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| 1 | In need of help since I am blind most of the time | Comprehensive | Wicked441 | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 08:27 AM |
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| 14 | How to approach a guy, how to tell you are availableI am a 22 year old guy, currently dating a girl and I'll tell how she got my attention and how she keeps mine: She is a real fan of active listening. People can listen to what you say, but do they remember what you tell them? My date does. She remembers things we talked about in detail. She looks me in the eyes, smiles a lot, she jokes about things she says ans things I say. She doesn't really flirt with me, or not to my knowledge. She likes me and I like her. This method caught me by surprise, … | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | How to compensate when you have bad skin from cystic acne, dating advice?The line about seeing it as something that makes you special, is one of the best advices that could be giving, in my opinion. I have a similar matter, I am a 22 year old dude and my hair is already turning grey. I know it's not something you can really compare, but I used to be insecure about it, since it made me different and wasn't and the phenomenon isn't common. Now I see it as a plus, since it makes me special, because most people don't have this. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What time should we meet if she's got early shift the next day?I would try to meet in a place where eating is also an option. Not just a place with only drinks. It gives you options. Maybe you can look for a place that has boardgames in store free to use. A walk and a coffee is also very good. I would try to walk by some good scenery. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Hello friendsHey friend, how are you | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:24 AM |
| 6 | How does this Sub apply to people with autism?As someone on the spectrum too. I was capable to learn being social. My parents kinda pushed me into a normal school, so i needed to learn how to communicate. Diagnosed with MCDD and PDDNOS (old spectrum i think), sarcasm and the meaning behind a comment are still something vague to me. Related to this post, when it comes to flirting, i am blind. I just think they are nice to me. So i am nice back and somehow unintentionally flirt back, but i am just trying to be nice. I always have a thought gi… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Push and pull is very important (story)I see most girls looking at me when i am downtown or working as a courier. Yesterday I saw an amazing girl. I was tapping on my steering wheel while riding my bike, she looked at me doing the same, i started using my fingers for the rhythm. She did as well. She copied me, sadly I didn't had the courage to chat with her or ask her number. I am 21, a bit younger then you ;) | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Push and pull is very important (story)Finally a story i can get behind and learn from. Explaining what a pull is and what a push. This helps me a lot, thank you so much! Now only need to actually talk to a girl with his intent, in a gentle way ofcourse. I have question back, were you nervous at these times? | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 09:26 AM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.You should go to the gym because you want it for yourself. Not because you can get women that way. I started going to the gym (im tall and incredibly slim and light so i wanted to get heavier and stronger. Not by much, don't want a muscular guy) but women started to notice me more because i was fit and a bit more muscular. So, you should go for yourself. Not because what other want. And a gym isn't necessary, a friend of mine doesn't gym isn't that attractive and has some matches on Tinder. It's… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Do people get second chances?Maybe it is best to let go. You changed cuz of her. See this as a lesson. If you cam do that | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do people get second chances?You can always try. I would ask her to give you a chance to prove it. Ofcourse, she thinks you will do your absolute best and things will go back to normal... Make sure that that doesn't happen. Do things with her you never did before. New events, new fun things and give her the attention she needs and make her feel needed and loved | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Do people get second chances?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do people get second chances?If he had really changed, and everyone can tell. Why not? Don't we all deserve a second chance? | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | e/seduction needs more advice for girls!!Using your example, i would've lost interest and would've moved on. But for my last girlfriend didn't play any games or didn't circle around it. A long story, i will tell if you are curious. I used to like a girl this school year, but she did send so many mixed signals, it drove me nuts. I still do not know if she likes me, but I've come to the conclusion that she isn't that great for me thb | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Apparently I'm shyMaybe I can help. I have moderate autism which gives me some serious problems towards socializing. I learned to be more open to people because I did it with my friends. Telling them more about my day or a fun story i read or experienced. I pushed myself going out with friends and just start talking in the group. I convinced myself that new people are unexplored potential friends. From my experience you need to build it up. Asking questions can never get wrong as long as you ask normal ones, like… | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 11 | e/seduction needs more advice for girls!!Maybe I can help you, I am 20 years old man (almost 21) and I myself have problems with getting a "normal" girlfriend. (Had one which used me for her own expedition on sexual partners, she wanted to know if she was gay or not. Turned she was). I liked some girls in elementary school and college, but the main problem for me is that most girls drop small hints. Sometimes so small I do not recognise them, like being kind. You can be kind as a friend, or with an agenda. Friends of mine have the same… | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Flirting over text and FaceTimeYou can have girls come over, if you live in a country where they haven't taken restrictions concerning social activities or people coming over. Otherwise you can't, I've seen some posts about quitting tinder for a while cuz of this social distancing. I really depends how strict your country is at the moment. IMO | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlIf you live in The Netherlands too, come and join us ;) | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlHit me up when this is over | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlGood plan, dunno if the age difference will matter. I am almost 21 | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlSame, i'll hit a friend of mine up. He has been inside for 3 weeks now. Poor fellow | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlUtrecht | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Coronavirus and making a move on a girlIt's okay to go on date these days, if you country hasn't locked down or closed bars and restaurants. As long as you keep up your hygiene. For example, I live in The Netherlands and all bars and restaurants are closed, we aren't in lockdown, but it looks a bit that way. So dating here is a bit hard. But just message and take things slow and explain why. That might help you. GOOD LUCK mate!! | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 09:14 AM |
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