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1

To be honest it is very difficult to give you honest feedback without knowing which European country, they can all be quite different.
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:39 PM
2

Aight, I won't lie that is short but plenty of dudes at that height find success in just being the best possible version of themselves. Don't use dating apps, in person approaching is better and if you do insist on OLD then don't post pics with your friends in them.
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:49 PM
8

Odds are you are no where as short as you think you are, just another victim of the manosphere
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:35 PM
2

Depends on the guy
/r/seduction17/11/25 03:08 PM
5

It's no different, in fact its easier to day game than night game, if you're so confident talking to chicks at a bar/club then how is the gym any harder?
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:33 PM
11

The guy who told you to crawl before you run was right, you don't know how to land a single chick at the gym nor cold approach yet you want to build a rotation. Stop thinking everything is a compliance test and just go say hi.
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:26 PM
5

You're ngmi You aren't magically a hot commodity in Japan just because you're white lmfao and you're entire mindset reeks of insecurity. If you're looking for genuine advice then you need to focus on the fundamentals. I don't think you realize how dumb you sound - "I want to pick girls up at a club (or outside if you're being pedantic) but I don't care for any of the activities one does at a club"
/r/seduction12/11/25 09:07 PM
2

post history is wild, created today just to post about being short and sad
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:25 AM
1

I’m happily married, been in the game longer than you. Your mindset isn’t gonna lead anywhere, neither will the virtue signaling. You’re just a coach trying to get clients, this is an ad.
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:12 AM
2

This shit is stupidity, overthinking your interactions with women to this degree isn’t healthy. Odds are she was making dirty talk when she said “you can out anything inside of me” and all you needed to do was reciprocate and talk about how hot she was and how hard she made you while slipping a finger in or two. Instead of foreplay you whipped your dick out and tried to fuck her without a condom. None of your takeaways made sense, you didn’t learn anything
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:53 AM
4

Are you coming on here to post about how you got drugged at a dinner with some random chick you met online? Stealing Kidneys must be easier than ever.
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:54 PM
1

Not really, you just grew up during the OLD era. I read the rest of your post, if you aren't willing to put the work into meeting women irl then you can't expect different results.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:21 PM
1

Just wanna say, a lot of people lie about how they meet especially if they met on a dating app because it isn't a "meetcute" story. So I wouldn't place so much stock into what other people say about how they met their partner.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:07 PM
1

"nobody moves to Seattle for the girls" took me tf out lmao
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:35 AM
1

Don't go on another date with this guy, frankly he sounds like a loser lmfao
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:07 PM
7

"only" lmfao
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:50 PM
5

He’s presumably Indian, a country full of a billion people, so at least 500 million women and he’s tryna fuck his aunt 💀
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:16 AM
24

This kids gonna get killed for doing this stupid shit lmfao
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:10 AM
2

He's looking for a milf though
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:13 PM
8

Malaysia's dominant religion is Islam and they are not progressive in any sense. I doubt there are milfs readily available or willing to cheat so OP is cooked
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:54 PM
1

Very succinctly put, this is definitely what he's doing wrong.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:29 PM
3

A lot of these guys struggle with women so I get it, it builds resentment but that sort of attitude will get them nowhere
/r/seduction05/09/25 02:44 AM
15

I agree with the sentiment but come on now, it is crazy to say "women rarely spend nights alone". Plenty of them do, I know plenty who currently are. That isn't to say they couldn't easily find someone to invite into bed if they wanted to. Some of you guys on this subreddit do a really bad job of not generalizing all women, they aren't all whores.
/r/seduction04/09/25 05:43 PM
190

Classic case of thinking the grass is greener lol For every time you feel that way there is another guy who wishes he had what you did.
/r/seduction03/09/25 08:22 PM
25

^ wild reply lmfao (username checks out)
/r/seduction01/09/25 08:08 PM
18

Like dude these guys are tryna game women with partners... you can't be that desperate for pussy. I'd rather not get killed over a girl.
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:23 PM
3

They are not showing interest in you buddy lmao, especially if they already have a partner. This is some dumbass mentality
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:38 PM
11

Use the kino ladder, but you're already golden if she's back at your place
/r/seduction27/08/25 10:40 PM
20

oneitis
/r/seduction27/08/25 10:32 PM
96

Over before it even started, rip
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:37 PM
5

Bro women say shit all the time because they are emotional creatures, she may have been feeling you in the moment but you mistake this for her having a deeper connection with you, which she does not. Her boyfriend, ex, whatever will always be more important to her than you.
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:53 PM
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If she's gonna cheat on her boyfriend with you then she's gonna cheat on you when she finds the next one. This girl is a walking red flag lol And you don't like her nor the intimacy, you just haven't felt it before. I can tell you are young and this is the first if not one of the first women you've ever been with.
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:46 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction26/08/25 03:07 AM
2

There's not enough info here to help you, but I'd just invite her out to do something fun and casual preferably in the evening and near your place. For example, a cool wine bar downtown a few blocks from your apt
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:51 PM
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It’s the way it reads, it has the cadence
/r/seduction20/08/25 02:52 PM
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This is definitely AI
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:09 PM
3

No that's just physically attractive. However being in shape doesn't help.
/r/seduction20/07/25 01:10 AM
3

As long as you are attractive in all facets your race does not matter. However that isn't to say that some women won't be attracted to you because of your race, but I've found attractiveness trumps all. It won't be held against you if you are a catch.
/r/seduction20/07/25 01:01 AM
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Yeah, I think what you have to keep in mind is you never know how far the other person is willing to go. You might think all you're gonna do is shove him around or exchange a few punches and they might want to seriously fuck you up, kick your head in while you're down, etc. As far as I'm concerned its never worth it and it's certainly not worth it over a woman that's not mine.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:12 PM
3

Good god, generational fumble. Sometimes you gotta know when to keep your mouth shut. Live and learn tho
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:30 AM
1

bruh lmfaoo OP when a girl is into you, it doesn't matter how often you see her
/r/seduction27/06/25 10:37 PM
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I also really don't think they have to be abysmal, just know your audience, target with precision. Everyone is craving connection these days.
/r/seduction26/06/25 01:39 PM
14

OP is cooked, better to just let this one go buddy and play the field She’s not into you based on what I’m reading, you needed to shoot when you had your chance
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:27 PM
1

Only younger girls play games like that, nothing to do with you (and you aren't behind either)
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:31 PM
1

Damn, how old are you bro
/r/seduction20/06/25 09:20 PM
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Only one way to find out how much she likes you
/r/seduction20/06/25 08:12 PM
8

Shooters shoot, there are no rules for a girl who likes you.
/r/seduction20/06/25 07:54 PM
3

I think the answer is yes and she’s clearly comfortable with you, ask her out to go somewhere where physical escalation is easy such as mini golf then drinks and just try to seduce her. You’ll have your answer one way or the other. As to what the original commentator said, yes it’s true, you can’t ask outright otherwise she’ll be drier than the Sahara desert (learned that lesson the hard way a few times when I was younger)
/r/seduction10/06/25 09:26 PM
1

You need to know where to look, but it's difficult if you are chasing girls who like status games (yachts, tables, etc.) But if you have the money... then fun?
/r/seduction03/06/25 05:16 PM
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Honestly, I rarely play those games, just shoot her a text wednesday/thursday and set something up. If a girl is into you its easy mode, you don't have to be super granular about when you text her, double texting, etc.
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:37 AM
9

TBH, coming off a 3 year relationship, I presume this girl is just looking to have fun. Invite her out somewhere close to your house, during the day, close to the evening (maybe like a wine bar?). Keep it friendly and playful then try to pull her back to your place.
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:08 AM
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He lives in Asia, that shifts the calculus, also there aren't any fatties out there
/r/seduction23/05/25 02:06 PM
5

This website is a literal piece of shit, what the fuck did you use to build it
/r/seduction18/05/25 10:49 PM
12

It's a preference thing, but have you just tried asking or making the motions for it? Sometimes you just gotta direct them, I'll say something like "get on your knees"
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:37 PM
12

Clear cut case of hangxiety
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:35 PM
1

This, if OP sent that text word for word, there is no indication he wanted to hang out with her one on one. You can't be vague when asking a girl out on a date OP, yes there is a chance you get rejected but you gotta put yourself out there.
/r/seduction13/04/25 05:18 PM
5

and bro would not make the list either lol
/r/seduction08/04/25 03:57 AM
1

+1 for SD
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:55 AM
1

What sort of prompts were you using with GPT?
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:20 PM
9

and if she asks just play it off, "I'm not that easy" or some shit like that
/r/seduction18/03/25 10:46 PM
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You're fucked if you keep placing her on a pedestal even if you secure the second date. Just ask her out with a time and place, and prioritize escalating physically. I wouldn't even address the side hug if I were you
/r/seduction18/03/25 10:45 PM
7

this response tells me everything I need to know: you're too invested EDIT: further down, he mentions she's a nurse, ya go for it
/r/seduction24/02/25 06:22 PM
12

ig doesn't mean shit
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:28 PM
1

Hey man some girls like that shit
/r/seduction28/01/25 10:18 PM
1

You aren't trying hard enough
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:21 AM
1

He doesn't know how to, as long as it is done tactfully its no big deal
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:24 AM
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The last part is messed up, don't fuck around with a married woman you don't need that risk in your life
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:22 AM
2

Golddiggers and babytrappers are not an issue for the vast majority of men lol
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:32 AM
1

I think mute is the best play but it all goes back to self control
/r/seduction24/01/25 10:44 PM
4

Obsession with one girl
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:56 PM
23

Fair enough, as that guy at one point it definitely can lead to oneitis in which case you gotta evaluate your situation but I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Don't block, just unfollow and focus on living your life. Some of these guys try to "weaponize" a block and it doesn't work and just makes you look pathetic lol
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:51 PM
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I agree a woman shouldn't have so much emotional control over you that you need to block them. I've broken up with plenty of girls and still kept them on my socials ,and like you sai,d sometimes they come back
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:44 PM
8

Yup, the power of creating interactions for your own amusement. You unconsciously maintained a strong frame by doubling down on the death angle and it worked out. Smooth bro!
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:00 AM
3

Bro you gotta chill the fuck out, I would think you are in highschool by the way you're acting lmfao I think it rings out then goes to VM
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:20 PM
2

To me, the best text game is simply setting logistics; I acknowledge your situation is a bit more nuanced but is this really a woman you want to date? btw I have my focus mode sharing turned off, I don't want people to know what state my iPhone is in lol
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:03 PM
5

This is fucking stupid, just be busy enough to not give a shit about stuff like this
/r/seduction19/01/25 05:50 PM
17

People lie on the internet bro, trust me I think most dudes here would trade the casual relationships/hookups for an authentic connection with a woman. I know I would
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:47 AM
17

but also you snooze you lose, lifes too short not to approach a girl you find attractive
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:16 AM
8

You've got an insane post-history god damn lol. She's cheated on you before? This does not sound like a good woman bro
/r/seduction18/01/25 05:00 AM
12

Way above Reddit's paygrade dawg. You got two options - talk to YOUR wife or suggest couple's therapy.
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:58 AM
0

Keep playing Elden Ring, great "hobby" you got there
/r/seduction15/01/25 06:36 PM
2

I do all of those things, so speak for yourself. If you want to be unexceptional, then expect unexceptional results
/r/seduction15/01/25 06:13 PM
5

Nothing you said is mutually exclusive; you can have hobbies and be in the gym. Maybe bulking wasn't for you but I'm not talking about a powerlifter build, just be aesthetic which you can easily achieve by being in the gym 4x a week for 45-60 mins.
/r/seduction15/01/25 02:14 AM
21

15-20% body fat and visible muscles Also most guys aren’t in shape 🤣 which is good for you! Less competition
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:50 PM
14

Agreed, I’m speaking from experience lol. I get in the gym 4x a week, run 3x, and do BJJ. Did wonders for my confidence and life is so good when women show interest in you (like excuses to touch you)
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:43 PM
53

in shape/gym routine This is a big part of it; you would be surprised how many women open up to you and outright show interest or make it easy for you to approach them when you are in shape. I hate to say it, but you are unequivocally treated better as a man when you are in shape (even by other men). It is a big reason I urge all newbies here to get into the gym; it will make every facet of your life better!
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:36 PM
23

I think you have a very black and white idea of what "cool" and not "cool": people are, I would own it, if you're only meeting girls through OLD then you're doing yourself a disservice. Try approaching at those cultural events, maybe church events, art gallery events, etc. Also, invite the girls (in person or OLD) out to cool things you're doing, and give them a glimpse into your life.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:37 PM
13

This, only way you fuck this up OP is if you let your insecurity get the better of you. She likes you for who you are and that’s fucking AWESOME. OWN IT :)
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:01 AM
2

I thought the underwear line was kinda good, I’m gonna use it
/r/seduction11/01/25 12:16 AM
2

No, I'm not. You didn't even read my comment. Approaching a woman at the grocery store is not a "warm approach". Guys here are free to draw their own conclusions based off my comment and your post but I think it is bad advice.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:29 PM
12

overthinking
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:23 PM
1

That last line is a banger, saving it 💪🏼
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:37 PM
1

Yes, I leave
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:36 PM
3

Listen, if you want to apologize then do so, I shared my two cents. Nothing wrong with ejecting a bad set, it’s worse to stick it through, that’s where so many guys go wrong. You can tell if a girl is receptive within the first minute Also I’m not taking advice from someone who teaches people how to start an “adult webcam studio”
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:34 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:33 PM
1

lol bro I’ve had approaches crash and burn, just say have a good day and move on
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:27 PM
2

It’s all situational but I think it’s better for guys to strive to not have awkward interactions instead of using apologies as a crutch
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:26 PM
2

I still don’t think you should apologize, always maintain your frame. Do you apologize when you’ve done nothing wrong?
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:22 PM
17

This is dogshit advice lol Get better at approaching to the point where it isn't awkward. I approached a girl at a grocery store yesterday and it wasn't awkward at all. I opened her by asking a question about what kind of bread she liked. Apologizing frames the interaction as negative and she's going to respond accordingly.
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:06 PM
4

It's not a classy move, but if you're going to do it, then your approach is acceptable. Playing tourist always works.
/r/seduction09/01/25 02:28 PM
2

Haunted ghost tours and conventions are a great idea, definitely pays to be creative in this game
/r/seduction08/01/25 07:15 PM
2

Yeah, I know, and not drinking does make it difficult to date, but that's something I'm looking for in a partner anyway. I don't mind casual social drinking, but someone who likes to get drunk often isn't going to be the mother of my children, lol. I didn't mention it earlier, but I find arcades to be a great first-date activity and relatively inexpensive, and I like having a bit of a competitive element. It allows you to be physical and flirt.
/r/seduction08/01/25 07:08 PM
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Usually that just means she found someone else and had a better prospect, I would say plant the seed for an activity to do on a second date during your first. That's an opportunity for you to talk to her and get to know her as a person. My underlying message for OP is to not lead with his wallet or all you're gonna get are women who are into you for that. Also yes, it's an investment, I do well for myself. If it's a girl I really want to make an impression on then I'll take her out to a nice din…
/r/seduction08/01/25 07:05 PM
2

Fair, if I'm looking to hook up then a drink at the bar would be better (but also I don't' drink anymore) and I'm trying to be intentional with the women I hookup/date in 2025. Coffee is a good filter for me, but like anything it will turn some girls off
/r/seduction08/01/25 07:03 PM
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If she thinks it’s low effort, she’s not for me
/r/seduction08/01/25 06:53 PM
26

bro, FIRE idea, will be stealing it
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:33 PM
98

yes and yes My rule - if I invite her out, then I pay. But I'm not taking them out to dinner, just coffee
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:21 PM
8

Nah, it'll work if she's feeling you; the truth is you're the man, and generally, the onus to make a move is on you. If she's watching PORN with you, then she's already comfortable with you, man. Frankly, anything will work.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:17 PM
21

"We watch porn together" I got an easy one for you bro, next time you're both intrigued by a video say "We should try that" 😂
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:03 PM
8

Women are weird, they feel in the moment. Sometimes they just have adverse feelings and act on them, from what you've shared it sounds like you did everything right. Alas - "You win some and you lose some". Just operate from an abundance mindset and you're chilling.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:30 PM
9

Sometimes, she's just not going to feel it. We would need more details to tell you where it went wrong.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:20 PM
-9

You’re severely autistic if you need to break down financial dynamics in dating this much. Just take her out for coffee and a walk on the first date and pay for it unless she offers to, from there you can decide how to play it for the next few dates I’m a simple man, if I am taking you out then I’ll pay
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:36 PM
2

You don’t do anything, move on. She’ll either come to you or she won’t, the sooner you accept it the sooner you move on to better things (and a new girl)
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:51 AM
101

I think these tools aren’t a good substitute for building up game. Being witty is important, offloading it to AI is only going to result in not honing your skills. Plus it’s authentic to you and women will pick up on that in person
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:05 AM
26

Day game at Target to find the 20 yr old baddies
/r/seduction03/01/25 03:48 AM
1

Yeah following, drop some book recommendations bro
/r/seduction01/01/25 10:20 PM
7

Ah you sound young, live and learn brotha
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:23 PM
22

What else is she supposed to say in that situation, you're a chronic over thinker
/r/seduction18/12/24 08:16 PM
23

No
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:26 PM
29

And that's why OLD should just be one of many avenues you use to meet women doubly so if you are not in the top 10th percentile for profiles. The 8 that would never give you the time of day on Tinder will in real life if you have good game.
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:15 PM
7

The last sentence: I wanna keep my self respect and confidence while at the same time seeing if it can turn into something again. Bro is cooked. You don't, man, you don't get her back and preserve your self-respect. If you want to just fuck her and still play the field, then I get it.
/r/seduction06/12/24 05:44 PM
3

Insanely cynical
/r/seduction29/11/24 09:38 PM
2

Damn, the YouTube videos have been scrubbed, this guy seems like a real POS
/r/seduction14/11/24 06:10 PM
4

Not a bad move (people reconnect all the time) but if she doesn’t give you an enthusiastic response then move on
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:30 PM
2

Is this thinly veiled self-promo
/r/seduction13/11/24 06:10 PM
6

It's in the eyes, it's always in the eyes
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:41 PM
6

Most women I know download dating apps when they feel lonely and delete it. The toxic ones like to download them with friends and judge the men on there. OLD should be one of many avenues you use to meet women. If it's the only way you do then you're putting control of your dating life in the hands of some Silicon Valley tech bro working on the algorithm and I shudder at the thought.
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:29 PM
8

That you’re overthinking this interaction
/r/seduction10/11/24 12:30 PM
1

🤣🤣
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:30 PM
10

Bros tryna get laid off this subreddit lmfao
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:28 PM
2

Use google, find a place, suggest a date and time. The more you text her without making a move the more likely you are to lose her interest. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/11/24 10:05 PM
6

Ah look at her comment history, seems like she’s depressed af
/r/seduction07/11/24 09:24 PM
11

Without pics no one can answer this (but I think you are well aware of what has to change) due to this one line - “guys approach me but not the guys I like”. That means you aren’t attractive enough for the men you seek.
/r/seduction07/11/24 09:22 PM
1

Don't openly share your career goals and show you are working towards something. Frankly, if you are trying to leverage your ambition to improve your dating life, you have the wrong idea of ambition. (I can tell you that wanting to be a manager isn't for someone who would be attracted to that quality).
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:37 PM
1

Just look up the kino ladder
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:08 PM
1

Certainly would not refer to them as females if you want to change that lol
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:08 PM
1

Look at her lips then look in her eyes, you’ll know if you can kiss her
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:06 PM
1

You swept her off her feet? What do you mean by picked her up. My 0.02 women don’t let you do that unless they’re into you and feel safe with you
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:00 PM
0

Nah, the story sounds plausible
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:42 PM
1

bro if you picked her up this girl is absolutely down to jump your bones
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:43 PM
9

100%, messing with taken women is not worth it.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:12 PM
1

Shane Gillis said belly to belly is best
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:11 PM
2

You guys will feel closer? You're overthinking this. This is normal relationship progression, and sex is an intimate act that will increase your intimacy.
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:27 PM
20

Women get way more attached after sex.
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:22 PM
2

It's almost as if you all don't want to be happy.
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:05 PM
1

If you have to ask this, you're on the spectrum.
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:04 PM
1

OP, read this comment, great insight 😂
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:55 AM
3

I’m in tech too so super obvious to me :) good luck!
/r/seduction01/11/24 12:02 PM
1

Thank you! I agree, hope he takes it to heart
/r/seduction01/11/24 03:08 AM
3

There are no leagues, and you can "punch above your weight class." Let me guess: You're an engineer. You just seem to lack some edge, a little too cookie-cutter. You have to exude confidence and own the room. I know it won't be easy, but outwork the self-doubt and try to have as much congruence between your thoughts, wants, and actions as possible (that's where true confidence is built). You aren't a bad-looking guy; I would wager you are still just a bit shy. Also, be outcome-dependent; not eve…
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:25 PM
4

Honest answer - share a picture with us because you may not look as good as you think... Also, women who are 9/10s care about more than just looks; those girls get potential suitors every day, so you have to be extraordinary in her eyes.
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:00 PM
-1

Also, I never post women to my Instagram unless they are genuinely my friends; I don't think most women appreciate that look.
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:05 AM
5

She meant nothing and you’re reading into it too much.
/r/seduction29/10/24 04:27 PM
14

What the fuck kinda post is this, there’s nothing you can do
/r/seduction25/10/24 10:48 PM
6

I like this take but I think most men should not settle for a woman who had a "wild phase", she's going to walk all over you if all you are to her is a provider.
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:47 AM
44

I presume you're young? I think there is a severe lack of emotional availability in dating right now but you just have to play the game. I wouldn't invest too heavily unless you're exclusive and/or she is your girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:22 AM
48

You cannot communicate intent without risking your friendship.
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:50 PM
44

This or she didn't feel the same way you did. One of the best things you can learn about the game is recognizing your window of opportunity with a woman.
/r/seduction18/10/24 12:31 AM
7

Are you kidding me, bruh It's in the name; if she's a hoe, shoot your shot. If she finds you attractive, she'll be down.
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:36 PM
2

😂
/r/seduction18/09/24 05:00 PM
6

gotchu bro, here’s a summary in five sentences (GPT-4o): I went to a mall to practice social approaches and noticed I was rusty after not going out for a few weeks, struggling to make approaches at first. Eventually, I approached a girl and we had a casual conversation as we walked together, during which I tried to balance keeping the conversation light and progressing towards a potential instant date. While I felt my conversational skills and approach lacked energy and spontaneity, I managed to…
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:44 PM
1

I am the liquor
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:35 PM
92

Women in both cities will be attractive; LA is great if you have clout. Objectively, I hear NYC is more accessible because there are more women than men.
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:20 PM
-2

Short answer: no, long answer: no
/r/seduction29/07/24 05:12 PM
64

Let her reschedule, you can move on
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:03 PM
2

I suggest couples therapy with someone who focuses on intimacy. That being said, I've always heard that if you treat your marriage like you're still dating (spontaneity, fun dates, etc.) it pays dividends.
/r/seduction20/07/24 07:13 PM
51

He's gonna fumble if he isn't more direct. This girl agreed to a date. Just call her, say let's get coffee here and when, then she says yes or no.
/r/seduction20/07/24 06:07 PM
7

Not only that, he made a new friend to go out with in the future who has similar intentions! This is what game is about, forming connections.
/r/seduction15/07/24 10:55 PM
1

You’re fine, have fun
/r/seduction12/06/24 10:04 PM
1

No I don’t but just be a fun guy and put out positive vibes. Do you have an Indian accent?
/r/seduction12/06/24 10:00 PM
1

Nothing to do with luck
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:40 PM
1

Great, there’s something about you that gives an off vibe then. Sorry, I’m Indian too, never faced the issue you’re having.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:13 PM
1

Wrong, clearly you’ve never been. Stop larping on the internet.
/r/seduction12/06/24 11:58 AM
2

Right but if you lead with money it brings in gold diggers. The second half of my comment said use your money to become a better man so women see that first and you’ll have better results. I’m pointing out you’re not giving any different advice.
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:08 PM
2

You said what I said with more words, congrats?
/r/seduction11/06/24 09:39 PM
1

fwb (if you think you can keep your emotions in check) or eject
/r/seduction11/06/24 05:13 PM
51

Inner game: I sometimes struggle with this, but you should not feel weird for letting a woman know you are attracted to her. It's natural!
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:08 PM
37

Money != Women (Unless you want a golddigger) Money however will give you the opportunities to invest in yourself, grow, and meet more women.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:38 PM
9

Ya, women say a lot of things.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:18 PM
3

Not trying to presume your situation BUT I think you should just let this one go if you're going to be gone for longer than a month. Maintaining attraction while away is complex, and I guarantee the sex wasn't so good that she won't fuck someone else.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:16 PM
8

One of those was definitely not PG-rated 😂
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:49 AM
11

Facebook Dating. Honestly though go to a local townie bar, you will see plenty of cougars.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:02 PM
0

If you are hot enough, race isn't a barrier, so work on getting to that point where she looks at you and goes this guy is hot and not what race you are.
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:55 PM
1

Cold approach = Be in shape, have good fashion sense, carry yourself well, be a good conversationalist, have good vibes. Your race doesn't fucking matter.
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:34 PM
3

You’re slow, he has to escalate indirectly, he could say that to her after they fuck, but I definitely wouldn’t say it before lmao
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:48 AM
4

This is cheesy. Definitely don’t say that.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:22 PM
22

If she doesn't follow you back, she doesn't want you. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:31 PM
4

I guarantee your "personal" reason is retarded. Look for IOIs and use physical touch.
/r/seduction26/05/24 02:55 PM
9

By asking her on a date.
/r/seduction26/05/24 02:54 PM
3

https://youtu.be/kav7tifmyTg?si=0riq_aBlwHH7ABhv
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:33 PM
6

Clubs = non-verbal communication. You're seducing with your body, not your mind. That being said, I'm not very successful when I go out clubbing, so the two changes I am making to improve in that regard are improving my aesthetics (more gym, cardio, and cutting) and learning some dance moves. If you have a table, it can be easier to pull a girl back to your table to chat.
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:17 PM
52

You got the date, that's all the hype you need bro :) Chin up and have fun!
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:56 PM
1

Nah I'd be wary of that.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:56 PM
2

Strike a balance, no need to dive in the other direction, you still have to create opportunities.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:49 PM
2

Just don't talk to her everyday and I recommend a phone call over texting when you do. When she's in town, text for logistics. Someone commented below that she was not attracted to you and that could've also been the case. You might've not lined up with what she was envisioning, FaceTime's can help weed that out earlier. Just lead a life that is interesting and fulfilling for you, texting women who aren't your fuck buddies or significant other is overrated. If you're genuinely occupied you won't…
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:34 PM
14

You over invested, don't talk everyday before you've gone on your first date. She knew too much about you, there was no mystery. Also might just be me but I would never talk to a girl about my 401K 😂
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:26 PM
69

Women who self-harm to prove they love you are not healthy partners and she will cheat on you again given the chance.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:55 PM
195

This is going to sound harsh but you are retarted if you get back together with this chick. You sound young and you have so much life to live, don't waste it with her.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:50 PM
13

That's where you're wrong. If you need to convince her to talk to you, then you won't close. Trust me rejection is part of the process and when you meet a girl who reciprocates your advances then the entire process is smoother. Your job is to determine if she's interested and move from there. You can't force her to be... You could try? But that's advanced game I'm not good at. Someone more seasoned might have insight.
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:47 AM
21

Lmao, bro, don't buy a woman a drink because she asks, and you don't have to commit to an open. If she doesn't seem interested just move on.
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:43 AM
5

Why are you so desperate to see a single mom
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:52 PM
33

You're not going to want to hear this but... you say nothing and move on.
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:47 PM
6

Unhinged
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:59 PM
39

Then just ignore her. By blocking her, you are reacting in a negative way.
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:25 PM
68

If her not responding to you means you think you need to block her, then by definition, you are too needy. You may have a chance if you don't block her, you 100% don't have a chance if you do.
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:11 PM
5

Bros a professional man whore 😂
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:08 PM
17

Trust me, the American housing situation is also fucked up though most places in the world aren't as bad as Toronto. I would consider moving if you have the means to do so. Is there any reason you won't consider living with roommates?
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:40 PM
52

You don't. Either date for an LTR (then she usually won't care) or get your own place before trying to date. No offense at 29, it will be very difficult for women to look past it unless she's very traditional and family-oriented. Hotel rooms could be an interim option.
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:30 PM
20

I had a stroke reading this.
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:37 PM
3

I think you needed to escalate if she initiated the kiss.
/r/seduction07/03/24 07:40 PM
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