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| 5 | How do you handle friends pulling a girl away from you?Never chase.. if she's feeling you like that she will come back. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:44 AM |
| 6 | Got the let's be friends text...I usually just say "yeah thats fine" then go back to my regular scheduled programming. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I disagree.. however its best to not rely on them but use them in addition to what you said. Gives you more opportunity to meet someone. Also you wont get lumped in with desperate apes if you take the time to make your profile standout, just as if you would make yourself stand out from the rest of the desperate apes in public. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | I cant text girls for my lifeFor me texting is for logistics and only when it comes to women. Save the small talk and chit chat for in person. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What exercises can I do to improve my improv game?The book “Improv(e) Your Conversations” might just be the thing you need. Highly recommend giving it a read 🤘🏽 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | This sub is awesome! I like how the emphasis is on self improvement and having better things to do than pick up. This makes you less desperate, and you don't commit the mistake of making being a 'player' your identity. If your self-esteem comes from how well you do with opposite sex, you do worse.I agree men holding men accountable and helping them in the right direction is what we need more of. Main reason I love this sub! | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Pick one: Men, would you rather be physically strong/mentally weak... mentally strong/physically weak, or Average/average... Ladies, which would you prefer in a romantic partner?This is kind of a weird post because no matter what part of this you are you can easily improve the areas you are weakest in. There is no which would you rather be if you aren’t constantly trying to grow and improve in all aspects you probably won’t be worth any woman’s time. Just don’t be stagnant! | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 04:23 AM |
| 0 | I tried kissing a girl and got rejected!!Learn to read body language better my friend it comes with time but it’ll be a bit easier to tell if the kiss is wanted or not and always get consent my friend! 🤘🏽 | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | If she doesn't respond to me, should I try another way to contact her?Dude leave that woman alone she’s not interested and you’re part of a closed chapter in her life. Move on man there’s too many other woman out there to be stuck on one that isn’t interested. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 11:47 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with a hot girl who considers herself a "fuckboy"?Don’t orbit around her is a definite. If she leaves you messages get back whenever you feel it’s worth your time. If she has guys always obsessing and falling for her it will drive her bonkers if you are doing everything in the opposite of what she’s used to. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How has your dating life improved from your early 20s to your late 20s?I’m 29 I’ve dated women closer to my age, but I’ve hooked up with women 21 up to 34 or so. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Yo this crazyKeeping going man it seems to me you’re getting over an obstacle. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I envy guys with gfs/women in their livesWork on yourself in being the best version of yourself you can be. For me I started working out and lifting weights. I made sure I was very well groomed and dressed nice. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I bought No More Mr Nice GuyIt’s a great read! I bought it myself awhile ago and implemented what I learned from it and it’s helped me so much! | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | At 37 time to be called wife. I want a mega rich Chad with a castle. Here is my laundry list of standards. And he must want a wife to cherish.Lol is this a dating profile or a Job opening? Jesus Christ 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/10/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Don't dwell on rejectionsIt takes some time man! You got to get that thick skin. I’ve been rejected in some of the most disrespectful ways possible and let me tell you that stings bad lol. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How has your dating life improved from your early 20s to your late 20s?My dating life improved more in my late 20’s. I was way more confident and cared a whole lot less of what people thought of me. My best advice is to go out and experience the things you want to experience and not stress dating so much. The less I stressed trying to date someone the more dates I had in the long run. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:41 AM |
| 7 | Don't dwell on rejectionsI never take a rejection personal. Life is too short to be hung up on some who is not interested when there is someone better who will be. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approachHaha! Glad to see I’m not the only one that does this! | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 07:46 AM |
| 2 | No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approachThe book helped me completely change my attitude and boosted my confidence when I learned to not give a fuck 🤘🏽 | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Got a date, how to keep the conversation the days before?No problem man! Glad I could be of help! Good luck on your date! 🤘🏽 | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approach“No More Mr. Nice Guy” “Conversation Casanova” “The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck” All great books that helped me so much! | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Help here please( 17M)"Can you point me in the direction of the nearest Starbucks?" Works everytime lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Texting game... need some inputs from you experts...I don't think it should be that deep for you bro. As a man it's usually expected for you to make first contact but the fact that she wants to kick it with you and she doesn't leave you on read is a good sign that she's into you. You are doing fine my dude! | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Playbook to Becoming a PlayboyNo More Mr.Nice Guy should be a mandatory read that book is extremely helpful. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Got a date, how to keep the conversation the days before?I feel the best thing to do is save the conversation for the date. It's much more meaningful in person and also you wont have already exhausted all the things you could talk about during your date. What worked well for me was to only contact her on the details of the date. For example: Me: "Hey! For Saturday I know a great Cuban restaurant called ________ with some great Mojitos how does that sound?" It shows that you are thinking about her and that you are making an effort to plan out your date… | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approachIn all honesty bro I think you have something subconsciously keeping you from talking women. It happens to the best of us man and its something you are going to have to practice to help get yourself through. I have found what worked for me and maybe it'll work for you is the easiest way for me to approach women and strike up conversation is to treat them exactly like one of my friends. I know it sounds a little weird but just approaching her like she's someone you are already familiar with can b… | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Approached a woman. She said she had a boyfriend but thanked me for asking her number?This guy knows exactly what’s up! | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Chasing Chad - Life's a struggle when you're a 4 whose type is a 10She wants a 10 while she’s built like a thumb 🙃 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/10/19 01:03 AM |
| 7 | How To Get Women To Chase YouI find what works best for me is to just put everyone on the same playing field. Just be social and treat everyone like a regular person and not stress about trying to get a woman to chase you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Chasing chad: I don't think it gets any more obvious than this..Must be bring loads to the table for me. While I bring nothing but a kid and possibly a bag of shit weed. Sounds like we got a winner here folks. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Shall I respond with "I'm gonna sit and cry all my weekend locking up in my room" for a girl who said she is busy for a date requestThat’s too much. Usually I don’t reply at all or just say something like “It’s all good I understand” and then just move on. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 09:05 AM |
| 26 | How to flirt subtly to see if they’re into you without being straight forward?What I like to do is treat them just like any of my other friends. Shoot the shit and get some pretty good conversation going and when the chances come up slide some lighthearted jokes in. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Can’t secure a dateI like to call moments like this “not making the final cut.” Basically yes she is interested and would’ve liked to meet you but understand she probably has tons of other matches and messages from guys and she may have matched with someone she ranked higher than you. It happens to the best of us bro, just keep moving forward and you’ll land one. 🤘🏽 | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 07:07 AM |
| 2 | NEED TO END THIS APROACH ANXIETY SHIT NOW! NOWGood luck man! Show confidence! I went out by myself and just forced myself to be social. Met some french guys and kicked it with them, then started talking to women and met a cute Japanese woman. You got it man just gotta get over that hump! | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 07:01 AM |
| 12 | Im over 30. Have nothing to offer. Y wont men peruse me anymore. I mean they used to. What happend?Basically tell me what I want to hear, not what I need to hear.. That’s very typical from what I’ve seen nowadays 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/10/19 06:38 AM |
| 2 | [28F] "Mom of 3. I'm not trying to raise a 4th child." ...I'm not trying to raise 4 children either, Karen.I can honestly see why she’s single. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/10/19 11:31 AM |
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