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Exactly! You know who you are & you're confident in your own skin. I always imagined that mid 30s you're experienced enough to finally be in the drivers' seat of your own sexuality. You hold the power and you know it. Frankly, even as a straight girl I think that's sexy as hell.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:38 AM
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It sounds fun, so enjoy it! When you're 70, you'll have great memories of just how desired you were. Obviously if you want, you could shut it all down in a second but it sounds very flattering. You must be doing something right, so why feel bad? I'm early 20s myself and despite what they say about the wall, even as a girl I always imagined the mid 30s business woman as being the epitome of the femme fatale- powerful and sexy. Louboutin heels and a pencil skirt! Don't fight the music girl.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:00 AM
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Love is definitely not enough. You need to respect him too - there was a great post about that just yesterday
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 08:19 AM
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I think your feelings are completely justified. His behaviour from your description sounds incredibly immature and I'm surprised you are still attracted to him. He is treating you like a parent, not a partner at this point... Have a talk, clearly lay it all out to him. If you don't think you can do that, write him a letter. Then be open to his suggestions. If he doesn't volunteer a solution & there is no obvious improvement after 2 weeks, you have every right to leave and I would encourage you t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 12:33 PM
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Well in that case my advice would be not to change your major again - just stick to what you've chosen, findig your studies, get the degree and then move on with your life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 12:23 PM
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If you've already done 4 years prior to Canada - shouldn't you have already received your bachelors before the move then?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 10:25 PM
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Stay in school. I've never heard someone say they regret their education- yes maybe pick a different major but 4 years honestly flys by.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 02:38 PM
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If he's not invested, why should she be? Relationships are a two way street...
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 07:45 PM
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I just broke up with my long distance boyfriend for this precise reason. I realised he is not capable or comfortable with providing what I want in terms of contact and emotional support. His inability to improve things once we'd discussed them was for me the final nail in the coffin and the proof I needed that he just wasn't invested enough. So I ended it - heartbroken at the time and yet only three weeks later I already feel so relieved and thankful to be free. Ps. I should add that I first tri…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 07:44 PM
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OP is a man
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 03:28 PM
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How do modern humans exist that still believe this?? Her hymen is not attached to her brain chemistry for fucks sake. It's a bit of skin.. some have it some don't.. irrelevant either way. You're trolling right?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 01:20 PM
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Heya, cards were spot on last time! I'm now currently single - what do the cards say about my next relationship? What's the timeline for it? Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 01:55 PM
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Thanks for being the voice of reason. His behaviour is horrible and it's a tragedy that she's stuck because of their kids.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 07:12 AM
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Yes that's true, I agree with everything you wrote. I'm aware that I will need to find a guy that pleases both my biology and the requirements of my class, if i want to be happy. The perfect mixture of AF/BB is pretty tough to find however cause most boys my age are usually one or the other! Furthermore I wouldn't date an older man which means I'm looking for the needle in the haystack. However I rate my chances :)
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:07 PM
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My schooling is not meant to be impressive? You are hamstering the hell out of my post lol. It's a simple question, using real examples from my life.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:04 AM
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And that my friend is because we obviously have very different definitions of 'high class.'
/r/askTRP19/06/18 08:19 AM
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Not true, there are a lot of woman that I admire very much and aim to emulate. Actually all the women in my life are admirable. The behaviour I've seen described here is objectively low class. The men associating having to associate with these women are also class of course.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 07:32 AM
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It might be more helpful for those men however to be told that their problem is that they're associating with trashy people. If we just say we've seen it before than that helps no one. You see what I mean? Ps a lot of the behaviour described is so low class I've never seen it IRL.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:23 PM
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Okay yes I agree with all that, what irritates me however is when I see something on here for example that describes clearly disgusting/low class/trashy behaviour on the part of some woman and the go to response from the chorus is AWALT lol. Obviously if we're talking theories of attraction it's one thing - but if we are describing cheating, slutty behaviour as AWALT I find it disingenuous because it is clearly more an example of low class behaviour than it is of female sexual strategy...
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:03 PM
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Why is this a question? Honestly you know the answer yourself. Her behaviour was completely disrespectful. Ghost her and if she contacts, just say 'it's over.' Move on.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:03 PM
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Don't reply obviously
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:32 PM
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Sorry you have to experience that just before you give birth. It's a horrible situation and I wish you all the best
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 07:53 AM
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Regarding the sex - have you tried/suggested to him that you go on top? You can switch it up with reverse cowgirl too and that way he can just lie there and not use his back at all
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 07:23 PM
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Thanks. And don't worry it's well and truly dying...already dead. Just have to make it official :) Also definitely not a major life decision as I already left the country. Cheers!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 06:14 PM
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Sorry OP, I feel you're getting a very bad deal here and don't think you see it, is all. You could lay your life down for this man and he'd still say AWALT
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 06:10 PM
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This is getting more unhealthy by the minute. OP do you have friends?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 05:35 PM
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Wait, is it a yes to end it? Or yes to let it run? P.S thanks for doing it!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:33 PM
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A good strategy, therefore, when refusing or delaying sex with a man whose interest you want to keep, is to use a logistical obstacle or impediment, rather than displaying a lack of desire (real or feigned). Yes this was exactly my instinct. I explained how scared I was of getting pregnant b/c of my career plans. He was happy to will till I got an IUD, it just happened to take 3 months lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:29 PM
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Yes the time period of waiting for sex has to be consistent or else what I claimed is irrelevant! My n count is 2 and i waited 3 months with both. Attraction is natural. What's negotiable is the point where sex intersects with commitment/relationship status. I have seen that if the man is genuinely interested he'll wait for me. I've tried and tested. There was a guy with whom I was infatuated, however he wouldn't commit and constantly pushed for sex.. this had the opposite effect he intended, we…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:20 PM
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Thank you for this post i've had many of the same feelings!! I got past them by covering the bad experiences with good ones. Learning from my mistakes and being ruthless when it came to dropping boys who were not suitable LTR material...no matter how strong my feelings were if it wasn't objectively functional I said no. Good luck OP!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 03:55 PM
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Didn't mean to be unkind! There are great men out there that would support you, marry you and give you biological children.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 03:32 PM
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Life is not only about securing a man though, that's just one facet of it. Also since you're not married you haven't actually secured him. Life is about fulfilling your potential as an independent human being! Are you really doing that by reading books on ironing? It is worrying how much your identity as an adult woman seems to be wrapped up in this man.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 03:20 PM
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I agree. OP's situation is very concerning & quite sad really
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 03:03 PM
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Completely the vibe i get too! Sounds a little tyrannical. Not what I consider captain/first mate.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 02:47 PM
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I think OP means that her man would have a kid & marry her if they lived in a country where the law is on the man's side - i.e. a 3rd world or Islamic middle eastern country where he holds the power and she can't take the kid or divorce him if she changed her feelings later...a little unhealthy i think
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 02:39 PM
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Well moving to another country would be a pretty thrilling risk! Maybe somewhere like Vanuatu? It's a very beautiful archipelago in the South Pacific with 83 islands. The laws are super lax in terms of tax, divorce etc. it's also a very patriarchal culture so he would always have the law on his side. The people are wonderful and you're only about 3 hours flight from Australia or New Zealand which are essentially like the US. Always thought it would be a wonderful place to raise children! Adventu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 02:24 PM
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Your description makes it sound like he needs to be protected from you lol :/ The fact you've already had foster kids means you are so so prepared to have children!! I'm sure you're a wonderful mother and it's sad because it seems that through his FEARS you are being denied the chance to carry your own child. He sounds like he'd open to biological children except he is too scared/thinks it's too dangerous. Here's what's I would do: Your description of him as very risk adverse suggests he's might…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 01:48 PM
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Yay this sounds fun! I'd like to ask the cards whether I should end it with sam or just let it run and see where we end up?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 05:33 PM
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Start boxing at your local gym
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:39 AM
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Always go further, always move
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:17 AM
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Yea it makes me thankful to be a woman honestly :/
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:42 PM
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Oh I agree that TRP teaches important truths I just find it hard to understand why it's such a painful emotional process for a lot of guys. Because to me it seems very logical.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:32 PM
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Of course the 'innate alpha' exists. Let me explain. Whilst I agree that human nature is malleable, there's a big difference between someone who has 'caught up' and 'Mr Innate Alpha.' To show this difference I'm gonna use the example of comparing someone who is socially gifted with someone that is socially awkward. Whilst we all know that social skills and charisma can be learned, it's also true that some people don't need to learn them. To such people these skills are 'innate'... Or to put it a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 10:13 PM
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Of course delaying sex won't make much difference in the long run. However for me, waiting those 3 months was an excellent tool in vetting guys. I found it to be a shortcut to knowing whether a man was interested in me as prospective partner or just a plate. You can also keep your low n count. Great sex and being super attracted to each other was a very nice bonus and a good start to the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 09:49 PM
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Of course I don't know his inner monologue and of course we're all human beings with weaknesses. That's not my point. My point is that I want to do the best I can when it comes to choosing the man I marry. For me that means a man that has managed to figure things out on his own. Maybe I'm lucky but in my circles I've met several.. they're not that rare. I'm looking for a natural leader not an iron man. Edit: if you don't admit that 'natural leaders' exist than how do you explain a leader in a gr…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:13 PM
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My comments are fundamental RP theory. It's really not controversial in the slightest...
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 02:05 PM
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I'm 23 and not at a point in life where I want to marry yet. We're in a committed relationship and I'm happy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:58 PM
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Okay so personally I think there is a massive difference between the two. I'm aware that my opinion might sound a little harsh, however it comes from comparing how my brother approaches life with things I've seen & read on r/asktrp and r/redpill. My brother is what I would consider a 'natural' alpha - someone who's had a lot of alpha traits from early childhood, seeming without much effort. For example people always like him, he's very good at first impressions, always had girls into him, his cu…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:47 PM
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Yes as much as it's frowned upon I want a genuine alpha not a guy playing RP theory - I mean how is the relationship gonna look in 20 years otherwise..
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 10:35 AM
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Interesting because I've found that you actually can bargain for attraction. In my experience withholding sex beyond the average time frame of modern standards, does increase attraction and desire. For example I waited three months to have sex while being exclusive with current guy. It was important for me to see that i was not just a notch in his belt. The result was amazing because you've both wanted it for so long and already know each other very well. P.S. are you saying that the fundamental…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 08:47 AM
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Still I always require exclusivity before sex. I know the sex will be great so I'm not in a position of having to prove it to him first. I'm not going to give away my bargaining chip for nothing.. perhaps that's not as RP as I thought?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 06:39 AM
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Honestly your post and replies have made me feel super claustrophobic. Your relationship sounds like a living nightmare. I don't know how you have survived 4 years. What you've lived through is not normal in the slightest and I honestly can't see how he manages to deal with life at all, what you described is a completely non functioning person. I feel very sorry for his daughter too - what sort of paternal figure is he presenting her with...? His issues scare me, because it all seems so helpless…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 09:38 PM
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Honestly mate you won't get a girlfriend as long as girls fear for their life being alone with you... From your writing you genuinely come across as the creepy/murder you out of frustration type of autist - rather than the genius misunderstood Isaac Newton type. Therapy would be your chance at bridging that divide between creepy/dangerous and that normal spectrum awkwardness. If you keep going with the status quo your life is not gonna get better. Get help man! Edit: also to clarify your behavio…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:31 PM
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Start with yourself in the mirror
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:23 PM
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Book stores or flea markets
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:49 AM
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New Zealand!
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:48 AM
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Wow dude you can't force someone to take a pill! That's what condoms are for.. sadly IQ is largely genetic so your kid won't have much of a chance
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:45 AM
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Duude, your behaviour is creepy as hell. You need to go to a therapist asap and look at your issues. Calling from different numbers and knowing all those dates sounds very unhealthy. You seem like the person that would commit a murder suicide if your girlfriend broke up with you. You can't own someone. Your behaviour is NEUROTIC.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:32 AM
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