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| 3 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyHahaha what, so the $21-32 trillion hoarded in offshore accounts by a small minority of ultra wealthy people, that could make life easier for everyone living right now, that's the fault of women and feminism too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 06:05 AM |
| 0 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Bro, read books by other female writers, Esther doesn't speak for all women. Also, cherry picking much. Oh no, people care about their own self interest, especially people who barely know you? no one knew this until op came along, run for the hills, it's the end of the world. You want women to serve your every whim wile crawling on their knees from the get go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Would men actually be happy if dating were easy?I find that men who are all about the "chase" and exalt its importance, having nothing else going for them, so of course they'll try and make a bigger deal out of it than it actually is. I wish people online would keep in mind, just like how feminists don't speak for all women, the manoshpere and the rest of their ilk don't speak for all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:58 AM |
| 0 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityIn a fair society with ubi this would not be a problem. Until then, the dude was dumb enough to bust a nut but then proclaims he didn't want to be a parent, yeah cry me a fucking river. Wrap it up or stfo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:49 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Support and encouragement on Instagram? That seems bizarre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Why does society treat women with kid gloves, especially when it comes to relationships?Opens history book.... Closes history book... Yup, nothing to see here, women have it easy peasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 11:18 AM |
| 22 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionFor some reason, OP neglects to mention in this post that all the action he's gotten over in the east was payed for, coming to a grand total of $7000 including flights and accommodation I assume. I don't see how you can infer anything about a population when you barely, if ever interacted with their average citizens. Lol that last sentence, what a doozy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | What does it actually mean to be a non traditional man?Bit of confirmation bias you've got there, surrounding yourself with yes men in real life and also getting your "observations" on society from men grifters who have a vested interest in selling these ideas. Especially their very narrow and heavily religiously influenced version of "traditional man". Shit, I lost interest in this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 03:52 AM |
| – | Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot?Fucking Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is the hope of a relationship more important than the relationship itself?he's a high IQ guy From the very same paragraph, your best friend getting played clearly indicates he wasn't all that high IQ a guy in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:15 AM |
| – | Non Western simps in the West are patheticSame brother, OP has some really weird rose tinted glasses on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How is it that such severely dysfunctional and socially inept people so often seem to be in long term relationships?I considered myself to be a strong conversationalist who can talk to pretty much anyone of any background Clearly this is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s the magic number?The masculine hive mind compels you to obay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.Oh hey, geez I feel like, congratulations are in order just for including the word, "some", damn, mighty refreshing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | most women don't deserve chivalry from menBro, why is patience, social grace and loyalty and faithfulness not an aspect of chivalry? No wonder it's seen as a bullshit term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotA woman with a mental disability who served in the Vietnam war? Sure bub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.A subreddit does not and never will represent the public at large. She came to this corner of the internet specifically for validation, instead of going to her peers or bringing it up to the actual community where she resides. You don't need 10 guesses to figure out why that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.I wish more women were hideous bog witches, who, in my case tosses babies in the fire. I've met one, but two or three more would be lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the men here who fail think they are the most enlightened?I mean, people aren't that complex, nothing that people do requires expertise to point out that something is amis. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to point out that rockets blowing up is a problem, and people are nowhere near as complicated to understand than rocket propulsion, if they were, humanity would have gone extinct eons ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Regarding people that want children and LTRs…Why do you guys think single and childless people are not matching with other single and childless people ?I mean every dating app with a large user base locks the option to filter for others who are without kids or don't want kids behind a pay wall. That already puts people off from looking for someone similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?Looking at the source links provided. Dailymail. New York Post. YouTube. YouTube again. YouTube again. The 5% research interestingly asserts that the rise in male sexlessnes is reflected in the rise of inequality. So men who are more dependent on capital are experiencing more difficulties in dating because of late stage capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:26 AM |
| – | Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexuallyAll men are dangerous... .. .. .. Except for him??? This woman is in for one rude awakening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 4 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Idk why this sub likes to portray having a rich, diverse friend group is the norm for modern women Because that's how modern women, online at least like to portray women. As if women belong to some kind of sisterhood and get along smashingly with other women and gay men, regardless of race because of solidarity or some shit. Older women and grandma's in particular have wide friend circles because they actually had time to dedicate to maintaining their social networks, because keeping a friend ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV : personality is just as shallow a reason to be with somebody as looksObvious ain't it, 90% of any social activity isn't fun. Volunteer work sucks ass, it's draining, there's no pay and the effort might be in vein. Same thing with dancing, it's effort and repetition and practice and the effort might be in vein. Same thing with yoga, it's awkward and feels stupid. Or anime, which is 90% hot garbage. And that goes for being kind and generous as well. People will trample all over that shit at the drop of a pin. And lastly, online game chat lobbies, name me a more put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach.Here's a revolutionary idea, maybe, just maybe, if you're going out to a social gathering place like a bar or club, focus on just enjoying yourself first. All this "must be attractive" stuff flies out the window when people are bored and lonely, women too. Most people nowadays try and meet on apps because they suck at it in the real world, but it turns out most of them also suck on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Man, I just realised from this that my type is proactive women, who don't wait around for things to happen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itSo, tldr, Men are weaker than women, gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.OP, please open a history book from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:36 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Then don't have kids? How is this hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 36 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?"The bar is so low... for the men I choose", should be the full version of that line. I can't fathom how anyone can extrapolate their own personal choice in partners to be reflective of entire cultures of people, different to theirs, whom they have never met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?Lmao, what a strawman, please find me the woman who fits this description in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Let's not pretend that infighting and disagreements on approaching a social issues wasn't inherent in all of these groups you listed as well. The suffrage movement is like the poster child of one group, white women in this instance, only caring about an issue until they don't benefit from it any longer. Took another 30-48 years and another movement amongst many other failed attempts to actually enshrine their equal rights, women of colour in this case. So just because you encountered a man and o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 12:40 AM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?I mean at that point there's nothing else an average person can do besides calling emergency services anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveSounds more like a her problem than a women as a whole problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:29 AM |
| 37 | Bullying women to lower their standardsIf this is considered what amounts to bullying, then I suggest getting off social media is your next port of call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menBecause she literally made a choice that went against her beliefs/ core decisions that clashed with his, and now she's trying to backtrack on poor decision-making. Could have bought one of those almost real baby dolls that also cry in the night and handed it to him to take care of for six months to a year, by himself, see how long that actually lasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other optionsLol bruv, you pretending that religion doesn't exist or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.If that's your takeaway then you do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:06 AM |
| 9 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Published women's romance fiction as a representation of what all women find attractive in men is practically a worthless indicator and should not be used in my opinion. Romance fiction dwarfs science fiction and fantasy in terms of books sold, it's done so for a long time now. In terms of writers that have membership to a romance writers association in comparison to the rest of speculative fiction, again the numbers are astronomical. Now all of that will make seem like how men are depicted in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.OP I think you have an interesting hypothesis, but the way you go about arguing it undermines the entire premise. The only valid comparison with a league of legends esports player is a female lol esports player, but neither Riot nor any of the other tournament platforms are willing to invest in a women's division, so we'll never know until then. But that's neither here nor there. Had you done a little research you would have certainly tried to show that 'sex pest' and 'sleez ball' are qualifiers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit?You couldn't list one example? Regardless, it should be obvious that the over generalized statements made by anyone here or across the rest of social media should be taken with bags of salt. I mean there's just no way to take anyone serious who makes an observation on an entire gender based on their personal choices in partners or the partners they hoped to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedAs always, the internet is not the real world. "The wall", age gaps and other similar things are over-exaggerated to extremes because that is what social media demands for topics to hold relevance. But OP, it's not like these things aren't in some sense based on real consistencies made through observations. "The wall" is a deragotary way to describe something that impacts women, but what are two things that happen to many women in their late twenties/ early thirties that have tremendous impacts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.Women attribute mens dating struggles to their personality or lack thereof and men attribute womens dating struggles to their decision making. Making their problems an individual issue that they need to sort out themselves. The more I look at this issue, the more it is clear that average men and women's inability to find a fitting partner stems from a systemic lack of time. Systemic in the sense that we spend way more time working for way less pay compared to, say 40 years ago. Give men and wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | What female PPD users pretend they look VS what they actually look like.I mean, to be fair, no one on planet earth looks like the first image, not even the model for the shoot as the photo required a team of professionals to take. Photographer, makeup artist, hair stylist and post production photo editing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Sooo, what is your solution exactly? Destroy global communications, make it illegal to have hundreds of suitors? But really, I don't see how that makes much of a difference. Some women have always had a lot of suitors, orbiters and simps. Now that amount of women has simply increased. That's it. Lot of those options aren't great either , as many women will attest to. But really, the bigger culprit to people across the spectrum ending up either alone or in a relationship that sucks or is abusive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 05:30 PM |
| – | CMV: Both men and women are forced into a perpetual state of political correctness and virtue signalling and despite the mutual understanding we choose to be in denial even when it comes to our potential partner.Aahh mister semantics well played, maybe next time put the word "some" men and women in your title then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:34 AM |
| – | CMV: Both men and women are forced into a perpetual state of political correctness and virtue signalling and despite the mutual understanding we choose to be in denial even when it comes to our potential partner.I mean you seem to be hellbent on this idea that everyone just virtue signals all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:25 AM |
| – | CMV: Both men and women are forced into a perpetual state of political correctness and virtue signalling and despite the mutual understanding we choose to be in denial even when it comes to our potential partner.Hate to break it to you, but if you feel the need to tone down your language just to hook a potential date, then it is you who is the coward. If women don't want to stick around after you spout whatever nonsense comes out of your mouth then that's their problem and also their right to do so. There is no obligation for anyone to entertain your idea of what a date should look like my man. But don't go around trying to insist that everyone else is in the wrong when you don't even do these things yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:16 AM |
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