Whynotus048 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
131	I think we need to meet equality with equality or it will only keep getting worse.	Feminism	Whynotus048	/r/MensRights	15/04/24 09:20 AM
10	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination	Debate	Whynotus048	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:46 AM

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1	Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market? Yeah obviously if they are married that is not cool at all. My best success with using apps is to not message too much. Like a few messages to get a general feel and then just set a time and place to meet, obviously in public something with little pressure like a coffee date or such. As a man if a woman invites me somewhere I am typically going to go cause it shows she is actually interested. Lots of women use the apps and either get overwhelmed or just aren't being serious with it. I have also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 11:46 AM
3	Many men losing interest in women The numbers are actually scary for anyone wanting to look into it. I think a lot of people just want to pretend it's not there in the hopes it goes away but we all know that doesn't work lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 12:58 PM
2	Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market? That sounds pretty on par with most of what I have experienced in our culture I guess, people just don't prioritize families anymore. Nothing wrong with that. I am someone that truly believes in live and let live. I still wonder why it came to this but it is probably just media and cultural tendencies. I still can't make much sense of why you wouldn't want to start a family based on what you told me but again I am all for personal choice and you do you as long as you are not hurting other people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 12:31 PM
1	Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market? I am not trying to pick a fight at all I just am genuinely curious what makes you ok with never finding a life partner? It's an odd and stark difference I have noticed traveling through different cultures. English speaking countries at the moment have a very forward non committal culture as to where other countries still very much want to commit and give it a shot even if they don't think the person is perfect. How do you envision your life if you never find someone as you get older? Again I pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 11:00 AM
1	Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market? Kinda late to the game but just curious were there men that you were interested in that did not message you, but you may have had a chance to message first and did not do so? I just say that because you might be surprised by what kind of results you have by messaging the guy first. Not that it's how it should be but just in modern times women have insane amounts of matches and men typically never get any sort of attention on these apps in Western countries. It might make you stand out a bit is k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 10:55 AM
–	I hate the fact that I must choose one of these two: Trump or man-haters You don't care how crazy socially the left becomes? Are you sure about that? You do realize that politics are downstream from culture right? Add onto that I can't remember a single far right leaning person I have spoken with not agree on the healthcare issue, it's one of the only issues that I think both left and right generally agree on. The issue is these health insurance companies are evil and need to be held accountable. We also need to have stricter auditing in big pharma because we know th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 12:58 PM
–	I hate the fact that I must choose one of these two: Trump or man-haters I was pretty far left before but it's gotten out of hand. If you're familiar with Shoeonhead from YT she has an amazing video talking about how the left failed and it sums it up perfectly. Joe Rogan literally the biggest podcaster in the world with tons of social sway was Democrat and because he spoke about mens problems they called him a misogynist, sexist, all the hit words. He then was like fuck it if you wanna make an enemy of me for simply advocating for men I'll platform more conservative …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 11:47 AM
–	I hate the fact that I must choose one of these two: Trump or man-haters Anyone voting left that fails to see that the dems just completely have demonized men for years especially white men often calling them "the problem" are literally just living with their head in the sand. Also we saw historic numbers of male minorities vote Republican as the left continues to just want to blame men for all of societies problems for simply existing. Men didn't vote for you after you said they are evil for simply breathing air? Wow CRAZY!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 11:42 AM
2	If men are capable of having hookups that mean nothing to them, then so can women. It's hard to explain as a man I guess but it is not a situation of seeing this person as less of a human being or person more so why would I waste my resources and time on someone that does not want me back. For instance if you were messaging a guy you liked and he constantly did not reply and stood you up yet you know your friend or coworker was being responded to by the same guy at some point you would just give up. That is where a lot of modern men find themselves. We have friends too, we can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 01:54 PM
4	This may be sexist but hear me out I have gotten good haircuts from hairdressers for sure. You have to realize a hairdresser and a barber have different specialties. Barbers spend their entire working day working on mens haircuts and as an extreme exceptions a womans hair, and vice versa so of course going to a barber is going to typically result in a more desired result. If you need a car detailed you would go to a car detail shop not a mechanic, although some might be versed in both and occasionally you get a satisfactory job d…	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 08:06 AM
–	Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet? 5'8" in most countries is no issue, in the US, Canada, UK and Australia yes it's a death sentence (kinda) it just is so insanely important to modern western society. Most places outside of that don't care that much as long as you are a bit taller than the woman. Height obsession is a strictly modern western standard in my opinion and my personal experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 06:26 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? It is refreshing to hear women that do understand it is doing nobody any good to just blame men for all of societies problems. I have had conversations with women that do know it's better to be together than be apart, although you are in an increasingly rare group. Unfortunately modern feminism teaches an ideology that is sick to it's core. It teaches that men are responsible for any hardships they face and men still have privileges and are trying to actively put women down and not let them be s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 11:03 PM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Completely agree with you there, this is why when Red Pill is attacked, I always try to explain that rule number one of Red Pill is to just be the best version of yourself you can be. That is the foundation of anything the Red Pill teaches, and it is hard for people to demonize self improvement, because at the end of the day that is the backbone of Red Pill. Improving yourself innately comes with being able to be alone with yourself and being ok with it. Women and men alike can sense a guy that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:34 AM
5	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? I do find it fascinating that when you present facts to most women (not all) but a grand majority of them retort with ad hominem attacks. I think they deep down understand what the Red Pill says is true and it scares them that men finally have a space and a medium to share women's sexual strategies. Once more and more men understand how they like to play the field for lack of a better term, they lose leverage in certain situations so innately they just want to shut it down. I also see men hating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:30 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Standards in what they are looking for in a potential mate are going to be different for each sex this is true. What I am specifically referring to is say a woman who is of average attraction physically and has regular status does not typically want to date a man of the same attraction level. I do see big differences in age gaps as well in modern dating in the West and that is a phenomenon I am trying to understand better. Recent data shows men under 30 are single around 66% of the time as to wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:22 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Yeah I am not sure what part of Europe you are from but I find it interesting that it does appear to be this ideology that is spreading mostly in English speaking countries but now it is rooting itself even in very traditional countries like Japan, and parts of Eastern Europe. I am firmly of the belief that modern feminism is not about equality, it is about women gaining advantages over men. The initial fight to allow women to vote was very noble and I think any sane person agrees they should be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:17 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Well I commented this before with someone else who just immediately attacked the Red Pill space, the actual legit Red Pill space is not inherently bad. The issue is that you have some bad actors that use it to demean women to get clicks and that is all the mainstream sees. That being said I am a bit of a non believer in Western societal dating at the moment. Not that I hate women, I just think western culture is not in a good spot, I think we can all agree on that. I also don't agree 100% with R…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 10:46 AM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? My bad Idk why Reddit has been weird with my notifications but yes I do believe most men think they can just be nice and get the girl. It has been fed to us through Disney, social media, in education. I would say if you naturally knew that was not correct then either you just naturally picked up on queues or you were already predisposed through personal experiences or guidance from a family member or a friend. You would be shocked at the amount of men that truly think they just need to be nice a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 10:34 AM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? That is my bad I just read you live in Cali. Yeah that area is extremely expensive, which is why I know a lot of people tend to leave as even 100k can be hard to live on. Good luck to you, hopefully you can stick it out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:18 PM
7	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Alright I thought this was going to be a good faith discussion but I should have realized, you even have troll in your name. You can ad hominem all you want and bend words but that isn't going to convince anyone. Where did you pull this random picture, what is the context behind it and where are the citations? Sheesh you seem awfully upset as well, relaaaax. Take a benzo or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:11 PM
10	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? So if you ask most women what they are looking for in a man they will respond with "kindness, loyalty, vulnerable" because they assume the rest is just a given. Then you watch countless Rom Coms where the guy in the friend zone ends up with the girl he has always loved because he was there for her and listened to her and she finally wakes up one day and is like omg yes Kevin is the one! That's the kinda bullshit that Red Pill sifts through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:07 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? Obviously hard to find perfect examples but these two are probably most of what you see walking around in say a grocery store if we exclude older people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:04 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? average woman <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:03 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? Average man <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 09:02 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? Bro stop LMAAOO	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:45 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? 5'9" actually but I personally think it's closer to 5'8" cause I have met many men my exact height that like to call themselves 5'10" lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:44 PM
–	Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you? 45k is actually the average male salary in the United States. Only 17% of men make over 100k, and that is including the old ones, married ones, fat ones. This is what men are complaining about, these standards that are set. https://www.zippia.com/advice/how-many-people-make-over-100k/	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:44 PM
3	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? So first and foremost it's much easier to get laid in the United States casually as long as your decent looking, that's a common misconception that people that have not dated overseas have. Women in the west are definitely easier to get into situationships with. As far as unequal dynamics in dating, can you elaborate on what is unequal and what is immoral about what you think is unequal. Just so I can understand exactly what your train of thought is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:32 PM
5	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Ok so the most Red Pill guys you are going to find are going to be Rollo Tomassi. He is considered the OG when it comes to Red Pill, he has been writing articles about intersexual dynamics for over 20 years. Search "The Rational Male" on YouTube. Michael Sartain is newer on the scene and he is a bit more open minded. I actually agree with Michael more than Rollo, the reason I consider myself slightly Red Pill is because I agree with most of it but there are things I don't agree with. Michael bel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:23 PM
7	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Interesting. Traveling to a place where I can experience life memories, visit wonderful places, stay at extravagant hotels at the fraction of what I could in the United States is "morally disgusting." I guess using my hard earned money in a smart way is now considered morally wrong. Sounds like you're just jealous you aren't experiencing the same thing. Again you can elaborate on how that is immoral, but you didn't you just took what I said and made absolutely no argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:08 PM
2	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? The standards are different that is what average men have been complaining about. I am not some model but if I take care of my body then I expect the same of that of my partner which is increasingly rare in the states. If I am not posting all over social media because I prefer a private life then I also expect that standard of a potential future wife. Pretty simple stuff that is rare to find in the current dating market, at least in the Feminized countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 08:05 PM
9	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? This attitude right here, sums it all up lol. Look at the language being used, sheesh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:00 PM
8	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? I have dated abroad in many countries, and plan to move overseas in the next couple of years. The people are awesome, my dollar goes so far, and the tropical scenery is so beautiful. The women are very educated and are close to their families. I am curious why you find it morally disgusting. Can you elaborate on it a bit further?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:59 PM
13	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? From what I am observing is that some of the men even after improving themselves are still not having much luck in the dating scene. So even after being Red Pilled they are just giving up on women and are starting to become more and more resentful. I see it myself. I am in extremely good shape, very good financial situation, I talk to people for a living (good social skills) and I do have trouble finding fit feminine women here in the States. The only places I really see it much anymore are reli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:55 PM
-1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? I think your last paragraph perfectly sums up why the Red Pill space pisses off people so much. They are raised, women and men included, to just "be yourself" and the perfect partner will fall into your lap. Also feminism today teaches young women that they are disenfranchised when they literally aren't which leads to resentment towards men, which leads to harder to find partners in feminized countries. Feminism is the problem, but it has gotten so deeply rooted in Western culture that they can'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:49 PM
19	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? Man I wish more women would watch true Red Pill content and not all the click bait content or Black Pill doomer stuff and I think they would truly understand it better. Red Pill basics come down to some core principles: 1.) Work on yourself, physique, financially, socially. Better yourself, this is rule number one without question. Don't be a fat slob loser basically. 2.) Women are attracted to certain traits, and modern society has taught men the opposite of those attraction queues. How to not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 04:45 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I appreciate the back and forth, and hey you can fight for what you believe is correct in your worldview and that is the awesome place we get to find ourselves in the modern society. We do have the ability to speak freely (mostly.) You can believe men are trying to control women there is nothing wrong with that, it is your prerogative but at the end of the day even in the US women have no rights stripped that men have. Again I don't fully agree with the Red Pill sentiment but I do know it is not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 02:37 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ok so I promise you I am not trying to be rude or misagany or whatever you want to call me but your mindset is just going to be dated very soon, it is not your fault it is the issue with the institutions and what they are teaching. Everyone knows pretty people get with pretty people yes, no one is denying that, that has always been known. What the Red Pill teaches is that women do not just love men for being men, they have to produce and be some sort of addition to society, again nothing wrong w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 02:21 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ok let me preface this by saying I am not completely "Red Pill" cause there are things I agree and disagree with the ideology. That being said the studies on what women find attractive are pretty consistent among studies. Do I actually think its 80% unattractive men, no not necessarily, but the data shows women are not very actively excited to date certain men without certain qualities. Do I blame women and be mad? Sometimes, but no always, that is where people misunderstand the "Red Pill" movem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 01:50 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Data is just there to show men the dynamics between the sexes this is pretty irrefutable at this point, and a good majority of men are waking up to it which is why we are seeing a huge shift in mentality. I am not sure what truth you are trying to refute or what you deem "red pill guys" are making up or such, I honestly have no idea what you are talking about cause your argument is just so vague. Red Pill men btw do not "hate women" as you say, it's just an understanding that you need to be the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 01:19 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". You can have stories and examples that are exceptions and not healthy situations to demonize the Red Pill space but it is not going any where, in fact I do think it is probably only going to grow bigger. Men and women are fundamentally different and men often seek answers in a more formatted way and because of that and the blurred gender norms in Westernized countries the pendulum has to swing back the other way. Most men I know (anecdotally admitted) do not want a Trad Con lifestyle they just s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:13 AM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". That dude is an obvious troll baiting. Yes there are horrible dudes like that, but it is not most guys, I would just block and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:06 AM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". The true red pill is just an observation of intersexual dynamics, that simple, people just want to demonize it any way that can cause it is unflattering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:03 AM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I think we are seeing a major shift in men because men are now allowed to share information due to technology the way women have always shared information and the main stream media does not like it at all. The reason the Red Pill will never die is it is not stated people, it is a sharing of information that men deep down might have questioned but now have so many other men to confirm it and it is now backed by data. Men are also logistic and problem solvers so we naturally gravitate towards trut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 10:59 AM
3	Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex? OP I am not sure what you mean by Many Men have those qualities, no they literally do not. Only 14.5% of the US population are men 6 foot or over, the average salary of a man in the United States is $45k. This is across the entire male population in the states as well and that is including married and older as well, which is why the actual number of young male bachelors in these categories is actually very low, and we need to stop believing these types are just running around all over the place.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 01:45 PM
1	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? Well see this is the issue that has shaped young people in a feminist mind set. Words have serious meaning when trying to have an intellectual conversation. Men do typically follow order, but to be masculine is not to blindly follow order because sometimes the order that is given to them is immoral or wrong, hence why we have revolutions or civil wars. Femininity isn't just inheritantly chaotic, I don't think anyone that is genuine in a male space trying to legitimately have open conversation be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 02:42 PM
1	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? It's literally like you aren't reading my comments at all. I said it's absurd to demand someone with no past experience and it should equally be for the best that both men and women go into a new relationship trying to bring peace and add to each other's lives without bringing past trauma into it. When did this expectation mean repression? Huh!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 02:29 PM
1	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? No drama doesn't mean no past experiences, that would be absurd. I just mean someone that knows who they are and someone who makes life events fun and relaxing. Just be there for them in moments of need and make their life a better experience and it should the same the other way around. Idk when this became crazy to say. Bring peace, not chaos, it's pretty simple for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 06:33 PM
0	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? Just responding to what OP was asking, which is what qualities men are looking for in women. Being polite, nice, bringing peace like I said, idk why you are so offended by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 06:11 PM
1	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? No I literally didn't say either of those things, I should also bring those same things to a relationship. I should bring peace by knowing I have logistics in order and she doesn't have to worry about the basics being met, I have that in place. I also shouldn't invite chaos into her life. Respect her boundaries respect her family and our family if it gets serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 05:46 PM
-3	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? Being able to ease others around her. Create a space of peace and not conflict, I'm in my early 30's I've dealt with too much drama just please bring me peace and be loyal that's all I ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 05:39 PM
0	Modern relationships don’t benefit women Hey totally agree, just gotta make sure you understand citations and really dig into how studies are conducted. I truly believe men and women are just as lonely and just as unhappy being single. There is no time in my life where I've seen an older person truly fulfilled without being surrounded by loved ones. Media also likes to pander towards women being independent and major players will fund studies with an end goal in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 08:24 PM
2	Modern relationships don’t benefit women Eh I'd take those statistics with a grain of salt. Both women and men are almost assuredly happier in fulfilling relationships and surrounded by family. The more difficult part is finding a relationship that makes us happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:33 PM
1	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men I just find it offensive and I'm not even in an age gap relationship. Like if you just see someone cause of age let's not automatically assume they are a predator cause they are dating someone younger. It's the assuming that a lot of people have that is truly ignorant. It's like looking at someone of a certain ethnicity and saying oh because they are of that race they must believe in xyz. Sounds kinda fucked up right? It SOUNDS kinda like racism. So why would we look at someone's age and say oh …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 11:17 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Yes can you see these things if you look for them absolutely. Will you have anecdotal experiences of these things happening, absolutely. But anyone screaming omg there is an age gap there must be predatory behavior happening is just out of touch with reality. Any time I see someone claim that all age gap relationships are predatory I just instantly associate them with the dudes who claim all women are whores and cheaters cause their ex cheated on them. Why are 33% of men in relationships in thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 11:03 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men It was your initial take that there is no way to police that when there actually is a way it's called legal age of consent. When this argument comes up my counter argument is always the same, you can have power differences in any kind of relationship, it doesn't even have to be romantic. You could have the star of the football team befriend the loner and coerce him into doing things against his better judgment because he wants to fit in. I would consider that to be a power indifference regarding…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 03:49 AM
–	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination I'm trying to be generous, laws are laws for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:30 PM
1	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men Bro again I will die on this hill. If I get shipped out to war without my consent at 18 and die for my country a woman who is 18 can consent to an adult relationship. It's that simple, it's not a difficult concept. If she can't consent to a basic relationship then why can she vote, if I have to go to war and die why can I vote even though all FUCKING studies show women mature faster than why can either do those things if they aren't adults. Me personally if you're 25 or older date whoever the fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:02 PM
2	The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men It's almost as if laws are a thing for a reason 🤔 couldn't be just random numbers right? Surely nothing voted in by the public? Absolutely not possible... 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 01:58 PM
3	Why women protect guilty women ? Well, I don't think it's just a possibility. I fully think your latter point is the entirety of a modern woman's game plan. There are based women that will call out other women's bull shit and those are the ones you should hold onto like treasure. Women who excuse other women's bad behavior are often excusing it because they have either done the same thing or have thought about doing the same thing and don't want to take responsibility.	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 09:33 PM
1	What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age? 1000% it goes both ways. Women should not put up with shit from men that make their life worse and the reverse is also true. OP was asking however how she could set herself apart and I just through years of experience now have gone through far too many experiences of women who just love drama and love to argue. There have been a couple I have had amazing experiences with that are just down to earth and chill and ultimately I think that's what most men want, they just want someone to make them fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:21 AM
0	What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age? OP don't be too terribly concerned with your age. It's usually just resentful men taking it out on people online. I'm 33 and the youngest I would ideally date is 26-27. When I was 31 I was seeing a woman who was 42 and she was just as attractive as any of the women my age. I do however want to start a family with multiple kids and age does play a huge factor into that which is why when I date serious again age is something I must consider. If you don't want children yourself then be up front abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 02:59 AM
1	Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversy Of course we do need to make sure and turn out and vote. I'm not the biggest Trump fan neither are some of my friends but we are not taking lightly how the general media has tried to slander an entire party and make us believe we are dumb.	/r/MensRights	24/07/24 10:44 AM
14	Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversy This feels like a Hail Mary from the left to be honest. Even though I'd consider myself conservative or just right of center I don't like Trump in the slightest. My dad who is a hard core supporter of the conservative party doesn't even like Trump, the first republican candidate I've heard him actually criticize. All that being said the response to the attempted assassination of Trump from news outlets and left speaking media personalities pretty much in a matter of days swung anyone in the midd…	/r/MensRights	22/07/24 04:29 AM
1	Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids? Yo OP you trying to invent some new App or something??	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 03:42 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. You say terrible, I say truth. Fundamentally we probably just can't agree, and because you can't argue any of my positive benefits to society I know yet again I win this argument. It is the same thing over and over, there is no reason with modern medicine that someone father or child should ever have to know without certainty of the bloodline, it is absurd with modern science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 02:53 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Oh but it very much is. So you being a Blue Pill Man would agree that medical care should be mandatory and everyone should have basic human health care, and if you refuse to help another person in need you are actually committing an offense. I say that as someone that is more conservative leaning these days but I truly believe that should be the case. Where you are getting lost is in the agenda, logically you should be able to know if a child is yours or not but you are fully lost in why it shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 02:41 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. I said mandatory, not available, those are two different things. I can put the definition here if English is not your native language, I know it can be complicated and I sympathize with that cause I know I have trouble learning other languages its tough work lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 02:22 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Well this is a red herring argument you have against my original point. I brought up several reasons why it should be mandatory, and you are free to disagree with them on a philosophical level or political level but it is going to happen cause both parties will benefit. The only ones who don't benefit are liars and manipulators. My points are to keep it simple since you didn't read my original comment are: DNA provides us with methods to treat and track serious illnesses, and can help treat seri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 02:07 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. You're very clouded because you have the outlook of being someone with the responsibility of having a child but not realizing that there are women that take advantage of men. I do not speak for you personally but often when I get someone so harshly pushing against mandatory testing is either they themselves are a product of a false parenthood situation, or they are someone that wants to deceive others. My guess is with how passionate you are about this and how you deflect any reasonable (they ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:51 PM
2	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Oh it's 1000% inevitable and although it will come through nefarious reasons, big pharma, insurance, ads, it still is just the right thing to do. I have run this around in my head thousands of times and I can not think of one logical reason why a man should be tricked into believing a child is his when the child is not. Other than the dad is terminally ill or something like that. I just wish more women like OP would be like "hey isn't this unethical to trick men" but that won't happen it will co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:39 PM
5	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Believe it or not many marriage laws require men to pay for children that are not theirs, and there have been some high profile laws where there isn't even marriage involved and the man pays alimony. I understand a 100 years ago why this is a thing but in modern day the judicial system needs to be updated, at least in the west idk where you reside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:35 PM
4	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. I would look to the original post. It wasn't talking in a negative light at all towards adoptive parents or knowingly step parents. I don't think anyone looks to those people as less than or at least I've never spoke to anyone that feels that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:30 PM
5	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Yeah it's just a very antiquated set of methods at this point. Like I said there's lots I agree and disagree with on both political sides and with both sexes but paternity testing absolutely should be mandatory. Anyone arguing against it is either hiding something or is deeply paranoid. It only helps on the long run to know who the actual father is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:27 PM
14	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. What does men can already do this (whatever "this" means) I'm assuming you mean paternity testing, which btw is not my argument nor addressed any of my arguments. I said it should be medically mandatory and gave several reasons why, none of which you addressed. You also assumed and demonized men's intentions for wanting to know if a child is theirs, I'm sorry I can imagine you had a bad experience with a man or men sorry that happened to you, but men have a natural inclination to know if a child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:17 PM
3	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. I believe there should be a basic human right to medical care. I also believe there should be a basic human right to know who a child's father is, for all parties involved. Do those two things conflict with each other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:09 PM
20	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Why is it not a basic human right to know if a child is yours or not??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 02:27 PM
–	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. There are things on both sides I disagree with, and things I agree with, Paternity tests being mandatory is the hill I would be willing to die on. Time and time again someone tries to come at me with an argument but there is not an argument to be had other than "it costs money" great just add it in with the 1000 other expenses that both the left and right want to have in their tax structure. Having mandatory tests would help prevent any future heartbreak, possible complete family collapses in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:11 PM
2	Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilities Hey man fully agree, went on a Tinder Tirade as I call it in the last couple of years, and yeah it was fun at first, in the end made me feel like a giant piece of shit. Hope to find someone to fully settle down with in the next few years. There are men however who sleep around and do not feel much, I imagine these people are the same that do not feel much of anything in terms of relationships of any kind and are probably seeking something more in the long run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:21 PM
2	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination You are making this argument against me, I am not speaking about me. I am speaking about social discrimination in couples of large age gaps. Would you like to comment about that, or just try and ad hominem attack me again cause you have nothing to add of value to the conversation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:21 PM
4	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination Yeah it does happen, and it is disgusting, but just because there is an age gap does not = predator. I truly ask you as a stranger on the internet, you think any man dating any woman outside of say a 5 year age gap is specifically trying to groom her to be some sex slave?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:17 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination You do realize there are social consequences to almost anything you do right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:11 PM
-1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination How old was Demi Moore when she married Ashton Kutcher, and why was it never talked about? Just me being a prickly asshat wondering what you think of that, and why it was never a big deal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:04 PM
3	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination I am pretty centered myself, more right of center lately even though I live in Seattle. My biggest questions to the questions the left or social questioning has, is how many questions do we need before we ask ourselves, where did the fundamentals go? He has a point, if you say someone can't fully engage in a sexual relationship or a romantic relationship with another human until you are 25 then why shame or question anyone under that age that chooses to date anyone older than them, or ANYONE for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 12:00 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination Well of course but again any reasonable person would agree this is absurd. Being hit on in a completely unprofessional and distasteful manner would apply to anyone of any age, it is not a committed relationship that person has to the other party. This does not apply to relationships. Why are so many people so enraged about someone dating someone outside of their age range? Yes of course if they are 18 dating a 45 year old, yes that is weird, I understand that, but if they are 30 dating a 40-45 y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:37 AM
2	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Eh bro it won't change in our life time but change will come in the West. I have been to Eastern countries and trust me it is a crazy difference. The West will fail due to modern feminism, we are already seeing the data. Feminism doesn't care about data, but the data doesn't care about feminism. My advice, if you have the financial ability to is to save some money and travel. I plan to move to either the Philippines or Uganda. Maybe Vietnam but I like the other countries better. Hell you could e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:29 AM
3	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination I really appreciate this response and I would imagine this is how any rational person would view this situation. I have been a financial advisor for over a decade and I see exactly how old my clients are and it is a very crucial component of how our firm advises them to invest, diverse, sell, etc. Most couples, I would say 70% are around 2-3 years apart and yes typically the man is older. I have however seen women who are older by significant amounts and men who are older. It is actually very un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:10 AM
1	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man It is not about mind games, I just would like a little bit of courting at this point. If both people know they are attracted to each other, and both get a good vibe that is awesome. That being said it can be an amazing flirting tactic as a woman to withhold a bit. Maybe flirt with me, give me a bit of a chase and then allow it to progress to sex, it really isn't a crazy experience to ask for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:51 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Well of course it does. Men do not experience sex chemically in the same way that women do. You speak of women and men participating in the same sexual revolution, however it is not the same, and it will never be the same, biology always will win. Women and men do not experience sex the same way, it is much more personal for women, that's what most men have been trying to convey in the last few years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 12:05 PM
10	Why do feminists say, kill all men? Most feminists do quite literally believe that most women could best men in war or hand to hand combat though. It is this very odd disconnect where instinctively if they need a piece of furniture moved they will ask their dad or brother but when it comes to if they can stand up to some male stranger she has never met she truly believes she could take him down. It's so funny too cause the whole man or bear viral tik toks that were going around all these feminists talked about how dangerous men ar…	/r/MensRights	02/07/24 09:32 AM
2	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man Dude this is the issue though that has increasingly gotten worse. I would probably put myself as a 7 objectively. Some say lower some say higher but my conversion rate for sex on the first date is like 80-90%. I honestly got sick of it and just want to settle down, but damn can I get a woman to give a little bit of push back in a playful way? They are way too damn eager to get dicked down immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:25 AM
3	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man There are websites that allow you to pick married/non married and the data is pulled straight from the National Census Bureau and yeah the odds are not great if you select anything that is not obese and non married, this goes for men and women tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:22 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. This has been actually proven through AI generated reports among all of the top dating apps and Instagram. Tinder, Hinge and Meta have all done studies on this, even PoF which is super old has cited the same data. Basically 80% of women find 80% of men literally unattractive and undateable, and they find 5-10% so attractive they will actually send the first message and make the move. You will find almost the complete opposite among male users of the apps, they find the majority of women attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:07 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. You need to re-read his comments, he did not say looks. SMV is Sexual Market Value, basically what you command on the dating market. SMV for men and women are very different, for women it is mostly looks, but it also hinges on if she has a sense of humor, does she have children from a past relationship, and most importantly after looks is if she is just a peaceful person to be around. For men looks are still in my opinion number one, however things like social status, net worth, and demeanor can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:01 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Do you believe in chemical differences between men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 08:55 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Talking to feminists is like talking to a wall that can actually strike you if you say something even remotely unflattering to their worldview. It's a losing battle my guy. I try now to just speak to the women still in the middle willing to listen to advice, and occasionally try and purposefully piss off a feminist here and there because why not, its pretty damn easy to do lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 08:54 AM
8	A Men Only Retreat. Comments section is absolutely disgusting and sadly, expected for this type of video on Reddit This is one of the best comments I have ever read. Gay men are stereotyped as well, and as men they deserve the same respect any other individual receives, and throughout my life I have had gay friends that are very masculine and others that are quite the opposite. At the end of the day they are people, and it is funny how the same people will call you a bigot or racist for pointing out biological differences in men and women will so quickly call you gay for advocating for men's rights. The hypo…	/r/MensRights	01/07/24 05:47 AM
29	A Men Only Retreat. Comments section is absolutely disgusting and sadly, expected for this type of video on Reddit Idk why I never even thought of this but I actually believe this would squash any single debate about men and women being equal physically. Just abolish it altogether and when there are literally no biological women in sports they would have to without a doubt acknowledge there is a difference. Then again they would probably just turn around and say there is some sort of systemic oppression against women in sports.	/r/MensRights	01/07/24 05:42 AM
9	Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. That's amazing, I am glad you had the courage, and I am very happy he reciprocated. I believe most men, truly most men, would be ecstatic to receive a fairly direct approach from a woman, but I could probably ask all of my entire friend group how often it has happened and all would say it never has. So if some women really like a guy and take a shot on him I think they would be truly shocked how well they would be received.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 05:35 AM
9	Why do feminists hate Men's Mental Health Awareness Month being brought up? Wait, we're human and actually have feelings? I've never been told that my whole life.	/r/MensRights	28/06/24 11:42 PM
1	Why assume we are unattractive? Well I'm not saying talk to women or others like that. In fact I'd say it's very bad to talk in a general sense to people like that. I mean in this one specific area I have to talk to myself harshly or I start slacking off and hearing other guys message of get your shit together and quit complaining works for me and some other men, not all men but some do respond well to it. They have actually done studies on it, some people respond better to harsh criticism and some prefer a more friendly appro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 07:53 AM
1	Why assume we are unattractive? I think for some people they are motivated by no bullshit approaches and for others they shut down that way. For me with anything I've ever accomplished I have to tell myself to shut up strap in and do the damn work. So I think some resonate with it and others it just pisses them off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 12:58 AM
2	Why assume we are unattractive? I think it depends on who you listen to, I wouldn't consider myself red pill but I do believe there are parts of it that are very helpful, and there are a few red pill guys that aren't douchey at all and truly just want to help men out. That is why I said so much of the community has just becomes a grift and often lead men to black pill creators. Increasing your health, looks, increasing your wealth and social status are going to help you with women but also just help you in life. I also think s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 06:31 AM
2	Why assume we are unattractive? I think you're confusing red pill with black pill which unfortunately has become more mainstream as of late. Black pill more or less are men that think unless you have certain physical qualities there is no hope for you and nothing you can ever do will attract women. This is what you're referring to when it's unsuccessful men internalizing it. Incels tend to fall into this category. Red Pill is basically stating that you must get x, y, and z in order before you should even start trying to find a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 08:14 PM
3	A comment on a youtube post that really triggered me. Man I am so sorry to hear this. I have heard this time and time again from many men, and I count my blessings every single day that my mom truly without hesitation shows me unending love. Even as a man some day when I have children I could not fathom expecting anything of them other than being themselves and just loving them for who they are. Some people are just shitty I guess.	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 09:04 AM
11	Aside from that first comment it’s very telling to see which statements are upvoted and which are downvoted Even in a men's dominant and accepting space such as this sub is I may say something that will offend people. I am now 32, I have had one extremely long relationship, a couple of quick ones, and hookups. Women operate purely out of emotion and physical drive when it comes to sexual desires. In the work force they can be absolute assets to a company, can even be amazing bosses, and leaders, but when it comes to personal shit, they literally cannot see beyond their own self pride. A man could be d…	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 01:52 PM
–	All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 11:27 AM
1	Harrison Butker Controversy Dude I am willing to have an honest conversation but you went off the rails here. His speech was talking about his faith (again I am the least religious person you'll meet) and he was talking to other people who hold their faith in high regard. He was specifically praising his wife, got emotional, talked about how he could not be the man he is, good not even fathom his life without her and somehow that's being called misogynist and bigoted. Do you not understand the hypocrisy here? He did not on…	/r/MensRights	19/05/24 05:28 AM
1	Harrison Butker Controversy You do realize that he got a standing ovation for the speech right? It is almost like there are masses of people with differing viewpoints from the left that agreed with what he said shocked pikachu face To me there is nothing more important than family. There is nothing more important than my future as a father in the coming years. I am not religious myself, but the way that social media teaches kids to be some sort of burden is outlandish to me. Many women are taught to not have children unt…	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 09:18 AM
18	Childbirth pain is because of the 'patriarchy' now apparently. Jeez that's just fucking evil..	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 02:06 AM
2	I’m Struggling It's cause luckily YouTube is still one of the only platforms that allows talking points among all political parties. Them and X/Twitter are pretty much the only two I can think of that is pretty hands off when it comes to that content. I guess there is a new streaming site that is very pro free speech but I can't think of the name off the top of my head. Pretty much any other media outlet or social media is anti man and anti conservative it's pretty ridiculous. All its going to do is make us mo…	/r/MensRights	06/05/24 06:11 PM
2	So apparently its okay for women to watch porn but not for men Oh yeah I wake up every single day asking myself how can I oppress every woman I come across at the most efficient level 🤣 We might be doomed that this is legitimately thought amongst feminists. Idk maybe things will shift soon but I'm not holding my breath.	/r/MensRights	05/05/24 09:23 AM
23	So apparently its okay for women to watch porn but not for men Twoxchromosomes is the most insufferable sub on this entire platform. I've said it many times before but I'll say it again it is literally what r/Redpill used to be but occupied by women instead of men. Straight up misandry and hate speech in that sub.	/r/MensRights	04/05/24 10:50 PM
17	Fellow men: why and when did you realize feminists and society are against us? Crazy how this can be said with a straight face and not be considered misandy and racism at the same time (which it is both of those things). Sorry you had to go through that though dude the feminist movement hasn't poisoned a lot of minds.	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 05:17 AM
17	Fellow men: why and when did you realize feminists and society are against us? I had to look at their post history to try and understand why they would even comment that. They are a raging feminist it's obvious in that they attack anything opposite of far left ideologies. Sadly that's acceptable in today's political climate.	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 04:33 AM
13	App's went from "Are we dating the same man" ...to... "Is my Guy's Penis Diseased?... look" (more lawsuits coming?) One of my best friends is gay and he literally tells me all the time how happy he is to be gay so he doesn't have to deal with dating women 😂 Also it's been a running joke to buy stock in pet food companies but every year I'm starting to believe it might actually be a great investment.	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 03:07 PM
5	Megan Fox offers her best advice to single women: Don't waste your energy on men Are you sure the only reason we didn't see trans people for thousands of years is the oppression of the toxic patriarchy holding them back? /S	/r/MensRights	16/04/24 02:36 PM
1	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex Oh I see what you are saying. I would have to give more thought to that, my general take is that it would be a good thing if it wasn't happening on such a large scale. So I understand the point you are trying to make and it would apply if it were a few bad apples but it's not, it's the majority of young women going after the top tier guys. With dating apps being the primary center of the dating market, having almost all the women only swipe on the top 15% by most studies conclusions, it will lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:16 PM
2	Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sex Oh of course it's not the end all be all but when a woman has genuine attraction for you and you understand how to read the signs for this, your odds for success are going to be much higher. I do think looking at values is a very great indicator of things as well. Things like having a private social life, not glorifying hookup culture, how strong are her familial bonds, and how do her friends act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 10:49 PM
1	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I think you are agreeing with OP without actually realizing it. OP's claim is that women only want the top tier guys without being top tier themselves and so won't get commitment from those men. "As long as women don’t need to be with a man to have a decent life they will stay single until they meet someone substantially good and attractive to where it’s worth it to not be single." So in other words "good and attractive enough" is the top tier guys. The men with options that won't just commit to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 10:42 PM
7	Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sex I think it's just important if you want to be in a serious relationship with a girl make sure it's a girl that chases you and chooses you. As soon as a girl is bored she will start looking elsewhere it's pretty simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:09 PM
1	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex Her response to this I think actually proves OP's point	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:00 PM
2	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I think the issue is that the majority of relationships start via dating apps and the numbers are very skewed when it comes to what men find attractive and what women find attractive. The second most common way is meeting through mutual connections or friend circles but most studies show that this is falling at a somewhat quick rate. So basically OkCupid and Tinder found women only find the top 10-20% of eligible men attractive. Therefore the most common way of meeting a romantic partner nowaday…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 08:49 PM
1	As young men become more disengaged with political and social issues, its not the relationship between men and women we should be worried about. There is no way you aren't just trolling me right now. If they are a male feminist they would still want women to get drafted as in the idea of feminism is pushing equality. Again it doesn't matter if you are male or female you would push for either neither sex to be drafted or both sexes to be drafted. If not then you are being disengenuine to the movement or you are picking and choosing which equalities you want. What is really happening is that feminists want to act as though men and women ar…	/r/MensRights	10/04/24 09:23 AM
4	As young men become more disengaged with political and social issues, its not the relationship between men and women we should be worried about. I'm so confused by what you are even trying to argue, maybe you are confused by what equality means. Oxford definition of equality: the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, and opportunities. So by that measure either all people men and women would be subject to the same drafting laws. Why if feminism was about pushing equality among men and women is this not something women are pushing for? We all know the answer but only one side is acknowledging it..	/r/MensRights	10/04/24 08:46 AM
12	As young men become more disengaged with political and social issues, its not the relationship between men and women we should be worried about. You can't be this dense? Feminism preaches "equality" yet if they wanted equality why aren't they pushing for equal draft and military responsibility? It doesn't matter if you are a male or female feminist, practice what you preach.	/r/MensRights	09/04/24 04:34 PM
2	"Giving up on modern ........." As of right now I'm focusing on my career and paying a couple of properties off. Dating can be quite expensive and I want to focus on having a family. So it's really a mix of wanting to allocate all of my money into real estate and wanting to find a woman that aligns with wanting to start a family. It's really hard to find where I am (Seattle) quite often women around my age, so mid to 20's to early 30's don't want children or already have children from a past relationship. That's fine I hope th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 07:03 AM
3	"Giving up on modern ........." It's not true so don't worry. Most men deeply desire to have a family. My more recent break in the dating scene is caused actually because of the opposite reason. So many women are willing to have sex so quickly and as a guy it can be hard to turn down. It got old really fast. I think there are challenges for both sexes. I think for Women social media can be like a drug. They scroll over and over through Instagram or Tik Tok and see all these Luxerious life styles believing that a regular relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:28 AM
0	"Giving up on modern ........." Yeah my experience has been the same, it's probably partly cause I am a bit older and more established (in my 30's with a good career) but it's pretty often that I have ended up sleeping with women after the first date. They are usually very willing and even initiate, or openly invite me back to their place. It honestly has gotten old, never thought I would say that, but now I want to start a family I want to invite someone to share the rest of my life with, but it's been hard with how sexualize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 05:15 AM