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That is the REddit average I think. The median reddit sub is 30% Women, 70% Men. Men are more likely to Reddit. Even r/Frozen is 50-50. Other than Women specific subs like FDS or TwoX, the only main sub with more Women is r/AmITheAsshole (40-60 I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:46 PM
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Hypergamy 101: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/s1gvo9/aita_for_telling_me_friend_that_she_is_an_asshole/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:22 PM
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Case#875252 of women choosing Chad over a good stable partner while so many good Men remain unloved: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/tg9hay/aita_for_not_naming_my_baby_after_their_father/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:28 PM
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college politics are no joke. I agree. Where I went it was like that. Not a frat thing; just student government was like that. Frats were not a big deal where I went to school. Neither was homecoming Edit: I could totally see someone using sex for political favours where I went.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:30 PM
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Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:17 PM
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That she had values and morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:04 PM
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fiverr. on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:02 PM
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So cheating is justified now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:43 PM
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You think some marketers made up a whole 3-part cheating saga to sell a pen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/m10r41/i_cheated_on_my_boyfriend_and_want_to_come_clean/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/mb7b4z/update_i_f20_cheated_on_my_boyfriend_m28_and_want/ Politicians really start being slimy young... Edit. Even more: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/on4t2d/i_f20_am_looking_for_ways_to_move_on_past_the/ Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/op70jv/aita_for_asking_my_girlfriend_to_pay_for_her/ God I hope this is fake
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:26 PM
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Evil bitches are hot, yes. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:11 PM
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I have a feeling you and I agree on most aspects of life, It does seem like :). Yeah socioculturally it really depends for me but I tend right I think hookup culture is largely supported by current economic conditions as well. Interesting POV but not sure I agree. I think culture is what matters; people in say China, India, or Africa don't sleep around despite being poorer. And the ascending middle class there does not seem to have changed anything. In facts demographers are surprised that Afric…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:06 PM
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100% Before people chose for long-term committment. People were selected for their ability to be a good spouse and parent. Looks were not as important. Now, with casual sex, you have dual mating on the part of Women, lonely Men with good partner and parent potential being negelcted, and people being selected for looks and "alphaness"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:07 PM
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Ah ok. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:43 PM
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ELI5: What is the Pink Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:34 PM
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You sure: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/EvilIsSexy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:33 PM
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Based!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:32 PM
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extremely "left" compared to today in most ways. Well economically. It was socially quite conservative of course. As someone who is economically left and socioculturally conservative (well I don't want segregation or traditional gender roles though I despise hook up culture) I find that this quadrant of politics is missing, probably cause it most threatens the status quo That option has evaporated over time and that class of people now work retail or service jobs. Yep. Or be forced to get a degr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:31 PM
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Inspired by u/whyte_loutus. Q4 those attracted to women. Do you find fictional villains hot? Who you got? For me, it is Cassandra from Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure. She is incredibly sexy in Moonstone form, I find Women doing "masculine" things like sword fighting attractive, and I can relate to her a lot personally as well. The last part means that I am crushing on her. Though In My view she and Varian are perfect for each other. r/Cassarian https://villains.fandom.com/wiki/Cassandra_(Tangled) …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:19 PM
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https://youtu.be/sXzdm1cz1XU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:15 PM
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a return to the glory days of the nuclear family dynamic, politically we'd have high taxes on the wealthy and businesses, robust social safety nets, large scale infrastructure projects, high wages + pension and benefits. Exactly. Bernie Sanders ironically is the one most pushing for a return to 1950s values. Where one person out of high school could work 40 hours a week doing union manufacturing and support 4 kids in a good size house
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:12 PM
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Jr. seems to be doing just fine. Skyrocketing housing prices; really high inflation; stagnating wages; massive public debt. Complete failiure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:05 PM
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80-20 needs to be taken recursively; that is how Pareto-Efficiency work The "top" 20% of Men get 80% of the sex / love (measured qualitatively and quantitatively). Ratio of 4 But that is not the end. Apply the ratios again The "top" 4% get 64%. These are the Chads. Ratio of 16 Which means that 80th-96th percentile get 14%. Not doing too well either. Apply again The "top" 0.8%, i.e. the 1% we love talking about, get 51.2%. Ratio of 64. So the top 3% get 13%. So even the regular Chads only get 13%…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:56 AM
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Justin Trudeau is proof of how Women are more shallow than Men and will vote an incompetent unqualified Chad as leader. I am a Canadian and Women worship this Man despite him being a complete idiot who coasted through life on looks, name, family connections, and wealth. He never held a job for 40 years before using name to become MP, Liberal leader, and eventually PM. This guy is a master of woke virtue signaling yet wore Blackface more times than he can remember and all the woke SJW women just …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:38 AM
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To me it says "I rather twerk with other Women over Men who are not Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:25 AM
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Ah interesting. Why do you turn it off? I like having the themes; gives the page a personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:48 AM
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turn off the CSS What is CSS?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:38 AM
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I hate being single; but I guess it beats being in a bad relationship. Not that I see any brighter days ahead...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:08 AM
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I only use New to upload things I can't do on old. Then back to old. I like the classic forum look and the notifications on new are annoying; as is two clicks to see messages instead of one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:00 AM
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Old. New sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:58 AM
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If you are a Chad (or in this case Tyrone) you can sexually assault Women on camera and nothing happens (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_teEAoGc43Q) These women consented to twerking and hugging. Not having their butts slapped or grabbed. But Tyrone can sexually assault cause he is Tyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:18 AM
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How are you supposed to approach someone you know nothing about. I think it is because I am somewhat demi-sexual; but I cannot take interest in someone I know nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:17 AM
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Move back to socially enforced monogamy. End hook-up culture via socialization. Also started socializing the end of the male provider role. Have egalitarian life partnership based on LTR friendly traits rather than hook-up culture and Dual Mating on the part of Women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:15 AM
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My brothers ex wife is the female version of my terrible typical male exes. Sorry to hear that. What sort of common bad traits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:48 AM
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I find your anecdote quite interesting. I like the dynamic of two hardworking smart people finding each other, each with a opposite gender younger sibling being more laxed and having it easier. Class does seem to be the big differencer I agree when it comes to material well being; but when it comes to social well being I say gender is determinant (from my experience anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:14 PM
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Thanks! Hope so too; not luck yet..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:52 PM
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That's really something. Happy to hear that your lowest points you both found each other and can turn your lives around together. Always nice to see some wholesome news. Lifefuel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:40 PM
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Yes. I am an educated professional so I would like another educated professional. Since I am good with kids; marrying down to be the provider does not interest me since I would likely be better with kids than her. I tend be attracted to ambitious, successful, career women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:26 PM
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Ah. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:24 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:02 PM
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Yes. Yes. If I get a chance. Again, a lot easier in school. God I hate being a Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:43 PM
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alk to them like you do any other person but take interest in their lives. Yeah that's how I go about doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:35 PM
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How did it work re: HR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:34 PM
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NAMALT. I am definitely not. Rather have one stable perfect life partner than a harem of 1000 super model sex slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:28 PM
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If they really were traditional; they would live their values regardless of what Women do. They would stay celibate looking waiting for a tradwife; or find a tradwife overseas. Rather REdPill is first and foremost about being a PUA and whoring around - the opposite of traditional. Many of them have libertarian political views and ideology; but that is not part of Red Pill. You can be a teacher living in an urban downtown and sitll be Red Pill or MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:14 PM
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True. It takes time to find someone though which can involve sacrafice career
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:00 PM
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Cause they are sociopaths. This proves it. Donald Trump actually explained why. For Billionaires like himself it is not about the money; it is about winning. Money is how they keep score. Kinda how increaisng n-count is how Chad PUAs keep score
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:32 PM
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All right. Tell me how meet Women then and how to interact with them if I am not doing the right things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:29 PM
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They only consider Chads and refuse to consider the average Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:46 PM
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have this huge pool of people your own age with whom you have a ton in common Yep. Hence I regret not focusing more on dating in school. Then again, I did what I could and there were other issues that intervened
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:22 PM
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Exactly. Women are the employers; Men are the employees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:17 PM
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I agree. My biggest regret was not sepnding enoguh time in school seeking romance. I tried; but career and education was always my priority. Biggest mistake of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:08 PM
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Not my thing. Like I said, I am looking for a stable build a life together romance. Whcih is why I regret focusing on career over dating when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:07 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:05 PM
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That sounds so wholesome..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:05 PM
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psychiatric hospita What!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:04 PM
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Love this story!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:03 PM
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Interesting! Which sport?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:25 AM
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fter your high school graduation, usually 19, you should do a holiday abroad with your friends or partner. Interesting. Wishing you all the best!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:26 AM
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Just curious how many matches a week do you get? Almost none... Women I know say my profile is fine. I read that South Asian guys just get passed over so its probably that... I'm writing all this because I actually like you Thanks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:25 AM
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I figured. Hence I just wrote that phrase instead of attempting some stale joke myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:49 AM
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Cue chemistry jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:46 AM
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first you claim you don't care about a woman's employment. When did I say that Second minimal wage earners are your dating pool if you don't have social skills. Where did you get that BS assumption from. I am an educated professional who is good with kids with average looks. I consider that to bring a lot to the table. Min wage peopl are not my pool by any objective stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:45 AM
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Thanks!! Are you in London or Italy? Here in North America the standard min is Half your age + 7. So the min for me is 26 / 2 + 7 = 20. So she just met the min barrier. Edit: But people have different expectations. Many undegraduate students for example only want to date other undergrad students.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:44 AM
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No I get it. I am 26 and recently met a 20 year old in a hiking group. We had a such a good convo had a good vibe and she seemed into me. She told me where she worked (part time; she is in school). I visited her and she gave me free stuff there. However when I asked her out she rejected me. Maybe she I felt I was too old. Or she is not looking for a relationship right now. IDK. Just hurts. Talking about books while everyone is partying is totally the person I am. I really find your story to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:51 AM
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Good Point!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:48 AM
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Oh wow! That sounds so amazing and wholesome! I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:34 AM
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It shows their minium wage job. As an educated professional who brings a lot to the table at the very least I would like another professional. Unfortunately things are just rigged that much against Men now with 80-20 rule and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:32 AM
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Nice!! When did you start dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:31 AM
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College. From what I can tell, I don't see any point in trying to date after that unless you're a) extremely attractive or b) extremely well connected socially. Yesh I can see that. Like I said in other threads, I regret not focusing more on dating in college. But other stuff got in the way and I missed my chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:31 AM
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We met on tiktok Wait what? how
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:31 AM
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Don't worry; I only act like this anonymously online. I know how to act in person. But yeah, I am describing genuinely how I feel based on my lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:04 AM
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minimum wage earner profile info.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:01 AM
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Women can do the same. And what is the fun in that when you are looking for a life partner who loves you instead of some gold digging whore? I mean your gender gets showered with praise for existing; and don't need to even do anything. Marry up despite brining nothing to the table Grow a conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:59 PM
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That means that means there must be professional men that want to marry those types of women Yes. Because the male provider pressure and female hpyergamy on status and a rigged dating market leaving Men with no options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:52 PM
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she can adopt another grown ass child who just wants to use her for sex. Oh BS. I am well settled and want a loving partner. Most Women though rather bang Chad t least he can buy a young hot working class woman when he's ready to settle down. Yeah. Cause «partnering» wiht a whore who brings nothing to the table is so enticing. I have been looking for love since I was 20. Loose sex does not interest me. I bring a lot to the table (educated professional who is good with kids) but with dating dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:48 PM
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How do you show a gal you are looking for a relationship? Work towards establishing a relationship by spending time texting back and forth getting to know each other before deciding if she is the right gal to ask out on a date. Women won't even give your profile a chance unless you are a Chad or at least a Chadlite though. You get almsot no options; and like most Women you do not like your options because they bring no where near as much to the tabel as you do. (You are a professional who is goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:46 PM
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Exactly. She brings none of the female roles (good with kids, purity, domestic skills, etc.) but you still need to intitiate, pay the bills, court her, worship her, and allow her to live off of your labour while you were lonely in your 20s while she gave her best years away to bunch of frat guys she worshipped. (But of course Men are the shallow ones /s)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:40 PM
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Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:38 PM
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Wish I could have had love at 16 and married at 19...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:25 PM
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Intersting. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:16 PM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:16 PM
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No. We are lonely. And many times honry. But like i said loose sex does not interest me; I am honry for a love I do not have. And I am lonely. Very very lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:15 PM
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Intersting. Makes a lot of sense; smilliar ideals and all. I am really into politics and policy, but unfortunately do not fit neatly into any party
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:15 PM
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with the language is that even if things don’t work out there is literally no downside to learning another language That is true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:07 PM
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Her English was great but I learned Mandarin Chinese as an excuse to talk to her more. Nice!! What are you all studying??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:05 PM
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Yep. Women have no idea how little care we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:01 PM
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She asks me for money on occasion as well which many people might say is a red flag, It is. You are a stranger, but I care about you. You do not love her, I know you think you do. That is who all guys manipualted in the «friend zone» feel. You are simply attracted and infatuated with her. Big difference. Let her go; she is scamming you. Especially if meeting her is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:55 PM
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There's more to life than the ability to get casual sex Sure. Like I said, I am not even interested in sleeping around. I think I might be demi-sexual TBH But I have noticed that relationships are easier for Women. Men have to do all the work as job seekers; Women are the employres. Most guys do not even get called for an interview (i.e. the first date), which the job seeker has to pay for some reason. Because Women seem to prioritize looks over all else and seem more shallow than Men from what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:51 PM
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Bro you'll be fine. I hope easy to meet all sorts of people through work How do you workplace date anyway? Besides, most people in my office that I know off are already coupled up. As in de facto married unless you want to go at it more than one way with some hot shot prosecutor. NGL I have had that fantasy. I actually am working as an International TAx Analyst; not exactly practicing law at this point in my career; may again in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:48 PM
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Interesting. So what was the story from meeting to friends to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:46 PM
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I mean I definitely want love; like I said I won't sleep around even if I could. But meeting around people all the time sounds amazing while waiting for love. So I guess single Women do do that; making them never lonely. Life must really be nice for the 50% of the population born right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:41 PM
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Thanks!! Yeah; COVID ruined the second half of law school socializaiton wise for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:40 PM
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Well I have a brother and if my closest female friend and him start dating than I honestly I would be happy for them if they felt like they were a good match!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:38 PM
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So what is stopping Women from getting a dual mating date every Friday and Saturday night? We all know Women can just get a line of up offers waiting on every app. Now as per some corners of the internet, there is the view that Women just go on Tinder and find a Chad for that weekend-night. In fact, they can go around and find a different Chad every weekend-night. Even better, they can do a dual mating thing. Have a «beta» take them out, give them company, pay for their meal and outing; after wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:37 PM
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I happen to be good with numbers, so I took Econ with him. It was the very last core course we both needed to take, and we wound up in it together. Nice!! Yeah undergrad classes were a great way to meet people. If there were not other stuff going on, I definitely would have had a girfriend by end of undergrad. Can't change the past; can only teach the next generation what to do. Maybe I should return to school; but honestly I am sick of school
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:31 PM
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Interesting! Wishing you all the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:19 PM
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Well engineering students sterotypes. Honestly, equally ought to go both ways and Women need to start making the first move. What did your partner study?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:17 PM
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however it is creepy if they snatch them up the moment they turn 18. That feels suspicious. Well the age of consent where they were was 16 so if that was the intent she would have started at 16 and 24. ETA: What the story in your case? Just family friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:15 PM
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Both engineers at University of Houston?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:14 PM
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u/UserNamechecksOut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:13 PM
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Interesting. What was the journey from friends to dating like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:13 PM
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Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:12 PM
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, I was probably 5 and he was 10. We didn’t start dating until 19 and 24. I saw this post of a 28-year old woman marrying a 20-year old Man. They first met when they were 14 & 22 via common connections I think. So many said that because they met when he was 14 and she was an adult the relationship was wrong and horrible and all that, even though they did not date till 18 and 26 and she did not do anything to groom or entice him in the interim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:11 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:58 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:58 PM
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stay single Kind of lonely when you want a family and kids..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:39 PM
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Ah I see. Got to admire the effort LOL Personally, I prefer donating to charities and establish groups rather than to strangers online, as well to groups which aim to change the system (i am quite to the left economically). I have lent money low / 0 interest to friends though. Honestly though while job search is luck; it is something you can upgrade later in life. You need to work extra hard for sure; but upgrading can be done; I've seen it happen. Lot of my friends in law school were older than…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:37 PM
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need to take out my gf Well I think you raised another issue. Women have a one-sided defintion of equality and expect Men to foot the bills. Making it more important that ever to lock a partner in when you are students and poor so she expects less in the building stage. And if she has a one sided definition of equality, you have a better chance of finding someone else if you leave her. Anyway it really seems like we are both on a grad is greener on the other side situation. But seriously, I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:22 PM
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I know a guy who was a security guard. He always went with «Loss prevention officer» or something. Only worked like 10% of the time; the Women looked it up and saw it was just a fancy term for «security guard»
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:36 PM
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What she do job wise? Looks I don`t really care about; and character is important to me. But I am into smart, successful, ambitious career women and not wanting to marry down is just too important to me. I know people say I am shooting myself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:12 PM
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lazy loser. When Women stay at home; being SAH is seen as the hardest job in the world and unpaid labour. When Men stay at home; SAHs are lazy loosers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:09 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:05 PM
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Ok yeah. In that context I can see it. Common interests, not wanting to sleep around, wanting many kids. hardworking - yeah better grab those if you can. I meet the last three as well (well around 4 kids for me); but I guess I cannot see myself being a provider; it just doesn't sit well with me. Hence I cannot see myself marrying down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:04 PM
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Interesting. I mean of course everyone has preferences but I am curious as to what she saw in him over other offers I imagine she had. Did they just get along super well? Had a lot of common interets? Did she find his blue collar skills attractive? How did they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:37 PM
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Good point. Blue Collar Men tend to be super attractive / Chad like / conventionally strong due to nature of the job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:36 PM
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Disagree. Rather be a bit poorer and with someone than rich but lonely. I am in the 80th percentile career / success / welath wise I'd say compared to my peers but alone. If I focused on dating I may have been say 60th percentile but partnered. And that to me would be superior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:34 PM
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As someone with hindsight IDK I gues we have different hindsights. I'm 26, I imagine you are older? Also I have not slept around; never really appealed to me and kinda regret it. Like at least I would ahve had something, even if it is not the thing that appeals to me. Why do you advise against sleeping around? I wasn't a shut in; I had friends. But I regret not focusing enough on dating and instead on career and part-time work. I partook in the undergrad social secene; less so in Law School. To …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:32 PM
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assure you many silly gender norms are still in effect for us too Thanks for sharing; it is compleltey messed up. As a Man who likes kids and would rather take a more caregiving role, the attacks I get for it.... And try being a male babysitter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:27 PM
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Yeah I understood :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:50 PM
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label doesn't really need to exist. That is does is more a reflection of the times we live in That I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:33 PM
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As a Man who is good with kids and is into career Women (and also is a professional myself), please say yes!! Being a STAHD when the kids are young is my dream
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:25 PM
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gimpgirl. who?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:24 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:23 PM
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The systems in place are terrible, but they are not a personal attack on you. Ok I see what you are saying. Thanks! Well I only became more Red Pilled because of what I saw re: dating; but I don't see my self as a real REd Piller since I am not a PUA. And MRA /=/ Red Pill; Red Pill is about dating, MRA is about social and legal expecttations. I belive in abolishing gender roles for all; and I feel that feminisits only focus on one side and uphold obligations for Men (see FDS). I guess egalitaria…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:21 PM
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So how is it a better deal for Men? At least Women can get Men who stick around; and Men they are attracted to. Just at different times which they exploit via Dual mating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:17 PM
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No sexual attraction without emotional connection. Sleeping around does not interest me. I only fall for someone after building a rapport with them - looks won't do it. Which means I tend to fall for few people but when I do they are strong and rejeciton hurts hard because I have so few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:15 PM
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So Neither Men nor Women can get sexually attractive people of the opposte gender who will stick around, with the exception of a small minority of Men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah wow that is something. Especially the Tinder.... Regarding Point 1, I hate to break it you but gender probably played a role; seems like a mix of potential factors What are her argumetns on how she is opressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:13 PM
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I have several friends who earn a decent amount, are good with kids and don’t like sleeping around, yet they can’t find a guy. Set me up LOL Where do you spend your time? Work. I go on walks. Do outdoor activities (joined a club for it). Write a fanfic in the university library. Read. Do stuff at home. Visit the building pool. Attend political rallies. New in town (and province and QC is pretty much a seperate country from the Rest of Canada) so still settling in and getting a feel for it and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:07 PM
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that isn’t the only path, Except I want a family and kids MRA while also claiming you’re frustrated by having to meet patriarchal standards Yes. In that Men should be free form gender roles clear resentment you feel towards women I have the right to feel how I do re: privilege. But yes, I probably should accept that being single > bad relationship. Hard to be happy when the system is that rigged though and as you clearly show, Men do not get sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:03 PM
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before girls can use Tinder, dating is 100% different. True. I am a Zillenial and it seems we have it the worst for guys; Gen Z seems more equitable from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:00 PM
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That's so messed up. I'm really sorry to hear about the abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:59 PM
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What they have a very hard time finding are sexually attractive men who will stick around long term and have satisfying relationships. And Men who are not Chads can do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:58 PM
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Genetic Bifurcation of society? If people really end up mating wiht LooksMatch and MoneyMatch (i.e. BrainsMatch) wouldn't we end up with a genetically bifurcation of society? Chads and Staceys reproduce and produce Chaddier and Stacier offspring, exponentially becoming Chaddier and Stacier than the rest. In an era when looks matter above all else for dating, this is scary The upper middle class professionals end up reproducing together creating smarter and smarter kids exponentially becoming sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:57 PM
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Any demi-sexuals here? I think I may be one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:56 PM
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No. It shows Women and society have a one sided defintion of equality. Women have been freed from gender roles; Men are still upheld to them. Have sene this so many times in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:55 PM
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No. Dot not listen to this guy. You will be successful, lonely, and reduced to an ATM if you want love. Do not make the mistake I did. Focus on looks, socializing, and dating in school and lock up that successful Women to wife up before she has whored around. Sacrafice your grades, part-time job, and resume building for that. Income and career can be caught up. Univeristy is the only time where there is at least some parity in dating; use it to your advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:52 PM
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blunt What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:49 PM
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Interesting. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:48 PM
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Ok. here is how it worked: Alpha-Women: Private school bitches but smart with a Clinton-lique vibe and ruthlessness. Regular-Women: Smart, hardworking, but not that kind of morality Alpha-Men: Frat boys; Chads, etc. Regular-Men: Smart, hardworking, not Chad Essentially, for Women status was based on wealth and ruthlessness. For Men it was based on wealth, looks, and frat boy vibe So Men who were near the top of the social hierarchy (including some who were smart / of good character) did not mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:48 PM
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most people are working and there are less social settings. Harder to meet people organically. Exactly. You can go do a MeetUp or something; maybe meet someone? Go to a political rally, maybe meet someone like minded? Of course they have to be single, around your age, looking, and then the mutual attraction. Just a LOT harder. Men in school reading this; do not make the mistake I did. Focus on fiding love in school; you can catch up on income and career later
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:43 PM
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but was always volunteered to babysit. As a Man who loves kids I have the reverse problem. I am the de facto babysitte in many cases, but it takes a while to build rapport
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah. Like I said, I really relate. I don't want to be with a looser either but not bieng a Chad I kind of have to marry down and be a beta-buck, or marry down with a tradwife. None sound appealing to me, neither does being single. Like I said, as an educated professional who hasn't slept around I kinda want the same. I look average and don't really care about looks - average would do. Care more aobut skills, vibe, education, values, etc. Normally I think women compliaing about dating sound supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:41 PM
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The women were so dominant and complained that there weren't enough good men. Pretty much. Well the dominant alpha-women (think private school bitches but smart with a Clinton-lique vibe and ruthlessness) who ran the college did. The regular Women found good Men and people paired off as equals. But the dominant Women in socio-political order were rich and attractive, but also smart and hardworking. While dominant Men were typical social fratboys. The alpga woman in my year essentially had an att…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:38 PM
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Can you share more about your experience? Sure. Speaking first about undergrad. Men still had to initiate and make the first move. Men still had to pay for dates, centre the relationship around the woman, and all that. There was still a Stacey-Chad dynamic and hypergamy where the smart, attractive, alpha-women who ran the college would complain there was no one good as the alpha-men (i.e. the Chads) where hot but dumb and the smart men were not hot (and not as successful in College politics / so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:37 AM
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6’2 guy in NYC with a Wall Street job 6’2 white guy with a 6-pack in NYC with a Wall Street job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:03 AM
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for women if they don’t participate in hookup culture and sticks to their guns on hypergamy Interesting that I can relate. I don't want to marry down; I think Men should be freed from gender roles and I hate that I am expected to be a provider, especially since I am good with kids. I also have not slept around so I would like partner who is the same. Essentially, I am an educated professional who is good with kids and belives in saving himself. But I am expected, because of my gender, to be will…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:19 AM
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Chad (Tyrone?) lite potential in here. I do wonder... Chad is used as a stand in regardless of race. As is Stacey. But Black Chads are Tyrones for some reason. IDK, seems rooted in racial sterotypes against Black people, the idea that «Chad» is just a hot guy but «Tyrone» is a hot thug..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:32 AM
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Man with two degrees (Accounting and Law). Even in college dating was easier for Women than Men. But compared to post-graduation; the average Man has his best chance in college. It goes all down hill from there. I also grew up and went to school in a large city with a heavily educated population. I now live in a mid-size city with not too many professionals. And Women are more likely to be professionals than Men due to avaliblity of jobs for Men without degrees (not possible in my hometown) Ther…
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