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| 1 | Confusing behavior | WhiteSnake_for_you | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 09:44 PM |
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| 3 | I've got some insecurity issuesThe advice you're getting in this thread is pretty terrible, though I understand where its coming from. I think a better strategy would be to not focus so much on romantic relationships and instead focus on yourself, your interests, and your friendships. Events from your past are marring your perception of the present, and that will influence your future. Let those emotions from the past fade, integrate those experiences, and if possible, learn from them. Maybe your ex exhibited character traits… | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 09:28 AM |
| 8 | Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix)Do you mean failure is just a success that hasn't happened yet? Otherwise that is a very depressing statement. | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 02:25 AM |
| 20 | Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix)Failure is a prerequisite to success. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 08:57 PM |
| 3 | A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about themWhat about emotional security, why extend yourself if someone shows you they care than you can, but sex and love are two different things. Can you rephrase this? I don't understand what you're saying. No, be saying "Consider your own personality" is a personal attack Excuse me, I meant that as a general statement and not something to be directed at you specifically. Also, I'd like to add that I am not the person downvoting you. Some people get very upset about that. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 01:32 AM |
| 10 | A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about themBelieving in the goodness of people is not the same as being careless with your own security. You're jumping to extremes, and for some reason you interpret empathy as some kind of personal attack. Anyway, I'm not trying to convince you to change your mind. That's a fruitless effort on the internet. I only responded because I wanted to take the opportunity to clarify my comment above as it seems a lot of people did not understand my intent. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 12:36 AM |
| 14 | A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about themI disagree. Most people are caring and place loyalty in high regard. If you're running into an abundance of shitty back-stabbing people, consider your own environment/personality. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 11:41 PM |
| 107 | A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about themI meant specifically fuck the kind of person described in the post above. That sounds like an incredibly toxic waste of time. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 08:58 AM |
| 395 | A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about themSo if I work really hard I may get the opportunity to seduce a high maintenance hypocritical person that will end up cheating on me anyway? Fuck all of that. | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Confusing behaviorI appreciate your advice. However I don't feel that I am over analyzing anything, I most likely won't see these people again. And I'm not interested in dating right now anyway. I was just curious what other people thought about what happened. It seemed strange to me that someone would appear entirely indifferent to me, and then suddenly act very friendly out of the blue. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Confusing behaviorIt wasn't quite as cut and dry as that. We saw each other in class/on campus a few times before they would suddenly act very interested. Though I'm certainly a fan of your explanation. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 11:14 PM |
| 16 | how to improve your small talk skillReminds me of getting drunk and going on Omegle video chat with my friends in high school. The one time we got a couple of girls to flash us made all of the old men masturbating totally worth it. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement: HumorShortly before his execution Ted Bundy did an interview with James Dobson (who was on an anti-pornography crusade), where he seemingly blamed his desire to kill on finding some porno magazines as a kid. But it was all BS, Bundy was just playing the dude. I don't believe you can look to pornography to explain the actions of these men, and I think attempting to do so lessens the culpability they need to own. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement: HumorIs it as simple as I'm thinking, literally make more attempts Basically. Make jokes whenever you can, notice what makes other people laugh, etc. Just get into a comedy state of mind. I believe that a part of being funny is just something that some people have and others don't, but a LOT of it is simply using your comedy "muscle" so it gets stronger. I'm almost certain I've been too afraid of telling a joke and not getting a laugh previously. I tell jokes because they make me laugh, if other peop… | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 07:13 AM |
| 4 | How to begin and carry a conversationI don’t where the middle is. Text only when you actually have something to text about. This will mostly be logistics, but it could be if there's something that you're curious about (Ex: She ran a marathon and you want to know how she did), or if there's something exciting that you just need to tell someone (Ex: Holy shit I just me Chris Pratt!) Basically don't text just to text, conversations will get stale quickly. Always have a goal, and lead toward that goal. This is different if she is the o… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 01:07 AM |
| 12 | Winky face = sexual interest?Can't say for sure without actually knowing the dude, buuuut ... He wants it Assume attraction until proven otherwise | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 12:52 AM |
| 3 | ConfusingThere are 257,526 accounts subscribed to this subreddit. There are over 600 currently here. You're gonna get some differing opinions. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Moving to nice guy game as experimentcomplimenting, paying for things, small talk, dating etc. Huh. TIL I have nice guy game. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 06:53 AM |
| 2 | I’m going out with a girl tomorrow for a cup of coffee. How do I make my intention clear if I end up liking this girl?Be genuinely curious about her, joke with her, and kino. Basically try to form a connection on an emotional and physical level. Sounds like she's already interested so just focus on having a good time. A new date is exciting and fun, that mentality is contagious. Also, Of course, I have to find out first if I like this girl This is a very good mentality to have. A date isn't just an opportunity to impress someone, but also to see if they can impress you. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Crush sits next to me in maths class, how do I act?Have a conversation with her, make her laugh, at the high point of the conversation ask to her to do something with you outside of class. If she says yes. Congrats you have a date, keep asking her out. Escalate the dates. If she says no. No big deal. Your relationship is platonic, and that's something you can enjoy too. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Studying together... good or nah?Studying is platonic imo. You're not meeting with her because you want her, but because you want a good grade. This is not making your intentions clear. I would set up a date at a good place. Doesn't matter where it is. (If logistics are an issue for her or you then adapt) Focus on the date. If things are going well you can suggest that you go back to her place or your place to study. Then escalate as much as you feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 02:23 AM |
| 0 | How do you start?next think you know BAM! Dicked down ... By the guys? | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenI mean wouldn't you say that a guy who is 25 & never dated or done anything with a woman before would be considered not very attractive? No. I'd say that guy needs to get off his ass and go talk to some pretty girls. I could send you my recent progress pic just so you know what I'm talking about. I'm really curious now. PM me a pic. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 06:59 AM |
| 9 | What are the little things or tricks that makes a girl fall for you on a date?Don't forget to accidentally drop your monster condom for your magnum dong. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 04:21 AM |
| 27 | How NOT to do it!!That last comment cannot be real. That's just ... outrageous. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenI don't think you can really say that women don't find you attractive if you haven't been doing those things. You probably see women every day that think you're attractive, but if you don't take the initiative it's never going to go anywhere. Men pursue women, that's how it works. Of course some people are different, but you can't just wait around for them to find you. Start talking to women. I think you'll be surprised. Also, I reread your comment and I just wanted to mention. I'm 5'6 and I hav… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenHonestly pretty glad to hear that stuff. From the way you were talking it sounded like you just had horrible self-esteem or something. From everything you've told me, it sounds like you just need to work on your game. Have you approached women, gotten numbers, went on dates, escalated, etc? | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenIt absolutely works for some people, that's why we all know what Tinder is. Those few success stories are their main marketing attraction. However the majority of dudes don't find success with it, and if it's destroying your confidence it's time to delete it. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenbut I'm not really good looking Dude, stop! Stop putting yourself down first of all. Forget pick up, getting dates, and women just for a second. Stop insulting yourself. Stop including that in your comments, stop allowing those thoughts into your head. Listen to me carefully, you will NEVER find a fulfilling relationship until you love yourself first. Next time you have the urge to say it, just don't. You need to be your biggest supporter. Now, in the context of seddit. I'm sure you've heard thi… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenI have a friend who has done this his whole life, and even now as an average looking 34 year old, he is banging a gorgeous 17 year old he works with, and has had about 6 other teenage work conquests this year alone I know different strokes and all. But that just makes me uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenBecause Tinder is literally a line up of men, and it's based solely on physical attraction. The context in which they see you is different IRL you have way more opportunities to be attractive to them. The way you hold yourself when you walk, your confidence in talking to them, your voice, your smile, the things you say in the moment, your cologne, the way the light catches you just right at certain moments. These are all factors that you won't have working for you on Tinder. Also, and this is th… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Zero to Hero: First ever "cold approach" is a success!You gotta appreciate the little victories, it'll keep you going. Next time maybe she'll be single. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 07:17 AM |
| 5 | **Women are sadden by this act of their close male friends**ima fuck Something tells me you aren't. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 07:05 AM |
| 4 | **Women are sadden by this act of their close male friends**That's a pretty sad attitude. Women can bring a lot to a friendship that men can't. I wouldn't want to miss out on the things my female friends have brought into my life. Plus, if you're literally just a penis with a brain. A good friend will try to set you up with her single friends. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 06:25 AM |
| 136 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenFucking delete Tinder. It's a game. Women get way more matches than men do and they can just swipe and swipe. Tinder is "abundance mentality" to the max for women. Not to mention that the women on Tinder are different than the women you'll meet out in the world, "online dating" still has a stigma against it for a lot of people. Also, a lot of women just use Tinder for validation. They just like getting matched but they don't have any intentions on going on dates. Seriously, it's shit and it does… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Favorite kino moves? , kinda need this for a chick who's into meSounds good. Just don't forget to talk about things that YOU are genuinely interested in as well. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Favorite kino moves? , kinda need this for a chick who's into meDo you find a lot of success doing that? | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Favorite kino moves? , kinda need this for a chick who's into mepoint things out that I don't really care about just to get kino points Why are you talking about things you don't care about? | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I know that girls are attracted to me sometimes, but I can't act on it.Start small. First, work on approaching people and just starting conversations. Men and women. Just get used to talking to strangers. Start with a basic opener "Hi. My name is ..." or "How's it going?" Once you're engaged in a conversation ask questions, this will help get a conversation flowing. From there you should be engaged in the conversation and everything else comes naturally. Once you've gotten comfortable talking with strangers, you can focus on flirting, kino, getting numbers, etc. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Favorite kino moves? , kinda need this for a chick who's into meShare a laugh (like a genuine laugh that lasts for a minute), while you're both laughing reach out and touch her hand/arm/shoulder. It's a natural, it breaks that physical barrier, and it's all paired with positive feelings because you're laughing. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What do you do with your hands?Stop worrying so much, your hands naturally know what to do. When you're thinking about what to do with your hands, you're not engaged in the interaction. Also, kino. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How important is eye contact really?Stop worrying so much about doing the "right" thing. It sounds antithetical, like saying "Try to relax", but you have to act natural. When you're not thinking about this stuff you naturally make eye contact, you naturally start conversations with people near you, your conversations flow naturally and organically. Because you're not so worried about what you're doing, you're engaged in the interaction. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 04:17 AM |
| 5 | Game at the University Dining Hall"Mind if I sit here?" Obviously I'm not going to do this every time I go to grab dinner because everyone would know Who cares? So you're the guy that likes making friendly conversation while you eat. As long as you don't make people feel uncomfortable it's not an issue. Also no one is going to notice, strangers don't give a shit about what you're doing unless you directly engage with them. If a girl has headphones in Unless I've made eye contact and gotten some kind of positive response, I don't… | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 02:22 AM |
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