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DiscussionWhyAglayaIvanovna/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:17 PM
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Yeah, but you shouldn't expect them to, and vice versa. Totally different perspectives and experiences. Just because I shop at a supermarket doesn't mean I can do what the CEO of Kroger does, and it would be strange for someone to disappointed at me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:22 AM
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It's like asking a customer how to improve your business. They don't know what EBITDA is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:00 AM
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I think it's pretty good. It's only for the dating and mating aspects though. When it comes to non-romantic issues like friendship and stuff, it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:49 AM
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The whole topic is about complaining about another non-oppressive group's privilege, rather than improving one's own lot. Why gaslight or deny anything? It is what it is. I'm taking the topic pretty seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:48 AM
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It'd be like companies hating customers. What's the point? Your goals are so different that comparison makes no sense. If a restaurant is struggling, why take it out on the potential diners? "The customers have all the privilege, it's not fair, they get to choose and we have to attract." No shit, that's the whole point of your business model!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:58 AM
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I don't know man, I had a very fresh light fish and vegetables and some fruit and I felt great after a good workout. But my favorite food of all time is fried chicken and cookies and cream ice cream with a bottle of vodka. My buddy's favorite food is peanut butter, which I can't stand. And right now I would kill for some curry. I know there is a science to my diet and desires, but I definitely don't think very deeply about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:52 AM
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Sure, complementary* is right. Men's duties in the kitchen should definitely complement women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:16 PM
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Depends on the traditional gender roles. The actual traditional gender roles are nothing like thr "50's" gender roles that people describe. Men cooked a ton in pre-industrial societies. In fact, the job was too big for one person back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:17 PM
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No, because burden of proof goes to you with the hypothesis, not the more commonly accepted framework we work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:41 PM
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I'm sure some statistics or polling of some sort would be more reliable than just your personal experience. Do I have any of those statistics? Nope, too lazy to look
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:24 PM
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I bummed around LatAm and Ex-USSR, teaching English. The pay was low but cost of living was low, and I lived a simple existence. I worked corporate in East Asia and Western Europe. The pay was decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:07 PM
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I, as an American man, have lived and dated in East Asia, Latin America, the ex-USSR and Western Europe. If you suck with women at home, you won't find happiness abroad. And unless it's an English speaking country, the language barrier is a major disadvantage for Americans that wipes out any other advantages you might bring. But if you're already a decent catch and you speak the local language - you're golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:48 PM
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It's pretty nice to be constantly improving yourself in general. Not saying it's for everybody, and God knows people age, but I find it quite fulfilling for my own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:23 AM
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Now we all have shit wages I don't think it was better in the past, even if you just limit it to the US. Outside the US, many places have much higher wages than in the past. I guess being a replaceable asset for a company that will fire you the second you're seen as a liability is so much more humanising than fulfilling your natural instincts, caring for an extension of you and having a tight knitted family that loves you. False dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:15 AM
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For women, it's not job offers, but applicants. Women are hiring, not applying. Not sure how often companies do actively look, but I certainly have never been pursued in my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:05 AM
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It's so much work for little, marginal benefit (if getting women is the only goal.) If getting stronger and fitter is the goal, then the benefits are more justifiable in terms of cost. And most people would be less successful if done for a less motivating reason. It's like putting the hours and hours necessary to improve any skill, whether learning a language, playing an instrument, gardening, whatever. Doing it just for other people to slightly notice you more isn't worth the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:21 PM
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If you're an experienced woman marrying an inexperienced man who never got laid much, its likely because he's the stable, loyal, provider, family man type. Not because he's your physical type - the type you enjoyed hookups and casual sex with. You're most likely settling for him and compromising on sexual/physical attraction. Can't he be both? Seems like a pretty big logical leap there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:30 AM
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Sue them if you don't get it then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:14 AM
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The idea is that mutually assured destruction prevents total wars between nuclear states. So we won't have a war directly between nuclear powers. Cold War stuff That's the theory. Let's hope to God it never gets tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:04 AM
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if he's a nice man, why would he leave his country to find a woman more vulnerable to partner with than the women back home? I had a fascination with Russian and ex-Soviet culture, history, literature. I obsessively studied the Russian language. I was also enamored with the idea of travel and adventure. I also have East Asian roots, so I lived for a while in the city where my family is from. As for Latin America - I guess I just liked travel, learned Spanish. Had a great time. I'm now with a for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:59 AM
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I honestly don't know a single man who reads feminist literature. Actually, very few other men I know read books, period.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 03:52 AM
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Probably best to date around for a while, see what you can get. If you don't date around and test the market, that's when standards are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:48 AM
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If you're only making 70k, you have shit tons of time You're the one making the claim. I gave no other indications except salary. People who make 70k have an advantage in dating - is this your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:18 PM
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I know. That's a big jump, for just being over 6 feet. If someone very average, say 5'10, is a 5, but magically becomes over 6 feet tall, he'd become an 8, for example? That's a huge jump for just a few inches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:12 PM
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Water and diamonds. Value isn't inherent, it's how much others put on it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:43 PM
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BLS says the median is 60K. Sure, I'm higher, but, not by that much. I'm sure I can look into the percentile, but I don't think it'd be that high. Point taken about the weight. For me that's at least optimistic - just by being a normal weight, you jump to the top third of Americans. At least that's something in your control, unlike height. I mean, I think I'm a fucking catch, but didn't think that idea'd be shared aha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:36 PM
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Right, those people who met in their early 20s still count as being able to find someone, is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:50 PM
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2 to 4 points might be a stretch (5 to a 7 or 9?) but I agree it's been a help
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:48 PM
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But the national average salary in the US is around 60K, which is pretty close to me. So no matter how we spin it, I don't have any particular edge. Either women value wealth, in which case I have no advantage nor disadvantage over my peers. Or I have the free time to pursue a relationship, which other average American men also have, seeing the national average salary. Whichever plus or minus I have, other average men have as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:45 PM
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No, I'm a man and have real female friends. Feels perfectly natural. It strikes me as strange that a man and a woman must be attracted to one another. I'm also friends with gay men. It's a fulfilling thing. If you don't have friends of the opposite gender, you're missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah, even more cringe considering all the unique and nuanced problems that Mexican wome have to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:14 AM
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For sure. That's quite average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:01 AM
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Hmm, but those seven men must have been single at some point, right? And presumably (?) young? I wonder where the other three men are to be found. I can't imagine age gaps are that prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:56 AM
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Idk, I make 70k a year as an office drone, average face, neither jacked nor fat. Average social skills. Being 6'1 is the only advantage I have, which is cancelled by being East Asian. -shrugs-
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:53 AM
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Yeah obesity in Mexico is pretty stark. The food is sooo good though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:43 AM
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Purely anecdotal, of course, but that doesn't ring true with my experience. When I was dating and looking, like 1-2 years ago, there were plenty of eligible and attractive women who gave me a chance and showed interest. And I'm fairly average - certainly nothing close to Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:35 AM
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If seven out of ten are in a relationship, then some man must have found them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:31 AM
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I think it's both. Many men and women are definitely like that, but there are also so many who don't date or aren't Chads and betas or whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:33 PM
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Therefore you are as domesticated as the rest of us. Whether you like it or not is irrelevant, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:57 PM
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I highly doubt it, as you consume agriculture and use the written word as much as I do. Your level of domestication, as this Latinate word you prefer to use, is as much as the rest of us. I simply don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:05 AM
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Since you are, as you say, domesticated as well, why are you discontent compared to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:45 PM
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I completely disagree. Constant threats of starvation and lack of writing are not my ideas of a society better than this one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:09 PM
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Like the hunter gatherer societies that 90% of human history was? I just can't buy that. Agriculture, civilization, industry, modernity, for whatever new challenges they bring, it has to be better than what most of the past was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:15 AM
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I don't eat any of those things. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:15 PM
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Spent years in Europe. Best times of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:26 PM
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To be fair, being a foreign man, in general, gives you points in most places except for very heterogeneous places. And it isn't limited to the 1st and 3rd worlds either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:22 PM
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I've been abroad for many years too, in 3 different regions, but in different phases of my life. When I first went, I was still awkward and had a lot of problems. Being American and tall in a poorer country, even when I spoke the local lsnguage well, didn't really help that much. Still fairly unsuccessful. I cleaned up later, got my act together. Did much better dating wise than in the US. I will say, though, that speaking the local language is a game changer. Sticking with just English speakers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:18 PM
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At least for where I'm from, the America, and specifically the North, this has been happening since before the country was a country. I don't think there's a big change happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:03 PM
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Eh. I'm an American with a richer and hotter foreign woman from a richer country than mine. I've also lived and dated abroad in Eastern Europe, East Asia and Latin America. Sometimes it felt transactional, but it mostly didn't, especially since I wasn't rich in two of those regions. I think the brush is too broad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:44 PM
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Can I ask where you are on the economic spectrum? If you're American, the average yearly salary in every quintile from 2021 was $15k, $41K, $71K, $115K and $269K. I guess the follow up would be, if you're average looking, where is the cutoff in income for being able to find a partner, or even just a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:32 PM
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I'm in Chicago myself, though I don't know what it's like outside of that. Glad you're finding more luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:47 PM
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Yes. My limited time in Turkey leads me to think that's quite a bit less developed than most Western countries. I agree about the conservatism but only more towards western Turkey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:13 PM
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So why did you get more dates in Florida? Wouldn't it work the opposite, that you were relatively more attractive in the Midwest than Florida?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:54 AM
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Just one of them then? Say Pakistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:49 AM
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Large, walkable cities are really the best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:07 PM
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Are people more attractive in the Midwest than Florida?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:04 PM
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The USSR was famous for being a gerontocracy in the 70s and early 80s. I'd much rather take this than back then. I feel like you're just saying bad stuff about now, but you're not comparing it to then at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:38 PM
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I don't see a big difference in trading South Africa for North Korea in terms of nuclear powers. They're minor anyway. There were many more nukes in the 70s and 80s than today. Why is that different or worse than the Cold War era threats of rhe 2 Berlin Crises, the Cuban Missile Crisis, the Autumn of Nations in general, the Korean War and the Yom Kippur War (not to mention the Turkish Straits Crisis and Iran Crisis of 1946?) That is, of forcing the Kremlin into a zugzwang they cannot win? Plus A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:34 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:09 PM
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Gotcha. What I was unsure of is if any man could become a successful prostitute, or if some men wouldn't make the cut. I don't know the answer to that, and I suspect you wouldn't either. But the fact that men just like women can become prostitutes - absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:40 PM
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Sounds like a plan, good luck with that. I hope you get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:50 PM
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So what's your goal now? And what's the playbook?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah, didn't I just agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:35 PM
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Unsure how true that is, but if true, yeah sure. You're trading a unskilled service for money, like many jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:46 PM
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Surely knowing what happened during the Cold War, and the Berlin Crisis, Cuban Missile Crisis, Korean War, Yom Kippur War and on and on and on, we're living in a more stable time. And with the fact that people like Mao in the Cultural Rev, Brezhnev and the gerontocracy, Zia ul Huq's takeover of Pakistan when getting the bomb, and Macarthur'd wanting to use the bomb during the Korean War, I really don't think we're in a particularly unstable nuclear situation right now. Your second sentence needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:37 PM
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I disagree with OP's delusions, but, to be fair, prostitution is a pretty real thing that most women could make money on if they wanted to. Filthy rich, no, but steady income? Sure Obviously most women wouldn't want to pay such a price, but they theoretically could.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:00 AM
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I think that's too negative. The world situation isn't that hopeless, and is in fact, with the exception of environmental issues, probably better than the past in general. And I think most people (could be wrong though, I'm sure there's data somewhere) end up in a long term relationship with someone at some point in their lives. Being overly pessimistic is just as bad as being overly optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:51 AM
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Am I reading this incorrectly? It seems most (80-85%?) women in this study have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetimes. among women aged 25 to 44 years, sexual activity group 2 (2–4 lifetime sex partners) was the most frequently reported sexual activity group (30.3%–30.9%)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:47 AM
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