im 18, 18-22. its very easy in this age group. you just have to hang out, talk, you will make friends and things might escalate, but going with the "i want to date someone" mindset will fuck you up brutally. pity dates...eh that would make sense if i approached, approaching is not for me.
yeah touch grass. what "Women" is socioeconomically stable enough to spend countless hours scrolling through IG/Tiktok AND also clicking pictures? Most women are working their jobs, spending whatever time they have left doing chores, watching shows, following their hobbies and sleeping. Again, touch grass, meet real people. Most of them are concerned about their jobs not about IG or TikTok.
because you think that you are being shamed for being boring. its an advice, not public flogging. no one is shaming you. the onus is not on men or women but on the participants of the dating game.
brother you sure? my face is filled with pimples, im 5'10, balding and still getting dates. you sure its looks? i dont have it, i even have a lisp and i talk stupid.
because no one wants to be with someone boring. and you ARE boring. who is shaming you my friend? i dont think you were publicly stripped for being boring were you? get out of ur head, do some maths, read some books, learn to have fun. you sound very sad.
my friend get out of the internet. those YA girls also read dostoyevksy, tolstoy, kafka, poe, etc. They also read hentai, and everything under the sun.
because people judge others instead of themselves. go find interesting women. no ones stopping you. Nerd out with a theoretical physicist, argue about something with a phil girl, discuss books with a book girl, do your own small arduino level battlebots with a hardware girl. if you want interesting women, you gotta be interesting. No theoretical physicist is dating a hobo.