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Man all the time. I have regular customers who ask me every time I see them if I am dating anyone or if I called that woman that they thought I would be interested in. I finally just gave up with the "easy answers" with a woman I have known for a few years. By the time I was done answering her questions like it was a therapy session, I saw a change in her. Almost like she finally understood why I'm so screwed up from my divorce and why I can't see myself dating anyone. I appreciate her positive …
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 01:48 PM
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Any form of human contact from someone who is genuinely interested in me.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 07:13 PM
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Doesn't sound too bad to me. Better than being lonely and not having options.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 10:24 PM
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Ooo you said something taboo, here come the downvotes. I think you are spot on about the intentions. If someone sees that and is looking for the same thing than they will appreciate your honesty. As far as the extra adult fun ;) shoutout to you guys for finding something that works. If you are both honest than it's not cheating IMO. People need to rethink this whole "we are married so she is MINE" thing. Marriages aren't working for a reason, maybe it's time to start being more honest about desi…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/21 10:29 PM
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In all fairness it just says relationship, not marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 12:16 PM
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There is hope for you... I don't know about everyone. Congrats though, still waiting for that feeling years later.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 01:07 PM
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Never seen cheating as a kink but now I can. Sneaking around, chance of getting caught, the taboo nature, the strangeness. Don't break someone else to support your own bullshit though
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 04:49 PM
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I like to tell myself; "if you want to find a unicorn, be a unicorn yourself".
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/20 11:22 PM
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Wow, I'm going through the same thing and was having the same thoughts as you were yesterday. I have to go pick him up from the neighborhood we always talked about living in, playing outside like we would be doing, mom is already having the next sibling to make a more cohesive family. While dad had to move into 200 sq ft room and attempt to put his life back together from scratch. And it's a former close friend that destroyed my life and took everything from me. Knowing that my son is hugging an…
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 12:15 PM
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Never thought about it like that. It's a painful memory now but keeping it the way you say is more like a middle finger to them by saying I kept my end of the deal, I took my commitment seriously. I'm with you, the money to me now doesn't mean shit compared to what they represent. If I can manage to come out of this stronger, wiser and a better dad than I can look at those rings like a trophy of triumph and a reminder to NEVER DO IT AGAIN! 😆
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/20 05:50 PM
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Missed it. Beer and a cigar sounds awesome. Happy Easter! Hope you have a great day
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/20 02:30 PM
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It's going to suck. Probably for a while. It slowly gets better and better and you can take a step back and realize things you could have done better and things that she did that you can use to prevent yourself from getting into a similar situation. Start over. Trust me you're not the only one who has to. A lot of girls have shitty situations too and look for someone who can relate to that kind of pain. Look out for yourself and fuck everyone else. Do not beg her. It won't work and you'll hate y…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 03:09 AM
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Dude. Spot on. I'm a year into it and I'm just now starting to come around on the emotional part. Seeing that person every other day is still torture but it's getting better. It's a different timeline for everyone but you nailed the trying to avoid lawyers and court part. I was able to keep my cool and keep everything civil when the shit hit the fan and it helped me so much financially. AS MUCH AS YOU WANT TO FIGHT, DO NOT. I wanted to fight it and dump every last dime I had into fucking her ove…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 11:38 PM
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What if that other person was a very close friend, married to your childhood friend, who sat and watched you make those vows to each other?
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/19 07:30 PM
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Exactly. And what TRULY matters most, finding someone that knows and understands what those vows mean and how serious you take them.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 05:37 PM
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Be glad you don't have kids involved. I'm sorry if that's a touchy subject but it would be even more painful. When the time is right (no idea when) you'll meet someone with the same work ethic and same goals that you can help each other accomplish.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 03:59 AM
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I'm a year into it and I still dont't get those glimpses so I'm happy for you that you have felt them. Still don't think I will ever get legally married again. Don't really see the upside anymore. Have definitely seen the downside and will continue to see it for the next 16+ years.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/19 03:56 AM
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Woah 🤯
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 04:55 PM
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"At the end of the day I'll survive but the scars of my divorce have changed who I am and how I see the world FORVER." I feel this way wholeheartedly. I'm a serial monogamist but put so much of myself into that relationship for over a decade. I meant and believed everything I said at the altar in front of all the people I love and care about. For the person I trusted the most to just throw everything away like it was nothing. Cheat with a married friend and than get engaged to that person as soo…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/19 03:22 AM
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