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Male. Started when I was 17, turn 29 later this year with around 60-70 ish total. Most active was early-mid 20s, around 23-25.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:20 PM
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Oh.
/r/seduction05/01/20 01:55 PM
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Just relax, mate. Be confident and charming and she won't think twice on your looks or whatever. I can see that nothing has changed visually so take a breath and just enjoy the time. Best of luck!
/r/seduction05/01/20 01:48 PM
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Thanks for the reply, mate. No point in reaching out after a while either or?
/r/seduction27/12/19 03:53 PM
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Rookie mistake. Yes, perhaps you should let your voice be heard but now she definitely won't make the effort at all. You should act indifferent; meaning that whatever happens you shouldn't let it affect you. You let it get to your head, and that's neediness which is a huge turnoff.
/r/seduction22/12/19 07:07 PM
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What do you mean "strict"?
/r/seduction22/12/19 11:42 AM
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Best way of action is to just keep going on with your own business. If she contacts you, great! Act indifferent and assume she wants to catch up. Arrange a date. If she doesn't contact you, great as well! Means she doesn't fancy you now. The worst you could do is to chase her.
/r/seduction22/12/19 10:51 AM
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Obviously, something might be up judging from this, so why not try out these suggestions instead of trying your very best to convince yourself that these Redditors are all wrong? That's what I feel you're doing; you're dismissing everything they say that might very well be the truth, by consciously downplaying e.g that she might be seeing someone else. The sooner you can get off her high horse called "righteousness", the better off you'll be. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:42 AM
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Context but most importantly; Everyone. Is. Not. The. Same. Every girl reacts differently, so the "golden rule" of not chasing cannot and will not be applicable to every single person out there.
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:22 PM
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I agree that everything is to an extent but for the sake of the question (and to draw a contrast) I phrased it like above. Cheers though.
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:33 PM
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Convince yourself that you don't give a flying duck what others might think of you. You are you. You're yourself and you hold yourself to the hugest standard. Be confident, collected and laid back. Speak your mind and don't sugarcoat anything. Say it as you mean it, because why would you even say it if you didn't mean it? Observe and act.
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:29 AM
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Don't focus so much on a specific outcome, e.g be outcome dependant. Enjoy the time out, try and try again. Relax yourself and focus on just having a great time and get to know people. Be playful and not too serious. With time you'll score!
/r/seduction10/11/19 02:35 PM
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Well, one good thing is that you'll both die at sort-of the same time, statistically speaking. No, really. You got options, she doesn't. Do you see a life with her regardless of the kid and her age?
/r/seduction10/11/19 02:33 PM
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There's no golden ticket and a one-fits-all approach. What I usually do whenever I meet someone in real life that I'm attracted to, is to hold my integrity and not focus on a specific outcome as that destroys your whole vibe. Chill, be interesting, keep your own opinions, tease her, LEAD and escalate. Get her comfortable and keep increasing the level of physical touch as she gets more and more comfortable.
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:15 PM
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Fuck me sideways and call me papa. I enjoyed this read! Some key insight there that when I think about it makes a lot of sense. I too have experienced more success (if you may) during the times I didn't actively look for a specific outcome, but was in the present. Cheers!
/r/seduction26/10/19 09:37 PM
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Haha, cheers! I'm definitely down into getting to know her by having a strong attraction that leads to a potential relationship. She's someone I'm attracted to do I'll do my part of seducing her to the best of my ability. I believe a strong sexual desire is a key component but I'm very well aware of the fact that I've played a bit too much on the Mr. Nice Guy up until now; because the situation sort of needed (????) that, but judging from what you guys help me out with now I should pull back a b…
/r/seduction26/10/19 06:35 PM
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I get that point, cheers. I agree on the last part that I shouldn't give too much attention away for free, and I've challenged her on that particular topic. Not that it matters too much but we got a date once she's home at the very least - unless it all dwindles down as you describe above. Cheers though! I appreciate it!
/r/seduction26/10/19 03:01 PM
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Cheers. I agree on the texting can be a huge problem at times. That part about not letting it dwindle down I totally get and is the motivation behind my request as well. Glad you put word on it, thanks. I get I should slow it a bit down as those factors above is all well and dandy, and makes sense. I of course keep tabs on girls closer to home as well, but I can definitely be better at shifting the focus. Thanks for the lengthy reply!
/r/seduction26/10/19 02:59 PM
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I appreciate the input! I'm curious, how come you came to that conclusion? I get that we're not officially dating or anything but this is a learning process for me as well so I'm curious to hear why you thought about that. Regarding your last part I guess it means it's up to me then if I want to pursue or move onto something else? Makes sense that I could be a bit too much invested but coming from my best friend that's her that friend too, she never really engages with any guy (and she's never t…
/r/seduction26/10/19 02:54 PM
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The Manual is hilarious to add to that. Really puts it at the very conservative perspective!
/r/seduction26/10/19 02:03 PM
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Good on you then. But if anything judging from hoe spasm people get when they meet someone attractive, I'd argue that a lot of people are scared to engage with really attractive people.
/r/seduction24/10/19 12:47 PM
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Simples. Do more of it. Eventually you won't have that feeling so keep doing it.
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:25 PM
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Because... People are scared of God-tier beauty.
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:30 PM
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I'd wait a few days and give her a call. Don't really lose anything so.
/r/seduction22/10/19 05:43 PM
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You showcase your own life isn your own terms, you post that stuff to your own account but since she doesn't follow you then you need to do it old school; be yourself and forget a bit about her for the time being. Let it rest for a few weeks and pick it up again, or move on.
/r/seduction17/10/19 09:10 PM
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I mean, you got pretty much nothing to lose now but I don't think she'll like being called out like that. Depends in want you want; if you want a shot at her, give her space and keep yourself busy and interested (e.g showcase your awesome weeks on social medias) and just do you. Or try your luck with that cheeky message but I believe she won't take it nice perhaps.
/r/seduction17/10/19 08:36 PM
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I'd give her some space. If everything is cool, then you leave it at that; a gentle good bye after you've made her laugh again is the perfect ending as the last memory she has from you now is this witty funny guy. "It was nice seeing you again, but I need to head off. I'll catch you later!" Close ended. You're in control. Then you pick up the conversation again in a few days as it gives her enough time to wonder WTH you've been up to. Trick is, you've been focusing on yourself over the past few …
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:04 PM
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Just be yourself. If that's the goofy playful dude and do that. Just don't mention anything about whatever happened, and if she mentiones it (brings it up) just scoof it off as nothing, and move the subject to something else. Lead her!
/r/seduction13/10/19 04:48 PM
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I'll just put it out there; don't spend time explaining anything to her. That's all water in the bridge in a alpha mindset. You learn and you move on, but you better not pull that crap up again. If you see her then just take it from where you guys are now and not where you were e.g two weeks ago. All her emotional connection to that particular incident (you being clingy) will be brought up again if you me took it, and it will be devastating to your attempt at getting back. So my suggestion is fo…
/r/seduction13/10/19 07:06 AM
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No, it didn't really rough up my feathers at all but it's only decent curtisy to reply I feel. The e-book thing wasn't anything serious other than a small joke. Flew past you I guess. That's your opinion about narcissism I guess, and whatever I tell you can't change that I suppose. Have to agree to disagree. I believe you try too hard to read between the lines - where there is none. I said you're your own master of your own destiny. If someone decided to punch me the fuck out one day, then I obv…
/r/seduction05/10/19 09:05 AM
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I dislike the word conmen, but I believe I get where you're coming from. To answer your question, I firmly believe you can achieve a healthy and prosperous relationship with a decent woman. I'm convinced that if you believe and envision something (e.g yourself as a successful person), you'll increase your chances on actually become that version of yourself. There's research done around how powerful the mind is, and how the mind (even when broken) can do the most extraordinary things. One is beli…
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:38 AM
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So by replying to me in that manner entails that you got all the answers? I don't believe you but I'll dissect all you said above. Mind you my mother tongue isn't English so. I'm turning 32. Might be young, might not be. I can obviously only talk from my own experience, but I've been around plenty of women and men to know what works and what doesn't. This is why I showcased that above. Does it work for everyone? Of course not, but it works obviously well and is proven by research and common sens…
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:46 PM
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I'd argue that from a biological perspective, you'd need to assert your presence, yes. Either you need to have the physical appearance that females enjoy, or you need to have an aura around you that intrigues them (which isn't anything different than what I proposed over); sitting in the corner doing nothing will not help at all if these two (three) things aren't present.
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:46 PM
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If you don't think he got his own game then you're ignorant. Game is just a matter of expression, e.g the way anyone behaves really. I'm goofy so of course that's a part of who I am, and thus something I'll use. Obviously whatever OP is doing isn't working so this was a sincere suggestion.
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:24 PM
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Who?
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:12 PM
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Expect nothing. You will stress down a bit that way, and be pleasantly surprised whenever it goes your way.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:49 AM
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And to that I wonder have I ever showcased at any point in time above, that I don't respect or envy women, and treat them like lesser you mean? Because I haven't. It's not a show, it's an expression of confidence with my approach. I don't treat anyone badly. I tell them my end state so we both don't waste any time. They enjoy that I'm upfront with them. Some doesn't want to continue, some do. It doesn't really matter because both understand what's going on next and we either part ways or we cont…
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:41 AM
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To destroy your first argument; because dating, hooking up or meeting new people is about having FUN. That's why you need "silly games", because if they feel you're probing them like a robot they'll instantly walk away. It's easy to get that, judging from your answer. You can still get to know them by being fun. Once it's more serious/you managed to get a date, you may prove as much as you'd like but don't do it before you know that they're interested. You'll scare them off no matter what. Inste…
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:30 AM
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Of course, because it's not only you in this equation. It can be a stroke of pure unfortunate, that any girl you look for are busy or not interested. Could very well be that. But let's not focus on the times you failed or were successful. Let's just focus on 1) increasing the chances of a meet-up and get those numbers higher, and 2) what your game plan is. I'm sure that given X tries you'll be successful eventually. It's basic statistics. So keep hustling! Go to the bars, go to the amusement par…
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:17 AM
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Because when you love yourself and your current situation, you'll be... yourself. Which in turns attract the females that resonates with you, your values etc. Don't stress it. Let it happen when it happens. If you believe you don't need any external factors to be internally happy, then I'd say you're wrong; life is about continuously being better than the day before, materialism or not; what you cram into your body and mind is essential for a well-functioning body and every day activities. That'…
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:58 AM
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Good on you, mate. Even though they were all busy, the important part here is that you had an opportunity to meet other people and go out of your comfort zone doing so; this will only benefit you in the long run. Good on you! Keep going on building up that courage!
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:10 PM
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Perhaps not post this to two different subreddits when you didn't get the positive response from the other post, is a starter.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:18 PM
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I'm in the same predicament, mate. Had a blast with a girl, really enjoyed our time together and I've been asking her out again without success. If these ladies fancied us they'd definitely have contacted us, right? Fuck me. That's depressing.
/r/seduction02/09/19 07:41 AM
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What he said.
/r/seduction01/09/19 04:28 PM
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Nailed it. Glad to hear that, mate! Doesn't it feel great? No more Mr. Nice Guy, and you have no reason to ever feel anxious again by talking to a girl.
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:42 PM
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You become a man by taking responsibility for your own actions and future. You do you and you'll get there, mate. Believe, work relentlessly and succeed past your ambitions. Best of luck!
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:33 PM
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Best of luck, mate. Go get that 10 because you will get it since you're constantly working towards it!
/r/seduction27/08/19 04:51 PM
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Yeah, you played yourself. By controlling her you ended up being too invested too soon; you were the same as everyone else including that dude in her DMs as well. It doesn't fit her personality. Shame but I'm glad you learned something from this. On to the next one!
/r/seduction27/08/19 04:38 PM
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What's the worse that can happen if you walk up to a girl you think? Think hard on that and when you're done, listen to your body; identify your physical response, is your heart racing? Are you sweating? Short of breath? Really look hard. Now, with these in mind, how do you feel? Antsy? Blacking out? Freaking out? Good. Now picture your emotions, what's going on in your brain? What thoughts come to mind? What case are you put into, is it the low-esteem guy? Shy? Afraid you'll screw it up? Now co…
/r/seduction27/08/19 09:09 AM
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