read", keep doing that but approach a lot more, eventually you will score, reading will however not get you any girls at all. You also said that you are at the point that you can fake confidence. To me it sounds like you need real confidence. Your end sentence act… | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Have Questions, Need AdviceFor me, it works great opening with that line or something similar. In my mind im not putting her on a pedistal, she seemed interesting so I just had to talk to her, not to hook up but to talk to another human being. I'm a very direct person in general, so direct openers work the best for me. If you have found indirect is the best for you, then go with it. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Have Questions, Need AdviceThis is a lot. Askseddit is more appropriate for questions but alright. The fear you are describing is just you avoiding daygaming. Kinda like fear from failure/rejection, you make up excuses not to. IMO, daygaming is way more fun than nightgame. "that guy" I assume you mean a "player". Living in a smaller town, as I do, I know this happens really easy. Perhaps try a new bar, you might even find a better one, bring your best friend if you don't want to go alone. Other than that, honestly who giv… | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being nervous all the time?It's in my edit. Kinda focused on picking up girls but with some imagination you can adapt it to other situations aswell. Example: Eye contact, thats very important when you show your work in class. As mentioned. This will take time. Have patience, it will be worth it in the end. | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being nervous all the time?Always push yourself. Face your fear. As mentioned, there is no quick fix honestly. It's all about putting yourself out there. I saw a really good step by step guide when building confidence. Ill see if I can dig it up for you. Found it: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3q6kqa/my_guide_to_building_confidence_for_those_who/ | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Any "late bloomer" success stories here?I had my breakthrough, as I like to call it, summer of 2014. I had a couple of girls that hardcore friendzoned me for 4 years before that, mainly because (now realized) I was too stupid to understand their IoIs. One even texted "I'm home alone with a bottle of wine, why don't you come over?" and my answer was "Well, I really don't like wine. Thanks for the invite tho" and stayed home playing PC... Kinda fun when I, after half a year, realized that she tried to get me to her place countless of ti… | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Got two girls numbers last night but am too scared to text them.Rule of 5 1..2..3..4..5, DO IT. Works for me. Rock solid. You have NOTHING to lose if you text them, but EVERYTHING if you don't. So just text them. Right now. Go. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 06:11 PM |
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