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That’s very much class. You’re making a very bold assumption round a half of the population. I hate to break it to you but women aren’t nearly as shallow as redpill believers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:35 AM
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That seems like the minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:55 AM
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Actually women do put more emphasis on emotional bonding and getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:54 AM
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That’s not how it works. Some women like myself develop attraction through emotional bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:53 AM
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Bruh women need to learn you in a deeper and meaningful way and get to know you as an individual before they have any meaningful attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:33 PM
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It’s whoever makes more in those cases. If the man makes more he pays child support if the woman makes more she pays child support. It’s not bulls off of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:47 AM
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I didn’t say all men just that that’s a risk you have to take like how not all women look to marry and then divorce to take half your assets also the Redpill and Blackpill are all about pretending to know exactly how half the population works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:46 AM
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The first sentence sound likes you were hinting the contrary. Sorry if that’s not what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:31 AM
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You going to debunk it because so far you’ve got nothing. I’m sorry if the cold hard reality is too hard for you to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:30 AM
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Nope it’s if you have less then 50% custody because child support is so that the one not putting in the same amount of work with childcare makes up in having to pay child support. Maybe sometimes they have to pay even with 50% custody but that’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:29 AM
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No there are deadbeat mothers who do get hate a lot and there is also a problem of them not paying child support. Should they also be excused for not paying child support? Also child support often doesn’t cover half of the child’s expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:28 AM
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Sorry if the idea that women are doomed if they do and don’t if they don’t is too complex for your man brain. Men get angry at choosing men but then get angry that they aren’t chosen when in the end it’s whoever can hold the facade of being a well functioning human being the longest. Femicide? https://encompass.eku.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1599&context=etd Also acid attacks and being ganged raped and killed for rejecting a man is a risk especially in India and in the UK the risk is more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:27 AM
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It’s a non bias analysis on my deadbeats are to blame and not the single parent. However single dads don’t face the same hate single moms do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:23 AM
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A lot of these cases the women is married. This has been a risk since back in the day like during the Great Depression men abandoned their families in what was the poor man’s divorce. You never know if a man can handle the stress and pressure of being a parent and if he can handle the responsibilities of being a parent and partner until you cross that bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:22 AM
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It’s usually when the baby comes into the question and the man can’t handle the stress. Stepping up to fulfill the responsibilities and handle the stress of being a parent drives men away and sometimes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:21 AM
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Then they complain women don’t provide sex when it’s hard to be up for sex when the man doesn’t take care of the other aspects of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:19 AM
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I mean if you don’t put any emotional energy and untold the other requirements to maintain a relationship then the other partner isn’t going to be very sexually involved with you. If the man isn’t maintaining his half of the relationship and putting in his half of the work he shouldn’t feel sexually neglected and frustrated because he didn’t put in the work to reek the benefits of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:18 AM
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Yeah it’s a risk but men are much more likely to change to be much more distant and more abusing along with abandoning their children also the frequency of this happening with well adjusted men is lower but not that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:16 AM
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It actually is. Sorry reality doesn’t fit your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:15 AM
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Men are taking away that right to have abortions also so many single mothers where abandoned by their husbands who don’t show any warning signs until it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:14 AM
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That’s very rare. Also if they aren’t in their child’s life they are still responsible for financing the child’s lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:13 AM
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Usually the men carry no signs until it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:13 AM
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The vast majority of single moms work very hard to support the family and when they aren’t working they are providing care for their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:12 AM
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Sources? Also you seem to put a lot of assumptions on the women who are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:11 AM
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No because he could have only shown the red flags or just up and leave with no prior signs which is very common in these cases. Much like how a single father shouldn’t be blamed if his wife just abandons him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:11 AM
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More blame is being directed from deadbeats to the single mothers who stick around. Also this is criticism that stems from a man’s actions not her. If a woman is a deadbeat she’s given more hate than deadbeat fathers and also single dads are praised while single moms receive criticism. So many single dads are praised for stepping up but single mothers are blamed for a deadbeat’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:09 AM
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Deadbeats are able to hold a facade of being a well functioning person for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:07 AM
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That means men has no agency. And they should be held just as accountable for sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:06 AM
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The man is was more to blame for being the deadbeat also so many cases they are married and the man does show any red flags before leaving or becoming toxic. Also it takes two to tango so a man is just as much to blame for sex. Also men are more likely to be pro-life so they actively try and keep women from getting abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:05 AM
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So many men get away from paying child support and women for that matter. It quite easy to avoid child support lien moving to another country and there’s plenty of men that just want to spread their genes and only care about their “legacy” by spreading said genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:01 AM
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Probably because there seem to be a lot more hate and blame directed at single mothers. Like how society blames the single mothers for the subpar upbringing of their child and not the deadbeat. Single mothers are also getting blamed for the deadbeat being a deadbeat and is blamed for being a single mother once again shifting blame away from the deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:00 AM
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Child support is for the children. He’s a dead beat if he’s not taking up any of the responsibilities and duties of a parent including child support because if he’s paying child support then it’s safe to assume he has less than 50% custody so his responsibilities lean more to financing. Not paying child support puts all of the childcare and financial responsibilities on the woman. It’s just as bad when women don’t pay child support. What are you going to use that same argument for women who fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:58 PM
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Child support is to help finance the lifestyle of his child. So he wants to put zero effort and finances for the upbringing of his child? That’s called being a deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:56 PM
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If she’s psycho then he should have tried for custody because 95% of custody battles that men fight for they are rewarded at least 50% custody. Also he could still be involved with the kids and not the mother. Another thing is that the majority of the time the woman isn’t a psycho and he’s just a plain and simple deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:55 PM
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Many of these cases the men is a loving and doting partner up until a child comes along and then they do a 180 at a drop of the hat. So many of these cases the man just can’t step up to the added responsibilities and pressure and just run away. It can be hard to tell who can handle all that pressure and who will run away. Some men just run away during pregnancy because they can’t handle the stress of a pregnant partner who needs their help and needs them to step up. Until the bridge is cross it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:52 PM
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It’s a lot worse to actually be a deadbeat than having a child being a deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:38 PM
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Many men act very devoted and are great partner untold a baby comes into the picture and they do a 180. You may not know this but actually having a man for a mate is like playing Russian roulette with your quality of life. You never know when hems going to do a 180 at a drop of the hat. So many men also “give up” their facade of being a great partner once the woman is “trapped” with him. Maintaining a relationship is hard and you never know if a man is going to be able to handle it until you cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:26 PM
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Yet when women deny sex then they are demonized too for being stuck up. There’s incels killing women because women are denying sex because of the misogynistic attitude incels have. Also there’s so many cases of men acting like loving and devoting partners and only dip when a baby comes along. It’s more of the fault of the deadbeats for being deadbeats and so many men want to deny women access to abortions yet will continue to be deadbeats. The stats of men being deadbeats hasn’t changed much sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:19 PM
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It’s take more work and qualifications to be a doctor but it doesn’t make it less valuable. Firemen make much less than athletes but an athlete’s work isn’t more important. Most people can’t be a doctor or an athlete and will have to settle with lower paying jobs but that doesn’t make their hours less valuable. Income isn’t everything because benefits can be quite useful. Some people take jobs that pay less in income because they have better benefits that same money in other ways. Children can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:12 PM
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That’s heartbreaking but unfortunately not shocking to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:13 AM
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I’m talking about when people put down his relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:54 AM
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They shouldn’t put into question your relationship. Too many people try and put down another person’s relationship if it doesn’t alone with the outside person’s delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:50 AM
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Usually the women are just targets of abusers because they are more vulnerable. Being neurodivergent in a world built for neurotypicals is hard of anyone who’s neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:49 AM
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I mean you’re the one putting question on a guy that’s early happy with his relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:47 AM
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Plenty of boys bully girls who keep to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:07 AM
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Yeah like the person you were replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:02 AM
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I think it’s just less likely for a woman to do that because sex isn’t as alluring to most women. Like men there are women that want control over another person and use them but I find men are more often the ones trying to take control. Often it’s because of how society has groomed men and boys into wanting to be the ones in control. Less women are going to want someone under their complete control because they want an equal partner while for generations its’s been romanticized on men taking the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:01 AM
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They are more likely to have sex but usually also are much more at risk of being sexually assaulted. They are much more likely to be abused and manipulated too in the relationships they do have however autistic women depending on how severely their neurodivergence affects them can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:54 AM
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The data isn’t really on your side so stop with the copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:52 AM
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Plenty are toxic and abusive relationships and plenty of women also can’t get anything more than a one night stand. It actually sucks to to be neurodivergent in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:51 AM
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It’s a use plenty of men use autistic women. Autistic women are much more likely to be used and abused along with being sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:50 AM
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Dude they’re just jealous of your success and that your situation doesn’t fit their copium. Keep your head up high king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:48 AM
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Happens a lot actually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:46 AM
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Neurodivergent women are more likely to be in toxic and abusive relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:44 AM
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I’ve experienced the exact opposite and just showed how it goes both ways. You’re acting like a child because you don’t like the cold hard truth and rather pitch a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:16 AM
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And I gave you mine at this point you’re just dripping with hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:38 AM
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After working a long hard day of construction? Doctors make much more than double a construction worker’s wage but it doesn’t mean his work isn’t any less valuable. Just because one partner makes more doesn’t mean they should just sit on their butt while their partner slaves away doing the childcare and housework. I believe in equality but I also believe that own partner shouldn’t sit around as another works around the house especially when one of the spouses contributes to the messes the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:28 AM
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Why did you type all that in your previous comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:09 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that and I’m happy you sound much happier in your current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:18 PM
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I didn’t say that the working spouse is entitled to a 24/7 maid. Also the risk for abuse is significantly greater when there’s a significant difference in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:11 PM
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I’m not a neglectful person who’s setting my children up for failure. No it actually does when it comes to parenting. It’s why neglectful parents like yourself often set their children up for failure. Simple google searches like it’s really not that hard and also these are just a few and most likely much more inventions who from women but credited to men. This is also when women were denied an eduction and the equal opportunity to make these discoveries that a man did but still made them thus sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:59 PM
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You’ve been generalizing based off your own experience get out of hear with your hypocrisy. Like some women do repair cars and houses. You tell me not to generalize based off your own experience but then immediate do just that? Also men would go broke if women billed for all the housework and childcare they did along with the therapy of being constantly berated, insulted, yelled at, and being whined to because there’s a little speck of dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:53 PM
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Not projecting my issues because unlike your children I actually had parents that were involved and put effort in raising me. They loved enough to give a shit about me enough that they actually took an active role. Your talking about how little effort you put in raising your own children which is neglectful. A 10 year old can be a soldier, work in sweatshops, and be forced to hard labor like mining so does that make those professions not difficult work? Women build a lot more than men give women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:43 PM
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Some do live long enough also the latter aren’t alway male they’re both male and female. There’s also child bride trafficking and sex trafficking that usually targets girls. With forced labor they don’t discriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:29 PM
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Those relationships have an increased risk in abuse especially financial abuse. I agree though men are out of touch with how laborious it is to do most if not all of the childcare and housework let alone having a job on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:25 PM
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If a woman who is a doctor is married to a man that is a construction worker and both work about 60 hours a week the doctor will make significantly more so despite both working the same amount of time do you think that the construction worker should do most of not all of the childcare and housework? It could be a doctor or an nurse and both working 60-80 hour work weeks but once gain the doctor will make more. Still just because you make less doesn’t mean you should take up most if not all child…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:22 PM
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It’s actually 52% of household where the man is the primary or sole breadwinner and that percent is decreasing. Try again perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:06 PM
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I mean if he won’t grow up then divorce his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:04 PM
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I’m just pointing out the absurdity society has with placing childcare and household responsibilities at the woman’s feet and not the man’s. Still if they work the same hours they should do the same amount of housework and childcare. Making more doesn’t mean you just get to sit on your butt as your partner works their butt off especially when you are half of the reason the children are around and they create messes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:03 PM
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Also people had a bunch of children early because the children kept dying. People talk about family making sacrifices but it’s always to women and not to men because God forbid men make everyday personal sacrifices for their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:34 PM
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You do know that including unemployed but getting back into the workforce as egalitarian wouldn’t help your point because it’s likely the percentage of women being sole breadwinners would go up along with men being sole breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:25 PM
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But men don’t contribute more domestically when they contribute less or even zero financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:21 PM
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Men don’t tend to pick up any household work or childcare even if they are making less than their wife. You do know that right? Also just because you make more doesn’t mean you should be able to sit on your bum as your partner works her butt off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:19 PM
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They spend most of the day at home and they aren’t at school on their days off like teacher work days, weekends, and holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:17 PM
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It goes both ways if a woman isn’t bending over backwards to satisfy her husband he then gets upset and in some cultures he beats her. If she misses a speck of dust or dinner’s a minute late far too many men will yell at their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:07 PM
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Nowadays women are making around as much as their husbands in their paid job and still doing most if not all the housework and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:04 PM
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There’s also so many ungrateful men who won’t pull their own weight. Even if she’s the primary or sole breadwinner she’ll be the one doing all the childcare and housework when she gets home so any day off she gets is a day off the husband has from actually contributing from the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:03 PM
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Why should she be working to complete all the housework and childcare while the husband and father sits on the couch? Also even in households where the woman is the primary or even sole breadwinner when she’s not on work all the chores and childcare become her responsibility. When she gets a day off from work it means she spends the whole day doing all the work at home while her husband gets to sit around and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:01 PM
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I know a woman that’s the sole breadwinner of her rather large family and her husband doesn’t cook, clean, do anything with the children, etc so she has to work well over 40 hours a week and then take all the kids to their extracurriculars, attend parent teacher conferences, make all the doctor appointments and take the kids to the doctors, do all the cooking, etc while her husband just sits on the coach all day. What’s with men thinking women just exist to be their slaves? Look at the statistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:59 PM
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It should be putting in equal contributions to better the family unit. This means putting in equal time in maintaining the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:41 PM
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Higher wage doesn’t mean more important work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:37 PM
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Most women settle with men making around as much as they do. Also even in cohabiting households with no children the woman still has to clean up after her partner because we all know the man won’t clean up his own messes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:36 PM
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Women have always worked even in the Middle Ages where they would farm with a baby strapped to her back. Only the upperclass women didn’t have to work until the 1900’s rolled around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:35 PM
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Women worked much earlier than in the 1950s and still had to do all the housework and childcare. Back in the Middle Ages women had to do the farming alongside their husband with a baby on her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:33 PM
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There’s definitely men like you out there but unfortunately you all are very few and far between. Sometimes men start out equally contributing to the relationship and later on stop. Still it’s important to acknowledge there are men out there lien you who aren’t lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:29 PM
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Not all there’s a fair amount of men who will pull their own weight if you look hard enough. Set ground rules and stick to them. If they don’t clean then they can have their own filthy room and have no clean dishes because you shouldn’t share clean dishes with them. If they’re going to act like children then treat them like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:27 PM
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People work to contribute to society and their family not just for money. By your logic with athletes, movie directors, famous singers, famous comedians, big YouTubers, some gamers, and actors, their work is more important and valuable than the work of teachers, doctors, nurses, scientists, firemen, EMT, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:23 PM
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Many of those same cultures see child labor like mining and other use children as soldiers so I guess mining, working in sweatshops, and being a soldier isn’t hard work. Every heard of blood diamonds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:20 PM
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You don’t seem like you take in active role in raising your kids which is pretty neglectful. The eldest daughter in most cultures is portrayed having to center her entire life to caring for her siblings showing how time consuming and hard work it is. Especially if it’s a boy because then there’s more work you need to put in so that they don’t get themselves killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:19 PM
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A doll doesn’t count as a child. Also if you actually have a child I feel so bad for that child and the mother because having a uninvolved deadbeat as a father sucks and having a man child to look after alongside your children sucks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:14 PM
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Men want to have children but then act like children by not cleaning up after themselves or doing any housework or childcare. Even when women make around as much or even more they are doing most of the housework and childcare. When a woman is the primary breadwinner after she gets home she does all the childcare and housework and when she has a day off it’s been found that the women do all the housework and childcare on her day off so that her stay at home, jobless husband gets a day off from ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:13 PM
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Every GOOD parent would say that parenting is a lot of work because they doing everything they can to take care of and raise their child to be a well functioning member of society. A parent that doesn’t say parenting is hard work is a neglectful parent. A chimpanzee would rip apart the child and a teenager can’t properly raise and take care of a child for long periods of time. I mean anyone can be a fireman or a soldier, not a good one but you don’t seem to care about quality. You wouldn’t mind …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:10 PM
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Of 24/7 labor that’s deeply physical and mental labor. Then there’s the fact that after 2-3 years you have to continue making sure they don’t end up dead. Boys are especially more work because they are more prone to doing more risky activities that can lead to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:05 PM
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Because they have to spend time caring for the children so the children grow up to be well functioning individuals and also so that the children don’t get themselves killed. Also less women are settling down with men and now there’s all these men getting butthurt and the Red Pill and Black Pill popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:03 PM
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Have you never been around a child? Child rearing is a lot of work and it’s very important especially if it’s a little boy because little boys are more likely to do something and end up dead. Would you want women to just not end up in relationships with men, not have sex with men, and not reproduce because they are all laborious to women and men do not value the labor women put into a those activities? Also higher income doesn’t mean you have a more important job. Some of the most import jobs ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:56 PM
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Women listen to their husbands complain too it’s called being in a relationship. Listening isn’t anywhere near as laborious as doing housework or child rearing. If you want to talk about relationships being unpaid work then it goes both ways. On average a man is unable to fully satisfy a woman so sex is more like a labor and a chore for women to satisfy their partners sexually. Listening to their husband or boyfriends is also laborious and men do complain and talk a lot. Men make a lot of messes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:52 PM
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I mean if participating in a relationship is “unpaid work” then don’t be in one. It’s simple as that. Unpaid work is actual labor. You really think listening is the same as actually doing work maintaining the house and caring for children? No wonder less women are getting into relationships. Seriously men and boys are getting upset they can’t get into a relationship and shocked women don’t want to be with them but then expect women to do all the housework and childcare and then compare that work…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:47 PM
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The healthiest relationships tend to be where partners make similar income so in the end looking for a partner who makes significantly more and using that as your reason for being in a relationship isn’t just shallow, stupid, selfish, etc but also puts the person making significantly less in a much higher risk of being abused by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:39 PM
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No women are the ones picking up the slack be default and are now wanting men to also help pick up the slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:37 PM
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Actually women have been know to settle down with men making significantly less then them or even no income. Also women tend to go for men making around as much as they do because it’s much safer. Relationships with significant differences in income are much more likely to have the partner making significantly more abusing their partner making significantly less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:36 PM
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Shouldn’t they both work the same amount of paid and unpaid work? Also even when a woman is the primary or sole breadwinner the man barely steps up if all and if the woman is the sole earner and has the day off she does all the childcare and housework for that day to give her stay at home husband a day off. Also just for housework she’s not the only one contributing to the amount of cleaning up that needs to be done. Who’s going to do the husband’s laundry? Is she expected to even if they work t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:33 PM
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What does that have to do with anything in the comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:29 PM
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I mean you are physically capable of being able to cheat doesn’t mean you will but there’s always that possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:53 PM
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I’d pick: 4, 5, 8, 9, 11 Pretty much my ideal man is a loyal, funny guy who treats me with respect and views me as an equal. I’ve grown up knowing that I want someone who I can be there emotionally there for and someone who can be emotionally there for me. You know, to lift each other up. To support your partner through highs and lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:47 PM
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They’re just projecting and when they are called out on it they seethe. They’re taking too much copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:49 PM
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Other sources say otherwise: https://fortune.com/2023/04/13/more-american-women-becoming-breadwinners/amp/ http://www.wipsociology.org/2022/02/10/mothers-are-the-primary-earners-in-growing-numbers-of-families-with-children/ Also by your own source: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ Breaking down the numbers it shows women do more work than men. Also women have been making as mush or more then men and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:59 PM
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Can you link your proof? All I hear about are Redpill men wanting a trad wife to have babies with and do all the housework and chores while he makes the money. Then I see the same users getting upset when women feel (rightfully so) entitled to his money because she does the cooking, cleaning, other housework/chores, and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:58 PM
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Breadwinner married mothers are increasingly growing and are more common than you might think and many women also make as much as their husbands. Still it’s stating that the married fathers aren’t picking up much of the responsibilities when having a child. You gave me other Reddit links while I also provided sources with reliable data. Edit: one of your graphs is from 2011 which isn’t too long ago but women have been drastically making more and it’s not too reflective anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:50 PM
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There’s this old discussion on this forum that discuss this and redpill users agree they want trad wives but deny not wanting to spend money on them but then you can look at the posts about Redpill users complaining about how expensive a woman is. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7tzdge/cmv_red_pill_men_dont_want_traditional_wives/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:59 PM
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I told you to look for yourself. Just look at the Redpill ideas on what a wife should be but then look at how they get angry when they need to share the finances. It’s not an opinion I’m giving you some of their ideas so you know where to look. If you can’t bother reading a comment then I would change your flair because that’s not at all rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:45 PM
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First I acknowledged some women do what those men do however stay at home moms and wives actually do housework and childcare (if the have children) and do the errands. A lot of married women work less than single women but still work full time jobs and https://www.prb.org/resources/married-women-with-children-and-male-partners-do-more-housework-than-single-moms/ For breadwinner husbands then get a day off when they have a day off from work but for a breadwinner wife her day off means she does mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:34 PM
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I think it’s pretty clear from their views that women should be doing all the household work and childcare and many want a trad, stay at home wife or girlfriend but also want their finances to be separate because if they divorce and she leaves they view it as her benefitting by taking half of the finances when she did work and help in her own way. It’s not like she did nothing and then got a pay out. They also talk about how the finances are the man’s and complaining when women want to spend som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:08 PM
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Will he take care of the house care, take care of the children, make food, etc? Will he also not complain when his wife comes home and says she’s too tired to help with housework or childcare? Will he do all the errands? Will he accept that she has all the financial day and not complain about the financial abuse? I know too many men (it’s actually just a handful but honestly this is too much and I acknowledge them can go the other way and I know couples where the woman is the useless one) “stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:04 PM
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I’m a feminist because I want to fix and address the problems that women face but I acknowledge the discrimination men face and I want to help spread awareness and work on a solution to end discrimination for men too. I’m a feminist but I’m also kinda an equalist. I hate the mensrights subreddit because it’s just creating toxicity and hatefulness toward women and the blatantmisogyny subreddit because of how much they just hate on men and I got mad at pointing out misandry is real and does hurt m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:44 PM
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I find that becoming less true every day. Life tends to revolve more around hobbies, academics, and or family for young women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:42 PM
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That actually sounds like a perfect role model. People need to understand and help both sexes be it female or male and their problems because both struggle from discrimination. I identify as a feminist too but I want to see men and women have equal prison time for the same crime and I want men to be able to be more open about their emotions and feel comfortable with opening up about their mental health. Our complex emotions and feelings make us humans and it’s not right to deny men and boys a vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:40 PM
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Or… here me out… he tried for organic and not artificial ways in forming relationships along (pretty much getting rid of dating and hookup apps), had a good personality, treated and valued women as individuals and not sex objects, works on self improvement, and doesn’t reject women just because of looks. I see a lot of men say no “blacks” or even say “no blacks or Hispanics.” Most women value commitment over good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:30 AM
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I mean yeah if men want to spreed their sperm so wide and women want to have as many men think that they are the father to provide resources and protection for them neither should be angry when the other cheats. Still you shouldn’t cheat if your relationship is based on monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:00 PM
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Women are treated very poorly if they aren’t seen as attractive but they’ll still find a man who’s willing to have sex with her. She’s still going to face a lot of hardships and also having sex isn’t much better in this situation when the guy isn’t truly attracted to her as a person but instead being seen and treated like a glorified fleshlight. Women have very high/unrealistic beauty standards placed on them that affect other aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:49 PM
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Females of many species have sex with multiple males to gain protection and or resources along making him much less likely to harm the offspring because there’s a possibility that he’s the father. This is very common in our closet relatives like the bonobos and chimpanzees and most likely happened with our ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:45 PM
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I think both her and her gender swap image depict pretty good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:42 PM
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Not really it’s facial structures and features that tend to be different between sexes. A woman in this filter look like a woman with but with slight more masculine facial features. The filter isn’t too reliable due to just the fact that you can look very different from the hormones in the body that the filter doesn’t reflect. I think her gender swap picture shows a pretty attractive guy but that’s just me. I do seem guys that look like the picture and I’ve always thought they were good looking.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:41 PM
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Oh sorry I made a mistake I thought you were the other person I was talking to my apologize. I was talking about other things we discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:30 AM
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Strange but I guess it goes both way. Btw you really shouldn’t call people blobs. I’m not for accepting someone being overweight with open arms but I’m going to openly mock it especially when there can be underlying health reasons like an autoimmune disorder. Even if I know a person doesn’t have a disorder and is overweight because of their lifestyle I won’t say such things about them. There’s a lot of underlying biological reasons for someone to be prone to being overweight and you never know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah men are less accepting of others in the sense of respecting a person for who they are and as an individual human being. You’re not helping yourself. You also are just explaining why most men aren’t attractive to women. Also a lot of men do give a shit about what their partner does for a career and those who don’t care about their partner’s feelings aren’t healthy partners. You’re proving my women are more selective in who they start a relationship with. You literally said most men don’t car…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:35 PM
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Dude women aren’t actually focused on dating and hooking up. The majority of women I know aren’t actively looking for a relationship but more passively and letting connections form naturally. Also hooking up and actually dating are two completely different things and it’s not very easy for women to get a date or at least a date with a man who respects them as their own persons with hopes, feelings, dreams, ambition, etc and isn’t just looking for east sex. You look at the minority of women that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:38 AM
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What do you mean I’m being hyper specific? I have a bunch of broad ways men aren’t accepting of women of. Have you not read any of my comments? I admitted men are more accepting when it comes to sex but for women as people? They are much less accepting of women as people and individuals with their own hopes and dreams. Men are less accepting of a woman’s career and her feelings. There’s a lot more I can list but it goes on and on about how men aren’t accepting of women as their own people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:29 AM
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No I’m saying women with mental issues are more prone to fall for fake charm. Abusers don’t just first of all act as bullies they are able to mask it and trick people. They start out very sweet and kind until they gain control of a woman and then the abuse starts and neurodivergent women often fall for these men more because of impulse issues and having a hard time with social implications and find it harder to kinda pick up on slight warning signs. Abuser try and mask it as best as they can bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:15 AM
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Yeah it’s not just only clear in the Redpill believers but many men in general. So many just hit and run and this sub is just about debating on how men get sex and it is just telling that so many just want sex and don’t care about the individual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:10 AM
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Women do face a lot of rejection especially if they aren’t the most attractive women around and also men aren’t accepting in everything but in dating but when it comes to actually accepting women for who they are they are much less accepting. Did you not read the first part of my original comment? I pointed out things like how men often don’t accept a woman’s ambitions or her feelings, her career, her goals, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:55 PM
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I’m talking about why it might be harder for autistic men to date. Also I’ve tried but I’m more career focused and driven and I’m taking a break from dating. Do you really think single women are constantly looking to date? It’s because I’m willing to when I am ready to date but things come up and to be fair I am using other activities I like to do to manage stress which I do alone whenever I have the free time and having med school I really don’t think I’d be emotionally there or even really the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:51 PM
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No I’m saying fat like fat. If you’re not just a little overweight. The whole trying to get people to stop shaming fat women is because they were much more prone and still are to being mocked then fat men. Are fat men still mocked? Yeah it’s unfortunate but some health conditions make it so more people are prone to it. Women are also more prone to autoimmune diseases that lead to being overweight. Just look up fat dads or overweight dads. I see a lot of men that look like Christopher Schwarzeneg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:44 PM
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You said that men more accepting when they are actually less accepting of who someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:05 PM
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I actually do. Men have been able to overcome not being physically attractive with personality while for women there’s less opportunity to do so since looks on women are unfortunately seen as by far the most important aspect of her and often the deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:04 PM
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I see lot more fat men in relationships than fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:42 PM
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They’re less selective but are also less acceptive of women and who they are as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:39 PM
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Not really it just means some abusive men might want to take advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:38 PM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:34 PM
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Men and boys are diagnosed with neurodivergent disorders at a much higher rate. I’m a neurodivergent woman and my brother also is neurodivergent. My brother recovered from brain cancer which crushed parts of his brain and although he is still very intelligent his pituitary gland took a lot of damage so he never really went through puberty until he was an adult and had to take growth hormones but he’s still a very short man, about 5’5 or 5’6 and I’ve seen him get hit on by women who are neurodive…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:33 PM
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Abuse is worse than being alone also calling women “females” but you don’t call men “males” just shows why you can’t get a girlfriend. You don’t see women as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:34 PM
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Not really. So many men don’t seem to be accepting of careers, the hopes, and the dreams of women. I’ve met a lot of men who aren’t even accepting of a woman’s feelings if it’s negative toward him. It seems women are more accepting when it comes to rejection over men. Sure when it comes to standard for dating men are more accepting but when it comes to accepting aspects of an actual person then women tend to be more accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:30 PM
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For clarity my username is an inside joke with friends I’m not married nor am I currently in a relationship. My rule has always been to split or if one person is low on cash or forgets their wallet then they pay next time they go out. Sometimes it’s whoever invites pays it’s just if that happens the next date the other person invites their partner and pays. It’s kinda situational for me. This is just because I want paying to reflect how the relationship works. I’m the equal and I will not be fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:37 PM
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Again it’s harder to flush. I honestly just sit because it’s more practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:13 AM
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That just means you get shit stains on your toilet and it’s harder to flush.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:02 AM
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Higher heights means bigger splashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:14 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:14 PM
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Wouldn’t water splash out of the toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:43 PM
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True the pill isn’t for everyone but it is a medical treatment for some women like myself but like any medication some can suffer from terrible side affects. I am on birth control to help with agaves Disease by lessening the production of sex hormones because of my endocrine autoimmune disease. I’m glad you care about your partner’s wellbeing and you sound like an awesome partner. If you aren’t comfortable with the effects you should never expect someone else to take it which I’m glad you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:50 PM
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Even if some of the money goes to the state it still doesn’t pay the financial responsibility the woman has. Also no the times where the father doesn’t show up isn’t because he “knows” that he’ll lose but just that he did care enough. Since 92% win custody and there’s no evidence to support that the men that don’t show up are just because they “know” they won’t win - your comments hold no water. “If a wife has access to her own funds, such as from her own employment or savings, or joint funds, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:42 PM
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It helps by regulating sex hormones that regulate the menstrual cycle. It decreases the production of those hormones which then don’t produce a heavier and or longer period. By limiting it you limit the flow and duration periods and even cramps. I’ve taken it for my menstrual cycle because my Graves Disease affects literally everything in my body and makes everything go into overdrive like my cardiovascular system or digestive system and it can lead to very brittle bones and even eye problems bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:32 PM
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Yeah sometimes doctors will recommend drugs like when the girl is going through acne treatment like Accutane which is used to not only control acne further but also you are required to do more pee tests due to policy because if they were to become pregnant it would seriously harm the fetus so it’s a liability reason. Teenagers tend to be put on birth control due to medical reasons. It’s not uncommon for women and girls to be recommended birth control for health problems with commons being proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:19 PM
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18 years of being being financially of a child’s well-being along with doing all the child care. The woman also has to work as she almost always has to pay at least half of the finances and so she works as much as the man to supply financially and then on top goes through the pregnancy, and also takes all of the child care. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths#:~:text=Myth%3A%20Fathers%20Almost%20Never%20Get%20Custody&text=A%20Massachusetts%20study%20examin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:14 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:58 PM
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No men have it super easy because they don’t go through pregnancy and also men who push for split or some custody are likely to get it it’s just it looks like men almost never get it because rarely do fathers actually try for custody. Another thing is plenty of guys get out of child support along with a lot of cases were women have to pay at least half of the child’s expenses and do all of the childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:52 PM
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Well I’m the end the post is just giving reasons for women to not have sex because there’s men out there that don’t care about her and lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:49 PM
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It’s better for everyone if they reduce chances of conception as much as possible if they don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:48 PM
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I take birth control for Graves Disease. There’s many different reasons why you might take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:46 PM
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Because not all medication is good for everyone and also it beneficial for some to use. I take birth control but have never had sex and the reason is because of an autoimmune disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:46 PM
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Ever heard of medical reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:44 PM
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Some women take birth control for medical reasons. I have Graves Disease, an autoimmune disorder of the endocrine system, specifically the thyroid as Graves is also known as Hyperthyroidism. It also controls/lessens mensuration specifically periods like duration and how heavy they are. At 16 or younger autoimmune diseases and other reasons can cause a girl to take birth control for medical reasons. It’s also used for acne treatment. Women are girls are more likely to develop autoimmune diseases.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:44 PM
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No if they are on birth control then they can’t get the woman pregnant. Fertilization cannot happen this no pregnancy and thus no baby leading to no baby trapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:38 PM
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True but birth control is used for medical reasons like treatment for endocrine autoimmune disorders to regulate hormones. Others have negative symptoms and not all birth control pills are the same. It’s a very complex matter and some people can’t have them. However it’s refreshing to see someone defending women who might not be able to take birth control due to health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:36 PM
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It wasn’t equivalent because one is about a situation with consensual sex and the other one was about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:32 PM
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I mean one was forced the other was willing so they aren’t the same. I’d the man was raped then it shouldn’t paint him with zero agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:32 PM
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Please tell me you’re trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:57 PM
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It most strongly affects someone during puberty before it starts to level out. Hormones does definitely affect both sexes at in different ways but it doesn’t influence overall personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:52 PM
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Actually these social expectations started to show up once agriculture happened and women lost a lot of their power in groups and men were able to oppress women. Women and men both hunted which has been a relatively recent discovery. These “feminine” and “masculine” roles and values really ramped up after the Agricultural Revolution because before there wasn’t much difference in how men and women acted and contributed. When agriculture started human groups settled down to form civilizations that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:50 PM
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Sounds like it’s heavily influenced by culture and society rather than sex. Sure sex may slightly influence a person but not their personality and it doesn’t affect much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:13 PM
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If that’s what the guy wants to do then he should be able to. Also if it helps his self confidence then that’s a good thing. I don’t wear makeup personally but if that helps you feel better about yourself and or something you enjoy then do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:03 PM
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I’m pointing out the hypocrisy of men who slutshame women but are no better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:00 PM
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I mean women are slutshamed all the time. Also a lot of men who seem to slutshame women the most seem to be the men who expect women to just give them sex and get angry when a woman doesn’t just give easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:25 PM
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What results?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:01 PM
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Dude you don’t support your own advise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:27 PM
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Well for you that’s like be okay but just don’t expect that to be an element in a healthy relationship. Relationships are individualistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:10 PM
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Sure but you called that “autistic”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:02 PM
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No that this is your mindset. If you advice what you commented that is definitely a red flag to believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:02 PM
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That might be good for you but you shouldn’t expect someone to give up their sexual boundaries and you shouldn’t think that giving up your sexual boundaries should be a requirement for a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:01 PM
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No those are boundaries. Would you eat their shit if it pleases then? Also weak, selfish, and lazy people are those you just expect others to get rid of their boundaries. Do you not believe in sexual boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:54 PM
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Because that’s horrible advice that violates the boundaries of others and is 100% a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:53 PM
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Sexual boundaries like waiting until having sex is okay and so is a sexual boundary of not giving blow jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:52 PM
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I can say the same and it’s why you would be a total turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:47 PM
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Yeah I would never do anal or oral and I don’t want people to expect me to do it. You shouldn’t treat your requirements shouldn’t be the requirements of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:46 PM
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I’ve always had a strict rule about boundaries and loyalty is also a requirement for both of us. They are alway to be respected. If I don’t want to do a sexual act I don’t have to and neither does my partner. I never want to give a blow job so I won’t and I would never expect him to give me oral. I’d neither is in the mood then there will not be sex. I hold sex very highly in romantic relationship I value emotional bonding. If he’s tired he shouldn’t be expected to have sex and if I’m tired I sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:44 PM
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You should always maintain and stay firm on your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:40 PM
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Being expected to not uphold your boundaries sounds even worse. I wouldn’t find pleasure in pressuring or expecting my partner to do something sexual if they aren’t comfortable with it. I would never give a blow job and I don’t expect to get oral either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:40 PM
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I would never give a blow job and I would never expect a man to give me one because boundaries is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:37 PM
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I mean if the other person isn’t comfortable with it then you should drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:37 PM
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It’s called having sexual boundaries. You shouldn’t be expected to partake in any of your partner’s fetish if you aren’t comfortable with. Some women like myself find oral gross and wouldn’t want to have someone’s genitalia in their mouth. Good people respect other people’s boundaries. Expecting someone to let you cross that boarder shows shallowness, a lack of love, and the frivolous nature of your soul. I would never do piss play or scat and if my partner was into that doesn’t mean I will desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:34 PM
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So is sex more important then the wellbeing of your partner and that you hold sexual intimacy higher than emotional intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:30 PM
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A woman who won’t give oral can love you just as much as a woman that does give oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:27 PM
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That really doesn’t make you any better. Men who think like this are instant red flags and thankfully more and more women are seeing these red flags and running. You should tell anyone you are getting into a relationship with so that she can see this red flag and determine if she wants to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:26 PM
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Well if she doesn’t love or even like giving BJs can still love her partner but just have a boundary. It’s like how a partner doesn’t love you any less despite not partaking in your fetish. Also a lot of men don’t like giving oral to women so they wouldn’t. If you expect a woman to do something she doesn’t like or want to do and to do it regularly shows that you really don’t love her. I’d you love someone you would respect their boundaries. Are you willing to go out of your way to regularly do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:24 PM
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I mean sure if being a sex crazed manwhore is what you want to be then just embrace it but you have to accept the women that will not want anything to do with you. Also why are so many men so insistent on women have low body counts and mock those with higher body counts but then expect women to just give out sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:20 PM
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Not really. One is having sexual boundaries and the other is trying to for sexual intimacy into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:18 PM
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It’s called having sexual boundaries. It’s like how you can’t force someone to partake in your fetish. I’m a high functioning autistic woman (barely on the autism spectrum) with ADHD and even I know that you don’t do things like the post states while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:17 PM
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No that’s your sexual boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:04 PM
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True but it’s best to put ease of kind without accusing your partner and negligence still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:25 PM
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Just say you are worried if the hospital accidentally have the wrong baby because it does happen. I do hope to have kids one day and the first thing id do is have a paternity and maternity test conducted. My only thing is if you want a paternity test I want a maternity test too. If my partner does ask for a paternity test as long as he isn’t accusatory I have nothing to hide but I want a maternity test to also show that it’s neither of our child and that the hospital messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:56 PM
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You do know the vast majority of women just focus on their studies right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:39 PM
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How are the women morally wrong and disgusting but the men that are also delusional not? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:32 PM
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Yeah it’s not illegal but doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Like cheating isn’t illegal in many countries but it’s 100% wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:30 PM
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People are minding their own business and just pushing the interaction will make people uncomfortable with you and even feel threatened. You’ll just make everything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:29 PM
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What about women with multiple options? Also women have raging hormones too and can really want to have sex and it spikes when ovulation happens. If you want to say that men evolved to mate with multiple partners to increase having more offspring it works both ways because look at any female animal breeds with multiple males. Lionesses? They mate with multiple males. Chimpanzees? same story. Mating with all males around means more help and that the males will think they are the father and not po…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:15 PM
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True however another thing is most of the attention women get are for casual one night stands. I said night clubs and Tinder for guys who want a one night stand. Actually women aren’t getting too much attention outside of guys objectifying them and trying to get in their pants. Much less of their attention is actually men wanting a relationship and almost all is just sexual advances. Almost women like myself would rather have guys try and be our friends and then if we strike a special connection…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:27 PM
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Not really. Guys try making it like unwanted advances and being objectified is something good and not being treated as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:33 PM
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That’s the thing so many guys want something casual while women tend to want relationships. Good rule of thump sue to know when it can be appropriate to try and find something casual like using Tinder or at a night club but also guys seem to not know how to even properly approach women and it’s just creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:26 PM
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Because only the lowest of the low scum would support human trafficking and be misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:30 AM
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Bruh you are an awful troll. You’re not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:23 AM
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Sounds like you want to force women back into second class citizenship. Seems like you just hate women. Women don’t hate men they hate men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:15 AM
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Modern day slavery (the most common being kidnapped and forced into marriage girls and sex trafficking) disproportionately affects women and benefits men. It’s mostly men driving modern day slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:13 AM
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You hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:08 AM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:07 AM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:06 AM
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I’d say women getting the attention like guys constantly flirting and trying to get in a woman’s pants is treating women more subhuman. Unwanted attention and being objectified. Guys will want one night stands with thinner women but for many women that’s not the attention they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:43 PM
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A lot of these guys are looking for one night stands. Women get a lot of attention for one night stands and a lot of women rather have long term healthy relationships. The attention women get isn’t the type of attention women tend to give because most women don’t even want the attention they get. One night stands aren’t as desirable for many women. You forget which type of attention women get and if they actually want it. It’s because most women don’t like this attention and don’t want to just h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:41 PM
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A lot of this are guys trying to have one night stands. There’s a difference between a one night stand and a reliable long term healthy relationship. It’s kinda like getting a lot of junk mail. Sure you are getting attention but it’s more of a hinderance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:37 PM
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Power dynamics tend to make ages with age gaps more toxic for the younger person. That’s the thing there’s a power and experience gap with an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:38 AM
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Wait are you actually defending people dating those below the age of consent? Age of consent is there for a reason because of lack of cognitive development making it easier for manipulation and grooming to happen. Also “Mary off your daughter”? Wtf marriage is her choice. Also you’re a creep. No “righteous” man would want a minor. I’m kinda disturbed. Please tell me you don’t actually have children, especially not a daughter. Also there’s a difference with desirability. A man raping a women beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:37 AM
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It doesn’t work that way I eat what I’m suppose to eat because my metabolism will just increase if I eat more. It’s nothing much. I’m doing better but the many other physical and mental symptoms sometimes spark up. Thank you for your kind words and I’m glad you understand 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:37 PM
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Self improvement only works when you understand why and how to do it and if you are doing it for yourself and not for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:10 PM
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Sometimes they dig a deeper hole for themselves. I don’t agree with OP’s comparison with financial and social status with the ability to have a relationship because one is much more common to see overcome than the other. You do have a lot more safety nets when it comes to dating however you can overcome if you work harder. You might be at a disadvantage but it’s much more possible. You’ll have the pool of potential partners limited but in the end the shallow fish in the pond are gone so that mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:51 PM
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Funny if the roles were reverse y’all would be crying for her to be arrested. Imagine if she insulted him and he spat on her and I turn she cut his dick off? Wouldn’t both be wrong but she would be even more in the wrong? What if there was a R/Cockpasseddenied and femanazis were all like “he deserved it for assaulting her.” Life isn’t black and white there are shades of gray. Over escalating makes you in the wrong. Again both parties suck. She escalated it and then he took it even farther. He de…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/09/22 09:07 PM
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There’s a lot of diseases that can cause your metabolism to be overactive and under active https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna13543 https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna13543 Strange I guess you’re right people who specialize in medicine is better that the “dieters” and “nutritionists” you kept pointing people too and tried to ignore the other Redditor who had medical knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:32 AM
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A lot of guys try and use dating apps and honestly that’s harder to get dates on. There it’s easier to discriminate against due to appearances. I’ve never even touched a dating app. I’ve seen many “unattractive guys” (I’ve dated some too) get girlfriends by meeting in person. A lot of people want to rely on tinder when I personally think looking for a partner in real life is a better way. There you are face to face and can better know someone. Also no you were making it out like women went for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:24 AM
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There’s other medical reasons. I am no way overweight and am actual now at a very healthy weight but I understand why some people have problems maintaining weight. There’s also different types of metabolisms that will hold onto the calories they eat no matter how little they eat. This is called Endomorph Metabolism where even starving yourself and doing extreme diets and working out doesn’t work and there aren’t enough plans for their metabolism type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:07 AM
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Doesn’t work my metabolism will just go even faster. I have to sometimes get my blood drawn monthly or at the latest every 2.5 months and it’s something that spikes and over treating it causes my metabolism to go too slow and make me gain weight but we catch that quickly. Thyroid conditions are lifelong and treatments fluctuate. It’s not easy to live with. Others who have under active thyroids gain weight no matter how little they eat and treatments sometimes spike making thyroid conditions hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:54 PM
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I didn’t have fat to burn my body was fucking shutting down. Also burning too much fat in a short amount of time isn’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:27 AM
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Woah your ignorance is disgusting. I was extremely sick because my metabolism was too fast and those hormones were making my body work too fast that I had no energy and was starving to death. Also hypothyroidism isn’t the only medical reason some people become overweight or unhealthily underweight like in my case. It’s an autoimmune disease meaning by nature it’s more common in women. It can develop anytime within your life and isn’t uncommon to develop after a pregnancy. Other reasons are other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:26 AM
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That’s not how it works that means you aren’t getting enough nutrients and you need a certain amount of calories to have energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:18 AM
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Look up hypothyroidism some people develop it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:10 AM
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I have Graves Disease so I can vouch for the other person. Hormones do effect metabolism especially the thyroid hormones. Grave’s Disease has many problems and one is an unhealthy metabolism which is too fast meaning I was wasting away before I got treatment. Grave’s Disease is hyperthyroidism but types of hypothyroidism causes many to gain weight due to their metabolism being much slower because they are releasing less hormones. Also yes medical school helps you understand hormones. It’s not ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:08 AM
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Guys being open to getting together doesn’t refute my point that guys aren’t putting that much effort into it because they are expected to put in more work and it’s easier to just jack off to porn. Women don’t just rely on porn because irks easier for women to get a hook up. Once again I agree it’s much harder for men to get laid but not for the reasons you mentioned. My documents supported my points but you’re just saying a 2 year age gap goes against my point that women do go for guys around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:20 PM
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You just can’t accept works that don’t agree with your thirst mindset and your newest comment is now just trying to strawman new arguments that I never made. Never said high value men were into me I just men were interested. Once again you assume too much. I assumed one thing and that was because you buy into blackpilled logic which is what incels follow so I will admit I did make an assumption that could be wrong. Another thing I am not saying women have it as easy as men. Still you’re assuming…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:41 PM
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That’s why some guys rape but it’s not just having plain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:20 PM
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You keep putting words in my mouth. Once again I said there are “some guys who are unlikable assholes” not most. Also can you not read? I said it’s a cause for an amount of virgin males but didn’t say it was the biggest reason that goes with the lack of confidence and social interactions. You also just seem to be projecting a lot. I never even said all autistic males are unsuccessful I just said it makes it harder for them because it makes social interactions harder (I should know I am on the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:51 AM
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More guys struggle with being on the spectrum (not just autism). One in every 42 males and one in 189 females in the United States is diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. This also doesn’t account for guys who are just unlikable assholes. Also saying 2 years young isn’t a big deal and I linked the article knowing that it said 2 years. The thing is 2 years is considered around the same age. You really are the dumb one. You’re so defensive and just resort to “no you” because you can’t prove me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:46 PM
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I didn’t say autism was the only cause. You seem to only pick out one reason I give and ignore the other reasons. Also a few years older isn’t a big deal as it’s relatively the same age. You seem to really get defensive. You’re too blinded by your own faults. I said higher autism rates help lower the rate for some men and other men it’s the lack of confidence and social interactions. My biggest question is just… can you even read? You don’t seem to be able to comprehend what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:35 PM
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I have spare time from time to time but I don’t see you saying the same to the guy I responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:22 PM
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You just seem so bitter that you can’t get a women and want to blame everything else. People being on autism spectrum is becoming more common but it also could be that it’s being tracked a lot more. “Writing in the weekly journal MMWR, CDC researchers reported that autism rates in the United States increased from 1 in 150 children in 2000 to 1 in 54 in 2016, and the rate now stands at 1 in 44 children. Some argue that autism's prevalence is rising because of environmental causes like vaccines” W…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:14 PM
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Nothing he said was correct and nothing you said was correct either. Men overshoot and get rejected. A lot of guys don’t even try. With media being in constant use many guys lack real life social skills and experience which is a turn off. If you look at it men tend to try and settle with women they see as “better looking.” And the “blaming the other gender” argument is because men want to blame women just because they can’t get women. Looking on online statistics also is pretty bad. People can f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:00 PM
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Well I agree men who aren’t caring for themselves is a turn off and really bad partners can lead to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:39 PM
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Sounds like you don’t want to face reality. Not everything’s the fault of women. Men need to take accountability too and not just blame the opposite sex for their short comings. Men don’t like to lower their standards and often seek women of higher appeal but Irma wrong when women do that? Lack of confidence and lack of social skills is a turn off for many women. The vast majority of women marry men around their same level and their age. It’s just those who can’t improve themself that can’t get …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:14 PM
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There’s been plenty of well of women settling with drug addicts and their boyfriend gets them into drugs and they die from and overdose. The biggest problem is how people lack social interaction and social skills along with confidence which makes it harder for men to get women if they struggle with those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:24 PM
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You just seem to be blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:22 PM
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That’s not that common and that’s more like the minority of women. It’s more to do with social media and less social interactions with men that have low self confidence lacking social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:20 PM
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Same it’s why I know a lot about the anxiety around it. Also Graves’ disease is something I suffer from and also increases anxiety. Anxiety also has to do with biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:41 PM
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Not completely there’s also a lot of medical reasons like the body releasing a lot of stress hormones regardless of upbringing. It’s also commonly linked in mental disorders like ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:24 PM
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I just happen to notice that women don’t tend to make fun of dick size unless they give up little dick energy for being incel likes. Most women seem to not give a shit if you aren’t being an entitled piece of shit from my experience with hanging out with other women. Size also isn’t a big deal unless you’re an asshole. My friend dated a very small guy, I believe he was less than 5 feet because she’s 5 feet and was taller than him. He ended up being rather toxic and abusive. We knew him years pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:51 AM
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Nope I’m a women. I don’t care about dick size or height. All I care about is personality. Mocking appearance is just so low and it’s pretty disgusting no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:41 PM
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It’s solely to insult the other guy because dick I’ve is so touchy. It’s not gay or anything and happens. Low blows are a common tactic. I don’t personally give a shit about physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:28 PM
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It’s a low blow thing. When a guy has small dick energy they get mocked and women mock small dick energy/incel energy too. Most mocking of guys ducks from women is because the guy was being an asshole and or pushing unwanted advances even after she said no and guys hearing this mock the guy too. It’s simple, guys mock dicks because a lot of guys are sensitive about it and it’s effective as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:50 PM
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I’ve heard I lot of guys boob shaming women and fat shaming them just as much as I’ve heard women insult men. So hear a lot of objectifying from men and both women a harsh to other women and men are harsh to other men. I heard guys mocking dick since more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:22 PM
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That’s not how red pill is because it’s more like black pill. Plus women get called gold diggers among other insults so it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:20 PM
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I’m saying guys should be able to without the unfair double standards. You completely missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:13 PM
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Oh no I’m just talking about shot talking in general. Women mock each other’s appearances. Also society puts more emphasis on the look of women than of men. Women also get objectified about their body more and I’ve too been around both sexes and they trash talk the opposite gender’s appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:12 PM
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A lot of people make fun of women and their looks like their breast sizes, how fat they are, their skin, etc however men should be able to show vulnerability and get emotional help just as much as women should be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:32 PM
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Not really but that is a good about that are but even those without mental illnesses do need mental health support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:55 PM
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Those on the autism spectrum are more likely if they are suffering from how hard it is to interact with others leading to stress, then they start trying to project on mass shooters to feel like someone understands their pain, then later ends up committing a mass shooting after all the bottled emotions with no healthy outlets boil over. Many other mental illnesses can play apart. However her mental illness does not make them commit the shooting but can cause them to have problems that then cause …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:37 PM
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Why are you bringing up Puritans? That does really matter here. I’m half Portuguese so I did drink a little bit every so often as a kid but not in large amounts either just a little bit here and there. When you actually have a bottle a beer or a full glass of wine as a child and it isn’t a once in a blue moon occasion then that’s a problem. When teens are getting liquored up to have sex that is not okay. If it starts actually affecting you as a child or teen then I draw the line there. Have a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:30 PM
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Well we are taught about birth control all the time. Also alcohol can hurt developing brains. Most American have sex in their college and high school years. Just because a nation sees it’s people losing their virginity during their late teen early adult years isn’t necessarily bad. Anyways condoms aren’t a percent way to prevent STDs the best way is just to not sleep around. You make it out like having sex young is a good thing when it really doesn’t matter. I myself want to wait until I am marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:23 PM
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I’m sorry if it came off like I was pushing all the blame just on mental illnesses alone because that was not my intention. Mental illnesses need to be treated properly and are serious. Getting them help is very important. I’m saying this because people need to understand how mental health needs to get more priority and people will mental illnesses need more support. This was not to demonize people with mental illnesses as I myself am on the spectrum. It’s a fact that severe mental illnesses can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:15 PM
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It doesn’t make them but can increase the chances. Mental illnesses can make you have a lot of social problems and create a lot of hate and anger. It causes frustration when you can’t get your point across too. Mental illnesses can also make people delusional or not think rationally. Mental illnesses can also cause you to develop other mental illnesses like someone who has a lot of social problems due to autism can develop depression because of that. Anxiety also can cause them to feel stressed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:06 PM
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Yeah you did but a lot of people had a lot of problems in drinking too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:58 PM
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I had a lot wrong in this post. healthcare and education is not free anywhere as it’s paid through taxes. Germany has just as bad of a poverty problem as the US. Homelessness Germany is kicking ass with the very low homeless percentage but the UK’s homelessness percentage is higher than the US’s. Drinking alcohol at 21 was because the brain does fully mature until 25 but is mostly matured at 18 so drinking at an age younger than 18 can really damage the development of the brain. There’s a higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:52 PM
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Everyone has their preferences. I know a lot of women who don’t care about height, a few that want all we men, and a fewer who like shorter men. A few would never date a short man after they had a few nightmare boyfriends that were very short or shorter than them. Also there’s a lot of guys who wouldn’t date a taller women. Like average to tall men tend to prefer shorter women and taller women are a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:00 PM
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It’s more mental illnesses. Yes men have sex drives and some of them have such strong sex drives and little to no control so their sex drives control them however that’s a minority of men. Then again I am a women not a man but this is from what I’ve heard from guys and experienced. Men have evolved past being led by instinctual urges to have sex and have self control. A lot of men rape for power though and not just an urge for sex. Men also have had a lot of excuses used to defend many of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:54 PM
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I find it more mental illness. Men are more likely to have mental illnesses and are much more likely than women to be in the spectrum. “The prevalence ratio is often cited as about 4 males for every 1 female diagnosed. Other research indicates that it closer to 3:1 or 2:1. One in every 42 males and one in 189 females in the United States is diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_autism#:~:text=The%20prevalence%20ratio%20is%20often,diagnosed%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:43 PM
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Simple both genders are likely to have a few different genetic problems: Men are likely to have mental illnesses along with x linked disorders while women are more likely to have autoimmune diseases especially after giving birth because of the complex and tasking process it is to have a child. With men more likely to have mental illnesses and men being mocked and society expecting them to be tough makes it so more men are mentally unstable. Men are humans with complex emotions. Also mental healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:36 PM
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