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| 7 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI agree with you, there are guys like that and I think communication is important. I think the problems also come from the other side though. I dated a girl who liked spanking but hadnt done it much. So I spanked her cos she asked me to. Then I was asked if that's all I had, so it got harder. Then I was told I clearly couldn't hurt her. Then she was in tears cos it was too hard. Her mouth wrote a cheque, and her ass couldn't cash. People really should take it more seriously than they do but alot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesClearly you have not read what I had to say. No I don't think I should just stick it in. I think things should be spoken about before the cloth come off. There are plenty of men and women out there that don't want to talk about things first. So the solution to that is to be pro active around what you know is mainstream and what you like and don't like out of those things. This goes both ways, men and women need to do this. I really don't think there is anything extreme about this view. How is be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesThen why must I communicate I don’t want to be strangled? Light BDSM is massively popular. It happens alot, way more than in the past. It's become the norm. You don't like that, and that's ok. But it does mean that you have to voice that dislike because you are not the norm. Why are men so deranged that they’ve convinced themselves all women want this and that a woman who doesn’t must explicitly state so or he’ll do it anyway? I'm sure there are guy out there who believe that all women like it b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesNo, you don't need to communicate those things. If they start being thing that go mainstream and people start regularly doing them in a few years and you don't want them done, they yes you will have to start communicating that. I'm really not being irrational at all, if anything your position is. Your position is that you don't like how mainstream BDSM has become and it shouldn't be your problem to be pro active to avoid it it's much better to be unhappy that it's happening to you. If it becomes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesYes you should, in fact you should absolutely communicate this and a whole bunch of other shit you do or don't like before you are naked and messing around. If both people are adults and can talk about this beforehand, then this is not a problem. It's so god damn easy. "I don't want to be choked, I don't do anal, but if you have a belt I want to be black and blue, I don't like paddles though. What do you like?" The other person can't smell what you like, so tell them and ask what they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:35 AM |
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