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Why_am_I_LikeThis27/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:46 AM
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It is my great displeasure to disappoint you in this matter but my reputation for not figuring things out is quite well earned! No! This is a task for which I am not well suited. I bow out gracefully, play on maestro! Play on! Adieu pour toujours!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:38 AM
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branded it like a product They never see the simile coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:41 AM
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I ain't got what he lookin for tbh And these goodies stay in the jar madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:36 AM
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Cause I know the answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:33 AM
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I die without water in 72hrs. They're on different tiers of the basic needs pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:30 AM
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Lift. Lose weight if you're overweight. Make more money, whether that means investing in your education, increasing your hours, starting a side hustle. Invest in a better wardrobe. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations to force yourself to improve your social skills. Find out what haircut/facial hair best suits you. Stop spending so much time watching porn and playing video games if you're doing that. Pick up hobbies and strive to have an interesting life full of things to talk about. ​ Look,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:49 PM
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Ask him what kind of support he's looking for!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:40 PM
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In what capacity is sex like water?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:15 PM
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You're interviewing for two different jobs man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:04 AM
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I feel like you're going to ask for my cc number or something fr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:28 AM
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Some things that I've gathered myself: - Gym but go for bulking rather than just a lean build, so you look big even in loose shirts - This goes with gym ig, but MMA, so you have a basic idea of how to fight - tattoos and possibly a nice beard could help - good skincare routine, good haircuts ($80+), maybe dye hair as well - go to as many parties, bars, clubs, as possible and drink a lot but not to the point of blacking-out, but to help you become more social - a very carefree idgaf attitude, sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:15 AM
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Which behavioral trends? What is your opinion on Hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:29 AM
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Odds are if a man is assertive, confident, ambitious and self assured he is red pilled to some degree. What were they doing before 1998 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:14 PM
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Huzzah! Grats!
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:07 PM
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It just seems that way from the outside. You don't get to see what happened and so we fill in the blanks. The god of the gaps as they say. It's mostly in your ability to project confidence and be daring when the time is right. You gotta be ready to lose but learn from mistakes. Where are your dates fizzling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:00 PM
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That's a really good observation to have had though. That the person across from you is also experiencing nerves. Most people have some level of trepidation or shyness about dates. I wouldn't invite myself up to someone else's place. If you're closing the night and think that's a possibility leave it to her. Great time to have a little conversation, take her hand while you're talking, end the night with a lean in for a kiss. There's nuance here, like what # date etc but generally just keep the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:23 PM
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The way relationships are treated as commodities here is...out there. How does one converse with a woman when they're a statistic in your mind? You're dehumanizing from the beginning. You guys have been poisoning the well on yourselves. Understand, honestly, your own value and don't settle if you don't want to. It's your choice, nobody said you can't stay open to love and pursue other things that coincidentally will round you out as a person. Sex seems like it defines the personality of everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:40 PM
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This is the truth on the ground out in the world. I confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:34 PM
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HAH We are easy going until we're not. I've poke more than one insecurity with a joke before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:49 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. Also, I don't think women really appreciate being asked. I don't either tbh. The above is my personal experience anyways.
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:44 AM
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It's more like my perception, followed by a positive take on a success story. No worries on further discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:30 AM
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I respect your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:25 AM
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Yea I'm good bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:22 AM
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How did it go? Being confident enough to ask someone out straight up makes you more confident then a lot of people. Keep that energy and you are gonna be fine. Great job, go next!
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:46 AM
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Just say many women prefer confidence in the bedroom. Want to know how much? Ask her after she gets to know you. Be genuine about who you are and you'll be more likely to find someone else genuine and compatible. You wrote two paragraphs about how this has nothing to do with "daddy vibes" (the fuck?) and then still connected the two things. "Daddy" anything is some creepy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:22 AM
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I was an incel because I was involuntarily celibate. I had the same problems as them, and I don't care if others confuse me with more hateful incels. I'm not sure why anybody would pose as something they are not or voluntarily take on the misconception that you are a hateful person. Unusual. So you weren't ever involuntarily celibate just hadn't had sex yet. By the power of will you voluntarily remedied your sexless life. Involuntary infers there is nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:53 AM
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Yea, I'm not a huge fan of an over abundance of human company male or female. I like to pursue my own goals unfettered a majority of the time which means I've had to think about how I present myself if I'm dating. I'm upfront that I'm not looking to pair up, I'm open to it as a possibility but not what I'm looking for. Most people aren't self aware enough or fine. Sometimes feelings get hurt anyways which I regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:48 AM
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Alright, you can't say you aren't honest. Now it's just about who you want to be in life. We all make choices, treating other people poorly is a choice. It reflects on you. Your children will absorb what you put in front of them, so above average means being an above average parent. I think that you're on a road to an empty future but it's your road to walk. Try to respect yourself, reputation matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:43 AM
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By bringing in messages from outside the bounds of a red/blue bianary?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:38 AM
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I think it's the bonds of trust that you break. If two people give each other their word about something, they're both extending trust to the other to uphold that. If you spit on someone's trust and break them, they're extremely hard to heal. If you can't trust the person closest to you,why are you with them? You would lose faith in every other thing you put faith in them for. Any time they gave you the benefit of the doubt comes back into questions. Breaking you word is no small matter in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:36 AM
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Gotcha, I feel like the full spectrum of human relationships aren't well represented by bookends at either end of a non-agreed upon continuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:19 AM
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That's their own problem so solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:55 AM
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Yup, well make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:48 PM
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Contrary to the world around me honestly. I don't grant that I can look with a familiar eye on anything you've said. Let's start from the beginning. Why can't these men have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:47 PM
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Its a disaster because more and more men are ending up angry frustrated and alone. Its a trend that is only growing. A society with too many angry young men with easy access to guns is a bad recipe. Brother, nobody owes anybody a relationship. Full stop. Your needs do not override anybody's personal freedom. If you're angry about that then we can talk about how to manage and get over that. Don't slander young men like that. Lot's of people out here struggling in the dating world and aren't reach…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:32 PM
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Your priorities are elsewhere! That's fair given the state of things tbh. I found I couldn't be immersed in it. There's so much information and nothing is completely trustworthy on the civilian end. I keep a responsible eye on it. What does purple mean as a flair, as a concept? I still haven't gotten a concise breakdown of the various pills here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:00 PM
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Do you find Hinduism plays much of a part in informing you views on these subjects? I have no experience or true knowledge of the Hindu religion. I didn't say arranged marriage was a superior way of life I said I thought the way arranged marriage was carried out in our community was better than dating in the west. Sorry, I didn't mean to misquote you. Poor choice of words on my behalf, superior method for the long term success of marriages, is that more accurate? I think the argument is present …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:04 PM
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I am unfortunately not familiar with the ins and outs of autism so my experiences are always absent that lens. Would you say you don't experience an emotion recognizable as love or affection or that you don't recognize it when you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:41 PM
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Counted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:36 PM
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But what good is a debate focused around false perceptions of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:36 PM
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That's a difficult package to wrap. Being a wife as a means for kids isn't going to feel good, you making room for her in there? Hook ups are fine and then you feel empty and wonder what was ever so special about sleeping around. I think most of us are better from having LTRs in our past. You learn about yourself, what you need to be content. The it's all about integrating that with another person's needs in a way that you're both content. ​ Post covid I’ve been far more selective with the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:35 PM
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Ok, so over a 5 year stretch you're looking to have 100 unique sex partners with whom to have ~156 sexy times. How would you say you're doing in terms of hitting those targets and is this what you prefer to having any kind of committed relationship? Nobody ever said that was the be all and end all. You treating people with respect while you're about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:24 PM
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There's a tendency to think that every man these days who can't have sex hates women. I'm not sure whether you think that some kind of different term should be used for men who can't attract women but who don't take up misogynistic attitudes. ​ I think it's an important distinction to make between individuals. Being unlucky in your sex life and hating women are mutually exclusive. I wouldn't want my individual views confused with those of a group, especially one that taken on such a negative rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:17 PM
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Tell me about yourself, Unironic Purple Pill Bunny. What does it mean to be a purple pill bunny? Why take pills at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:09 PM
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Can you tell me why you feel like we have a disaster on our hands? The internet puts the unhappy all in one place, it's like watching cable news. The worst all in one place 24/7, happy news for the outside doesn't shine a light very often. Feminism can mean so many things that I don't know how to respond to the word anymore. You talk to 10 people and you might get 10 different answers. What perceived aspect of feminism do you feel is problematic? ​ Online dating and feminsim unleashed female hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:07 PM
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So do you feel like it's a debate that needs to be had? To expand, I'm curious if people recognize that red/blue pill are the true bookends of relationship dynamics? Things often feel a bit too Machiavellian than is healthy around here. I'm a very big individualist so it colors how I see things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:11 PM
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Do you like yourself? Hate hate or just like "I hate other drivers" hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:56 PM
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I like to think I have a balanced outlook. Very aware of the negative but I don't like to give it much energy because it's outside my control. It's not that simple but I try to live by that. What kind of things do you dwell on? Do you find it's a barrier for you or just a way of thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:55 PM
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You didn't answer though. Whats up? How you doing? How's life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:45 PM
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That's all to say life a lesbian is harder in some ways but I don't think I'd be straight even if I could change it. I sometimes think it'd be easier and that might be worth it in and of itself, but if actually given the option to fully and completely change my sexuality I don't think I would take it. ​ You are who you are, why change yourself? You're cool with me the way your are, I hope you find contentment in your life. It's interesting that you're able to gain perspective on hetero dating cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. Orthodox is often attached to religion, I was unsure what you meant. There are different sub-cultures in India, are you christian? Hindu? Muslim? It affects how I understand what you mean by traditional Indian family. Traditions vary after all. I saw you say that you think arranged marriage is a superior way of life. Why do you think so? I've known an Indian couple who were a product of an arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:01 PM
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Nothing wrong with shopping my man. How do you know what you like if you don't know what's out there? Why do you want a wife? If you don't mind me asking? Also, how is juggling dates treating you? Sounds like work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:55 PM
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Well, it the person involved in this particular corner of the internet or you just want to know how he thinks? Men differ on a lot of shit, we're no agreeable creatures in many cases. I'm a man, do you have any questions about man think? I can tell you how I think!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:52 PM
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What would you describe as a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:49 PM
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Aw man, that would be sick. The Royal Society of Pill Anthropologists. You should join! You've rattled off two sweet flair ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:48 PM
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So, to you does incel just mean I wanted a girlfriend and couldn't get one or is there an entire lifestyle attached to that? To expand, when people refer to themselves as incel, are they saying they've detached themselves from a tribe. Like Incel was a play to belong in addition to an adjective. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 PM
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I'm a little depressed now and again. I used to a lot depressed and now I'm wayyy better. I've felt socially awkward at different times in my life. Do you want to talk about it? I think you're right about the nature of the interactions being described in a lot of cases. I read things and I constantly mutter "It's never this complicated, fuckin relax". I want to help dudes out with some advice and perspective if I can. I think there is a phenomenon of people joining the workforce without a good g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 PM
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Can you tell me what gentlemen means to you in this context? Am I correct in understanding that you feel your opening moves are lacking? What is the quality that you're previous girlfriends lack that you're looking for in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:38 AM
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Hey!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:02 AM
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Like I don’t care about n count or AF/BB kind of shit What do the acronyms mean? ​ I’m more interested in being toxic and manipulative and getting lots of women obsessed with me ​ Have you considered not being manipulative? It sounds like you just want to date casually. Why go in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:02 AM
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Well, I disagree on the whole virgin thing. Girls who cheat were once Virgins.... So being a Virgin doesn't determine whether a girl will pair bond or not.... She's most likely to pair bond with lower body count, but it is no promise. I dated virgins ( My ex of 15 years, I was her first) My second ex who falsely put me on child support, I was also her first boyfriend/sex.I think you have to vet a woman for narcissistic traits which is more important over their body count. ​ Date experienced wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:50 AM
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If autism is complicating your love life, I don't feel like I understand it well enough to give you reliable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:19 AM
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Alright, what's your truth brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:55 AM
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build a scout first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:55 AM
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What are your dating woes dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:52 AM
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Are you not entertained......!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:42 AM
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How men and women behave towards one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:41 AM
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Are you an ironic purple pill bunny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:21 AM
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SafeSpace indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:16 AM
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Happy for you! Sprinkle that knowledge!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:14 AM
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So is a chad just a person with a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:00 AM
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I like to see what other minds are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:56 AM
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Polygamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:49 AM
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Pessimistic outlook on life in what way? You're here sharing that's a positive too. Yea I don't see a lot of practical stuff in here, I was hoping I could bring what I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:47 AM
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Shine the light dude. Shine the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:42 AM
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Yup, young dudes need positive influences and good advice. I hope I can help someone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:41 AM
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You can stop looking and still be open to romance, no need to cut yourself off from possibility. It's a pursuit you can put down if you like. What do you find scary about the nature of women my friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:39 AM
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I want Pill Anthropologist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:30 AM
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Second time murderer since I started counting. You have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 AM
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It's a love triangle. What are the power dynamics of that relationship like? Sounds contentious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:14 AM
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I wish you a quick release.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:07 AM
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Word. You seem articulate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:07 AM
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Hah why did you get cross banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:05 AM
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Hey. Am I in that notebook? What'd you say about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:47 AM
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Im down to help people too but I can never be sure if I did. I just gotta believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:46 AM
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Me too dog! Not the youtube parts just the check it out for myself part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:42 AM
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Ok ok ok tear collection, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:41 AM
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Time murderer. I gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:33 AM
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Trying not to be. But sometimes I lose that fight. Don't we all? You are to help spread some wisdom where you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:32 AM
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Alright! Looking good so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:29 AM
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May you find my time here entertaining then. I do not plan to be killed in a train wreck though, I warn thee now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:25 AM
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I'm behind on my mail too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:24 AM
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welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:22 AM
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Hey!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:19 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:51 PM
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I seek to bring balance to the pills. This got me. Congratulations on your wealth and success with women my friend. What does it mean to have blue pill hopeless romantic views but redpill unplugged? What would you say reality is in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:44 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:35 PM
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I like your energy. The power lesbian really does have everything. How's lesbian life? Same but with more friction? I gunna hope that landed and keep going, (no really, welcome how are you?) Is there like a defined side between posters in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:31 PM
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How's life dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:23 PM
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I am Indian and was raised in a very conservative orthodox household and community. ​ Orthodox in what may I ask? ​ Why am I? My upbringing as mentioned above as well as several observations I made about people throughout my formative years led me to the belief system I have today. While I keep my mind open, nothing I have seen has changed my belief system in the past few years. ​ How would you describe your belief system sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:22 PM
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Sometimes! Not always for flattering reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:00 PM
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Well, tell me about angry and then about sad. What do you think is making you both?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:59 PM
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Which one? What even happens if you drop both? Has anyone tried it? Lore Masters?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:56 PM
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I'm pill curious! Not about taking them but about the people who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:55 PM
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It never hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:54 PM
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Certainly one aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:52 PM
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The originality is in the discussion my friend. People seem interested in engaging, that's all anyone needs. ​ None of you are original. I don't really see why it needs to be entertaining. We're in here talking to each other about it. Mission successful. Come have a chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:45 PM
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I'm sorry that happened dude. ​ Im a guy who commited too much to the wrong woman but I could easily see most women acting just like her What do you mean when you say just like her? ​ I'm fighting myself on being a user and a player because I just want someone to share my life with and make intimate memories with maybe have a family with that I can work hard for, the path to that is very complicated. Also I've been a good dude but I seem to get more and others seem to get more by being a terribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:42 PM
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Hey dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:12 PM
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Can't speak for the subreddit but I've lived a life and what wisdom that has granted me thus far. What would you like to know about finding a girlfriend? What aspect of dating are you having a hard time with? Are you just trying to date casually or are you trying to find something long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:11 PM
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Yea, lot of take with not much give tbh I'm not sure why, I'm here to find out. ​ Is it generally correct that this is a debate about power dynamics inside romantic relationship between two individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:02 PM
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Why you feeling mad right not? I joined to share my wisdom from the road. Listen to a few stories from people involved in taking these pills. Offer my perspective on it from the outside. I need to learn what it is first. What is redpill? What is blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:51 PM
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I'm curious! I think that says a lot about person. What do you find entertaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:45 PM
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I'd say leave that up to the people using the space and not big brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:45 AM
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The problem arises with people who aren't smart enough to understand when is and is not an appropriate moment to "shoot your shot". (I hate this tern but ok) For everything there is a season. It seems like the wrong season is usually to continue your pitch after rejection. If you want to shoot a lot of shots, accept that you're going to get lots of Ls and it's in everyone's best interest that you move on quickly. I would recommend going for quality of quantity and having some intel that supports…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:07 PM
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I think you should tell them you're not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship and see where that gets you. You deliver that message respectfully and you're being polite imo.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:03 AM
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I know nothing, educate me. No links! Can't do links!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:41 AM
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I do, jump me, im good with it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:58 AM
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I had a bunch of stuff to post about why everybody is so caught up in this kind of stuff and realized where I was. I don't know why I didn't realize that it was a debate sub for a power game debate at first. But now I do and I'm out BUT before I go: Less is More Authenticity is better for you and better for you date Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:01 AM
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What's a shit test? Beyond stool collection for the ol Labratory.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:53 AM
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Sorry what are the terms TRP and Manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:51 AM
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I think you'll be fine. Men over 30 typically have life together. Between 25-30 ehhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:22 PM
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Why would it be unfavorable to be desensitised to forming a bond you aren't trying to make? Generally anything you can become desensitized to you can re-sensitize yourself to through reduction. What's the actual argument, that promiscuity is good or bad? Does promiscuity mean infidelity here of just sleeping around? Never posted before, don't know anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:52 AM
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