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| 2 | best books for "art of seducing men", for women?As a woman, I've found nothing turns men on more than making them feel needed. Ask for a favor. Tell them you need help with something. Let them play hero occasionally. Also be kind, appreciative, and dress in a subtly sexy way. Men rarely get compliments so give genuine ones and make him feel appreciated. How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You has a dumb cheesy title, which the author admits her publishers made her do, but it's good. She recommends smiling multiple times at a guy in public if… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Want more incels? Because a lot of men doing this is how you get incels.Either way, there's some women taken off the dating marketplace. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/09/22 01:30 AM |
| -1 | Want more incels? Because a lot of men doing this is how you get incels.Yet many men don't get even one woman, so every guy who takes a woman permanently is creating a deficit. Women don't re-marry because as you just said, one woman per man is optimal...for men. Women are not finding this arrangement optimal, so they bow out. A woman choosing what's best for her isn't "could care less about men." I've watched women dump men because he suddenly stopped being capable of cooking & cleaning once they moved in together. Enforced monogamy isn't a thing anymore and women … | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 3 | do you think the current state of mating is due to technology, cultural conditioning or nature?I quite agree on the object of desire thing. But I don't think men quite get women on this point: I have found myself not at all physically attracted to a guy I've known for ages, but one day he does one thing that turns me on massively. He is a genuinely a sex object to me at this point. It's just I'm not a visual creature, so he wasn't a sex object until he stimulated my mind. He's still a sex object at that point. I want nasty shit with him. And often - this sounds weird but it's female desir… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | do you think the current state of mating is due to technology, cultural conditioning or nature?You're not wrong women being desired for just being there is a privilege. But do you really think in a world where most people weren't living paycheck to paycheck, women wouldn't choose different mates? For a lot of women, choosing the guy with resources is survival, not fun. I read a study ages back that found women with their own resources focused less on money/socioeconomic status and more on looks, youth, & compatibility...much the way men with resources do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | do you think the current state of mating is due to technology, cultural conditioning or nature?This is such a kind & empathetic response to women on OnlyFans that I officially stan for AllPillDebate. Thank you for being reasonable & seeing people as the tokens trapped in the system they're in, not dehumanizing them for the choices they're forced to make. The big question to me is are women actually attracted to rich men or are they forced to choose them because they're broke otherwise? No one ever seems to mention that when they claim women are gold diggers. Plenty of women choose a guy t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | do you think the current state of mating is due to technology, cultural conditioning or nature?Women telling men to leave women alone irl, grow up, and join a dating app destroys my soul as a millennial. Meeting people for dating used to be something you did irl - through friends, at social events, and yes, even in public. At the gym. At a bookstore. I met my boyfriend at an art gallery and people are always like "omg meet cutes still happen?!" and I'm like YES, get offline and go out! That was a better world. Online dating often sucks for women but it destroys men. Women aren't typically… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Why is it a bad deal?Because it's bullshit. Dangling sex like a prize only for SOME men is trash behavior. I've always slept with guys I like quickly. I don't treat guys I see as long-term differently than guys I see as only short-term when it comes to sex. I'm either attracted to you or I'm not. Shocker: men like this. How can a woman claim to really like a guy and then try to fucking play him? | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Why is it a bad deal?Dick doesn't make pussy loose 🤣 I have slept with most guys I've dated almost immediately. Never had a problem getting long-term relationships. The idea you have to wait to have sex to get a man interested is beyond bizarre to me. If anything men find it refreshing I'm honest about my attraction and don't care if sex comes with commitment, sex is an exploration, not something I dangle along to see if he'll commit. Commitment comes from liking each other. Your concept of "main girl" vs. women he … | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Want more incels? Because a lot of men doing this is how you get incels.Men wanting one woman to themselves also creates more incels. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Want more incels? Because a lot of men doing this is how you get incels.Most men don't want to share. Which I could argue also contributes to the number of incels. Guys complain they can't get laid but want one woman to themselves which reduces the number of available women... And of course most guys want a young woman so they're all competing for the same limited pool... | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Moving to a different country for women and a better/cheaper life. What are your thoughts?If you treat the women you date well, I as a woman am not here to judge you for seeking happiness. I'd be lying if I acted like money weren't a factor in whom I date. It's not everything, but being treated is lovely. So if you're better able to treat women moving somewhere else, go for it. Just don't be the guy who treats her like shit because she's financially dependent on you. Be the guy who makes her day/year/life, and enjoy doing so. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableNarcissists - in the beginning - love bomb people. They boost you up ridiculous amounts, they flatter you constantly, etc. I saw through that immediately. He struck me as a narcissist because of how he talked about exes, how charming he was, his social media (never saw such self-aggrandizement in my life), etc. The idea you're proposing that women are incapable of seeing through bullshit isn't valid. Both men and women date terrible people sometimes, often because of childhood issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | It appears people are doing gender swap experiments on /r/socialskills. On a side note, Reddit is probably the worst place to learn social skills from. Dear God do I hate this website...Because it's not all men. It's just most men who have approached me in public, as well as how many men talk about it online. I don't mind men approaching me. I do mind when they lose their shit if I'm not interested and insult or yell at me. I also think, as you said, women have a slower timeline, so a guy trying to speed things along often hurts him. Guys with patience do better with women from what I've witnessed. I've also asked guys who do well with women and they all say patience is key. ET… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | A friend sent me this article and I want to hear your all thoughtsHave you not heard the term "sowing your wild oats"? I wasn't interested in romance for most of my 20s, mainly because I'd just left a serious LTR and wanted some fun. I had a lot of it. Eventually the young bar scene gets old. It does for the vast majority of people. And then I met someone amazing who's interesting enough for me to be fine with just being with them. He's the same as me. Slept around a ton while younger. He'd never lived with a woman before he met me, but we both love each other… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | A friend sent me this article and I want to hear your all thoughtsIt depends on the woman, just like it depends on the man. A guy in our friend group in our 20s did not enjoy casual sex at all; I'm a woman who enjoyed hook-up culture. I'd say a woman who's expecting hook-ups to call her back and getting bummed out they didn't is lying to herself. And a some women seem to have a hard time enjoying casual sex or speaking up as to what they want. I never had that problem tbh; I've had some amazing sex during hook-ups. And sometimes hook-ups turned into actual dat… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 2 | It appears people are doing gender swap experiments on /r/socialskills. On a side note, Reddit is probably the worst place to learn social skills from. Dear God do I hate this website...We can agree there, I almost added that to my comment. People tell men to leave women alone because honestly the vast majority of men who have hit on me in public were irritating as hell. When 2 strange men your entire life haven't been completely awful trying to talk to you, it's fair to advise men to leave women alone. Yes, this applies to the gym too. Most guys who try to approach a woman treat asking her out as a goal and ignore her cues when she's not interested. Many get angry and rude. Ju… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Male thirst is out of control in 2022 and is leading to hypergamy. My perspective as a slightly bi guyThe #1 complaint my guys friends have about dating women is that women are flaky. I'm not lying when I tell them it's because we're scared. When the moment arrives, yes, I'm suddenly wondering if the guy who asked me out for drinks at a fairly late hour is a predator. We date in spite of our fear, sure, but that doesn't mean the fear isn't real, it just means it's a dating challenge women shoulder that men typically don't. The fact that we date anyway is why Louis CK joked it's amazing women go … | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | It appears people are doing gender swap experiments on /r/socialskills. On a side note, Reddit is probably the worst place to learn social skills from. Dear God do I hate this website...They're different situations though. Approaching a stranger in public is not the same as approaching a classmate. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Learning from birdsI have a totally different take on this. In birds, the males' colors and prettiness are 100% expressions of his actual genes. Female birds can tell which males have the best genes based on what they look like. So you saying men just have to rely on genes as though it's novel is odd; male birds rely solely on genes too. Even their dance ability is arguably a partial result of genes. What women do is 100% fake. I almost think of femininity as women camouflaging their actual genetics and looking as… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 5 | About FeminismI know too many people who have been raped. If we can make it a trend to actually get justice for people, I'm all for that. And IDC if you don't take me seriously, Reddit stranger. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 7 | About FeminismA woman had to pretend to be a dude to run a marathon in the '60s because women weren't allowed to. Of course feminism was necessary. The modern wave is also relevant to me. #metoo let women (and men!) know they weren't alone in being assaulted or harassed and were supported if they spoke up. OnlyFans has allowed some women (and men!) to make a great living in a field where performers were often ridiculously underpaid and didn't have distribution rights to their own videos. Body positivity can g… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Are Redpill Influencers often like Simps on a Group level?Those podcasters are so into viewing life as a game they forget the fun & pleasure part of it. That's it. They're here to make $. Don't listen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableWomen have dark triad traits too and they're expressed extremely differently than they are in men. Emotional unavailability is absolutely a dark triad thing. Not always, but often. It DOES change a ratio. Women are more likely to be attracted to dark triad in part BECAUSE there are more dark triad men than dark triad women. Don't even get your point here. My point was men find emotionally unstable women better in bed than emotionally stable women, which speaks volumes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableNo, I could tell he was a narcissist. He never offended me, he was extremely charming. I can't help you if your entire worldview is women are dumb/emotional and you're logical. You're never going to bond with a woman if you're dense enough to buy your own self-centered bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:38 AM |
| 4 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountable...the entire forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountablePlenty of women are like you. I went on a date with a narcissist and dodged the hell out of him. I'm really baffled you're trying to claim only women make bad choices in dating when PPD and MGTOW is filled with men complaining they got screwed by viper women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableThat's men. If he dates a psycho, omg she's a bitch. If she dates a psycho, she has POOR JUDGMENT. Men irl aren't like these heavily online types, thankfully. I've noticed a weird thing where women I meet irl sound like the women I meet online whereas the men I meet irl have nothing in common with men I meet online... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:32 AM |
| 4 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableDo you? Have you not...been on the Purple Pill...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableAgain, telling. Imagine saying out loud you find only looks attractive and then claiming it's women who make bad choices... (Plenty of men aren't like you.) Female outliers exist btw. Just like men. And most men are average, you don't only represent the best & worst of humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableRight, I don't disagree. Just pointing out women with undesirable traits are desirable too. In a world where 90% of murders are committed by men, do you really expect even stats on men dating female criminals? Vs. men dating the female version of dark triad traits... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Women, how often have you ended up sleeping with a guy whom you were not attracted to right away?Men becoming more attractive to me over time is the norm in my life. Studies show men feel attraction sooner than women do. I totally buy this. Women get pregnant, so it makes sense biologically most men wouldn't immediately attract us unless they have the very best of genes. Meanwhile men just need to impregnate, so their standards aren't super high in terms of physical attraction. But God, a guy I've known awhile who didn't initially attract me is the hottest thing in the world when 10 months … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:09 AM |
| 8 | What even is the "friendzone"?Few men are ugly. Most just aren't immediately attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:04 AM |
| 2 | What even is the "friendzone"?Ryan Reynolds felt sparks long before Blake Lively did. I've witnessed this many times irl, and studies back me up: men often feel attraction and/or "love" long before the woman does. I'd say just don't care as a man. It'll click for her one day she's into you for a random reason or it won't, so don't attach to any one woman, plant many seeds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:02 AM |
| 3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableHow exactly do men get the final commitment choice when many men admit they're only with their partner for access to sex? The only men who get the final commitment choice are high-status or highly socially skilled men. The rest are taking what they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableAnd your response is so telling. As if women only are attracted because of emotional reasons while men pick partners based on logic? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 11 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableWomen who are Dark Triad do well too, it's just there's far fewer women in the Dark Triad than men. "The authors chose to focus on women’s reactions to men because men generally tend to be higher on Dark Triad traits." https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a35478166/dark-triad/ "Female criminals may have an advantage because their behavior is unexpected. This chapter outlines benefits for underestimated women and proposes additional research to clarify whether the Dark Triad is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableGood counterpoint, but there are far fewer female serial killers. Plenty of men will date questionable to the point the hot to crazy scale was debated on a major show, HIMYM. One study also found men rate sex with emotionally unstable women higher than sex with emotionally stable women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableThis. Guy dates toxic woman? Her fault. Woman dates toxic man? Her fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.I mean, cool. There's still a reason sex workers get warned they'll age out of the field on average. It's more rare for an older woman to get money spent on her, though I've heard about it happening. It's like telling your average dude he'll age into being George Clooney, why lie like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestSocial anxiety. He's never been great with strangers and one day I was chatting up strangers in a bar and the second we left he started crying saying he's never really been able to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual evidence for hypergamyThis cracks me up because it reminds me of my parents. My mom was way smarter intellectually, but my god was she a dumbass at daily life shit 😅 My dad taught me people skills, caring about people skills, buying your local barista and gas station attendant Xmas presents skills. Also sports, I love working out in fun ways cuz of Dad. The more I read - cuz women don't really marry up nowadays, that's a myth, included the link here - the more I'm convinced men get so little validation from society t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What is the actual evidence for hypergamyI really do think it's the balancing thing. My female cousin has 2 Master's degrees and makes a great living; her husband is better at daily life shit. She's with him because he overthinks less than she does and calms her the hell down. He's a manager at a hardware store; they just had their first kid. A friend is in tech. Her boyfriend makes less, but he loves cooking; she loves not having to cook, and the sex is great according to her. Women are marrying up less than ever nowadays, and even in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | When saying women are “promiscuous”, where are you getting that info?Yeah, explains why I mostly date men with experience as well. Though not always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Where do we as a species go from here?Women are less likely to marry up than ever before. I agree it'd be great if you were honest with yourself about reality. "If anything, people are more likely than ever to marry into their own class, as a report from the Institute for Public Policy Research showed this year. Of people born in 1958, just over a third of women had a partner from the same class as themselves: 38% married up, while 23% married down. For those born in 1970, 45% married into the same class; of those born between 1976 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Where do we as a species go from here?"If anything, people are more likely than ever to marry into their own class, as a report from the Institute for Public Policy Research showed this year. Of people born in 1958, just over a third of women had a partner from the same class as themselves: 38% married up, while 23% married down. For those born in 1970, 45% married into the same class; of those born between 1976 and 1981, 56% married into the same class, with a far smaller proportion (16%) marrying up." https://www.theguardian.com/l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Where do we as a species go from here?I can happily speak as a woman who's dated guys with more money and men on my income level. There's more to life than money. Give me a guy who respects me, splits chores, shares common interests, and I'm attracted to, over a guy who makes a bunch but thinks that means he has to give less to the relationship. In my experience, guys who make more think they don't have to try as hard in the actual relationship, and it's soul-destroying. You want to go by what the majority do, you might as well say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 0 | When saying women are “promiscuous”, where are you getting that info?Economics, spirituality, men & women & their differences, politics, human nature, self-improvement. It's odd I have to answer this. If you've ever had a deep convo you already know the possible topics, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:26 AM |
| 12 | Where do we as a species go from here?I know 5 women in relationships with men who make less than they do and you're here claiming female hypergamy is destroying the world. A guy can be a great partner without making tons, being super hot, or whatever the guys on this subreddit think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:52 AM |
| 6 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?Most of my friends and I don't have the same taste in men so it quite literally doesn't matter whom my friends find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?Nah. I've dated some short guys and always gotten shit for it from other women...they can fuck off. I'm the one fucking him, I don't care what other people think. A lot of women DO care though. I've had women admit to me they wouldn't date short cuz social opinion...it's pathetic but it is what it is. Just like a guy dating what gets him social credit. People like that deserve what they get cuz there is no audience during most of your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is marriage still the dream?I've never really wanted to be married or have kids. That hasn't changed with age, though I adore my boyfriend. Marriage just sounds like being tied to someone legally, and I can't leave easily if I want to. Like a trap. I've also heard too many stories of people who change once the knot is tied because now they "have" the other person, though I also know happily married couples. Marriage was mainly an economic arrangement in the past. The idea of it being for fulfillment and love is a new pheno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf rejection doesn't faze you, I can see how cold approaching would be fine. But even if 1 says yes, that still might not go anywhere. Just seems like one could work smarter not harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:56 AM |
| -3 | When saying women are “promiscuous”, where are you getting that info?Casual sex can be misunderstood though. I only sleep with people I bond deeply with. And there's been quite a few. Meanwhile some people claim casual sex is shallow, meaningless, bad, & pointless...I've had casual sex with people I had extremely deep conversations with whom I'll never forget. The idea sleeping with someone you don't want for life means there was zero connection and zero deepness is downright bizarre to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestI mean, fuck value, just...men deserve respect. They deserve partners who care about them and aren't using them. They deserve to be heard. That's hardly lining people up in a row and judging them, that's just demanding respect for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the pain of being a woman tbh. It's odd because it's such an easy pain, but women are well aware as long as we're attractive men will like us. I once performed music I'd written in front of him and the first words out of his mouth were "omg, I would've loved you either way, but that was SO GOOD!" and it hit me hard that it's extremely optional for a woman to be talented beyond being hot enough. Yes, it's easy. But it's weirdly kind of depressing. It's not like men don't go through the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou gotta go slow and focus on common interests over flirting at first. Women scare easily cuz so many men are creepy & too forward. Also, guys who cold approach women have horrible results. Like 1/100. Men who have socially proven themselves do way better with women, so join social groups/activities over hitting on randos, and if you are hitting on randos, at least be in a bar or a party where mingling is expected over a woman trying to live out her daily life. Talk to them like people. Common … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWoman in retail with a finance boyfriend...yeah. I add to his life though. I cook, I give long massages, obviously the sex part. He encourages my ambitions. Recently got my writing published in a major publication, trying stand-up...he loves it. I would say it's a fun bonus to him though, I was never required to be impressive to get his attention. It is what it is. I joke men are the reason I'm not ambitious cuz Lord knows a career doesn't make a guy simp for a woman usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:22 PM |
| 10 | What is the actual evidence for hypergamyAgreed on respect. And women changing up what traits they need a guy to be superior on. My first crush was the only guy who could catch me during tag in 1st grade. Perfect hypergamy story. I was the 3rd fastest runner in my grade; only Matt could catch me on the regular. My current boyfriend is funnier than I am, and I'm constantly told I'm funny. The good news for men is it's hardly just money the way guys think. It can be literally any trait that makes a woman look up to you. Men who feel inse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestThis is where I firmly believe men need higher standards for themselves even if they have limited options ATM. No man deserves a woman who whines he has emotions. High standards are hot, even if those high standards mean you're alone rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestA lot of people's preferences are influenced by social norms, sadly. I love emotional men. My boyfriend once started crying in front of me and it meant the world to me he trusted me enough to do that. My ex was the type who converted all emotion into anger and that was unbearable. But do many women diss emotional men? Yes. They're part of the problem imo. If you can't handle a man's emotions, you don't deserve that man, end of discussion for me. What complicates things is there are both men AND … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to?You made the promiscuous comment before you found out she was into anime 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean when you accidentally peep your man's search history and it's all thin chicks in porn, yeah, that's kinda hard to lie about. Meanwhile I've had 2 FWBs who CLEARLY preferred curvier women. I wasn't mad, I got I wasn't their ideal. Not claiming I'm smart, doesn't take brains to note which types men are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Again, I smoked cigarettes for ages and barely got any shit for it. Overweight people get ENDLESS shit. If it were truly a health concern, my former smoker ass would have gotten as much shit as my overweight friends. I agree being overweight is unhealthy. I'm very proud of a friend who bought a Peleton and ate healthier to lose weight. But shaming her doesn't help. Shame can actually cause people to spiral into bad habits even more intensely and privately. I'm not doing it to "seem" altruistic, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Please do ignore Female Dating Strategy. Never seen such bitter anger from women toward the opposite sex while expecting great results in my life. Plenty of us women actually like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.This!! I'm in a relationship but if we didn't work out, I'd happily be single. Most women I know have the same attitude; a friend recently broke up with a guy who magically stopped knowing how to cook & clean when they moved in together. What's the point of a relationship if the guy makes your life harder & expects you to do everything at home when you have a career too? And the older women I know don't really have any issues dating. The older men I know do. A fit older woman who puts effort int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Older women don't have the same standards, though. If anything they often have higher standards. Sounds like a paradox to a guy who reduces women to "hot and young" or "old and ugly," but that's why women never stop pointing out that a guy going for someone decades his junior isn't just getting a younger more fit body, he's getting someone who's younger & more insecure & less equipped to stand up for herself in many cases. If standards bug you, that's a weird flex tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Bitter for being observational? I feel bad for these men. They're forever single and whining they can't get what they want without offering much in return. They'd be a lot happier if they lived in reality, same with women with too high standards for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.That's just true! My boyfriend is older but he's dated both his own age and older, plus his actions show he likes me for me, not just because I'm younger. Guys who are chasing younger often have very specific issues that are easy to spot. A guy who happens to be dating younger doesn't come off the same way at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBYou call them average hard working men. Yet a woman I know recently dumped her boyfriend because as soon as they moved in together, he magically became incapable of cooking & cleaning. Somehow he was perfectly able to do those things when he lived alone! Just because a guy has a job doesn't mean he's a catch. A lot of men are not good partners and that's what women mean when they say they aren't accepting scraps anymore. Why would a woman with a full-time job have any desire to be with a man who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBI read awhile back there are way more single men looking for relationships than there are single women. A lot of women prefer being single these days. And relationships used to be the primary way men got sex. So it makes sense the # of guys who can't get girlfriends has gone up; a lot of women aren't even interested in being girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:03 PM |
| 4 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereSure! We've killed off 68% of animal populations since 1970 and only 4% of mammals are wild animals compared to 34% humans and 62% livestock, that's fine! Bee populations have declined 90%, we're good! Extreme weather events are happening more frequently as predicted by climate change models, all is well! The increasing drought and heat waves impacting crops and livestock are no big deal! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2020/02/14/gender-equality-millennial-men-still-dont-do-laundry-house-cleaning/4748860002/ https://slate.com/human-interest/2015/01/gender-and-housework-even-men-who-don-t-work-do-less-than-women.html https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/men-more-likely-leave-spouse-who-has-cancer-flna1c9450218#:~:text=A%20cancer%20diagnosis%20can%20strain,news%2C%20according%20to%20new%20research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?Could you jack off to how superior men are alone please? It's really awkward seeing it in a thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?So you consider a hypothetical scenario that will most likely never come to pass more important than actual everyday shit...and consider this a sign of maturity and real love. Wow. Real love is the daily shit. The chores. Putting up with their flaws & their BS. Not playing superhero in your own head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can absolutely tell. Not with a one night stand, but over time? Yes. You can. I for example am thin. There is a world of difference between a guy who likes curvy women and is settling for me and a guy who loooooooves thin women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do men choose certain women over others as far as to pursue relationships with?I don't know a single attractive promiscuous woman who ever lacked options for LTRs. The idea men don't like them seems to be an utter lie. And the men I've dated have all had the same attitude: sure, it's not fair women have endless options in their 20s, but women didn't design this system, and shit sucks for women in different ways. The men I date as a result are not bitter or angry, and it's great. Women age out of attractiveness according to many dudes so why shouldn't they enjoy the small w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to?That's not incredibly promiscuous... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Or women get sick of their friends being treated poorly, so they stand up for them. People never stop harping on fat people. I'm not out here pretending it's healthy, but I smoked cigarettes and maybe got 5 comments in 10 years. Meanwhile every woman I know who's fat gets endless shit and people pretend it's about health. And you're so offended by the notion of people supporting each other you call call it the "herd" and "collectivist morons" to look down on it, proving the OP's theory that men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?Yet many men in relationships don't try hard in bed either, destroying your theory. There's an orgasm gap between straight women and gay women for a reason and it isn't because women are fucking guys out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 6 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?We get horny, and in my case at least, I've had some mind-blowing hook-ups. A lot of people say sex is best in a relationship, but honestly, sex with someone you don't know well is hot in a completely different way. Most women who continuously have bad hook-ups stop having them, or at least the ones I know do. Meanwhile the women who have good ones keep doing it. Same with guys - I knew a guy who had a one night stand, hated it, tried it one more time, hated it, and realized casual sex just wasn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.I mean no shit...you're trying to be a sugar baby. Emphasis on the baby. It makes sense for a super young person to be seeking out money via sugar dating but past a certain age it's just kind of sad. You're trying to snag guys who like the idea of a woman needing them for money and like the power difference; age certainly isn't going to help. Most men I've asked say they'll date older women, they just won't throw resources at them anymore. That makes sense. Companionship where both parties enjoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 57 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Older men are just as delusional. I've known far too many guys in their 40s and beyond who aren't in shape, have receding hairlines, don't dress well, etc...and they only want younger hot women. They seem to think they're settling massively if they have to date a woman who's their on their own level physically (out of shape men who refuse to date out of shape women, guys who are average looks-wise whining they only get 5s, men who are bummed if they get a date with a woman their own age, etc.) N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesTIL some dude thinks the big problem with the abortion ban is women will be less attractive cuz they'll be single moms. Jfc touch grass. Talk to an actual woman. Realize we're scared for women who get raped and women who know they don't have the resources or gumption to be a mom. We literally could not give less of a flying fuck about single motherhood making us less attractive to guys who can't get laid. The Red Pill: wahhhhh men can't get laid! Women everywhere: we get raped & stalked & murder… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI saw a guy complaining on another thread women only like underweight tall guys and here you are claiming the opposite. As a woman - and why listen to me, right? - I've only ever dated thin men. I don't like muscle. The Rock is repulsive to me. He could kill me with his bare hands and it freaks me out. There's a reason many women love thin dudes and it's not because they're famous. Here's a study showing women prefer far less muscle than men think they do, since I'm a silly woman who doesn't kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:54 PM |
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