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Im so ready for whatever nonsense she’s about to spill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:23 PM
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No, it’s not. Because 1) you don’t know me and I have zero issues meeting women. In fact I could be in a relationship right now if I wanted. 2) I chose, by myself on my own terms, to stay single and not have anything going on. The moment I downloaded the apps, 2-3 weeks later I was in said „Situationship“ or whatever with the 22 y/o. So yea. You just spent a lot of energy for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:22 PM
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I’ve been in a relationship ship for the past 10 years.(8 with my ex, 2 with my ex-ex).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:02 PM
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I dated 2 of them over 2024, yes. Or in other words - we just had fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:06 PM
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You’re untreatable. Bye 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:10 AM
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Point is that that’s the point for many young women. Many 25 y/o would marry a 35 y/o.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:09 AM
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😂 unbelievable response. What does that even mean????!!!! You’re literally saying by that logic that people are supposed to date THOUSANDS of people. I can’t. How old are you?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:07 AM
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So explain to me how, in 2024 alone, 2 or 2 situationships (that I have ended on my terms, not the other way around) — have been with a 26yo and a 22yo? Am I like, a prince or something? Is my reality so far off from other men? By your logic, That would mean I’m like a 1% top dawg in the game. It so - thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:04 AM
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The hard truth is that most men don’t care if most women don’t want older men. They simply stick it out until they got one, which will happen inevitably, since it’s just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:50 AM
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That’s weird bc I’m also telling the hard truth 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:28 AM
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You’re oblivious. That’s fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:26 AM
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Yea maybe idk I’m not a native speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:25 AM
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No. Absolutely incorrect. When I open hinge or tinder I get tons of DM’s by attractive 20-25 year old. That’s just not true, that’s what I’m trying to tell you. Of course that would be entirely different if I wouldn’t be attractive. I know I am, but u also know that an overweight, broke 32 yo guy has next zero % chance to pull a younger girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:18 AM
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That’s true. The preposition for the man would be to either be really really rich or really really attractive, which most men aren’t. But since this is sub for debate, we should talk via a Birds Eye view and simply accept the statement that GENERALLY men prefer younger women. If that man is a 52yo overweight slime turd or a 39yo athletic business consultant is a whole other topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:15 AM
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Yes because it obviously doesn’t make sense to talk to you. You’re making a science out of nothing. It’s so easy. „Men prefer young women because they’re more attractive“ - literally so easy to understand. and you’re trying to fiddle and dance around that like a demon in a church.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:11 AM
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„No woman will ever do X“ okay Betty, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:06 AM
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why I’m not no going after a 32 old? I literally just explained that. Because a 32 year old will be less attractive than a 25 year old. What the fuck is so hard to understand?! Seriously. Stand 2 women next to each other, same level of attractiveness. One is 25, the other 32. why pick the 32 year old with more baggage, less attractive body? Before you take your women female victim stance: A 25 Y/O HUMAN BEING IS A GROWN ADULT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:00 AM
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They’re attracted to you because they want the MILF Treatment, not because they want to fucking marry you. You’re aware of that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:55 AM
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Yeah, why would you? Good question. Are you mad if younger women want old fucks to pay for their shit? No. No, you’re not. Also it’s not about „old fucks“. I’m 32. I look good, take care of myself and got money. Why the fuck would I want to date a fucking 35 year old who’ll look all saggy and dusty in 5 years when I can just date a 25 y/o GROWN ADULT WOMAN, who will love me just the same way as the 35 year old?! You’re delusional and incapable of swallowing the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:52 AM
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Cool story. Majority of men will still prefer a 25 yo, fit, woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:43 AM
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You’re just pissed. You’re the reason this post has been made. Just accept the truth and move on. Its not bound to YOUR individual self worth ffs. Whats so hard about simply accepting that 99% of men prefer younger women?! I don’t see men bitching around that women prefer rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:42 AM
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This is called generalization which is needed in order to lead a Birds Eye view discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:40 AM
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Because for us that’s not in an insult, it’s just how we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:50 AM
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WTFFFFF 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 What I am describing is LITERALLY the opposite of searching for female validation. Are you okay??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:29 PM
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Who said they aren’t coming around lol. Also how do you know that if you „don’t have casual sex“. Ah yes. The infinite loop of „x-Type of men are insecure“. Every man who speaks the truth is insecure lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:05 PM
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Im the „outside of Reddit“ type of guy. And yes - all my buddies, most of them make 100k+ a year and are established men, will never ever get into something serious with a woman older than 29. I mean.. why? Why would they. Everyday a lovely girl turns 23. Why would they work so hard on their finances, body and moral structure to then just knock some 34 year old ex-party queen up?! Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:53 PM
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What do you mean „horrible sex“? I’m 32 and had sex with only 4 women. 2 of which I’ve been in long term (5+ years) relationships. Whatever adjective in the book you choose from dirty to kinky, we did it all. You are the textbook example of a notch count accumulating woman who thinks more is better. I’ve been single recently and I knocked two lovely girls brains out without having a whole album of bodies stacked up on my name. In fact, woman like you are the ones who do not understand MALE sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:49 PM
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they don’t prioritize it. They all end up wanting to settle down. Women - being women - don’t understand that actions have consequences. They throw themselves out the window. They only ‚want‘ to ride the cock carousel because NOW it’s rewarding. It won’t be rewarding when they’re 32 years old. But by then, they’re used goods for good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:58 PM
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It depends. I would consider myself average. In the past, I could date „equal“ or „up“. Nowadays (just got out of a 7 year relationship) women aim miles up higher from who they are in actuality. They seem to be stuck in a loop of having casual sex with „chads“, being their personal free for use whores, only to then „settle down“ after they’ve been ran through enough. Of course the average man does not want them at that point, which results in an endless loop of average guys not finding a proper …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:03 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:06 PM
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You’re speaking in hypotheticals. Nobody is forcibly obligated to take women out on expensive dates, duh! At the same time I’d say 9/10 attractive women are so spoiled with attention, they completely lost all sensitivity to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:48 PM
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This is the best, most neutral and easy to read explanation of the read pill. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:28 AM
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Can you link me the statistical data you mentioned here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:12 AM
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Stop making ChatGPT posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:40 PM
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It does. But for totally different reasons. Cmon… for gods sake don’t play so stupid. You know as well as me of the very real pattern of „bad boys“ and „nerds“. Like, how many of your female friends were with some type of total loser drug dealer cool guy during high school years and then end up with the everyday normal guy later. In school women want the coolest guy on the yard. In college they want the best looking / most interesting guy on the campus. After college they want the guy with the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:15 PM
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… That. Is. What. I’m. Saying. They marry them but female hypergamy combined with unlimited choices will kick in and make them re-think their choice. Courts favor women in 99% of cases. Women cashes out by ex husbands money while also venturing out on new adventures with her newly acquired freedom. I’ve seen it myself happen at least 6 times within my own family or broader acquaintances. 6 divorces. 0 divorces initiated by men. And it was always the same script. „I’m unhappy“ „we changed“ „we’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:35 PM
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That is literally what I am saying. Again: Women will divorce these men because they are not in the 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:29 PM
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No, that’s why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Because that’s what they care about. Money and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:00 PM
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These empty phrases are useless. Reality plays in front of us men every day. Nasty divorces, women who don’t give sex and then complain of cheating, „dates“ being interviews about our salary & lifestyle, women who never let go of their male orbiter and external resources. Etc. You can nag all you want but it won’t change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:30 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:27 PM
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I think that only depends on physical attractiveness. If a woman is good, loyal caring AND blazing hot she has unlimited options and immediate access.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:23 PM
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Disagree. The difference is this: If a woman is good, loyal and caring that’s enough to find a relationship. If a man is good, loyal and caring that’s not enough. You need money and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:05 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:14 AM
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Yea, I keep telling them the same. I literally tell them to cut down their criteria and just date on their level but they refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:21 PM
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I have to again - disagree (yet somewhat agree). The women you talk about indeed exist. But if I want to keep my „standard“ (I have dated really really hot women… my ex-fiancé was a runway model and I’ve been with her for 7 years) you have to check all the boxes. That’s just what it is. I know I could right now get up my chair, set up 30 dates within the next 1-2 months and walk home with a relationship. But I don’t want a „most women“. I want a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:09 PM
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I thought so too, and it’s been my experience too. But their experience truly proved me wrong. They’re both making 100k+, drive expensive cars, trendy loft apartment, okay-good physique. They’re both just really socially awkward. Seems like that’s a real commitment killer, because both can have casual sex from now and then. But no woman seems to consider them as partner-material.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:02 PM
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Disagree. A woman has to be this: Beautiful & fairly emotionally stable. That’s it. Men have to be: Charming; financially set; great physique; funny and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:59 PM
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I’d say for both the issue is that they’re pretty socially awkward. They’re just straight up boring. But if you‘d ask me that shouldn’t equate into their reality. But they both have an amazing apartment. Drive Mercedes AMG variants. They’re well educated. They have realistic expectations. That’s the issue bespoken. Men have to check EVERY. SINGLE. BOX. To even be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:57 PM
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Disagreed. I know many average men. Most of my buddies are financially well off but lack in looks or social status. They don’t date for these insane reasons and they’re single for multiple YEARS despite going on dates constantly and wanting to commit to a monogamous relationship. Dating apps opened Pandora’s box for women. They can simply go in, pick and choose, and then leave the dating pool with any man she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:20 PM
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Absolutely nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:17 PM
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This is ridiculously accurate. Might be the most accurate breakdown I’ve ever read on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:15 PM
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Congrats. That’s just not the standard experience though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:43 PM
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Those two things don’t exist here on Reddit. This is a dem controlled safe space. Anti white racism „doesn’t exist“ to the Reddit hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:02 PM
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LMAOOOOOOO this is so ridiculous. Women throw a tamper tantrum like teenagers because trump won.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:53 PM
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A fresh haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:23 PM
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Im 32 and graduated 1 year ago. I just got out a 7 year relationship. I’m fairly attractive and never had any issues landing dates or make out with women more attractive than me. I said I never HAD. Because now I certainly do. Yes. You should wait and get your life in order. If you don’t make at least 6 figures you’re barely considered by attractive women. Sure - I could go out there and get SOMEONE. But obviously I have standards, that I have to meet myself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:56 PM
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100% this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:13 PM
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I just graduated university and statistically already make more money than 50% of the population within my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:53 AM
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You literally started your sentence with „why do some men“ and now you start your sentence with „why are men trying to hold“. You see a pattern here? See how each and every word that’s coming out of your mouth starts with accusing men of XYZ? Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:06 PM
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Why do women always ask this question when held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:31 AM
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Perfectly legal here in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:48 PM
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Yea marriage is a bad idea, especially for men, considering 70% of the time the woman divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:27 AM
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Great post. Yea. Let’s all just stop dating entirely right? Or wait. All the cougars should marry 22 year old guys who are into older women, right? Seriously though. What is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:20 AM
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No they’re not. I thought the ‚Maybe‘ was enough to differentiate incels from autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:52 PM
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You‘re not talking about men or male population, you’re talking about a very specific, niche group of men called ‚incels‘ or maybe people on the spectrum. If those are the guys around you, you might be as low-life as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:28 AM
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Those 3 examples are horrible. I know nobody who would say (or do) any of those. You’re talking about incels here. The title shouldn’t be about „men“. Low effort bait-post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:26 AM
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How long have you been together prior to being married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:26 PM
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How long have you been married? I recently went through the roommate phase with my ex-fiancé. It ended up with her f‘ing her married co worker. I’m wondering if it’s even „normal“ to go through such a phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:20 PM
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Im 31. my buddies are like 25-37 I guess. Like I said. None of my single friends would take a 35 y/o over a 25 y/o. Like… WHY?!! Why would you want that. I mean clearly it’s not like age is everything. The girl still has to check other boxes. But if we have two identical human beings, who will be proffered?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:44 PM
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As a guy you make yourself desirable with money, looks and social status. If you don’t have ALL THREE, prepare to date way below your standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:46 PM
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I know zero men who would prefer a 35 year old over a 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:10 PM
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Because when factor X doesn’t exist, and suddenly it does, and then things change, then I think that’s enough evidence. What do you need? A scientific paper about this exact dudes life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:51 AM
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The message is correct. But I’d hardly disagree. Don’t go to the gym “just to get healthy.” Go to the gym to absolutely shape the best version of yourself. There are LITERALLY zero downsides to looking attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:49 AM
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Because she cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:24 PM
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Everything said is true. And I’ve met one woman that would not ick tf out. Was with her for 7 years and almost married her. Truly a unicorn. Every single other woman I’ve ever met before or after her wasnt able to uphold that standard tho. It took me a long time to get that out of my system and start to become more closed-off again. Till this day sometimes I forget that women don’t wanna hear about my thoughts & feelings, as long a they’re not positive or actively involve her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:36 PM
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I didn’t even backtrack lol. Yes that’s what I personally believe a woman should be in regards to her man. But that’s just that. My believe. I can be wrong. You can be wrong. The difference her is that Libfems try to femsplain everybody and men like myself just stick to ourselves and simply fuck & dump women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:47 PM
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WTFFF lol no not at all. I don’t care what other women do. I just care what my future wife does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:41 PM
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We should rename Reddit into RedditGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:20 PM
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This. Libfems on this sub say “well if he doesn’t want to marry, that’s fine with me” but 85% of the actual women out there who I’m dating and who are attractive still want to reap all the benefits from feminism AND still lock the dude down into legal commitments of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:42 AM
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This is written by chatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:40 AM
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Crazyyyyyy so according to your logic a person who’s more than happy with her life decisions of becoming a stay at home mom and stay devoted to one guy only, insults herself for voluntarily choosing that lifestyle over the online-dating-9to5-lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:39 AM
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Wow that’s insane that you call my mom, aunt and sisters pathetic self-hating doormats when they’re the most happy individuals I know with husbands who love and care for them everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:24 AM
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Great comment. I’ve read through it all! I gotta keep it short as I’m @ work rn but in short: it still kind of underlays my point. Money. Is. Important. Like… people rage on me, but I’m not even trying to “degrade” women for that. But what I’m saying is your entire story revolves around that the men you’re with know what they’re doing and will eventually end up in more than healthy financial positions. While most men I know seriously don’t give a crap at all. They’re like? Have a job? Ok. Done. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:28 AM
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That’s fine, because there are plenty of women out there who wanna be stay at home moms :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:14 AM
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Lol. I’m in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:43 PM
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That’s where we’ll never arrange :) Being submissive for me isn’t being a doormat just as being a provider doesn’t mean I’m an ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:36 PM
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Being a woman = be submissive by trusting your man and help him raise the kids or help him build his empire so that in exchange me, the man, will provide for you everything you need to be happy and well taken care of. It’s a give and take in both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:24 PM
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Nah man. Not my experience. I know plenty guys from school and college who look hideous but are never lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:16 PM
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I don’t want a pathetic self hating doormat. I want a woman who’s happy being a woman just as I am happy being a man. In my mind we have different roles to fill and both are equally important. 🙂 The women from my family love their life. Most of them are stay at home moms and spend every summer hanging around in the backyard because most of my siblings & cousins are out of the houses anyway. It’d also be really funny to see how you’d react when you figure out how much influence they actually have…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:14 PM
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I can only speak for me and every single guy I’ve ever known in my entire life. Sorry if that’s not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:11 PM
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Yes. Marriage nowadays is nothing but a risk for men. Men gain nothing from marriage. I work in risk management and any guy OR gal who’s working in risk management would agree lol. I’ve had amazing convos about marriage with female co-workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:04 PM
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Again: because that is LEGITIMATELY a criteria. One of the most important actually. It’s literally the first thing we ask each other after a buddy comes back from the first date: “is she a feminist”. It’s literally the most important criteria. That you label yourself as one, is not on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:01 PM
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Yes, because that is what I believe RADICAL FEMINISM is. Not what I believe what YOU ARE. Radical feminism for me is abnormal and delusional. Yes. That is what you would call an “opinion”. Do you understand what “personally” means?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:52 PM
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Yes. And my point was: next to ever women HAS a set amount in her head that she has to dig - while men literally just don’t care how much a women makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:47 PM
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Do you believe eve deserved to be absolutely shat on for eating the apple?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:46 PM
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Yes, 100% agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:33 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:33 PM
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WTF???????????????????????????????????????????????????????? How??????? Where does this fact belong in the context of this conversation? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:32 PM
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Will men who recently were married / in LTR‘s, but are now single, be removed? This sub is insane and there are so many posts I would love to give a male perspective on.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 10:29 PM
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Yes, absolutely of course they develop the same genuine feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:20 PM
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I’m not personally attacking you, believe it or not, this is legitimately how many men think. We really just don’t wanna cope with delusional radical feminists. I get how you could believe I was trying to get personal but it’s actually the truth. At least for me and my buddies. We just play the numbers game until we meet a girl with more linear & normal values than those of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:18 PM
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Hey so I’m a guy, I can’t really give you feedback on this, but I just found out about this sub and it’s very mature and refreshing to see that women are trying to adjust to reality. What you describe here ist LITERALLY 1 to 1 what my ex would do. It would drive me insane. I swear, those situations… I’ve had with her on a weekly or monthly basis. If was incredibly tiring. I can only tell you what I wish she would’ve done. “I’m sorry babe, I mixed things up. It wasn’t on purpose… I’ll scratch you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 10:15 PM
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Yea, that’s kinda what the do for the first 3-4 weeks. If a woman then actually turns out to not be a radical feminist with burnt-in victim mentality, that’s usually where we start to develop genuine feelings and appreciate the woman for her integrity and emotional value she brings to our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:04 PM
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Oh yes? Whats with the countless cases of men who willingly died so that their wife & children may live? Let me guess, you either never heard of such a thing or “woman do it too”. Which would prove my point once more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:00 PM
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LMAO loved the boneless accusation at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:55 PM
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You keep responding but can’t answer a simple question. That’s as weird way of saying “worth your time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:54 PM
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As I have tried to ask a woman in the comments who said basically the same I’m asking you: When does a woman become a gold digger? 10.000$? 100.000$? 1.000.000$
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:53 PM
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??? Again. The only way for you to debate, is to… well… debate. So please enlighten me about what is a gold digger and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:41 PM
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… shouldn’t we all know that if somebody says “everyone” it would translate more so into “the majority of xxx”? Why make things so hard? We’re adults right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:40 PM
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Funny how it’s so easy to agree on that LOL. Almost as if the stereotype of the ever disagreeable female population is actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:38 PM
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Great debating skills lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:37 PM
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Yes I agree. What youth + beauty is to men, is status + money to women. That’s roughly my take on it too. Only difference is that money + status is ever changing and fluent. I believe that’s part of the reason why 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women. Because for women, there can always be a potential upgrade. Hence: hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:35 PM
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We’re literally here on this sub to determine certain outlines of our culture. That first sentence is just annoying and a reoccurring scheme on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:30 PM
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Yes. 100% agree. I’d say literally 99% of men are sex diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:27 PM
-2

Still waiting for YOUR definition. Don’t wait for mine. Give me yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:26 PM
2

Thanks but I have a really good relationship to my sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:25 PM
-5

Are you going to pay off 60-70%, more often than not 100% of the mortgage to provide a house and a garden for that baby to sleep & play in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:24 PM
-1

Yes. Very much agree with this. Regarding morale virtue, agreed. But while men aren’t morally superior because they do not look for money in women, it also doesn’t mean that women don’t act morally questionable to being so materialistic. Also I tried to point at the ongoing and neverending story of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:22 PM
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Sorry that happened but that’s highly unlikely to happen. I have 4 sisters and none of them ever told me about such an experience and none of my female friends either. So I gotta put that into my book if “things that can happen, like dinosaurs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:16 PM
1

How does this belong to the current debate? Edit: I see now. But no. Men have the exact standards I’ve listed above. Looks, character & cultural compability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:12 PM
0

Gold digging = digging for men with monetary value. How much monetary value is irrelevant. 10.000$? 100.000$? 1.000.000$? You’re a woman. Please feel free to tell me where gold digging starts and where it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:11 PM
-1

We are emotional beings. Nature / the universe / whatever you believe in impregnated the desire to find love as the strongest driving factor of human existence. So women do get the princess treatment of dating, while men get the UFC treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:10 PM
2

Do you think mid age whore phase is NOT a thing?! Let me ask this differently: do you believe late teens semen-spreader phase is a thing for let’s say 17-22 year old guys? If your answer is yes I believe in that, why do you question if the (scientifically proven) midlife crisis is even real?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:53 AM
7

Yes I would agree. I believe this is due to the current behavior of women our age (late 20s, early 30s) being extremely emotionally unavailable and filled with male orbiters / situationships. It is not like younger guys actively choose older gals because that’s what they want. But they do it because they must.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:49 AM
1

Welcome to society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:04 PM
0

I would kind of agree to some extend. But switch it up a bit. Each gender will love romantically if they found their best option. I moved heaven and hell for my ex-fiancé because I knew she was flaming hot, a good care taker, a great cook, shared many interests. Basically she was everything except loyal lol. But there you go. I wasn’t her best option so eventually she dipped. In the end it’s always the same issue. On a societal level we have been tamed to be monogamous. I’m monogamous too. But I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:01 PM
2

Yes of course. None of my rich buddies give a crap what their girls job is. I’m also omw to make good money and I don’t care. It’s only about looks and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:09 AM
2

Such a lame answer lmao. It’s not only blandly obvious that this isn’t the case, but it’s just so inaccurate. All of my ex’s had a crush on me before I approached them. There’s tons of memes and content produced about how bad the female rizz is. Stop it. Sometimes it’s okay to simply swallow the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:35 PM
9

It’s not like I wasn’t ever approached in my life. It happens from time to time. I also know that objectively I look good. It’s just the proportion that doesn’t make sense. Everybody knows if men wouldn’t make the first step 9/10 times, we all would have a really hard time on planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:17 AM
34

But that’s always the argument. “I did it.” Well, okay. But then you’re still a tiny minority of women who did it. The question remains: WHY do women not approach guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:36 AM
2

You don’t go to therapy to puke. You got to therapy to be an adult person and tap into your feelings. This is the chance to BE vulnerable. Probably the only place on earth, besides church, where a man can be truly vulnerable, cry, ask questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/24 11:37 AM
8

Absolutely amazing read man. Been through the exact same story. Minus the marriage, but she was my fiancé. I’m glad you are able to see the new life ahead. It’s been 1.5 years now and I still cannot let go or stop thinking about what we was.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 04:21 PM
6

Absolutely.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/24 01:16 AM
70

As someone who went through it and developed spidey senses against infidelity: I smell an affair. Albeit an emotional.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 10:41 PM
16

Going to another country to fish a trad wife, with her then becoming feminist is hilarious lmao. Why not find a not-so-screwed woman from Australia? Because it’s more effort I guess. I don’t believe going to other country and catch a maid, house cleaner and sex doll is the right way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/24 08:49 AM
2

My ex also did in our home. Till this day I have nightmares about it. I tried explaining that to my buddies but nobody can relate. I think defiling a place that was once a home for a family is one of the worst things a human being can do to another.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 10:58 AM
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